I’ve been narc free for nearly four years now. The experience almost drove me to self delete. I have only recently gone to the throne and have given my life to Christ. I know without a doubt God loves me and all of his children. However, I firmly believe that there is no human that has been hand picked for me. I believe the Lord prefers for some of us to walk alone and I absolutely accept that.
I hope you're wrong, unless that's what you truly desire. I'm feeling the same as you with about the same amount of time post discard. If it's in your heart to be loved back for always, God gave you that desire and I hope he blesses you beyond your expectations. 🙏❤️
I’m Done! I’m Fine Single… Find What Makes You Happy! When I look back- I Have Been Happiest Single. I Love The Lord❤️ He will Never Leave or Forsake me. This 🌎 is mess For us HSP! Thankful I Learned about NPD And How from Dysfunctional Childhood it’s been a Set up! Peace To Y’all ❤️🥰🙏
Best case scenario is there will be no arguments, because you’ll be on your way to being an empty shell like them. No worries, I’m good! Told her ass off the entire 8 months. hahahhaahaha
Absolute truth! The Devil reigns total control over that Narcissists body, mind, and soul. There is only one thing the Devil wants and that is your soul too! Abort the mission! Do not engage! Immediately pivot and get out and stay out! Thanks Dave 🙏! The Narcissist and The Empath is a battle of the soul; armor up! Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
@@1010QUEEN7 Bless you! May you find your strength, keep faith and hope alive, and most of all trust in you. All glory goes to God and do not waste any further valuable time as only He can give mercy to a lost soul and vengeance is His! Have a blessed Memorial Day Weekend. Peace ✌️
@@alexanderpapii4866 my exNARC demon has slipped into the church under mask and has everyone fooled, with exception to God, Jesus, Guardian Angel’s, and whom have seen what’s behind that mask. They are all aware and all understand #1 my character even after the most despicable of smear campaign and #2 they all have bared witness to the changing of the personalities. I was simply a fool. Naive to this psychological disorder. I just categorically assumed it was all hormonal imbalance, but I was way out of orbit. When the eyes turn black, the hate, the resentment, and the immediate shift…Lesson learned. Rejected and protected I was. Although excruciatingly painful…I am thankful for the hell I once endured, but the heavens I shall now walk in peace. May you find your peace, live, and love, and laugh! 🙏
He's a non issue. I have cute animals to love and im doing pretty good. I mean Im broke, and not even looking for a job, no car, just freeballing my life right now. And my healing kittens are soooooo precious.
Well Dave yup my narc walked out after 25 years marriage I wrote this in another comment I’m sure you saw it ! 🙏❤️these people leave tremendous damage they are poisonous venom to your soul !! It is more peaceful I’m alone in my home with ,y 2 cats who ❤me unconditionally
All I can say with a clear conscience, is in both cases with both of my ex narcissists, I did my very best. I went above and beyond, and in both cases my best wasn't good enough. With all the trauma that both of these women put me through, I've given up on love (as it's understood by today's standards)
My Narc would repeatly say I was to nice, like it was a bad thing 😂 and he would always highlight other women's good points to make me feel bad and try to make me jealous, I didn't know what a Narcissist was until I came across your videos 4 years ago after he did a number on me, I was so broken, but within days it all clicked after listening to your videos, you truly helped me Dave ❤it's still taken me years and I haven't dated since but I'm getting there😊 I've never been an active religious person, but I truly believe I saw the devil in his eyes one night, it was truly scary😮 In answer to you your question, yes you help people and you helped me.... Much love and thank you again ❤
I have been divorced from yhe narc for over 5 years. I have had no contact at all. He continues to do little things to gain contact. A year ago he started a lawsuit against me for something he should not have been able to sue me for, but through a lot of court errors and circumstance, he won that lawsuit and got a Judgement against me for over $10,000. I just don't see him losing or suffering in any way. I have struggled to survive the whole time. I see no justice or karma at all. He doesn't seem tortured at all.
He will never let you see him struggle his karma started the day you left you're right he took you to court to keep contact and to continue hurting you. Let him think he got the last word. Never forget & never take him back.
Karma is hitting them every day. They are always running from themselves and trying to keep up the fakery...Go on with your life with God and don't look back. You left with your life , count your blessings ❤
I kinda like to use this analogy: let's say you live in an out of the way community, but each day, twice a day, this little train is bringing goods and services to the community. My narc ex is like that neighbor that buys a house right next to the railroad right of way. All the while she's benefitting from the vital supplies that my railroad has to offer, she complains about how slow the train is. How noisy and dusty it is, and how the horn that cries out at the crossing at 2 AM wakes her and the dog up, etc... One day I wake up and see the uselessness in continuing my twice a day supply to someone who complains about what little I have to offer, when it was my best, so let's say the next day I'm like Santa Fe, and I decide that to make that run every day has become unproductive. It's costing me more to maintain the tracks, and buy fuel for my train to keep supplying her the best I have to offer. Besides, I believe she has another source of supply. I make a "corporate decision" to pull up my tracks, and build a new line elsewhere that's more profitable. She then, wakes up one morning, seeing my track gang removing all the rails, ties, pole lines, (lines of communication) and signals. Immediately she begins to lament that she has lost a vital source of supply, and five years later, after the roadbed is leveled, and houses and farms planted where my rails once went, she finally realizes I'm not coming back. I can't. Every last connection between me and her has been removed and abridged.
Near the discard, I was so wrapped up in whatever was wrong with me that I found an online narc test and took it. The results were flimsy, I scored low on the traits. That day when the ex came home from work, I mentioned the test to her lol. I told her " well I guess I'm not much of a narcissist". All I got in return was the dead black eyed stare. Then I asked her innocently, "have you ever taken one of these tests?". That's when the typical eye roll accompanied by a deep nasal inhale came out of the ex, then back to the silent treatment and avoidance. Of course the phone was in her hand the whole time, she had a new sense of urgency with her browsing time lol. I'm just so blown away by all the memories I have, and how she was pathetically scheming the whole time! Unreal, absolutely no redeeming memories or qualities in a decade long enablement ( relationsh$t) . I'm glad that I'm not nice, I've always considered it to be disingenuous compared to being kind. I'm a terrible supply, I'm so transparent and open with communication in a relationship, it's too much maintenance for a skeezy parasite. She has the whole West coast for fuel now,I couldn't be happier for her. *Btw, A.P if you're reading this just know that you're less than nothing to me. You'll never see my face or hear my voice again, you'll never use me, or hurt me again. You're to weak to destroy me, I'll never end my life for you .. Since you're monkeys are spying on me ,just look at the way I'm living like you never even happened to me, and I'm doing it alone. You don't exist and you'll be mightily rewarded for your deeds.
Mine discard me on Mother’s Day, while I was grieving for my mom, who passed away 3 years ago. But Mother’s Day was big for her. I loved celebrating with my momma. So Mothers Day is hard. Was not in mood to talk to the ex. Because I was already hurting, he still poked at me. His dad died dec of 22, so it’s still new, but one day I like to grieve over my mom. He still mad it about his dad. I said nicely. Chris it’s Mothers Day. If you want to be there for me pleases put aside your issues and be there for him plz, he got mad said” I have right to grieve to, I said I know. He said” this is bullshit, telling me not to grieve.” Screw this. Im spending mother day with my MOM! “ the 10 years I known him. He’s never spend Mothers Day with his mom. He’s selfish” so I knew that was hurtful dig. He blocked me everything on Mother Day. Knowing I need him to cry on. I know if I didn’t walk away, it could be worse. He could do it on my moms death date. Or if I was carrying his kid, or at funeral. I’m done and free. Not ever going back❤
It doesn’t matter what day it is, he needs to be on a pedastle, you didn’t lose anything, you gained yourself and the ability to see past this demonic numb skull
This is truly therapy. I have moments i doubt leaving but a vid a day keeps the narcissist away. Well almost. Considering im married to and have 5 kids with her, its not easy. I was discarded 3 years ago and we both moved on, although i found out about ber new supply when she moved with my kids to another city. I found out solely as she had the new supply watching my kids whilst she worked. When she relaised i found out she was happy and said 'i didnt want you to know as i knew it would destroy you' her happiness shifted to rage when she found out i moved on too and was happy for myself and for her. She accused me of not fighting for us even though we split when she lied and toldl people i manhandled her when she actually tried to attack me. Somehow after 6months she hoovered me and i broke up with my partner to get back with her, truth be told, for the kids' sake. Then, we only had 3 kids. Now we have 2 more and got married after her proposal a month after getting back together. The relationship went exactly the same as before but worse. This time round she successfully attacked me for drinking a bottle of pop out of a 6 pack she bought. Got punched twice for that and although im quite a big muscly guy, i refrained from retalliating. I did my research and finally, after a decade, found out about NPD. Im only 36 now but cant beleive it took me this long to realise. 1 marriage and 5 kids later, after being triangulated i still fell for it. She even sent me divorce papers then 10mins later sent me withdrawal of divorce papers. I ended it but cant yet afford a divorce, live in the same house as i moved to her city and have no family or friends here. I just have my job and my kids here and will not leave them to face her alone. I will move out but stay closeby. One more thing i learned about myself is i am a sigma empath, so im rarely affected by her games and see through her tactics but have fell foul to mirroring them occassionally as a defense mechanism, which she hates. Honestly, i do too. I dont want to change to be like her and try not to react but sometimes instictively fight fire with fire. These vids help massively. I have a journey ahead of me but will not give up. I will make it out of this relationship and to the throne and raise my kids the right way despite the trauma they have already and inevitably will continue to go through. I have to be thier light in the darkness😢
@tonyacraig1292 indeed! Amen to that. The Lord is my saviour. Dave helped me to realise that and I appreciate your kind words. Bless you. I assume you are here as you have been through the same or similar so I hope you are coping okay. Your faith is commendable.
You're emphasis on " crazy " is so on point !!! Nothing made sense !!! Empaths beware we are Targets !!! Do not rush into a rebound relationship !!! Peace is Beautiful in 2023 !!!
Dave , first video i have heard & praise God, ur teaching is therapy indeed...yes, God does not want His precious believers to be consumed by toxic narcissists...He revealed to me over a long period that i was married to a narcissist...it was a bombshell revelation...i was taken by complete surprise, but the Lord slowly brought confirmation of my ex's extremely covert behaviour; praise to my King & my God, we agreed to split up & i am with God alone, the one & only High God & finally released from a toxic marriage. God knew i needed out. All the glory to Him. God wants to be numero Uno. It is impossible living with a narc to have God as ur all in all. But God knew my love for Him was unstoppable!! He got me out of a miserable marriage, made it possible for us to split up. Love ur channel!!♥️
I was just discarded because he moved in his new supply and I found out Apparently they have been tighter for months. He got very mad because I won’t be friends with her He said your my best friend and she loves the kids He had the kids lie to me the whole time But I’m just waiting they never last ten years many new supplies but he comes back Not this time I’m done with his meanness and I don’t want a friend that just wants me to do evverything for him
So crazy how you described exactly what I went through when I got back with my ex-narc for 2 days. I was in her crumby apartment just sitting their thinking what did I ever have in common with this person...
I'm struggling to go "NO CONTACT" but I'm slowly backing away. I truly believe that God "CAN HEAL" these toxic narcissist individuals 🙏Jesus would not just "DUMP THEM" but the time has come to free myself from the constent abuse. All I can do is PRAY for his soul and free myself ❤
the message is deep, but it is spot on. Ive got the trauma bond so bad I want to go on the attack after being no contact for a year and a half. Fighting it currently, but I know nothing good comes out of it, and they feel completely justified in their actions. I got some information that confirms what Ive known all along, went to the thrown and the lord said don't do it, you will regret it! So Im not going to attack, no remaining stead fast no contact. Good video Dave! Glad your back doing them again!
There no point in doing that. They will attack back try to make your life a living hell then you’ll regret breaking no contact. You’re doing great. No thinking of them whatsoever. Do things you love and are passionate about. 🙏🏽
@@lj56 Thanks for the encouragement. It is so hard to not think about them, I don't know why! It has been so long, and still I think about them all the time! Wish it would stop!
In the same boat, it’s been a year and a half and still on my mind every day. My life is good, but can’t shake these thoughts of them. I was terribly in love with them and had some awful things said and done to me. This makes me feel like they are winning. I hope that time will heal.@@exodus1314
Sorry I walked off. To have my. Moment of kitten zen. My precious momma cat, sister Big had 5 kittens and they're just so precious and I call them my healing kittens. They're so cute
100 per cent spot on Dave !!! That’s the best description ever of what a narc does like a parasite jumps from one victim to the other . It’s the only mental illness that effects the person who doesn’t have it but not the one that does !!! Make that make sense 😮
Wow this was a good msge. I found out the night before I was about kick my ex Narc out that an ex he bad mouthed so bad, he was sneaking around with her taking trips to Atlantic City. So glad it’s over 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿🗣THANK YOU GOD
Just so everybody knows and realizes that the supply that the narcissist goes to after the discard doesn't always necessarily mean another human being for their supply. It can also mean the supply that they're running two is going back to the bottle while being an alcoholic or going back to drugs as their supply. I really wish a video would be detailed in that nature versus every supply source has to be another person that they're sleeping with cuz that's not always the case😢
18:47 - ROTFL. I know this is a serious topic but that comment was off-the-charts hilarious. 'This 50/50 thing doesn't really work out' - LOL. Masterly!!
I went gray rock with my estranged narc wife after the discard, and my mother and sisters-in-law begin calling and asking me how I was doing. They were telling me how things haven't been the same since I been gone. That my estranged narc wife was depressed, etc. being an apologist for her, while hoping to garner some sympathy from me. Actually, that's the problem, my estranged narc wife was never made to face consequences or was never held accountable for her actions growing up. Family was always running to her side with a bunch of excuses for her bad behavior. Lies, manipulation, decent, etc. worked in her favor during her youth, and so those are the traits she developed. During her hoover attempts, she never once took accountability for her actions. My in-laws were the ones making excuses and being an apologist on her behalf. They, I am sure reported back to the narcissist, and from that my estranged narc wife would decide on if it was a good time to attempt a hoover or not.
You should block her family! I am in the same situation with an estranged narc husband and I have blocked all his family. He also changed his number so none of my family have it, which is fine by me. If you don’t block them, they will triangulate you!
Just keep it superficial and non-committal if you can’t go non- contact. Resist the temptation to say how well you are doing as that’s games playing. I have contact with one former colleague and I never ask about how things are going and ignore anything that might start that conversation. We just talk about our mutual interest.
@@set2achieve yes, although I was beyond being drawn back in, this last hover attempt caused me to completely cut this person off. Although initially I kept a small window of communication open for divorce purposes, the constant hovering attempts were becoming mentally draining. I became infatuated with trying to get her to take some form of accountability for her actions. Mainly for her infidelities in the marriage to which she would claim was all in my head. So, in this last hoover attempt I countered that claim by asking her if she would be willing to take a polygraph test. She was caught off guard. My way of giving her the benefit of the doubt. To which I got word salad and the changing of subjects in return. My thoughts is that she was hoping that I would be willing to put her infidelities to aside, go back to the toxicity, and overlook the fact that I was still completely in the dark about the who, where, and when without her accepting any accountability or giving me any explanation outside of her mentioning that any potential wrongdoings on her behalf was ultimately my fault. Narcissism is a mental disorder. The idea that she thought that I would be willing to accept her back in my life without any accountability is mind blowing. I cut her off completely.
Thank God I wasn't good supply for him. His rejection was God's protection. I just got finished exercising. I'm actually feeling great, and getting in shape. The discard / divorce has been a blessing in disguise. I couldn't see it then, but I can see it clearly now.
I'm an empath, I've always been proud of being a thoughtful and giving person...but when it comes to my ex, I really don't care about his agony and any loneliness he feels now. Narcissists deserve the karma they create for themselves. They make themselves miserable, and create their own loneliness and misery by hurting and destroying the people that try to give them genuine love. They are unable to give, or receive, true love. Everything for them is purely transactional, and about them fulfilling their needs. To treat others this way, there will be consequences and quite frankly.. its consequences that are well deserved.
Wonderful video, everything you said was spot on and I completely understand everything you are saying, I have listened to you for a while and I’m so glad you came back! Your videoes has helped me alot, Dave, God bless you ❤
Great point on the conversations being so superficial. No real meaningful conversations - always silly stuff about how great they are or the other is, projects of cheating or leaving, envious criticism of others, picking fights, or other nonsense. Sometimes a lecture, or a story from the past or an experience which was nice. It can be boring as there was rarely intellectual stimulation or future planning.
It is PURE EVIL‼️🤮I dont takk to him.. Even though we have kids together... And they are adults . I attracted narcissist like flies to molasses but that is over, thank you Jesus I am free‼️
My girl was 24-27 with a trust fund super attractive the younger ones will tell you they’re cheating with who and even send you the videos of it. They’re blatant and arrogant and the whole point of doing it is to rub it in your face. The older ones post 30 play different. Under 30 it’s non stop action. When I say non stop. I mean if they’re only doing 4-5 guys a month they’re livid you don’t respect them for how much they’ve tuned it down from their normal 25-50 (a month). If she’s hot with resources (a trust fund) just think what a narcissist would do with that as a female in this day and age. I’ve lived it and seen it first hand for 3 years. The stories would blow your mind. She was 24-27. My girlfriend before her was 50. Another blonde with a trust fund never worked a day in her life. She introduced me to her 25 y/o daughter and I went out with them both for two years. At the same time. In southern cal. Took them to church one on each arm. They wanted me to go I had no interest. But the mom was a narc. Daughter voted prettiest girl in her senior class at a very popular hs I won’t say which one. Polar extremes. Fun to the hilt. But when they end they’re devastating. Lotta drama. God always kept me safe but this time my eyes are awake. I’m not dating narcs ever again. This last one woke me up.
Thanks Dave for the sharing. I am definitely asking God to clean out any areas in me that need healing, as I want to break this pattern in my life for good. 4 weeks this Friday and no contact but still getting him out of my head. Blessings
I was discarded & now I'm coparenting with my ex narc. But I have full custody & he lives in a different state. He does regularly trigger me. I try to hold my boundaries but he's sneaky, constantly changing & his fake friendliness makes me sick to my stomach. The only reason I feel forced to chat is because our child is so young that she can't talk on the phone by herself the whole time. Do I just ignore any comment that is not necessary? I want to have as minimal & business like a relationship as possible. I have no interest in him or his life.
They are in anguish . We have three essential spiritual needs . To know our true worth , to know we belong , and our purpose . Prejudice stems from feeling your superior . They are like impetuous children . Impulsive vehmenence . They throw stones . Now that would reflect poorly on their false image . Stoning not only destroys , it inflicts much pain in the process . They devised many inventions , they manipulate , decieve , reputation , attack your character , ruin close relationships . Your credit , your position Hurl insults , stones all about stoning you to death . They left Paul the Apostle for dead ! It's hard to wrap our heads around the real person they are , and their false persona that they project They take on our qualities , and project everything they hate about themselves onto us ! Because they are so insecure fragile , they can't be ordinary , they need that sense of superiority or their lack of control makes them frightened , uncomfortable ! My ex figured it out , and began her discard , not me ! No your the narcissist, and I have all this lies to prove it ! Yes they are bound in chains of darkness , ignorance , fear , decieved and decieving !
I stopped calling him 'my narc' six years ago. I never wanted to get married, was with him almost 25 years ... he got married within six months to somebody who was more generous with the money. He died a few days ago, and I suspect she is saddled with a huge debt. I thank him for compromising his integrity for me to learn my lessons and put up boundaries💖
The night she threw me out or told me to get out in less than two hours I had, and 90% of my stuff packed and I was gone after all I did for us never again
Me and my boyfriend broke up because I started becoming physically he said he didn’t want a abusive girlfriend but he put me through so much we have a 6 month baby now he saying he don’t wanna be with me and he not going to take care of the baby
IL bet you find some cool treasures there to decorate your new place you have good taste and are a good decorator your backgrounds in your videos always look clean spotless and well decorated you would be a great interior decorator with your cool syle
When you said the narssist is crazy making, and when my anger level got so high out of confusion, i was in a rage. That is them making me a Prostoe lite at time worse then them, cause fighting a battle like swinging a sword without learning to use it. Some how i believe the bible speaks of this. King david refuse king sauls armour, to heavey.
It gets more difficult with age. The people around them are also older and more clued up. They get more desperate and start playing games sooner. They don’t acquire wisdom with age.
It all makes sense now. My first narcissist ex told me once : if I cheat on you, you’ll never find out. I didn’t then. But eventually it all crashed because it was based on a false foundation…
Dave, does grey rock method eventually cause them to pay no attention to you and leave you alone “for good”? I feel like after rejection/no response and not taking any bait from the Hoovers, keeping it strictly business about the kid, might be working. Kinda sad, but I’m still healing! Jehovah Rapha is healing me 🥲I stay at the throne for deliverance, daily..
The narsisist mirrored me alot it scared me ALOT! He told me; dont try to make me jeaulous but I didnt actually want to make him jeaulous so I didnt understand this relationship at all. It was insane…. he started doing things I did. Like taking alot of pictures, making foods the same way I did, I felt he also tried to steal my personality😳 will I ever be back to who I was before him….
@@whoisuzilina so you think I should call him? I feel he still is thinking og me. And he did make me feel so good also. But still we fight alot it was so intense between us. He told me too that it was intense between us and he also felt so much, but I started reading about narsisists and I felt he had so much similar things that reminded of a narsisist
If you have a kid with someone that’s a narcissist , should you leave everyone including the kid ? I been used and abused badly & I can’t take it anymore. I love her even though I know everything was fake . It’s hard to switch like I don’t care like a robot, I throw up with the idea other men are around my son
You have to make yourself not care about her but don’t bail on your child. Having a father that loved me was the only thing that kept my mother from destroying me. L
I left my wife 3 days ago she found out but I was going to leave her at the end of the month... She had threatened to kill me,/murder me too many times... She started this running narrative that I was going to be a family Annihilator, my kids are grown have their own families, that's nuts, she is obsessed with true crime and started telling everybody that she thinks I'm going to kill my family so I decided it's time to leave this is Nuts
thank you good video but I do have to comment on something you said...that our soul and body dies...when we die our soul our spirit our breath our essence goes back to God and our body our shell our suitcase goes back to the dust...when we are resurrected our soul and our bodies are connected again just like Jesus's at His resurrection....just thought I'd point that out... other than that I am finding your videos very helpful and helping me to heal and let go of the mental trauma....God bless
He discarded me and despised me… I don’t even know if he misses me because I called him last week and I am still trauma bonded, still trying to fix our marriage and He called me a psycho terror and hang up the phone…
They don't miss us they don't love us. They use us, he'll keep coming back as long as you let him. It's time to go NC= No Contact. Block & Delete his number and all social media. Do Not check his social media! he will contact (Hoover) you again but you won't be sitting around waiting for him. Heal and move on. You are not alone!! No more wasting time. I was where you are 3 yrs ago. I don't appreciate being used and abused. I'll be more careful next time for sure!! 😊 I come back to u tube once in a while. You got this. God is our savior and protector...
Funny thing is, though I did not understand 30 years ago, and wS such a people mr. B, I found myself leaning towards being “OBSTINATE”. Why cause the experience at home and work was draining me, I lifted steel for a living , that alone was draining. After my tail was put between my legs like a failure, I did realize was was being done to my whole life. Could not go to people in church. I just thought they would not want to hear it. Deny self. After devorce I was raging mentally for seven years. I understood anger management, but I thought it was my Righteous right to be angry. In spirit the devils workers do walk beside us. Every word out of our mouth will be utilized by him. Glad I do not know my name in christ, so accuser shows up befor throne, and that accused is not there.
I completely don't care. I'm fostering new friendships and got these cute creatures that if he were here he would hurt because he sees how happy I look and he'd be so jealous he would accidently hurt them. I've had an ex "accidently" hurt a kitten or "accidently " knock your trophy you just won off a rack during a fight..... Isn't it funny how many "accidents " Narcs have with your things during discussions not going their way?
@@whoisuzilina every damn thing he did was too far. If there's one thing that flags me off to a personality disorder is people jealous of animals, as in pets and service animals or just enjoying a petting zoo and that person gets jealous. They'll try to be cute about it but truth is, they would snap that creatures neck for making me so happy or watching affection being given to it over full attention on them
@@MagdaleneDivine wtfff he sounds like one psychopath… u dodged a bullet with that one! Keep ascending in your life and protect your heart and peace ❤️ some people are just pure evil and u gotta stay far away from them
true narcissist tend to be extremely friendly with the opposite sex and can hardly be friends with the same sex only if they look better or think that they are better then theyll have same sex friendships and they dont think of you any differently then someone they met for an hour. almost everyone is the same to them because everyone is SUPPLY. their shallowness is extremely draining to be around and it will drive you insane
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I’ve been narc free for nearly four years now. The experience almost drove me to self delete. I have only recently gone to the throne and have given my life to Christ. I know without a doubt God loves me and all of his children. However, I firmly believe that there is no human that has been hand picked for me. I believe the Lord prefers for some of us to walk alone and I absolutely accept that.
My story exactly
I hope you're wrong, unless that's what you truly desire. I'm feeling the same as you with about the same amount of time post discard. If it's in your heart to be loved back for always, God gave you that desire and I hope he blesses you beyond your expectations. 🙏❤️
me too
You WILL find your special person when least (ironically) you expect to!
I’m Done! I’m Fine Single…
Find What Makes You Happy!
When I look back- I Have Been Happiest Single.
I Love The Lord❤️
He will Never Leave or Forsake me.
This 🌎 is mess
For us HSP!
Thankful I Learned about NPD And How from Dysfunctional Childhood it’s been a Set up!
Peace To Y’all ❤️🥰🙏
When the narc calls you crazy-Yes I am because I picked you lol.
lol Lisa
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He called me a lunatic
Simply answer,....Yea, probably so but YOU can be happy NOW, because you're finally FREE of "Crazy" 😊😅😂
Love it, lol!
Good supply (to them) is someone who buys into their show. Cuz its all a show
Best case scenario is there will be no arguments, because you’ll be on your way to being an empty shell like them. No worries, I’m good! Told her ass off the entire 8 months. hahahhaahaha
This sums it up ENTIRELY. The simplest truth of it all, really. Lol. What an unfortunate, ridiculous thing to have crossed paths with.
@@paulsmit5702 unfortunate is an understatement, a tragedy more like it
Absolute truth!
The Devil reigns total control over that Narcissists body, mind, and soul.
There is only one thing the Devil wants and that is your soul too!
Abort the mission! Do not engage! Immediately pivot and get out and stay out!
Thanks Dave 🙏!
The Narcissist and The Empath is a battle of the soul; armor up!
Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
No truer words have ever been spoken 🎯
@@1010QUEEN7
Bless you!
May you find your strength, keep faith and hope alive, and most of all trust in you.
All glory goes to God and do not waste any further valuable time as only He can give mercy to a lost soul and vengeance is His!
Have a blessed Memorial Day Weekend.
Peace ✌️
Bring them to church to get delivered.. and saved..
@@alexanderpapii4866 my exNARC demon has slipped into the church under mask and has everyone fooled, with exception to God, Jesus, Guardian Angel’s, and whom have seen what’s behind that mask. They are all aware and all understand #1 my character even after the most despicable of smear campaign and #2 they all have bared witness to the changing of the personalities.
I was simply a fool. Naive to this psychological disorder. I just categorically assumed it was all hormonal imbalance, but I was way out of orbit. When the eyes turn black, the hate, the resentment, and the immediate shift…Lesson learned.
Rejected and protected I was. Although excruciatingly painful…I am thankful for the hell I once endured, but the heavens I shall now walk in peace.
May you find your peace, live, and love, and laugh! 🙏
Yes
Dave, I’ve been successful with 13 months of no contact.
That's awesome Tonia!
He's a non issue. I have cute animals to love and im doing pretty good.
I mean Im broke, and not even looking for a job, no car, just freeballing my life right now.
And my healing kittens are soooooo precious.
Well Dave yup my narc walked out after 25 years marriage I wrote this in another comment I’m sure you saw it ! 🙏❤️these people leave tremendous damage they are poisonous venom to your soul !! It is more peaceful I’m alone in my home with ,y 2 cats who ❤me unconditionally
All I can say with a clear conscience, is in both cases with both of my ex narcissists, I did my very best. I went above and beyond, and in both cases my best wasn't good enough. With all the trauma that both of these women put me through, I've given up on love (as it's understood by today's standards)
Amen Michael
Yes, like me..... given up on love
My Narc would repeatly say I was to nice, like it was a bad thing 😂 and he would always highlight other women's good points to make me feel bad and try to make me jealous, I didn't know what a Narcissist was until I came across your videos 4 years ago after he did a number on me, I was so broken, but within days it all clicked after listening to your videos, you truly helped me Dave ❤it's still taken me years and I haven't dated since but I'm getting there😊 I've never been an active religious person, but I truly believe I saw the devil in his eyes one night, it was truly scary😮
In answer to you your question, yes you help people and you helped me.... Much love and thank you again ❤
Narcissist are being exposed all over the world, and boy they sure don't like it. 😂
After “No Contact”🛑, The narc can no longer project their feelings onto You; so they are forced to wear their feelings, as they should.
100%
Amen
My narcissist is the desk person at a motel, lots of new supply
I have been divorced from yhe narc for over 5 years. I have had no contact at all. He continues to do little things to gain contact. A year ago he started a lawsuit against me for something he should not have been able to sue me for, but through a lot of court errors and circumstance, he won that lawsuit and got a Judgement against me for over $10,000. I just don't see him losing or suffering in any way. I have struggled to survive the whole time. I see no justice or karma at all. He doesn't seem tortured at all.
He will never let you see him struggle his karma started the day you left you're right he took you to court to keep contact and to continue hurting you. Let him think he got the last word. Never forget & never take him back.
Karma is hitting them every day. They are always running from themselves and trying to keep up the fakery...Go on with your life with God and don't look back. You left with your life , count your blessings ❤
I kinda like to use this analogy: let's say you live in an out of the way community, but each day, twice a day, this little train is bringing goods and services to the community. My narc ex is like that neighbor that buys a house right next to the railroad right of way.
All the while she's benefitting from the vital supplies that my railroad has to offer, she complains about how slow the train is. How noisy and dusty it is, and how the horn that cries out at the crossing at 2 AM wakes her and the dog up, etc...
One day I wake up and see the uselessness in continuing my twice a day supply to someone who complains about what little I have to offer, when it was my best, so let's say the next day I'm like Santa Fe, and I decide that to make that run every day has become unproductive. It's costing me more to maintain the tracks, and buy fuel for my train to keep supplying her the best I have to offer. Besides, I believe she has another source of supply.
I make a "corporate decision" to pull up my tracks, and build a new line elsewhere that's more profitable.
She then, wakes up one morning, seeing my track gang removing all the rails, ties, pole lines, (lines of communication) and signals.
Immediately she begins to lament that she has lost a vital source of supply, and five years later, after the roadbed is leveled, and houses and farms planted where my rails once went, she finally realizes I'm not coming back. I can't. Every last connection between me and her has been removed and abridged.
Love you put this
I made so many mistakes, I almost lost my mind, God saved me ,and Dave, you helped me so much
This knowledge is absolutely priceless.
Near the discard, I was so wrapped up in whatever was wrong with me that I found an online narc test and took it. The results were flimsy, I scored low on the traits. That day when the ex came home from work, I mentioned the test to her lol. I told her " well I guess I'm not much of a narcissist". All I got in return was the dead black eyed stare. Then I asked her innocently, "have you ever taken one of these tests?". That's when the typical eye roll accompanied by a deep nasal inhale came out of the ex, then back to the silent treatment and avoidance. Of course the phone was in her hand the whole time, she had a new sense of urgency with her browsing time lol. I'm just so blown away by all the memories I have, and how she was pathetically scheming the whole time! Unreal, absolutely no redeeming memories or qualities in a decade long enablement ( relationsh$t) . I'm glad that I'm not nice, I've always considered it to be disingenuous compared to being kind. I'm a terrible supply, I'm so transparent and open with communication in a relationship, it's too much maintenance for a skeezy parasite. She has the whole West coast for fuel now,I couldn't be happier for her.
*Btw, A.P if you're reading this just know that you're less than nothing to me. You'll never see my face or hear my voice again, you'll never use me, or hurt me again. You're to weak to destroy me, I'll never end my life for you .. Since you're monkeys are spying on me ,just look at the way I'm living like you never even happened to me, and I'm doing it alone. You don't exist and you'll be mightily rewarded for your deeds.
Mine discard me on Mother’s Day, while I was grieving for my mom, who passed away 3 years ago. But Mother’s Day was big for her. I loved celebrating with my momma. So Mothers Day is hard. Was not in mood to talk to the ex. Because I was already hurting, he still poked at me. His dad died dec of 22, so it’s still new, but one day I like to grieve over my mom. He still mad it about his dad. I said nicely. Chris it’s Mothers Day. If you want to be there for me pleases put aside your issues and be there for him plz, he got mad said” I have right to grieve to, I said I know. He said” this is bullshit, telling me not to grieve.” Screw this. Im spending mother day with my MOM! “ the 10 years I known him. He’s never spend Mothers Day with his mom. He’s selfish” so I knew that was hurtful dig. He blocked me everything on Mother Day. Knowing I need him to cry on. I know if I didn’t walk away, it could be worse. He could do it on my moms death date. Or if I was carrying his kid, or at funeral. I’m done and free. Not ever going back❤
He does not see his mum for 10 mother's days, says everything. He uses his own mother when it suits.
It doesn’t matter what day it is, he needs to be on a pedastle, you didn’t lose anything, you gained yourself and the ability to see past this demonic numb skull
This is truly therapy. I have moments i doubt leaving but a vid a day keeps the narcissist away. Well almost. Considering im married to and have 5 kids with her, its not easy. I was discarded 3 years ago and we both moved on, although i found out about ber new supply when she moved with my kids to another city. I found out solely as she had the new supply watching my kids whilst she worked. When she relaised i found out she was happy and said 'i didnt want you to know as i knew it would destroy you' her happiness shifted to rage when she found out i moved on too and was happy for myself and for her. She accused me of not fighting for us even though we split when she lied and toldl people i manhandled her when she actually tried to attack me. Somehow after 6months she hoovered me and i broke up with my partner to get back with her, truth be told, for the kids' sake. Then, we only had 3 kids. Now we have 2 more and got married after her proposal a month after getting back together. The relationship went exactly the same as before but worse. This time round she successfully attacked me for drinking a bottle of pop out of a 6 pack she bought. Got punched twice for that and although im quite a big muscly guy, i refrained from retalliating. I did my research and finally, after a decade, found out about NPD. Im only 36 now but cant beleive it took me this long to realise. 1 marriage and 5 kids later, after being triangulated i still fell for it. She even sent me divorce papers then 10mins later sent me withdrawal of divorce papers. I ended it but cant yet afford a divorce, live in the same house as i moved to her city and have no family or friends here. I just have my job and my kids here and will not leave them to face her alone. I will move out but stay closeby. One more thing i learned about myself is i am a sigma empath, so im rarely affected by her games and see through her tactics but have fell foul to mirroring them occassionally as a defense mechanism, which she hates. Honestly, i do too. I dont want to change to be like her and try not to react but sometimes instictively fight fire with fire. These vids help massively. I have a journey ahead of me but will not give up. I will make it out of this relationship and to the throne and raise my kids the right way despite the trauma they have already and inevitably will continue to go through. I have to be thier light in the darkness😢
I know you’ve been through alot i have been too but God has delivered us. Amen! 🙏🏽
@tonyacraig1292 indeed! Amen to that. The Lord is my saviour. Dave helped me to realise that and I appreciate your kind words. Bless you. I assume you are here as you have been through the same or similar so I hope you are coping okay. Your faith is commendable.
You're emphasis on " crazy " is so on point !!! Nothing made sense !!!
Empaths beware we are Targets !!!
Do not rush into a rebound relationship !!!
Peace is Beautiful in 2023 !!!
Dave , first video i have heard & praise God, ur teaching is therapy indeed...yes, God does not want His precious believers to be consumed by toxic narcissists...He revealed to me over a long period that i was married to a narcissist...it was a bombshell revelation...i was taken by complete surprise, but the Lord slowly brought confirmation of my ex's extremely covert behaviour; praise to my King & my God, we agreed to split up & i am with God alone, the one & only High God & finally released from a toxic marriage. God knew i needed out. All the glory to Him. God wants to be numero Uno. It is impossible living with a narc to have God as ur all in all. But God knew my love for Him was unstoppable!! He got me out of a miserable marriage, made it possible for us to split up. Love ur channel!!♥️
Thanks For Being Here!
None of this is normal human behavior wow mental health 🙏🏽💯🙌🙌
I was just discarded because he moved in his new supply and I found out Apparently they have been tighter for months. He got very mad because I won’t be friends with her He said your my best friend and she loves the kids He had the kids lie to me the whole time But I’m just waiting they never last ten years many new supplies but he comes back Not this time I’m done with his meanness and I don’t want a friend that just wants me to do evverything for him
So crazy how you described exactly what I went through when I got back with my ex-narc for 2 days. I was in her crumby apartment just sitting their thinking what did I ever have in common with this person...
I'm struggling to go "NO CONTACT" but I'm slowly backing away. I truly believe that God "CAN HEAL" these toxic narcissist individuals 🙏Jesus would not just "DUMP THEM" but the time has come to free myself from the constent abuse. All I can do is PRAY for his soul and free myself ❤
Yup abanded me sick people !!!! Devastating but I don’t miss him only maybe having a body in my home that’s it because I never lived alone
They move on very easily to the next supply...
After 10 years why was I so weak? only took her one call
You had the TRUTH?
2 strokes later I couldn't do it anymore but I feel relieved working on myself
BLESSINGS AND THANK YOU..GOD IS OUR SAVOUR AND HE ALWAYS HEALS US!
the message is deep, but it is spot on. Ive got the trauma bond so bad I want to go on the attack after being no contact for a year and a half. Fighting it currently, but I know nothing good comes out of it, and they feel completely justified in their actions. I got some information that confirms what Ive known all along, went to the thrown and the lord said don't do it, you will regret it! So Im not going to attack, no remaining stead fast no contact. Good video Dave! Glad your back doing them again!
There no point in doing that. They will attack back try to make your life a living hell then you’ll regret breaking no contact. You’re doing great. No thinking of them whatsoever. Do things you love and are passionate about. 🙏🏽
@@lj56 Thanks for the encouragement. It is so hard to not think about them, I don't know why! It has been so long, and still I think about them all the time! Wish it would stop!
@@jayflysession6753 thank you.
In the same boat, it’s been a year and a half and still on my mind every day. My life is good, but can’t shake these thoughts of them. I was terribly in love with them and had some awful things said and done to me. This makes me feel like they are winning. I hope that time will heal.@@exodus1314
Sorry I walked off. To have my. Moment of kitten zen.
My precious momma cat, sister Big had 5 kittens and they're just so precious and I call them my healing kittens.
They're so cute
100 per cent spot on Dave !!! That’s the best description ever of what a narc does like a parasite jumps from one victim to the other . It’s the only mental illness that effects the person who doesn’t have it but not the one that does !!! Make that make sense 😮
Wow this was a good msge. I found out the night before I was about kick my ex Narc out that an ex he bad mouthed so bad, he was sneaking around with her taking trips to Atlantic City. So glad it’s over 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿🗣THANK YOU GOD
Dave's knowledge is spot on as per the usual 👌 👏 👍 🙌
Thank You Nick
This is a very good post, Dave. Well done with this. Thank you.
Just so everybody knows and realizes that the supply that the narcissist goes to after the discard doesn't always necessarily mean another human being for their supply. It can also mean the supply that they're running two is going back to the bottle while being an alcoholic or going back to drugs as their supply. I really wish a video would be detailed in that nature versus every supply source has to be another person that they're sleeping with cuz that's not always the case😢
18:47 - ROTFL. I know this is a serious topic but that comment was off-the-charts hilarious. 'This 50/50 thing doesn't really work out' - LOL. Masterly!!
I went gray rock with my estranged narc wife after the discard, and my mother and sisters-in-law begin calling and asking me how I was doing. They were telling me how things haven't been the same since I been gone. That my estranged narc wife was depressed, etc. being an apologist for her, while hoping to garner some sympathy from me. Actually, that's the problem, my estranged narc wife was never made to face consequences or was never held accountable for her actions growing up. Family was always running to her side with a bunch of excuses for her bad behavior. Lies, manipulation, decent, etc. worked in her favor during her youth, and so those are the traits she developed. During her hoover attempts, she never once took accountability for her actions. My in-laws were the ones making excuses and being an apologist on her behalf. They, I am sure reported back to the narcissist, and from that my estranged narc wife would decide on if it was a good time to attempt a hoover or not.
You should block her family! I am in the same situation with an estranged narc husband and I have blocked all his family. He also changed his number so none of my family have it, which is fine by me. If you don’t block them, they will triangulate you!
Just keep it superficial and non-committal if you can’t go non- contact.
Resist the temptation to say how well you are doing as that’s games playing.
I have contact with one former colleague and I never ask about how things are going and ignore anything that might start that conversation. We just talk about our mutual interest.
@@set2achieve yes, although I was beyond being drawn back in, this last hover attempt caused me to completely cut this person off. Although initially I kept a small window of communication open for divorce purposes, the constant hovering attempts were becoming mentally draining. I became infatuated with trying to get her to take some form of accountability for her actions. Mainly for her infidelities in the marriage to which she would claim was all in my head. So, in this last hoover attempt I countered that claim by asking her if she would be willing to take a polygraph test. She was caught off guard. My way of giving her the benefit of the doubt. To which I got word salad and the changing of subjects in return. My thoughts is that she was hoping that I would be willing to put her infidelities to aside, go back to the toxicity, and overlook the fact that I was still completely in the dark about the who, where, and when without her accepting any accountability or giving me any explanation outside of her mentioning that any potential wrongdoings on her behalf was ultimately my fault. Narcissism is a mental disorder. The idea that she thought that I would be willing to accept her back in my life without any accountability is mind blowing. I cut her off completely.
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Thank God I wasn't good supply for him. His rejection was God's protection. I just got finished exercising. I'm actually feeling great, and getting in shape. The discard / divorce has been a blessing in disguise. I couldn't see it then, but I can see it clearly now.
Oh! 😳 This is a long video this has to be a good one! What's up Dave! ❤️
I'm an empath, I've always been proud of being a thoughtful and giving person...but when it comes to my ex, I really don't care about his agony and any loneliness he feels now. Narcissists deserve the karma they create for themselves.
They make themselves miserable, and create their own loneliness and misery by hurting and destroying the people that try to give them genuine love.
They are unable to give, or receive, true love. Everything for them is purely transactional, and about them fulfilling their needs. To treat others this way, there will be consequences and quite frankly.. its consequences that are well deserved.
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Great Message Dave!
Yes- God Is True ❤️ Love!
Thanks to you I kicked her A** from 1 side of the ring to the other. Pillar to post Dave, Pillar to post.....lol
Dave breaks down the hobgoblin schematics and blueprints....
Wonderful video, everything you said was spot on and I completely understand everything you are saying, I have listened to you for a while and I’m so glad you came back! Your videoes has helped me alot, Dave, God bless you ❤
Thanks Dave 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
You're welcome Shirl
Thanks!
Thank You Miss Janee!
@@Narcologyunscripted you're most welcome. I wish it was 5K, lol
Dave, you are the best. Keep lifting up christ.
Will do Brother! Thank You
I discarded him...he's still trying to come back to cause trouble. Sick and tired of this guy and his BS. 🤨
Thx Dave. Amen.
All that glitters is not gold.
Great point on the conversations being so superficial. No real meaningful conversations - always silly stuff about how great they are or the other is, projects of cheating or leaving, envious criticism of others, picking fights, or other nonsense. Sometimes a lecture, or a story from the past or an experience which was nice. It can be boring as there was rarely intellectual stimulation or future planning.
It is PURE EVIL‼️🤮I dont takk to him.. Even though we have kids together... And they are adults . I attracted narcissist like flies to molasses but that is over, thank you Jesus I am free‼️
I was calling her out for her manipulations and she was saying I was insane and a weirdo for questioning her cheating on me
Dave is absolutely on fire 🔥
Love the truth and the energy. Thank you for helping me.
Well, it is agony for me doing no contact with my adult daughter but agony if in contact.
How could I have not seen it earlier. Then I guess it only took six weeks to go “what the f is going on here!” The end of that!
My girl was 24-27 with a trust fund super attractive the younger ones will tell you they’re cheating with who and even send you the videos of it. They’re blatant and arrogant and the whole point of doing it is to rub it in your face. The older ones post 30 play different. Under 30 it’s non stop action. When I say non stop. I mean if they’re only doing 4-5 guys a month they’re livid you don’t respect them for how much they’ve tuned it down from their normal 25-50 (a month). If she’s hot with resources (a trust fund) just think what a narcissist would do with that as a female in this day and age. I’ve lived it and seen it first hand for 3 years. The stories would blow your mind. She was 24-27. My girlfriend before her was 50. Another blonde with a trust fund never worked a day in her life. She introduced me to her 25 y/o daughter and I went out with them both for two years. At the same time. In southern cal. Took them to church one on each arm. They wanted me to go I had no interest. But the mom was a narc. Daughter voted prettiest girl in her senior class at a very popular hs I won’t say which one. Polar extremes. Fun to the hilt. But when they end they’re devastating. Lotta drama. God always kept me safe but this time my eyes are awake. I’m not dating narcs ever again. This last one woke me up.
You dated (and had sex with both?) a mother and daughter for two years? That's sick.
Thanks Dave for the sharing. I am definitely asking God to clean out any areas in me that need healing, as I want to break this pattern in my life for good. 4 weeks this Friday and no contact but still getting him out of my head. Blessings
Happy Wednesday Dave🎉
Happy Hump Day!
Yes! You are totally helping ♡
I was discarded & now I'm coparenting with my ex narc. But I have full custody & he lives in a different state. He does regularly trigger me. I try to hold my boundaries but he's sneaky, constantly changing & his fake friendliness makes me sick to my stomach. The only reason I feel forced to chat is because our child is so young that she can't talk on the phone by herself the whole time. Do I just ignore any comment that is not necessary? I want to have as minimal & business like a relationship as possible. I have no interest in him or his life.
They are in anguish . We have three essential spiritual needs . To know our true worth , to know we belong , and our purpose . Prejudice stems from feeling your superior . They are like impetuous children . Impulsive vehmenence . They throw stones . Now that would reflect poorly on their false image . Stoning not only destroys , it inflicts much pain in the process . They devised many inventions , they manipulate , decieve , reputation , attack your character , ruin close relationships . Your credit , your position Hurl insults , stones all about stoning you to death . They left Paul the Apostle for dead ! It's hard to wrap our heads around the real person they are , and their false persona that they project They take on our qualities , and project everything they hate about themselves onto us ! Because they are so insecure fragile , they can't be ordinary , they need that sense of superiority or their lack of control makes them frightened , uncomfortable ! My ex figured it out , and began her discard , not me ! No your the narcissist, and I have all this lies to prove it ! Yes they are bound in chains of darkness , ignorance , fear , decieved and decieving !
If you've ever seen Trailer Park Boys, I'm like Julian with the drink but mine is coffee. I could kung fu a narc and not spill a drop. 😂
lol
I stopped calling him 'my narc' six years ago. I never wanted to get married, was with him almost 25 years ... he got married within six months to somebody who was more generous with the money. He died a few days ago, and I suspect she is saddled with a huge debt.
I thank him for compromising his integrity for me to learn my lessons and put up boundaries💖
Did you move to Nashville from new mexico hows Nashville treating you ive heard its nice
I love it Nick!
DAVE you are doing GREAT.
The night she threw me out or told me to get out in less than two hours I had, and 90% of my stuff packed and I was gone after all I did for us never again
Me and my boyfriend broke up because I started becoming physically he said he didn’t want a abusive girlfriend but he put me through so much we have a 6 month baby now he saying he don’t wanna be with me and he not going to take care of the baby
U r helping me!!!
So glad!
My narc likes raiding the fridge boy can she EAT but they never stop I guess
Have you been to the American pickers antique store in Nashville yet
No Nick, but I would love to check that out!
IL bet you find some cool treasures there to decorate your new place you have good taste and are a good decorator your backgrounds in your videos always look clean spotless and well decorated you would be a great interior decorator with your cool syle
When you said the narssist is crazy making, and when my anger level got so high out of confusion, i was in a rage. That is them making me a Prostoe lite at time worse then them, cause fighting a battle like swinging a sword without learning to use it.
Some how i believe the bible speaks of this. King david refuse king sauls armour, to heavey.
When he started the deval i started mirroring him he lost his mind than discarded me
They will find new supply or supplies quickly because they dont feel the deep emotions like u do. Divorse cause agony to most people tho.
It gets more difficult with age. The people around them are also older and more clued up. They get more desperate and start playing games sooner. They don’t acquire wisdom with age.
I agree 100%
It all makes sense now. My first narcissist ex told me once :
if I cheat on you, you’ll never find out. I didn’t then. But eventually it all crashed because it was based on a false foundation…
Really good session
Dave, does grey rock method eventually cause them to pay no attention to you and leave you alone “for good”? I feel like after rejection/no response and not taking any bait from the Hoovers, keeping it strictly business about the kid, might be working. Kinda sad, but I’m still healing! Jehovah Rapha is healing me 🥲I stay at the throne for deliverance, daily..
YES
Your amazing
Beautiful! 🎉
100% true about australia
I love your videos . Hope one day you come to la ca so i can meet you. Thanks for the great info Dave
I just stopped by to give a like as your videos have helped me
Im so glad Stephen!
The narsisist mirrored me alot it scared me ALOT! He told me; dont try to make me jeaulous but I didnt actually want to make him jeaulous so I didnt understand this relationship at all. It was insane…. he started doing things I did. Like taking alot of pictures, making foods the same way I did, I felt he also tried to steal my personality😳 will I ever be back to who I was before him….
what if he just liked you and the way you did things?
@@whoisuzilina so you think I should call him? I feel he still is thinking og me. And he did make me feel so good also. But still we fight alot it was so intense between us. He told me too that it was intense between us and he also felt so much, but I started reading about narsisists and I felt he had so much similar things that reminded of a narsisist
If you have a kid with someone that’s a narcissist , should you leave everyone including the kid ? I been used and abused badly & I can’t take it anymore. I love her even though I know everything was fake . It’s hard to switch like I don’t care like a robot, I throw up with the idea other men are around my son
You have to make yourself not care about her but don’t bail on your child. Having a father that loved me was the only thing that kept my mother from destroying me. L
@@heavyweight1028 I’m hanging in there , but damn this process is tuff smh
I’ll keep you in my prayers.
@@heavyweight1028 💯💯💯💯
Im in this situation now got 2kids with the narc wench. I applied for joint physical custody n wont need to have any contact wit her. Went nc mths ago
BRILLIANT CONTENT!!!
I left my wife 3 days ago she found out but I was going to leave her at the end of the month... She had threatened to kill me,/murder me too many times... She started this running narrative that I was going to be a family Annihilator, my kids are grown have their own families, that's nuts, she is obsessed with true crime and started telling everybody that she thinks I'm going to kill my family so I decided it's time to leave this is Nuts
Facts 😎❤️💫
thank you good video but I do have to comment on something you said...that our soul and body dies...when we die our soul our spirit our breath our essence goes back to God and our body our shell our suitcase goes back to the dust...when we are resurrected our soul and our bodies are connected again just like Jesus's at His resurrection....just thought I'd point that out...
other than that I am finding your videos very helpful and helping me to heal and let go of the mental trauma....God bless
Good!!!
He discarded me and despised me… I don’t even know if he misses me because I called him last week and I am still trauma bonded, still trying to fix our marriage and He called me a psycho terror and hang up the phone…
Please stop traumatizing yourself. Walk away. Most likely, he enjoys you chasing him & will use it against you.
They don't miss us they don't love us. They use us, he'll keep coming back as long as you let him. It's time to go NC= No Contact. Block & Delete his number and all social media. Do Not check his social media! he will contact (Hoover) you again but you won't be sitting around waiting for him. Heal and move on. You are not alone!! No more wasting time. I was where you are 3 yrs ago. I don't appreciate being used and abused. I'll be more careful next time for sure!! 😊 I come back to u tube once in a while. You got this. God is our savior and protector...
Funny thing is, though I did not understand 30 years ago, and wS such a people mr. B, I found myself leaning towards being “OBSTINATE”.
Why cause the experience at home and work was draining me, I lifted steel for a living , that alone was draining.
After my tail was put between my legs like a failure, I did realize was was being done to my whole life.
Could not go to people in church. I just thought they would not want to hear it.
Deny self.
After devorce I was raging mentally for seven years. I understood anger management, but I thought it was my Righteous right to be angry.
In spirit the devils workers do walk beside us.
Every word out of our mouth will be utilized by him.
Glad I do not know my name in christ, so accuser shows up befor throne, and that accused is not there.
You live in Nashville? I live in Spring Hill do you know of any support groups in the area i can meet?
I completely don't care. I'm fostering new friendships and got these cute creatures that if he were here he would hurt because he sees how happy I look and he'd be so jealous he would accidently hurt them.
I've had an ex "accidently" hurt a kitten or "accidently " knock your trophy you just won off a rack during a fight.....
Isn't it funny how many "accidents " Narcs have with your things during discussions not going their way?
Oh hurting the kitten’s too far
@@whoisuzilina every damn thing he did was too far. If there's one thing that flags me off to a personality disorder is people jealous of animals, as in pets and service animals or just enjoying a petting zoo and that person gets jealous. They'll try to be cute about it but truth is, they would snap that creatures neck for making me so happy or watching affection being given to it over full attention on them
@@MagdaleneDivine wtfff he sounds like one psychopath… u dodged a bullet with that one! Keep ascending in your life and protect your heart and peace ❤️ some people are just pure evil and u gotta stay far away from them
Can someone please address the overt narcissist turning into a covert narcissist I feel they watch learn to perfect their deception
Dave - Did you ever watch The Little Shaman here on RUclips when you were in your research marathon? What is your take?
I remember the name so yes most likely, but I really can't say for sure.
true narcissist tend to be extremely friendly with the opposite sex and can hardly be friends with the same sex only if they look better or think that they are better then theyll have same sex friendships and they dont think of you any differently then someone they met for an hour. almost everyone is the same to them because everyone is SUPPLY. their shallowness is extremely draining to be around and it will drive you insane
I have been married to 2 narcissists and have one son who is a narcissist. None of them have ever love bombed me. Only abuse. Is this unusual?