Tips for moving to a new state ALONE | Overcome your fear with faith

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @Nikathesweetest
    @Nikathesweetest 4 года назад +354

    That's what happened to me, wanted to move to Texas 3yrs ago. My grandmother, mom and aunts saying that's too far, what if something happens etc. I recently told my mom, I have to live my life; you did. I'm going 🙏💪🌻

    • @Z5Z5Z5
      @Z5Z5Z5 4 года назад +16

      I need to tell my parents this too

    • @klomba45
      @klomba45 3 года назад +17

      Omg girl im doing that rn. All alone im going to Texas!!!

    • @dulceaidavp9716
      @dulceaidavp9716 3 года назад +9

      Same thing. I did move from AZ to Texas and my family wants to me to move back but they don’t get it.

    • @guccithesupreme8347
      @guccithesupreme8347 3 года назад +9

      Same girl. Plus I’m the only child and the baby of my family. It’s a lot of pressure. Moving to Houston in may or June

    • @Peace2dagawdz
      @Peace2dagawdz 3 года назад +2

      @@guccithesupreme8347. Well wishes sis

  • @cootacash
    @cootacash 4 года назад +232

    This was a good point ; putting yourself first and not staying attached to things and people

    • @nikeyaa2614
      @nikeyaa2614 3 года назад +6

      Literally. I’m watching this because I’m considering breaking off my engagement, ending my pregnancy and going off to New York to chase my dreams .

    • @jahimor2068
      @jahimor2068 3 года назад +6

      @@nikeyaa2614 damn 😩

    • @stephw3475
      @stephw3475 3 года назад +1

      @@nikeyaa2614 don’t... think of others.. your fiancé. That’s a child you have inside of you.

    • @Itswateva
      @Itswateva 3 года назад +2

      @@nikeyaa2614 well damn

    • @shemarie863
      @shemarie863 3 года назад

      Yes so true! But how do you build your faith and confidence up to know what to do, that's my dilemma.

  • @imaniinspires
    @imaniinspires 5 лет назад +201

    Ohhhh sis this was so timely. I’ve been praying about relocating since March. And it’ll be my first time leaving and moving to another state. I loved this and appreciate you. Like yourself, I’m single with no kids. It’s just me and Jesus. I was feeling guilty and doubting myself about this decision, because I didnt want to leave friends and family. But now, I’m staying focused on spiritually preparing and financially. Much love girl this was needed.

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад +10

      Yesssss 🙌🏾 you’ve got this! Prepare prepare prepare, then move your feet!

    • @lionelluva
      @lionelluva 4 года назад +2

      I'm in the same boat.

    • @malumalopez4344
      @malumalopez4344 4 года назад

      Why you moved baby mama you had your mother and your sister you were 3 to pay the Bill's the reason why I want to move is because I want to go back to the closet I want to hide my sexuality again and I dont know where to move can I move with you I can help you with the bills

  • @EmmPee1
    @EmmPee1 4 года назад +82

    This video just gave me relief! I’m moving to GA in 2 weeks. I had an aunt who literally just tried to give me fear based beliefs on why now isn’t a good time to move. All my friends and family are proud of me and support my move. My faith in God is beyond strong and I’ve waited patiently for this and it’s definitely the right time 😊

    • @TheMoniquekk
      @TheMoniquekk 4 года назад +5

      Girl I’m moving to ATL in a month! Hope you have a wonderful move and that big blessings come your way 🤗

    • @rickynewman9808
      @rickynewman9808 3 года назад +2

      My sister did the same thing I believe they are afraid of you being better and not letting fear take you over.

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit 3 года назад

      @@rickynewman9808 no they actually care about you and don’t want you to do something stupid that will cause you harm in the future.

    • @nitaaych1213
      @nitaaych1213 3 года назад

      I’m moving to Georgia in a few weeks too!!

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 2 года назад +1

      Crab in a barrel mentality. Your aunt saw that you moving is something that she would be too scared to do so therefore she’s trying to hold you back based off of her insecurities. It’s never going to be a “right time” to move. Life will keep happening regardless.

  • @Nakell
    @Nakell Год назад +7

    ‘What if something happens and you not there.” “Everybody has their own lives. I can visit / go back. At the end of your life when you look back you’re going to have to be satisfied with that!” I needed this sooo much. Thank you

  • @Freetobeme8181
    @Freetobeme8181 2 года назад +14

    DO IT SCARED!!! Thank you I SO needed this encouragement! Praise the lord 🙏

  • @AsiaBattle
    @AsiaBattle 4 года назад +53

    Thank you 🙏🏽 I have absolutely zero support everyone thinks it’s a horrible idea but I’ve had this desire to move for 2 years. I still just constantly pray for God to show me when.

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  4 года назад +7

      He’ll make it clear. I was a little anxious about moving but I had complete peace. I knew it was time & so excited. I hope the same comes to you

    • @AsiaBattle
      @AsiaBattle 4 года назад

      @@ByTheShepards Yes, complete peace. Thanks again.

    • @jonesy3228
      @jonesy3228 4 года назад +13

      Sometimes people don’t support you because they inadvertently place their own limitations on you. Listen to the Lord and step out on faith. If He brings you to it, he’ll bring you through it. Live your life 🙏🏾

    • @rickynewman9808
      @rickynewman9808 3 года назад

      It's scary but if you save your money that will make it less stressful.

  • @tiffanyrobinson4719
    @tiffanyrobinson4719 3 года назад +25

    "Saying your goodbyes" I really needed to hear this! It's true we can allow the feelings of others to cast doubt on our decisions cuz we want to make them happy

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  3 года назад +1

      It’s so hard but you’re absolutely right!

  • @keny46
    @keny46 4 года назад +51

    I moved away in my early 20s after college and ended up living with a friend and his brother so I wasn't totally alone and didn't know anyone but I still had to step out of my comfort zone to meet new people. I will say try to get out and join some sort of community asap(or you'll quickly begin to regret your decision) whether that be a church or exercise group or anything of that nature, putting yourself out there even if you're reserved you'll be surprised how quickly you'll build up a friend base.
    You can't really put a price on having your family and your life long friends close to you but that all depends on your situation and your life goals. Sometimes just moving away for a couple years can help you really appreciate where you lived and maybe you'll return (I eventually ended up coming back). When you move you're not locked into staying there for life no shame in moving back to where you grew up.

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 2 года назад

      I did just this, and it was the best move: for me. Now I moved back to my home town, and I’ve been anxious ridden since I’ve been back!

  • @zilettez6515
    @zilettez6515 2 года назад +5

    God has been so good to me. I didn't think I would be moving. In the past week He has done so much for me with out even knowing this was going to happen! been through storm after storm, and Hes finally said this is your breakthrough... its time to across the country!!!! Thank you for all you said!!!! This video popped up on my home page. Good luck to any one going through the same thing !!!

  • @MOBU76
    @MOBU76 4 года назад +33

    i needed to hear this! moving from NY to FL/ Sarasota in 2 months .... Nothing can stop me!!

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  4 года назад +3

      Best wishes 🙏🏾

    • @TheOnynca
      @TheOnynca 3 года назад +1

      @@ByTheShepards This will be my first out of State move. I moving from Illinois to Florida. I don't know if I should hire a moving van or try to sell all of my furniture.

    • @nitaaych1213
      @nitaaych1213 3 года назад +2

      How you like it?

    • @MOBU76
      @MOBU76 3 года назад +8

      @@nitaaych1213 love it. Best decision i ever made

    • @ghostadventureasmr6107
      @ghostadventureasmr6107 2 года назад +1

      Just stay prayed up! all I can say...nothing comes without challenge..be still when it is time..He will make things move...I promise

  • @UpandFlow
    @UpandFlow 3 года назад +10

    Thank you 🙏🏾 I just moved away for the 2nd time at 28. I want to be in California but I’m in Vegas with family getting my job, grad school, housing figured out. Fear creeps in sometimes just thinking about making the last jump but this is what I needed to hear 💕 love this

  • @alexwebb4078
    @alexwebb4078 4 года назад +47

    I really needed this. My heart is ready for change with God by my side. 💛 I’m moving from Missouri to Arizona by myself in 3 weeks.

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  4 года назад +5

      Arizona is beautiful! I hope you enjoy

    • @Madame1912
      @Madame1912 4 года назад +3

      Whaaat! I'm from Missouri and planning on moving to southern Arizona next year! Did you drive there?

    • @thepinksnob7370
      @thepinksnob7370 4 года назад

      Yasssss

    • @alexwebb4078
      @alexwebb4078 4 года назад +7

      A P1193 I did! It was 19 hours, but ended up being longer because I had to sleep. My mom went with me and then flew back to Missouri. Love it here! It’s very different from Missouri though hahah. Hope you love it too!

    • @Karl_95
      @Karl_95 2 года назад +1

      Wow.and im leaving new Orleans Louisiana to missouri soon..

  • @Fields614
    @Fields614 5 лет назад +73

    This is great love. I am moving my son and I to AZ next year and I am taking a year to save and prepare. Can’t wait for a new adventure!

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад +4

      Mercedes Fields yes to the warmth and the sunshine!!! I’m excited for you girly! It’s going to be AMAZING!

    • @deelite732
      @deelite732 5 лет назад +10

      I’m moving to the AZ at the end of the month. I am scared because people say it’s a racist place (specifically) Phoenix so I’m afraid

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад +3

      Hmmm. I’m not sure. Definitely do your research. My bestfriend moved to Phoenix about 3 years ago and she loved it! She said it was absolutely beautiful.

    • @regvibe835
      @regvibe835 4 года назад +2

      @@ByTheShepards Omg i waz thinking about North Carolina because i have family all over but was worried about the weather and hurricanes. I visited in March and it was pretty cool but seems a bit slower down there which is not necessarily a bad thing. I'm also moving alone my daughter is 23 and wants to stay put but now Arizona is on top of my list I've visited twice and love that abundant sunshine 😎. This is a big step because I'm established in Chicago but want to experience new things and places 👍🏼.

    • @tiffanywoods5040
      @tiffanywoods5040 4 года назад +5

      I'm in Tempe, AZ it's pretty diverse.

  • @latoyacherrie289
    @latoyacherrie289 4 года назад +8

    Thank you for sharing. Im moving from Chicago to Minneapolis. I dont want to tell my family yet because everytime they talk me out of it. AM i nervous, yes. I have a 18 & 19 year old but they are ok with it. I just dont wanna have no regrets. Im almost 40 and I just feel like its my time. God put it in me, and I know everything is in his hands.

  • @marygonyon920
    @marygonyon920 4 года назад +7

    I’ve been waiting to move for the past 4 years so now I decided to move next month with a great job offer but the fear is just playing on my mind. I hope that I’m not making the wrong decision. I prayed to God every day to show me where to go and he did, but I’m just scared. Thank you for the inspiration.

  • @tiinasanders8476
    @tiinasanders8476 5 лет назад +25

    Im no Christian, but I have to say... I freakin LOVE being a nurse and the opportunities it offers! I'm a vocational nurse and I moved from Los Angeles, California to Arlington, TX. The cost of living is SUPER cheap compared to LA. It's so cheap that I haven't started working yet, but the process to transfer my nursing license to Texas is super fast and easy. I'm looking forward to my job search, as there are SO many jobs available for LVNs here. Congratulations on YOUR move!

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад +2

      Yes for cheap costs of living! Lol congrats to you too. Thanks!

    • @knowledegeborn
      @knowledegeborn 3 года назад

      Research Astrocartography.

    • @bremoore4431
      @bremoore4431 3 года назад

      Hey Tina I’m moving thinking about moving to Arlington Texas how do you like it there so far

  • @zenithiadouglas2981
    @zenithiadouglas2981 3 года назад +14

    It’s crazy I stumbled on this video. I feel so stagnant in my life. I am a single mom of twins and feel God has placed it in my heart to move. I have no help here in Jacksonville fl from fam and no friends to speak of and Houston has been pressed on me. I do know one person but it’ll just be me and the twins I’ve had no luck with a job I love no church home or ppl to fellowship with and I just want the best for my babies. My lease is up in April and I’m leaving. Prayers for me please.

  • @maloree.kendall
    @maloree.kendall 5 лет назад +32

    My heart & mind absolutely needed this today. A few months ago the story of Abraham appeared out of nowhere in my life, I tried so hard to overlook it but ultimately knew this was my confirmation to step out on faith and leave my comfort zone...You are such an inspiration, thank you for sharing 💓

  • @xzalastarr9291
    @xzalastarr9291 5 лет назад +30

    This video just made me subscribe. I was so lost and confused and mainly scared to make a big move. I'm going through a lot in my life rn and I feel the devil trying to hold me back. But this video reminds me to keep my faith in the Lord and do as he is telling me; have no worries. You reminded me that God will take my fear and turn it to faith. I appreciate you taking the time to put this out here and help the thousands of people who had been blessed with a new knowledge and perspective on life. God bless 🙏

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад

      Oh my goodness, yes! Keep faith. He does everything according to His timing, and His plan- which ALWAYS turns out better than our original plans whether it’s a set up for the thing or is the thing!

  • @linafigz8375
    @linafigz8375 2 года назад +3

    I needed this so much. Seeing my mom cry the way she did. She had to leave my home when told her. I cried at that. Felt guilty. Wanted to make her pain go away. And started to doubt. So I took it to Jesus. Cried out. And still feel it's time...

  • @shelahhopeful6946
    @shelahhopeful6946 5 лет назад +32

    I typed in relocation videos and you popped up!!! I have been considering relocating to NC for over a year now, but I always change my mind or let my parents talk me out it. I just feel like it will be a good move for my career and plus I am just looking for a fresh start if that makes sense! This is definitely confirmation that I am going to go ahead and begin to prepare for this move when my lease is up next year!!!

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад +8

      Yesssss! So excited for you! NC is on my places to visit. Go for it ♥️ home will always be there for you so why not take the leap? You just might love it

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 2 года назад +1

      Did you leave???

  • @elCapitanjose
    @elCapitanjose 5 лет назад +20

    Nothing but me and Jesus!! YESS AND AMEN! God bless you sister. I just recently moved

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад +1

      elcapitan jose best wishes to you with your new move!

  • @Bri-ds3dc
    @Bri-ds3dc 4 года назад +9

    I could just cry right now😢😢...I have been going back and forth about moving outta town and i just kept praying like god why are you putting this on my heart and i asked for some type of confirmation and i was watching another video that some how stop working and then yours came up and everything you said is what i needed to hear....I definitely been goin thru it...lost my car, apartment had to move back with my mom with my two children and now things at my job are so crazy and im like ok god why is this happening when i have✌🏾people depending on me and the fear of leaving my family and friends especially since i have such a big support system here at home is really been holding me up but after watching your video...ima step out on faith because like you said god didn’t put this in my heart for no reason...thank you sooo much luv!!❤️❤️❤️

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  4 года назад

      I am so proud of your faith sis! Your support system won’t dissipate just because you move. I’m praying everything works it for you 🙏🏾

    • @cupidlove612
      @cupidlove612 4 года назад

      @bri H I feel you I have been going through the same thing it's been on my heart for 2 years now I I have finally made my decision to leave and start a knew life with me and my kids

  • @CWalthallBrand
    @CWalthallBrand 2 года назад +2

    I have been binging many similar videos but for some reason yours spoke to me the most! I admittedly need to repair my relationship with God & I’m hearing it’s time for me to move to a new location on my own. I’m scared but hopeful/faithful at the same time that everything will work out for good. I hope your life change has been fulfilling for you❤️

  • @LadiiFlashh
    @LadiiFlashh 3 года назад +5

    It was meant for me to see this video. I've wanted to move out of state since 2018 but I've been standing in my own way, letting fear take over. Leaving my hometown would be the fresh start that I need but my family especially my mom would say otherwise. I'm DEFINITELY moving to another state next year!!
    STEPPING OUT ON FAITH

    • @RAHHicecream
      @RAHHicecream 9 месяцев назад

      Did you move?

    • @LadiiFlashh
      @LadiiFlashh 9 месяцев назад

      @@RAHHicecream no but it's still happening

  • @Nprelaw
    @Nprelaw 4 года назад +11

    I absolutely love you for this! Im a California girl from los angeles and i decided to go back to school at 28. Im leaving to Hampton VA and im terrified but i feel so empowered. Bless you queen!

    • @TylerShawBOSS
      @TylerShawBOSS 3 года назад +1

      Ironic I'M FROM VA and I want to live in LA California.

    • @MsLewis-wy6jq
      @MsLewis-wy6jq 3 года назад +1

      I'm from Seattle, WA and VA has been on my heart as well as finishing school there. Just trying to get things figured out.

    • @ronijr4918
      @ronijr4918 3 года назад

      Darn, Hampton is 1.5 hours away from me. I'm in Richmond area. Good luck you'll be super close to the Chesapeake bay and Atlantic Ocean.

    • @litawi7869
      @litawi7869 3 года назад +1

      She’s gonna hate Va.smh

    • @deanngarrison8908
      @deanngarrison8908 2 года назад

      How’s your moving going ? God told me to move to Richmond Va but I’m terrified

  • @HairAddictsbyRachel
    @HairAddictsbyRachel 4 года назад +4

    I need to run across this video in 4 1/2 months pregnant and wanted to move back in September and a lot happened that stopped me but here it is again and God put it on my heart to leave, and I’ll be packing up leaving at 5 months pregnant

  • @avidinphinite
    @avidinphinite 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for this video. I left Florida to move to Bay Area, CA. I've been here for two years and feel that the Lord wants me to move on as well. I've been nervous about starting over again, but this video is reassuring.

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  3 года назад +1

      I lovedddd that area but I totally get it. Definitely pray about it, but it’s absolutely possible!

  • @michellelee1328
    @michellelee1328 2 года назад +8

    This video was tremendously helpful to me. I am 50 years old and I have been in a toxic relationship for 10 years. I am going to end the relationship but more importantly, I want to fulfill my dream of living on the coast. It’s only two hours away but I will be completely alone for the first time in my life. My kids are all grown and established and now I want to focus on ME! Thank you so much for this awesome video! I’ll be praying every day until God shows me the way! 🙏🏼

  • @model_nvartistry
    @model_nvartistry 4 года назад +5

    Yessss girl!! I up & moved to a new state just last September myself ....no family here as well, just hopped out on faith! I actually had to go & visit several churches in order to find THE ONE! Like you, I have to be fed spiritually & any church just can't do that for me...but yessss, Faith over Fear hunz! That's key...God's got us! Thanks so much for sharing love; I enjoyed watching. #NewSubbieHere ❤

  • @jazmonsims
    @jazmonsims 5 лет назад +23

    I'm also moving to another state and this is the second time I'm suppose to leave, first time I changed my mind bc of my family, cousins and all, they always say why you wanna leave me? And that always get me to second guess what I should do, but this is so helpful and I'm gonna step out on faith.. thanks

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад +2

      You can always visit! It was so hard when I first left but once I started flourishing elsewhere my family was so proud. And they had a place to visit for free lol. They’ll come around

  • @vanessarussell3493
    @vanessarussell3493 4 года назад +13

    I loved your video, it's something I really needed to hear. I have lived in Michigan my whole life. Moving is something I have been trying to do since graduating from high school. Now I have 4 and kids, 2 are grown and I am still trying to move. Fear has caused me to miss out on so many opportunities. Now I am about to graduate from college I feel it's time to do it. I am looking into Georgia somewhere warm .

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 2 года назад

      Did you move?? Also don’t let others fears hold you back either. People tend to have a crab in the barrel mentality.

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 2 года назад

      Girl, fear is the worst. Fear would have a hold on you like no other.

  • @mikat6026
    @mikat6026 Год назад +1

    Great content. It definitely takes true faith in God. Especially for those who don’t have money saved, no friends or family, no job or housing lined up. You just trust and believe that God has it all figured out and he is your parachute when you jump. In your case, it would be easier for you to move or relocate simply because you are a travel nurse. You know where your stream of income will come from, you can pretty much pack up and go anywhere and get a job quick and get paid well. You have backup. Not saying you don’t have faith, I’m just saying it’ll be easier for you because we are human. Its only natural to think of our livelihood. For the class of people who don’t have credentials- no money, no job, no housing-lined up, God is the backup-it takes crazy faith, trust and belief in God that he has it figured out. Especially if he’s the one leading you to do so.

  • @aijahduhh
    @aijahduhh 3 года назад +5

    Literally been contemplating on moving next year for months. I've had a few options in mind, and God has literally been giving me signs for weeks straight on where exactly to go. I don't know how nor exactly when next year, but It's definitely part of the plan & I'm beyond excited for my new beginning! #SoontobeHoustonHottie ;)

  • @natayac23
    @natayac23 5 лет назад +12

    Thank you for this ... the part about your mother and sister completely hit home. I leave next month and definitely needed to hear this 🙂

  • @shemirahgarner2223
    @shemirahgarner2223 4 года назад +5

    This video is amazing!! 💖 I’m turned 19 this year and I’m so ready to leave from Detroit. There’s nothing here for me. I want to experience new things and meet new people. So I planned once I hit 22, I should be already to leave, and have enough knowledge about where I’m moving to, the types of jobs they have out there, more than enough money that I’ve saved along the way, and enough time to spend with my family before I leave. I think 22 is a good time frame for me to think, research, and ask and just get to know more about where I’m plan on heading off to. I just think my age is holding me back from actually planning everything because I just don’t want to make the wrong mistake and be all on my own once I leave.

    • @sammieenyc
      @sammieenyc 4 года назад

      I plan on moving from New York to Michigan! Any recommendations?

    • @anitragates8515
      @anitragates8515 4 года назад

      Yes, I’m 19. I’m moving to Houston when I’m 22 years old. The only reason why I’m staying here in Indiana is to save, prepare & finish school.

    • @Shiasospiritual
      @Shiasospiritual 3 года назад

      Best wishes to you . I plan on moving from Detroit to NC . I live Michigan for 33 years I am so tired of the snow and cold . I’m ready for growth .

  • @HiiiGHLIFE1
    @HiiiGHLIFE1 4 года назад +19

    I'm 4 weeks out of a 11 year relationship and am feeling this so much right now... I currently live in Chicago but I just don't want to be here.... I'm gonna save for one year and am gonna go to Florida or Texas

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  4 года назад +2

      Welcome to a beautiful fresh start! Wishing you the best

    • @tiffanyleonard226
      @tiffanyleonard226 4 года назад +2

      I definitely understand wanting to leave Chicago I'm currently live in Chicago and I dislike it . I am born and raised and I'm over here . Good luck 👍😁

    • @HiiiGHLIFE1
      @HiiiGHLIFE1 4 года назад +2

      @@tiffanyleonard226 yeah, I'm over everything about Chicago lol I need a new scenery. Thank you!!

    • @Z5Z5Z5
      @Z5Z5Z5 4 года назад +2

      I'm going from Cleveland To Atlanta to then hopefully Chicago

  • @Mikemikemike13579
    @Mikemikemike13579 2 года назад +1

    I’m going! Thank you for the support!

  • @kimmyb7418
    @kimmyb7418 5 лет назад +12

    Amazing how this crossed my path at the exact time I need it!!! 🙏

  • @Empress_Dominique
    @Empress_Dominique 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this message it truly resonates with me. It's very inspirational. I'm definitely watching this video for a reason. I'm in the process of moving to another state.

  • @hopeoutsidetheusa1888
    @hopeoutsidetheusa1888 3 года назад +1

    This is amazing. I got to the point in your video where you mentioned Genesis 12:1. I have had the exact verse shown to me many times by the Most High God. He is making a way for me and it is working out perfectly. He helped me get my passport and now I'm on to the next step. I'm scared of flying on airplanes and I am trying to leave the country, so I just have to push through and do it when the time comes. But just like you said, it is no coincidence that I just watched your video and you mentioned the same verse from Scripture. HalleluYah. Thank you so much, Yahuah (The Father) bless you. :)

  • @MollyMachete
    @MollyMachete 2 года назад

    Love this “do it while you’re scared” saying. Thank you God bless 😊

  • @garreciapowell3145
    @garreciapowell3145 4 года назад +3

    I am happy that I stumbled onto this video. This is so perfect for my current situation with planning to move. And the guilt I felt with wanting to move away from all my friends and family. But my job has become a headache and just full of stress. This was blessing to me

  • @kylie6465
    @kylie6465 3 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for this video, I was "amen-ing" throughout the whole thing lol! Im planning to relocate in a few months, and this video was definitely a sign from God that it is time to move. You literally touched on every thought/fear I had. Thank you Thank you. Im feeling more secure about it now & know its the right decision :)

  • @jillmorton3096
    @jillmorton3096 5 лет назад +3

    Amazing words. I moved by myself on a work transfer. It was not easy being away from my kids but I didnt regret my move at all, however I did end up moving back as the technology wasnt working for my work. I might end up moving again as life is an adventure after all. God bless you, you have a great realistic attitude😁

  • @cherrell_007
    @cherrell_007 5 лет назад +10

    So timely. Thanks for sharing!

  • @sidneebertrand661
    @sidneebertrand661 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you so much for this video. I haven't even started packing and it just seems like suddenly everything is going 17 miles faster than I can breathe. I needed every single word of this.

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад

      I’m so glad it’s helped you sis! Best wishes on your journey! You’ve got this 💪🏾

  • @YourMajesticKyng
    @YourMajesticKyng 5 лет назад +20

    I needed to hear this.

  • @ghostadventureasmr6107
    @ghostadventureasmr6107 2 года назад +1

    Moving for me is about ME. I am not afraid to say it. That I may need a change of scenery. My mother always told me..I want you to be happy and independent..Not live in state..hahahahaaha. She just wanted to know I felt like I was living the life I wanted..So I am honoring my parent's wishes to live MY own life..as they have waited 32 years. Now it is my turn to care for them as someone told me...Love Ya'll!

  • @zenmariac7956
    @zenmariac7956 3 года назад +2

    Your thoughts and experience on family ties and doing what you feel God has inspired you to do anyway… wooo! That hits home and I really needed that right now. Thank you for this!

  • @Savanners
    @Savanners 4 года назад +6

    Hi,
    Thank you SO much for this video. It’s amazing to see a black woman who is strong in her faith talk about similar issues I’m experiencing. I just moved to Baltimore, MD. I’m incredibly frazzled and having a rough time adjusting. God definitely put this move on my heart. I also experienced issues with my job and would often cry at work before my move. Continuing my next degree is something I am positive that God planned for me. Thank you for the reminder that God is amazing and always with me.

    • @leaveit2b684
      @leaveit2b684 4 года назад +2

      If you’re looking to meet people socially try meetup.com if you haven’t already. You can do events with other people based on hobbies you like to do.

  • @gracecoughlin9717
    @gracecoughlin9717 4 года назад +2

    This was just what I needed. Been praying over the past week about where to go. The same feeling of wanting to leave my hometown for growth. Thank you for sharing! And thank you for being so grounded in God so you can help others along the way. Best wishes to you, girl!

  • @IndieUpbeats
    @IndieUpbeats Год назад

    Thank you for this video! I'm planning an interstate move in four months, and all of these topics are relevant for me!!

  • @Heathersjourneytohealth
    @Heathersjourneytohealth 4 года назад +1

    I needed to see this video, I watched this video for a reason! I am moving back to Ohio , I lived there for nine years. I have been debating whether to do something like this , wanting to move away to a different state because I feel like my mom really needs me. I need her. She is my best friend and I’ll always needier but you’re right I can visit it’s not like I’ll never see her again, I just may not be as frequently but I’ll still be able to see her! I know I’ll cry at first but I know this is gonna be good for me! Thank you for this beautiful

  • @annierose5588
    @annierose5588 4 года назад +6

    I want to leave my city so badly, I have friends who live in the city that I want to move to, I feel so nervous about it, my life right now isn't a positive thing and I just want to leave and move out and I feel like the city I want to move to is a good place to start the career I want to accomplish in. I want to live in different places through out my life i don't want to stay stuck in one place I'm just nervous to leave mostly becuase I have never lived on my own before. I feel like the friends I do have out there will become this amazing support system that will help me grow a lot which is amazing! I also want to go to school there as well.

  • @apostletonyajenkins6092
    @apostletonyajenkins6092 5 лет назад +3

    This is great I agree with needing to make decisions regarding our own lives...we need a compilation of relocation videos. Thanks for sharing.

  • @tkeyah50
    @tkeyah50 4 года назад +3

    This video was suuuuuuch a blessing and a big reassurance that I’m making the right decision by taking a new step! Thank you!❤️

  • @sarahxo6546
    @sarahxo6546 3 года назад +2

    Omg girl u are goals! I am not a religious person as i grew up with atheists.. however the last part of ur video got me thinking! Thank you love i

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  3 года назад +1

      I love hearing that! Feel free to reach out to me anytime if you’d like to talk more. Thanks Sarah! You made my day ☺️❤️ love you sister!

  • @Nectarine333
    @Nectarine333 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this video. Currently struggling with leaving family (I move out of state in a month) and I’m scared but ready for this change 🙏🏽

  • @jaykelz1528
    @jaykelz1528 5 лет назад +13

    Very thankful for this. I’m thinking of leaving the homeland and move to Texas but always been apprehensive.. so this is what I needed in the recommendations lol thank you for this and taking the time out 🙌🏾

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад +1

      Yes! I’m hearing great things about TX right now. Best wishes!

    • @diamondgoddess5914
      @diamondgoddess5914 4 года назад

      Jay Kelz did u move? I am moving in a few weeks to TX

    • @raeganbutterfly08
      @raeganbutterfly08 4 года назад +1

      I’m moving to Texas in a few weeks.

    • @atherbest
      @atherbest 4 года назад

      I'm looking to move to TX been on my heart

  • @zariaalexsia
    @zariaalexsia 3 года назад +1

    I Truly Fee Like The Lord Showed Me This Video❤️🙏🏾Thank You For This !!!! I Felt The Lord Telling Me To Prepare For A Move But I’m Also A Very Strategic Person & I Wasn’t Sure How To Go About This Move and Sometimes It’s Hard To Move In Faith But Your Video Just Gave Me So Much Instruction & Confirmation🙌🏾❤️

  • @abbyjoystudio
    @abbyjoystudio 3 года назад

    “God will make it clear to you.”👏🏼👏🏼

  • @rubyherrera4242
    @rubyherrera4242 4 года назад +3

    Soo inspirational and right at the moment I’m at this point in my life. I just graduated associates. I got declined from my town college which discouraged me. But a college I want to apply just accepted me today but it’s states away. I told my mom and she’s so emotional and I do feel guilty. But I feel like I need to have faith and I have faith in myself and what i feel like I need to do but I’m scaareedddd. What your saying got me so hyped and feeling better about what I’m leaning towards. Your awesome!! I’m happy I came by your video :)

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  4 года назад

      Well I’m excited for you! You can always visit home but if you’re feeling the nudge from God def give it a shot!

  • @guerlyneguercy5495
    @guerlyneguercy5495 3 года назад +1

    Phew! This video blessed me so ! 9:00 “What’s going to happen if I stay ? - I’m not God in their life” also And it’s okay to be selfish for once 🙌🏾 I just relocated and it’s me and Jesus rocking it out .

  • @Z5Z5Z5
    @Z5Z5Z5 4 года назад +1

    Yes God is showing me the way. I'm so thankful

  • @ms.jasminemiller2486
    @ms.jasminemiller2486 3 года назад +2

    When you started at 8:36 sis wow. I felt every word! Thank you for this video God bless youuuuuuuuuuu

  • @sandram6068
    @sandram6068 Год назад

    Wow! Thank you for this! What a blessing. You are so well spoken and beautiful too. Gracias 🙋🏻‍♀️🙏

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  Год назад

      You’re so welcome. Thank you for this!

  • @teresarodgers176
    @teresarodgers176 2 года назад

    Wow absolutely awesome & strong but having your faith guide you is moving and inspirational..Thank you.I this help me make up my mind this is what I am going to do soon.

  • @spicynoodles1
    @spicynoodles1 2 года назад

    I came across your video right as I was feeling overwhelmed with my cross country move. Listening to your journey comforted me so much. Thank you!

  • @shawnikat
    @shawnikat 3 года назад

    You have no idea how much this blessed me. Thank God for using u to speak to me

  • @tamikabarney7589
    @tamikabarney7589 2 года назад

    Thank you, this video gives me the inspiration that I needed to make the big step. Thank You!

  • @tinatalkslife
    @tinatalkslife 5 лет назад +6

    I appreciate the advice. Confirmation that I am doing the right thing. Great tips and video

  • @foxy1870
    @foxy1870 3 года назад +1

    I totally agree. I’m In the field of healthcare management however it’s no travel positions for my field I wish tho!! Smart move!

  • @jessicaw8341
    @jessicaw8341 5 лет назад +5

    Right on time. I needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @Sugarplum704
    @Sugarplum704 5 лет назад +5

    This message was very much needed!! Thank you Sis 💕

  • @salamyahia4691
    @salamyahia4691 3 года назад

    I loveeeee the way you talk about god and the fact that he helped you throughout your journey! I’m muslim and every word you said resonated with me. Thank you for this amazing video

  • @Ada-ju1zp
    @Ada-ju1zp 3 года назад

    I just came across this video and am currently going through this exact season . I really have a desire to move out of my home state but waiting for God to just dwell and move in the situation. Thank you so much for making this video 💗

  • @promiserobinson5113
    @promiserobinson5113 2 года назад

    Amen, needed this. Thank you!!

  • @RayneQ
    @RayneQ 3 года назад +1

    And thank you so much for the faith that you shared with us ♡ may god guide us and protect us 🥺❤

  • @bino3255
    @bino3255 2 года назад

    I have been stuck on Genesis 12 for the longest. But I think this passage of scripture is where God has me in my life right now. I am just waiting on him to release me to go to the place he will show me.

  • @felipetejeda7545
    @felipetejeda7545 3 года назад +1

    Thank you and God bless, very much have had a calling in my heart to go out into the world and start a new life with Christ. Amen and thank you.

  • @mytwosense5223
    @mytwosense5223 3 года назад +1

    great points made, thanks : ) God willing I will be overcoming my fear very soon : )

  • @rayannatheartist
    @rayannatheartist 3 года назад +1

    This was such an amazing video! Every bit of advice was useful and your energy is amazing. Thank you for integrating scripture and Jesus into your share. It was needed. Never once did I consider furnished units or rentals either!

  • @shanaprivett4274
    @shanaprivett4274 2 года назад

    Thank you and God bless you. You spoke to my fear and had scripture to rely on….. thank you 🙏🏻

  • @loverichards2106
    @loverichards2106 3 года назад

    girl first of all i love u and your love for GOD,.. not too many young women/ people spend time seeking God .. #goals.. this video was just perfect for me..

  • @p.m.2131
    @p.m.2131 2 года назад

    Thank you for your inspiring video! I'm scared but I'm going to do it as soon as my lease ends! Census bureau is a great suggestion, thanks!

  • @pamelajimenez1117
    @pamelajimenez1117 3 года назад +1

    Literally the best moving video I’ve come across , I appreciate your wisdom ! I love your message I can definitely see the most highs speaking through you 💕🙏🏽

  • @88thisiscrap
    @88thisiscrap 4 года назад +2

    Somehow (probably God) I came across this video. I’m moving across the country by myself in less than a month. I needed this. Thank you. God Bless you.

  • @jennd6383
    @jennd6383 5 лет назад +2

    Wow this is a great video. My story is very similar to yours but I haven’t been able to make the move only because I don’t want to be selfish. My family gets upset anytime I say I want to move. I feel the need to move in my heart.

    • @ByTheShepards
      @ByTheShepards  5 лет назад

      Aww I’m so sorry. I know at first my mom was hysterical but she’s adjusted. Definitely pray about it. You can always visit, you could even move back.

  • @terryharmon4542
    @terryharmon4542 Год назад

    You are awesome! Inspiring! I love your video on this topic..thank you!

  • @camarrab.7659
    @camarrab.7659 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for this video, I loved everything you said.

  • @jasminewhite9426
    @jasminewhite9426 3 года назад

    This video showed in my recommendations a few times already and I finally decided to watch it. I graduate college soon and I truly feel like God is calling me to move up North. My very first job offer was for the exact city he's been showing me, in the middle of a pandemic. I've been praying on it heavily, but the fear is still there. My parents want me to come home after college to save ..... but this video was loud and clear for me. Which is partially comforting, yet made me slightly more afraid. But as you stated, i can do it scared....

  • @mayafisher2329
    @mayafisher2329 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for this. I am transferring colleges and leaving for a state where I will know nobody and nothing. This has really helped me

  • @alexzandrite5018
    @alexzandrite5018 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Courtney Denise for the inspiration! God bless you!

  • @brittblessed
    @brittblessed 4 года назад +2

    Girl when I got around that 14:20 mark, it's as though you were talking to me. Thanks!

  • @mindmadeupsteadfast8
    @mindmadeupsteadfast8 2 года назад +1

    Confirmation. Thank you Jesusssss

  • @sabs2022
    @sabs2022 4 года назад +1

    I came across your video while working on researching a potential move. Wow, so many of the things you said just bring tears to my eyes -in a good way. Thank you for your kind and inspiring words. You are so beautiful inside and out! Thank you so much for this video :)

  • @BrookeLynn-sr6vy
    @BrookeLynn-sr6vy 3 года назад

    thank you for making this video. It was such good advice for me. Especially the family guilt and fear holding us back. I always forget that God gives us these desires. I pray that the Lord continues to bless you abundantly.

  • @ms.chocalate954smiley4
    @ms.chocalate954smiley4 5 лет назад +4

    I was supposed to move this year to a new state but I have to wait until next year. Things didn't work out as planned I got this 🙌 thank you for this video it motivate me ❤❤❤