how starting a small business changed my life (& it can change yours too!) ✿ let's be vulnerable

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  • Опубликовано: 20 май 2024
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    Tammy Dinh
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    CHAPTERS:
    00:00 - 01:54 intro
    01:55 - 04:20 prologue
    04:21 - 07:51 courage
    07:51 - 09:28 confidence
    09:29 - 12:40 mindset
    12:41 - 14:10 flexibility
    14:11 - 16:32 discipline & self love
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Комментарии • 903

  • @tammydinh
    @tammydinh  Месяц назад +1045

    from one uncomfy person to another, i hope this video brings you comfort. thank you so, so much for being here

  • @maryamaliyeva9206
    @maryamaliyeva9206 23 дня назад +176

    "If you are nervous about something just find a way to be excited about it" - loved it

  • @rachealgetscreative
    @rachealgetscreative Месяц назад +1110

    I almost cried when you talked abou helping your parents with their trip and their health (teeth). You are really wonderful, and I'm glad you found your way to success and happiness.

  • @iamassyl
    @iamassyl Месяц назад +765

    i didn’t expect staring a small shop would be so hard until i did it myself. it took me 4+ months to even post one listing/product and now that its been 7 months I only did 1 sale. However that one sale is what keeps me going. Awesome video!

    • @Ethereal359
      @Ethereal359 Месяц назад +36

      I wish you success. Keep going, never give up. ❤

    • @carlijnverstappen757
      @carlijnverstappen757 Месяц назад +25

      I'm literally at the start of starting my own business, I have dreamt about it so many times and after 9 years of already being self employed but not really doing what I love, this video helped me so so much to realise that choosing something you love can also trickle down to your core self, the ones you love and the best version of you in the future. "I don't have tobe the best" really clicked with me. Thank you so much and I wish you and all the people here who embark on their own little business adventure all the best ❤

    • @iamassyl
      @iamassyl Месяц назад

      @@Ethereal359 same for you!

    • @sweets3445
      @sweets3445 Месяц назад +7

      where do you sell? what do you sell? website?

    • @iamassyl
      @iamassyl Месяц назад

      @@sweets3445 I am selling engraved silver necklaces. Idea started with engraving fingerprint on a silver pendant and now I am also considering other engravings like coordinates, initials, etc. I have started selling on ETSY and am considering opening a website.

  • @Msal19
    @Msal19 5 дней назад +7

    You are the perfect example of extreme ownership, gratitude and abundance mindset. Huge kudos!

  • @pehoone
    @pehoone 15 дней назад +34

    I reallly resonate with the thought that you "don't see self-employment as a risk -- people go through life working hard 9-5, being unhappy, and in the end they're laid off anyway". When you have the knowing that you have the skills to sustain yourself, it's a superpower. You don't depend on some X employer, it's just one of many options. 💪

  • @localcraftery
    @localcraftery Месяц назад +376

    I cried with you... that line "If I mess up, who was gonna help my family" shook me for real. The pressure of being the eldest just hit hard. Even though there are 4 of us, I can't lean on anyone. Everyone has their problems, and it's tough for me to open up to any of them. But thank you, Tammy. I felt that I wasn't alone in my problems and was able to let out some steam. Much love

    • @nikkolyn1122
      @nikkolyn1122 Месяц назад +2

      Totally. Eldest child pressures. Sending love and luck 💚❤️🍀

    • @koikawaii
      @koikawaii 18 дней назад +1

      I'm not the eldest, but I have the same experience.

  • @marrrie2490
    @marrrie2490 Месяц назад +130

    This is so true, I started making jewelry but I was so scared, literally cried when I got a first order and then I didn’t have orders but a complete stranger gave me the motivation to keep going and now it’s my income, i do what i love its amazing, some stress of course but support really helps

    • @vandasousa4272
      @vandasousa4272 10 дней назад

      Do you have an Instagram page??

    • @justabby4528
      @justabby4528 10 дней назад

      Wondering the same​@@vandasousa4272

    • @MrEjblanco
      @MrEjblanco 8 дней назад

      I'd want to check out your page

  • @nicoldengenyakeye6905
    @nicoldengenyakeye6905 23 дня назад +106

    This video hit me hard. I'm a young father, broke with no parents so no support. Times looking bleak but I have to do right by my daughter and just start somewhere.
    EDIT : I THANK EVERYONE FOR THE KIND WORDS AND ENCOURAGEMENT. GOD BLESS Y'ALL

    • @cholav3341
      @cholav3341 13 дней назад +6

      Every thing will get better don’t stop believing bro , sending prayers and love to you and your daughter 💕🫶🏽

    • @nicoldengenyakeye6905
      @nicoldengenyakeye6905 13 дней назад

      @@cholav3341 Thanks for that. At least you find good people once in a while online

    • @PerWaagen
      @PerWaagen 11 дней назад

      Keep going, man! ☀️☀️
      ruclips.net/video/IJrcJUV8d20/видео.htmlsi=uL83rSRrCQ84cIt-

    • @justabby4528
      @justabby4528 10 дней назад +4

      You are going places with your attitude!
      Wish you the best🧡

    • @izzifragner
      @izzifragner 7 дней назад +4

      channeling you lots of love and energy. you'll be doing great

  • @silvertown9324
    @silvertown9324 20 дней назад +36

    "I don't have to be the best. I'm still valuable". How healthy of a mindset. Thank you! I'll post it somewhere around the house to remember.

  • @starsnoireart
    @starsnoireart Месяц назад +461

    your point about "not having to be the best" really resonated with me because I recently came to this realization too!
    I see people on Instagram all the time who are just so much more naturally artistic, who have more training, who are seasoned professionals, etc. And it discouraged me for years because I wasn't at their level despite drawing pretty much all my life and sometimes being older than these talented people!
    One day I sat down and had this realization though: I'm good enough at art that I can draw pretty much anything that makes me happy. Anything I want. And for now, that's good enough. If the time comes that I can ever afford to go to art school then I'll take it, but for now, I study on my own schedule, improve at my own pace, and rest happy knowing that my childhood self would be really happy with what she can do now~

    • @Caitanyadasa108
      @Caitanyadasa108 Месяц назад +6

      I think having technical skill doesn't need to be a hindrance. Quirky stuff that is authentic can resonate with people while technical skill but lack of authenticity can be uninspiring at best.

    • @xxXDEadFunny
      @xxXDEadFunny 26 дней назад

      this !!!

    • @OkieSketcher1949
      @OkieSketcher1949 4 дня назад +1

      @starsnoir- I’ve known several artists who do great work and make a decent living selling their art. Funny thing about them is that not one of them have ever attend a formal art school. They do not have a ‘fine arts degree’. They have learned by doing. Occasionally, they will purchase a book that interests them and try to learn more about their art that way. Do your own work. Do what pleases you. Eventually, others will see what you do and many will like what they see. From there your business will grow.

  • @jessicameisner8487
    @jessicameisner8487 Месяц назад +243

    I started my business in 2023 and have a year under my belt. 200+ sales with minimal advertising and no social media. Sometimes I get down on myself bc I can only work so much and also have to be available to help my kids in homeschool. I'm at the Sapling stage and I'm proud of it. I wonder what will happen this year when I create a Shopify and steer my sales funnel directly at it via Instagram and Pinterest. I struggle with balancing "me" time, "family" time and videogaming for relaxation and my burgeoning watercoloring hobby. Discipline, focus, balance, and Sleep. I'm adding in daily walks now for the endorphins. Loved your video. I heard "you", so thanks for sharing. It resonated w me. ❤❤

    • @gingamingayo8273
      @gingamingayo8273 Месяц назад +5

      Good luck!

    • @SweetLittleTouch
      @SweetLittleTouch Месяц назад +16

      I started in 2023 also, and I JUST got my first sale! Feeling ecstatic about it honestly 🤩 You’re doing GREAT with 200+ already, and I’m so happy for you! Tammy inspired me to finally start my journey and it’s wonderful seeing so many people tell their success stories in her comments!
      You totally got this ❤

    • @sharene4362
      @sharene4362 Месяц назад +3

      I'm a Capricorn too twin where have u been

    • @light-water
      @light-water 4 дня назад

      1. Stop playing video games. 2. Stop playing video games. Also your store sounds a lot like mine, I did around 220+ clients in my sneaker reselling store. What market are you in?

  • @ExLibrisMara
    @ExLibrisMara Месяц назад +70

    As someone who is also pretty anxious I loved the idea you mentioned of turning that anxious feeling into a feeling of excitement. Changing my mindset is the first step!

  • @_AbrahamMathews
    @_AbrahamMathews 29 дней назад +40

    Thank you for sharing. This is truly inspirational.
    Things I am learning from this video:
    - Take calculated risks (develops courage)
    - I may not be the best in something, but I still can be valuable in that. (develops confidence)
    - Be excited about what makes you anxious. (develops mindset)
    - Set boundaries, improve yourself, forgive yourself, correct yourself. (develops discipline and self-love)
    - Starting a small business is like planting a tree, it requires patience, hard work, and persistence on a daily basis.

  • @xmrxjoexx
    @xmrxjoexx 10 дней назад +20

    That part where you said “nobody values my time more than myself”.
    That is 1000%
    Which is why I believe some of us have huge drive and value our time due to past experiences.

  • @oksana_media
    @oksana_media Месяц назад +60

    thank you for showing that being vulnerable means being strong. and I also love names of the chapters, it's so poetic! ✿

  • @artsygirlmarilyn6296
    @artsygirlmarilyn6296 Месяц назад +48

    Childhood trauma is real. Self care would include going to a supportive therapist so you can really work through what happened to you. I worked at Yale Medical school where so many young adults were healed. You deserve it. Everyone does. You rock!!! ❤❤❤🐶🐶🐶👁️🧬🌗🌷🌺🌋🎨🎨

  • @HazelSong
    @HazelSong Месяц назад +27

    Your voice is so calming and very supportive, I quit my job 8 months ago and I don't ever want to go back! I want to work for myself at my own pace :) Thanks for sharing your journey!

  • @CoyApricot
    @CoyApricot Месяц назад +32

    Your journey sounds exactly like mine, which is incredibly encouraging. I grew up in a financial struggle too, went to university for fashion design for the exact same reasons. I didn't think taking the fine arts route was a smart decision in terms of risk. But like you, I never had that passion for what I did. I got my degree and went straight to working low skill, dead end jobs just to survive without grinding at something mentally exhausting that I wasn't interested in.
    In May 2023 I started Coy Apricot. At 500 followers I also thought 'this could be something'.
    I'm still small, but I really relate to you. Following your journey gives me a sense of comfort within my own.

  • @dollbaby4820
    @dollbaby4820 Месяц назад +47

    I work for a corporate company currently and I hate it, I feel stuck to start my own craft business, I can make art and design art, still try to find my way to get there…that’s why I come here to see how you do it, you are doing great! Now I still think of what to make for sell and get it started. So happy for your achievement.

    • @ephemeral_arts
      @ephemeral_arts Месяц назад +1

      I am in a similar position, I'm feeling stuck with my art and something that has been unbelievably and ridiculously helpful has been reading the artists way, finding creators (like uncomfy co and gabriellarosie) who are trying to foster support for artistic practises. I hope you find what you want to sell 💜

    • @Likelyfairy
      @Likelyfairy 28 дней назад

      @@ephemeral_artsI’ve started reading it and I really like it ❤ I definitely recommend it as well

  • @probablyaman
    @probablyaman 11 дней назад +6

    Nice perspective! Although as someone more pessimistic I must say luck is often involved in the success of many businesses, even when it doesn't seem that way. I think the fact that your social channel grew so quickly in the beginning probably gave you a nice boost to keep pursuing your dream. And of course, your hard work and dedication also pays off. However, I've seen many people who have struggled for years to gain tractions on the things they love to make. Artists who make great art and yet their work never get picked up by the algoritum. And while I love seeing the success of your small business. I have seen so many other similar arts & crafts stores having to close down due to falling sales because of the recession. And it can be more soul crushing than doing a boring job that pays the bills.
    I'm not suggesting that people shouldn't take risks in starting their own businesses. But I do suggest not entirely believing that hard work will lead to success. Luck is a very important factor. And it is often out of our control. We mostly hear from stories of sucessful businesses, but I think hearing the stories of how businesses went down can be beneficial too. And to build a more realistic picture of starting a business.

  • @endless_dreamer_
    @endless_dreamer_ 26 дней назад +6

    i want to quit my job and purse my art but im so lost in the dark on how to even start. Ur videos help me calm my anxiety and continue and push myself to try more

  • @TaniaPomalesArt
    @TaniaPomalesArt 2 дня назад +1

    I want to thank you for this. I am struggling to take a leap of faith and focus on my ideas and dreams, and this proves that it’s possible to succeed.

  • @cee8226
    @cee8226 Месяц назад +20

    I did this 3 months ago. I quit my corporate job and pursued full time artist and I failed. I am unemployed and looking for a job rn bec the funds are not looking good 😂

    • @ArleighLauren
      @ArleighLauren 21 день назад +12

      I think in another video Tammy mentioned how you should should treat your first business as a really intense hobby. Work really hard in your free time, use that passion to start- while still having that ‘safe job’ income. Now that you are looking for a new job, this may be a great opportunity to find something that better fits your needs! Something with less stress, better hours, no OT or outside responsibilities (just generalizing a corporate job lol)- so that way you have more time to create your product, advertise, learning the in’s and out’s…
      I think I can speak for everyone in the comments and small businesses community when I say I wish you good luck and happiness in your new found path!

  • @ShadowplayToys
    @ShadowplayToys Месяц назад +22

    Wonderful to get a better insight into Uncomfy's initial beginnings.
    Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring early small business owners like myself as we set out to forge our own paths.

  • @sarah.ashley.
    @sarah.ashley. Месяц назад +35

    Hi Tammy, I was also a graphic designer too. (The fact that I said "was"...) I actually yearn to be a fine artist and also produce my own merchandise. I really identify with the worry that no one would care about my art and that there are so many people out there who are already established and started way earlier than I had. I always wanted to be an artist and not a graphic designer. I went into graphic design because I was afraid I couldn't make a living from my art without someone else giving me a direction or purpose for my art. And yet while I was a graphic designer, I hated that I had very minimal creative freedom. In the end I was just afraid to stand alone and I severely lacked the confidence back then to pursue my dreams of starting my own creative business and expressing my creativity my own way. I felt like my creativity only had value if it was in the service of someone else's purpose because then I would get paid. It was such a unhealthy place to be in, now that I realise it.
    The transparency and honesty in your sharing here in this video is so encouraging and refreshing to me. It gives me so much hope for my dreams because up til then I only found myself around very judgemental, negative people who made me feel like my art and my ideas and my voice were worthless.
    Thank you so much for your video. It brought some healing and hope to me :)

    • @MeghanHarker
      @MeghanHarker Месяц назад +1

      Hell yes, Sarah. All of this. I’m in the same boat struggling as a pharmacy tech when I want to make art. It’s terrifying to start and to keep going.

    • @sarah.ashley.
      @sarah.ashley. Месяц назад +2

      @@MeghanHarker Hi Meghan, thanks for your reply

  • @inob____9368
    @inob____9368 Месяц назад +13

    Hi Tammy, as a Vietnamese I do understand every thing you were going through with finalcial struggle and family expectation. I used to taking interior design as my major in university and was going to have a full time job in front of the PC for endless hours.
    And at my internship time during 3rd year I also felt the need to pursuit other paths that would fulfill me more. And yeah, the pandemic hit and I got the chance to reflect so much and decided to go other way.
    Now I am teaching art for kids to fill up the bills while doing handicrafts and study astrology to pursuit my dreams.
    In Vietnam its kinda hard to sell handicrafts at its true price cuz people still not willing to pay higher price for "just a handmade stuff" :(
    but your vids give me so much strength and compassion for keep going on w this path.
    thank you so much & wish you peaceful love ❤

  • @Blockwise2
    @Blockwise2 Месяц назад +12

    I also started a small business where I design custom Lego models and sometimes 3D models. It's been 8 months or so since I started and it really pushes you to explore life in general, it makes you understand how money works and how selling / buying works, it makes you understand the value of money and so many other things and all of those things can actually be fun to explore. I think that for me the most important lesson I got from all of this so far is that peace of mind and satisfaction can come to us at any moment, but we delay that moment or think that it is somewhere else to be found. When I combined my passion and business together, I also found the satisfaction I was craving and I am more relaxed since I know I may be able to fully support myself in the future.
    I should mention that it took me 3 years of trying and giving up all sorts of business ideas, first time I tried at 18

  • @Birdsforlifetim4508
    @Birdsforlifetim4508 Месяц назад +18

    My sister wants to start a business but is so nervous!
    I will have to show her this to help!

  • @malurus2
    @malurus2 Месяц назад +7

    you are a massive inspiration. i've been wanting to change something in my life for a few months now and i think i've narrowed it down to a creative small business and watching you inspires me so much

  • @Vis80842
    @Vis80842 3 часа назад

    Your energy is so pure and your creations are so beautiful, it’s almost making me cry. I love this.

  • @snaggiz
    @snaggiz 5 дней назад +1

    I never thought I’d start my own business, but something has finally clicked within me during the last few weeks. People like you and many others (even my parents who are business owners themselves) have shown me that life can be different. I’ve realized that I will not have the stamina to work jobs I don’t like, with people I don’t like, for money that isn’t even that great just so that way I can potentially retire comfortably. I detest the whole idea and it feels like a trap into a miserable existence.
    Now I’m standing on the edge about to make a decision I never thought I’d make and I’m itching with excitement. I’m finally betting on myself instead of waiting for someone else to do that.

  • @maisartcafe
    @maisartcafe Месяц назад +3

    Thank you so much for this video! I really love these kinds of videos where you’re kind of like a big sister giving advice to us newer artists who are still trying to figure themselves and their small business out. I feel like this came at a perfect time for me because I’m just starting out my small business since I’m in between jobs. I just got into my first small market, but as I’ve been prepping for it, I’ve been feeling a sense of imposter syndrome or even that maybe I would disappoint my parents if they found out that this is what I’ve been spending my time on. I’m also from a Vietnamese-American family, so I really relate to you and your story. But you’ve made me feel more optimistic, and I look forward to continuing to watch you grow❤️

  • @EclecticMindd
    @EclecticMindd Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for always sharing and inspiring me and others! As a small business owner (4 months in ) it really helps to hear that my hard work will be appreciated by others one day and that I just have to be me 🌷thank you

  • @kevyslatt
    @kevyslatt 26 дней назад +2

    you're so sweet to your parents, you've got my respect

  • @fatmaalnajjar6222
    @fatmaalnajjar6222 8 дней назад +1

    this video was so wholesome, so thanks for it. I also run a small business and i have easy days and other times like right now, i'm experiencing extreme overwhelm and i'm not sure how to move forward. Especially after experiencing a lot of set backs and having to re route so many times it gets exhausting. so thank you so much. much love

  • @magicwendy210
    @magicwendy210 Месяц назад +14

    thank you so much for this video and being so open and venerable it has come at the perfect time for me as l am in a difficult place at the moment and lost my sense of my place in the world and my purpose, today l am starting a new chapter to literally start over again and get my business back up and running but first doing creative things just for me, for all those that are also struggling never ever give up just open your heart to reconnect to your creative spark and shine x

    • @gainswithkathy
      @gainswithkathy Месяц назад +1

      I just started my business 4 months ago and resigned my full time job at 33. It’s scary, but I’m proud of you! You’ve got this.

  • @aasthabariyar3308
    @aasthabariyar3308 Месяц назад +11

    I literally love your content... Thank you for being yourself, Tammy!
    Love ya

  • @ellascottagecompany2044
    @ellascottagecompany2044 Месяц назад +1

    I am grateful for you and your channel. Finding you a year or so ago was one of the biggest blessings. Keep up the wonderful work ❤

  • @lovejones92
    @lovejones92 Месяц назад +5

    Hello my fellow earth sign ❤ (Virgo here ♍️🙋🏾‍♀️) First off I want to thank you so much for your transparency in your videos and overall on your channel. I personally think that 100% of the things you touched on and spoke about in this video really resonated with me because here lately I’ve found myself deciding to go on my own path by starting my own small business after completing school for Software Engineering and realizing that while it’s a cool skillset its not what will ultimately make me happy in life for a career. I think that seeing your video come up on my RUclips feed is my sign to go for what I really want in life and I appreciate your encouragement. ❤ I love your art btw!

  • @megantanart
    @megantanart Месяц назад +3

    YOUR SKIN IS SO GLOWYYYY

  • @cobotoast
    @cobotoast Месяц назад +3

    I’m all on board with starting my own business and have recently concluded for myself that having a small business where I sell handmade things and studio vlogging all of that would be my dream job.
    But my problem is I’m a little stumped on where to begin! Even to begin planning is looking vast. I’m trying to figure out the beginning of my business plan just so I can start where I’m happy and not start so haphazardly. It’ll be challenging but I would love to push through to the other side soon.

  • @Habichl
    @Habichl Месяц назад

    Ahhh thank you so much for sharing, I relate so hard to everything you're saying. Also cried. Felt like I was talking to a friend who really understood what was happening in my head, and I felt really seen. Happy for you that you're seeing so much success after all the hard work, and thank you for giving us fellow small artists this pep talk. It is sometimes truly delusion that it'll all work out hahaha and I'm so grateful we have the internet to cheer each other on 💛💛💛

  • @juliatrue870
    @juliatrue870 Месяц назад

    Thank you for sharing your experience, this video was so inspiring and warm and fuzzy to watch. I’ve been watching your videos for about a year and a half and it’s been so enjoyable to watch you grow through the ups and downs. You helped inspire me to start my own small business too. Thanks again for putting yourself out there, you and your art is a joy to watch!

  • @lindahardman6258
    @lindahardman6258 Месяц назад +3

    Tammy your video touched me so deeply, especially when you talked about how you helped your Dad with his dental work. As someone who has experienced dental issues too, your helping really got to me. I literally said out loud, “Oh Tammy!” I love your videos. I’m uncomfy too.

  • @atsiepxs471
    @atsiepxs471 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this Tammy! Crazy how we're countries apart but can't help but feel proud of you. Your gratitude really radiates throughout the whole video ❤

  • @kalinglee2477
    @kalinglee2477 Месяц назад +2

    I am a four kids Mom, your videos can give me the motivation to start my own business, love you! I can feel you how happy and enjoy your life now. Such as good example for me. You do what I want to do. Good Jobs!!

  • @belle8669
    @belle8669 Месяц назад

    you’re the last sign and confirmation I needed to really get started and stay motivated. You’re such an inspiration as a college student I think you’re bad ass for accomplishing so much. Today my boyfriend’s mom bought me a tripod for my phone to start making videos of my art making. And then I get home and watch your video and it’s just 🥹 I want this for me so much. I really can’t do 9-5’s and working for things I’m not passionate about/working in toxic environments solely for the money. I wish nothing than more successes for you and your business, fly high! And wish me luck! 😊

  • @kolitiokada9825
    @kolitiokada9825 Месяц назад +3

    Hey Tammy! Love that your past self said "no" to working for corporate! Sounds like your collaborations with corporate were enjoyable.
    So happy you've made a comfy life through your self-employed creative endeavors! And how meaningful to give to your parents.
    Somewhere I came across the phrase/quote:
    Only compare yourself to who you were yesterday.
    Many Blessings!💗

  • @HangNguyen-ih8rf
    @HangNguyen-ih8rf Месяц назад +48

    I grew up with my parents fighting and screaming about finance. My mom would pull me out in the middle of their fight and make me fight for her. I raised my 2 youngest siblings.
    Now at 40 my life (mentally, financially, &physically) is in a sewage. Thanks mom.

    • @honeybee2644
      @honeybee2644 Месяц назад +13

      I feel sorry for u love, i hope and pray the rest of your life will full of happiness, blessings and trauma free peace with financial abundance ameen ❤

    • @fairytale143
      @fairytale143 28 дней назад +7

      I am so sorry you had to grow up so fast. I hope you can draw the line and put those past traumas behind you. A sense of family responsibility is a really good trait, but protecting your own peace is even more important. Live life for you. Wish you the best, friend.

    • @Annie080875
      @Annie080875 24 дня назад +6

      There comes a point when we have to stop blaming our parents for our dysfunctions. They were probably doing as good as they could, and after 40 years, you've had plenty of time to get therapy, get resilient, and begin to build the life you want. The good thing is you are still alive and have some time to pivot into the life you want.

    • @HangNguyen-ih8rf
      @HangNguyen-ih8rf 24 дня назад

      @@Annie080875
      At 40 im still taking care of my mom and my dad. They old and dying.

    • @thesecretlifeofhuman
      @thesecretlifeofhuman 17 дней назад +1

      At 40 you need to stand in your own two feet and be a responsible adult. I don’t doubt your story, but you don’t know your parents back stories - they were once children too. Let go of the past, draw from your inner strength, and move on.

  • @becomingbrittanyj
    @becomingbrittanyj Месяц назад

    This video popped up on my feed on my tv and I had to come to my computer to comment! I'm so glad at watched it! From one small business owner to another, I'm sooo proud of you! Thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @judaikawayt
    @judaikawayt Месяц назад +1

    This was truly so inspiring, I related to your story so much (being an introvert, having had to financially support my family, being hard on myself and almost letting this stop me from pursuing my dreams). I usually don't do this but I took so many notes so I don't forget the valuable things you shared on this video! I aspire to achieve this too one day. Thank you so much

  • @TaniaT94
    @TaniaT94 Месяц назад +7

    From somebody at the beginning of my small business, in the midst of impostor syndrome and being lost on what to do next - thank you for this 🥰

  • @ruwgirl
    @ruwgirl Месяц назад +3

    Thank you, Tammy ❤

  • @tshilangeleka
    @tshilangeleka Месяц назад

    I've watched many videos on RUclips, but Tammy it's really yours (and lofi music) that *truly* bring me comfort

  • @mintchoco1849
    @mintchoco1849 Месяц назад

    i love the way you talk! and it's amazing to hear that it's a self-taught skill. you are soft but assertive, calming but charismatic. you're a shining star💛

  • @amewithane
    @amewithane Месяц назад +10

    I love making art and have always played with idea of selling it because I can’t think of anything I’d rather do for the rest of my life but I always end up getting scared/uncomfy (lol) with taxes and setting things up from a legal perspective 💔

    • @Marentthu
      @Marentthu Месяц назад

      I can really relate to that, I´m the same! It´s so scary :(

    • @ArtwithOlga
      @ArtwithOlga Месяц назад +1

      Same here. That's why I am still working and starting now in social media seems really difficult. I see so many amazing artists so underrated. Good luck!💕

    • @Marentthu
      @Marentthu Месяц назад

      @@ArtwithOlga Thank you!💕 Yes, it´s really difficult getting an audience on social media, but hopefully we will get there :) Good luck to you as well!!

  • @bhuwnanaik3425
    @bhuwnanaik3425 26 дней назад +4

    Oh hello! fella Capricorn... Yes, we are delusional but we are hard-working.

  • @luizamavi2163
    @luizamavi2163 Месяц назад

    I feel so inspired and calm after watching this video, I'm graduating in the next few months and the anxiety of getting a job and becoming an entrepreneur simultaneously has been eating me alive, but now I realize that I've stopped believing that my dream future it's possible. Thank you so much for sharing your story, accepting that we will succeed is difficult when survival has always been difficult but now I see that it is NECESSARY to live a happy life.

  • @mariarincon4624
    @mariarincon4624 Месяц назад

    seeing your growth and hearing your story confirmed alot of the troubles i've been having when it comes to taking this kind of risk, much loves

  • @sarahhenderson8564
    @sarahhenderson8564 Месяц назад +1

    So proud of you and happy for you ❤ wishing you so much love and happiness!

  • @shanedaniels6412
    @shanedaniels6412 Месяц назад +2

    as another person finding confidence in himself all.. i want to say thanks for sharing and i am proud of you.

  • @m.g.4830
    @m.g.4830 Месяц назад +2

    I needed this video run. I was giving up on working on my own business full time because it will take so long to make a living off of it, but watching this video, and even family telling me to do what I love, has helped me so much mentally to keep going❤ thank you so much Tammi

  • @modalcreative
    @modalcreative Месяц назад +1

    Such a beautiful video! Hearing your whole journey and your bravery in taking steps towards being a business owner is very inspiring! I really respect the way you help your parents..I actually think a lot of people do this after I watched a video of secondary kids in NZ going to school then working 20 -30 hours pw as well to be able to help their parents pay for living costs. Love your content and hearing about your life journey, wishing you all the very best ☺️🫶🏼💚

  • @MarigoldMeredith
    @MarigoldMeredith 23 дня назад

    Thank you for this video. I am at a scary point in life where I can see my career is going nowhere and I’m not young enough to start all over with yet another thing that doesn’t fulfill my financial nor emotional needs- and it just feels right that I finally take care of my spirit by investing my time and care into my small business ideas, and make them real. Thanks for the added push and I wish you every success!

  • @TanyaLochridge
    @TanyaLochridge Месяц назад +1

    You are def a very wise old soul…in a young form. Such wonderful advice. I am old enough to be your grandma (and would proudly take that honor) and see so much light in your face. Sharing your story is a gift to the universe. 🐾💕🐾

  • @ebihearts
    @ebihearts Месяц назад +1

    I appreciate this video so much. It’s been a dream of mine to own my own small business, even as just a side job and your stories really help seem like it’s possible. My family and I need a lot of support right now and I’m hoping I find a way. Love your comfy uncomfy cozy channel.

  • @anhtu1544
    @anhtu1544 2 дня назад

    "Even though I couldn't understand most of it, I'd still stop everything I was doing to just listen. Because I felt like if i wasn't there, something bad would happen" :(

  • @TheSoulsomeLife
    @TheSoulsomeLife Месяц назад

    I'm SO glad the algorithm put this video in my recommendations. Chapter 3 made me want to cry...I'm on my business owner journey right now. It's more like a side hustle, but my dream is for it to grow and become my full-time career. But there is so much I'm learning-which is super exciting and rewarding, don't get me wrong-but this makes me feel like I'm behind and late to the game. I don't have much traction yet, but when I get out of my head I truly feel like I'm on the verge of something wonderful. Thank you for the nudge to keep going and for telling me to be open to the *inevitable* opportunities that will come my way. I just subscribed and I'm so excited to watch more of your videos and check out your store!

  • @reneisonfire2092
    @reneisonfire2092 Месяц назад

    Everything you have said really resonated with me as I have been considering for the longest time to follow your path as an artist myself. I may not know you personally, but I'm proud of you and your achievements in life. You inspire me so much. Thank you!

  • @micaela.herrera
    @micaela.herrera Месяц назад

    I always feel so warm and fuzzy after watching your videos, thank you for being you!

  • @eman_st
    @eman_st Месяц назад +1

    I think that this video came at the right time and that it is a sign for me to continue what I am doing. As a person who loves filming videos, I thought about opening a channel, but I had to study English as well. I combined them both together and it became very difficult to learn while making videos, but this is my passion and I will not give it up. ❤❤❤

  • @fromlovejenn
    @fromlovejenn Месяц назад +1

    you’re an inspiration Tammy ❤ I’ve been feeling so disenchanted with my 9-5 design job and have always wanted to start something of my own. Feeling very anxious and scared so trying to use all the nervous energy into movement in the right direction ❤

  • @cychimom
    @cychimom 8 дней назад

    Your tone of voice and way of speaking is really magnetic and soothing, and I can listen to your advice all day long without getting bored. I am also an anxious person, but I am learning how to get rid of it, and you gave me even more motivation.

  • @annieanhnguyen2118
    @annieanhnguyen2118 7 дней назад

    This is my first time coming across your channel and I immediately followed. As a fellow introverted Capricorn, I resonated so much with this video. Thank you and keep up the good work!

  • @greengoddess6664
    @greengoddess6664 8 дней назад

    Having not watched one of your videos for ages, I stumbled across this one and you blew me away.Your quiet confidence and love for yourself and the life your are building was inspirational. While I don't want to follow you into owning a small business, your kindness to yourself is something I'd like to emulate. Thank you for sharing and lighting up my day.

  • @LaurenBoisvert
    @LaurenBoisvert Месяц назад +1

    Listening to you talk about what you've been able to give back to your family made me BAWL! Congratulations on your hardwork paying off

  • @iamfrancotorres
    @iamfrancotorres 23 дня назад +1

    It’s amazing to see how small, consistent efforts can grow into something so significant over time.
    Thanks for sharing your journey and insights. it's super inspiring!

  • @SunSun-pf6wn
    @SunSun-pf6wn 23 часа назад +1

    I'm so moved and motivated by this video, thank you so much for sharing this!

  • @arielzshell
    @arielzshell 4 дня назад

    Omg our life path is so similar.
    I also started part time job at 15 and I’m 33 now. I felt the same about corporate life. I’m taking that leap of faith now, I just quit my job at US TikTok and gonna start my dream life. I will take my camper van to travel, to live free, live wild and do RUclips along the way. Your video gave me courage to start, and keep going, thank you ❤

  • @gabzydaisy
    @gabzydaisy Месяц назад

    ur so inspiring :(( i watched ur 24 hr clay & glaze vid and was mesmerized. all i can think of the entire time was "i want to live that life." as a creative, i relate a lot when you say you need to live a passionate life. in fact, it was what i thought of when i saw your studio vid for the first time: such a life of passion. i love it so much, and i hope someday, i can achieve that kind of life too! wishing the best for you, tammy

  • @nikkimunir
    @nikkimunir 7 дней назад

    Your analogy at the end of starting something something being like planting a tree. Thats how I feel about my RUclips channel. This isn’t a season of life where I can personally make time to upload weekly, but it’s something that does energize me, I enjoy getting better at, and feel like I’m adding something to the world. And who knows one day it could be fruitful financially. Thank you for sharing your experience!

  • @candysemcdonald8261
    @candysemcdonald8261 29 дней назад

    The fact of how you were able to bless your family is wonderful. I cherish the fact you were able to send your parents on a trip and take care of your Dad's teeth doing what you love to do.

  • @RyeMiArt
    @RyeMiArt 18 дней назад

    Being very and I mean very introverted and being a capricorn as well I am so so SO proud of you! You've come such a long way! I appreciate you, your hard work, the inspiration and comfort you bring to all of us!

  • @MsShannaK
    @MsShannaK Месяц назад +1

    What an amazing woman and daughter you are. I’m glad you found your light in the world and share with others. Thank you 🥹💖 so proud of you.

  • @trishapham2073
    @trishapham2073 Месяц назад

    Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story! Being a 1st gen Viet, your story really resonated with me about growing up and seeing our parents go through financial struggles. Growing up, I felt as though I had to push away my artistic passions to pursue something more stable or better income, so I majored in computer science. And it took me a lot of courage these past few years to completely change course and start to pursue art again.

  • @Piasays
    @Piasays Месяц назад

    Thank you for this video. Been watching for a while and your personality has definitely flowered and shines so much now. Wishing you all the best!

  • @alextheandersen
    @alextheandersen Месяц назад +2

    Needed to hear this, perfect timing, thank you so much for showing up so authentically

  • @linasuraini8046
    @linasuraini8046 7 дней назад

    this made me tear up. i’m so glad i found your video. thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @shxxbadaaa131
    @shxxbadaaa131 5 дней назад

    I can feel how genuine of a person you are and I'm just so proud of you. You know what I would love to also have my own business and be my own boss like you someday. You're such an inspiration to us youth. Please continue on what you're doing and I hope your business will grow even more than what it is now.

  • @theartofameerali9449
    @theartofameerali9449 12 дней назад

    This was beautiful. Thankyou for reminding us all how far we have come and needs more confidence and courage to keep moving forward

  • @azizulislam3207
    @azizulislam3207 3 дня назад

    Watching your video really inspired me. You have pointed out so many things that I didn't think how I should handle them. "not having to be the best" is the quote I will remember the most. Thank you, Uncomfy.

  • @lizaorlina
    @lizaorlina Месяц назад

    You are doing so great and you should be very very proud of yourself! You are setting such a great example for all young artists and you are doing it even though most people would not have the skill and effort to pull it off!! You are doing amazing 👏👏 proud of you!! ❤

  • @saharicoasis4083
    @saharicoasis4083 Месяц назад

    Hey! Happy for you! The part about growing skills that are good not only for business but life overall.. the mental resilience is so necessary today.
    helping parents, being an immigrant kid - so cool!
    good luck in your journey! ❤

  • @diariesofanomad
    @diariesofanomad 22 дня назад

    Such a lovingly devoted video to the messy inbetween. Thanks for deep validation, witness and the experience of someone further along the path. It's like you reaching your hand out and saying, "come, trust yourself". Thanks for the beauty and grace

  • @infinitebeing211
    @infinitebeing211 Месяц назад +2

    I love this girl. She gives off great vibes

  • @peachymomentos
    @peachymomentos Месяц назад

    I am seriously going to cry, thank you so much for being so genuine about your journey. You have such a beautiful heart!! Ever since I was 12 I’ve been doing polymer clay creations and now I’m 21, and my inner child has always wanted to sell my creations but my sensitivity, anxiety, and family trauma has held me back. But I am ready to take the step to take my inner child seriously. I was wondering why I relate to you and your life path so much until I realized you’re a Capricorn. I am one too

  • @stellisiek
    @stellisiek Месяц назад

    I feel like you're my best friend, thank you for being here and sharing your personal experience

  • @terehialipsham7271
    @terehialipsham7271 Месяц назад

    I love this so much - you're so inspiring! I had always wanted to start up my own business or side hussle, because I hate the drain the 9-5 has on me. After watching your videos (I only found you like three months ago), I've decided to take the leap! Thank you so much

  • @sheilaxu431
    @sheilaxu431 25 дней назад

    Aww Tammy, I am so touched by how grateful you are with all that you've achieved. You are so thoughtful and mature at such a young age, and I am genuinely so happy for you! Glad that the algorithm had recommended this video to me