Timestamps 1). All three signs of the dark triad are present in their personality 0:22 2). They have a malicious personality 0:49 3). They like prince charming until 1:13 4). They get upset when others are experiencing something positive 1:58 5). They love to gossip 2:32 Hopefully this helps you out.
To be perfectly honest, I’ve seen these traits in myself 😢. It’s a work in progress and very very difficult. But I’m working very hard to change my behavior because I want to be a better person for my family.
@@kavinvendant8450 Let's be careful about telling someone who is working hard to recover that "they will be ok." I would encourage Aron that recognition is the first step toward recovery and that there is a very real risk that they will NOT be ok unless they continue to stay focused and mindful toward that goal of recovery. Hope is real, good job for taking that first step, and don't give up!
I dont see a problem about being a dark empath as long as you dont hurt the ones you actually "care" about in any kind of way (mentally or physically etc.)
Dealing with a dark empath is something many people can relate to. But the sad thing about it is that most people do not even realize when they are dealing with such people because it can be so subtle sometimes.
Malignant narcissism runs along the same lines - they seek people out who they decide are “weaker” mentally and manipulate them further. I have lifetime experience with this because of my father. You will need to cut off all ties and move away in order to stay alive, literally.
This one really hit home. It's good to understand your trigger points and your weaknesses as well as understanding the origins of it. We are then told that we need to block those people out of our lives. What if these people are two of your closest family members and the only way to block them is to walk away from your entire family and existence. I have been trying to find a name for what they are and now this makes total sense. Any response that you would do in this situation just makes it worse as these people then play the victim card and because they are only that way with you, you the victim is always seen as the villain. The alternative to walking away is shutting down which most people including myself, resort to doing as there is now way out. All of your triggers, weaknesses, insecurities are compounded for over 30 years. This leaves you broken and alone as you then find it difficult to make other relationships so you are always all alone. If you leave, you are all alone and your family will be upset with you for leaving. You then occupy yourself with work and that's all you do and do not live. You only social with your dark empath's and their family which becomes a vicious cycle because the bad times outway the goods and you have a false sense of family. You never start you own family and friends because of this false sense and always hope that things will change or people will change. You try working on yourself but there is always a trigger that these dark empath's know that you have and resets all the self improvements that you have done which leaves you without energy to move on.
1 All three signs of the dark triad are present in their personality 0:23 2 they have a malicious personality 0:51 3 They are like a Prince Charming until… 1:16 4 they get upset when others are experiencing something positive 2:01 5 they love to gossip 2:33 Hope this helps❤
I keep reading and hearing that dark empaths have high dark traits and high congnitive empathy, but very low affective empathy... But there must be a version of the dark empath with high affective empathy, because I think that's me. I do feel the pain I have caused to others, in some cases it still haunts me and I feel extremely guilty and ashamed, I know my empathy isn't just coginitive, but I do feel the pain, the joy, the sadness, and every emotion when I put myself in other people's shoes. I feel all that as if it was happening to me. Yet I keep engaging in manipulative behaviors anyway, and I use my empathy as a tool to act and say the things people want to hear, to get my goals, and feel guilty and I hate myself throughout the whole process because not only I understand the pain I'm causing, or that I know I will cause once the deed is done, but I feel it, I can't believe I'm betraying or hurting or lying to someone that trusts me, it has made me sick sometimes in the past. For example, one of the many things I did: I was in a relationship with my now ex girlfriend, but I kept cheating on her, which felt good for the moment, because the sex with other people felt good, but then I felt extremely guilty; and to do it, I usually lied about having a girlfriend, in one ocassion I met a girl on Tinder, that eventually fell in love with me, I lied to her about having a girlfriend because I knew she wouldn't date me if she knew I had one. She was very open about her feelings which made things easier for me, and I could act, and say everything she wanted to hear, I ocassionaly went on with full monologues about what is right for healthy relationships considering my past fake experiences I was telling her, etc, a complete hypocrite... but when the time came, when I realized the whole thing went too far and she even told me that she loved me, I had to step back, I came up with a lie about me having to leave the city to hide the fact that I was going back to where I lived with my girlfriend. And the whole process felt both good (because the sex was great) but horrible, at every moment I knew I was betraying the trust of a wonderful person, I kept telling myself when I saw her smiling and joyful and hopeful about us, "what am I doing?", and when I said goodbye for good, and she cried a lot, I came back home crying too, realizing the pain I caused and feeling it myself, I felt horrible. As for my girlfriend, I felt the same, I couldn't look at her in the eyes, but did it anyway and put my best face on so she didn't suspect anything, all while feeling like the piece of shit that I was. And feeling all that didn't stop me, I kept doing it, until the guilt was too overwhelming and I tried to commit suicide, for which I'm on therapy right now. But regardless of my personal case, my point is, if being manipulative with others while using empathy as a weapon for said manipulation is what defines a dark empath, there must be a version of it with high affective empathy. Affective empathy won't necessarily stop someone from doing these horrible things to others. You can shut down that affective empathy for brief moments to get what you want, and then feel the whole overwhelming stuff at once later.
i honestly know a few people like this. it makes me sad because i have a really hard time leaving people behind even when knowing they really aren’t that good of people. it almost makes me pity them to the point i can’t leave them behind.
Do not. When it comes to these people, your emotions are their target. Just make them feel insignificant and find a way to drift yourself away. Don't explain anything. They'd use your words to guilt trip you into coming back.
my ex is like this. at the time we broke up she made everyone turns against me, made rumors about me and our relationship to make people pity her. just now, 3 years later, everyone knows how manipulative she is
Dude, something similar happened with my sister, whose ex did the same to her. He made all her friends turn against her and everyone pitied him.. my sister was left confused and so much in guilt for breaking up with him.. only I know how much she cried cuz of that b*stard.. Hope you're fine tho, it takes alot of time to heal from that kind of abuse..🥺 please take care..
My ex boyfriend and I had a 12 year (should have been 13 years) friendship since high school. We dated for a couple of years until we split up, but kept the friendship until now. I found out he's a dark empath because of him having those signs. After things were going downhill within our friendship, I tried to end it the first time a couple of years ago, but he told my dad that he didn't want to end the friendship between us and we both made amends until things started to get toxic with drama and fights later on after renewing the friendship. I confronted him about his dark empathic personality and felt resentment towards him and he blocked me on social media and other communication so I ended the friendship the second time for good. I figured out he manipulated me to stay with the friendship when he told my dad about feeling shocked on the first end of our friendship. I don't feel guilty or regret of ending the friendship the second time and I still have resentful feelings towards him to do this day. Be careful of being friends with dark empaths.
The primary difference between a straight up narcissist and a dark Empath is the Empath's ability to read your emotions, then use that knowledge against you. This ends up as a deeper understanding of their victim, which allows them to be far more manipulative than the general narcissist would be capable of.
When this person in the place of authority itll be very hard because they distort information and youll have no clue whats what. Of course you can try various ways to deal with them... me, i couldnt stand working in such an environment so i quit.
I love to discuss psychology and analize people around me, especially if they are friends and seems in need of assistance. Yet, I'm always afraid by the fact that I could be a dark empath. Though, the fact that I fear being one, isn't it a proof that I might NOT be such a person ? Anyway, I must keep in mind I come to people to help them feel better and cope with their problems, not to manipulate, hurt, or gossip them.
Wish I'd have had this information a lot sooner. Then again I wouldn't have found your channel 6-ish years ago if hadn't been in need. I'm gratefull for everything you taught me over the years. Keep up the good work! :)
I feel like im a psycho with dark empathy energy, but also genuine kindness and pure empathy and apathy when i talk with people that i genuinely like. Can be very confusing, it's like a switch . of intense fuxKed
can u do a video on signs YOU are a dark empath? Because I'm pretty sure I am. I can be so charming and funny to make people do what I want but the second som1 is even slightly rude to me I become cold and irritable. I have EVERY SINGLE ONE of them, except sometimes I do feel a twinge if guilt. but I don't want to get attacked for "self diagnosing" and im too proud to go to therapy or tell my parents bc I don't want to admit to being weak. vulnerability makes me sick to my stomach. whenever I see the comments like "my ex used to be like that" or "my friend was like that" I can't help but think I would be the ex that hurts others and friend that manipulates... it's happened before. so please make a video on it lol
I am dealing with someone at the moment, who shows all the signs in this video. And somehow, I still wonder "what if I am wrong?" I always do this. And while I personally think it is good to challenge your own perspective, it also means I ignore some pretty bad things, because I want to believe in the good side. And it allows them to harm me quite a bit. How do you distinguish between the intentional and the unintentional? How do you make them stop being cruel and controlling?
I wonder if it's possible to have Dark Empath who shows their dark side to their entire friend group, targeting each of them individually one at a time? Has that happened before? How large is the limit to their friend group before they get exposed or feel uncomfortable doing it? I find this very interesting, thank you, I'd love to look into it more.
I think the guy in your friend group is just a classical Dark Triad or a Sociopath. Dark Empath is basically a fancy name for a Covert Dark Triad. I actually knew a guy who kind of fits the bill. Very successful and surprisingly pleasant fellow. He actually treats people quite well regardless of their status. But it always felt kinda forced. I was still fine with him until one day he put me in a precarious position trying to get a secret out of me. That is when I realized something is off about the guy. Thankfully he's a friend of a friend so, I don't have to deal with him too much. Unless you're dating or married to this kind of person they won't be too bad as long as you keep the distance in my opinion. Hence why these people stayed under the radar for so long. These folks aren't unpleasant enough to blow their cover so easily. In short, if you feel someone is using you and at the same time making you feel like a king, that guy is probably a dark empath. This is just a personal opinion and I could be way off. Among famous people I think Canada's Justin Trudeau is a good example. Not 100% though.
I don't think so... the kind of person who targets an entire group of "friends" is the kind who becomes (or seeks to become) a cult leader. That's a fairly classic extreme of Antisocial Personality... Think Jimmy Jones or Charlie Manson... Hell, even scour around a bit and listen to some of the audio records we have from them... and others like them. Arguably some of the Evangelists would fit the bill, using money from people who can barely scrape by financially to fund mega-churches and huge pseudo-religious programs on TV and the like... traveling on private jets... always expensive cars... A Dark Empath, however, is subtler. SO there's a severe minority to the people targeted among a given "friend group". They're too easily exposed if the friends get together and ever compare notes or share their confessions about whatever "secret" the Empath is holding over them or between each other... SO you've got to think more about acting as the "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing" as it were... or how a "real vampire" might carry on through society for a lifetime (or forever) without getting caught and charged with murder. Obviously, farming a whole village for children (because virgin blood is better) wouldn't be the kind of operation that goes unnoticed. Better to lure one or two kids out of sight and screaming range at a time... That way the crime can be "suitably covered up" to obscure what was actually going on when the bodies are found... OR even better, sneaking about to "Bite and Sip" rather than vampirizing someone all the way to death all at once. Bodies aren't exactly the easiest thing to get rid of, and people notice when someone suddenly goes missing... a nip here and a nip there, though... You see what I mean? ;o)
What are traits of parents who might be dark empaths? Thank you. I know a few dark empaths. I call them nice bullies. Do dark empaths also try to get others to gang up on their targets or victims too?
Ah, I've been wondering what a dark empath was for a while. I always sort of thought it was someone who was able to empathize with dangerous people to the extent that they excuse (or in some cases maybe even condone) their behaviors. I wonder if there's a word for this kind of person. Very interesting regardless!
Technically, it would make sense if a dark empath could experience that sentiment for another dark empath. I mean, they share similar traits and idiosyncrasies. So, who is to say that they don't identify with one another? Especially, knowing that a lot of these people struggle with identity crisis. In regards to a specific term that defines this behavior, I have no clue.
Thank You all at Psych2Go. The word's are almost not enough. These people are somewhat desired by management,and administrator's. The disturbing part as a piece of the whole is that the amount, kind, and type of this behavior can cause a person to self sabotage their own potential out of pent up anger,frustration, and the view point that the perpetrator is emotionless, as well as being an appetite that will not be sated.
Only the outside shell of dark empathy is being exposed… I would’ve been more entertained to learn more about myself from another’s perspective, but nonetheless its still viable resource material! Thanks
How I interpret a Dark Empath is someone with high E.Q. that can manipulate others' emotions. That manipulation can be subtly or direct, nurturing or can weaponize a person's emotions. Batman is a classic Dark Empath if you look at how he interacts with Villians, learns about his allies and treats his close relationships.
Now after watching this vid- I noticed that every single sign in this vid relates to someone I know but they are the only one I actually have tbh but anyways I have decided to avoid them and never share ANYTHING abt myself to them ever again cuz they dont deserve me-
wouldn’t dark empathy &psychopathy go togetger &or be same deal sense they both came others into submission?? also has there ever been any dark empaths with dark tetras traits??
I was diagnosed as a Sociopath when I was younger. When I reached highschool I did a lot of self reflection, and self exploration. However, while I was able too control the tendencies and impulses, I probably became more of a dark Empath without knowing it...
I don't think I'm or anyone I know is a complete dark empath, is it possible to be like a shady empath? like that one spot under a tree that changes shade when a leaf flips around. I do use empathy for self gain or to kinda shut down other people, but only if they're being negative to me or my friends, I mostly stay nice and stuff but I can be like this at times or when the situation calls for it. ha, it's being batman, except... yeah I'm not batman.
same just like my EX, when we broke up she made everyone against me, but by the time everyone saw her true colors and my friends are back together. She tried many times to come back but my friends did not let her in. So I think its better to cut these kind of people maybe :(
You are more important than everyone else!!! Belive me they don't know you and everyone thinks that way subconsciously no matter how loving or selfless they look like everyone thinks that they're an angel but it's not that way there's no difference between me you narcissists sociopaths or psychopats WE'RE ALL FKING HUMAAANS everyone has empathy belive it or not WE'RE HUMAAAANSSS
I’m aware that the spectrum between empaths & narcs isn’t linear, or black & white. But the term ‘Dark Empath’, to me just adds far too many shades of grey. Anyone can feign cognitive empathy even psychopaths & narcissists in order to ‘fit in’ so to speak. The difference being however, is that they can’t exhibit emotional empathy. To me dark empaths don’t exist- they’re just narcissists who’ve mastered how to mimic cognitive empathy, with the addition of a very robust facade
I should probably feel bad for orange scarf dude, being put in the dark empath spot. Thinking about that one comment that said something along the lines of "never trust an orange dude with a scarf.". And thanks for the Psychology 101.
Dark empaths watching the video realizing they can just change the way they act but still get what they want Lemme elaborate they basically dont give out signs of the dark triad
Where my mom was from , dark empaths were just a basic factor of society. When a sibling , usually a bad sister , was old enough to move out. She would talk trash about the others to their "clicky friends" , other dark empaths. And from there , it would spread like wild fire.
I realizes, I'm toxic. And I cannot handle this. I'm not able to see when I do toxic things. So I cut off all my relationships to save others. Is anyone who struggles with the same issue?
The problem is how they are treated when abuse is reported - they are allowed to get away with their behavior (especially in the US, where religion & politics affect everything, including how males are “made superior” overall). You have to find people who will help you, 1 way or another, until you can get to a place where you feel much safer.
So apparently just being an empath isn't good, it's the whole person that needs to be good in order to make use of the "empath" thing, although, I think being an empath just means you have experience
They said that I couldn't give them every thing they want. May be they were correct.. They deserve someone better than me. I ain't at par to them. May they find a competent partner.
The negative stigma around this personality that a lot of psychology channels have been pushing since it was first introduced and acting like they have nothing but evil intentions 100% of the time is getting weird.
You're only showing the slopiest form of dark empaths. A successful dark empath is never detected and gets what they want without anyone knowing. We can keep up the facade even behind closed doors until we're no longer satisfied with the situation Or we gotten what we want, or We just get bored. I once to dated a gal who I had 0 interest in for 5 months. Just to get to a different girl and when I was ready to leave the one I was with and make my move, it was a 5 min conversion where i bluntly told her "i dont love you any more, please leave" I did this knowing it would devastate her, because I needed her to leave as quickly as possible since the other girl was coming over in just an hour. Just remember you never know a person's motivation. I've had relationships where I treated the person stupendously from beginning to end because it was the most advantageous thing for me to do.. Not because I actually cared about their well-being. Reality is an illusion, only the perception of reality matters.
Im a dark empath and I mean everyone here talks about ‘dealing with them’ like we’re all the anti-Christ but most of us can be kind compassionate people, only difference being that we simply don’t have the capacity to feel it in our hearts.
Are there any countermeasures if my father is a dark empath with signs no.1,3~5 and treats my mum worse than what she deserves 80% of the time? Like I understand that he had given immense amount of effort to build up wealth and have a great environment for our family to live in, but you can't down play everything my mum also did for him and the family just because she grew up in a rural area and didn't went to college!
Yeah... it reminds me of my latest ex-boss... but i really not sure, dont want to be paranoid but itd be really ironical if so because my ex-ex-boss was a narcissist🤣☠️
Timestamps
1). All three signs of the dark triad are present in their personality 0:22
2). They have a malicious personality 0:49
3). They like prince charming until 1:13
4). They get upset when others are experiencing something positive 1:58
5). They love to gossip 2:32
Hopefully this helps you out.
@no chains no more sounds like hell
@no chains no more good for you getting out of there man always do what's better for you
Yes
Good job ho. Proud of u redhead ho
@@YARDBARKER44 thanks
To be perfectly honest, I’ve seen these traits in myself 😢. It’s a work in progress and very very difficult. But I’m working very hard to change my behavior because I want to be a better person for my family.
It'll be okay.....you'll be okay
@@kavinvendant8450 awww 🥺
@@kavinvendant8450 Let's be careful about telling someone who is working hard to recover that "they will be ok." I would encourage Aron that recognition is the first step toward recovery and that there is a very real risk that they will NOT be ok unless they continue to stay focused and mindful toward that goal of recovery. Hope is real, good job for taking that first step, and don't give up!
Being a dark empath doesn't mean you are necessarily a bad person. 😅😇
I dont see a problem about being a dark empath as long as you dont hurt the ones you actually "care" about in any kind of way (mentally or physically etc.)
Dealing with a dark empath is something many people can relate to. But the sad thing about it is that most people do not even realize when they are dealing with such people because it can be so subtle sometimes.
Malignant narcissism runs along the same lines - they seek people out who they decide are “weaker” mentally and manipulate them further. I have lifetime experience with this because of my father. You will need to cut off all ties and move away in order to stay alive, literally.
This one really hit home. It's good to understand your trigger points and your weaknesses as well as understanding the origins of it. We are then told that we need to block those people out of our lives. What if these people are two of your closest family members and the only way to block them is to walk away from your entire family and existence. I have been trying to find a name for what they are and now this makes total sense. Any response that you would do in this situation just makes it worse as these people then play the victim card and because they are only that way with you, you the victim is always seen as the villain. The alternative to walking away is shutting down which most people including myself, resort to doing as there is now way out. All of your triggers, weaknesses, insecurities are compounded for over 30 years. This leaves you broken and alone as you then find it difficult to make other relationships so you are always all alone. If you leave, you are all alone and your family will be upset with you for leaving. You then occupy yourself with work and that's all you do and do not live. You only social with your dark empath's and their family which becomes a vicious cycle because the bad times outway the goods and you have a false sense of family. You never start you own family and friends because of this false sense and always hope that things will change or people will change. You try working on yourself but there is always a trigger that these dark empath's know that you have and resets all the self improvements that you have done which leaves you without energy to move on.
Oof thats hard men, the best thing would be to save some money and leave, leave far away and do terapy to get better bit by bit
1 All three signs of the dark triad are present in their personality 0:23
2 they have a malicious personality 0:51
3 They are like a Prince Charming until… 1:16
4 they get upset when others are experiencing something positive 2:01
5 they love to gossip 2:33
Hope this helps❤
I keep reading and hearing that dark empaths have high dark traits and high congnitive empathy, but very low affective empathy... But there must be a version of the dark empath with high affective empathy, because I think that's me. I do feel the pain I have caused to others, in some cases it still haunts me and I feel extremely guilty and ashamed, I know my empathy isn't just coginitive, but I do feel the pain, the joy, the sadness, and every emotion when I put myself in other people's shoes. I feel all that as if it was happening to me. Yet I keep engaging in manipulative behaviors anyway, and I use my empathy as a tool to act and say the things people want to hear, to get my goals, and feel guilty and I hate myself throughout the whole process because not only I understand the pain I'm causing, or that I know I will cause once the deed is done, but I feel it, I can't believe I'm betraying or hurting or lying to someone that trusts me, it has made me sick sometimes in the past. For example, one of the many things I did: I was in a relationship with my now ex girlfriend, but I kept cheating on her, which felt good for the moment, because the sex with other people felt good, but then I felt extremely guilty; and to do it, I usually lied about having a girlfriend, in one ocassion I met a girl on Tinder, that eventually fell in love with me, I lied to her about having a girlfriend because I knew she wouldn't date me if she knew I had one. She was very open about her feelings which made things easier for me, and I could act, and say everything she wanted to hear, I ocassionaly went on with full monologues about what is right for healthy relationships considering my past fake experiences I was telling her, etc, a complete hypocrite... but when the time came, when I realized the whole thing went too far and she even told me that she loved me, I had to step back, I came up with a lie about me having to leave the city to hide the fact that I was going back to where I lived with my girlfriend. And the whole process felt both good (because the sex was great) but horrible, at every moment I knew I was betraying the trust of a wonderful person, I kept telling myself when I saw her smiling and joyful and hopeful about us, "what am I doing?", and when I said goodbye for good, and she cried a lot, I came back home crying too, realizing the pain I caused and feeling it myself, I felt horrible. As for my girlfriend, I felt the same, I couldn't look at her in the eyes, but did it anyway and put my best face on so she didn't suspect anything, all while feeling like the piece of shit that I was. And feeling all that didn't stop me, I kept doing it, until the guilt was too overwhelming and I tried to commit suicide, for which I'm on therapy right now.
But regardless of my personal case, my point is, if being manipulative with others while using empathy as a weapon for said manipulation is what defines a dark empath, there must be a version of it with high affective empathy. Affective empathy won't necessarily stop someone from doing these horrible things to others. You can shut down that affective empathy for brief moments to get what you want, and then feel the whole overwhelming stuff at once later.
i honestly know a few people like this. it makes me sad because i have a really hard time leaving people behind even when knowing they really aren’t that good of people. it almost makes me pity them to the point i can’t leave them behind.
Wish I could tell people about these kinds, our society is the main reason tbh
Don't be a shite magnet.
Do not. When it comes to these people, your emotions are their target. Just make them feel insignificant and find a way to drift yourself away. Don't explain anything. They'd use your words to guilt trip you into coming back.
my ex is like this. at the time we broke up she made everyone turns against me, made rumors about me and our relationship to make people pity her. just now, 3 years later, everyone knows how manipulative she is
Dude, something similar happened with my sister, whose ex did the same to her. He made all her friends turn against her and everyone pitied him.. my sister was left confused and so much in guilt for breaking up with him.. only I know how much she cried cuz of that b*stard..
Hope you're fine tho, it takes alot of time to heal from that kind of abuse..🥺 please take care..
@@shikhasuman871 🥺🥺
bro ur ex has crossed the line but good thing that the truth came out at the end and u left her in the first place
Bro. your ex is just at most a sociopath, or just have little revenge in her. You have no idea what is the capability of a dark empath
Love the characters, your tones, our humor and well timed inflections...fun personality. "I'll be back"
My narc ex used to say she was an empath all the time, but never specified which kind.
Wish I knew this then.
My ex boyfriend and I had a 12 year (should have been 13 years) friendship since high school. We dated for a couple of years until we split up, but kept the friendship until now. I found out he's a dark empath because of him having those signs. After things were going downhill within our friendship, I tried to end it the first time a couple of years ago, but he told my dad that he didn't want to end the friendship between us and we both made amends until things started to get toxic with drama and fights later on after renewing the friendship. I confronted him about his dark empathic personality and felt resentment towards him and he blocked me on social media and other communication so I ended the friendship the second time for good. I figured out he manipulated me to stay with the friendship when he told my dad about feeling shocked on the first end of our friendship. I don't feel guilty or regret of ending the friendship the second time and I still have resentful feelings towards him to do this day. Be careful of being friends with dark empaths.
It seems that i have become a Dark Empath...which makes me wonder where and when did i messed up on my path.
The primary difference between a straight up narcissist and a dark Empath is the Empath's ability to read your emotions, then use that knowledge against you. This ends up as a deeper understanding of their victim, which allows them to be far more manipulative than the general narcissist would be capable of.
Dang, this is me... I am sort of aware of it though, and choose to not act on certain things.
Best thing to do in case you are dealing with a dark empath is avoid getting manipulated by them as much as you can
Oh my god. Really?! Who would’ve known?!
how do you know you are getting manipulated lmao
When this person in the place of authority itll be very hard because they distort information and youll have no clue whats what. Of course you can try various ways to deal with them... me, i couldnt stand working in such an environment so i quit.
I think I might have a friend like this…
premium membership? orr-
Same 😢
y'all making it sound like dark empaths are a threat to society 🤡
Friend? Checkmate I have one in my family ☹️
@@Pratt11 ohh that’s depressing dude
I love to discuss psychology and analize people around me, especially if they are friends and seems in need of assistance. Yet, I'm always afraid by the fact that I could be a dark empath. Though, the fact that I fear being one, isn't it a proof that I might NOT be such a person ? Anyway, I must keep in mind I come to people to help them feel better and cope with their problems, not to manipulate, hurt, or gossip them.
ur not a dark empath
I love the thumbnail art in this one♡
I love how they show dark empath as some kind of nasty pet that they spray water in it to make it behave
I stumbled across your channel and have learned so much. Where were you guys when I was dating a few of my exes...
Wish I'd have had this information a lot sooner.
Then again I wouldn't have found your channel 6-ish years ago if hadn't been in need. I'm gratefull for everything you taught me over the years.
Keep up the good work! :)
This was my stepdad. The way he manipulated me at 15 and a half was telling me I was a coward. I wish I hadn't believed him.😭😭
I feel like im a psycho with dark empathy energy, but also genuine kindness and pure empathy and apathy when i talk with people that i genuinely like. Can be very confusing, it's like a switch . of intense fuxKed
Thank you for the video!
Thanks for all the helpful information!
can u do a video on signs YOU are a dark empath? Because I'm pretty sure I am. I can be so charming and funny to make people do what I want but the second som1 is even slightly rude to me I become cold and irritable. I have EVERY SINGLE ONE of them, except sometimes I do feel a twinge if guilt. but I don't want to get attacked for "self diagnosing" and im too proud to go to therapy or tell my parents bc I don't want to admit to being weak. vulnerability makes me sick to my stomach. whenever I see the comments like "my ex used to be like that" or "my friend was like that" I can't help but think I would be the ex that hurts others and friend that manipulates... it's happened before. so please make a video on it lol
same here :/ completely agree
Bro just described everyone in It’s always sunny
100% sure I have dark empathy. It actually helps me to manipulate and achieve what I want. Im very lucky to have it.💪
In short, they given up being good. They're like the "fallen angels".
🥶🥶🥶🥶 such a fire descriptor
Okay this is off topic to the video but the art style is beautiful
Every group of an adult male friends make fun of each other. Hell, in the military it get worse
I am dealing with someone at the moment, who shows all the signs in this video. And somehow, I still wonder "what if I am wrong?" I always do this. And while I personally think it is good to challenge your own perspective, it also means I ignore some pretty bad things, because I want to believe in the good side. And it allows them to harm me quite a bit. How do you distinguish between the intentional and the unintentional? How do you make them stop being cruel and controlling?
I see this channel more than my own family 😆
Lol😂.. That's a bit much buddy😅
@@Edwin_khuptong I prefer this channel Lol
Dark empaths fight psychopaths and sociopaths...like Dexter. ❤️
I wonder if it's possible to have Dark Empath who shows their dark side to their entire friend group, targeting each of them individually one at a time? Has that happened before? How large is the limit to their friend group before they get exposed or feel uncomfortable doing it? I find this very interesting, thank you, I'd love to look into it more.
I think the guy in your friend group is just a classical Dark Triad or a Sociopath. Dark Empath is basically a fancy name for a Covert Dark Triad. I actually knew a guy who kind of fits the bill. Very successful and surprisingly pleasant fellow. He actually treats people quite well regardless of their status. But it always felt kinda forced. I was still fine with him until one day he put me in a precarious position trying to get a secret out of me. That is when I realized something is off about the guy. Thankfully he's a friend of a friend so, I don't have to deal with him too much. Unless you're dating or married to this kind of person they won't be too bad as long as you keep the distance in my opinion. Hence why these people stayed under the radar for so long. These folks aren't unpleasant enough to blow their cover so easily.
In short, if you feel someone is using you and at the same time making you feel like a king, that guy is probably a dark empath. This is just a personal opinion and I could be way off. Among famous people I think Canada's Justin Trudeau is a good example. Not 100% though.
I don't think so... the kind of person who targets an entire group of "friends" is the kind who becomes (or seeks to become) a cult leader. That's a fairly classic extreme of Antisocial Personality... Think Jimmy Jones or Charlie Manson... Hell, even scour around a bit and listen to some of the audio records we have from them... and others like them. Arguably some of the Evangelists would fit the bill, using money from people who can barely scrape by financially to fund mega-churches and huge pseudo-religious programs on TV and the like... traveling on private jets... always expensive cars...
A Dark Empath, however, is subtler. SO there's a severe minority to the people targeted among a given "friend group". They're too easily exposed if the friends get together and ever compare notes or share their confessions about whatever "secret" the Empath is holding over them or between each other... SO you've got to think more about acting as the "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing" as it were... or how a "real vampire" might carry on through society for a lifetime (or forever) without getting caught and charged with murder. Obviously, farming a whole village for children (because virgin blood is better) wouldn't be the kind of operation that goes unnoticed. Better to lure one or two kids out of sight and screaming range at a time... That way the crime can be "suitably covered up" to obscure what was actually going on when the bodies are found... OR even better, sneaking about to "Bite and Sip" rather than vampirizing someone all the way to death all at once. Bodies aren't exactly the easiest thing to get rid of, and people notice when someone suddenly goes missing... a nip here and a nip there, though...
You see what I mean? ;o)
What are traits of parents who might be dark empaths? Thank you. I know a few dark empaths. I call them nice bullies. Do dark empaths also try to get others to gang up on their targets or victims too?
Ah, I've been wondering what a dark empath was for a while. I always sort of thought it was someone who was able to empathize with dangerous people to the extent that they excuse (or in some cases maybe even condone) their behaviors. I wonder if there's a word for this kind of person. Very interesting regardless!
... Interesting.
If there's one, I'd like to know it...
Technically, it would make sense if a dark empath could experience that sentiment for another dark empath. I mean, they share similar traits and idiosyncrasies. So, who is to say that they don't identify with one another? Especially, knowing that a lot of these people struggle with identity crisis. In regards to a specific term that defines this behavior, I have no clue.
Thank You all at Psych2Go. The word's are almost not enough. These people are somewhat desired by management,and administrator's. The disturbing part as a piece of the whole is that the amount, kind, and type of this behavior can cause a person to self sabotage their own potential out of pent up anger,frustration, and the view point that the perpetrator is emotionless, as well as being an appetite that will not be sated.
Ok...the 4th point hit hard😂,so did the others, maybe I am.
Only the outside shell of dark empathy is being exposed… I would’ve been more entertained to learn more about myself from another’s perspective, but nonetheless its still viable resource material! Thanks
How I interpret a Dark Empath is someone with high E.Q. that can manipulate others' emotions. That manipulation can be subtly or direct, nurturing or can weaponize a person's emotions. Batman is a classic Dark Empath if you look at how he interacts with Villians, learns about his allies and treats his close relationships.
Reminds me of a young version me..😮😢I found out that was a learned behavior 🤷🏾♂️
Yes, it is called egotism and being immature. One will notice some similar tendencies when studied.
Yes, it is a learned behavior but one should follow manners for example sharing.
Now after watching this vid- I noticed that every single sign in this vid relates to someone I know but they are the only one I actually have tbh but anyways I have decided to avoid them and never share ANYTHING abt myself to them ever again cuz they dont deserve me-
Back to my fav guy from the dark triad OwO
wouldn’t dark empathy &psychopathy go togetger &or be same deal sense they both came others into submission?? also has there ever been any dark empaths with dark tetras traits??
I was diagnosed as a Sociopath when I was younger. When I reached highschool I did a lot of self reflection, and self exploration.
However, while I was able too control the tendencies and impulses, I probably became more of a dark Empath without knowing it...
They may seem perfect on the surface making them impossible to see. Until you take a look behind the closed doors 🚪
What about when you have these traits, but you aren't awful to everyone?
Nice flick on the Dark Empath when you reach that part.
I don't think I'm or anyone I know is a complete dark empath, is it possible to be like a shady empath? like that one spot under a tree that changes shade when a leaf flips around. I do use empathy for self gain or to kinda shut down other people, but only if they're being negative to me or my friends, I mostly stay nice and stuff but I can be like this at times or when the situation calls for it. ha, it's being batman, except... yeah I'm not batman.
same just like my EX, when we broke up she made everyone against me, but by the time everyone saw her true colors and my friends are back together.
She tried many times to come back but my friends did not let her in. So I think its better to cut these kind of people maybe :(
they’re basically master manipulators, and you won’t see it until it’s too late and the damage is already done. absolute demons
I realised I am a dark empath lol
I should probably try not to do some of these things just for the sake of it
You are more important than everyone else!!! Belive me they don't know you and everyone thinks that way subconsciously no matter how loving or selfless they look like everyone thinks that they're an angel but it's not that way there's no difference between me you narcissists sociopaths or psychopats WE'RE ALL FKING HUMAAANS everyone has empathy belive it or not WE'RE HUMAAAANSSS
Hug yourself. You've earned it.
I’m aware that the spectrum between empaths & narcs isn’t linear, or black & white. But the term ‘Dark Empath’, to me just adds far too many shades of grey. Anyone can feign cognitive empathy even psychopaths & narcissists in order to ‘fit in’ so to speak. The difference being however, is that they can’t exhibit emotional empathy. To me dark empaths don’t exist- they’re just narcissists who’ve mastered how to mimic cognitive empathy, with the addition of a very robust facade
I should probably feel bad for orange scarf dude, being put in the dark empath spot. Thinking about that one comment that said something along the lines of "never trust an orange dude with a scarf.". And thanks for the Psychology 101.
Dark empaths, well that's new to me. How to cure a dark empath??
you can't
"Do any of these signs remind you of someone?"
*nervous sweating* Um, no, of course not *sweats intensifies*
how are dark empaths created? Are they born like psychopaths or made like sociopaths?
Dark empaths watching the video realizing they can just change the way they act but still get what they want
Lemme elaborate they basically dont give out signs of the dark triad
Where my mom was from , dark empaths were just a basic factor of society.
When a sibling , usually a bad sister , was old enough to move out.
She would talk trash about the others to their "clicky friends" , other dark empaths.
And from there , it would spread like wild fire.
I hope no friends of mine see this.
🤔😂😂😂
Yes I see my self like this
"Does this remind you of someone?"
Me and my family
I realizes, I'm toxic. And I cannot handle this. I'm not able to see when I do toxic things.
So I cut off all my relationships to save others.
Is anyone who struggles with the same issue?
I hate it when the voice is fast, I'm watching in 0.75x speed now
I think I'm a dark empath yalls, this video has been popping up on my feed for a while. Today I add a new puzzle piece to my identity
Oh...
Yes Most Men
The problem is how they are treated when abuse is reported - they are allowed to get away with their behavior (especially in the US, where religion & politics affect everything, including how males are “made superior” overall). You have to find people who will help you, 1 way or another, until you can get to a place where you feel much safer.
Or - does your significant other make fun of you when you're in the presence of other people but says nothing when you're alone?
So apparently just being an empath isn't good, it's the whole person that needs to be good in order to make use of the "empath" thing, although, I think being an empath just means you have experience
They said that I couldn't give them every thing they want.
May be they were correct..
They deserve someone better than me.
I ain't at par to them.
May they find a competent partner.
The negative stigma around this personality that a lot of psychology channels have been pushing since it was first introduced and acting like they have nothing but evil intentions 100% of the time is getting weird.
I love our orange dark empath!
Yoo notification gang
Why does everyone always say dark empaths are always bad
Oh god. That describes me a lot
I love being a dark empath
I can't believe this I have all traits of dark empathy
I could be dark empath but it normally fake itself as villain but in the customes.
Dark Empath is just an empath who had experience with narcissists. Thats my take
You're only showing the slopiest form of dark empaths. A successful dark empath is never detected and gets what they want without anyone knowing. We can keep up the facade even behind closed doors until we're no longer satisfied with the situation Or we gotten what we want, or We just get bored. I once to dated a gal who I had 0 interest in for 5 months. Just to get to a different girl and when I was ready to leave the one I was with and make my move, it was a 5 min conversion where i bluntly told her "i dont love you any more, please leave" I did this knowing it would devastate her, because I needed her to leave as quickly as possible since the other girl was coming over in just an hour. Just remember you never know a person's motivation. I've had relationships where I treated the person stupendously from beginning to end because it was the most advantageous thing for me to do.. Not because I actually cared about their well-being. Reality is an illusion, only the perception of reality matters.
What if a Dark Empath is watching this!? Won't him/her become aware and modulate their manipulation? 🙌✨
Im a dark empath and I mean everyone here talks about ‘dealing with them’ like we’re all the anti-Christ but most of us can be kind compassionate people, only difference being that we simply don’t have the capacity to feel it in our hearts.
Dark side of empathy can also be...sadism probably?
Pls pls know I’m suffering with this. I had the chance to listen to this so Ty! But you didn’t say how to escape
Hmm.........
Are there 8 signs or 5? The title and video give conflicting info. Unless, the first 3 traits are included🤔.
If the person acts like Damien (boy) or Wednesday Addams (girl) are they dark Empaths too?
What was said was "The 3 traits of the dark triad"
What I heard, "the 3 mystic gems of true emotional dark magic"
Me relating to the signs: mmmm yes
The darkest will hide these too.
Their Dark empathy are clever so beyond look out.
Dont
Wow I can't believe that my ex boyfriend was exactly this
Are there any countermeasures if my father is a dark empath with signs no.1,3~5 and treats my mum worse than what she deserves 80% of the time?
Like I understand that he had given immense amount of effort to build up wealth and have a great environment for our family to live in, but you can't down play everything my mum also did for him and the family just because she grew up in a rural area and didn't went to college!
Yeah... it reminds me of my latest ex-boss... but i really not sure, dont want to be paranoid but itd be really ironical if so because my ex-ex-boss was a narcissist🤣☠️
How do I differ them from grandiose NPD?
empathy?
This makes me question certain ppl, but I know for a fact this isn't me