Why Does He Lose Interest Once You Show Yours? (Dr. John Gray)

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  • @MagnetizeYourMan
    @MagnetizeYourMan  3 года назад +2

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  • @dinag9179
    @dinag9179 3 года назад +85

    If you blink he will loose interest in you

  • @emeraldeyes8688
    @emeraldeyes8688 3 года назад +50

    I appreciate the honesty, however, this is way too much work to have to tip toe around a man’s fragile ego. “Don’t do this or he’ll lose interest. Don’t do that! He will leave you. Oh no, stop doing that, he will cheat.” Come on, now. Each gender knows how to be selfless, loyal, empathetic, and understanding. It’s up to you to decide if you want to be a bad partner or a good partner. Walking on eggshells to keep a man’s ego balanced is crazy. If he can’t act like a grown adult and be responsible for himself, that’s his problem - not his partner’s.

    • @evka24
      @evka24 3 года назад +2

      preach

    • @rainbow9987
      @rainbow9987 3 года назад +4

      Yep if you have to do that he is Not for you or into you.

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣,.,,,.

    • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
      @StandupGirl-ym3ey 2 года назад +1

      I feel like I wrote this myself!!!

    • @anonymous-dk3og
      @anonymous-dk3og Год назад +1

      Men usually don't know things unless his partner teaches him.

  • @gizeleflora1827
    @gizeleflora1827 3 года назад +23

    Why everything is men men men? It'ss like they are our Gods
    Be yourself and let them go. The right one will come

  • @MariaNI-yf1bz
    @MariaNI-yf1bz 3 года назад +26

    Now im very certain i will stay single for the rest of my life

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  3 года назад +1

      Why is that?

    • @MariaNI-yf1bz
      @MariaNI-yf1bz 3 года назад +8

      @@MagnetizeYourMan I cant make concessions.. This is also why i never had real relationships. Men get scared and reject or leave all of a sudden, too quickly. Its all good, i will just adopt a cat😊

    • @piotrbobr1875
      @piotrbobr1875 3 года назад +1

      so·cial en·gi·neer·ing
      /ˈsōSHəl ˌenjəˈni(ə)riNG/
      noun
      1. the use of centralized planning in an attempt to manage social change and regulate the future development and behavior of a society.
      You might not like what I'm about to say, but im going to say it anyway, because all of the platitudes known to man couldn't help our situation, but considering all of the angles might.
      Thank feminism, or, more broadly, Cultural Marxism for your dysfunction. Whether you consciously identify with feminism or not, you've been subjected to it all your life, and it has shaped at least some of your opinions.
      As Dr. Gray mentioned, men have pornography (and instant/effortless gratification in general), which effects mood and productivity. Now, we're below replacement level birthrates, and men & women resent each other. One of many aspects to being demoralized and subverted. I am simplifying things, of course, to make my point, but you should know that your apathy is not happenstance.

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣,.,,,.

    • @carolinekelly8481
      @carolinekelly8481 3 года назад +3

      @@MariaNI-yf1bz I did & I'm so happy love my cat & my life ! My ex is chasing me like crazy , I'm interested in me my friends my job & couldnt be arsed with player males .

  • @Spadestr81
    @Spadestr81 3 года назад +5

    I’m gonna say this loud for every woman in the comments IF IT’S FRAGILE LET IT BREAK!! If being yourself means breaking it, better now then when you’re married to the idiot.

  • @Spadestr81
    @Spadestr81 3 года назад +7

    They want different women every night. You can’t make anyone love you until they even want to love someone in general.

  • @sandyhawkins8524
    @sandyhawkins8524 3 года назад +12

    Really sounds like no matter what you do men will lose interest. Don't give to much. Don't give to little. Wow! All men different. How do you give to much love? How do you know what mood to satisfy?

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣,.,,,.

  • @leenasankla1903
    @leenasankla1903 3 года назад +12

    Basically keep walking on eggshells to get his interest🥱

  • @isadoramckenna2353
    @isadoramckenna2353 3 года назад +6

    Wow. Very informative. and men say women are the sensitive ones. Seems like we have to walk on eggshells to get it right

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  3 года назад +1

      So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

  • @jamieseiple
    @jamieseiple 3 года назад +15

    I enjoy your channel but this guy is no expert. If a woman is a giver she will get my attention. If she plays games or withholds she is gone. I think this is terrible advice. Still love your show though.

    • @user-nh6kl6zo1u
      @user-nh6kl6zo1u 3 года назад +1

      Thank you for your comment. I didnt completely agree with the video either. I feel as though people should be open and honest in their expectations without the games.

    • @reginawoess4928
      @reginawoess4928 3 года назад +3

      I hate games

    • @reginawoess4928
      @reginawoess4928 3 года назад +1

      Mature Adults shouldnt need to play games.

    • @MariaNI-yf1bz
      @MariaNI-yf1bz 3 года назад +7

      Yes he is an expert since everything he said is based on reality. No doubt that some men would like the ones who "give" and because of this they are willing to give too but they are extremely rare nowadays.

    • @reginawoess4928
      @reginawoess4928 3 года назад +3

      Games is when they flirt with women to make you jealous. When one minute they act like they love you then next minute they are cold.

  • @sexpert0731
    @sexpert0731 3 года назад +10

    This is not a new perception on sexual behavior and quite honestly I think that many folks in the comment section agree. This viewpoint by Dr. Grey seemingly reinforces “bad” behavior by men under the guise of evolution/biology, and furthering the narrative of the patriarchal agenda.

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣,.,,,.

  • @rositareyes8583
    @rositareyes8583 2 года назад +1

    Rory Ray says open your feelings express your self to men. A man wants a woman who expresses herself
    Now we aren’t supposed to. I am literally sick of al this different advice. I am leaving it to God

  • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
    @StandupGirl-ym3ey 2 года назад +1

    But we're the complicated and sensitive one's!! Smh

  • @MagnetizeYourMan
    @MagnetizeYourMan  3 года назад +3

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  • @rainbow9987
    @rainbow9987 3 года назад +5

    The biological stuff I agree but here is the thing aver one different. Some men have sex with women and go into a relationship or others don't. Everyone is different.

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 3 года назад

      I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
      Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
      Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
      Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
      Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
      Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
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    • @MariaMedina-lj4kt
      @MariaMedina-lj4kt 3 года назад +1

      @@icysnow57cold64 In one sentence: men (with some honourable exceptions) don't deserve women. I agree with all you say. I don't have any close male friends because honestly I don't believe they are interested in having simple, authentic friendship with women, whereas women can have simple, authentic relationship with men. So, I find it very difficult bonding with them, either as a friend - because I honestly believe that they are looking for something else -, either as a girlfriend/lover - because they are very unavailable emotionally and, as many commented on this video, it's very difficult to keep their interest. They tend to have a hot and cold behaviour, and I can't deal with that. I don't want to wake up everyday wondering if the guy I'm dating is still interested in me or instead if he found a new shiny thing.

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 3 года назад

      @@MariaMedina-lj4kt Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.
      Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way.
      Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers.
      The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view.
      How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 3 года назад

      Men and women are wired differently from each other and women produce a lot oxytocin than men do.
      Here's a quote I found in an article about how men's brains may not being wired for much connection:
      "A 2014 study found that males had stronger neural connections in the parts of the brain responsible for perception and action, while females had better connectivity along the neural pathways linking analytics to intuition - two areas used heavily in interpersonal connection. Before this study, differences in these kinds of neural pathways had never been highlighted among such a large sample size (949 individuals)."
      Here's another quote I found from another article:
      "So why are men and women different in the way they make friends? One hypothesis is the difference between the male and female brain. Typically, women tend to have a larger deep limbic system than their male counterparts. The limbic system is a network of nerves in the brain connected to instinct and mood. The limbic system controls basic emotions such as happiness and fear. Because this system tends to be larger in women, females are more in touch with their feelings and have an increased ability to connect individually with others."
      Because of women being more emotional and more affectionate than men are, and women being able to connect a lot better with other women than they do with men or men with men, wouldn't that mean that men and women are not very compatible with each other?

  • @60secondloveadvice
    @60secondloveadvice 3 года назад +7

    He always comes over as far too simplistic and assumes men and women are one dimensional with no depth of feelings.

    • @adj5767
      @adj5767 3 года назад +4

      I agree with this. I listen to him but his observations while well researched is sort of rigid and pseudo-scientific while humans are dynamic and influenced by many different things at different times.

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
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  • @TamVanLang
    @TamVanLang 3 года назад +4

    Dr John gave so many reasons why man may feel repeled by woman´s attitude. But I don´t think, Dr John answered the question "Why he loses interest once you show yours?" As far as i understand the question posed, it means, "why the man loses interest in you, when you express your interest for him" - i.e., when you express your love, your appreciation for him.. ... Would it be because some men are incapable of letting the woman do the lead in love -even circunstancially? Or does it mean he is not really interested in her?

  • @stephaniefortney22
    @stephaniefortney22 2 года назад +1

    🙌Wonderful Insight…Thank you Appreciate this

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  2 года назад +1

      So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

  • @dianneciresi6324
    @dianneciresi6324 3 года назад

    How do u become an upper after you've been a downer? They get lost in the porno 🤣🧐

  • @angelaura5555
    @angelaura5555 3 года назад +1

    yes

  • @amarisdsage
    @amarisdsage 2 года назад

    Didn't answer the question 😕

  • @konnorjose1275
    @konnorjose1275 3 года назад +2

    Fantastic 😍💋 💝💖♥️❤️

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
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  • @MagnetizeYourMan
    @MagnetizeYourMan  3 года назад +2

    What is your favorite point or top question from the video? 🤔

    • @ChayaGrossberg
      @ChayaGrossberg 3 года назад +2

      This is terrible for women who want frequent sex. There has to be a better option for us.

    • @60secondloveadvice
      @60secondloveadvice 3 года назад +3

      @@ChayaGrossberg agree. He talks as if sex Is only important to men and women are passive with no sex drive or needs.

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
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    • @danam358
      @danam358 3 года назад

      @@ChayaGrossberg it’s fine you can chose a man with very high sex drive lol but even that if you sleep with him everyday for months and months there will be a time where he’s testosterone decreases rapidly, he gets bored and lose all interest then pull away completely. Or you can jump from relationship to relationships to fulfil you’re sexual needs lol That’s how men’s hormones, so giving break between sex and taking things slow is better

    • @danam358
      @danam358 3 года назад

      @@60secondloveadvice he talks from biological point and hormonal changes it’s not up to him that’s how God created us

  • @positiveaffirmationforwork9791
    @positiveaffirmationforwork9791 3 года назад +1

    👍

  • @ChiChi-td9qm
    @ChiChi-td9qm 3 года назад +1

    😤😤😤😤

  • @coly4ever
    @coly4ever 3 года назад +1

    Sounds like men’s interest is so fragile, all those things he mentioned we should do or not do sounds freaking exhausting.

  • @kingsmen4171
    @kingsmen4171 3 года назад +1

    I got my ex 🔙

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣,.,,,.

  • @shinehappy8528
    @shinehappy8528 3 года назад

    Game of research and you better quit these Hitler games now

    • @MariaNI-yf1bz
      @MariaNI-yf1bz 3 года назад

      Poor thing

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
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  • @nicolette3436
    @nicolette3436 3 года назад

    Hi Anita! As usual great content, just want to say that the audio quality is distorted

    • @MagnetizeYourMan
      @MagnetizeYourMan  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for letting us know Nicolette and will fix that for our future videos! Must have had the wrong mic turned on

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣,.,,,.

  • @David-dm3po
    @David-dm3po 3 года назад

    Dr. Jean Grey, I mean John Gray :)

    • @lincolnmateo6033
      @lincolnmateo6033 3 года назад

      ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠł₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ₩ł₮Ⱨ ₳ ₱Ø₩ɆⱤ₣ɄⱠ ₱Ɽ₳ɎɆⱤ. ⱧɆ ⱧɆⱠ₱ɆĐ ₲Ɇ₮ ₥ł₦Ɇ.
      ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
      ➕1️⃣,9️⃣5️⃣6️⃣,5️⃣3️⃣1️⃣,2️⃣4️⃣0️⃣6️⃣,.,,,.