Sorry about that! Stand against a wall with your hips, upper back and head on the wall. Make a football (American) field goal shape with your arms against the wall as much as you can. Raise your arms up the wall maintaining contact as much as you can. Sets and reps can vary. You may be able to find this exercise by searching RUclips for "tech-neck wall exercise".
@@pitapita3559 I got costochondritis (sternum pain) from doing too many burpees and hardly working my back. Found this thing called the Backpod. You lay on it and stretch your upper back. I remember on its instructions it said it could also cure tech neck. It’s on Amazon and there are knock off brands as well
99.999% of people acknowledges it. The problem is the right wing media actively look for those that don't, and other gender nonsense and make a news item on them to outrage their viewers. It's done to make people hate the left. ( even the left hate that woke junk) and that the politicians on right are able to avoid having to talk about their close ties to corporations donating massive amounts of money into their campaigns. The Culture Wars are just an exaggerated smokescreen to hide behind
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Can you make a video on what sexual acts arouse and stimulate women the most? I know that there's alot of taboo stuff in the industrys internet but can fantasy actually become reality? Or do women just use the image?
Thanks for your content Anna. You are awesome. I'm back in the dating game after 10 years. Still getting over her but getting ready for the dating world soon
My default is reverse parking, has been for over four decades so I do it on mirrors. The squeezing thing needs clarification, Now retired after a lifetime in heavy industry, My trade has some over developed muscles, tendons. It doesn't work. No pressure, in My opinion results in bruising, apparently not a good look. 😁👍❤️🏴!
Most of these, of course, assume attraction is already present. My teen daughter is very pretty. She is Single and wants a boyfriend. There are guys that she knows like her... but she doesn't like them in that way. I asked her, 'So, what do you want in a boyfriend?" And she listed all those internal traits a woman will list of the "nice guy".. - Loyal - Respectful - A good sense of humor - Polite and "not a jerk" - Honest and good moral standards - etc, etc, etc. So I started going through the list of guys she has been told have a thing for her. Everyone of those guys had some if not most of these qualities... and yet, she's not interested. I explained to my daughter, whom I love, that she should take this as an object lesson about female to male attraction. There's something more going on than her noble list of preferred characteristics. She is being honest. She really does want a boy who has those traits, but only if they are present in someone she is already attracted too. When speaking of those guys who like her but she doesn't want, she'd use phrases like "He's just kind of blah", to describe them and why she rejects their interest in her. I explained that what she has going on is nothing but typical female attraction standards. She wants an Alpha who treats her (and HER ONLY) like a Beta would. I said, "I love you girl, but good luck with that." My lesson really started to hit home when we went through the list of her "crushes" over the past couple of years... guys she secretly would want as a boyfriend, but who were probably clueless since my daughter is incredibly shy and yet highly dignified. I asked her, "So let me guess, that guy in Algebra or the other guy in your AP English class from last year, both those guys are guys your friends talk about, saying how cute or hot they are.. am i right?" She looked at me as if to say, "How'd you know?" The bottom line was this.... her and all her friends are focused on those one or two guys out of ten, the alpha males. The other eight or nine guys are pretty much invisible to her and her friends, even though they are honest, loyal, moral, etc. all those traits she claims she wants. And yet it is the alpha who she has that spark of attraction for who is the least likely to be loyal, highly moral and not end up being a "jerk". I told her all this is fine, so long as she understands the otherwise unconscious dynamics that are going on inside of her. I want her to be careful, choose wisely and with the fullest understanding possible of her own internal motivations. She looked at me in a sort of sad way and said, "Thanks Baba for making me feel depressed". The whole reality talk ended up being depressing because it sort of diminished the fairytale delusions a lot of young girls operate under.
good job doing that... what is baba btw...? are you her dad, uncle, grandpa...? what does baba mean...? (english is not my primary language and i think i have never heard the term before).
This is actually amazingly common in the mammalian animal world. When I was in Africa, the guide told us that most of the groups of male animals you see are what they call “bachelor herds” The dominant male actually mates with most of the females until he’s no longer dominant and then another one will step in…… it makes evolutionary sense to have those strong genes present, but it sure is hard on us non dominant guys sometimes! .
@@TravelVideoSource I have a question about it making "evolutionary sense". Certainly it does seem that the more dominate a male is the more likely they will be strong and healthy. The snafu in this wouldn't be an issue until later, moving into 2nd or 3rd generational offspring. If all females in a heard are giving birth to offspring from a single male, then these offspring may very well be mating with close kin (a half sibling, no less) which I suppose might start amplifying any genetic flaws present rather quickly, however mild at the original male. Of course even at the second generation it will be the healthiest, strongest male... so perhaps one in which the flaws are not amplified or even present, or at least, that is how I would answer the question perhaps.
Thanks 4 sharing. Very well said. Ignore morons that are acting confused/worried about irrelevant shit. If u have a half a brain u shud understand that baba is how she calls u dad. The word dad is hard for kids 2 say for some reason. My dad was amazing to me and I just didn't ever feel comfortable calling him dad.
There is a book called Casanova optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, It's the real deal
@YourWingmam hi, very likely people trying to sell this book to make profit or something. I saw multiple copy pastes of this message, just wanted to share that And say a thank you, i know those tips are general and depending on the woman's character but work most of time. I've got to start implementing those a little bit more, being more playful when I'm interested in someone, thanks !!
Here's one that my wife loves, and I didn't even know that until she told me well after our first date. This is something I do without really thinking about it as it just feels natural to me. On our first date and consequent dates, and to this day, when entering a crowded room or an area with a lot of people where we have to get to a point across the crowd, as we start walking I place my hand on her lower back and gently guide us through the crowd. She told me that she loves when I do that and when I did it on our first date walking through a crowded restaurant she knew that we were going to be seeing each other again. Very simple act that at least for my wife, she considers very gentlemanly and masculine. Her words :)
I've tried that several times when we would go out to the old abandoned well hole on my best friends farm ..... but got cursed out & slapped !! Guess I shouldn't have used BOTH Hands !!?? 😏
This is so wonderful to see a woman acknowledging the difference between the sexes and the way we work and the beauty of how things operate the best. Thank you very much. And it's crazy to me that there are people out there who are trying to take this kind of thing away. It's a direct assault on what's natural and good.
So everyone knows, this still applies no matter how long you’ve been together. I’ve been married 40 years, and if we are going into a crowded place I will step forward, reach back for her hand, and she will just latch onto it and follow. And similar to lifting something heavy (or hard labor in general) reaching up to get something that’s far out of her reach has the same effect.
Wow, I'm impressed! These are simple, real life/every day, and actionable things almost any guy can do! Maybe not every guy could do all or even most of these things, but if you can't do 3 or 4 of these gems w/ some panache, you might not be ready to couple. imHo. 🤷♂️
The first time I did that I was 15yo to a classmate. I led her to the center of the dance floor because I had no idea how to dance. I though she was going to say something like "dude, you are dragging me!" but maybe I was gracious enough not to make her feel uncomfortable. One of those thing that refuse to leave my collection of happy memories.
I want to say, as a guy who doesn't do any of these except for carry heavy things, that being a genuinly warm person (and this can be learned) works too. These mannerisms are surface level expressions of the love in your heart, the presence of your attention, the connection you create and relationship you cultivate with yourself. I'm saying that using these expressions can be a shortcut and it can work from the outside to within, but investing time and effort into becoming a more self-accepting person is really effective as well because you'll automatically do a bunch of attractive stuff just by being yourself. I went out last week and a few women hit on me, and no eyebrows were raised nor was there any leaning and headshaking.
@@edmazzeo1985 Maybe why younger guys don't really listen to their women is because their male pride does not permit them to readily understand that they're often smarter, more empathetic, and more practical than us
I just wanted to say thank you and check in about the posture tip. I am amazed to say focusing on staying upright and chest slightly out really does make you feel different! I have terrible posture and even if I’m exercising again it’s not great. But I watched this 2 days ago and said what the hell and tried “walking taller”. I cannot believe how much an impact it has had in just 2 days! I highly suggest everyone try it and make an effort, you’ll be pleasantly surprised!!
I was at a neighborhood party recently with my wife.. We were separated into different social groups across the room from each other. I felt her starring at me and smiling from across the room as I glanced over. She smiled slightly, brushed her hair over her ear and went back to her conversation in her circle. As we were walking home (holding hands, of course) she commented on how I stand and carry myself... Shoulders back, my left hand usually in my pocket and my right hand directing the conversation and/or casually holding a drink. She stated how relaxed and confident I look in almost every social situation. Even when the discussions can be on awkward subjects, I keep a calm demeaner, a clear straight forward eye contact and a slight smile on my face. She called this my most attractive feature. I took her in my arms, held her close and replied "..and I love your fantastic looking rear end!" and blew the entire mood.... I need to work on my timing I guess....
😅 Yeah, bad timing for that. She complimented your behavior and you responded with.. a physical attribute? How about going in with how you felt the burn of that lovely and seductive gaze she gave you, and the way she touched her hair... I mean, you already described just perfectly what you could and should have said to her. Just a little soft spoken words, following your own fingers as you gently push that stroke of hair that has fallen down on her cheek back behind her ear, then bring your eyes back locking them into hers and stareing into them with that secretive smile on your lips... You'll get the drift. 😉
Maybe just accentuate the feelings you have for her, and you'll get the physical back from her afterwards, from the feelings you arouse in her. Unless it's directly on topic, accentuating a woman's physical attributes may be something a man likes to hear, but a woman...?
Taking the lead in a non arrogant way works very well in most situations. They like when I pick where to eat, what time we will meet, etc... They like decisiveness. It gives them a sense of your competency. You always have a plan, even if it's improvised.
These are great tips - thank you. Sometimes I will be doing something and my girlfriend will ask if she can help. I usually say "no thanks" but sometimes I say (half joke, half serious) "you bet, keep sitting there looking pretty for me." That *really* makes her light up, lol.
1) Hand over your head 2) Stroke your beard 3) Look at her as if you know her secret (tilt head, lean back, nod head etc) 4) Lift heavy things 5) Pull her to you or hug from behind 6) Squeeze hand and lead 7) Hold her face before kissing 8) Box her against the wall 9) Toss her in the bed 10) Don't have tech neck 11) Park your car old fashioned way looking back
Slouching is surprisingly effective at keeping women away, so is always glaring angrily forward with a really convincing scowl and not even acknowledging them with a glance when passing by. I've been relying on it for years. Solitude is addictive.
I find my "Dedicated to Poverty" T-shirt does the same without having to do the work of slouching. If they still come in & shoot their shot, I talk about how I am 30 years in to my vow of giving all to Charity. Works, without having to work.
I am short bald and ugly ...women are not really interested in me until they see my wallet....then all of s sudden I see the lips move,the hips swing and they touch their hair...😅
These are some VERY observant tips about us guys. One thing I do (because when I was young my mother told me that my dad did this, and I could tell she was impressed with his masculinity - in the way he walked. He had very strong legs - a former bicycling champion - and he swaggered - just barely perceptibly - just a jaunty stride that showed his confidence, sure-footedness, and strength. So, being kind of strong, myself, I walk with a strong stride, with my head up, looking around as I walk. Nothing says "Loser" like some dude always looking down in front of him as he walks. Walk with head up, looking around, ready for action if necessary.
True story. I was genophobic for years, due to experiencing sexual abuse by girls as a teenager, believing that if I touched a woman I'd be an abuser. I finally meet the wonderful lady who I'm now married to. What were the two words that utterly ended my genuphobia, what was the thing she said that finally told me that she wanted me and we needed to be together? "carry me."
@@YourWingmam Thanks a lot. I can't pretend it's easy, especially in the current massively misandrist climate, but yes! My lady is wonderful! I did not realise or appreciate I was a man until I met her, then again she is tiny, gentle, intelligent and extremely! female. We both believe divine inspiration was how we ended up together. It's actually quite scary considering that without her, I might be calling myself "none binary" now, which would've been an aberration! Since yes, she is a big fan of me doing most, if not all the points on your list (including number 12). We've just celibrated our 7th wedding anniversary, and intend to get in as many more as we can.
As Al Pacino said in Scent of A Woman; "I'VE BEEN AROUND, YA KNOW!" I've been around 63 years. The #1 thing that turns a woman on in my experience is confidence. And the worst thing is a lack of it.
@@davet766 I am fortunate to have that combination. I'm no movie star, I can say I'm only average looking on my very best day. Started losing my hair at college age. Tough initially, but later gained confidence. More than one girl(when I was young and dating) said my confidence appealed to her. I wasn't the kind of guy that wore a hat all the time to hide it; the hair I've got, such as it is, is what I've got. That simple.. Ended up marrying a wonderful woman, a terrific partner, that happens to be out-of-my-league pretty.
@@ws6206 Some came just from maturity, it didn't happen at 16, 18, or 21. I was close to 25. I had a pretty good paying job, although an uncommon one, as a nightclub DJ. I had to be "up-front, an entertainer" not just one of a hundred guys in a club. Being a young man in the spotlight was an advantage to meet and interact with young women. Ask a few out, a few say yes, then confidence grew from there.
Recently I was involved in an 'uncomfortable' situation with my best friends wife. The three of us were at a club enjoying a few drinks when she complimented a new ink I recently got on my forearm. She started stroking my forearm and focusing her complete attention on me; her body language was pretty obvious. She had her back to my friend and was directing her convo, eyes, body solely in my direction. Flicking her hair, gesturing, posturing.......I had to excuse myself and make a quick exit to the men's. Later on I found out they had a huge argument.
Placing myself between my girl and traffic while walking on the sidewalk; basically placing my body towards any threat, even just someone walking towards us at night
#1 Hit the gym, be fit #2 Be clean, well dressed #3 engage, feel confident. Be galant. #4 listen, be (charmingly) humerous. #5 eye contact, but dont invade.
I'm 70. If you guys are in a relationship, get that woman out on a date often. Focus on her like you did when you were first dating. Romance and adventure are going to get you, well you know.
@@jeltoninc.8542 Oh I don't know. I guess it depends on where you live. In New York ya. No walking there. But here in Nephi, Utah we can just go for a walk. Most women will see it as romantic if you walk her speed and hold her hand. Dates don't have to cost a whole lot. Find the best place to park and watch the full moon rise with her.
@ 4:13 a.m. in NYC as I watch this, you should have a MILLION followers. These 12 tips I sorta knew but you are the 1st. to actually break it down and explain. Kudos! 😀
You’re always the first to point these things out. Unfortunately you now have a lot of imitators recycling your advice as their own. But you know what they say: imitation is … I do hope this isn’t having a negative effect on your viewing figures. You are, without doubt, the best! Please keep it up!
Well, some things are universal enough. For example, face-keeping described in Kama Sutra long before we all were born. Kabe-don , wall-pinning of a girl, is very popular Japanese anime trope.
Learning to dance will automatically make you stand out. Most women love to dance. You can create a connection...physical, mental, and emotional very quickly this way (if you want). Your problem will be dancing with the right women hahaha. Basic swing, hustle, merengue, bachata, cha cha, rumba, and salsa all work well as social dances and actually if you practice enough, you will surprise yourself. Bonus points if you learn some line dances. If you are shy or introverted, dance is a good ice breaker for you with women. Plus you learn about posture, shifting weight, and how to....lead LOL Now go forth and get out of your comfort zone, the women will love you for it!
Yes! Dancing is a big one, I added it as bonus #2 because I'd forgotten it (how??) One thing I'll add is to dance within your genre! Unless it's really your personality, hip hop isn't all that sexy on seniors lol (looks like you're trying too hard) But if a man is young, anything goes! Thanks for the addition!!
You are the winner MyPOV. But you make it too difficult. Women do love to dance but you really don't have to know how to do any of those dances unless you are trying to bed down a expert dancer. In general, men only have to be willing to get her out on the dance floor. It IS A GOLDEN Ability. And the show is very good to. If you are going to learn an actual dance I'd start with shuffle. Fairly easy and a zillion variations. very popular with younger women. Very fun and active also.
Posture tip: While walking... Hold the head as if you're trying to see over the top shelf in a store. This keeps you straight, and even being 'older', I see heads turn.
Anna in all the years I've known you. You went all out in this one and did not hold anything back. You looked like you were in you're element. Wow more of this mood plz💯🙌🏽
Your advice and comments are always on point - and Thank You so much for helping us (generally less than perceptive) men. I'm widowed after 40 years together, so trying to meet women is tougher than normal. I've got one other move. when talking, if you can take her hand in yours, place your palms together and your hand is (almost always) larger, and curl your fingertips gently over the top of hers. you're bigger, stronger and can take charge, but then you smile and add a little chuckle, then turn your palms around and give her hand a squeeze.
This chick speaks the truth. Which I love. And respect. But, I worry that the angry feminist hoards are sharpening their pitchforks and lighting their torches for her precisely for this reason. Stay strong woman.
@@YourWingmam I agree, your channel is unqiue for bringing forth and maintaining the masculine and feminine frameworks that we are biologically made to live upon
And the "gender fluid" people as well, they would get particularly triggered by Anna's constant references to the masculine / feminine polarity, which instead is basically the beauty of life.
The angry feminists love to slag off men and talk about how awful they are and then they turn around and weep & moan about how they cannot find a man to truly them. Can these feminists not see how they are crapping in their own nests?!
You are a very, very wise woman! I'm impressed and very happy that there is a courageous woman who will actually say these things in this acidic "woke" culture! Thank you lovely Anna!
How many do I do? All of 'em! LOL! I'm 55, and our 28th anniversary is Saturday. Due to some old injuries, I am compelled to continue exercising, remaining relatively fit, to reduce pain levels and avoid surgeries. This has resulted in a very impressive physique if the frequent compliments I receive from women are any indication. My daughter and I attend multiple music gigs/concerts every month, and she is frequently compelled to get between me and women who attempt to get my attention. All you young men out there need to step it up. You don't have to dedicate your entire life to being fit, just develop good habits and work a little every day to improve your mind and body.
Reminds me when my dad told us about when he and my older sister, who was in her 20s at the time, were eating at a restaurant, and a pretty young waitress kept giving my dad (who was in his 50s), lots of attention (flirting, etc). She got jealous. In her mind, how did the waitress know that my sister wasn't actually my dad's girlfriend. She thought it was disrespectful. My dad got a kick out of that. He was a very good looking guy. I miss him.
I just came across this vid and had an epiphany: All my life I never understood why women have been attracted to me - not all, but more than I realized - and since I never saw myself as any sort of "handsome" I didn't understand the attraction they showed. This in turn made me awkward, shy and embarrased - creating some (now) hilarious and awkward moments - and lost opportunities! LOL The epiphany: I do most of these things naturally and didn't - still don't - think of them as attraction triggers!! Now I'm in my mid-sixties and yes, still get "hit" on - and still have the same awkward reaction LOL. My kids tell me I'm a "silver fox" - hadn't heard that before - and having now learned what these simple and natural actions, I'm sure I'll be more careful - or hopefully more aware anyway of the dynamics around me! Thank you for these insights!
@nirradical I'm not going to rationalize the entire "older generation", I'm just sharing my own experience. And yes, there are people of all ages that come across "clueless" in a variety of scenarios so this isn't necessarily an "age" or "awareness" thing, we're all wired a little differently. No point in making generalizations without basis.
@theTimmer LOL fair enough but I'm inclined to protect my privacy - and really I don't need any "score"; I'm quite comfortable with my own assessment and what it garners me! 😄 This vid has definitely helped me understand the responses of women around me, and has also affirmed my self confidence and for that I'm grateful! What it boils down to is a quality I have discussed with a variety of women, sone of them absolutely goegeous, who didn't understand this quality they have: sensuality. It's a very misunderstood characteristics and not always easy to quantify. What makes a woman sensual? It deserves a blog and not a reply post on a video but in short, it's a combination of gracefulness, movement, certain nuances like the way she wrinkles her nose or moves a hand, a sound she makes. It also can include physical beauty of course - but that's not always a given. And that's what I've discovered Anna has described here in this video so well, is the *masculine* sensuality through movement, gestures and grace - and I learned how it applies to me! As I mentioned, I have discussed this with lovely ladies who confided in me that they were perplexed with the attention they received - or some other woman recieved - and I explained to them the nuances of sensuality that I had observed. They all had an "aha!" moment - and now I had my own! 👍😊
On the first date with my wife, I just took her hand and walked her through a park into a good cafe. She always recalls this moment and says how happy and comfortable she was. ❤
@@YourWingmam Thank you for your work, you help men to find their loved ones and make them really happy. This is important, because women's fuel is Love.
@@toddjohnson271 dude, she is describing a relationship between 2 that are already attracted to each other. What you are suggesting is completely not applicable. The video is about gestures and postures and movements. Not about status, money etc. I'm not disregarding your comment as not true because a lot of woman are choosy.
LOL! Don't forget the trait that all women say is so important... sense of humor. Get her laughing just until she leaves with the biker with anger management issues. They love to "fix" these guys. 🏍
If my head is up, shoulders back (good posture) and I smile. It usually gets a good response. Dated a woman that loved when guys had their arms above their heads laying back. The backing up while parking I never thought of but I did have an LTR that loved me driving her around. She bought a new car and wanted me driving it when we were together. I had a lot more experience driving than she did (different culture) so that confidence while driving might have been playing a role in that. I’m an aggressive defensive driver. lol
Love this! Most are fairly common sense but seeing them listed like this is a nice reminder to be more aware. I think girls like the "shy" guy sometimes because we naturally do some of these actions out of awkwardness and/or sometimes just not knowing what to say. It's funny that girls can interpret that as being confident or sexy. I def wanna watch more of your videos!
always better to be natural, instead of constantly trying to remember what you saw or heard in some tutorial or guide. Confidence is all you need; get good at something.
I've been with my lady for over 42 years now. I lift & carry heavy things still, and drive her when she wants. That first 30 years was like the honeymoon period. LOL But I think she stuck with me because of my cooking skills. Her idea of cooking is putting milk on cereal. So she really needs me for good nutrition. ;-)
Answer part two: I am.learning to Tango dance. Only 4 years into it. Keeping it simple because of worn out knee and ankle joints. Limited mobility and agility. When I do good/decent, It is a joy. When I make constant mistakes or dance like Frankenstein, it feels bad. When I watch. I am jealous of the men that can dance with the lady that I was dancing with who has less experience than I, and see her dance close to his right shoulder, eyes closed andcs smile on her face. Never had that hsppen with me. Usually in the upright blank stare over the right shoulder or worse, looking around left side and right side.
It is not my expertise. But I never try to be an expert at things. I want to be decent and have a good time. Which means to keep at it and find out what my body will allow me to do. Most out there that are around me realize that I am struggling. When I am bad. I am bad, and I leave early. When I am good and find my rhythm, I at least can be decent, but nothing like most dancers, men or women are doing. It is frustrating, but I have nothing to lose.
@@backyardrailroader that's ok, but i mean to meet women there could be other groups that for you might be more suitable. for example, if you are good conversationalist you can go find groups which is just people walking around the city, or discussion groups for subjects you are very passionate about. regardless of whether you excel in the dance studio, it's nice to have some skill in dance in order to attract women you meet elsewhere.
Reminds me when I took a few country dance lessons, I was partnered with a short pretty lady. Almost every time I was learning to twirl her, I kept hitting her on top of her head with my elbow. I felt really bad, but she kept smiling throughout the lesson.
Speaking to people in public just because I am present has worked for me. I was on a date once and I made some simple small talk with several employees at various locations we went and she was super impressed. This person was also fairly introverted though. Maybe it’s a personality thing.
Yes, taking the time to talk to people shows confidence, amity, & respect. (This is particularly apparent with people who are often overlooked or treated dismissively*.) This goes along with one you've probably heard before: Pay attention to how someone treats others (especially those in a "lower" social context*). Another similar idea is to notice how they act toward their mother and other women, as well as how they speak to them or talk about them. I've heard it put this way: "The way he treats his mom is the way he'll treat you in the future." When someone is kind to everyone, you can tell that they are genuine & sincere. * (e.g. servers and waitstaff, cleaners, lower ranking co-workers or employees, people who have less money or status, valets, shop workers, younger relatives, less educated or accomplished - basically anyone they aren't trying to impress)
@jrcrawford4 what if you've been doing that for a long time but it doesn't work? You're probably more physically attractive than most watching this, so you have a different experience of how easy it all is
I stepped outside of my bubble and forced myself to watch this, your video on 12 simple things... I realized that at 59 I probably will have little need for these tips, married with 6 kids 2 grand child. but I liked the point about posture, thanks. If I may add, it's not enough to arouse people to court eachother, it must be emphisized that this carries along with it the weight of responsibility of a potential life long partner, that if that is not a possibility that perhaps it should'nt start, ye even if they believe that monkies...
Interesting. For years I was in Commission Only Sales and was quite good at it. At work I picked up numerous awards and had respect from my peers. I would start on a Monday with Zero and by the end of the week/month I'd have earned enough to keep my family in a decent and improving lifestyle and I felt pretty good about that. My wife never once complimented me on this, but one time I put up a shelf and she told my children 'isn't your Dad clever'...other times she'd say 'I really like the way you reverse the car with just one hand on the steering wheel'. To be honest, these 'compliments' just pissed me off because they meant nothing to me...oh and regards the Sales career...when we divorced she said 'you lied for a living'...so you can imagine how that made me feel.
Many people see salesmen as liers but the fact is more on the psychological level how you get the prospects / buyers to like your products and feel, or get knowledge of, that the products will be benificial for them. I know that some sellers lie a lot but for instance in the industry there are more to a sell than just a short talk. One need to ask the prospects what they do now and what their needs are and explain how much they can earn on the machine one want them to buy. In my opinion after selling very different products for many years is to avoid lying to the prospect and in the end have both buyer and seller satisfied.
There is also a saying "buyers are liars" and it is true. I once had a kid ask me why car salesmen are always lying, so I told him customers lie all the time. He asked how and his dad did too. I told him knowing that I'd lose the sale. I said "they go to a dealership and say "I'll be right back" when they really intend to keep looking". Of course the dad had to go back to the last dealership...
ALL salesmen lie for a living, so don't feel too bad about it! Customers too! You lie that you'll give me top dollar for my trade-in, and I'll lie when I tell you how good I took care of the car!
Nice list to know, but at least 80% of these need to have the disclaimer of "only if she has consensually expressed mutual interest back toward you else you will end up with her filing a restraining order against you" LOL.
Excellent! Ive done the hair and rubbing the jaw moves after hearing an anthropologist describe moves like that as male grooming to express their masculinity, but I've also done it when I felt the lady could imagine herself doing it, and I was doing it for her and it drew her to me a little more. The lifting something heavy move is one I always looked for, but think you need to do it gracefully, so it looks effortless - - then get all modest and not understand when she coos about how strong I am, as if I figured everyone is that strong (I was a carpenter and was well-developed). That also includes reaching up high for something that is far from her reach. Another move I have is, when walking down the street, if there's a really loud noise or something startling, I will put out an arm and kind of stop her from walking while stepping protectively in front of her or between her and the thing that may be seen as a threat of some sort, being a shield. A gentleman always walks down the sidewalk between the street and the lady anyway.
@@paulrichards2365 Correct, I am not young. I was properly educated in the social graces on what to do and how to think regarding women. Much experience through practice has paid off and I continue to grow as a man. My manners were a delightful surprise to women in Europe. Like some American women who have been surprised at opening a door or seating them in a restaurant, the surprise is quickly replaced by appreciation. I tell younger men - - - Be a man women want and women will want you. It's that easy.
I think the number 1 advice for dating women...is never talk about your problems/personal issues...talk about others or stories that show your quite experienced or skillfull and youll pull her in...all depending on the girl of course
You really got my interest when you first explain how men are attracted to the shape and swaying movement of women... because it's true for me...all that's so definitely attractive and ultimately seductive. Comparing men and women together doing and wanting the same thing, but from different perspectives reached a particularly receptive place in my heart... I think the pictures that you used helped too. Of course, I had to like and subscribe to "all" because I felt such a strong connection to what you were saying about flirting and seduction which are intrinsically natural that I enjoy and respect. These days, I have come to realize how essential flirting is. Cultivating the unspoken signaling of evolution becomes much easier and very interesting fun once I accepted how important it is as a bedrock language to mating that I was sometimes oblivious to while drawn to other urgencies in my life. I found your content, intuition, and suggestions enthralling and I'm looking forward to more. Thank you ❤🙏!!!
A long time ago, when first watching the movie GOODFELLAS, there was a scene where Ray Liotta incorporated several elements, and it was one of the coolest moves. In the scene, at his girlfriends apartment, he pulls this move where he throws her on the bed in front of her friends, and playfully ravages her. Then in a second, then gets up and makes eye contact with one of her friends and holds his gaze on her, all while slowly moving towards her. When he does this, you can see that the friend is instantly on fire as she makes a clumsy exit from the room. But this scene had many things you touch on: exhibition of strength , ravaging, posture , and eye contact. Over the years I have used elements of this scene when the moment is right - AND IT GETS A SIMILAR RESULT- instant weak knees. The first time I tried this, it worked!( and I’m no Ray Liotta). Look up this scene, and tell me if you know what I’m getting at.
I can 100% confirm the dancing. I'm a bit of an introvert and don't have many friends, those that are, are very dear to me. My wife and I started Country Western dancing back in the day it was all the rage. We learned from others, and from watching videos and such. When we arrived at a new place to dance, I would do the first few dances with my wife. I can not tell you how many time I was approached by strange women asking me to dance with them (same with my wife). She always found it a turn on that other women took interest in me, so it worked to both of our advantage. There would be nights were I had those first few dances with my wife and slow songs, and the rest of the night I would be dancing with other woman for 4-5 hours. A good strong confident dancer, every woman loves.
My list is better. "How to save money and have peace." 1. Never text back too quickly. Women love a challenge, and nothing says "I’m a mystery" like responding to a text six months later with just, "Who dis?" 2. Bring up your ex in every conversation. Especially how great she was. Bonus points if you mention how she’s doing now… with her new boyfriend. 3. Call her "bro." Women love being friend-zoned. It's a great way to let her know you're emotionally unavailable and possibly still live in a fraternity house. 4. Be overly honest. On the first date, casually let her know you're already planning a prenup… just in case. 5. Refuse to share food. Nothing says "I’m not the one" like guarding your fries like they’re the last meal on Earth. 6. Bring your mom to the date, even if she is deceased. Women love family-oriented men. They just don’t want to share appetizers with your mother. 7. Talk about your video game achievements like they’re Nobel Prizes. Nothing makes a woman swoon like knowing you’ve "completed 100% of Elden Ring." 8. Create an online dating profile... and make your bio all about your favorite Star Wars characters. Don’t even mention yourself. Let her know she’ll always be second to Princess Leia. 9. Never, ever pick the restaurant. Women love when you have zero decision-making skills. Bonus points if you say, "I don’t know, what do YOU want?" a hundred times. 10. Wear socks with sandals everywhere. Women are suckers for bad boys, but nobody can handle a bad boy with bad footwear. 11. Constantly refer to yourself in the third person. “FkSociety doesn’t do commitment.” She’ll either laugh or run. Either way, goal achieved. 12. Tell her you believe in "alpha males." Nothing screams "run for the hills" like explaining to her why you’re a lion and she’s just part of the herd. Remember gents, applying these 12 steps will save you cash and establish a great connection with yourself without the headaches. You're welcome. Like this comment as if your therapist is watching and this counts as emotional progress.
I think you should have divided these in 3 categories. First: things that men do naturally that are attractive to women. Second: Things that you can do on a first date that can help the guy "seal the deal", and third and finally: what you can do with your girlfriend that makes her feel more attracted to you. Without this distinction I feel like a lot of guys are going to get in trouble trying some of these, especially with today's American sensitivities about man, woman interactions. 😂
Another great video Anna !! Just a comment on one of your past videos. I was in my Monday night tennis class last week, and a young lass comes to it. She is not very good at tennis (and either am I). She came up to me and started talking, asking me about how to grip a tennis racket. I put one hand on the racket, and turned it with my hand on her racket hand moving hand into the right position for a forehand shot. I felt the tension come out of her. As I finished last night's class, I saw her walking in for a swim in the pool, very big smile on her face. I think she thinks I am a possible partner, I guess I am old enough to be her dad.
First, for anyone else reading, physically showing a woman how to hold something or do something by placing your hand over hers to show her where it needs to be, is a great way to break the touch barrier and build sexual tension, whether in tennis, learning to play the guitar, etc. Second, re-watch some of my videos on advice for men over 50, focusing on compatibility in beliefs, values, and long-term goals rather than age. Videos for Men Over 50: ruclips.net/video/i89gDuWva60/видео.html
@@YourWingmam Just reviewed the two videos. For the most part, I pass for a good 20 years younger than I am, and I don't want to deceive these younger women. I think the biggest issue is not so much now as I am actually in better shape than I have ever been. Its more the longer term, ie in 10 + years. Best strategy at this time (not opposed to children) is to take it a day at a time, see how things develop, and accept the reality of what happens. As I've referenced "my friend" in past comments, she's doing her own thing (and after meeting her children at the gym recently), I think she is more of a mess than I ever thought.
Thank you for this, I've gotta watch this video 50,000 times or however many times it takes for me to pound these into my brain. I have no idea if I do any of them now but you can bet I will from now on.
Very interesting! I would also like to add the fallowing, based on my experience. woman love a good smile, with good teeth and a great sense of humour, and last but not least. Confident! I was extremely successful at dating, but I’m happily married now! Woman rock!!! 😊
Ballroom dancing teaches soooo much, AND there are often group lesson nights 1-3 times a week. Caution, many women who come usually are married, but they do bring their single friends.
I agree about that number one. And it can be fixed even for gamers and some IT workers. You just need to start being more AWARE of the moments when you are doing it ..the leaning stuff. You can still do it (if for example you read something on the screen (with smaller latters / unless you use the increase font size option) 😄 or you want to see something ..better ..for like a bunch of seconds to a minute) ..but don't stay in a wrong position for too long ..time). Always try to go back to the corect / good / healthy posture (even when sitting on a chair). The main thing to do is try to often have your back (almost all of it) ..touching the back of a chair and your neck to be also in a straight posture.
Spot on for American & Western women. Fully 80% of American men are undatable. But when they use their passport, 90% of that 80% is attractive. Go where you are celebrated, not hated or tolerated.
4:45 She's got to have an attraction for you - box her in against the wall - yeah, get that wrong and you'll be consigned to the predatory creep zone ...
Listen up gentleman and Men of culture For the Modern Woman The 5th Wave Feminists, I do something they all LOVE! I don't hold the door open for them. As a matter of fact,, I hold it closed for them so they can force it open to show me how powerful they are. They love that!!!
I do nothing with my body apart from feed it what it needs and abstain from what is toxic, i also do the same with my spirit soul and my conscience. kindness is king
As a man I appreciate you pointing out the differences between men and woman and for those differences not to be seen as negative. Especially in this day and age!!
Looking absolutely Scrumptious there Anna . I’m sure you’d have commanded a Viking raiding party with your smile alone 😄😇. All very useful and correct tips might I say 😉
#2 For a women Power IS EVERYTHING! You must exhibit some type of power attribute in order to be attractive. Financial power, physical power, social power or Comedic power. Very few women respond to meaningful traits (emotional IQ, empathy, intelligence, decency) in men. Bravado, dominance, confidence are what they are hard wired to desire. Just as men are all about "looks", women are all about "power". What can you do for them. This shifts for women later in life, or for the women that has been dogged out a few too many times, and even then they still seek the asswhole jerk lol.
I realised an and woke up years ago seeing how manipulative some women were and avoided the users and idiots. Things have got worse now in my opinion and for what? one hour of pussy followed by 23 hours of migraine.
Wrong its a myth confident women like A** clowns! Women with low self esteem are seeking in fact such men because they believe they will be the one who finally changes even narcissistic self-centered people to give them validation that they are " the one" and special for such men. They couldn't be more far from the truth. This whole process is mainly unconscious and most women dont even realize that until their 30s and waste their time dating those goof clowns we all know. My tip; Chose only a healthy rs based on trust, same heart language and with the foundation to grow and learn from one-another and to heal.
Great video bc of some comments i like to add; Its a myth confident women like A** clowns! Women with low self esteem are seeking in fact such men because they believe they will be the one who finally changes even narcissistic self-centered people to give them (women)validation that they are " the one" and more special for such men the the others. They couldn't be more far from the truth. This whole process is mainly unconscious and most women dont even realize that until their 30s and waste their time dating those goof clowns we all know. My tip; Chose only a healthy rs based on trust, same heart language and with the foundation to grow and learn from one-another and to heal.
The way you amplify your message at about 0:04 - 0:07 has its own kind of appeal to me ☺. I would be reversing my car immediately and stroke my hair - entertaining video 😃!
Hi Anna, I keep seeing your videos. I somehow personally feel that we both are sailing in the same ship of life. Even myself all alone facing what life has to offer😉. All the best in your endeavours of life❤️
These are all great moves for men to recognize - the first time having a man take my hand was a wonderful feeling and I have never forgotten it. The best advice I ever heard to keep a marriage going strong was from a man who said - Always treat your woman as you did when you were first going together. That sounded great to me, we both can always be respectful and loving. Luckily, I did not fall for the feminist version of womanhood - I love how men have changed the world at this time of history and know how fortunate modern women are who live in Western societies. All our so-called women's rights are a gift from good and decent men, they maintain law and order and protect us from those who would harm us. A foolish woman sets out alone in the world. A lonely, childless woman can be the most miserable creature. All that said though not ALL of us are suitable to marriage, so choose carefully which lifestyle you eventually decide upon. If you don't wish to marry, that's fine, do something good and useful as people used to do in history. Too many young modern women seem to have chosen to be unwholesome as a single person, this is not a good idea. Be useful in your life whatever you become. Thanks for the commonsense videos.
It always interests me that the so called patriarchal, oppressive culture only seems to drive males to want to escape it. Males often seek ways out of society and civilization. I would think women would want to abandon it in droves. Instead they seem to want to control it. It's sad how we are brainwashing both young men and women to reject the things that create safety and predictability in our culture. I feel bad for my sons and daughter as they get to the age of dating.
"Do women have beards? Not the ones you're interested in" Anna's eyes go left, then they go right OMG! that's so cheeky looool Anna! THANK YOU for this fab video! I loved every second of it. It shows how women find it sexy when we, men, do certain body or face movements. As far as I know, no woman told us about these subtle things, except YOU. All these tips are gold and I'm familiar with some, especially the look of desire which is my strength. When pouring her some wine I slightly smile and give her that look of desire for 2 secs. Even when stiring my cuppa, I stir it noiselessly while maintaining the look. This is just an extra thing I do with the eyes in order to let her know that I'm really interested in her. Also, when I move something that is on the table, while listening or talking to her, I move it gently. Nothing done in a rush. Btw, why the cat is shy this time? haha God bless
Thank you! You said you had *a great exercise to counter Tech-neck but you forgot* to show it at the end like you said 🥲
Sorry about that! Stand against a wall with your hips, upper back and head on the wall. Make a football (American) field goal shape with your arms against the wall as much as you can. Raise your arms up the wall maintaining contact as much as you can. Sets and reps can vary. You may be able to find this exercise by searching RUclips for "tech-neck wall exercise".
@@YourWingmam thx 😊
@@pitapita3559 I got costochondritis (sternum pain) from doing too many burpees and hardly working my back. Found this thing called the Backpod. You lay on it and stretch your upper back. I remember on its instructions it said it could also cure tech neck. It’s on Amazon and there are knock off brands as well
Actually, she did cover it by mentioning slipping under the seat.
@@pitapita3559 awe, ya beat me to it. I was gonna say the same thing. 😂
Wow - an actual human who acknowledges there are actual differences between the sexes. Thanks for doing this.
99.999% of people acknowledges it. The problem is the right wing media actively look for those that don't, and other gender nonsense and make a news item on them to outrage their viewers. It's done to make people hate the left. ( even the left hate that woke junk) and that the politicians on right are able to avoid having to talk about their close ties to corporations donating massive amounts of money into their campaigns. The Culture Wars are just an exaggerated smokescreen to hide behind
What? Differences?! May wokelord hunt you down. 😂
an "actual human", can you not tell she's a woman?
Oh relax man...
Stop your whining. It's pathetic.
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Can you make a video on what sexual acts arouse and stimulate women the most? I know that there's alot of taboo stuff in the industrys internet but can fantasy actually become reality? Or do women just use the image?
I think you need to call out trashy liberal women culture today instead of telling men how to be.
The bald guys should buy a wig.
Thanks for your content Anna. You are awesome. I'm back in the dating game after 10 years. Still getting over her but getting ready for the dating world soon
My default is reverse parking, has been for over four decades so I do it on mirrors.
The squeezing thing needs clarification, Now retired after a lifetime in heavy industry, My trade has some over developed muscles, tendons. It doesn't work. No pressure, in My opinion results in bruising, apparently not a good look.
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Most of these, of course, assume attraction is already present.
My teen daughter is very pretty. She is Single and wants a boyfriend. There are guys that she knows like her... but she doesn't like them in that way. I asked her, 'So, what do you want in a boyfriend?" And she listed all those internal traits a woman will list of the "nice guy"..
- Loyal
- Respectful
- A good sense of humor
- Polite and "not a jerk"
- Honest and good moral standards
- etc, etc, etc.
So I started going through the list of guys she has been told have a thing for her. Everyone of those guys had some if not most of these qualities... and yet, she's not interested. I explained to my daughter, whom I love, that she should take this as an object lesson about female to male attraction. There's something more going on than her noble list of preferred characteristics. She is being honest. She really does want a boy who has those traits, but only if they are present in someone she is already attracted too. When speaking of those guys who like her but she doesn't want, she'd use phrases like "He's just kind of blah", to describe them and why she rejects their interest in her. I explained that what she has going on is nothing but typical female attraction standards. She wants an Alpha who treats her (and HER ONLY) like a Beta would. I said, "I love you girl, but good luck with that."
My lesson really started to hit home when we went through the list of her "crushes" over the past couple of years... guys she secretly would want as a boyfriend, but who were probably clueless since my daughter is incredibly shy and yet highly dignified. I asked her, "So let me guess, that guy in Algebra or the other guy in your AP English class from last year, both those guys are guys your friends talk about, saying how cute or hot they are.. am i right?" She looked at me as if to say, "How'd you know?"
The bottom line was this.... her and all her friends are focused on those one or two guys out of ten, the alpha males. The other eight or nine guys are pretty much invisible to her and her friends, even though they are honest, loyal, moral, etc. all those traits she claims she wants. And yet it is the alpha who she has that spark of attraction for who is the least likely to be loyal, highly moral and not end up being a "jerk".
I told her all this is fine, so long as she understands the otherwise unconscious dynamics that are going on inside of her. I want her to be careful, choose wisely and with the fullest understanding possible of her own internal motivations. She looked at me in a sort of sad way and said, "Thanks Baba for making me feel depressed". The whole reality talk ended up being depressing because it sort of diminished the fairytale delusions a lot of young girls operate under.
good job doing that... what is baba btw...? are you her dad, uncle, grandpa...? what does baba mean...? (english is not my primary language and i think i have never heard the term before).
@@romannavratilid it's Chinese for 'dad'. My daughter is Chinese, and was adopted 14 years ago.
This is actually amazingly common in the mammalian animal world. When I was in Africa, the guide told us that most of the groups of male animals you see are what they call “bachelor herds”
The dominant male actually mates with most of the females until he’s no longer dominant and then another one will step in…… it makes evolutionary sense to have those strong genes present, but it sure is hard on us non dominant guys sometimes! .
@@TravelVideoSource I have a question about it making "evolutionary sense". Certainly it does seem that the more dominate a male is the more likely they will be strong and healthy. The snafu in this wouldn't be an issue until later, moving into 2nd or 3rd generational offspring. If all females in a heard are giving birth to offspring from a single male, then these offspring may very well be mating with close kin (a half sibling, no less) which I suppose might start amplifying any genetic flaws present rather quickly, however mild at the original male.
Of course even at the second generation it will be the healthiest, strongest male... so perhaps one in which the flaws are not amplified or even present, or at least, that is how I would answer the question perhaps.
Thanks 4 sharing. Very well said. Ignore morons that are acting confused/worried about irrelevant shit. If u have a half a brain u shud understand that baba is how she calls u dad. The word dad is hard for kids 2 say for some reason. My dad was amazing to me and I just didn't ever feel comfortable calling him dad.
There is a book called Casanova optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, It's the real deal
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@YourWingmam hi, very likely people trying to sell this book to make profit or something. I saw multiple copy pastes of this message, just wanted to share that
And say a thank you, i know those tips are general and depending on the woman's character but work most of time. I've got to start implementing those a little bit more, being more playful when I'm interested in someone, thanks !!
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Casanova was a bisexual degenerate who would screw anything and anyone.
Very good
I did everything this girl said, and that filed a police report
Welcome to the club, man.
Is this what this prison cell is, an exclusive club ?@@DwightMann-r1o
come on man not to your grandma
@@someguy4708 you came on a guy and not his grandma? What did you lose a bet?
Hilarious!
Here's one that my wife loves, and I didn't even know that until she told me well after our first date. This is something I do without really thinking about it as it just feels natural to me. On our first date and consequent dates, and to this day, when entering a crowded room or an area with a lot of people where we have to get to a point across the crowd, as we start walking I place my hand on her lower back and gently guide us through the crowd. She told me that she loves when I do that and when I did it on our first date walking through a crowded restaurant she knew that we were going to be seeing each other again. Very simple act that at least for my wife, she considers very gentlemanly and masculine. Her words :)
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
i would melt
This is Gay. are you sure she is not banging chads on the side?
I had to read this twice to get it😂 not a hand on back guy cos it seems clumsy and im too wide for the two of us to fit.
I've tried that several times when we would go out to the old abandoned well hole on my best friends farm ..... but got cursed out & slapped !!
Guess I shouldn't have used BOTH Hands !!?? 😏
This is so wonderful to see a woman acknowledging the difference between the sexes and the way we work and the beauty of how things operate the best. Thank you very much. And it's crazy to me that there are people out there who are trying to take this kind of thing away. It's a direct assault on what's natural and good.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
It's bc men were boasting about those differences and oppressed women by them.
Stop simping
One of the things we do that I've found that women love is when we take money out of our wallets.
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So everyone knows, this still applies no matter how long you’ve been together. I’ve been married 40 years, and if we are going into a crowded place I will step forward, reach back for her hand, and she will just latch onto it and follow.
And similar to lifting something heavy (or hard labor in general) reaching up to get something that’s far out of her reach has the same effect.
Married 17yrs, absolutely agree.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Great job Atta Man husband 41.
Wow, I'm impressed! These are simple, real life/every day, and actionable things almost any guy can do! Maybe not every guy could do all or even most of these things, but if you can't do 3 or 4 of these gems w/ some panache, you might not be ready to couple. imHo. 🤷♂️
The first time I did that I was 15yo to a classmate. I led her to the center of the dance floor because I had no idea how to dance. I though she was going to say something like "dude, you are dragging me!" but maybe I was gracious enough not to make her feel uncomfortable.
One of those thing that refuse to leave my collection of happy memories.
I want to say, as a guy who doesn't do any of these except for carry heavy things, that being a genuinly warm person (and this can be learned) works too. These mannerisms are surface level expressions of the love in your heart, the presence of your attention, the connection you create and relationship you cultivate with yourself. I'm saying that using these expressions can be a shortcut and it can work from the outside to within, but investing time and effort into becoming a more self-accepting person is really effective as well because you'll automatically do a bunch of attractive stuff just by being yourself. I went out last week and a few women hit on me, and no eyebrows were raised nor was there any leaning and headshaking.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Well well well. looks like someone is new to this stuff.
I'm an old guy in my 80s. Life has taught me that the number one thing females like is to be listened to and taken seriously. (Seriously 👍)
It works, especially over time.
@alanstancliff3966...you are a master sir, us old guys figured that one out after about .................maybe 60 years,give or take.
@@edmazzeo1985 Maybe why younger guys don't really listen to their women is because their male pride does not permit them to readily understand that they're often smarter, more empathetic, and more practical than us
@@alanstancliff3966 Practical is never a word I would use to describe the feminine. That's nearly the opposite of women's emotion-based psyche.
@@IndyMotoRider Aw horsefeathers!
I just wanted to say thank you and check in about the posture tip. I am amazed to say focusing on staying upright and chest slightly out really does make you feel different! I have terrible posture and even if I’m exercising again it’s not great. But I watched this 2 days ago and said what the hell and tried “walking taller”. I cannot believe how much an impact it has had in just 2 days! I highly suggest everyone try it and make an effort, you’ll be pleasantly surprised!!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@matttipton6009 Try not to look like a try hard or ridiculous.
I was at a neighborhood party recently with my wife.. We were separated into different social groups across the room from each other. I felt her starring at me and smiling from across the room as I glanced over. She smiled slightly, brushed her hair over her ear and went back to her conversation in her circle. As we were walking home (holding hands, of course) she commented on how I stand and carry myself... Shoulders back, my left hand usually in my pocket and my right hand directing the conversation and/or casually holding a drink. She stated how relaxed and confident I look in almost every social situation. Even when the discussions can be on awkward subjects, I keep a calm demeaner, a clear straight forward eye contact and a slight smile on my face. She called this my most attractive feature. I took her in my arms, held her close and replied "..and I love your fantastic looking rear end!" and blew the entire mood.... I need to work on my timing I guess....
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
😅 Yeah, bad timing for that. She complimented your behavior and you responded with.. a physical attribute? How about going in with how you felt the burn of that lovely and seductive gaze she gave you, and the way she touched her hair... I mean, you already described just perfectly what you could and should have said to her. Just a little soft spoken words, following your own fingers as you gently push that stroke of hair that has fallen down on her cheek back behind her ear, then bring your eyes back locking them into hers and stareing into them with that secretive smile on your lips... You'll get the drift. 😉
The less words, the better...
The direct approach. 👍
Maybe just accentuate the feelings you have for her, and you'll get the physical back from her afterwards, from the feelings you arouse in her. Unless it's directly on topic, accentuating a woman's physical attributes may be something a man likes to hear, but a woman...?
Taking the lead in a non arrogant way works very well in most situations. They like when I pick where to eat, what time we will meet, etc... They like decisiveness. It gives them a sense of your competency. You always have a plan, even if it's improvised.
Except when you are in a relationship with a controlling woman who resents being left out of the decision making.
These are great tips - thank you.
Sometimes I will be doing something and my girlfriend will ask if she can help. I usually say "no thanks" but sometimes I say (half joke, half serious) "you bet, keep sitting there looking pretty for me." That *really* makes her light up, lol.
Love it!
I use a variation of this. I say "You're already doing it" and give her a sly smile.
Only Americans say 'you bet!'. And why do they say that? You bet.....your bottom dollar? perhaps it's short for that, or you can bet on it etc.
@luker1hutcher315 every culture has its own idioms, axioms, and slang. Couldn't tell you why Americans say "you bet" or "you betcha". Ask the Google.
I've been using an expensive conditioner on my back hair. It's so bouncy and supple now. I'm sure this will attract the girls for sure.
Best belly laugh I’ve had in ages!!
And if not you can always use it to make a rope like captain sparrow lol
@@Herbie11 🤣🤣
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Anna, if you haven't heard this yet today, you rock. Keep putting out the content, it's good, useful, timely, and so badly needed.
1) Hand over your head
2) Stroke your beard
3) Look at her as if you know her secret (tilt head, lean back, nod head etc)
4) Lift heavy things
5) Pull her to you or hug from behind
6) Squeeze hand and lead
7) Hold her face before kissing
8) Box her against the wall
9) Toss her in the bed
10) Don't have tech neck
11) Park your car old fashioned way looking back
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Thanks, dude! You saved me some precious minutes of my life time! 👍🏻
Stupidity
Police will be knocking on your door next day if u do some of those.
Why are you repeating what you've just watched?
Slouching is surprisingly effective at keeping women away, so is always glaring angrily forward with a really convincing scowl and not even acknowledging them with a glance when passing by. I've been relying on it for years. Solitude is addictive.
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I find my "Dedicated to Poverty" T-shirt does the same without having to do the work of slouching. If they still come in & shoot their shot, I talk about how I am 30 years in to my vow of giving all to Charity. Works, without having to work.
If you really don't want feminine attention {unusual btw} then act haughty.
@@Vivungisport Not necessarily. Some (haughty) women perceive it as attractive, it probably reminds them of their 'hard to get' game.
@@wayneanderson8034 you can also tell them you're a men's rights activist
I am short bald and ugly ...women are not really interested in me until they see my wallet....then all of s sudden I see the lips move,the hips swing and they touch their hair...😅
That must be quite the impressive wallet... haha
It's not like real winner man....ignore them
im glad ive been single and lonely all these years mate
@@josephcook9985 they can see my wallet but that's all.....
@@robpet4424 hey whatever it takes lol
These are some VERY observant tips about us guys. One thing I do (because when I was young my mother told me that my dad did this, and I could tell she was impressed with his masculinity - in the way he walked. He had very strong legs - a former bicycling champion - and he swaggered - just barely perceptibly - just a jaunty stride that showed his confidence, sure-footedness, and strength. So, being kind of strong, myself, I walk with a strong stride, with my head up, looking around as I walk. Nothing says "Loser" like some dude always looking down in front of him as he walks. Walk with head up, looking around, ready for action if necessary.
100%!
In the British military, we were taught to march with a swagger.
It demonstrates our "we don't give a ****, we will **** you up" attitude.
DANG! I trained myself to walk looking down a lot cause I almost got bit by rattlesnakes twice now lol
I prefer the walk that you mention but unfortunately, in my town I could step in/on something horrible.
With potholes in English you need to look down or you fall on your face
True story.
I was genophobic for years, due to experiencing sexual abuse by girls as a teenager, believing that if I touched a woman I'd be an abuser.
I finally meet the wonderful lady who I'm now married to.
What were the two words that utterly ended my genuphobia, what was the thing she said that finally told me that she wanted me and we needed to be together?
"carry me."
I’m so happy for you that you found your one! 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thanks a lot.
I can't pretend it's easy, especially in the current massively misandrist climate, but yes! My lady is wonderful!
I did not realise or appreciate I was a man until I met her, then again she is tiny, gentle, intelligent and extremely! female.
We both believe divine inspiration was how we ended up together.
It's actually quite scary considering that without her, I might be calling myself "none binary" now, which would've been an aberration!
Since yes, she is a big fan of me doing most, if not all the points on your list (including number 12).
We've just celibrated our 7th wedding anniversary, and intend to get in as many more as we can.
@@darktenor4967 nah! You must be around humans.
Abused by girls when you were a teenager?
Damn! As a teenager, I sure wish I could've experienced sexual abuse by girls. Some guys have all the luck.
As Al Pacino said in Scent of A Woman; "I'VE BEEN AROUND, YA KNOW!" I've been around 63 years. The #1 thing that turns a woman on in my experience is confidence. And the worst thing is a lack of it.
Confidence coupled with a sense of humor goes a long way.
Correct.
Confidence is key.
Also, go to the gym. All boys should go to the gym.
@@davet766 I am fortunate to have that combination. I'm no movie star, I can say I'm only average looking on my very best day. Started losing my hair at college age. Tough initially, but later gained confidence. More than one girl(when I was young and dating) said my confidence appealed to her. I wasn't the kind of guy that wore a hat all the time to hide it; the hair I've got, such as it is, is what I've got. That simple.. Ended up marrying a wonderful woman, a terrific partner, that happens to be out-of-my-league pretty.
@@dangeroreilly2028 How did you get your confidence?
@@ws6206 Some came just from maturity, it didn't happen at 16, 18, or 21. I was close to 25. I had a pretty good paying job, although an uncommon one, as a nightclub DJ. I had to be "up-front, an entertainer" not just one of a hundred guys in a club. Being a young man in the spotlight was an advantage to meet and interact with young women. Ask a few out, a few say yes, then confidence grew from there.
Recently I was involved in an 'uncomfortable' situation with my best friends wife. The three of us were at a club enjoying a few drinks when she complimented a new ink I recently got on my forearm. She started stroking my forearm and focusing her complete attention on me; her body language was pretty obvious. She had her back to my friend and was directing her convo, eyes, body solely in my direction. Flicking her hair, gesturing, posturing.......I had to excuse myself and make a quick exit to the men's. Later on I found out they had a huge argument.
She left out No.13....scratching our ball-,sack!!! 😂
And , 14. Farting out loud
something I was doing for two thirds of the video XD
@@black-square4141 haha same
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Placing myself between my girl and traffic while walking on the sidewalk; basically placing my body towards any threat, even just someone walking towards us at night
Spot on mate, I do the same.
Good judgement I say.
#1 Hit the gym, be fit
#2 Be clean, well dressed
#3 engage, feel confident. Be galant.
#4 listen, be (charmingly) humerous.
#5 eye contact, but dont invade.
#1 is definitely not a deal breaker for me I find guys with Gym bodies tend to be self absorbed and vain and lack personality.
@@Azureecosse that's a stereotype
@@Azureecosse I don’t have gym body. I have athlete body
Well, as a man, I like your list a lot more.
@@Azureecosse Working on yourself is being self absorbed? Lol what?
1) find a girl
2) pick her up
3) when she asks what are you doing tell her you wanted to impress her by lifting heavy objects
tell me how it went
I'm 70. If you guys are in a relationship, get that woman out on a date often. Focus on her like you did when you were first dating. Romance and adventure are going to get you, well you know.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Yeah idk if you’ve noticed since you’re ancient, but dates cost a lot of $$$$ these days.
@@jeltoninc.8542 Oh I don't know. I guess it depends on where you live. In New York ya. No walking there. But here in Nephi, Utah we can just go for a walk. Most women will see it as romantic if you walk her speed and hold her hand. Dates don't have to cost a whole lot. Find the best place to park and watch the full moon rise with her.
@ 4:13 a.m. in NYC as I watch this, you should have a MILLION followers. These 12 tips I sorta knew but you are the 1st. to actually break it down and explain. Kudos! 😀
You’re always the first to point these things out. Unfortunately you now have a lot of imitators recycling your advice as their own. But you know what they say: imitation is … I do hope this isn’t having a negative effect on your viewing figures. You are, without doubt, the best! Please keep it up!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you! I will.
Well, some things are universal enough.
For example, face-keeping described in Kama Sutra long before we all were born.
Kabe-don , wall-pinning of a girl, is very popular Japanese anime trope.
Very helpful advice 😍
Learning to dance will automatically make you stand out. Most women love to dance. You can create a connection...physical, mental, and emotional very quickly this way (if you want). Your problem will be dancing with the right women hahaha. Basic swing, hustle, merengue, bachata, cha cha, rumba, and salsa all work well as social dances and actually if you practice enough, you will surprise yourself. Bonus points if you learn some line dances. If you are shy or introverted, dance is a good ice breaker for you with women. Plus you learn about posture, shifting weight, and how to....lead LOL Now go forth and get out of your comfort zone, the women will love you for it!
Yes! Dancing is a big one, I added it as bonus #2 because I'd forgotten it (how??) One thing I'll add is to dance within your genre! Unless it's really your personality, hip hop isn't all that sexy on seniors lol (looks like you're trying too hard) But if a man is young, anything goes! Thanks for the addition!!
Absolutely correct.
You are the winner MyPOV. But you make it too difficult. Women do love to dance but you really don't have to know how to do any of those dances unless you are trying to bed down a expert dancer.
In general, men only have to be willing to get her out on the dance floor. It IS A GOLDEN Ability. And the show is very good to.
If you are going to learn an actual dance I'd start with shuffle. Fairly easy and a zillion variations. very popular with younger women. Very fun and active also.
@@YourWingmam Damn, do I have act my age? So boring...
@@x-man5056 So true! Just do it...
Posture tip: While walking... Hold the head as if you're trying to see over the top shelf in a store. This keeps you straight, and even being 'older', I see heads turn.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Anna in all the years I've known you. You went all out in this one and did not hold anything back. You looked like you were in you're element. Wow more of this mood plz💯🙌🏽
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Your advice and comments are always on point - and Thank You so much for helping us (generally less than perceptive) men. I'm widowed after 40 years together, so trying to meet women is tougher than normal.
I've got one other move. when talking, if you can take her hand in yours, place your palms together and your hand is (almost always) larger, and curl your fingertips gently over the top of hers. you're bigger, stronger and can take charge, but then you smile and add a little chuckle, then turn your palms around and give her hand a squeeze.
Then why she left you if you were so good in this palm folding technique?
Our boys are being taught the exact opposite.
Half of those things men could get arrested for nowadays.
Men are frightened and walking away.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
You’re joking right 😂I get it, it’s more difficult but you’re not going to be a case on you. Usually I’ve only heard greasy people say this.
@@467076 I'd grease u up big time pretty boy...😁
Not me I’m old school and don’t give a f**k
@@xpresscolourart5531that's the spirit...😊
This chick speaks the truth. Which I love. And respect. But, I worry that the angry feminist hoards are sharpening their pitchforks and lighting their torches for her precisely for this reason. Stay strong woman.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you. Will do!
Screw the feminists!
@@YourWingmam I agree, your channel is unqiue for bringing forth and maintaining the masculine and feminine frameworks that we are biologically made to live upon
And the "gender fluid" people as well, they would get particularly triggered by Anna's constant references to the masculine / feminine polarity, which instead is basically the beauty of life.
The angry feminists love to slag off men and talk about how awful they are and then they turn around and weep & moan about how they cannot find a man to truly them.
Can these feminists not see how they are crapping in their own nests?!
I tried reversing into a parking space on a first date but hit an old lady on a bike. It was ok because my date didn't notice. Thanks for the tip.
You are a very, very wise woman! I'm impressed and very happy that there is a courageous woman who will actually say these things in this acidic "woke" culture! Thank you lovely Anna!
Not just wise. She's pretty as hell.
Obviously you don't know the actual definition of the word woke
Decoding female nature... they can't change biology on us (though they're trying lol)!
@@YourWingmam 😆
Can't you just complement her without your added political negativity? Dam
Finally a real woman on youtube. God Bless.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and my God bless you as well 🙏
How many do I do? All of 'em! LOL!
I'm 55, and our 28th anniversary is Saturday. Due to some old injuries, I am compelled to continue exercising, remaining relatively fit, to reduce pain levels and avoid surgeries. This has resulted in a very impressive physique if the frequent compliments I receive from women are any indication. My daughter and I attend multiple music gigs/concerts every month, and she is frequently compelled to get between me and women who attempt to get my attention.
All you young men out there need to step it up. You don't have to dedicate your entire life to being fit, just develop good habits and work a little every day to improve your mind and body.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Reminds me when my dad told us about when he and my older sister, who was in her 20s at the time, were eating at a restaurant, and a pretty young waitress kept giving my dad (who was in his 50s), lots of attention (flirting, etc). She got jealous. In her mind, how did the waitress know that my sister wasn't actually my dad's girlfriend. She thought it was disrespectful. My dad got a kick out of that. He was a very good looking guy. I miss him.
"Life begins outside your comfort zone", I love that one!
I just came across this vid and had an epiphany: All my life I never understood why women have been attracted to me - not all, but more than I realized - and since I never saw myself as any sort of "handsome" I didn't understand the attraction they showed. This in turn made me awkward, shy and embarrased - creating some (now) hilarious and awkward moments - and lost opportunities! LOL
The epiphany: I do most of these things naturally and didn't - still don't - think of them as attraction triggers!! Now I'm in my mid-sixties and yes, still get "hit" on - and still have the same awkward reaction LOL. My kids tell me I'm a "silver fox" - hadn't heard that before - and having now learned what these simple and natural actions, I'm sure I'll be more careful - or hopefully more aware anyway of the dynamics around me! Thank you for these insights!
I don't know, I have a theory that women know the size of a man just by looking to their faces, and that's what they're attracted from.
C'mon dude, you're not that oblivious. Unless older generations truly are much less "self aware"...
@nirradical I'm not going to rationalize the entire "older generation", I'm just sharing my own experience. And yes, there are people of all ages that come across "clueless" in a variety of scenarios so this isn't necessarily an "age" or "awareness" thing, we're all wired a little differently. No point in making generalizations without basis.
Lol. Ok. How bout a pic, so we can put this into perspective.
@theTimmer LOL fair enough but I'm inclined to protect my privacy - and really I don't need any "score"; I'm quite comfortable with my own assessment and what it garners me! 😄
This vid has definitely helped me understand the responses of women around me, and has also affirmed my self confidence and for that I'm grateful!
What it boils down to is a quality I have discussed with a variety of women, sone of them absolutely goegeous, who didn't understand this quality they have: sensuality. It's a very misunderstood characteristics and not always easy to quantify. What makes a woman sensual? It deserves a blog and not a reply post on a video but in short, it's a combination of gracefulness, movement, certain nuances like the way she wrinkles her nose or moves a hand, a sound she makes. It also can include physical beauty of course - but that's not always a given.
And that's what I've discovered Anna has described here in this video so well, is the *masculine* sensuality through movement, gestures and grace - and I learned how it applies to me!
As I mentioned, I have discussed this with lovely ladies who confided in me that they were perplexed with the attention they received - or some other woman recieved - and I explained to them the nuances of sensuality that I had observed. They all had an "aha!" moment - and now I had my own! 👍😊
On the first date with my wife, I just took her hand and walked her through a park into a good cafe. She always recalls this moment and says how happy and comfortable she was. ❤
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thank you for your work, you help men to find their loved ones and make them really happy. This is important, because women's fuel is Love.
Im glad you're still making videos, and im shocked at how you blew up in Subscribers, congratulations hun!
Thank you and welcome back!
Impressed that you have knowledge of the Law of Polarity!👍
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
While doing these things, don't forget to be tall, handsome, wealthy, and have status
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you forgot money, wear underwear, be alive and don't be a troll.
@@NeoResurected Really? Yeah, women are not that choosy at all. good grief
@@toddjohnson271 dude, she is describing a relationship between 2 that are already attracted to each other. What you are suggesting is completely not applicable. The video is about gestures and postures and movements. Not about status, money etc. I'm not disregarding your comment as not true because a lot of woman are choosy.
LOL! Don't forget the trait that all women say is so important... sense of humor. Get her laughing just until she leaves with the biker with anger management issues. They love to "fix" these guys. 🏍
If my head is up, shoulders back (good posture) and I smile. It usually gets a good response.
Dated a woman that loved when guys had their arms above their heads laying back. The backing up while parking I never thought of but I did have an LTR that loved me driving her around. She bought a new car and wanted me driving it when we were together. I had a lot more experience driving than she did (different culture) so that confidence while driving might have been playing a role in that. I’m an aggressive defensive driver. lol
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Love this! Most are fairly common sense but seeing them listed like this is a nice reminder to be more aware. I think girls like the "shy" guy sometimes because we naturally do some of these actions out of awkwardness and/or sometimes just not knowing what to say. It's funny that girls can interpret that as being confident or sexy. I def wanna watch more of your videos!
Exactly! Glad you enjoyed the video!
always better to be natural, instead of constantly trying to remember what you saw or heard in some tutorial or guide. Confidence is all you need; get good at something.
Anna has gotten so much better! Some very cute comedic moments thrown in for spice.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
@@YourWingmam You are too slick for me. Were you in used car sales once?
I've been with my lady for over 42 years now. I lift & carry heavy things still, and drive her when she wants. That first 30 years was like the honeymoon period. LOL But I think she stuck with me because of my cooking skills. Her idea of cooking is putting milk on cereal. So she really needs me for good nutrition. ;-)
Answer part two: I am.learning to Tango dance. Only 4 years into it. Keeping it simple because of worn out knee and ankle joints.
Limited mobility and agility.
When I do good/decent, It is a joy.
When I make constant mistakes or dance like Frankenstein, it feels bad.
When I watch. I am jealous of the men that can dance with the lady that I was dancing with who has less experience than I, and see her dance close to his right shoulder, eyes closed andcs smile on her face.
Never had that hsppen with me. Usually in the upright blank stare over the right shoulder or worse, looking around left side and right side.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
if dancing is not your expertise try something else
It is not my expertise. But I never try to be an expert at things. I want to be decent and have a good time. Which means to keep at it and find out what my body will allow me to do.
Most out there that are around me realize that I am struggling. When I am bad. I am bad, and I leave early. When I am good and find my rhythm, I at least can be decent, but nothing like most dancers, men or women are doing. It is frustrating, but I have nothing to lose.
@@backyardrailroader that's ok, but i mean to meet women there could be other groups that for you might be more suitable. for example, if you are good conversationalist you can go find groups which is just people walking around the city, or discussion groups for subjects you are very passionate about.
regardless of whether you excel in the dance studio, it's nice to have some skill in dance in order to attract women you meet elsewhere.
Reminds me when I took a few country dance lessons, I was partnered with a short pretty lady. Almost every time I was learning to twirl her, I kept hitting her on top of her head with my elbow. I felt really bad, but she kept smiling throughout the lesson.
Speaking to people in public just because I am present has worked for me. I was on a date once and I made some simple small talk with several employees at various locations we went and she was super impressed. This person was also fairly introverted though. Maybe it’s a personality thing.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Yes, taking the time to talk to people shows confidence, amity, & respect. (This is particularly apparent with people who are often overlooked or treated dismissively*.)
This goes along with one you've probably heard before: Pay attention to how someone treats others (especially those in a "lower" social context*). Another similar idea is to notice how they act toward their mother and other women, as well as how they speak to them or talk about them. I've heard it put this way: "The way he treats his mom is the way he'll treat you in the future."
When someone is kind to everyone, you can tell that they are genuine & sincere.
* (e.g. servers and waitstaff, cleaners, lower ranking co-workers or employees, people who have less money or status, valets, shop workers, younger relatives, less educated or accomplished - basically anyone they aren't trying to impress)
I will test in on my grandma this weekend! So excited!
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I tried couple of them, only to findout how painful the pepper spray is...🤣😂🤣😂
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The sexiest thing about you is that you're not woke. I love that you actually recognize and respect the differences between men and women.
🙏 I appreciate that!
I'm so woke, I remember that it used to be exclusively a black thing that got hijacked for whatever people want to be outraged about these days smh
Married 15 years. This is hilarious. Dude, just be who God made you to be. Authenticity beats posing every time.
@jrcrawford4 what if you've been doing that for a long time but it doesn't work? You're probably more physically attractive than most watching this, so you have a different experience of how easy it all is
I stepped outside of my bubble and forced myself to watch this, your video on 12 simple things... I realized that at 59 I probably will have little need for these tips, married with 6 kids 2 grand child. but I liked the point about posture, thanks. If I may add, it's not enough to arouse people to court eachother, it must be emphisized that this carries along with it the weight of responsibility of a potential life long partner, that if that is not a possibility that perhaps it should'nt start, ye even if they believe that monkies...
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Interesting. For years I was in Commission Only Sales and was quite good at it. At work I picked up numerous awards and had respect from my peers. I would start on a Monday with Zero and by the end of the week/month I'd have earned enough to keep my family in a decent and improving lifestyle and I felt pretty good about that.
My wife never once complimented me on this, but one time I put up a shelf and she told my children 'isn't your Dad clever'...other times she'd say 'I really like the way you reverse the car with just one hand on the steering wheel'.
To be honest, these 'compliments' just pissed me off because they meant nothing to me...oh and regards the Sales career...when we divorced she said 'you lied for a living'...so you can imagine how that made me feel.
Many people see salesmen as liers but the fact is more on the psychological level how you get the prospects / buyers to like your products and feel, or get knowledge of, that the products will be benificial for them. I know that some sellers lie a lot but for instance in the industry there are more to a sell than just a short talk. One need to ask the prospects what they do now and what their needs are and explain how much they can earn on the machine one want them to buy. In my opinion after selling very different products for many years is to avoid lying to the prospect and in the end have both buyer and seller satisfied.
There is also a saying "buyers are liars" and it is true. I once had a kid ask me why car salesmen are always lying, so I told him customers lie all the time. He asked how and his dad did too. I told him knowing that I'd lose the sale. I said "they go to a dealership and say "I'll be right back" when they really intend to keep looking". Of course the dad had to go back to the last dealership...
@@tomgreene7942 I never tell salescritters that. I always tell them that I may be back, but I have more looking to do.
ALL salesmen lie for a living, so don't feel too bad about it! Customers too! You lie that you'll give me top dollar for my trade-in, and I'll lie when I tell you how good I took care of the car!
I would’ve said well you enjoyed the lifestyle of my “lies”………. 🤷♂️🤷♂️
Nice list to know, but at least 80% of these need to have the disclaimer of "only if she has consensually expressed mutual interest back toward you else you will end up with her filing a restraining order against you" LOL.
Excellent! Ive done the hair and rubbing the jaw moves after hearing an anthropologist describe moves like that as male grooming to express their masculinity, but I've also done it when I felt the lady could imagine herself doing it, and I was doing it for her and it drew her to me a little more.
The lifting something heavy move is one I always looked for, but think you need to do it gracefully, so it looks effortless - - then get all modest and not understand when she coos about how strong I am, as if I figured everyone is that strong (I was a carpenter and was well-developed).
That also includes reaching up high for something that is far from her reach.
Another move I have is, when walking down the street, if there's a really loud noise or something startling, I will put out an arm and kind of stop her from walking while stepping protectively in front of her or between her and the thing that may be seen as a threat of some sort, being a shield.
A gentleman always walks down the sidewalk between the street and the lady anyway.
Nicely spoken.
That's... really hot. I think I've said enough. 😂
I guess you are not so young. Girls/Women these days are puzzled - often - when I open a door in the office or car for them.
@@paulrichards2365 what do you mean they're puzzled? How exactly are they responding?
@@paulrichards2365 Correct, I am not young. I was properly educated in the social graces on what to do and how to think regarding women.
Much experience through practice has paid off and I continue to grow as a man.
My manners were a delightful surprise to women in Europe.
Like some American women who have been surprised at opening a door or seating them in a restaurant, the surprise is quickly replaced by appreciation.
I tell younger men - - - Be a man women want and women will want you.
It's that easy.
Thank you for explaining Groucho Marx.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching!
I think the number 1 advice for dating women...is never talk about your problems/personal issues...talk about others or stories that show your quite experienced or skillfull and youll pull her in...all depending on the girl of course
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
You really got my interest when you first explain how men are attracted to the shape and swaying movement of women... because it's true for me...all that's so definitely attractive and ultimately seductive. Comparing men and women together doing and wanting the same thing, but from different perspectives reached a particularly receptive place in my heart... I think the pictures that you used helped too.
Of course, I had to like and subscribe to "all" because I felt such a strong connection to what you were saying about flirting and seduction which are intrinsically natural that I enjoy and respect. These days, I have come to realize how essential flirting is. Cultivating the unspoken signaling of evolution becomes much easier and very interesting fun once I accepted how important it is as a bedrock language to mating that I was sometimes oblivious to while drawn to other urgencies in my life.
I found your content, intuition, and suggestions enthralling and I'm looking forward to more. Thank you ❤🙏!!!
Turns out none of this works, unless you are a good looking man in great physical shape 🤔🤔😎😎
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lmao true 🤣🤣
And rich. Particularly rich.
And if you DO have those nice traits, you don't need to do any of these things because you will be successful regardless!
I'm seeing your humor blasting off in some way! keep it going!
A long time ago, when first watching the movie GOODFELLAS, there was a scene where Ray Liotta incorporated several elements, and it was one of the coolest moves. In the scene, at his girlfriends apartment, he pulls this move where he throws her on the bed in front of her friends, and playfully ravages her. Then in a second, then gets up and makes eye contact with one of her friends and holds his gaze on her, all while slowly moving towards her. When he does this, you can see that the friend is instantly on fire as she makes a clumsy exit from the room. But this scene had many things you touch on: exhibition of strength , ravaging, posture , and eye contact. Over the years I have used elements of this scene when the moment is right - AND IT GETS A SIMILAR RESULT- instant weak knees. The first time I tried this, it worked!( and I’m no Ray Liotta). Look up this scene, and tell me if you know what I’m getting at.
I'll check it out!
I don’t mean to sound weird, but I have a question. Did you ever happen to check this out? I’m curious what your thoughts are.
Thank you for these tips, Wingmam. Some good stuff. Keep the videos coming.
Thanks so much!
I can 100% confirm the dancing. I'm a bit of an introvert and don't have many friends, those that are, are very dear to me. My wife and I started Country Western dancing back in the day it was all the rage. We learned from others, and from watching videos and such. When we arrived at a new place to dance, I would do the first few dances with my wife. I can not tell you how many time I was approached by strange women asking me to dance with them (same with my wife). She always found it a turn on that other women took interest in me, so it worked to both of our advantage. There would be nights were I had those first few dances with my wife and slow songs, and the rest of the night I would be dancing with other woman for 4-5 hours. A good strong confident dancer, every woman loves.
My list is better.
"How to save money and have peace."
1. Never text back too quickly. Women love a challenge, and nothing says "I’m a mystery" like responding to a text six months later with just, "Who dis?"
2. Bring up your ex in every conversation. Especially how great she was. Bonus points if you mention how she’s doing now… with her new boyfriend.
3. Call her "bro." Women love being friend-zoned. It's a great way to let her know you're emotionally unavailable and possibly still live in a fraternity house.
4. Be overly honest. On the first date, casually let her know you're already planning a prenup… just in case.
5. Refuse to share food. Nothing says "I’m not the one" like guarding your fries like they’re the last meal on Earth.
6. Bring your mom to the date, even if she is deceased. Women love family-oriented men. They just don’t want to share appetizers with your mother.
7. Talk about your video game achievements like they’re Nobel Prizes. Nothing makes a woman swoon like knowing you’ve "completed 100% of Elden Ring."
8. Create an online dating profile... and make your bio all about your favorite Star Wars characters. Don’t even mention yourself. Let her know she’ll always be second to Princess Leia.
9. Never, ever pick the restaurant. Women love when you have zero decision-making skills. Bonus points if you say, "I don’t know, what do YOU want?" a hundred times.
10. Wear socks with sandals everywhere. Women are suckers for bad boys, but nobody can handle a bad boy with bad footwear.
11. Constantly refer to yourself in the third person. “FkSociety doesn’t do commitment.” She’ll either laugh or run. Either way, goal achieved.
12. Tell her you believe in "alpha males." Nothing screams "run for the hills" like explaining to her why you’re a lion and she’s just part of the herd.
Remember gents, applying these 12 steps will save you cash and establish a great connection with yourself without the headaches. You're welcome. Like this comment as if your therapist is watching and this counts as emotional progress.
I think you should have divided these in 3 categories. First: things that men do naturally that are attractive to women. Second: Things that you can do on a first date that can help the guy "seal the deal", and third and finally: what you can do with your girlfriend that makes her feel more attracted to you. Without this distinction I feel like a lot of guys are going to get in trouble trying some of these, especially with today's American sensitivities about man, woman interactions. 😂
That's some nice piece of advice and well-observed/
Another great video Anna !! Just a comment on one of your past videos. I was in my Monday night tennis class last week, and a young lass comes to it. She is not very good at tennis (and either am I). She came up to me and started talking, asking me about how to grip a tennis racket. I put one hand on the racket, and turned it with my hand on her racket hand moving hand into the right position for a forehand shot. I felt the tension come out of her. As I finished last night's class, I saw her walking in for a swim in the pool, very big smile on her face. I think she thinks I am a possible partner, I guess I am old enough to be her dad.
First, for anyone else reading, physically showing a woman how to hold something or do something by placing your hand over hers to show her where it needs to be, is a great way to break the touch barrier and build sexual tension, whether in tennis, learning to play the guitar, etc.
Second, re-watch some of my videos on advice for men over 50, focusing on compatibility in beliefs, values, and long-term goals rather than age. Videos for Men Over 50: ruclips.net/video/i89gDuWva60/видео.html
@@YourWingmam Just reviewed the two videos. For the most part, I pass for a good 20 years younger than I am, and I don't want to deceive these younger women. I think the biggest issue is not so much now as I am actually in better shape than I have ever been. Its more the longer term, ie in 10 + years. Best strategy at this time (not opposed to children) is to take it a day at a time, see how things develop, and accept the reality of what happens. As I've referenced "my friend" in past comments, she's doing her own thing (and after meeting her children at the gym recently), I think she is more of a mess than I ever thought.
Thank you for this, I've gotta watch this video 50,000 times or however many times it takes for me to pound these into my brain. I have no idea if I do any of them now but you can bet I will from now on.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Very interesting! I would also like to add the fallowing, based on my experience. woman love a good smile, with good teeth and a great sense of humour, and last but not least. Confident! I was extremely successful at dating, but I’m happily married now! Woman rock!!! 😊
Speaking of love I just love your hair !!!!!!🌼🌺💮🌹🏵️🌸🥀
You're the best!
Just an alternate title:
Ways to find out if she's interested, or just being nice.
The risk/reward ratio grows as the list goes on.
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This my favorite off all her videos. Keeps me laughing and learning at the same time. Lol
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Ballroom dancing teaches soooo much, AND there are often group lesson nights 1-3 times a week. Caution, many women who come usually are married, but they do bring their single friends.
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As you mentioned, all of these things only work IF she is already attracted to you.
Or is at least on the fence :)
I agree about that number one. And it can be fixed even for gamers and some IT workers.
You just need to start being more AWARE of the moments when you are doing it ..the leaning stuff. You can still do it (if for example you read something on the screen (with smaller latters / unless you use the increase font size option) 😄 or you want to see something ..better ..for like a bunch of seconds to a minute) ..but don't stay in a wrong position for too long ..time). Always try to go back to the corect / good / healthy posture (even when sitting on a chair). The main thing to do is try to often have your back (almost all of it) ..touching the back of a chair and your neck to be also in a straight posture.
The only thing that matters is being good looking. If you're good looking you can do whatever you want. Most men say 80-90perecnt are considered ugly.
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Spot on for American & Western women. Fully 80% of American men are undatable. But when they use their passport, 90% of that 80% is attractive. Go where you are celebrated, not hated or tolerated.
I would like (respectively) to do 12 things with your body. I find you extremely attractive. Great advice.
So basically tons of mannerisms I would do naturally when I am not self-conscious. Overthinking really do be a trap
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Bottom line : if she likes you she likes you.
This is , Probably, one of the most informative videos, I've seen on the topic!
Thanks for sharing, Anna.
Glad it was helpful!
I love that to you, women and men are monolithic. That is so sweet.
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4:45 She's got to have an attraction for you - box her in against the wall - yeah, get that wrong and you'll be consigned to the predatory creep zone ...
Listen up gentleman and Men of culture For the Modern Woman The 5th Wave Feminists, I do something they all LOVE!
I don't hold the door open for them. As a matter of fact,, I hold it closed for them so they can force it open to show me how powerful they are. They love that!!!
Good brother. I don't even look at them. Fuke them. I have my goals to stare upon instead of these drama queens.
I do nothing with my body apart from feed it what it needs and abstain from what is toxic, i also do the same with my spirit soul and my conscience. kindness is king
As a man I appreciate you pointing out the differences between men and woman and for those differences not to be seen as negative. Especially in this day and age!!
Simple, easy, funny and straight to the point what we all men love ;) This video is excellent. Love your hair color by the way. Subscribed!
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Women just love a massive wallet.
Just like men go for physical beauty no matter what else. It’s not that different
Bull@it
Looking absolutely Scrumptious there Anna . I’m sure you’d have commanded a Viking raiding party with your smile alone 😄😇. All very useful and correct tips might I say 😉
I did all those things at the same time.she freck out and called the police
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
#2 For a women Power IS EVERYTHING! You must exhibit some type of power attribute in order to be attractive. Financial power, physical power, social power or Comedic power. Very few women respond to meaningful traits (emotional IQ, empathy, intelligence, decency) in men. Bravado, dominance, confidence are what they are hard wired to desire. Just as men are all about "looks", women are all about "power". What can you do for them. This shifts for women later in life, or for the women that has been dogged out a few too many times, and even then they still seek the asswhole jerk lol.
@gr5382 You know itl
I realised an and woke up years ago seeing how manipulative some women were and avoided the users and idiots. Things have got worse now in my opinion and for what? one hour of pussy followed by 23 hours of migraine.
From a teenager's perspective, who does not know him/her self and the world in general, you are 100% correct
Wrong its a myth confident women like A** clowns! Women with low self esteem are seeking in fact such men because they believe they will be the one who finally changes even narcissistic self-centered people to give them validation that they are " the one" and special for such men. They couldn't be more far from the truth. This whole process is mainly unconscious and most women dont even realize that until their 30s and waste their time dating those goof clowns we all know. My tip; Chose only a healthy rs based on trust, same heart language and with the foundation to grow and learn from one-another and to heal.
Great video bc of some comments i like to add; Its a myth confident women like A** clowns! Women with low self esteem are seeking in fact such men because they believe they will be the one who finally changes even narcissistic self-centered people to give them (women)validation that they are " the one" and more special for such men the the others. They couldn't be more far from the truth. This whole process is mainly unconscious and most women dont even realize that until their 30s and waste their time dating those goof clowns we all know. My tip; Chose only a healthy rs based on trust, same heart language and with the foundation to grow and learn from one-another and to heal.
The way you amplify your message at about 0:04 - 0:07 has its own kind of appeal to me ☺. I would be reversing my car immediately and stroke my hair - entertaining video 😃!
Hi Anna, I keep seeing your videos. I somehow personally feel that we both are sailing in the same ship of life. Even myself all alone facing what life has to offer😉. All the best in your endeavours of life❤️
Thank you! Storms, waves, sometimes smooth sailing.. life is rarely dull!
And i almost had to puke while reading this.
@@Dornpunzellmao 😂😂😂
These are all great moves for men to recognize - the first time having a man take my hand was a wonderful feeling and I have never forgotten it.
The best advice I ever heard to keep a marriage going strong was from a man who said - Always treat your woman as you did when you were first going together.
That sounded great to me, we both can always be respectful and loving. Luckily, I did not fall for the feminist version of womanhood - I love how men have changed the world at this time of history and know how fortunate modern women are who live in Western societies. All our so-called women's rights are a gift from good and decent men, they maintain law and order and protect us from those who would harm us.
A foolish woman sets out alone in the world. A lonely, childless woman can be the most miserable creature. All that said though not ALL of us are suitable to marriage, so choose carefully which lifestyle you eventually decide upon. If you don't wish to marry, that's fine, do something good and useful as people used to do in history. Too many young modern women seem to have chosen to be unwholesome as a single person, this is not a good idea. Be useful in your life whatever you become. Thanks for the commonsense videos.
It always interests me that the so called patriarchal, oppressive culture only seems to drive males to want to escape it. Males often seek ways out of society and civilization. I would think women would want to abandon it in droves. Instead they seem to want to control it.
It's sad how we are brainwashing both young men and women to reject the things that create safety and predictability in our culture. I feel bad for my sons and daughter as they get to the age of dating.
"Do women have beards? Not the ones you're interested in" Anna's eyes go left, then they go right OMG! that's so cheeky looool
Anna! THANK YOU for this fab video! I loved every second of it. It shows how women find it sexy when we, men, do certain body or face movements. As far as I know, no woman told us about these subtle things, except YOU. All these tips are gold and I'm familiar with some, especially the look of desire which is my strength.
When pouring her some wine I slightly smile and give her that look of desire for 2 secs. Even when stiring my cuppa, I stir it noiselessly while maintaining the look. This is just an extra thing I do with the eyes in order to let her know that I'm really interested in her. Also, when I move something that is on the table, while listening or talking to her, I move it gently. Nothing done in a rush.
Btw, why the cat is shy this time? haha
God bless
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