QPR Date | Come With Us On a Queerplatonic Date!

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
  • Hello, lovely humans! Join us on a QPR date; get to know a little more about the nature of our queerplatonic relationship, and maybe be inspired to create your own anti-amatonormative outing!
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    Welcome, lovely humans and aliens! We are a trio consisting of an asexual, a greysexual, and a demisexual. On our channel we talk about queer things in addition to our other nerdy interests.
    My name is Elle (they/he/she) and I'm an enby and aro-space ace doing my queer thing here in the internet universe. Join me and let's be gay nerds. I'd really like that. Love you!!
    My name is Kaden, (any pronouns) and I'm a non-binary demisexual aromantic nerd! Stick around if you seek to trudge through my existential edginess here in this internet space.

Комментарии • 49

  • @zanetcz4326
    @zanetcz4326 Год назад +120

    To buy or not to buy a cake is a question that has an easy answer. Do buy the cake 🍰

  • @Spooglecraft
    @Spooglecraft Год назад +64

    thank you for sharing this. it's great and important to see different kinds of relationships in action.

  • @amillionnames8213
    @amillionnames8213 2 месяца назад +13

    As an aro-spec teen, you guys make me more excited for the future, if that makes sense! Thank you for being my new comfort youtubers :D

  • @justanothersherlockian7058
    @justanothersherlockian7058 Год назад +32

    Omg this is what I want! I've been on regular dates and found them so boring because people just want to make out (I'm ace and greyro so maybe that's why I'm opposed). I want to do fun things like y'all with a queer platonic partner!

    • @tora3584
      @tora3584 11 месяцев назад +7

      YES SAME!! i just got out of my first "romantic relationship" and i can honestly say i'm not fond of kissing. i'm also a sex-repulsed ace, which made me feel like i could never be with a partner and not feel obligated to do all of that romantic/sexual coded stuff, i.e., kissing, making out, etc. i've always said, for the LONGEST TIME, literally ever since i was like 15 (i'm 22 now) that i really just wanted a best friend who was my best friend. someone to hug, hang out with, be their number one supporter, kiss on the forehead, be committed to and snuggle close. but i was always so stressed out because i thought that could never exist outside of a romantic context. i swore off of dating for a while after this breakup, but honestly, i just hate dating in general and might never do it again. a committed qpr is more my speed.

  • @JamieJenkins2001
    @JamieJenkins2001 13 дней назад +1

    I love this. Until discovering I'm aromantic and learning about QPR, I saw stuff like this as a regular date. I'm 23 but learning all this about aromanticism is amazing in the same way as when we're teenagers learning about ourselves.

  • @thoughtistic5807
    @thoughtistic5807 Год назад +27

    Thank you for your video! I've always wondered what qpr activities looked like.
    This gives me a lot to think about. I'm pretty sure I'm aroace and I've done similar things with people (minus the physical closeness)
    What I tend to say is that I'm on the aroace spectrum when I hang out with people now. In the past I've accidentally lead people on. (Actually, it's more like they felt like I had lead them on)
    But I don't like to confuse people so I want to be clear even though it might sound weird to them

  • @that_tikosh
    @that_tikosh 8 месяцев назад +33

    That "I'm an adult" while driving :D

  • @kiddish5535
    @kiddish5535 Год назад +12

    I just found your account today but I'm glad I did!!! Very happy to see ur autistic as well yayy- but I found this video bc I was searching for QPR content, bc my best friend and I are already kinda doing this, we keep joking abt how our hang out ideas are date ideas, and how we each view each other as "on a different level" than other friends, and joke abt how ppl think we're dating, only thing is she has no idea what a QPR is and I think it would make her uncomfortable if I brought it up. She wasn't an ally when I came out to her as queer, but she has gone through such an amazing journey and is now an amazing person that is so excited to learn new things, and is even better at not assuming pronouns than I am 😅 But I don't know if she would understand a QPR, but I would love to tell her abt it bc I think it's something we both want but she's not queer and I think would be scared of it- I honestly have no idea 😭just rambling at this point. Edit: this is so long sorry i don't expect anyone to read this. But basically what I'm trying to say is she wouldn't label us that way, but the fact that I would makes me feel like I'm manipulating her if I view us that way but she doesn't

  • @FunnestFoxxi
    @FunnestFoxxi 3 месяца назад +7

    This looks so fun! I want a queerplatonic partner so badddddd!!!

  • @missnaomi613
    @missnaomi613 Год назад +35

    That looked like an awesome date!

  • @shykat9188
    @shykat9188 Год назад +55

    It was so nice to see Kaden again. And you too Elle. Looked like fun.💐

  • @AkumeKarma
    @AkumeKarma Год назад +21

    That looked so fun! Kaden accepting fate and letting the water take them looked funny. And that nacho-mess looked delicious. Also, I got the answer: ALWAYS buy the cake! :] (Okay, maybe not ALWAYS-always, but cake is delicious!) Hope you had a fun day!
    (PS: A friend got me a smoll purple octo and I love the little fella lots already :] )
    Have a wonderful day / night! 💜✌️🐙

  • @korgaupisc129
    @korgaupisc129 Год назад +21

    I mean, this is just a slay. Also, sand on the feet? The fucking worst.

    • @Spooglecraft
      @Spooglecraft Год назад +6

      the price we pay for enjoying the beach

    • @evabatten1201
      @evabatten1201 Год назад +6

      Pebble beaches. Pros, no sand, good rock and sea glass hunting possibilities. Cons, might hurt your feet, possibly less shells to collect.
      Sandy beaches. Pros, good shells, soft. Cons, sand gets everywhere and sticks to your, no rocks to collect.

  • @Tismpebbles
    @Tismpebbles 2 месяца назад +2

    This makes me excited for my future with my QPP!! He’s the best 🩷💛

  • @rainbowflute10
    @rainbowflute10 Год назад +6

    I love this video and i keep rewatching it over and over because you're my comfort youtubers. Thanks for sharing this. 🏳️‍🌈💜

  • @orlandocagurangan
    @orlandocagurangan Год назад +11

    So thats QPR was i think thats so fun

  • @noutjeee17noutjepsychic
    @noutjeee17noutjepsychic Год назад +10

    This was such a cute video! The date looks like a lot of fun :D 💜✨

  • @mars_starz420
    @mars_starz420 Год назад +11

    This was the most wholesome thing I’ve seen ever 🎉

  • @Charliestarlie
    @Charliestarlie 8 месяцев назад +5

    I love this channel sm! This video is so warm and fuzzy its just great seeing people that r like me online just livibg life and bein happy :)

  • @evermore331
    @evermore331 3 месяца назад +3

    This is so sweet! I'm surprised by how similar it is to a beach trip with my QPR last year. I hope to do one again this year

  • @beckheorshepls5397
    @beckheorshepls5397 26 дней назад +1

    When your partner let down their hair my jaw dropped. They're so cute!!

  • @SamuraiX2009
    @SamuraiX2009 6 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for making this video I have currently been interested in qprs and more of what thier like and this was a very nice example of what they are like

  • @that_tikosh
    @that_tikosh 8 месяцев назад +3

    That cake had a lot more depth than the first shot made it look like.
    Also #CakeBetterThanSex

  • @Robinlover1234
    @Robinlover1234 3 месяца назад +1

    Should I send this to her?

  • @whysosour935
    @whysosour935 Год назад +6

    ahhh this was so cute 🤧🔥

  • @shani.moore_
    @shani.moore_ Год назад +5

    Call me by your name is one of the best movies ever omg and also the animation toward the start of the video when the person shouted your name was so cute and reminded me of heartstopper

  • @dominikbenz8349
    @dominikbenz8349 Год назад +4

    amazing vidoe i enjoy cool pretty stunning queens

  • @huffysheraton
    @huffysheraton Год назад +3

    You two are hilarious, thanks for sharing. Some constructive criticism: may want to go easy on criticism of the gender binary, it does work for alot of folks and I'm sure you don't want to come out as if you think everybody should reject it.

  • @infj_intovert_nerd
    @infj_intovert_nerd Год назад +3

    I should take my QPR girl on a dateee!!!!!
    She would love that!!!

  • @australiazone3723
    @australiazone3723 4 месяца назад +2

    Wow! I only found out about this concept yesterday and I think I am open to having this sort of relationship! I even feel as if I have had something close to QPR with a woman for years (I’m male).

  • @mk-aka-morgan8386
    @mk-aka-morgan8386 Год назад +3

    This seems like so much fun 👏👏👏

  • @tora3584
    @tora3584 11 месяцев назад +2

    would love to see more of these if y'all are down to share !! it makes me feel very hopeful that i could possibly have this one day

  • @australiazone3723
    @australiazone3723 4 месяца назад +1

    You guys are beautiful.

  • @shani.moore_
    @shani.moore_ Год назад +2

    Yayyy a new video 💜💜💜💜
    (Yes I know I’m late, I’m sorry)

  • @arwynna.4715
    @arwynna.4715 Год назад +4

    Looked like so much fun!!

  • @ands_t
    @ands_t Год назад +3

    thanks for sharing, really fun!

  • @randompersonthatlikesgames4507
    @randompersonthatlikesgames4507 Год назад +2

    I loved the vid! It looked like lots of fun 😊Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @Aliengirl583
    @Aliengirl583 Год назад +2

  • @mansishah6579
    @mansishah6579 Год назад +1

    Wait…. Is this not what a romantic date looks like as well?? What makes it a qpr date and not a romantic date? I may have to rethink my whole romantic identity……… oof….

    • @Peachplays1
      @Peachplays1 9 месяцев назад +5

      Well they r in a qpr so that makes it a qpr date!

    • @maio0077
      @maio0077 7 месяцев назад +5

      These are things that both friends and couples could do, What differs are the personalized physical affection options they exchange with each other, I don't want to kiss my partner or hold hands, just play and talk

  • @Nightmaremarshmellow5614
    @Nightmaremarshmellow5614 6 месяцев назад

    Ah yes my favorite place ✨Italia✨

  • @byttercandy
    @byttercandy Год назад

    „Fanservice“ 💀