10 Things That Tell You DON'T Have Class
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I can't believe some people act so classless! What are the things you've seen people do that are without class?
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Good afternoon Anna! A vulgar moman is not a classy lady.
everyone should behave like anna or me
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Prince Harry ain't gonna like it 😂
1. Diana airing royal family dirty
2. You Anna putting picture of Prince Harry on your Thumbnail for likes and also talking negative things about other people
So glad this video was not all about Harry and your opinion about him. Anyways I enjoyed the other parts of the video
I’m 34 with 3 kids.. have been watching Anna for 3years and have adapted everything I learned from her-- kid you not, so many people have been complimenting how I carry myself without trying hard.. I just simply say thank you.. so thank you Anna for being such a unique person for us women❤
I'm 56 and in a touring Rock Band!! THANK GOD I found Anna earlier and studied her fashion rules! I do my best to follow her suggestions and I have a standard for silk onstage as it feels great! Always looking for my "WOW" colors!
And for us men, too!
Same thing happened with me. I was considered the loud one by people around me. Now, I m the proper one. Yay! Thanks Anna!
Good for you everybody.
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"Anywhere from his genitalia to other royal members" 😂 you have me in stitches. Your personality and sense of humor is top notch hahah
You would think he is Camilla's son lol!
@@mcicalese58 😄So true!!
@@mcicalese58 she at least didn't MEAN to do it publicly. She was mortified. He is clearly under the influence of Look at Meeeeegan.
I can’t believe he talks about his peen. I know I’m not being classy but talking about that is way less so lol
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The classiest people I know are empathetic, compassionate, unselfish and honor those around them. You definitely need to brag about your new doggy! 😆😍☺️Teddy is a precious Angel. ❤
Yes, being classy is not the same as being rich. My husband and I are not rich but we make a comfortable living. I don’t buy luxury bags or shoes or clothing. But I do buy clothes that fit well, are timeless, and modest. I also sit and speak like a lady. I don’t slouch, and I walk with confidence. I speak kindly and respectfully to others. These are all things my parents taught me.
yes, my parents taught me that too and we were not "rich" or "high society". it's about kindness, compassion, genuineness, and integrity. :)
saggia e molto piu'fine di gente che prima si ubriacava...poi i soldi...
@@twistedyoga7432 it is all about "blood" ,being 'rich' ,'high society' ,' classy' , 'skin colour', 'social status's,etc.
@@tinamartina1801 You’re clearly on the wrong channel, but that isn’t true. I can tell because you’re looking for excuses instead of applying Anna Bey’s teachings and seeing the changes happen.
I remember a colleague ranting because his wife secretly bought luxury bags. He's not mad about the expense. It's about her not disclosing it and being a desperate social climber. I heard they divorced.
I absolutely love this story about Queen Victoria. This classy behaviour was summed up by Jesus Christ, too. "Love your neighbor as yourself".
Yes! Compassion is SO classy.Try and leave every interaction with the other person feeling valued.♥️🇨🇦
That teaching is actually from the Hebrew scriptures, Leviticus 19:9-18. ❤️✡️
@@sitresjolie2343 And Yahshua/Jesus was a Hebrew teaching from and living a perfect example of Torah! ❤
Most likely a false story since it is told about Dutch Queen Wilhelmina and a Boer leader Paul Kruger, as well.
@@sitresjolie2343 when you don't realize every disciple in the bible is a hebrew you make that differentiation unless your a pharisee
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A dog owner etiquette video would be great! Especially a video on hosting etiquette if you have a dog or other pet.
I agree with everything you said, and I am happy you highlighted compassion. Compassion and gratitude often get left off the list, but for me, they say everything.
#1 Don't let your dog pee or poo on someone else's property. Let them go in your yard first then walk them.
💯 agree.
God YES PLEASE!! Gosh so many rule breakers are rampant! Can we talk about etiquette and rules involving service dogs ? People often treat our service dogs for their petting or taunting pleasure. It's so upsetting to see people being so disrespectful when we have put in so much hard work and time and resources into getting our dog legitimately certified and not just some where online where you can pay a fee and get "certified".
Also, don't bring them into restaurants or where clothes are sold. It's disgusting.
Agreed, some people treat pets like they’re children but we need to respect reality and remember they are actually animals and don’t need to go everywhere
When someone talks negatively or poorly of me or my friends, I don’t acknowledge it and start speaking kindly of others and positive events.
I worked for really old money families in Manhattan. The men were not around much, but the women were always extremely smart, kind, well rounded and well traveled, never wore anything with logos or flashy jewelry, many got blowouts and manicures but no polish, they walked everywhere on the UES (car and driver were to take the kids to school and classes) and did not brag. Example: instead of saying they were going to their mansion in the Hamptons , they would say “we are going out East for the weekend”.
If someone is very flashy, braggy = new money.
That is true class. My mum was like that and always humble, which I have to say am very thankful for. 👋👍🤩!
If they're flashy it could mean they have a Leo rising 😉. (Like me) Seriously, I really try to live within my means. Example: I have a leopard print coat but it's not designer.😊
Why no polish?
Go New Yorkers!!!
Very accurate. Understated elegance, subtle grace; courtesy and manners; a distinct penchant for archaism: all of these characteristics exemplify old money. Sadly they are declining at a precipitous pace due to social media & the loss of traditions 😔
My grandmother taught us that ladies and gentlemen always try to make others feel comfortable in their presence. That includes ourselves and our own boundaries to maintain comfort for everyone
Barbara Bush said that speaking about money is classless, whether you have it or you don't. Love this.
Thank you so much, Anna, for emphasizing compassion as a major component of class. True class makes the world a better place. And warmest congratulations on your newest family member--Teddy is beyond adorable.
Honestly Anna, you’re my biggest inspiration. When you started your RUclips nobody was talking about old money or high society. Now; it’s trending like the plague. That says a lot. That you’re causing people to talk, to reflect, and to shift courses because it’s possible. I’m proud of you and I thank God that you took the leap of faith and started your channel inspite of all the setback
sooo true
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i can relatee, i'm agree 💕
A few things that come to mind before even watching the video: being rude, staring at people, gossiping, bullying, behaving like a narcissist, lacking empathy, lacking curiosity about the world and about learning and understanding new things. In terms of materialistic matters I think it comes down to hygiene, and being resourceful. Respect is a key word for class. Respect for your body, for other people, for nature, for your environment.
I so agree.
And - believe me when I tell you this - there are super wealthy people (more than you would imagine) who are miserable & typical every day people who are happy & secure in their loving families.
People without class also have absolutely no respect for others whether its the way you talk to someone or even listen to others. No manners is another one. Judgmental of others is also without class. You don't know what the other person is going through. Great video and yes, a person with the utmost class loves animals!
Absolutely. Been judgemental is lack of class.
This was such a good video. I was brought up in Destin Florida and I’ve seen so many people with money. Money means nothing without kindness. I could care less who has what. Some of the wealthiest people in that town lived modestly but were genuine. Their were so many people faking rich and they were rude. Class has zero to do with money and handbags and things. Class is someone who in genuine and kind and caring.
amen!
Well said and true
Healthy self - esteem means to regard yourself with respect, appreciation and awareness, which means you have bounderies, compassion and therefore class. One more point, to judge others on their appearance instead of character means lack of class too.
What I've learned in my own developmental journey is that class is really all about having integrity and elegance is about being your most authentic self. Neither work if you're coming from a performative space ❤
That's is it.
It’s also very much about treating everyone with great kindness.
How precious is Teddy! 💜 Thank you Anna and I couldn't agree more. 🌸
Anna, Teddy is darling! In addition to classy people being kind to animals. Classy pet owners do not assume that everyone wants to hold their pet. I have allergies, and therefore I love pets from a distance. 💖
Do you know what breed Teddy might be
@@angelak6616 I think golden doodle /cavapoo
I love the fact that people show their kindness to the most vulnerable people and even animals! Thanks for the great video and Teddy is so cute 🥰
I love the saying money doesn't bring you class! I have seen it with people, co-workers and even family members. Being kind to the staff is always a MUST.
Welcome Teddy- You are soo adorable!
So excited for your new video, Anna! Treating others with no respect and thinking you are better than others = no class
I love conversations about class, grace and elegance. Kindness, compassion and helping others is extremely classy and elegant thing to do. Only doesn’t make someone classy. It’s what you do with it to make the world better and equitable for others. It doesn’t take much to have class. Being thoughtful, caring and kind and have confidence that you are doing what you need to do.
I love this! As a server I have dealt with so many people-even wealthy people-who are not only rude and act like like I’m a slave, but don’t want to tip. Thank you, Anna!
I used to think that even if you knew someone for a long time, you should stick by them. But she kept on displaying very uncomfortable behavior. Kept making me feel uncomfortable, and finally I had to cut ties. I did this in person, and as kindly as possible, but still. If hanging out with a person brings you down, and causes anxiety more than fun, you can cut ties no matter who the person is, or how long you've known them.
Teddy is so adorable and sweet❤️big congratulations with your new fur baby🦁 Love your channel and agreeing to all of the points.
What kind of dog is it? I'm not a dog person, so unfamiliar with breeds. Very cute!
Hello Anna, I agree with the points you made. Generous people usually live longer and are happier, even if we don't have much there's always something we can give: kind words, a genuine compliment when appropriate... You said it all "Please" and "Thank you" are simple and yet powerful words. Displaying good manners and treating others with consideration and respect is a must no matter the social class or type of car we drive, that's possible for anyone! It reminded me a Bible advice "Do to others what you would like them to do to you" [Matthew 7:12]. Thank you for the video and for introducing us to the new member of the family :) xx
I get so many compliments from many people when I’m out the way I dress and the way that I carry myself, the past 3 years that I have been following Anna my life changed so much. Thank you Anna Bay❤❤❤❤
Did you take the secrets of the elite women workshop? I am in it now
8:50 me too
You so melted my heart with your “Precious Dog”. I see your videos and I am grateful to hear all your advice. Thank you Ana Bey , for what you are doing for women. Inspiring and generous.
I’m a preschool teacher and for a part time job I’m a catering server. I come across a lot of classless wealthy people. They are so rude to us and when we are passing hors d’oeuvres like they can’t be bothered instead of just saying no thank you.
Absolutely agree with you. Gratitude is so important and humility. 👍🏻🌹
My favorite quote is from the Ritz Carlton, "Ladies and Gentlemen serving Ladies and Gentlemen." Thank you Anna, for another wonderful video. Kisses to Teddy!
Class is all about how you treat other people, across the board. Making others feel comfortable when you interact with them. Going out of your way to be kind to someone who might need it. Maintaining your boundaries, but deflecting attacks on them with humor, perhaps. Lovely video, Anna. Good luck with the adorable Teddy!
Well summarised @Terry Starr, basing on some comments on this videos do you think this is turning into a misinformation, hate enabler channel? I’ll tell you why I ask, the Harry not having class being sold here is not compassionate. People jumping in to attack his wife - Classy people are not meant to behave that way. I worry that Racists will end up being comfy here & I might not be able to pay a blind eye.
Making people feel comfortable could be a sign of people pleasing attitude, no need for humor so you could be seen as nice. Class means healthy mindset which equals to be firm at times because being assertive is healthy. Reciprocity is also important to understand, you see people for what they are, not for what you want them to be. Demanding kindness or going over the board with kindness often means insecurity and not healthy self-esteem. Act apropriately in given situation, not going out of your way to be kind, because kind is something you either are or not, it doesn't have a scale as many seem to think.
Love love this. I'm so happy the comments are not talking about clothes or wealth. Class is everything you describe
Wonderfully said !
@@CD-lr4su I am not concerned about that reference in the least. Harry and Meghan are living and dying by their actions, not anyone's skin color. Harry's behavior was used as an example; I think they are peripheral to this channel and the points Anna is trying to make about our own outlook and behaviors and what they say about us.
What a great video! And #10 is sooo important!!! People that are not kind to animals are just not kind people! That is one of the biggest 🚩🚩🚩
The old Anna is back! No more parading in freebee clothes but good information about demeanor and class! Thank you, stay on this track!
I got really impressed by the story of Queen Victoria. And you made my day with the explanation of "not accurate reconstruction"! You looked extinguishingly beautiful in this video. Thank for sharing all that!
The more I watch Anna the more I like her! I am 52 working in health and beauty industry. Anna is right on! Kudos to you, Anna! 🎉
I love this video! I think every young person should have to watch it in school and write a personal response to each point. I believe etiquette and class should be taught at home but some reinforcement at school couldn’t hurt. Teddy is sooo cute! He’s growing so fast.
You are such a wise woman, Anna. Yes, you have class, you are very smart, you know how to impress, but you are so much more than that ❤️
Oh my goodness.
Point #9 is so true.
I have a friend who is a multimillionaire and the stingiest person you’ll ever meet.
He’s a trust fund baby… so it’s not like he has to work hard all his life.
But his stinginess even extends to his only child.
I sometimes have to step in and call him out (nicely) on it. Telling him not to be “that man” lol.
I’m so glad my family teach me manners at young age as everyone has said to my family that I’m kind, an angel & a star! I come from Asian & western culture I had discipline & my family are quite strict, traditional & religious. They teach me to be respectful, charitable, grateful & be myself even if people who don’t have manners & kindness so I would say I fit in having class😊 I really hate showing off so I’m always humble & donate often to charity people who need it more than me, I’ve been following you Anna for long time it’s been educational & is interesting also I learnt new things so thank you for sharing ❤
Welcome to the social class of respect.
Take notes before it's too late.
I absolutely love that you included kindness to animals in your list. Your puppy is very precious!
I've seen people do each and every one of these things my entire life. I recognized this behavior when I was young and knew what they were doing. A good reminder to evaluate myself and make sure I'm not doing any of them.
JESUS is the WAY, the TRUTH and the LIFE! Ladies as we upgrade in elegance, let us upgrade with JESUS CHRIST! Thanks Anna for the content your share.❤️
Thank you Anna, you show not only how to be classy but also how to be a good person and I love that on this channel!
Interesting and informative as always. When I think about old money and class uniting in perfect harmony a picture of HM Queen Elizabeth II springs immediately to mind. She nailed it.
The editing, the subtle jokes, I love it
Also, it was absolutely worth watching till the end for Teddy 🥰 what a surprise
Yes Anna. ONCE AGAIN you have nailed it. Kindness and compassion are often seen by insicure peole as a form of weakness and lack of character. Nothing more wrong. Character comes out when needed. Basta. Your dog is too cute. Benvenuto!
I’ve been following Anna for few years and I can say this is the most mature video so far regarding how to be classy. 👏👏
This was a great video, Anna! I always think people lack class when they never ask you single a question. I’m always asking folks questions because I’m genuinely interested in them. When someone is always talking about themselves it is such a turn off!
Elegant, classy and well educated - that's all about Anna. Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤️
Wonderful words and advice about how to treat service people. Yes, compassion is everything!
At the end, class is respect for yourself and for others .. and for animals of course 😻🐶💖
I would make this video mandatory for everyone to watch. I am so glad that so ,,powerfull,, woman like you shares also those kinds of values, that our society miss so often. ❤ great job Anna
congratulations on Teddy! your happiness is infectious. it’s so wonderful to see where you are today. through all social situations, you are always in my mind, and i have benefited from you words for several years now. i thank you.
Hello, Anna - Love this vid ❤️ Thank you for sharing! I especially liked the points you made about being compassionate and kindness to animals. Life’s too short and we need more of that in the world.
Anna, Teddy is ADORABLE!! I'm an animal lover in general but I confess I'm very partial to dogs of all kinds. Your points are so clear and so right. Thank you for another great video.
Great info! Many of those things are what I teach in "charm" classes for pre-teens. Having class and good manners will open more doors for you than money will. Also...your doggie is precious!
A truly compassionate person ADOPTS a homeless pet from a shelter (as opposed to buying one from a breeder.
From this, I understood how classy my parents are, and how well they bought up me and my sister, as people with class. Feeling proud.🥰
Love these pointers! I have always been an observer and much more of a listener than a talker and recently went on a first date with a new fella and he refused to pay. That for me is a person who is tactless and has no class whatsoever. I personally dislike people who boast, talk endlessly, dislike animals and show no compassion or empathy. That for me is a person who lacks refinement and better to be alone than being with someone like that. Also, in my experience people are very good at putting up a pretence but their true colours eventually show and I always have the courage to walk out.
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Aww little Teddy he is wonderful and precious.💕
I agree with you that sincerity and genuine connections is so important. and to be able to have trust among the ones you love, that is classy!
Loved it, especially “support others embarrassments” and “kind to animals”. I had never thought about those two things in relation to having class but both are so true.
Anna, I can not thank you enough for how much I have learned from you ❤ love from The Netherlands 🇳🇱
Wat fijn dat we nog iets kunnen leren van russische vrouwen...Want haar moeder is een russische uit Estland...Anna is een echte russin wat uiterlijk betreft😍
I love your point about Queen Victoria and compassion!
Are we all using the same definition of Compassion? If yes, then I disagree about Queen Victoria being compassionate. History says otherwise.
Oh my god, love your new family member and your videos. I am learning so much from each and every one of your videos, I am applying the knowledge with my job and my every day life. I feel good and confident. Thank you. Love you. Sincerely, Dianne Hebert from Portland Oregon
There has been said so much true in this video. However, can we just all pause for a while and appreciate how cute Ted is? ❤❤❤ 🐶
You remind me of my elegant grandma.. when you talk I feel like she’s giving me this message. Thank you for your content 💛 you’re my favorite RUclips channel
People with class don't do what you're doing Anna. People with class do not accuse or criticize others that they do not have class because they have behaved or said something inappropriate at some point in their lives. Instead of crucifying others, people with class try to understand what that person is going through in life, the high level of stress, family and social rejection, anxiety, pain, depression and the pressure that a human being is feeling. , all that can make a person say inappropriate things at some point in life. Is it that no one has ever said something to others that they shouldn't have said and then regrets. If someone is free from sin, then let them cast the first stone.
Anna Teddy is the cutest thing!
Oh my goodness Anna ❤️❤️❤️. You were so sweet when asking if you could brag about Teddy. My heart melted instantly.
As always, I'm 100% agree with it.
Thanks a lot, my great teacher, Anna. I'm learning pretty much about watching your videos.
Currently, I'm working in a place ( residential) where lots of rich people live, and when I see some of them doing such as a bad things right, that moment I think myself I wish they watch Anna's videos.
I loved this video and I love hearing this. It’s all true. I follow all your points and my life is richer because of that. My parents taught me all these points and I will always be grateful to them for that.
I absolutely adore you and have so much respect for what you are a accomplishing here! Truly first class lady❤
As always, you hit the nail on the head! Teddy! OMG how adorable is he? What a lucky dog. You must be in love his face is just so sweet! May you both have a long and healthy life together.
Teddy is a sweetie-pie! Adorable! Thank you, Anna for showing him to us. ❤❤❤
Compassion is class. Period! Thanks Anna.
Loved the video. I was raised to know that money doesn't buy class,which is so true. Love the appearance of Teddy in this video
Can I just say you picked the perfect name for Teddy! I immediately thought “teddy bear “ when I saw him! He is just so adorable- what a little blessing he must be!
Class has a lot to do with moral conduct & emotional maturity.
Hi Teddy! So pleased to meet you! Welcome to the family😊💕 And thank you Anna for a very timely and apt video! x
Omg, I'm almost positive this is the second time my eyes/ears may have tricked me but I could have sworn I heard/seen a "Kardashian Kough" if you will.....Absolutely perfect... Love that...sneaky cheeky!!
Thank you, Anna. It was a great workshop :)
Congrats on the adorable new family member 😍 I’m in love 🥹
I really Love when you tell virtuos things being classic and stylish, braging and being meen to animals is not class. You seem to be a really Good person ❤❤❤
I love love your tip about confidence in yourself and not caring about impressing anyone. I am not always perfect, I choose what I wear, eat and do for myself and it does make me feel classy and confident.
Such great reminders. And might I add, observing others and their actions can also help us see what is elegant and what is not, for example seeing someone chew with their mouth open!
I love your new addition, just cute as a button.
Congratulations on your newest addition to the family! Teddy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, thank you for highlighting this topic. I truly enjoy your various content on etiquette and watching how far you have evolved as a person. Much love and support! 😊
Ohhhh….Teddy is adorable! What a precious little bundle of love. ❤
On point Ms.Anna, thank you for your time and knowledge.
Thank you for sharing the new addition to your family Anna! Teddy is adorable, and looks so happy! 🙂
Teddy is so cute! Congratulations on the new family member.
Thank you, Anna. You summed it up so well!
Excelentes traducción en los subtítulos! 💕✨
I did not like it when people assume they can just bring their animals to my house. They don't even ask first. I know some people treat their pets like children but I do not view their pets as children. And sadly now even though I would like them to come visit, I have to move them to my do not invite list because I do not want them to bring their animals to my house.
I agree!
Indeed.
even if they are like children, you still gotta ask if your children are welcomed by the host so it's not a good excuse
As much as I LOVE my pets and love to share their awesomeness, I agree that not asking before you bring your pet to someone’s house is totally rude and classless.
@@veemartian indeed! And, I would add, people who assume their partners are invited. I have had numerous occasions where I just wanted to have a catch-up with my female friends but one or more brings their partner without asking.
For #10, I would add "kind to animals, children and the disabled." I am shocked in public when I see how many peopke stare at crying children or the handicapped.
I truly enjoy watching your videos. I agree with most of what you say, and you aren't afraid to point out your own humanity. I'm sharing your channel with my daughters, who both think confidence is the best fashion accessory.
Anna, I love Teddy! And I love how you said "people with class are always kind to animals." Just another reason to enjoy watching your videos.❤
Thank you Anna ! Once again home run girl! ❤ Teddy is super cute!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Brilliant video Anna ❤as usual keep us Elegant ladies in shape 🎉 and the puppy is absolutely gorgeous x