8 Signs You’re Dealing With a Psychopath

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 года назад +1744

    Psychopathy is not an official diagnosis but refers to a combination of behavioral traits including antisocial behavior, “callousness,” and low levels of empathy and interpersonal emotions. People whose behavior mostly falls under antisocial tendencies are instead diagnosed with sociopathy - officially antisocial personality disorder. So here are a few signs to look out for.

  • @chynabarbieeeeee
    @chynabarbieeeeee 3 года назад +2953

    Psych2go doesn't realize this, but these videos are making everyone's day better.

    • @trinitycheechoo9123
      @trinitycheechoo9123 3 года назад +17

      Yes

    • @suna7511
      @suna7511 3 года назад +23

      nah homie, the y realize this 100% all of us here at the comments keep reminding them. keep on putting out comments like these bud!

    • @OneManCast
      @OneManCast 3 года назад +25

      Disagreed. She's bringing out symptoms that can be misused. Even if she has made a disclaimer. I mean, how many people misuse despite disclaimers. The problem with giving the public this opening information, is the level of misuse of this information. It causes more conflict than benefit.

    • @KokaKola633
      @KokaKola633 3 года назад +13

      I’ve seen this comment done a million times-

    • @rajashreebarat5191
      @rajashreebarat5191 3 года назад +2

      Yes

  • @leesonti
    @leesonti 3 года назад +1083

    Started watching this channel recently and I swear it's addictive and helpful to watch

  • @thatrandomvideoguy98
    @thatrandomvideoguy98 3 года назад +906

    "number 3, they're charismatic"
    Well, i know I'm safe now...

    • @theintrovertedguy9760
      @theintrovertedguy9760 3 года назад +32

      Hahaha, me too 😂

    • @achyutarjun
      @achyutarjun 3 года назад +96

      @Draya A I have all the signs. But I am glad psychopathy doesn't automatically mean that I will turn into a murderer. I want to be a good person, and fit into society. But I can't change who I am. I want to, but my brain is wired differently. I have to constantly analyse the situation, and predict how a normal person would behave, and behave accordingly. It's not fun. I don't have a natural reaction to stuff everytime. I don't really feel empathy. But I don't like being this person either. I want to experience being normal. Have real emotions, and be a good person.

    • @byzen23
      @byzen23 3 года назад +29

      @@achyutarjun Try to go to therapy, it helps.

    • @account-kn7tt
      @account-kn7tt 3 года назад +17

      @@achyutarjun Tbh you'll probably get further in life if you Don't try to be normal and embrace your actual self

    • @gfersurvived6622
      @gfersurvived6622 3 года назад +1

      Me too literally.

  • @elizabethwilliams6651
    @elizabethwilliams6651 10 месяцев назад +355

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
      @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 10 месяцев назад +2

      Does anyone know any good source to get them? I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels, would love to give shrooms a try.

    • @steceymorgan814
      @steceymorgan814 10 месяцев назад

      Yes, dr.sporesss

    • @patriaciasmith3499
      @patriaciasmith3499 10 месяцев назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @steceymorgan814
      @steceymorgan814 10 месяцев назад

      Yes he is. dr.sporesss

    • @twinfred3160
      @twinfred3160 10 месяцев назад

      DMT was definitely the best trip I ever had. It was amazing!

  • @deannadove3505
    @deannadove3505 10 месяцев назад +39

    These signs seem to also match those of Narcissists'. I would really be interested in learning of some signs that differ between Narcissists and Psychopaths. Thank you for the great educational video.

    • @arin.000
      @arin.000 10 месяцев назад +8

      hey , im both a psychopath and a malignant narcissist and yes there are some differences.
      in the behaviour the only difference is probably violende : since with narcissism ur purpose is being admired you dont use violence usually .
      most of the differences are in the cognitive causes, like the narcissists can feel emotions and empathy to a certain extent , while the psychopaths cant , also narcissists are motivated by a desire of general popularity and being liked and they would do anyrhing to achieve it , while psychopaths value more the practicale rewards like money , sex , dopamine etc , so their actions can be violent and make them look bad in other people's eyes , making their previous interaction clearly fake.
      while narcissist would do anything to keep the mask

    • @angelabird8664
      @angelabird8664 10 месяцев назад +4

      From what I understand, narcissists and psychopaths are different from each other (according to Dr. Ramani.)

    • @nsvshhw
      @nsvshhw 6 месяцев назад +8

      Psychology fact: "Not every narcissist is a psychopath, but every psychopath is a narcissist!"

    • @Angel_Lover_Blehh
      @Angel_Lover_Blehh 5 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@nsvshhw This is flat out misinformation, not every narcissist is a psychopath and not every psychopath is a narcissist

  • @mechasentai
    @mechasentai 3 года назад +211

    I do want to say I've seen a lot of hurtful people label others as a psychopath just because they don't like them or disagree. Please don't use this to hurt others. It's supposed to be to help one another not hurt one another.

    • @kaceymariaestrella-rodrigu8594
      @kaceymariaestrella-rodrigu8594 3 года назад +4

      @@nantae1047 exactly

    • @tyremanguitars
      @tyremanguitars Год назад

      this happened to me, they had no interest at all in getting to know me, instead it was about labelling me and putting me into a box, despite them not being qualified to diagnose anybody and having no knowledge of these things, the lack of empathy was very telling.

    • @lenorjohnson319
      @lenorjohnson319 11 месяцев назад +1

      Why they don't care how or what they say or do too hurt us

  • @matilda1505
    @matilda1505 3 года назад +603

    I still can’t get over the fact that there are people out there that will hurt you and just walk away like nothing happened !

    • @brick9318
      @brick9318 3 года назад +91

      Cry about it

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 3 года назад +114

      @@brick9318 You sounded like one of them tbh

    • @nomaru5388
      @nomaru5388 3 года назад +14

      @Panda Wdym everyone is different and react differently to some certain things

    • @floofyboi4897
      @floofyboi4897 3 года назад +42

      @Panda Oooh, you're such a big alpha Male aren't you? Yes you are little Timmy, yes you are.

    • @_cottontuna_3790
      @_cottontuna_3790 3 года назад +34

      @Panda "You humans" yea, it kinda makes sense, since you're a Panda

  • @jaqjynx
    @jaqjynx 3 года назад +16

    I’m a mental health nurse and I could have done with these videos back when I was studying.

  • @duckybald
    @duckybald 3 года назад +64

    I hope you're all having a wonderful day!

  • @Pyr0Mania2
    @Pyr0Mania2 Год назад +12

    The number 3 i can relate. But i think it's something like a coping skill. I can mimic lots of personalities to certain moments, may them be in public or in my own home. But i rarely use my most social side normally.

  • @mrunknown6842
    @mrunknown6842 2 года назад +4

    My mother is a psychopath, taking no responsibility for how she's treated me or others

  • @atlantica4009
    @atlantica4009 3 года назад +80

    Me watching this to make sure I'm not the psychopath I'm dealing with

    • @maxim_ssc
      @maxim_ssc 3 года назад +4

      same

    • @LocketInThinePocket
      @LocketInThinePocket 3 года назад +16

      If you're worried about it, you're instantly not a psychopath.

    • @justinmizuhara
      @justinmizuhara 2 года назад +13

      @@maxim_ssc if you are worried about it(like me lmao), you're 99.9% NOT a Psychopath, because psychopaths wouldn't even care if they are a psychopath or not. Also, they don't really care about what others think about them. You're fine, trust me.

    • @DivineLightPaladin
      @DivineLightPaladin Год назад +1

      What if you're curious about it but you don't really care either way and would be fascinated to find out if it's true? 😅

  • @Unknown-sg4tv
    @Unknown-sg4tv 3 года назад +18

    The Word that's Good means better than other thing a person does.
    The Word that's nice means nicer than other thing a person does.

  • @CatholicQuiz77
    @CatholicQuiz77 3 года назад +105

    Psychopaths lack remorse, when comfronted with things they've done wrong, they may blame you. Why? Because they probably won't take the time to think through how placing the blame in you will make you feel the same way they do at the moment.
    Instead, they use you as a scapegoat in an attempt to relieve the discomfort & anger they are experiencing.

    • @Duran762
      @Duran762 3 года назад +3

      I disagree

    • @jaxon3365
      @jaxon3365 3 года назад +2

      Totally agree
      - a “psychopath” (though I hate to call myself that as it is often connected to murderers, I prefer “antisocial” or “conduct disordered”)

    • @mechasentai
      @mechasentai 3 года назад +2

      No joke, and I mean legit for real... That describes almost all online drama. It's kind of scary actually.

    • @dianavandentillaart-kool9335
      @dianavandentillaart-kool9335 3 года назад +1

      @@jaxon3365 you missed reactive attachement disorder... Watch the movie "child of rage" you can watch it on RUclips

    • @jaxon3365
      @jaxon3365 3 года назад +1

      @@dianavandentillaart-kool9335 RAD is certainly an interesting disorder, but I don't have it, I only have CD

  • @damijanruzic9128
    @damijanruzic9128 Месяц назад +1

    known too well, but do not forget they are oftenly active within a system, policeman, judges, officers..professors...

  • @jokeloy4916
    @jokeloy4916 3 года назад +192

    Wow. Such a beautiful voice this narrator has

    • @ColemanTheShiningStar
      @ColemanTheShiningStar 3 года назад +9

      @Rick Astley 🅥 oh heck no I’m not clicking that

    • @ilikered581
      @ilikered581 3 года назад +1

      @@ColemanTheShiningStarreported it

    • @maxim_ssc
      @maxim_ssc 3 года назад +2

      yes, It sounds great!

    • @thenightsmelody2173
      @thenightsmelody2173 3 года назад +4

      @Rick Astley 🅥
      never gonna give you up
      never gonna let you down
      never gonna run around and desert you
      never gonna make you cry
      never gonna say goodbye
      never gonna tell a lie and hurt you

    • @m2b785
      @m2b785 3 года назад +2

      LMAO JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS BURNING RIGHT NOW

  • @CutestCookies
    @CutestCookies Год назад +10

    my friend got diagonsed as one and after she got help she was actually a lot nicer and i never noticed any weird behaviours after that!

    • @iamahuman2813
      @iamahuman2813 Год назад

      OMG UR SO COOL FOR STAYING FRIENDS WITH HER! NOT BEING MEAN BUT I FEEL MOST WOULD BE SCARED AW-caps… I just realized… anyway-most would be scared away because of the idea or a disorder

    • @sofisomething
      @sofisomething Год назад

      You can’t be diagnosed with psychopathy, it’s not a mental disorder or listed on dsm, so this comment must be 100% true.

    • @Noel_Wood
      @Noel_Wood Год назад +2

      @@sofisomethingwell according to the NIH (medical gov website) psychopathy is 100% a thing, but not listed in the DSM-5 (too stigmatizing of a label due to the association of serial killers i bet.)

    • @DivineLightPaladin
      @DivineLightPaladin Год назад +2

      ​@@sofisomethingjust because it's not "listed in the DSM" (yet) does not make something not exist, or not valid. Equally likely that it IS in there, under a longer medical jargonized name like "Anti-Social Personality Disorder. "

    • @sofisomething
      @sofisomething Год назад

      @@DivineLightPaladin not all psychopaths are antisocial (qualifying for antisocial personality disorder), psychopathy is not in the DSM 5 and anything out of it is not a mental disorder or illness. When we talk about psychopathy (primary psychopathy for example) we refer to a set of personality traits measured from a climax we all score somewhere. The cutoff scores to be considered as a psychopath is in the area of study same as the whole construct.

  • @sofisomething
    @sofisomething Год назад +12

    As you mentioned in the beginning… psychopathy is not a mental disorder, but you categorise them as such at the end of the video. Very consistent…
    Anyways, as we know from the scientific literature: psychopaths are risk averse and less likely to be intoxicated while committing criminal acts, rather they are completely focused, so they can calculate carefully each and every detail to avoid getting caught. Impulsive behaviour best describes sociopathy and other cluster B personality traits, without excluding psychopaths when it comes to pleasure and excitement (like spending money, having many sexual encounters..).
    The core definition of psychopathy and its traits include solely the inability to care and experience 5 negative emotions (at least as high as the average person), therefore we call psychopathy (Factor 1 or primary psychopathy) the interpersonal affective facet, comparing to factor 2 (the sociopaths) which are called the lifestyle antisocial, due to their strongest relationship with the disorder. 🤓

    • @rcha2024
      @rcha2024 10 месяцев назад

      the music along with the theme of this video, accompanied by the emotionless voice narration ....is VERY psychopathic if you ask me
      psycho2go

    • @pirahnalasagne
      @pirahnalasagne 10 месяцев назад

      Even the DSM is just a tool. Formal diagnoses can vary significantly at the individual level. Not to mention the fact co-morbidity can be a factor too with abnormal psychology. Often terms and theory within psychology attempt to capture a significant amount of the variability by certain factors, but often observable features/traits can fall outside of these explanations. Human psychology is complex, particularly within the social context.

    • @sofisomething
      @sofisomething 10 месяцев назад

      @@rcha2024 🤣🤣🤣

    • @sofisomething
      @sofisomething 10 месяцев назад

      @@pirahnalasagne yes totally agree! It’s a goal to include more traits and sub categories to the existing DSM so it becomes more inclusive for constructs that need treatment and they are not captured in the current version, such as vulnerable narcissism etc. I don’t see psychopathy being part of it though, primary psychopaths are functioning and successful in work or other environments, while also they are desirable for high leadership positions and others because of their “stress immunity”.

  • @yrok244
    @yrok244 3 года назад +26

    "Well, of course I know him. He's me."

  • @shdacees
    @shdacees 3 года назад +83

    I really love videos like this it’s really teaching me so much about people. Everyone needs to start really watching these and deal with there problems by getting help. Keep making great videos 🧘‍♀️🦋

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад

      Thanks for the support and hope you are doing well!

    • @charlesgardner7258
      @charlesgardner7258 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Psych2goi think psychopaths and sociopaths can be both born and made

  • @fairygodmother8584
    @fairygodmother8584 3 года назад +20

    My supposed friend from last school year matched the majority of these signs. I don’t want to expose her or call her out so I’ll just call her May. She often accused me in front of our group of friends, repeatedly no matter what I did. She would always find ways to get everyone on her side and even booted a girl from our group. When she kicked the girl out, everyone shrugged it off except for me. I decided to teach her a lesson, but I don’t want to speak of it. Long story short, she had ended up cussing at me threatening to kill everyone and herself. Also, she had a best friend/ backup for her plans, I’ll call her Tammy. Tammy would stick by May’s side because she was afraid of her making everyone turn against her, resulting in Tammy laying back letting people get bullied at May’s hands. I left about two weeks ago without saying anything to anyone. May texted me on zoom and gave me a whole apology essay. This isn’t the first time, here’s an example of the cycle: Bully, Plead for me not to leave, I stay, and rinse and repeat. I didn’t reply and blocked her. May would always say that she wasn’t accusing me or someone else and insist that she was just ‘Gathering Evidence.’ She was manipulative, an example of when I was first joining the group and she was on thin ice with the group. She manipulated me into being on her side and defend her. Now I realize that she was trying to manipulate me in a failed attempt in booting me out. She also would pretend to be dark and mysterious, posting weird song lyrics, and complain about her life. In all honesty, she was a bit strange and that should’ve been the first sign. Overall, I really hope she isn’t a psychopath, I feel bad for her and wish she carries on with life becoming a better person.

    • @johnrains8861
      @johnrains8861 3 года назад +3

      i may not no you, but im about to blow your mind. What your explaining is called....being a teenger

    • @fairygodmother8584
      @fairygodmother8584 3 года назад +1

      Thanks for the news😐

    • @mynameiscare999
      @mynameiscare999 2 года назад

      Not a Paycho definitely just wanna-be 😉

    • @iamahuman2813
      @iamahuman2813 Год назад +1

      I used to be similar to that in a way… but not with my friends-if my friends hated someone I would make there lives miserable, I thought I was doing good because I was helping my friends… but they got scared of me and ditched me… well I saw I was being wrong, developed a moral compass, and am a better-though still with slightly twisted reasoning- person now

  • @jameredio690
    @jameredio690 3 года назад +2

    Blame others for your mistake hmmm that sounds familar about people who trashtalk in video games.....

  • @Black_Gru
    @Black_Gru 9 месяцев назад +1

    I have actually seeked treatment for theese problems, and I am way better now, It makes me so happy when channles like you talk about theese things, and it truely means a lot to me, Thank you.
    In my case I was always the happy one, but I would always try to start some type of drama.
    I was starting to realize that I really did not care about…pretty much anything, at my grandfathers funeral it was just a normal day for me, I was Even walking around telling jokes.
    As a 11 year old……….
    I Even started to make fun of the other people in my class who where crying for hours because the same happend to them.
    Looking back at it now, I am really happy my parents got me help, and I am very thankful for that❤
    There was one thing you didnt mention though, People become diffrent, less worth. Like your life matters so much more, the others Are Dirty, Filthy and disgusting.
    I am better. At least thats what I thought.
    My biggest problem was when I got bored, I would do some really, really bad things when I got bored.
    I remember being outside the school, Thinking of something to do.
    I was throwing rocks around, and suddenly I saw a bird flying around the Windows outside my classroom, I grabbed a rock and threw it at the bird, I missed but scared the bird and it went flying right into the window. Falling down, my classroom was more than 5 meters over the ground so the bird fell HARD down at the hard ground, I started to poke it with a stick as a teacher saw it and told me to leave it alone. Lucky for me She didnt see what I did.
    When I did bad things, I never had a real reason. Only this, My own
    Entertainment. It was really the ONLY thing I cared about.
    Again, I did Seek help and I am better now. Thank you psych2go for talking about this❤❤❤

  • @SarahPorfidio
    @SarahPorfidio 3 года назад +15

    My husband was released from prison after 12 years. He spent 5 years in solitary confinement. When he was released I became a target because of how I “hurt” him. Even though he slept with SEVERAL girls and would make me aware, I was not aloud to talk to another guy or be anywhere he wasn’t allowed. He called 911 and said someone overdosed because I wouldn’t leave my cousin’s house. There too much to mention. I spent 2020 trying to stay alive while he spent 2020 trying to get me to kill myself. Things are better now. I have a restraining order and I am no longer a target.

    • @annacamila
      @annacamila Год назад +3

      I'm glad you're okay now.

  • @nataliasaikaly4745
    @nataliasaikaly4745 3 года назад +138

    me thinking of my siblings while watching this
    *hehe I’m in danger*

    • @Rio_SenpaiYT
      @Rio_SenpaiYT 3 года назад +1

      @Rick Astley 🅥 woah woah...

    • @DND09
      @DND09 3 года назад +2

      Same lmao

    • @5ld734
      @5ld734 3 года назад

      @@m2b785 are you one of those Logan Roof kids? That is sad and pathetic

  • @square_yun1573
    @square_yun1573 Год назад +3

    Omg my boss has all these traits HE IS DANGEROUS!
    1. He likes making fun of ppl, women especially, including his 1-year-old daughter. Most of the jokes are inappropriate. For example, he’s excited to see news about sexual crimes, particularly with little girls, he just bursts out laughing. He has such a weird sense of empathy that no one finds the news funny.
    2. He’s good at pissing you off. When he infuriates someone, he just laughs, after that he makes you forgive him by having sweet talks, but I don’t think he’s sorry.
    3. Don’t ever try to put the blame on him even if it’s completely his fault because he is the rule.
    4. He’s a good liar and a good actor. For example, he always pretends to have forgotten sth in order to make you remind him repeatedly, like he’s asking about your nationality EACH month. It’s impossible to forget so many times so I think he kinda enjoys asking it (to see you unhappy and annoyed).
    5. He’s actually charming and interesting and gets along well with many people. For example, he buys you birthday cakes and concert tickets so it’s really hard to spot the weirdness at the first glance.
    God bless his daughter I just don’t think he is a normal father, or should I say, human.

    • @dagnytheartist
      @dagnytheartist Год назад

      That first point just scares me. I can only hope someone else gets full custody of the daughter before anything bad happens to her 😨

  • @SurnaturalM
    @SurnaturalM 3 месяца назад +1

    Being concentrated on one's goals isn't synonymous with irresponsibility. It means they don't let anyone feelings get in their way. That's different.

  • @vanitas-5276
    @vanitas-5276 3 года назад +142

    I'm one as well. We're easy to spot once you start observing our behavior (we're not scary, we're not serial killers but we sure stand out).
    I do not understand human emotions so if someone come over crying I will talk with them but I won't comfort them. I can rationally and logically look into their situation and look for errors. Actually everyone thought about it as a very positive trait because I could "give helpful advices" or "let them face the truth". So I think we're pretty much needed in society.

    • @Eyeamthewitness
      @Eyeamthewitness 2 года назад +10

      If someone cries have you ever thought they were fake crying to get attention?

    • @floordevocht8408
      @floordevocht8408 2 года назад +4

      @@Eyeamthewitness my best friend does that, but she is really a attention seeker. she is always talking about stuff she has done or is going to do and when she did something she thinks is funny she will immediatly look around her to see if someone goves her attention. i find it really annoying that she is always talking about herself.

    • @shara26dimpy
      @shara26dimpy 2 года назад +8

      It has been said by some researchers that psychopaths can actually become very successful individuals in their fields (if it has nothing to do with emotions) and that not every psychopath is a serial killer.

    • @Dannniellleee
      @Dannniellleee 2 года назад +13

      “We’re pretty much needed in society.” Said just like someone who believes they’re the center of the Universe. 🙄 Ummm.... naw, bruh. You’re part of the reason “advanced” societies are so full of suffering. No one needs ppl like this around unless you come with a warning sign and an electric collar!!

    • @mynameiscare999
      @mynameiscare999 2 года назад +1

      * Psychopaths are actually “fearless superhumans” and did neurotypicals ever ask themselves if they should be fixed? 😵‍💫 You live in a world run and created by Psychopaths and have a job that puts food on your table because of them. 😘 You’re just jealous 🤦‍♀️

  • @theboi9676
    @theboi9676 3 года назад +60

    I’m not here to see if I’ve met any psychopaths, I’m just here to see if I could be one myself. Don’t be concerned I’m not insane. Just curious.
    Edit: good news. I’m not a psychopath! Of course this is NOT for actual use of diagnosis, but I used this as a guideline for the base of it. But don’t bother with this comment, I’m just talking to myself at this point.

    • @theboi9676
      @theboi9676 3 года назад

      @oky thanks for the music, I probably know the real reason why you linked this but hey thanks anyway.

    • @Toe_Ticker
      @Toe_Ticker 3 года назад

      Same

    • @MasterIsabelle
      @MasterIsabelle 2 года назад

      I like ur profile pic it’s cute what is it?

    • @theboi9676
      @theboi9676 2 года назад +1

      @@MasterIsabelle it was an old school project back in elementary years. Supposed to be a snowman but I had a few other ideas. Now he’s the most powerful thing in the cosmos awaiting to devour the souls of this world and the ones beyond and before to finally break free from his eternal prison and reform time and space to his liking. Gotta admit he is pretty cute tho.

  • @siqxyre8473
    @siqxyre8473 3 года назад +6

    Tfw in childhood you've been abused so much by someone like this, that you've adopted of their tactics just to keep yourself content, and keep danger or stress away.
    I'm doing better now, but don't fault a child for behaving in such a way, it really could just be them repeating their parent(s). Simply telling a child "no" won't make them stop if you've given no reason as to why they need to consider others when getting their needs.
    A child using manipulation as a defense tactic will take you as a threat to their own safety and wellbeing, instead show that child you will care and be there for them even when they do not ask, tell them you love and appreciate them. God knows the love I received from my mom helped me keep my head through awful trauma, even if she is far from perfect.
    Remember that there's always an other side to the coin, consider the events of what has happened to make someone behave in that way. You do not need to heal them, or even interact with them. Just keep your knowledge in the back of your mind to make sure you can help someone who isn't too far gone, and to make those feeling like monsters feel human.
    Shit uh- i gotta say something funny...
    Thanks for coming to my TED talk

    • @m2b785
      @m2b785 3 года назад

      LMAO JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS BURNING RIGHT NOW

  • @baleygr5784
    @baleygr5784 Год назад +3

    Thanks for the video! Now I gotta learn how to blend in without people knowing I am a psychopath.

  • @SupremeLordBruv
    @SupremeLordBruv Год назад +5

    Teenagers: Wow literally me

  • @nadiahid5042
    @nadiahid5042 3 года назад +6

    I've been dealing this with my mother-in-law for four years! I'm glad she died last month. But now I have to deal with my own trauma.

    • @Ectooooo
      @Ectooooo Год назад

      You are glad your mother died what kind of monster have you to be to be glad your parents died

  • @sotweet6123
    @sotweet6123 3 года назад +23

    Wow, the way you explain it definitely makes sense that it's on a spectrum. I'm starting to see that I have some but not all traits sometimes and so do most of the people I know.
    Interesting. Thanks for posting this.

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 3 года назад +66

    I have been exposed to psychopatic behaviours to an overwhelming degree. We absolutely must protect ourselves from toxic psychopatic individuals by going no contact whenever possible. It is vital to emotionally detach from such people’s toxicity as it wreaks havoc in our psyche.

    • @m2b785
      @m2b785 3 года назад +1

      LMAO JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS BURNING RIGHT NOW

    • @miguelangelcifuentescruz9465
      @miguelangelcifuentescruz9465 3 года назад +4

      Hey if we emotionally detach from psychopaths we're psychopaths too though! Hahaha

    • @MCPunk55
      @MCPunk55 3 года назад +1

      Well, I decided to keep my interactions with dames to the bare minimum. In my 10+ years of studying and observing human behavior, I found that every dame exhibits every single behavior described here. If you pay attention, it's easy to spot, and explains A LOT regarding the current condition of western civilizations regarding human rights and economics.

    • @johntravers2321
      @johntravers2321 Год назад +1

      Cringe comment, Iza.

    • @dark7angel456
      @dark7angel456 Год назад

      Yes, i know by experience, detach from them completely becuase they are scary and ugly

  • @ThePromisedFall
    @ThePromisedFall 2 года назад +2

    Im prob dealing with one. My friend is interested in everything. But everything feels fake. Shes likes to guilt trip people and blame others. They say that their depressed and want to do other bad stuff. They become violent so people have to restrain them, they have a fake empathy when someones hurt.

  • @marcushinton2335
    @marcushinton2335 Год назад

    This little video has made sense of the pandoras box of being abused by these types of people. My wife has been abusing me for goin on 17 years and I only very recently figured it out... unfortunately, I completed the 5000 piece jigsaw puzzle with no picture for reference and fumbling around in the dark about 17 years too late. She has crushed, broken, used up, and left a hollowed out husk she now is trying to throw me away

  • @harsha2086
    @harsha2086 3 года назад +60

    Omg!!! I can't even tell you how accurately this describes my ex husband and his parents.....I suffered six months of horrible abuse at their hands including house arrest and no contact with my family amongst other horrible things!!! I finally got the courage to get the hell out of there and file a divorce.... these people are so manipulative and cunning that you wont even realise their true motives until you are neck deep!!! I pray that no one has to go through what I've suffered 🙏 stay safe everyone💕

    • @cyng798
      @cyng798 2 года назад +4

      I just got out he sent me to jail saying I abused him but he abused me, I defended myself. He’s crazy! Thank God though. He was a narcissist too.

    • @davidpeat9484
      @davidpeat9484 Год назад +5

      @@cyng798 so sad. my sibling is going through this right now so i am watching these videos to understand his behaviour. She sees no wrong in her psychopath husband and worships the ground he walks in...meanwhile he has complete control of her life and she has lost her job, her friends, and her family to keep this man happy. It's truly despicable what some humans can do to others for their own selfish benefit.

    • @iamahuman2813
      @iamahuman2813 Год назад

      Sucks to be you (NOT BEING MEAN… PROMISE… BUT MABYE INSTEAD HE WAS JUST AN OBSESSED PERSON WHI HAD GOOD INTENTIONS BUT COULD NOT COMMUNICATE? Why am I in caps…? I mean, if u feel bad then think, do you hate me more, or your ex. No tot offend you, I just have a kind twisted life perspective…

  • @vikaa6969
    @vikaa6969 Год назад

    A big part of me is i literally don’t care about 90% of people. But i need to seem, and people tell me and my parents that im “such a kind soul”. Like my best friend, i can see she is trying to be manipulative, but im letting her get what she wants for now and then, its my turn. Like girl.

  • @WhateverYouWantToDraw
    @WhateverYouWantToDraw Год назад +1

    I have ADHD and have almost no emphy and is Emotionally detached from everyone

  • @zry08
    @zry08 3 года назад +12

    Everyone: dealing witth psychopath
    Me: *wait thats me*-

  • @cristi37
    @cristi37 3 года назад +47

    “They don’t feel guilty”
    Caligula after hitting a priest with a hammer and laughing: *[stares in Latin disbelief]*

    • @m2b785
      @m2b785 3 года назад

      LMAO JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS BURNING RIGHT NOW

  • @DEVIL_HIMSELF_
    @DEVIL_HIMSELF_ 6 месяцев назад +2

    💀Pov: When you realize that whole video is about you 😂

  • @olpiv5287
    @olpiv5287 Год назад +2

    Thank you for posting those videos! I'll have them in mind if i find my friend's behavior abnormal or puzzling

  • @BreezeeGreenz
    @BreezeeGreenz 3 года назад +15

    The narrator's voice is so calm, friendly, and reassuring.

  • @himal_pillay
    @himal_pillay 3 года назад +13

    *I've recently discovered this channel and I'm so happy I did 😌*

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +1

      Glad to hear that :) Which video is your favorite?

  • @janetlieb2507
    @janetlieb2507 4 месяца назад +1

    Ive experienced the psychopathic,stare and grinning and laughing. They are monsters

  • @CATsLAER
    @CATsLAER 8 месяцев назад +1

    What if a psychopath shows loyalty, empathy and cares for certain people but are still diagnosed as a psychopath?

    • @davolthe1261
      @davolthe1261 6 месяцев назад

      Probably faking bcs they get something from it

  • @yunniekeith
    @yunniekeith 3 года назад +15

    Why is this unlisted?

  • @juicer67
    @juicer67 3 года назад +38

    This describes one of my family members to a tee. Quite terrifying, especially since we are co-executors on my dad’s will.

    • @DND09
      @DND09 3 года назад

      Is that person your display picture? 😂

    • @m2b785
      @m2b785 3 года назад

      LMAO JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS BURNING RIGHT NOW

    • @juicer67
      @juicer67 3 года назад +1

      @@m2b785 Happy Birthday to you, too.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 года назад +5

      That does sound terrifying. Do you have a backup plan just in case things go downhill?

    • @juicer67
      @juicer67 3 года назад +1

      @@Psych2go Thanks for asking. Well, my only two options are to let this family member (my sister, who lives overseas) be sole executor or have an attorney handle the estate, which would be costly. Neither option is desirable, but I don’t have the luxury of choice. All I want is for the estate to be executed according to my father’s wishes without any family drama. The problem is that my sister doesn’t trust me, which is a supreme irony given her conduct over the years.

  • @averyexpensivefrog9341
    @averyexpensivefrog9341 2 года назад +2

    I really need a diagnosis

  • @TheBisexualGremlinGirl17
    @TheBisexualGremlinGirl17 11 месяцев назад +1

    I only relate to one: I sometimes will be ‘fake’ when I’m sad, but don’t want anyone to know. Does that count? 🧐

  • @matilda1505
    @matilda1505 3 года назад +41

    In a nut shell : They don’t give a crap about anyone but themselves and they would go to any lengths to protect that !

    • @shiva19112
      @shiva19112 3 года назад +1

      Thats my ex in a nutshell

    • @m2b785
      @m2b785 3 года назад +1

      LMAO JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS BURNING RIGHT NOW

    • @thatperson2981
      @thatperson2981 3 года назад +3

      As every self-respecting human should.

    • @matilda1505
      @matilda1505 3 года назад +1

      @@shiva19112 as long as you don’t hurt someone in the process !

    • @matilda1505
      @matilda1505 3 года назад

      @@thatperson2981 as long as you don’t hurt someone in the process !

  • @GiftedSince92GiftedSince92
    @GiftedSince92GiftedSince92 3 года назад +17

    Great video! I have experienced this in my household. This is something people need to be aware of. Thank you for sharing this! Keep up the amazing work!!!

    • @LaMariposaSedosa
      @LaMariposaSedosa Год назад

      I lived with 2 people like this at once. If psychopathy is a scale, they both are probably pretty extreme. Both found partners who probably dont realize they are being used as props and the 'psychos' are imitating their new partners' behavior. They sure do love acting, especially on social media. I dont know if they are narcissistic or psychopathic, but they are bizarre, to say the least. I was observing them when I should have run away.

  • @jordierinsyaputra1932
    @jordierinsyaputra1932 10 месяцев назад

    “Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you.” (Nietzsche).

  • @shannonbest106
    @shannonbest106 Год назад +1

    Adults who lie are evil; who do you think you are to NOT tell the truth… how come you need that level of control.

  • @palloria1538
    @palloria1538 3 года назад +8

    dear Psych2Go. Hi! I found your channel by accident and I am glad I did because I have been binging some of your videos and its helped me realize a bunch of things about me. first I am a toxic friend, second I am a fake nice person, third I am a psychopath, fourth a narcist, fifth a generally bad person, sixth someone who is fake in general and seventh a sociopath. so thank you because I hadn't realized any of them (I had thought maybe I was a psychopath so it was nice to be able to confirm it) and now it means I can make sure people are safe from me and such behaviors. so thank you like really thank you and I swear I sound so insincere my god (Also I wanted to do this on your latest video at time of writing but then I realized it would make no sense on a video about introverts and dating so I went with this one instead)

  • @knight7831
    @knight7831 3 года назад +8

    I don’t know about this
    I try not to be manipulative
    I’m too shy to ask for things
    I love my family and my brother
    Before he had cancer
    I was going through being autistic
    And some kind of addiction but I won’t tell you what it is it’s horrifying
    It’s best that you pray for me so I can defeat it
    Sometimes I showed little remorse
    I sometimes get angry
    Because my mind doesn’t understand what’s going on
    Now that I am 16 I am fully aware of everything
    Every time when I say song to my mom I didn’t realize I was talking back to her but it just fits into my language
    I try not to be mean but sometimes I could be very dark
    You might see me as a kind person but deep down inside me is a broken man trying to fix his mind you cannot break what already is broken
    But sometimes I feel lonely
    I wish I had a partner
    My brother is doing fine today
    Faith is the most powerful thing
    If you guys have faith on me that I will get through my problems I will thank you this comment will not be here for a long time so thanks

  • @duckmcduckerson1957
    @duckmcduckerson1957 3 года назад +5

    Aaaaand thank you for confirming my suspicions.

  • @HeyGirlieHoldStill11
    @HeyGirlieHoldStill11 3 года назад +3

    Psych2go: Ur dealing with a psychopath
    Me: i AM a psychpath...

  • @noonegirl
    @noonegirl Год назад +1

    1. They lack empathy
    2. They don't feel guilty
    3. They are charismatic
    4. They are fake or manipulative
    5. They lie constantly
    6. They are irresponsible
    7. They blame you for their mistakes
    8. They are impulsive

  • @NocturneLaboratory
    @NocturneLaboratory 3 года назад +22

    Its funny bc all these traits are found as "hOT" in today's society

    • @nantae1047
      @nantae1047 3 года назад +1

      Give me an example please?

    • @NocturneLaboratory
      @NocturneLaboratory 3 года назад +2

      @@nantae1047 Mostly people these days they find it arousing to be toxic or to be aloof towards others, idrk myself what is up with that prolly a kink?; My guess is that it brings excitement or thrills on the table therefore its a big turn on for them.

    • @Kenny2100vn
      @Kenny2100vn 3 года назад +1

      hot in jail

  • @mizbuggy
    @mizbuggy 3 года назад +7

    This is such a sweet way to learn about psychology. Love you guys at Psych2Go!

  • @ashuachi6954
    @ashuachi6954 3 года назад +17

    You mean my dad is a psychopath 😰 whenever he's with me or whenever I hear his voice his presence is only enough to make me suffocating.now I understand y I always fear for him and y I get shivers in my spine.i always get negative vibrations from him.😨

    • @denkikaminari1268
      @denkikaminari1268 3 года назад +1

      My dad is probably a psycho too but I've know that for some time now, even before seeing this video because I got some family problems related to him

    • @m2b785
      @m2b785 3 года назад

      LMAO JACKSEPTICEYES DAD IS BURNING RIGHT NOW

    • @geogeorge8112
      @geogeorge8112 3 года назад

      Only if its your step Dad

    • @denkikaminari1268
      @denkikaminari1268 3 года назад

      @@geogeorge8112 Why only if he's their step dad ?

    • @geogeorge8112
      @geogeorge8112 3 года назад

      @@denkikaminari1268 because if 1 of your biologic parents is psychopath then you are born psycho too .no exception ever,witch i doubt he is by letting such comments

  • @Druidiy
    @Druidiy 3 года назад

    sometimes i go outside with my friends and one of them has a brother. i dont even say anything to him and he just starts kicking me and trowing rocks at me

  • @racmorr007
    @racmorr007 3 года назад +4

    All of it.....this was my ex..every trait..every.. single.. trait... And my mother still gripes that our marriage had a chance.
    I was happy I left but...this has made me ecstatic I jumped that ship

  • @istp1967
    @istp1967 3 года назад +10

    Sign #1. They expect you to vote for them. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @sheilagibson510
      @sheilagibson510 3 месяца назад

      Yes our current regime fits the bill in its entirety!!!

  • @heithwatkins
    @heithwatkins 3 года назад +6

    Just walk down the street of any city. Its like walking through the zoo but without any fences.........🤣🤣🤣

  • @Supergeologist
    @Supergeologist 5 месяцев назад

    Many people have evolved an extra sense when meeting someone on the dark triad spectrum. They make you feel uneasy and you cant quite put your finger on it but something tells you to avoid this person...Trust your gut!

  • @jonathanng2390
    @jonathanng2390 8 месяцев назад +1

    You just described every career DC politician.

  • @nathanielschwartz425
    @nathanielschwartz425 3 года назад +7

    4:26 Wait! Society has moral standards????!!!!!
    Well, one thing’s for sure about that statement: she’s clearly not referring to modern day America.

  • @jibbobdion5072
    @jibbobdion5072 3 года назад +6

    I don't like the message said in 0:15 as it asserts that Psyopaths and Sociopaths are bound to be or cause a negative outcome, when if someone who has tendancy's like this could still have a strong morality system keeping them from being harmful.

  • @dagmareszka
    @dagmareszka 9 дней назад

    16 years with one. It killed me. I thought I can reason with the person.I can't. Painful. He took my life away.

  • @leep7136
    @leep7136 3 года назад +4

    Sounds like my father. I've been thinking about him being a psychopath for a long time and I think it's really true :/ My mum told me that she thinks he's a psychopath and I think I agree with her. Luckily he does not live with me but when he arrives I'm really scared and now I'm even more scared cuz those things really do describe him

  • @kaim0nd
    @kaim0nd 3 года назад +4

    Now imagine living with someone like this who refuses to get help.

    • @tdesq.2463
      @tdesq.2463 3 года назад +2

      That's why the "Door" was invented

    • @kaim0nd
      @kaim0nd 3 года назад +1

      @@paula622 this person is a relative who lives with me along with my mom and siblings. We've called the police on him many times, he's been imprisoned many times, and for some reason, my mom bails him out of empathy (because he can't help it) and in hopes that he'll change and his gf bailed him out from a recent incident. And we always end up back to square 1. So it's not like I could just up myself and leave especially in the current crisis in this world admits Covid...I'm a 23-year-old who's still finding my way in this world, so maybe one day I could leave the chaos but right now, I have to try to survive.

    • @tdesq.2463
      @tdesq.2463 3 года назад

      @@kaim0nd Easier said than done. I get it.

    • @PolishGod1234
      @PolishGod1234 3 месяца назад

      They cant get help, psychopathy is genetic. They can only try to control it to some degree

  • @itz_riot1096
    @itz_riot1096 3 года назад +2

    Some psychopath are a very normal person at first but people around them like family and friends ignore them and they grow up to a psychopath with hate, heartless, violent :D

  • @downtowngreens7854
    @downtowngreens7854 2 года назад

    One thing I wish they would do is the difference between LFPs (Low Functioning Psychopaths) And HFPs (High Functioning Psychopaths) Low Functioning Psychopaths most of the time will be more violent, and will use violence and force to get what they want and have no control of their emotions putting them at a high chance of being violent, High Functioning Psychopaths, have FULL control of their emotions, unlike Low Functioning Psychopaths, so High Functioning Psychopaths are less dangerous, I wish this is can spread awareness.

  • @b1ngnx33
    @b1ngnx33 3 года назад +4

    Every boss I have ever had. PSYCHOPATHS!!!

  • @venandisicarius32
    @venandisicarius32 3 года назад

    Add that to the list of "Things I Should Probably Get Checked Out When I Have Money" cause getting pro help is probably pricey as shit

  • @SandroQuintana
    @SandroQuintana 5 месяцев назад

    It's impressive the similarities of pscopathy and narcisism. Both are so self centered they lack the perception of Others.

  • @justMisty4never
    @justMisty4never 4 месяца назад

    im a phyco too ig but i care a lot for others and this vid made me cry i feel so misunderstood and stupid

  • @emerson2433
    @emerson2433 3 года назад +1

    Ive not gone to see a therapist, so I can’t be 100%, but I am 99% sure I am on the spectrum of ASPD (anti social personality disorder). I don’t feel like explaining it, so if you want an in depth explanation as to what this is you’ll have to look it up yourself. A brief summary is that ASPD is the condition in which psychopathy and sociopathy fall under.
    One thing that a lot of people get wrong is that all psychopaths and sociopaths can’t feel empathy. I can feel empathy for those close to me, but not for anyone besides an extremely close friend or my mother. But, this does not mean that I can’t empathize with others. I’ve learned to be compassionate with others, and just because i cant *feel* empathy does not mean i cant enact it.
    I can be a good a person as anyone else, and the stigma around ASPD made it hard when I first started to connect the dots about it. It felt like the world already deemed me an awful person, and I had to tell myself I could still be good, even without empathy.
    To be fair, for a while I was a bad person. I’ve worked extremely hard to not insult, belittle, make fun of, etc the people around me. I realized I was a bully and I didn’t even know it. So please, the next time you encounter someone like me, be patient with them as they most likely don’t even realize what they’re saying/doing. It just feels natural, because to them, it’s natural to not feel empathy.

  • @GeorgeWeiss-s8p
    @GeorgeWeiss-s8p Год назад +5

    Congratulations, your addition of the SPECTRUM term is great. It was noticed in describing autism. There is a low to high on many spectrums, for many disorders.
    In concussion, I liked your
    "educational use" comment.
    Being, or believing I am autistic, & so many things make more sense to me in reflection.
    Thank you

  • @jadeh16x72
    @jadeh16x72 Год назад

    right so i’m dating someone diagnosed with tendencies and everyone in these comments is just scaring me like i’m sorry he’s such a sweet guy and i truly love him, he’s never been anything but kind to me, then traits are only exhibited to other people and only to a mild extent, can anyone please tell me why everyone’s comment such horrific stories and why i’m seeing so so many people saying ‘so glad i jumped that boat’ i’m just confused

  • @kimberlylawton1617
    @kimberlylawton1617 11 месяцев назад +1

    My father has the traits of both a psychopath and a narcassist. Needless to say, growing up wasn't the greatest experience.

    • @v2_demo
      @v2_demo 11 месяцев назад

      I hope ur doing good now!❤❤

  • @spamonme3584
    @spamonme3584 3 года назад +12

    That moment I encountered a person that exhibited most of these signs but found they weren't hostile. In truth, they were only scary when provoked, so just don't provoke them.

  • @silasclausen8297
    @silasclausen8297 3 года назад

    I'm so happy i found this. I have some1 who i thought was a "friend". And only when they didn't get wat they wanted anymore did they manipulate others to push me away and make me feel as if i was the problem. This video showed that they do need the professional help they always say they don't need. Ty

  • @Francisco-tr3oz
    @Francisco-tr3oz Год назад

    i have to completely switch my personality when am at school because im fully aware that if people know the the real me they'll go away

  • @Gentleman_Orange
    @Gentleman_Orange 3 года назад +1

    That also sounds like any abusive parent.

  • @Sukuna_the_menace_to_society
    @Sukuna_the_menace_to_society 5 месяцев назад +1

    1 step to know if the person is a sociopath
    1st.if the person is like me

  • @rukahideyoshi2100
    @rukahideyoshi2100 3 года назад

    So like I resulted from all of that gave me a bit of depression because he'd call us names too from time to time

  • @glenngamer7698
    @glenngamer7698 3 года назад +1

    To be honest not all Psychopath lie constantly. It's more a tendancy to do it when it's easier to achieve a goal.
    I see that as the closest exit while a building burn.
    But if I can tell the truth because I know I can get away with it and that it would be more good for me. That would be the best I would do

  • @nancyrupp5893
    @nancyrupp5893 3 года назад

    OH HELL YEA!!!!!!!!!!! Know it , live it every day. A family member, and I so want to get away from it. Unfortunately with family, it's not that easy.

  • @rukahideyoshi2100
    @rukahideyoshi2100 3 года назад

    I can recall my mom's bf would even lie a lot if he touched me inappropriately too but that was only 2 yrs ago now.

  • @potatochalbro
    @potatochalbro Год назад +1

    What if my friend has all of these tendencies? I always thought he's "just" a narc but this all fits 100% and it makes me even more afraid of him.

  • @Kirokill1
    @Kirokill1 Год назад

    I have lots of those characters and the thing which sucks most is lack of empathy. I am trying my best not to hurt anyone and be a positive force in the world.
    I’m working on how to reverse this.

  • @enrixch_
    @enrixch_ 3 года назад +10

    Do a video about empaths crushing a narcissist

    • @Crona_Gowther_Kanato
      @Crona_Gowther_Kanato 3 года назад +2

      What? What does it mean for an empath to “crush a narcissist” you mean like being a better person than them? Or-

    • @enrixch_
      @enrixch_ 3 года назад

      @@Crona_Gowther_Kanato In other terms "emapths beating a narcissist" Is like healing them for their narcissistic personality

    • @MistyBlahbull
      @MistyBlahbull 3 года назад

      what kind of gacha crap are you making

    • @merricmellow4935
      @merricmellow4935 3 года назад

      Because narcissists crush empaths for having empathy?

  • @herryvaliant7689
    @herryvaliant7689 Год назад

    I thought i was one of these because how impulsive i am, but i know that i really capable of feeling guilty and almost blame everything on myself.
    But i have someone near me that ticks all the boxes. Oh nooo

  • @JackReynolds-w7g
    @JackReynolds-w7g Год назад

    Well, that just about takes care of every politician, CEO, financial mogul, and every leader in the world.