"Single Mothers vs Against Women Without Kids," Woman Says Most Men Aren't Trying To Be Stepfathers
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Between a woman with kids and a woman with no kids, what would the average guy choose? Gurantee its the woman without kids.
Hopefully a condom and stop making baby mamas they don't want to be with.
And if that offends you, it’s because you only think about yourself.
@@RedRag684 agreed
@@RedRag684This is the fundamental problem women with kids have. They don't consider how it effects the other party, and how it doesn't align with men's fundamental/basic desires in a relationship.
Not really?
Any man with no kids should avoid single mothers at all costs for three reasons. Number one the father was either a bad choice to begin with or she is was unwilling to follow his lead so he left. Number two women with children are a liability because the children are not yours and you will always come second to her children. Number three no man should waste his resources raising another man’s child and he should invest his resources into his own children.
“I told my girl she’s the 4th most important thing in my life. It goes Me, my mother, my career, then her” - Patrice O’Neal
Amen👏🏾
@@LonerMob 🤣🔥🎤🙏🏾
A fool will pick one
Nuggas are WAKING UP!! I'm so Proud of My GENDER 🎉😊🎉
I'm a single mom with one child. I'm in a relationship with a man who has children. Single parents should date other single parents. It makes more sense if you're in this situation. People who are childless should date each other.
single dad's are in drastic short supply then
@@stevenroshni1228Agreed, there are way more single mothers than single fathers.
Thank you ! Why don’t they just say that and embrace the community why they keep picking on single parents…
@@DiamondVisualDiary I think it's mostly frustration from the brothers that it's so difficult to find sisters who don't have children. Most brothers become stepdads not because they want too, but because there is a shortage of single black women who don't have children... especially after age 25
@With_loverae but that why I don't understand why men keep saying this. I really don't think they have issues with dating women with children. I think the problem is that they love trying to make women compete against each other for them. Either it's women with weaves vs women without weave, light skin vs. darksin, fat vs skinny, white vs black. They will say and do anything to make women question their self worth to get them to compete for their attention. I don't get how women can't see their agenda and mind games.
Women with kids will never be more valuable than women with no kids 🤦🏾♂️😂
Exactly
Her performance would have to be astronomical just to entertain the thought, but I don't have any faith in a person putting forth that much consistent effort.
It’s not even close 😂
@@detroitvcwthe mental gymnastics to even have to create such belief and then to convince yourself its “true” sounds so exhausting. If they would accept things for what they are, then they would actually attract someone that will be willing to accept them.
People speaking like that makes me think they are insane and need to be evaluated. Anybody willing to get with her after hearing her talks I have no sympathy whatsoever.
@@saulescamilla3605 💯💯💯 it's solipsism/narcissism. Lack of empathy, and the inability to not think outside of themselves. it's very simple as you alluded to. They are not innately nurturing. I'm not sure where that came from. Under social/religious structure, maybe, but it is not a innate trait. You can clearly see this on display. You can't be socialistic and nurturing at the same time.
I was single at 30. Many men were surprised that I didn't have any children. I became married at 31.
Congratulations ❤
@@ieshjust16 congratulating someone for doing what they're supposed to do???
@@professionalpookie on her marriage..
Hoping this for me 29 no kids
How many abortions though?
I grew up with a dad in my house. When I introduced him to both of my Childs mother he said I am making a mistake focus on education and getting yourself together. After it did not work out I apologized to my farther finished school and was introduced to your channel.
My husband cared deeply about a woman before meeting me. The only thing that kept him from going all the way with her was her having a child. I gave him/us our first child. This is a real thing regardless of if women want to admit it or not!! Life results will prove what’s true above a persons denial.
He definitely went Multiples All the ways with her. But her Child kept him from Committing To Her.
The Child was the Barrier to a Loving Relationship from an Honest Man
Why do you have a filtered photo
So he pretty much used her until he found what he wanted.
@@user-lu3jx5xm8byup don’t act like women don’t have back up plans! Don’t be on here acting brand new!
But now you have a child and if you and your husband didn’t last which of course you’ll will, but hypothetically speaking isn’t that going to hurt you because you’d fall under this category shawty in the video talking about because now you HAVE A CHILD so your WORTH LESS?? like come on you’ll trippin. So what your now saying is your on a high horse what cause he’s your husband lol marriages don’t always last. Mind you I’m in my 20’s I DONT have kids and I’m a female and my issue is basically these social media people need to stop acting like god and like they know it all to deter and torment and disrespect women who risked their lives to bring little people on this earth is INSANE AND INHUMANE PERIOD JUST CHOOSE WISELY THATS ALL IT SHOULDN’T MATTER AS LONG AS RESPECT AND BOUNDARIES ARE THERE WHO CARES
There's nothing she could do to overcome the fact that she has children... And I mean 100% nothing... There's no value that women can hold more than their chastity
I'm sorry but if you got kids already it's a big "-" A women with no kids has more value, sorry not sorry.
Facts
What makes a woman with no kids more valuable than one with kids?
@@all4right702she has no baggage/liabilities. Her womb is for her husbands children. No broken families and proper management.
@@ebonybelle how do you know she doesn't have baggage? She just doesn't have kids...she can still have other baggage...and her womb is for her husband now...but that could change after her child is born...and who's to say dudes penis is for her? It's not about broken families... sometimes a broken family makes people better... because of where they came from...and every relationship has problems...the thing is people deal with problems differently...
@@all4right702 it’s not normal to bring children into the world with no man. I’m glad we are bringing back shame. The consequence of this is being alone or with undesirable men
Never ever take a woman with kids seriously. If it don’t work out you waste money time and both her and the kids won’t mess with you after. Stay away from step dummy life
Are you speaking from fear or experience?
@RedRag684 alotnof ppl in these comment section just being saying stuff they heard off the internet.
I honestly would much rather people being childless as oppose to just having a bunch of kids out of wedlock w/ multiple BD's. Being childless & not carrying someone else's burden is MUCH better than having a ton of baggage from having a ton of out of wed-lock babies. Just my perspective though.
Yea me too I try to deal with women with kids they always looking for money 💰
Agreed.
And there are many fundamental reasons why you shouldn't, and there are reasons that are independently based for men & women. They're not symmetrical in all aspects.
Me too. Much more peaceful and less chaos.
Younger inexperienced men usually get prayed on by SM. I agree with antwan, just dont do it. No gray area.
A copule of ball players comes to mind...👀
Happened to me years ago
Not sure a lot of times the men seek the SM
They be the ones that were raised by SM to fix broken SM by a broken SM. They’re trying to be what they didn’t have and they’re getting played.
@@whitneyallman8365I’ll be real because they know they can get some them shake them blaming his concern for the kids so he doesn’t look like the bad guy on his way out as the next one is on stand by.
No man wants to be seen with a woman that has children that look nothing like him.
Damn. A lot of 'em are turning #gay because they can't find a man. True. I'm seeing it more and more every day here in the D.C. area. And the cold part is the stud swears up & down she's the #stepdad. Her whole demeanor is that of a dude..........attire, walk, look, facial expressions etc. It's the best definition of insanity.
I noticed that too. There needs to be official scientific research into the mind of a stud.
Studs are the new simp step daddys
@@jdo12345mo #Agreed
Studs disgust me.
Ummm turning gay noooo bro they ben gay and that’s the problem a woman will sleep with a man a woman and anything else willing to lay up with her not all or shall I say ever last woman but most will think about it we are all grown now most men men be on some money ish getting ish done grinding etc we are all grown yo average woman likes to hang out with women all day everyday and call women all day and gossip study shows most women are gay that’s a fact I mean look at how they take pictures with each other I bet u won’t see no straight man grabbing and sticking his tongue out at other straight men at all yet alone be around other men like that my homies my homies but I definitely can’t be around them 24/7 like that at all most women cheat with other women and men be thinking it’s other men and the crazy part it is that’s why diseases are constantly being spread around woman on woman is body fluids homie we talking aids, hpv ,herpes hepatitis etc etc it’s no different fam u got ask for some paperwork now days trust me
Bios be like mother of 4 🌈🌈 lmfao 😂😂😂😂 the story explains itself lmfao
Run 🏃♂️
It's kills Me when they feel Entitlement with Irresponsible Multiple BD.
Yeah they are lost causes especially our races because you know for a fact that they super broke in the pockets and the brain
Shout out to the step-studs!! Lol😅
Comment o the dat right there...
Uncle stud buying the kids Nike dunks and taking them to Chuck E. Cheese until the relationship ends
Lmao
I've seen kids literally call the step-stud daddy lol?
Babylon is outta control
Only two types of guys dates girls with kids. First is the beta and the second is the Chad who spray it and flee afterwards. Most men don't want another man's leftovers.
Four types of men date single mothers, you forget parasites looking for a free ride and perverts pretending to be interested in the mother to victimised the children
That’s a fact
When men talk about our market value dropping significantly at 30, I get that it’s because we aren’t as youthful but also statistically most 30yo single women nowadays are single moms. No one wants that. I started dating seriously at 28. Many men in their 30’s were flocking toward me. I had a serious talk with one and he told me MOST women in my age range are single mothers. I basically was the cream of the crop. And realistically most normal older men generally want someone that isn’t too young and immature like 20, even though they say otherwise. I rarely see it.
After a few months I met my husband. He was 29, not a baby daddy. Throughout our courting people were shocked he found someone who wasn’t a single mom. He said he refused to settle and random people still to this day ask him how many kids we brought into our marriage. None!!!
I don’t understand how women don’t get this. Don’t be a single mom. That’s it! If you’re not a single mom you drastically reduce your chances of never marrying and lifelong poverty. It’s that simple. Every single mom that ends up getting married is simply blessed by the Lord. That is a miracle cause that man somehow took you seriously when even you didn’t take yourself seriously.
I really don't get the concept of trying to clown single moms by other women. You should eat some humble pie. You can become a single mother overnight! It often has nothing to do with a female not "respecting" herself.
@@OriSoSirius unless it’s rape, it’s your choice… it’s called accountability. I’m not clowning on single moms. I don’t care about single moms. This is a PSA for anyone out in these streets thinking being a single mom won’t effect their dating prospects because it will. It’s common sense that has somehow been lost in the black community.
@jazztazz770 I disagree. Your opinion is very unempathetic and one sided to me... it's why I responded. But we can agree to disagree. I however feel like it has very little to do with "accountability." For every baby mama, there is a baby daddy. Also. Eventhough you're happily married now, you could be a single mother overnight hun... that's just 💯.
@OriSoSirius it still has to do with being irresponsible and bad decision making. You can try n sugarcoat it all you want, but it's still self-inflicted. It's not something that just "happens" over night lol, it's something you did overnight.
@@OriSoSirius There’s a huge difference between being a single mom due to divorce or being widowed and just being a single mom cause you were having sex with someone who never committed to you in any meaningful way. This is exactly why men don’t want single moms. The lack of accountability and self worth. I get told this all the time by high value men. Maybe they’re not telling this to you to your face. One thing that will level up a single mom would be the accountability and admission of the mistake. But hey I’m just trying to help here. Idk single moms are going to single mom I guess. If no one forced sex on you then you chose to have sex therefore you understood the risk of sex is a baby out of wedlock. That’s just common sense that’s somehow left people nowadays.
A single mother will never be a better option for a man vs a woman without children. Why should he have to deal with baby daddy drama? Does the baby daddy still have that invisible revolving door access to her bedroom? There's a lot of baggage to deal with when you as a man want to bring a single mother into your life and no one has been able to provide proof of how it is a benefit to that man to take on that role. Unless that man is shooting blanks and unable to produce offspring of his own, that could be his only attempt at experiencing fulfilling the role of a husband and father by finding a single mother. Only problem is with today's mindset, stepdads are only seen as a walking ATM.
Single mothers need to be with single fathers
Single mothers need to pick better baby daddies.
F*ck no. I was a single father and still refused to date single mothers. Way too messy. I am married now to a woman who has no kids.
🎯💯
@@jamescash887umm yes. How you gone drop your baggage off to your wife. You absolutely should be with a woman with the same amount of kids as you.
@@keeppushin6725 I didn’t drop sh*t off on her. I was supporting my own kid with no welfare and no child support. My wife had her own career. If she wanted to quit her job she could and I would support her too. Lastly, who says I need to be with a woman with kids? I found a woman (buyer) who accepted my kid. She knew exactly what she was getting. Difference is I had my sh*t together and didn’t need “help” raising my kid.
That comment about studs dating more baby moms is so true 🤣
Y’all really need to just ignore these women online and in person
I’m really going to enjoy turning on the internet one day and seeing videos of studs talking about “she’s talking me to court for child support b/c I was a father-figure to her kids” 😂
Inagine the owner of a used car saying they're gonna make their care more valuable by putting on some fly rims on it. Then when the car meets in a accident, they find out the aftermarket rims dont mean ish😅😂. Lady, you're a used car!!!!!
She was preaching 😩. Especially about the studs 😂😂😂😂
When you said that a man doesn’t reach his apex until his late 50’s early 60’s, I was relieved because I sometimes feel that I’m doing too much by still grinding.
Gratitudes
You are fine wherever you are, you have a goal keep going after it just don't give up.
At 29 about to be 30 it’s insane there’s so many 23 24 25 26 year old women with no kids that are fun and have wide open schedule to just go anywhere and do anything.
Thank you Anton for standing on business about this. 👏🏾
A.D 2032...thank GOD for women like this who chose to tell the truth
There is no competition unless the single mother just has a whole lot more to offer which given their current circumstances and history is extremely rare.
I noticed on social media there are family portraits of a single mother with children but no father in the picture. Either the man is dead, in prison, out of town from work, deadbeat or already has a family. The point is there’s a pandemic of single mothers.
She's Absolutely 110% True Statement
Me to my husband: would you have dated me if I had kids
My husband: Kids?!!!! 😮 we met in middle school... You were 11 years old!
😅
Studs are the biggest simps
I dont mind a single mother as long as she doesn't have a daughter or a older son. She has to have cheap rent and ebt. She has to have a car i can use while shes at work. And she cant be a basher of her previous baby dad. And we good
Oh my God 😂😂😂
Wow
You CAPPIN,' right??? You just described RAY, RAY!!! 😂😂😂
You stupid🤦🏻♂️
Man you know your level 😂
Having children is a blessing.
Your kids are a blessing to you not us
To you.
They squabbling out here 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well fk it im a simp. Good relationship with the stepdaughter, cool af with the BD. No problems here. Plus I have 2 kids with my wife
Honestly she is right. The reason is from my own experience, she doesn’t have kids but everything is in disarray and she has attitude problems. She will eliminate herself off of these traits kids or no. 8:54
Exactly her attitude is aggressive you can see it
It's Kill Me Women's with Children don't want Male with No Children but got Multiple BD
Makes you wonder 💭 don’t it 😂
Well that just tells you women with kids still have options despite what men say online.
Men think the same thing. They don’t want to date women with kids even though they have a kid(s). All of it is hypocrisy.
@@DebraJohnsonbut most men don’t which is why women with children can always get a man. A man with options isn’t choosing a single mom.
@DebraJohnson facts smh
This is a weird conversation to me because men always assume I’m a “baby mama”. I don’t even have kids. Then when they find that out they keep talking about babies. Something is amiss in this conversation because I see single mothers getting married all the time.
Yeah the ones who settle and accept what they can get !
A regular man with a regular job!
@@demond1818 I personally know women with kids who married great men. I’ve literally seen it with my own eyes. These men don’t seem to be of any lesser quality than other men as I’ve watched their relationships and families grow beautifully over the years. I think you are referring to a certain subset of men, the same subset that views women and children more as conveniences or “appliances” than partners and people.
@@demond1818 I don’t agree with you. I’ve seen many women with kids get married to decent men. Maybe it’s just your environment.
,,,,, do exceptions make the rule? Out of 100 marriages only one
@@bahacho9205 More like 40 out of 100.
Avoiding single mothers really just saves you time. Life is too short and time is too valuable to give everyone a chance. Perhaps harsh, but it's true. People take things too personally when it's really not.
I think this on going debate is so ridiculous.
It all depends on the person(s) a d situation. That's it.
Right. When children are involved it’s important how you frame this conversation.
The last single mother I dated came from a traditional Mexican culture but she was single due to divorce. She was super submissive and low maintenance even though she was top 2% in her career. To me those characteristics outweighed her being a single mom. The issue is single moms that think they have the same dating value as women with no kids and don’t offer much else besides another man’s kids.
Sounds like a rare single mom
That’s rare and as long as she and her kids are willing to follow your lead she is a possible option
Studs like to date women with kids because they can be a “pretend father” and they know it is impossible for them to father a child
Beyta
Where she at now?
AD keep doing the great work most of us appreciate your hard work and sacrifice. WE SEE YOU and appreciate every bit of your work.
What wrong with a man who doesn’t date a woman with kids! That what he wants they love to shame! Keep your values brothers! No simp ! There a lot of single ladies with no kids!
I know a lot of ladies that date lesbians and have the kids calling them dad. What a mess 😅
🤮
Fun fact, you will have to pay child support for a kid that isn’t yours WHEN y’all divorce, not if…also you will hear “you ain’t my daddy” more than “hawk tuah”….thank God real men taught me NEVER DATE a woman with a child…good luck gents, you’ve been warned.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
After watching your videos for the last several months now, I too have developed a little voice in my head that helps me look out and steer clear of certain individuals or situations that men fall prey to these days.
Ladies, if you're young and single and those maternal instincts kick in, go get yourself one of those toy dogs, the kind that will fit in your purse, or a kitten, yes that's it, a low maintenance kitty.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The woman from the Balloon pop show with 3 kids & 3 dads, you can tell that her 1st baby daddy passed from being in the streets. She mentioned that she's ghetto and usually when someone brings up an unfortunate death, they briefly describe the cause of such to receive sympathy for their loss.... telling how she didn't mention the cause of his death and how he didn't leave his child with anything hints at she knows that she wouldn't receive any sympathy for explaining it and that he was in the streets.
How do you know she likes sympathy, by bringing up the next two baby daddies and explains how their no where to be found AND how she's doing everything by herself.
3x3...😮💨
I will never understand why women insist on fighting this battle. It screams lack of self esteem. Never try to convince a man to want you when he clearly doesn't. Say Thank You and move on.
Hope your advice applies to men who are looking for love as well...
@@basemanawakens6089men tell each other this in private n RUclips on a regular
@@basemanawakens6089 the conversation is the woman stay on topic
@@dancleary4101 I can comment whichever way I choose...
@@basemanawakens6089 trigger
What is with this whole thing of men vs women? It’s a double edged sword. Women accept men with children, so what’s the issue with men accepting women with children? The real issue is when the adults in the adult relationships don’t conduct themselves as adults. The pandemic isn’t single mothers, it’s this whole ideology of men vs women, especially in the black community. It’s really sad.
@@patrick106309 absolutely not. Mine are adults and please find something safe to do.
@@missbyas you find some safe to do ,we can be cordial or gangster, let me know what you want to do?
@@patrick106309 I don’t recall seeking out any of your comments to respond to. We don’t have to be cordial or gangster because we don’t have to be anything.
@@missbyas you like going back and forth with men and that will be your tragic flaw , you won’t last long out here because you lack awareness
I would never be a stepdad
I talked to one chick with a kid, and it was because she is super fine and actually has a decent head on her shoulders.
Raise your standards
They are some childless women so terrible that most single mothers would rank higher.
Bullshit
This topic the internet keeps having about kids is very immature too me. It’s all about a person character for 1. And what type of values does and individual have. With kids or without comes down too loving someone and compatibility
Go look at the marriage rate for single moms then come back and talk to us
Please don’t miss the point. It’s plenty of single women with no kids and ain’t worth 2 dead flies. It’s a much bigger picture than just kids. And if it ain’t. You gonna be in for a rude awakening. 90 percent of these internet waves is a trap. It’s ALL about the individual
You are thinking like a woman. That is not how men think. Good character can be discovered through dating but if a woman has kids that process never begins. Plenty of women out here with good character that have no kids to choose from. If I can’t find it here in America, I have my passport.
I have a son and I do tell him to married a women without kids and the women already have kids be with men with kids simple.
It’s easy for you to make this judgment about single mothers, yet you say you believe in God who is the ultimate judge. Mothers whether single or married all are high valued because they sacrificed themselves to bring life into this world, and most raise the children. All of us didn’t grow up in functioning two-parent homes, a lot of us women never saw a properly functioning man even if we had fathers in the home. I am a single mother with one son (whose father passed away while I was pregnant) and I am educated, work hard, and have raised a masculine, well rounded son who is very intelligent, and I did it alone with no man, and I dated.
I think if established men are going to date women with children, to make sure what type of woman she is because that will tell you how her kids will be.
Also, women shouldn’t push the care of their kids on a man in a dating situation unless he chooses to do so, if he decides to take on that risk and he has voiced this to you, is the only time you should even bring your kids around him.
Just because you are dating him, doesn’t mean your kids are, he needs to be the one to decide if that’s what he’s willing to do.
The bible is against kids outta wedlock and thats Gods word….oops
Nope we steer clear and creat out own families ..single moms in society have never been respected
All that God talk means absolutely nothing on the dating market.
I could barely have a Boyfriend until I was about 25😂 Pops wasn’t having it.
Women should never choose a man without there father signing off on the man 🤣
Pops didnt want to have to raise his grandkids
@@frontrowatthefight2531 I still don’t have kids. After I saw my friends going through it, I decided to be a god mother and enjoy my life… I’m an auntie and a big sister and I’m okay with that!
@@meek_toatee2118 That’s good on you. Enjoy your life as you only get one. However, the question is, would you provide children to your husband? Or are you adamant about being childless, regardless?
@@frontrowatthefight2531 Only my husband.
I tell every single mother I meet that I’m married.
I live in Atlanta and it is so hard to find a woman who doesn’t have a child. Regardless of age, race or level of education. Most were never married to begin with. I’ve never been married and don’t have kids but want to be a husband and a father, in that order, like my father did it. Plus my parents have been married for 57+ years. I am hopeful but am opening up my options to find a childless woman in another city or country at this point 🛫
I'm in the Atlanta area, and I possibly have a friend for you!
@@courtneysmith3497 I'm curious to learn more about your friend. Let's talk.
@@brnzetyger okay. Do you have an IG?
@@courtneysmith3497 Yes - @Rohan.Highlife
You should have married early.
I am a widow and though im still not ready to date after 5 years, when i do ...he MUST also have kid's
He's talking about Taylor B and that bulldaggahhhh "the queer maker" 🤣
Take on a fatherly role, be disrespected by her kids, come home finding some strange dude in your bed, get kicked out of your own house, pay child support for kids not yours, loose your house and have her move her baby daddies (all 3-5 of them) into your former house.... How dumb can a simp be?!?
are you saying some people become muff divers because of economic reasons?????? Tell me it not
so.
A.D keep giving the truth family! 💯
Do single fathers’ value drop when they have kids? What about those who have multiple kids with multiple women? I know a man who is decent looking, in shape, over 6 feet, educated, who is divorced once (because the wife gained weight after having HIS kids), new fit fiancé took her own life ( so he has that baggage), underage teen kids, paying child support for 1 child and yet the most important thing to him is still looks. I know because he told me so. He has just as many reasons to be considered low(er) value than he does to be high(er) value. But I guarantee you that he and his friends think he is high value. See men want to use the 1 fact alone that a woman has kids to consider her to be “of low value “ but don’t want to hold men to the same standard. A woman can be fit, fabulous, nice, kind, have good values and if she is a single mom then she is “of low value” to many men. Well single moms are not just made by having unprotected sex. Single mom’s are made from divorce (like this man I know who divorced his wife), a spouse dying from an illness or accident, a spouse being incarcerated, a spouse being deported and then the separation happens ect. Expand your minds men because often times your decision making is based on incomplete data.
No. Actually it doesn't. Men and women have different roles in tradition and society. Society automatically holds men accountable regardless.
@@mrstevejackson100 Well it’s clear that me don’t hold men accountable so how is society holding them accountable? So to clarify are you saying that men can have kids all around town with multiple women and still be high value? How, when now their time, energy, and financial resources is divided and taking away from their household? I know why because women don’t look down on men with kids as much as men look down on women with kids. Men can have all sorts of trauma and baggage and still not be “low value”? I hate to even use the phrase low or high values because I don’t talk Like that and think it’s dehumanizing but since men use it I’m trying to ask questions about it from a man’s point of view. I beg to differ because men seem to mark a women down for each and every misgiving or lack of perfection and so it would make since for men to also be marked down a notch for all of their imperfections as well. It’s such a shame to do that though. So can you tell me when a man’s value does drop according to men? Also what do the different roles have to do with values not dropping or dropping? For instance if a man has many kids and was never married, their baby mom’s value would go down but not the Man’s value. 🤔
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The world doesn’t owe you understanding. Everything you said might be true but it doesn’t change the fact that most men aren’t dating/marrying single mothers. It’s simple most men want fit, feminine, friendly, and childless women. No amount of shaming or arguing is going to change these facts. You either get onboard with what we want or die alone. Due to the ease of getting a passport, we no longer have to deal with modern western feminist BS. Again, you don’t have to like it but that’s how it is.
@@FlowerPow-tz1cnjust becside you a baby momma don't mean a childless guy like me gotta date you. You should have had more sexual discipline like I did, instead of crying over a single mom. Yall ladies act so perfect but be sloppy and evil and eager to argue with men over pure facts .
I thought she was on to something for a second until 30secs 😂
She spitting FACTS !! I went to a food truck event and it was Studs with their Single Baby Momma and the kids everywhere 😮
“Step-crash dummy” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She's telling the truth, some people kids be ratchet.
If you choosing a woman because of the amount of kids she has...you have already lost...I know women with multiple kids...that are way more valuable than women without kids... because the problem aint kids...never have been... the problem is the character a person shows...
Exactly. I dnt know where society is going with this. I met a lot of single mothers with ONE kid and their character are way better than a lot of women with no kids. They look good for their age at 30 & still get whistled at by men. Ppl are going to like what they like.
Absolutely not.. more kids more problems and expenses. Those are simply the facts.
Keep telling yourself that.
This is real cope my friend
You have no clue of what your saying!
The fact that a woman has multiple kids with different men says a lot about her character.
Doesn't matter her attitude , her odds are slim to none , she needs to be an exceptionally good woman and most aren't to be able to get a man of value, not saying it can't happen ; but surely will not for the majority of women out here in the US especially!
Totally disagree with this woman. Just because a woman does not have kids doesn’t mean she is better. And, please don’t accuse me of being a single mother. I am trying to make a point. If a child-free woman is promiscuous, her value is still low.
Donna, nobody is saying women with kids are worthless, all we’re saying is that, right off the bat, you are a red flag 🚩
There will always be men out there that will date/marry a woman with kids. However, for many single men with no kids, it is simply easier to start a new chapter with a woman without kids than to be caught up in whatever story caused another woman to have kids but no man around.
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I understand that, but as I said on one of Anton’s previous videos, I don’t know why this conversation is being had. A sensible woman would just look for a man who has kids because both would know what the challenges of being a parent is like. Also, I have said that a woman should look at a man with a side-eye when he approaches her after seeing that she has a child. Why is a childless man approaching a woman with kids? Now, with that being said, would you agree that a childless woman can bring her value down by sleeping with a bunch of men?
@@donnamcintosh2109 I'll answer your question. Yes, for me it would be a huge red flag as a single woman with no kids but she sleeps around. That is not a high value women no kids or with kids, so I understand the point you are trying to make.
@@donnamcintosh2109 Could I ask you a question as to why it would be a red flag for me as a single man to go after a woman who has a kid? That is my only disagreement.
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If you as a single man with no kids saw a woman in a grocery store, and she has a child or children, why would you inclined to approach that woman? I remember a male content creator who made a video, telling women with kids not to get offended by men saying that they don’t want to date a single mother. He brought up that there are men who are not trustworthy. They could behave inappropriately towards the woman’s children. He made a good point. No shade towards you, but it happens.
Depending on the situation, such as a single man wanting marriage and children, there is nothing wrong with him getting with a single mom. I read an interview that Matthew Perry did, and he talked about not mind being a stepfather because he never married and had no kids. There are some men who are desperate to be fathers. Also, if a man meets a woman he connects with and finds out she has a child or children, he has a right to date her. I hope that answers your question. Once again, there is no shade or disrespect towards you.
There is no substitute for being childless. STOP WIT THE CAP SHAWTY.
Shes double talking and confusing. Is she saying she has kids and made her self more valuable or just flat out saying baby mothers need to make themselves more valuable to compete in general with childless women?
Anton can speak for himself. But most men ain’t tripping if you got 2 or less kids and are a good mom.
Yeah maybe simps
Loud & wrong. Ion know a nare nigga who want that. Maybe accept it but never want it.
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Whether you have kids or not doesnt determine your value as a woman. How You conduct yourself and how You take care of your family, if You have a family says a lot. You have to be careful who you bring around your children. These Step parents who date single parents do evil things to children. So, Yeah I dont thing being a step-parent male or female is not advisable.
I can not even imagine what would need to happen for me to consider a woman with a kid being better than a woman without kids😂
A woman with no kids will ALWAYS BE MORE VALUABLE! These birds be tweaking😂
Not always. Some women with no kids be more selfish and hard to deal with. Be better off with a single mom that's actually bringing something to the table.
@@FairyAxis Negative you tried though! All women are selfish😂 any woman that "created a family" with another man could never compete, really let that sink in! She's been extremely tainted....
@@FairyAxiskeep telling yourself that lol
@@Kirbystare1992 Telling myself what? That life isn't black and white? Things are situational
Oh my gosh..I haven't dated.. in a long time..I don't understand why this single mother.. thinks that she is in competition with a woman with no kids..😢..she is valuable because she is a woman.. Women are big hearted..emotionally strong..many people in one..❤
Single mother's are to busy to even think about what you doing...and half of the time they are doing better then the single kidless mother....
Bullshit
Not facts
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You determine your own value.
Lol not true, the market does
Absolutely not..the consumer( market) determines your value. However, anybody can determine their value to themselves if they are happy being alone. There's nothing wrong with that.
❌❌❌..This is the solipsism/narcissism that's so apparent with women. Automatic disqualifier.
Market determine value
❌ narcissism at its finest. Disgusting.
I don't have any kids but I feel like a woman with kids is entitled to their own opinion. There are valuable women with and without children. I don't think having kids makes a woman less valuable, that's crazy.
They aren’t less valuable as a human but they are less desired on the dating market.
Single Mothers always look good but always come with a lot of issues.
We failed as society when we decided it’s ok to bring children into this world without being married first. I don’t care if you think differently but societal standards have plummeted because of this fact.
Thank feminism movement for that
When she said I have done a couple things. She did 3 sums 2 girls 1 guy.
The only exception which small percentage of men from any where in any world want to court single mother is if she is a widow.
Unfortunately, this confusion is coming from a lot of men saying if she doesn’t have kids by a certain age, what is wrong with her.? Then you have a lot of men saying they don’t want to be with women with children.
It’s not really hard. If you don’t have children, date women who don’t have kids. If you have children, date women with children. Just simply stay in your lane.
It’s biology
Nah that is BS. I had a kid and married a woman that had no kids. The rules are not the same in this aspect.
Just because they have no children doesn’t mean they didn’t unalive some.
In a sense that’s worse than a woman with 1 kid !
When she said... " I Ain't Crazy.. Y'all Crazy " 😅😂
Men are out here saving single mothers everyday. I don’t know what she’s talking about lol. It’s more stepfathers than 2 parent families in certain communities.
Those men have kids, too..
@@ieshjust16 Some do, some don’t.
What kind of men are they?
Finding a man isn't difficult. It's finding the man you actually want that is the issue.
Men that have their stuff together and have the qualities that most women want have options, and single mothers aren't going to be at the top of that list.
I see single mothers with one child getting men left and right everyday . Ppl like what they like, no matter if she have a kid or not. If a woman have one child and still doing the damn thang, she is VALID still.
As they should...
It may sound bad but the furthest I’ll go will a single baby momma is clappin cheeks.
There was only one girl I ever dated, that had a kid that I strongly considered marrying:
(1) She was gorgeous. Looked like Megan Good with a fatter 🍑
(2) Met her at an Ivy League school
(3) She was from the south, so had southern belle vibes with a good personality.
She was the 1/100 exception to the rule, but it still ultimately didn't work out. Very few women are in high demand once they have a kid, from a high valued man.
I know why it didn’t work out…because you’re lying.
@@frontrowatthefight2531 what reason do i have to lie to you, a complete stranger about?
@@jl6523 It’s the Internet. Everyone on it is lying. What makes you the exception?
@@frontrowatthefight2531 i guess it would make sense to create an imaginary life for yourself on the internet.. but i just worked really hard and created my dream life in real life. More fun and interesting that way.
So i guess if i told you i raised $5 million for my tech company, i have a doctorate degree, and a masters, and studied at an ivy league school for one of those and an hbcu for the other, I'm probably lying?
@@frontrowatthefight2531😂😂😂😂 !
Aye, where’s that dude that says “Keisha only wants Pookie. Good men get used” when you need him 😂😂😂😂😂
I like your message. Please, keep informing young kings. Give them the game.
It’s sad that men really believe women with kids just decided beforehand to just be a babymama. Men please take accountability, y’all create kids and babymamas and get to up and leave the whole situation when they see fit.and this happens sooo much. I say women with kids and women with no kids are more valuable than the next it’s just who u are as a woman period.
Your body your choice stop blaming men either make him strap up or keep your legs closed women decide if kids are born a women with kids is not more valuable than a women with no kids no matter how much you want it to be
You dumb asl ,I know plenty of single mothers who were Cheaters, remember you came out your dad nuts,have some respect .I'm so tired of yall baby momma terrorists ,it's your fault you a single mom ,whatever you liked about bro ,you fell for it.clown as
Woman on woman domestic violence is also really high too. Its double the percentage of straight couples
I'm married with no children with my wife. We decided to not have children in this sick ass society.
This lady was told a whole lot of lies she not even a 2.0
lol damn