I’m Scared Of Going Bankrupt | {THE AND} Jessica & Kadia
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
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{THE AND} Money Talks | Jessica & Kadia, dating for 6 years, sit down to compare and contrast how money has made them who they are today. Jess reveals what deep fears about going broke were instilled in her at a young age, and Kadia is reluctant to admit how she feels making more money in their relationship. In partnership with Simple www.simple.com
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I’m Scared Of Going Bankrupt | {THE AND} Jessica & Kadia
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"Whenever I lay on your chest, that's how I know I'm alive." That's like a line from a romance novel wow these women have something special. It makes me so mad that people try to invalidate this kind of love simply because they're two women
Thank you for sharing and we're very happy this line and their relationship spoke out to you.
These are the best videos for the folks that say they just "don't get it" when it comes to same sex relationships. Watch one of these and tell me you still don't understand. It's an obvious, undeniable bond between two people trying to make their own lives and each other's lives better and more fulfilled. That's it. That's the whole story. Not weird, crazy, kinky, sex. Not partying. Not attention seeking. Just two people living their lives and loving each other.
Thank you so much for this incredible comment!
Wow, what an incredible comment.
wow the last few moments of this video were truly beautiful. 😍
hxexm 💜
I totally agree with you. Peope are so judgemental that they hide behind their emotional ignorance.
"Do you know how I know I'm alive? Because I can hear your heartbeat." My goodness, that line hit me like a train.
CadenFilms That line started the water works for me 😭
Me too! ❤😭🥰
For real!! I almost fell down when I heard that. Jayzus!!
omg the last question..."That's how I know I am alive"
word!!
it got me to shad a tear
Casey Moore I have chills.
Casey Moore at work tearing up. that was so beautiful
Casey Moore OMG.. that was deep.. I'm alive
Okay so I instantly became obsessed with them and I checked out their Facebooks and GUYS THEY GOT ENGAGED A COUPLE DAYS AGO AHHHH!!! LOVE WINS!! 💕💕💕
YAY!!!!!!!
They are married too last November
What’s their Facebook??
@@ms123lsp kadia's IG is @kadiatubman
She lost me at "you spend too much on food" it hurt my heart to the core...... there is no such thing lol at least in my head there is not. Beautiful couple
exactly story of my life lmao
Kadia is soooooo beautiful!!!!!! Her skin, her lips, her eyes! Wow!
damn...the eye contact when she asked about carrying the relationship financially.
Casey Moore she took it better than i would have
totally. money probs kill relationships
It always feels like I'm walking in a personal very intimate conversation when I watch these 🙈 But I can't stop
Davis lol, Same!
These two made me cry! The love between them is so evident. I hope they work out the money issue because these two are good together. Shout out to having a positive and kind police officer role model for young women!
Thank you!! Really appreciate it :)
Honestly before watching skin deep I honestly thought love was dead tbh , but watching these different people on skin deep is very refreshing because it doesn't matter what color they are or where they are from it's all love
Wow, what an incredible comment. It inspires us to make more. Thank you!
They are in front of cameras. Of camera it's a different thing.
I want to know that type of love.
S. Stout **Me 2
Did you ever find it?
Me too with a man
Me too girl....Mee tooo ♥️ Such pure and simple love 😍
what?!? sistah wants to end it
"I love you because of how much you show me love...I love you because you never stop," oh my god.
I have no idea why this channel is not as popular as it should be!! This channel shows the core of the human race! These videos are just amazingly beautiful, truthful and so deep. I just love it! keep up the good job and i want to see more of these {THE AND} series! These are so good! I would rather watch these videos than anything else on youtube
Thank youu!! This makes us happy :) We'll keep making it grow. Help us by sharing with your friends; spread the word!
I agree, Talbott Diane, i have to tell people about this channel
The curly haired lady - melanin on point! The straight haired lady - she has such kind eyes and a cute smile. So beautiful!
It's like they fill each other's emotional/financial gas tanks. There is a transfer of energy/reciprocity of respect that is transcendent. That was incredible to watch.
That was so kind and honest. The most endearing.
Each time I watch these I'm blown away by the people and their stories and their relationships... Even the blind dates, it's always so interesting to learn about other people's perspectives on life.
they look like they hurt each other with the question of does she feel like she carry them financially
“Worth the wait” was the one that gets me the most. A lot of my friends are getting married, having kids and growing their families, or just in happy long relationships. And as much as I’m so happy for them, I always wonder to myself “when is it going to be my turn?” “Why haven’t I met my person already when it feels like everyone around me has?” “Why doesn’t it work out with the guys I talked to recently, is something wrong with me?”
And etc. But in the end, I know God has my soulmate for me. And knows the perfect time when I do meet that person or even reconnect with that person if I have met them already. And when I do, it will all be “worth the wait” ❤️
BRING THEM BACK IN 10 YEARS
+CarltheGiraffe we plan on it!
Every video you upload, I wait for the one video where I don't connect with the participants - it never comes.
You find such fantastically open and sincere people and after I watch I feel as if I've listened in on a conversation with my friends.
Brilliant art.
Thanks a lot! Really kind comment and inspires us to keep showing you couples to connect to.
Honest commenter here : it feels so good to see a black woman in a same gender relationship. Usually, those kind of testimony are from white women or afro-american women. Not being one, I struggle to identify with them. But having this wonderful woman, with a beautiful name that sing of West African countries, that, is beautiful to see. Thank you Kadia !
I am grateful to "The And" and to Jessica and Kadia. I am grateful to The And for providing a space that allows for people to honestly share. I am grateful to Kadia and Jessica for being so open to allow me to become a more open and accepting person. What a beautiful lovely couple! I dont know if there is a more beautiful interview..Thank you.
her braid out is so defined. I need a tutorial
Acacia Magee crochet braids
@@Eveningbreeze721 seems to be her natrual hair 🤔 its not?
@@TheSmily4ever I guess it could be her real hair. It's just the first thing I thought about were crochet braids. Most people would have to use crochet braids.
Goddamnit! Where do you find these amazing people! 💔😢
We believe everyone can be amazing in their own way! We just offer them a space to be themselves.
You guys are doing a fantastic job at letting these people be themselves on camera. Your work is truly inspiring. Thank you.
you're the best
That closing.... wow! Just wow!!
I love you because....
wow. i love that they look at each other with so much compassion and grace.
This was THE sweetest shit since like 1997. Can i follow them somewhere?!?!?
Mr. Martin 😂😂 not 1997 !!!
Met them two weeks ago, super sweet couple. Then ended seeing them leave a party I attended lol.
The moment that she explained why she loves her, sigh. I felt and want to experience a love like that. Bless you two!
Very sweet! Kudos to them for having one of the most uncomfortable conversations you can have with your mate. No one ever wants to talk about money but it's one the top 3 reasons people don't stay together.
This is 100% real, I'm going through the same stuff, but it's harder for us to talk about it... So let's just cry while watching it.
Kadia's hair 🔥🔥🔥
What a beautiful couple. I love the honesty and eye contact.
Noone warned me I was gonna be boo hooing at the end!
I've been watching these for a while but this was the first one to make me cry. Their love is so pure and genuine most ppl will never find that. I know I'm still looking
Thank you for sharing! What part of their conversation touched you the most?
i love them already MORE FROM THEM PLEASE!
Posting a photo update about them tomorrow on instagram.com/the_skindeep
yeah thats what i meant
that last question warmed me on the inside. their love is so deep and raw its beautiful
i couldn't focus bc her twist out came out looking nice asf 💛 i need a tutorial!!!
The end left me unexplained. Was deep 😭
I am so HERE for all this interracial loving. what a beautiful couple ❤
What great emotions these two women show for each other. Looks like they have a stable relationship, based on trust and sound decisions about their relationship.
They have such a calming affect on each other 😍 There is respect and passion in the way they address each other!
They eventually got married! (In November 2019)
I see nothing but greatness in these two, I love their connection and you can tell they are genuinely inlove.. This is beautiful on so many different levels!! Thank you for sharing this ❤
The last 2 to 3 minutes of that one had me in tears. So much love. You can feel the love through the dam iPad.
Such immense, genuine love between these two beautiful women. So happy for them that they found each other.
Someone just snuck some onions in here at the last question!! I'm tearing up over here! 😭😭😭😭😭😩😩😩😩
Oh my God. I just died. These are are literally the best couple I've ever seen on this channel and I've seen lots of great couples here. They're just too precious and too real at the same time. I hope they live a long happy gay life with their two kids and a stable financial situation forever. Their love for each other is so big it's almost palpable. They moved me to tears and that rarely happens.
jessica's smile is so adorable i just wanna hug her
Oh my God😭❤️ They took me somewhere. "I need you to remind me that I exist in abundance" 🙌 "... It always comes" 🤧😭
That last line was so intense, honest and deep... I love how she answered that question on why do you love me so fast .. most ppl can’t answer that question so honestly and truthfully as she did ... they are amazing !
Holy shit!
This is ridiculously creepy. With each question and answer I saw/heard myself. I'm at the airport on my way to see my gf now and on the brink of tears. I too am a PO that's considering quitting to pursue my passions and worried about finances. That response to the last question is 100% spot on about how I feel. At a time when I have lots of big decisions to make, it helps to know other people are feeling and dealing with the same things. Thank you.
FlowersforReal Hey honey!!! I love you😍😍
MY HEARTTTTTTT. OMG, SO POWERFUL. THIER BOND IS AMAZING!
when tf am I going to meet my wife
When the South African version begins, my Best Friend and I need to do it.
They are sooo beautiful!!! The ending gave me chills.
"Whenever I lay on your chest, that's how I know I'm alive." Wow. That made me tear up. My husband and I are living in different states right now, and one of the most comforting things to me was putting my head on his chest and hearing his heartbeat. It's hard when he's so far away because I don't get to feel that comfort every night before going to sleep 😢 great video!
What a good-looking couple!! I hope you will handle your money issues with as much love & grace that you have for each other. Give it up to the beautiful, kind & eloquent cop. Greetings from Morocco!
That was so deep I had to come back and watch it a second time!!!
The end made me Cry so much . 💚 They are two beautiful people and it's amazing , how amazing it is to have someone to do life with and someone who shows up with love everyday .
true epitome of unconditional love. It's so beautiful to watch
This is definitely one of my favorite THE AND episodes. So beautiful and touching.
Omg the real version steff and lena on the fosters!
Wow! Mind blown. The love you 2 share is so beautiful
Liz Heinrich t
bji
this black woman is amazing
Oh,wow I'm late watching this video but I'm in love with this two,how deep they're feeling with each other..you can feel by how serious and honestly they answer the questions. And they're romantically poetic...saying" how I know that I'm alive?"Because i can feel your heartbeat...That line melts my ❤️ heart in sweetness.
This got my waterworks flowing early... So beautiful🥲🥲🥲🥲
For a world that's getting worse a little each day, this video keeps my faith in humanity going. This is beautiful, thank you for sharing with us.😭
just love their genuineness and vulnerability. this made my day
Dammit I got that glass in my eyes again..
Wow what a small world this is one of my favorite customers. She's so sweet loved that I got to see her in a different light. Love is a beautiful thing. I am referring to kadia she's such a sweet soul her and her sister. 💛😊
Wow... the ending was powerful, what an amazing couple!
"It was a black friday sale" 😂
Awww, I wasn't supposed to cry.
i watch this video everyday to remind me that true love exists
I hope that people will learn and be ENLIGHTENED by these videos. Love is not defined by gender or race. These videos can make a grown man well up.
this was so beautiful! I think everyone wants to know a love such as this one if not more..
Beautifully stated.
I literally love your videos. They are amazing and enable one to reflect on ones own relationships as well as how they can relate to our own lives! Keep 'em coming😫
Their love is so clear! This was amazing
channels like this diserve an academy award
Instantly one of my faves. This reminds me of something I had once, love it. Blessings to you beautiful ladies.
Why do they remind me of a LGBT version of the couple of Keisha and Andrew. Love them for sure!
"By holding me accountable" for her financial decisions must be so difficult. How would she do this, but respectfully? Would love to hear her answer on this...
This is my favorite of the series so far. Simply beautiful.
Geez!! Woo! I am subscribing to this channel!!!
Yayy! Also be sure to share with friends and loved ones :).
I was okay until the last question. Wow. I thought Kadia was the reserved one, but that declaration of love was overwhelmingly beautiful. Thank you for sharing!
I don't know why but I was expecting a proposal lol... loved this couple and the last answer made me tear up. I hope they stay together forever ❤️
My favorite part starts at 9:35
😭😭😭❤️❤️ I can't get enough
Oh my gosh they are both so beautiful!!!
Their love and words inspire me :')
I hope we get to see another videos like these.
That last question got me. What a beautiful response!!!
I've never heard something so beautiful as that line.
this is the most mature and amazing love i think i've ever seen.
oh my God i loved the last question, totally made me cry!
I swear I thought I'd seen all THE AND couples videos, and then I find this one!!!
My heart sings.
oh my god I love them so much they are so cuuuute! that line about the heart beats made think "wtf they are on some princess charming romance novel level stuff"
Wow, My eyes got teary... Hurtbae video can't touch this lol These two are beautiful people! wish them the best! Thank you for these amazing videos Skin deep!!
Hahaha, it's true. Hurt bae is a sad rip-off compared to how well this channel facilitates conversation in such a raw, honest and compassionate way.
Wow! Thank you! We truly appreciate the love and support :)
These two give me hope. Bring them back.
i would love to see a poly triad/relationship on here one day. i think it would be interesting.
Bangtan SHINee I agree. I would like to see that as well.
why not 5 or six or 233. stupid ass idea.
Thank you for making videos like these, they give me hope ❤️
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