Odd video. Letting a sociopath know they are a sociopath is literally weaponizing them and makes them more dangerous. Sigh. Plus I never got the point of beta squad like videos of (who is x, guess who is y) Sad world we live in
Jubilee producers are scumbags for working with BetterHelp. Truly a despicable company. They sell user data and violate HIPPA law, underpay their therapists, and support Israel's genocide against Palestine (they offer free services to Israelis).
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so you're supposed to hide the fact that you're an empath? what kind of logic is that? being an empath doesn't mean you necessarily have a lot of compassion for people, it's hard to care about people in a world that's constantly bombarding you with pain. but a lot of people-pleasers and emotional people with a lot of sympathy also misidentify themselves as empaths, so it's a bit confusing.
They definitely are. There's no "empath" diagnosis, so they are all sel-proclaimed. And as they all seem to be more or less on the spectrum, I'm 100% certain the majority of them misjudge their hypersensitivity disorder for being "empaths".
rainbow cardigan honestly seemed more sociopathic than the actual sociopath. tripping and falling on purpose to gauge people's reactions, wearing the brightest colors possible to project the image she desired, just everything about the way she "played the game" was purposeful and analytical in a way that is much more characteristic of ASPD
@@Lucas_0913 NPD and ASPD are both cluster B personality disorders and as such have many overlapping symptoms. but the mannerisms i mentioned are characteristic of ASPD, not NPD
The reason why is because socio/psychopaths act on impulse and logic. If someone falls society says you should help them so she acted on what she was supposed to do and she helped her get up.
I find it so annoying and un-empathetic that they voted the first girl out just because she was quiet and wasn't wearing bright colors. Someone can be shy an empathetic at the same time, and self described emapaths should be able to understand that.
Actually, as a person who has studied sociopathy (ASPD) for years, the first girl voted out was my first choice to be the sociopath too, her seeming lack of emotions and disinterest was rather consistent with sociopathy. But to be fair, there wasn't a lot to go on at that point in the game.
To be fair , it's always damned if you do , damned if you don't . People are voted out if they barely speak or speak too much by a random person's standards .
I feel like it is indicator especially in this situation because the whole point is trying to advocate that your not the mole you can’t do that by standing there silent
@@Bubboe but then you see people voted out because they "gave too much away". You really have to be in the middle of the conversation, not dominate or be silent
As someone who used to be in the LA film and artist scene in the past, I learned a lot of those people who say they are empaths tend to be the least empathetic people. There is a big difference in saying you care so much about people and actually showing it. I transitioned into an office tech career because that environment was so toxic, and now I feel like I’m surrounded by much more likable and empathetic people.
I find that people who say label themselves as empaths are often really just extroverted people that thrive on the energy of other people, like the air-bnb host. Highly empathetic people often tend to be introverted because often being around other people is just too much for them.
@@laavvAdmittedly the way she worded it was poor regardless. "If Lion King is your favorite movie then there's something wrong with you. When Simba's dad dies in the movie, my heart can't take it". Just because YOU get overwhelmed emotionally by that scene doesn't make somebody weird for having it as their favorite film.
@@Nat-qi4eg sameeee. Like I love Brother Bear and Finding Dory but a lot of people say they're too emotionally driven with themes geared towards adults.
Allyson (rainbow) saying wearing a darker wardrobe and being quiet means you're less empathetic was so cringe...clearly she doesn't have empathy towards shy people. What kind of "empath" is she
@@AmoebaInkbut by that definition she’s also not an empath. She was in the final 3 and still couldn’t pick up on the emotions (or lack thereof) from the mole
Shes totally not, if anything narcissist and IM not like giving her a label, but narcissist often behave like psychopaths and want to be praised and LOVE to play empathy even tho they lack it a lot just for the sake of attention.
It's because they are all grandiose narcissists (like everybody who claims the ridiculous title of empath) and the sociopath is the only one with the actual skills to manipulate people to be seen a certain way.
I feel so sorry for cassy, i genuinely would hate not understanding what love or happiness is, my heart goes out for her and i hope she is living her best life
A lot of people have trouble feeling those things and it comes from trauma, not from sociopathy. Trauma can also make you feel numb, which can probably seem like sociopathy. And trauma can even come from just being different to others, like being autistic, and being excluded when you're young because of it.
@@avril.227yeah I noticed she kept her eyes down and struggled to make eye contact. But when she mentioned being autistic and homeless, I figured that made sense and she could still be emotionally in tune and just struggle to display that connection with others. While I'd like to say I shouldn't known better, hindsight's always 20/20. It's easy to claim "I knew it" after the fact.
Have to agree. There may have been 1 or 2 who may be empathetic however, not necessarily empaths. My other half is a true empath who senses particular friends who are in a bad space. He's often phoned them in those moments to find they're having a particularly bad period. More often than not, they're individuals who have suffered trauma in their lives.
true empaths don't know they're an empath. they learn that through counseling, usually after much abuse with intimate relationships. Self proclaimed empathy is usually hoo ha. I deal with those individuals at arms length until I learn more about them. Just coz I proclaim to be Taylor Swift's sister, doesn't make it so
"Can I* be honest? I felt nothing." LOL I love her. But seriously, hearing about the spectrum of sociopathy was insightful. It would be cool to see a show that accurately portrays someone who is high functioning!
i didn’t think an autistic/asperger person would be a sociopath but after i saw the reveal i could see why it was her cause her posture and the way she was talking wasn’t “normal” lol
I'm sorry, but how and why is this girl considered a sociopath? This is completely subjective and unmeasurable. She does not seem like a sociopath to me. These labels are becoming completely arbitrary.
People who dub themselves "empaths" are rather cringeworthy. More relatable is someone saying they are fairly empathic. Most self proclaimed "empaths" seem to actually be rather narcissistic and grandiose.
Yeah. People who are the nicest don't label themselves as such and have to tell the entire world. If you have to say it, chances are it's a cover to excuse actions and behaviours. An empathetic person will prove they are empathetic, they don't need to tell anyone because they show it with proof. Empaths tend to think lesser of themselves, anyway, not higher, and definitely not "look at me look at me I'm such a nice person you'd better be agreeing with me".
I think it is just the name of the episode and probably most of these people wouldn't say it in that way day-to-day but I don't know that for sure, just a guess because I've never heard someone describe their own empathy in that way.
💯💯💯I’ve been saying this for the longest. It’s always the ones who are actually quite selfish asf and very self absorbed. Never the type to help someone in any way.
It was obvious from the beginning that she was mimicking others and being very over the top about her emotions or any "awkwardness" she had. She wanted us to see her as being vulnerable so people wouldn't suspect her.
@@MarlaSingersCancer no i think she's naturally awkward, i've seen other videos of her and that's just her natural demeanour. remember she's also autistic so that may play a role in her awkward demeanour.
19:11 Omg I was sooo sure he was the path, Im so shocked, especially because being an airbnb host was his only reason and that has nothing to do with empathy
Honestly, people who openly claim to be “empaths” are usually very judgement UNempathetic people, in my experience at least. They tend to think highly of themselves… very “I’m better than you because I care and you don’t.”
And she judged the way the clearly more empathetic person dressed! Not colorful. Great reasoning. I am a sponge. It's why I hide in my room and I don't really look at the colors I wear. I wear what I can. If I like the color it's a bonus. I shut down bad and I got so burned out I didn't even care if I wore a circus tent. It just makes me mad.
as someone who also has ASPD, as cringe as this episode was, it was cool seeing Cassy talk because I really relate with her, especially when she talks about pretending to have emotions to fit in, but that it doesn’t make her a bad person. slay
@@EvaarArts she said she's able to experience cognitive empathy - so in this case she's using pure reasoning to explain why she wouldn't be a crappy person
@@EvaarArtsNo, she is cognitively empathetic. Meaning she is intelligent enough to understand and process the emotions of others. She doesn’t feel the emotions of others, but she understands what they are. She sees it as a concept, like one would understand what 4+4 is. Some sociopaths don’t understand what 4+4 results in, because they don’t understand what numbers are. But others (like her) do, even if they don’t understand WHY people feel that way.
This ^ It's not something you suddenly "start" to do. It's not a hobby, it's a quality! Although I honestly suspected all of them at some point except Austin lol
Here's how I could tell who it was. At first she remained quiet to feel out the room. She didn't display ANY obvious traits, almost coming off as too perfect. When she knew she was voted for her demeanor changes. She becomes more talkative and came off slightly plastic in the way of trying to pretend to relate to other people as in "our favourite movies are kind of the same!". Tugging on the heartstrings of people via a dead pastor once she was confident she could lie straight through this game was a surefire way of ensuring these more emotional people would feel bad doubting her after that. The homeless part was extremely smart, but Sociopaths can be exactly that. She didn't become empathetic through homelessness, she learned cognitive empathy. The last dead obvious giveaway was you see her mask drop once she knew she won. Her eyes widened and she was satisfied she had done her job correctly.
This is why i hate ppl say they are antisocial when they clearly mean asocial. Like THIS girl is antisocial, when you wanna say you’re introvert and not a ppl person you’re not antisocial, you’re asocial.
THIS!!! more people need to grasp this cause its used incorrectly so often. There is a huge misconception about it. My guess is the majority of people who claim to be antisocial, in reality, are asocial.
To not be able to really feel happiness or love and at the same time be cognicicent that other people are able to and hold space for them, to me, is the ultimate form of empathy
non of these ppl have taken psychology class, basing an 'empath' of WALK?? and thinking they failed bc they look ANXIOUS?? 'emphats' (quotation marks on purpose) are often anxious because they take in so much of their surroundings. Sociopaths can come off very social and confident as well
They weren’t meant to have an extensive knowledge of psychological theorem. It was just a practical shot in the dark to see if they could suss out the mole. You can’t just go off of definitions or texts within books or lectures or research papers (that’s not part of what being an empath is either). You actually have to put things into practice. The way someone walks can reveal things about them. It was fun and interesting to watch too, btw. Normally I would agree with what you said about anxiety but for the most part I don’t think that was misused here.
I knew it was her when she said she was 31 and never had any romantic relationships or heartbreaks. That is something sociopaths experience bc of the misunderstanding of emotions. Heartbreaks happen outside of romance.
Ore sociopaths can have a lot of romantic partners and relationships like way more than average. That can usually be an indicator, but obviously it can also be the opposite.
She gave herself away on the first round when she couldn’t describe the physical sensation in her body, rather she noted the use of what she imagined an empath’s abilities are and verbalized that.
@@AllysonGailBricks Girl your performance here was A1. I literally said out loud how much I messed with you. You're very smart for that play fr. I wish you the best in all future endeavors
I knew from the first take. She purposely put her knee forward and it looked like she looked for it and then threw herself on the ground ready to catch herself.
The Airbnb host saying his guests are empaths because not many people would want to stay with a stranger… lol dude people do it because they want to save money, not because they’re so excited to meet a stranger
We were hosts for about 3 years and mainly we would get 5 star reviews if we met with the guest but lower reviews when we didn’t. So I think the airbnb guest is a different type of person than just a bargain hunter most of the time. I totally would just do it to save money though haha.
Might not be the motivation, but I thinks its fair to say that many would rather not travel than share a room with somebody. So you need to at least be ok with sharing a room apartment with a stranger.
allyson pissed me off so much im sorry😭 felt like she was basing what an empath is just off of her own very limited experiences. girl really used disney movies as a question? hm…
Yeah Im not a huge fan of Disney but I'm definitely a very empathetic person, even towards people that are assholes to me. So I would be extremely irritated if someone asked me this question
yeah and she chose hercules for the music ????? but she would judge anyone who chose the lion king because of one sad scene, even tho it also has amazing music! make it make sense girl
Bro I hated her from the beginning like what was she doing she tripped on NOTHING. TWICE!!! It was obvious and then she was like “surpriseee I faked it 😁” like girlll stfu that was a surprise to no one 😭💀💀💀
They thought that the girl who was voted out first was a sociopath because she was quiet and seemed nervous? Those are literally the signs you are not a sociopath, a sociopath is charming, confident and never nervous, they don`t care what others think of them, as opposed to empaths
the most empathetic person here is probably that first girl who got voted out. it's the silent ones (or the class clown type, i didnt see one here though) who are feeling the most, generally.
I knew from the beginning. If you can read body language you could see that her eyes were far more calculating and her walk was very guarded. She was mirroring everyone else and her responses like never having been in a relationship was a big indication. She seems like a lovely person who has been through a lot and I'm glad to see that she is here sharing her story and experiences with others.
I guessed it was her from the intro. Her eyes were very cold as she smiled. It was either her or Aaron for me. Then she talked about her trauma and struggles, and her lack of heartbreak, and it confirmed her for me.
@@taniaalvaart Thats because there is a bit of a spectrum with ASPD you have sociopath and psychopath. Socio is closer to feeling some emotion and not understanding other peoples feelings where as psychopathy is the lack of feeling emotions at all. A sociopath can be sad but not cry when their mother passes away for instance while a full blown psychopath would feel absolutely nothing like with Autism and Asperger you can be full in on one side or somewhere in the middle of both
A sociopath will feel something akin to satisfaction or smugness when they win, especially if they guide things to go the way they want. They care about their own comfort and mental stimulation, or they would never bother to get up in the morning. But they don't understand that emotional high that many people get from winning. When they asked how she felt about winning, she was blatantly honest when she said she really didn't care. Her smiles and giggles mask her lack of feelings very well though.
@@wildflower1397right she knows she’s on camera. It’s a performance and when she said “can I be honest” THAT was when she decided to take off the mask. The game ended for the empaths once the red light came on, but for the sociopath the game began way before she got to set that day and won’t end once she leaves.
Cassy was dealt a pretty rough hand it is so brave of her to open up and come on the show like this. I never knew about the sociopathy spectrum and learning about it through her was insightful. Hope she is living her best life
I was waiting for her to get voted out like….she might be on a scale of empathy, on the lower end because she felt emotions yes but she is also very manipulative. Not because she was wearing rainbow and happy colours it means that she can’t be a sociopath. For being an empath she definitely did not read the room so imo she isn’t one.
I immediately know who it is because they were featured on SBSK, a great channel to check out for interviews with people who have disabilities or mental illnesses
Her face sweetness, secret superior smirks and constant half smile gave her away to me. She did not project joy like the rest, in fact seemed to secretly be laughing at them.
It's crazy that I picked her out in the first minute and yet at the end I was surprised to hear how self-aware and amazing person she is. And I was surprised to hear that what she said about herself (homeless, working with homeless, mental health advocate etc) was true. When she said all those things with zero emotion I knew she was a sociopath and I thought she was lying. And not to point fingers any further but some of the empaths didn't seem very self-aware at all.
interesting how they equate empath with bubbly and awkward. idk if im an empath, i do think I’m real in tune with people emotions n that makes me think a lot. and try to be as small as possible in some places. i can be bubbly, if i feel safe but i think it takes stepping back and being quiet sometimes to really take in other people’s emotions.
@@vaneabarca Because that girl is selling herself short calling herself a sociopath who can't feel emotions, I don't know how she got that diagnosis (ASPD), but it's obviously not true. Her automatic reaction to go help someone in need was too reflexive to not come from emotion. She actually is a very empathetic person.
@@sulagreen5792As somone who relates somewhat to Cassy (I don’t have ASPD though), you can recognize the kind/nice thing to do without feeling it intrinsically. There are a lot of things I “reflexively” do because it’s been ingrained in me, not because I actually care.
Props to Cassy for hiding so well. I'm a psychopath and she wasn't even in my top 3 picks. Veronica seemed most sus to me, followed by guy with long hair and black guy
They most likely had strong cognitive empathy. Cognitive empathy differs from affective empathy in that it involves *understanding* emotions and how they *affect* people, but it never quite *”feeling as they feel,"* as with affective empathy.
I immediately knew it was her from the way she’s describing emotions, it’s clear she has cognitive empathy and that she understand emotions but don’t necessary feel them! Aaand I’m the same :)
I understand being an empathetic person but I feel like saying you are an “empath” not only takes the humility out of it because it feels like you’re trying to make it about you and you’re ability to to feel as opposed to the feeling of the person experiencing those emotions, but also takes the path of righteousness believing that you have a better ability to understand and relate to peoples’ hardships than others do. I didn’t realize how much I disliked the term and idea until I watched this video.
😂😂😂 yo some of these comments are funny to me. Like y'all need to read a book or just do a quick Google search. Being an empath is a psychology term. Being highly empathetic means someone is an empath. Pretty much pretty who can feel others emotions would be labled as an empath. Its just a shorter and easier way to say empathetic. In other words. Saying "im an empath" shouldnt be "oh that person just wants attention"
I wouldn’t say being an empath is righteous. It’s more like having poor emotional boundaries in the sense that you easily pick up what others are feeling without intending to.
My mom is a genuine empath. She was a nurse for 20+ years and eventually had to retire early because she couldn’t handle feeling her patients’ pain any longer. It aged her significantly. I’m extremely empathetic, but my mother feels physical pain if she’s near someone experiencing any sort of pain at all. It’s quite taxing on her. It makes her a fantastic person to be around, she’s the most gentle and loving person I know. But it is extremely difficult for her.
This is me. I have been a nurse for 27 years, the last 3 in psych. The first 24 I worked in postpartum/nursery. I worked nights and wouldn’t be able to sleep because I was so worried about my patients. I would call and check on them. I also feel pain when my kids do. I had to switch to psych, I still have empathy, but it is not ruining my life. I didn’t know attention seeking was considered empathy. Like those people.
I think that this is what people get confused by the most when they talk about empaths: it's not about the skill of HAVING EMPATHY, where you consciously try to put yourself in someone else's shoes, but rather a natural trait that you're born with, where you experience heightened and constant sensitivity to the emotions/energy/physical sensations of others. The amount of people in this comment section who actually talk about having empathy or sympathy but think that this is what being an empath means... 🙄
I knew it by the thumbnail. Not because she looked any type of way but because the others are dressed like main characters and that type of hubris only comes with people who call themselves “an empath”
"If Lion King is your favorite movie then there's something wrong with you. When Simba's dad dies in the movie, my heart can't take it". Girl, The Lion King is my favourite Disney move specifically because it hits so hard emotionally...
no literally- I loved the lion King BECAUSE it was emotional.. I love watching sad movies..reading sad books because I want to feel that emotion... since when did wanting to feel a certain emotion..become less empathic??...she literally just put that label and just went with it without understanding the full picture☠️
I loveeee this movie! It's not that I rewatch sad scenes...it's the movie that teaches you that there are betrayals in life...that parents die...but most of all-that you are not alone!❤ that sometimes you need...and can take action! And you'll succeed if you let go of fear. And if "Lion King" is your favourite movie,there is nothing wrong with you!!❤ -me:)
I think that particular scene in books such deep emotion and that’s exactly why it’s one of my favorite Disney movies. along with Tarzan, who lost his parents as a baby and other Disney movies there is emotional depth and that makes the movies great and leaves an impression instead of just being a cutesy movie for kids
Deadpan stare, has never loved at the age of 31, lower energy + lack of emotional showcasing through facial expressions. I realized it early. The empath: "Maybe if I was closer I would've felt her energy!" 🤣
I loved Turning Red. I cried so hard towards the end because I felt the same way with my mom and her constant judgment of me. That movie hit home too hard.
I don’t like to proclaim I’m an empath but I do feel like I’m an empathetic person. I’m not really that talkative, definitely introverted than most of the ppl in the video but I always find people, strangers even, opening up to me. I listen attentively to others and feel very deeply. I wish someone talked about how draining it can be. Sometimes after hearing someone’s story I feel it so deeply, I carry that all with me.
I knew it. Cassie reminded me a lot of a girl I used to teach (school specifically for those on the spectrum). Very similar mannerisms. Autism and sociopathy are actually misdiagnosed with one enough more often than people think, and sometimes people have traits that fall under both umbrellas. The lack of understanding of emotional depth is a big reason why, a lot of people on the spectrum don’t “get” emotions the way we do. It varies a LOT of course but it makes sense.
Of course the one I get a little crush on was the mole. My mind said “it’s the rainbow woman” but my heart knew. She’s so cute and I love how she explained her experience.
I feel like I could relate to life identically to Cassandra; consequently, aside from how warm and fuzzy she is, I tend to pretend a lot as well, but internally, I'm angry that I feel it's necessary for me to pretend. I have a daily battle with depression, but I'm social as well.
It would be nice if Jubilee could get more people who don't have a big presence online. I already knew the black girl was the sociopath because I've seen her do interviews about it on other channels
@@bestrong8543I don't think they mean having empathy is cringe. I think they mean ppl labeling themselves as empaths is cause it's kinda like the whole nice guy thing. People who yell at mountain tops that they're empaths tend to not really be, just like how some guys call themselves "nice guys" but are actually douches.
@@Taylor_mamaof2 you can same the same thing about guys saying they are masculine why do meat head guys say that you should stand in your masculinity no need to say it didn’t mean to digress it’s so many people that put labels on things not just being a empath
land before time is one of my favorite movies and it invokes the same type of emotions as the lion king does. except the land before time, these poor kids are struggling on their own for so long and then the happiness and joy they felt when they were finally reunited with their loved ones! I think that’s probably many empaths favorite movie.
People really don't seem to understand the difference between psychopathy and sociopathy. Sociopaths know feelings but suppress them, usually as a result of childhood trauma. Psychopaths are born without feelings, but can pretend to have them.
not true at all. sociopaths do not feel empathy, guilt, remorse. psychopaths feel all these emotions they just act very badly once feeling them and cannot control themselves
austin was the only one who wasn’t flat out judgy and mean, the rest of them were trying so hard to prove they were empathic while judging the hardest 😭
Never realized i was a sociopath until i saw how one interacted with emotional people from an outside perspective. Like looking in a mirror. A creepy, hollow, mirror ...
Not knowing if you’re capable of love or understanding love is truly so, so sad. That cannot be a nice way to exist. I don’t know much about the spectrum of ASP or if therapy helps with it but I hope Cassy gets the opportunity to experience it at least once in her life (whether it be romantic or another form of love). But also - Cassy saying she has tried to love her mum and sister.. maybe that is a form of love in itself. She’s trying/has tried and clearly she cares. That’s something! ❤
As an autistic person, Allyson referring to autism as “the tism” really frustrated me. It’s like making a disorder all cutesy and childish which makes people less likely to take it seriously.
As an autistic person....I actually love using the term "I have the touch of 'tism". not because im belitting the spectrum, but its easier to tell people while making them laugh.
I think it’s cringe that there are people out here who actually self diagnose themselves as being on the spectrum or Neurodivergent. I think it’s the weirdest thing ever.
@@marszz333 Well you have to self diagnose before you diagnose if you’re figuring it out on your own. Also around 80% of people who self diagnose autism are correct. However I do agree that many young people diagnose themselves to be trendy.
You know, this would have been more of a mystery for me if RUclips's top recommended video wasn't "An Autistic Sociopath's Story" with the sociopath's face as a thumbnail.
15:55 “That feels good doesn’t it?”😭 bit.ly/3vVrK21
Odd video. Letting a sociopath know they are a sociopath is literally weaponizing them and makes them more dangerous. Sigh.
Plus I never got the point of beta squad like videos of (who is x, guess who is y)
Sad world we live in
Jubilee producers are scumbags for working with BetterHelp. Truly a despicable company. They sell user data and violate HIPPA law, underpay their therapists, and support Israel's genocide against Palestine (they offer free services to Israelis).
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self proclaimed empaths are in my experience usually the least empathetic people i have met.
so you're supposed to hide the fact that you're an empath? what kind of logic is that? being an empath doesn't mean you necessarily have a lot of compassion for people, it's hard to care about people in a world that's constantly bombarding you with pain. but a lot of people-pleasers and emotional people with a lot of sympathy also misidentify themselves as empaths, so it's a bit confusing.
Exactly. That colorful woman was so attention seeking, it was insufferable. Nothing empathetic about that, just annoying
@@VertigoMushroomsExactly, and they voted Veronica out just because she didn’t wear ”bright colors” and because she was more quiet
@@cheepydog Veronica seemed to be the nicest out of the bunch, in my opinion
@@VertigoMushrooms exactly, the ppl in the video seem like they’re pretty narcissistic..
So ironic how the person who shared their feelings got voted out because the others “weren’t feeling it” that’s literally the opposite of an empath…
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Maybe they thought the sociopath was acting like an emphath.
that’s what empaths do, they can literally feel if you are lying or not
This wouldve been insane if they were all sociopaths
And they probably are if they need to self proclaim themselves as empaths
They definitely are. There's no "empath" diagnosis, so they are all sel-proclaimed. And as they all seem to be more or less on the spectrum, I'm 100% certain the majority of them misjudge their hypersensitivity disorder for being "empaths".
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Next time 🤔
@@Leunenkoenig it's not a disorder, it's just how the nervous system works for some people. Called high Sensory processing sensitivity.
rainbow cardigan honestly seemed more sociopathic than the actual sociopath. tripping and falling on purpose to gauge people's reactions, wearing the brightest colors possible to project the image she desired, just everything about the way she "played the game" was purposeful and analytical in a way that is much more characteristic of ASPD
ikr, i really thought it was her
The colour of our clothes is an indicator of our neurotypes?
They more accurately represented characteristics of a narcissistic than sociopath.
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@@Lucas_0913 NPD and ASPD are both cluster B personality disorders and as such have many overlapping symptoms. but the mannerisms i mentioned are characteristic of ASPD, not NPD
this is a hard one because people who call themselves "empaths" are indistinguishable from sociopaths
the difference of understanding emotions and UNDERSTANDING them lol.
You think a sociopath … who feels nothing … is Indistinguishable from an empath … who feels everything??
A lot empaths end up dating sociopaths.
@@virtuallyme2518 I think people who call themselves empaths are huge narcissists who love proclaiming how much more they care than everyone else.
@@melisaaraujo2604 npd is an actual mental disorder you can't just call anyone who isn't to your liking that
Did anyone else peep that when Allyson threw herself to the floor the only person who helped her up was the sociopath😂😂😂
But the sociopath also said she felt it was test which shows how calculated she is.
So true!!! Also the one that fell was giving manipulative so maybe the sociopath acted on a sense of camaraderie
@@rockyrae3455 it's not that deep.
The reason why is because socio/psychopaths act on impulse and logic. If someone falls society says you should help them so she acted on what she was supposed to do and she helped her get up.
@@gyranix that doesn’t explain why the “empaths” didn’t help. wouldn’t they act on impulse too? it’s part of their nature.
I find it so annoying and un-empathetic that they voted the first girl out just because she was quiet and wasn't wearing bright colors. Someone can be shy an empathetic at the same time, and self described emapaths should be able to understand that.
Yeah they really showed their true colors with that one
I mean they had to vote someone
who else were they going to vote off, besides the obvious stand offish person?
To be fair they had to vote out someone, kinda the point of the game
Actually, as a person who has studied sociopathy (ASPD) for years, the first girl voted out was my first choice to be the sociopath too, her seeming lack of emotions and disinterest was rather consistent with sociopathy. But to be fair, there wasn't a lot to go on at that point in the game.
What is with every episode people saying being quiet is an indicator of being the mole. Like shy people exist-
It's just easier for the mole to fly under the radar than to give a convincing performance.
To be fair , it's always damned if you do , damned if you don't . People are voted out if they barely speak or speak too much by a random person's standards .
Is an indicator or isn’t?
I feel like it is indicator especially in this situation because the whole point is trying to advocate that your not the mole you can’t do that by standing there silent
@@Bubboe but then you see people voted out because they "gave too much away". You really have to be in the middle of the conversation, not dominate or be silent
It’s kinda ironic that one of the empaths broke the set on purpose as a test as if they could not empathise with the set decorators
As someone who used to be in the LA film and artist scene in the past, I learned a lot of those people who say they are empaths tend to be the least empathetic people. There is a big difference in saying you care so much about people and actually showing it.
I transitioned into an office tech career because that environment was so toxic, and now I feel like I’m surrounded by much more likable and empathetic people.
I find that people who say label themselves as empaths are often really just extroverted people that thrive on the energy of other people, like the air-bnb host. Highly empathetic people often tend to be introverted because often being around other people is just too much for them.
Saying Lion King can't be your favorite movie because it's too emotional is crazy.
I don’t think that’s what she meant
@@laavvAdmittedly the way she worded it was poor regardless.
"If Lion King is your favorite movie then there's something wrong with you. When Simba's dad dies in the movie, my heart can't take it".
Just because YOU get overwhelmed emotionally by that scene doesn't make somebody weird for having it as their favorite film.
@@AmiriHipHop exactly. i love watching sad films and listening to sad music even though i know they'll make me cry
the lion king is my favorite movie and i just thought i was funny💀..
@@Nat-qi4eg sameeee. Like I love Brother Bear and Finding Dory but a lot of people say they're too emotionally driven with themes geared towards adults.
i have never cringed more in my life than watching these people trying to prove they are empaths by jumping at every little thing someone does or says
I mean that's their entire motive here
thats the show, you can be empathic while also participating in a silly game ☺
@@ug_nicobruh what? Why🤣🤣
I just skipped to the reveal
@@thisiscaitempaths are awkwardly social not socially awkward
Allyson (rainbow) saying wearing a darker wardrobe and being quiet means you're less empathetic was so cringe...clearly she doesn't have empathy towards shy people. What kind of "empath" is she
She isn’t. It is a made up thing on TikTok. I am sure she is a self-diagnosed Autisitc as well. She is borderline if anything.
Fr like so much for being an empath when you can’t understand people that are different from you
@AmoebaInk what's it called when you don't pick up on people's emotions fast but actually care about people 😭
She's narcissistic. Classic Cluster B behaviours
@@AmoebaInkbut by that definition she’s also not an empath. She was in the final 3 and still couldn’t pick up on the emotions (or lack thereof) from the mole
It was clear the rainbow cardigan girl wasn’t going to be the “sociopath” but that doesn’t mean she isn’t.
Perhaps undiagnosed
Shes totally not, if anything narcissist and IM not like giving her a label, but narcissist often behave like psychopaths and want to be praised and LOVE to play empathy even tho they lack it a lot just for the sake of attention.
Damn i think shes funny @@michaelmlt
If i had to spend more than 10 minutes with her I would become psychopath 😂
The sociopath seeming to be the most empathic person in the video is crazy to me.
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It's because they are all grandiose narcissists (like everybody who claims the ridiculous title of empath) and the sociopath is the only one with the actual skills to manipulate people to be seen a certain way.
I feel so sorry for cassy, i genuinely would hate not understanding what love or happiness is, my heart goes out for her and i hope she is living her best life
A lot of people have trouble feeling those things and it comes from trauma, not from sociopathy. Trauma can also make you feel numb, which can probably seem like sociopathy. And trauma can even come from just being different to others, like being autistic, and being excluded when you're young because of it.
@@ChocolateAutizzyShame, she's hot
I knew it was her because of her dead eyes in the first few minutes.
Its not so bad really. You cant miss what you dont feel or understand you just vibe with yourself.
@@avril.227yeah I noticed she kept her eyes down and struggled to make eye contact. But when she mentioned being autistic and homeless, I figured that made sense and she could still be emotionally in tune and just struggle to display that connection with others. While I'd like to say I shouldn't known better, hindsight's always 20/20. It's easy to claim "I knew it" after the fact.
There were definitely some other people up there that weren't what I'd call an empath..
Well sociopathy (ASPD) is an extremely rare disorder, so all kidding aside, it's unlikely that any of those people are sociopaths except her.
Same. The guy who kept smiling gave me cult leader vibes. And rainbow lady was trying way too hard.
@@WildRabiea😂😂😂cult leader
@@bottlerocket3218not what they said at all… they said “weren’t what I’d call an empath” not ‘are sociopaths’
Have to agree. There may have been 1 or 2 who may be empathetic however, not necessarily empaths.
My other half is a true empath who senses particular friends who are in a bad space.
He's often phoned them in those moments to find they're having a particularly bad period.
More often than not, they're individuals who have suffered trauma in their lives.
Not them eliminating everyone that wasn't on the spectrum 💀
HELP
😭😭😭fr
Seriously! I didn’t get an empathetic energy from any of the autistic ones, I think that’s actually typical of ASD
@@nadiaintheskyautistics can be extremely empathetic, it is just harder to show emotions.
@@agenderfriend3337 theyll never understand
"Honestly? I felt nothing. I just wanted to see how far I would go in the game." - doesn't get more ASPD than that 😂😂
Leave it to empaths to say someone doesn’t act empathetic because their trauma wasn’t ’traumatizing enough’
true empaths don't know they're an empath. they learn that through counseling, usually after much abuse with intimate relationships. Self proclaimed empathy is usually hoo ha. I deal with those individuals at arms length until I learn more about them. Just coz I proclaim to be Taylor Swift's sister, doesn't make it so
"Can I* be honest? I felt nothing." LOL I love her. But seriously, hearing about the spectrum of sociopathy was insightful. It would be cool to see a show that accurately portrays someone who is high functioning!
I agree. ASPD for most is a very debilitating disorder.
turn on your tv
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i didn’t think an autistic/asperger person would be a sociopath but after i saw the reveal i could see why it was her cause her posture and the way she was talking wasn’t “normal” lol
I'm sorry, but how and why is this girl considered a sociopath? This is completely subjective and unmeasurable. She does not seem like a sociopath to me. These labels are becoming completely arbitrary.
People who dub themselves "empaths" are rather cringeworthy. More relatable is someone saying they are fairly empathic. Most self proclaimed "empaths" seem to actually be rather narcissistic and grandiose.
truth
Yeah. People who are the nicest don't label themselves as such and have to tell the entire world. If you have to say it, chances are it's a cover to excuse actions and behaviours. An empathetic person will prove they are empathetic, they don't need to tell anyone because they show it with proof. Empaths tend to think lesser of themselves, anyway, not higher, and definitely not "look at me look at me I'm such a nice person you'd better be agreeing with me".
Speak the truth fyre
I think it is just the name of the episode and probably most of these people wouldn't say it in that way day-to-day but I don't know that for sure, just a guess because I've never heard someone describe their own empathy in that way.
💯💯💯I’ve been saying this for the longest. It’s always the ones who are actually quite selfish asf and very self absorbed. Never the type to help someone in any way.
I sniffed her out because she said she never experienced a heartbreak and have the excuse of a bf when there are many other ways
I actually think most heartbreaks come from other relationships than romantic. That's why I felt it was her too.
It was obvious from the beginning that she was mimicking others and being very over the top about her emotions or any "awkwardness" she had. She wanted us to see her as being vulnerable so people wouldn't suspect her.
@@MarlaSingersCancer no i think she's naturally awkward, i've seen other videos of her and that's just her natural demeanour. remember she's also autistic so that may play a role in her awkward demeanour.
Usually when people ask that, they are asking about a romantic relationship.
yeah, she also spoke as if having a BF will never will be an option, which she confirmed at the end.
i actually feel badly for her. she doesn't seem like a danger to society but someone we can learn more from.
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@@ChocolateAutizzy What were you diagnosed with first, Autism or ASPD?
She seemed the most personable, lol
Yes they tend to be very charismatic winning you over easily.
19:11 Omg I was sooo sure he was the path, Im so shocked, especially because being an airbnb host was his only reason and that has nothing to do with empathy
n the rainbow cardigan is mad judgmental lmao great empath, would love to be around someone that is policing the way i process emotion /sarcasm
The guy with the long curly hair was also super judgy LOL
dont be upset at someone playing the game lmao
and the funny part is she started “tearing up” which she legit voted the other girl off for doing that
Honestly, people who openly claim to be “empaths” are usually very judgement UNempathetic people, in my experience at least. They tend to think highly of themselves… very “I’m better than you because I care and you don’t.”
And she judged the way the clearly more empathetic person dressed! Not colorful. Great reasoning.
I am a sponge. It's why I hide in my room and I don't really look at the colors I wear. I wear what I can. If I like the color it's a bonus. I shut down bad and I got so burned out I didn't even care if I wore a circus tent. It just makes me mad.
This should be renamed 1 secret sociopath vs 5 Narcissists
Exactly.😂
Austin was definitely not a narcissist though
Why I say they are just different sides of the same coin. One side narc other empath.
lol very true.
LMFAO
this is giving tikokers who said they’re empaths back in 2020 (in the worst possible way)
Should we have done an "Imagine" by John Lennon singing montage??
Duhh@@jubilee
@@jubilee😂Jubilee is wilding. Give the person making these comments a raise 😂
Giving what? Vibes? Who's giving what?
Yeah, I am so confused.
"I felt nothing, I just wanted to see how far Id go in the game." Lmaoo sums it up pretty well
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@@ChocolateAutizzy Oh wow pretty cool to see you here
Nightmare blunt rotation
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as someone who also has ASPD, as cringe as this episode was, it was cool seeing Cassy talk because I really relate with her, especially when she talks about pretending to have emotions to fit in, but that it doesn’t make her a bad person. slay
Slay!
@@jzr73❤
u r a bad person and u will hurt ppl
self diagnosis
It does make her a bad person
“i’m not going to be a crappy person just because i feel nothing because i know that other people do have feelings” 19:55 CASSY IS SO CUTSIE🥹
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I was genuinely confused after that .. doesn't that mean empathy is among the 20% of her remaining feelings?
@@EvaarArts she said she's able to experience cognitive empathy - so in this case she's using pure reasoning to explain why she wouldn't be a crappy person
@@EvaarArtsNo, she is cognitively empathetic. Meaning she is intelligent enough to understand and process the emotions of others. She doesn’t feel the emotions of others, but she understands what they are. She sees it as a concept, like one would understand what 4+4 is. Some sociopaths don’t understand what 4+4 results in, because they don’t understand what numbers are. But others (like her) do, even if they don’t understand WHY people feel that way.
@@AyDeeAichDee no matter what they will hurt ppl and dont care
The second she Said - i LEARNED to be an empath”
I knew.
This ^ It's not something you suddenly "start" to do. It's not a hobby, it's a quality!
Although I honestly suspected all of them at some point except Austin lol
SAME
Why did the girl in rainbow intentionally fall and try to break that fragile little set 😭
For the game 😂❤
The way the light was swinging a bit after being broken annoyed me so much 😂
Here's how I could tell who it was.
At first she remained quiet to feel out the room. She didn't display ANY obvious traits, almost coming off as too perfect.
When she knew she was voted for her demeanor changes. She becomes more talkative and came off slightly plastic in the way of trying to pretend to relate to other people as in "our favourite movies are kind of the same!".
Tugging on the heartstrings of people via a dead pastor once she was confident she could lie straight through this game was a surefire way of ensuring these more emotional people would feel bad doubting her after that.
The homeless part was extremely smart, but Sociopaths can be exactly that. She didn't become empathetic through homelessness, she learned cognitive empathy.
The last dead obvious giveaway was you see her mask drop once she knew she won. Her eyes widened and she was satisfied she had done her job correctly.
Facts😂
Don't forget the "and that's when I became an empathetic person" as if it's some kind of switch you can just turn on one day.
Bro, that girl in the rainbow was trying way too hard 💀
Edit: I didn't mean to start a war-
And the fact that you had to have an emotional reaction or say you’ll start crying in every response
fr she was buggin me out
maybe she is just trying to hide her sociopathy💀
She was smart. She was playing the game. Get outta here.
She’s annoying
I 100% believed it was Allyson because tripping on purpose seemed like such a calculated, non-empathetic move 😭😭
It has nothing to do with that, it's literally a game of finding the mole...
that would only make sense if she was trying to trick the audience
How on earth is that calculating????
Especially not for the sociopath who tried to help that tub o’larr off the floor.
I enjoyed hearing Cassy's experience there at the end. It was very insightful!
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This is why i hate ppl say they are antisocial when they clearly mean asocial. Like THIS girl is antisocial, when you wanna say you’re introvert and not a ppl person you’re not antisocial, you’re asocial.
THIS!!! more people need to grasp this cause its used incorrectly so often. There is a huge misconception about it. My guess is the majority of people who claim to be antisocial, in reality, are asocial.
So much for being an “empath”. Reminds me of the episode when the “psychics” failed to identify the mole.
To not be able to really feel happiness or love and at the same time be cognicicent that other people are able to and hold space for them, to me, is the ultimate form of empathy
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horrid spelling
@@zekite6467The point was understood regardless. 🤷🏾♀️
@@zekite6467 one word is misspelled. Calm down
@@BetterThanKanye I know, it was just funny.
non of these ppl have taken psychology class, basing an 'empath' of WALK?? and thinking they failed bc they look ANXIOUS?? 'emphats' (quotation marks on purpose) are often anxious because they take in so much of their surroundings. Sociopaths can come off very social and confident as well
I agree this video irritates me a little because of that fact lol
True but in this case it was valid
They weren’t meant to have an extensive knowledge of psychological theorem. It was just a practical shot in the dark to see if they could suss out the mole. You can’t just go off of definitions or texts within books or lectures or research papers (that’s not part of what being an empath is either). You actually have to put things into practice. The way someone walks can reveal things about them. It was fun and interesting to watch too, btw.
Normally I would agree with what you said about anxiety but for the most part I don’t think that was misused here.
@@Shewas-kathybates^
except the sociopath was awkward
I knew it was her when she said she was 31 and never had any romantic relationships or heartbreaks. That is something sociopaths experience bc of the misunderstanding of emotions. Heartbreaks happen outside of romance.
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Ore sociopaths can have a lot of romantic partners and relationships like way more than average. That can usually be an indicator, but obviously it can also be the opposite.
@@Miss.Tango. oh yeah for sure!!
She gave herself away on the first round when she couldn’t describe the physical sensation in her body, rather she noted the use of what she imagined an empath’s abilities are and verbalized that.
i knewwwww the fall was fake, i literally replayed it 3 times because i was trying to figure out HOW she fell.
Teehee❤
@@AllysonGailBricks Girl your performance here was A1. I literally said out loud how much I messed with you. You're very smart for that play fr. I wish you the best in all future endeavors
@@AllysonGailBricksabsolutely not it
I knew from the first take. She purposely put her knee forward and it looked like she looked for it and then threw herself on the ground ready to catch herself.
BRUH SHE TRIPPED ON NOTHINGGG I watched it and I was like TF?
The Airbnb host saying his guests are empaths because not many people would want to stay with a stranger… lol dude people do it because they want to save money, not because they’re so excited to meet a stranger
We were hosts for about 3 years and mainly we would get 5 star reviews if we met with the guest but lower reviews when we didn’t. So I think the airbnb guest is a different type of person than just a bargain hunter most of the time. I totally would just do it to save money though haha.
he creeped me out lol
Might not be the motivation, but I thinks its fair to say that many would rather not travel than share a room with somebody. So you need to at least be ok with sharing a room apartment with a stranger.
Save money? Airbnbs in Australia are double even triple the price of hotels with all the added fees.
Lol I think empaths would be less likely to want to meet strangers to protect their already sensitive nervous systems.
allyson pissed me off so much im sorry😭 felt like she was basing what an empath is just off of her own very limited experiences. girl really used disney movies as a question? hm…
Yeah Im not a huge fan of Disney but I'm definitely a very empathetic person, even towards people that are assholes to me. So I would be extremely irritated if someone asked me this question
yeah and she chose hercules for the music ????? but she would judge anyone who chose the lion king because of one sad scene, even tho it also has amazing music! make it make sense girl
It was just a passing comment relax
Bro I hated her from the beginning like what was she doing she tripped on NOTHING. TWICE!!! It was obvious and then she was like “surpriseee I faked it 😁” like girlll stfu that was a surprise to no one 😭💀💀💀
@pwetty4r4 Every passing comment she made made no sense tho 😭
Hot take, the self aware sociopath is more empathetic than most self proclaimed empaths.
They thought that the girl who was voted out first was a sociopath because she was quiet and seemed nervous? Those are literally the signs you are not a sociopath, a sociopath is charming, confident and never nervous, they don`t care what others think of them, as opposed to empaths
the most empathetic person here is probably that first girl who got voted out. it's the silent ones (or the class clown type, i didnt see one here though) who are feeling the most, generally.
I thought the same thing, the least empathetic person was Alison in the rainbow. I think the guy with the long hair was a real empathy as well.
Yes, exactly!! I didn't even consider her to be weird, she's just super laid back and I'd love to have a chat with her haha
I knew from the beginning. If you can read body language you could see that her eyes were far more calculating and her walk was very guarded. She was mirroring everyone else and her responses like never having been in a relationship was a big indication. She seems like a lovely person who has been through a lot and I'm glad to see that she is here sharing her story and experiences with others.
no you didnt
I guessed it was her from the intro. Her eyes were very cold as she smiled. It was either her or Aaron for me. Then she talked about her trauma and struggles, and her lack of heartbreak, and it confirmed her for me.
Bros tryna come off as an empath in the comments💀
It's just analysing people, lol@@Lucas_0913
Her “got you” giggling when the light turned red showed, she really did have feelings about winning.
Yeah I confused about that. I always understood sociopaths about not being able to understand OTHERS feelings. Not that they don't have any.
@@taniaalvaart 💯 👏 🙌 👌 🤣
@@taniaalvaart Thats because there is a bit of a spectrum with ASPD you have sociopath and psychopath. Socio is closer to feeling some emotion and not understanding other peoples feelings where as psychopathy is the lack of feeling emotions at all. A sociopath can be sad but not cry when their mother passes away for instance while a full blown psychopath would feel absolutely nothing like with Autism and Asperger you can be full in on one side or somewhere in the middle of both
A sociopath will feel something akin to satisfaction or smugness when they win, especially if they guide things to go the way they want. They care about their own comfort and mental stimulation, or they would never bother to get up in the morning. But they don't understand that emotional high that many people get from winning. When they asked how she felt about winning, she was blatantly honest when she said she really didn't care. Her smiles and giggles mask her lack of feelings very well though.
@@wildflower1397right she knows she’s on camera. It’s a performance and when she said “can I be honest” THAT was when she decided to take off the mask. The game ended for the empaths once the red light came on, but for the sociopath the game began way before she got to set that day and won’t end once she leaves.
Cassy was dealt a pretty rough hand it is so brave of her to open up and come on the show like this. I never knew about the sociopathy spectrum and learning about it through her was insightful. Hope she is living her best life
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Allyson may be trying to identify herself as an empath but she’s definitely a sociopath.
I was waiting for her to get voted out like….she might be on a scale of empathy, on the lower end because she felt emotions yes but she is also very manipulative.
Not because she was wearing rainbow and happy colours it means that she can’t be a sociopath. For being an empath she definitely did not read the room so imo she isn’t one.
she was flashing covert sociopath like a giant red light siren
Allyson makes me so uncomfortable. She also comes across hella manipulative
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I immediately know who it is because they were featured on SBSK, a great channel to check out for interviews with people who have disabilities or mental illnesses
Me too I recognised her
SAME!
Same girl
Me too! lol and there’s no way I would have known if I hadn’t watched that channel either lol I would have assumed it was the guy with the cane 💀
same
"I'm an empath and i think clothing color is a trustworthy way to judge someone's character" 💀
lmao
Her face sweetness, secret superior smirks and constant half smile gave her away to me. She did not project joy like the rest, in fact seemed to secretly be laughing at them.
It's crazy that I picked her out in the first minute and yet at the end I was surprised to hear how self-aware and amazing person she is. And I was surprised to hear that what she said about herself (homeless, working with homeless, mental health advocate etc) was true. When she said all those things with zero emotion I knew she was a sociopath and I thought she was lying. And not to point fingers any further but some of the empaths didn't seem very self-aware at all.
before cassy said her age i thought she was 19/early 20s 😭 like whaaaat
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This your first time seeing a young looking person? I suggest you go outside, meet people. Get off RUclips.
no stress to age her from internalizing other people's emotions or her own emotional turmoil.
autism baby face
interesting how they equate empath with bubbly and awkward. idk if im an empath, i do think I’m real in tune with people emotions n that makes me think a lot. and try to be as small as possible in some places. i can be bubbly, if i feel safe but i think it takes stepping back and being quiet sometimes to really take in other people’s emotions.
Yeah it's pretty odd. As someone who does clinically low empathy & is pretty excitable & does wear bright colours, it did bother me
2:28 was a crazy idea to actually see the real empaths who would try to help her
and who was the first person who went to help her? lol
@@vaneabarca😅
@@vaneabarcaLMAOOO
@@vaneabarca Because that girl is selling herself short calling herself a sociopath who can't feel emotions, I don't know how she got that diagnosis (ASPD), but it's obviously not true. Her automatic reaction to go help someone in need was too reflexive to not come from emotion. She actually is a very empathetic person.
@@sulagreen5792As somone who relates somewhat to Cassy (I don’t have ASPD though), you can recognize the kind/nice thing to do without feeling it intrinsically. There are a lot of things I “reflexively” do because it’s been ingrained in me, not because I actually care.
Props to Cassy for hiding so well. I'm a psychopath and she wasn't even in my top 3 picks. Veronica seemed most sus to me, followed by guy with long hair and black guy
She got us really well.
New title : 1 normal person and 5 attention seekers
I once had a friend who somehow seemed both like an empath and a sociopath. She could take advantage of others and their emotions pretty easily.
They most likely had strong cognitive empathy. Cognitive empathy differs from affective empathy in that it involves *understanding* emotions and how they *affect* people, but it never quite *”feeling as they feel,"* as with affective empathy.
I feel like they are closer on the spectrum than people think.
@@kristenlogan2594 in what way? Describe your point of view.
Sounds like Borderline personality disorder. They can have a lot of empathy, but still be manipulative. And at times turn psychopathic if triggered.
dark empath
I immediately knew it was her from the way she’s describing emotions, it’s clear she has cognitive empathy and that she understand emotions but don’t necessary feel them!
Aaand I’m the same :)
The way the girl in rainbow acted after the mole was revealed had me dead☠😭
yea she was annoying
She is not an empath at all , she is just super annoying and energetic , she may have adhd
@@jumanajojo9101 and a little bit histrionic😅
“I KNEW IT WAS YOU!”
*5 minutes later*
“Yeah, I didn’t even suspect her”
Me watching: Then why did you say that you knew it was her??
@@vanilla4983she didn’t lol I’m pretty sure that was Austin (?)
i don't know why people who call themselves empaths always set off my red flags 😅
Its frustrating when people confuse being empathic and empathetic. I dont think there were any actual empaths here.
Austin was she only real empath fashoo
People like this are the reason why I hide my empathetic side. It's not a superpower.
What do you mean?
I understand being an empathetic person but I feel like saying you are an “empath” not only takes the humility out of it because it feels like you’re trying to make it about you and you’re ability to to feel as opposed to the feeling of the person experiencing those emotions, but also takes the path of righteousness believing that you have a better ability to understand and relate to peoples’ hardships than others do. I didn’t realize how much I disliked the term and idea until I watched this video.
😂😂😂 yo some of these comments are funny to me. Like y'all need to read a book or just do a quick Google search.
Being an empath is a psychology term. Being highly empathetic means someone is an empath. Pretty much pretty who can feel others emotions would be labled as an empath. Its just a shorter and easier way to say empathetic.
In other words. Saying "im an empath" shouldnt be "oh that person just wants attention"
We don’t really care if you don’t like our identity
@@down-to-earth-mystery-schoolthat's the point not caring isn't empathetic 😂
@@dan_kotsu got em lol
I wouldn’t say being an empath is righteous. It’s more like having poor emotional boundaries in the sense that you easily pick up what others are feeling without intending to.
My mom is a genuine empath. She was a nurse for 20+ years and eventually had to retire early because she couldn’t handle feeling her patients’ pain any longer. It aged her significantly. I’m extremely empathetic, but my mother feels physical pain if she’s near someone experiencing any sort of pain at all. It’s quite taxing on her. It makes her a fantastic person to be around, she’s the most gentle and loving person I know. But it is extremely difficult for her.
This is me. I have been a nurse for 27 years, the last 3 in psych. The first 24 I worked in postpartum/nursery. I worked nights and wouldn’t be able to sleep because I was so worried about my patients. I would call and check on them. I also feel pain when my kids do. I had to switch to psych, I still have empathy, but it is not ruining my life. I didn’t know attention seeking was considered empathy. Like those people.
I think that this is what people get confused by the most when they talk about empaths: it's not about the skill of HAVING EMPATHY, where you consciously try to put yourself in someone else's shoes, but rather a natural trait that you're born with, where you experience heightened and constant sensitivity to the emotions/energy/physical sensations of others.
The amount of people in this comment section who actually talk about having empathy or sympathy but think that this is what being an empath means... 🙄
The comment ‘ i do not know what love is, i do not know what happiness is’ that just feels so alien to me
I knew it by the thumbnail. Not because she looked any type of way but because the others are dressed like main characters and that type of hubris only comes with people who call themselves “an empath”
"If Lion King is your favorite movie then there's something wrong with you. When Simba's dad dies in the movie, my heart can't take it".
Girl, The Lion King is my favourite Disney move specifically because it hits so hard emotionally...
Yeah, sad music is my favourite music because I can relate and feel it so deeply, and it makes me cry.
no literally- I loved the lion King BECAUSE it was emotional.. I love watching sad movies..reading sad books because I want to feel that emotion... since when did wanting to feel a certain emotion..become less empathic??...she literally just put that label and just went with it without understanding the full picture☠️
"If lion king is your favourite movie there is something wrong with you" - Alison
I loveeee this movie! It's not that I rewatch sad scenes...it's the movie that teaches you that there are betrayals in life...that parents die...but most of all-that you are not alone!❤ that sometimes you need...and can take action! And you'll succeed if you let go of fear.
And if "Lion King" is your favourite movie,there is nothing wrong with you!!❤ -me:)
Is she wrong???
@@jubilee Yes. WTF do ya'll have against the Lion King?
I think that particular scene in books such deep emotion and that’s exactly why it’s one of my favorite Disney movies. along with Tarzan, who lost his parents as a baby and other Disney movies there is emotional depth and that makes the movies great and leaves an impression instead of just being a cutesy movie for kids
and let’s not forget “the land before time” !
It captured so many emotions and made me feel so deeply from such a young age.
this video should be called:
1 person who's honest about being a sociopath and 5 people who are pretending not to be.
delusional sociopaths!
Deadpan stare, has never loved at the age of 31, lower energy + lack of emotional showcasing through facial expressions.
I realized it early.
The empath: "Maybe if I was closer I would've felt her energy!" 🤣
I loved Turning Red. I cried so hard towards the end because I felt the same way with my mom and her constant judgment of me. That movie hit home too hard.
8:30 "He's currently deceased" ... you think that's gonna change any time soon?
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Yeah...that line was, pun intended, the dead ringer for me on the sociopath in the group
LITERALLY
She meant it in an "as of now" type of way
Haha I caught that too, especially because I’ve seen other videos with her and knew she was the sociopath 🤣
I don’t like to proclaim I’m an empath but I do feel like I’m an empathetic person. I’m not really that talkative, definitely introverted than most of the ppl in the video but I always find people, strangers even, opening up to me. I listen attentively to others and feel very deeply. I wish someone talked about how draining it can be. Sometimes after hearing someone’s story I feel it so deeply, I carry that all with me.
I knew it.
Cassie reminded me a lot of a girl I used to teach (school specifically for those on the spectrum). Very similar mannerisms. Autism and sociopathy are actually misdiagnosed with one enough more often than people think, and sometimes people have traits that fall under both umbrellas. The lack of understanding of emotional depth is a big reason why, a lot of people on the spectrum don’t “get” emotions the way we do. It varies a LOT of course but it makes sense.
@@AmoebaInk As a high functioning empath, I can feel that you're a psychopath.
Of course the one I get a little crush on was the mole. My mind said “it’s the rainbow woman” but my heart knew. She’s so cute and I love how she explained her experience.
I feel like I could relate to life identically to Cassandra; consequently, aside from how warm and fuzzy she is, I tend to pretend a lot as well, but internally, I'm angry that I feel it's necessary for me to pretend. I have a daily battle with depression, but I'm social as well.
It would be nice if Jubilee could get more people who don't have a big presence online. I already knew the black girl was the sociopath because I've seen her do interviews about it on other channels
the video she was on only has a million views. that's not really a big presence and most people didn't know who she was.
@@steff4413but if you watch Jubilee, you’ve likely been recommended Soft White Underbellu videos by the algorithm
@@steff4413she's been on at least two that I know of (SBSK and soft white underbelly)
Empath is the cringiest thing that has hit the internet stratosphere
So having empathy is cringe worthy yeah buddy go touch some grass 🤦♂️
@@bestrong8543I don't think they mean having empathy is cringe. I think they mean ppl labeling themselves as empaths is cause it's kinda like the whole nice guy thing. People who yell at mountain tops that they're empaths tend to not really be, just like how some guys call themselves "nice guys" but are actually douches.
Agreed.
@@bestrong8543empathetic people don’t need to go around and tell people they are “empaths”. If you need to PROVE it.. you’re not lol.
@@Taylor_mamaof2 you can same the same thing about guys saying they are masculine why do meat head guys say that you should stand in your masculinity no need to say it didn’t mean to digress it’s so many people that put labels on things not just being a empath
land before time is one of my favorite movies and it invokes the same type of emotions as the lion king does. except the land before time, these poor kids are struggling on their own for so long and then the happiness and joy they felt when they were finally reunited with their loved ones!
I think that’s probably many empaths favorite movie.
This was definitely an eye opener on people who lack empathy emotionally.
NAH the rainbow girl’s seriousness about all of this was funny af!
People really don't seem to understand the difference between psychopathy and sociopathy.
Sociopaths know feelings but suppress them, usually as a result of childhood trauma. Psychopaths are born without feelings, but can pretend to have them.
You are mixing up conscience and emotions.
not true at all. sociopaths do not feel empathy, guilt, remorse. psychopaths feel all these emotions they just act very badly once feeling them and cannot control themselves
Why did this misinformation get 74 likes ?
Austin may be the only real empath up there.
austin was the only one who wasn’t flat out judgy and mean, the rest of them were trying so hard to prove they were empathic while judging the hardest 😭
that's what i said!!!
Even the way she said it at the start sounded like siri😂😭
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Every self proclaimed “empath” ive ever met tend to be the least empathetic people and are usually very selfish and a pain to be around.
The sociopath was in another video being interviewed about being a sociopath. So that's how I already knew who it was.
😂😂😂
Never realized i was a sociopath until i saw how one interacted with emotional people from an outside perspective. Like looking in a mirror. A creepy, hollow, mirror ...
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Not knowing if you’re capable of love or understanding love is truly so, so sad. That cannot be a nice way to exist. I don’t know much about the spectrum of ASP or if therapy helps with it but I hope Cassy gets the opportunity to experience it at least once in her life (whether it be romantic or another form of love).
But also - Cassy saying she has tried to love her mum and sister.. maybe that is a form of love in itself. She’s trying/has tried and clearly she cares. That’s something! ❤
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@@ChocolateAutizzy ❤️
As an autistic person, Allyson referring to autism as “the tism” really frustrated me. It’s like making a disorder all cutesy and childish which makes people less likely to take it seriously.
As an autistic person....I actually love using the term "I have the touch of 'tism". not because im belitting the spectrum, but its easier to tell people while making them laugh.
@@Annalette8 That’s fair enough. I understand that it’s different for everyone, it just makes me cringe tbh.
I think it’s cringe that there are people out here who actually self diagnose themselves as being on the spectrum or Neurodivergent. I think it’s the weirdest thing ever.
@@marszz333 Well you have to self diagnose before you diagnose if you’re figuring it out on your own. Also around 80% of people who self diagnose autism are correct. However I do agree that many young people diagnose themselves to be trendy.
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the sheer amount of optimistic excitement is almost sickening. Those people are WAYYYYYYYYYY too nice.
You know, this would have been more of a mystery for me if RUclips's top recommended video wasn't "An Autistic Sociopath's Story" with the sociopath's face as a thumbnail.