Why there are many single mothers in the Philippines?
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- Do you ever wonder why most of the women you chat online are Filipina single-moms from young, middle-aged, or in their 40's? Find out the truth here!
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Released on Father's Day too! 😂🤣😂🤣 Good timing Des.
You forgot one main point! Self control of women and desire of men and women having sex. Many single moms I've met are hyper sexual and are easy when it comes to sex. Self control and responsibility is important on both sides. Both men and women love sex and based on the women I've met who have kids and are single they are always the ones showing off their bodies and giving into or wanting sex alot from men. Resulting in women getting pregnant and men being irresponsible in taking care of their kids
But ask any woman and clearly the issue is the men.
So that really means that civilized nations are wack. Make Babies Not War !
Thanks for sharing. Many Filipina singlemoms play the victim game and still have hatred to the guy who left them. I have an opposing opinion. Been there done that.
The culture is children take care of their parents in retirement. So the more you have, the better you will have it as you age. Problem is, they live the whole adult life poor with a bunch of kids just for the hopes their kids will support them later.
@@Xeyne098but true
My gut hates it when the 60+ people always utter we owe them big time.
We should help our elders.. the problem is when there is a toxic person or persons creating all sorts of issues haha
Same in ALL of Latin America, who always claim to be Catholic and play all the church games. Girl gets pregnant at 15 or 16 and the dad leaves. "Chiki-chiki-chao". Seems to be like this all over the world and I see it in my continuous travels. Cultural issues more than anything. The parents did it that way and so do their kid's as there is no education or proper guidance.
It is normal to have children
@@mudbuff Or not having any is also normal...... in many cultures the more kids you have the better. These tend to be in the poorer areas. Areas like Japan, Germany, Russia, or Korea tend to have no children or just one.
@ronnyb9416 Yes, and those childless countries tend to die out.
@@mudbuff Yep, that could be an issue in a few hundred years....
@@ronnyb9416 It will be a major issue within just a few decades at most... Countries need young workers who pay taxes for the support of the retired and the stability of the federal government.
Unfortunately, these are all excuses, not reasons. The fact is, unless r@ped, the girl willingly laid down with a boy. There are plenty of examples around her of unwed mothers. Yet she chose to be one anyway. This was her CHOICE. This is the outcome. I don't care what flowery words and promises some 16 year old boy says, that girl probably has at least 1 relative that is an uneed mom. So she has heard the story before. Why would she fall for the same lines and think a different outcome awaits her? It takes 2 to make a baby, but only 1 is forced to bare the result. The girls all know how many boys run away afterwards. So having sex without protecting themselves will continue to produce the same result. Time after time after time.
Good points.
I want to add that I am surprised about how the parents respond to the Pinoy guy who impregnated the Pinay girl and the parents of the girl. If I had a daughter coming home preggy, I will kick her ass. And also kick the ass of my son if he impregnated a girl and run away.
I really think most comes down to lack of knowledge. They all probably think that god will interfere (bahala na, something like that). And the parents dont talk about sex in PH for the simple reason that the parents know shit about egg cell, sperm cell, ovulation, menstruation.
Finally, the Filipina has been taught (culturally & socially) to be submissive and obedient. I think they call it Delicadesa. She is not allowed to make a fuss, disagree, shout, swear, curse, fight.
Yep- truth.
Yes this IS truth. They know IT all. After all this Bad expirence with Fillipinos they are looking for Foreigner.
I like this comment. I didn't comment to offend the Filipino parents but even I hate this truth my guts it is what it is. When I became a more blunt person I confronted the parents of my ex, the grandparents of my son, to push their son to find work or help their son to find work because my child is also their son's child, isn't it? Why should I only be the one doing all the work? I told them that in front of their faces. They were speechless. They are enablers. Enablers of their irresponsible lazy son who won't care about me. Yes I can whine all I want but it won't change the past and the fact that their son has not sent any financial support for more than 5+. I will confront them again. The son too.
Finally somebody that speaks accountability. She opened her legs. Both parties are at fault. A wise man once said "You let him hit it raw, didnt have second thoughts, now you are a single mom" 😂
Catholic in name only; lip service given rather than real devotion. Many haven't been in church in months or even years. Plus in a society saturated with sexual images, giving the impression of tacit approval and normalization of premarital sex, temptation may be extremely difficult to resist.
@@Xeyne098 My Filipina ex only went to Mass as a place to relax and get a "spiritual pep talk." Going to church definitely did not make her a better person who made the right moral choices......
That’s correct. Most aren’t following the Catholic doctrine at all.
@@pattskatoey3139 Yes that's funny
I second that!
It was mostly a list of excuses. Many of these single mothers 25 and older. They know that the unprotected sex makes babies, they aren’t victims. Many are just being selfish and don’t care if the father hangs around or not. They have the philosophy, “I don’t need a man in my life” Yes, maybe you don’t but the child does. Having a child born into a broken home already puts the child into a big disadvantage in life, all the govt stats from all over the world prove that to be true.
EXACTLY RIGHT! Sometimes its' the woman who abandones her Boyfriend. Suspecting him he did something wrong, like womanizing,. Babaero.😂 .."
Single mothers is not just an epidemic in the Philippines. The United States is saturated with single mothers, promiscuity and STDs. The single mothers in the United States receive government welfare, opportunities for employment and mandatory financial payments from the fathers in many cases. This video is focused on the imperfections of Filipinas but the issues are the same (many cases WORSE) elsewhere in the World as well.
The video is about the philippines though. Why do you feel the need to justify this but saying it happens other places too?
It depends on which group in the US you look at. Major differences.
I get a lot of comments like that. They always justify that the culture is not only in the Philippines. I am ok. I got your point too.
I'm an American that has lived here 36yrs and I speak Tagalog . I think one thing left out is Filipina's love the idea of being in love many read romance novel beginning at a very young age, and the idea of being swept after feet by handsome young man is sort of a fantasy that they want to fulfill most of Filipinas that are getting pregnant sincerely loved the guy but for many here it's a badge of honor to give a girl what is called a trophy and then move out to the next one.
I have noticed that also. They want a fairytale romance.
@@nrolo3356many foreigner use love romance as a excuse to get boom boom.
@@Daveonar I am sure that is true. I see the downfalls on both sides.
I wonder in a way if this what attracts so many older foreigners to the Philippines: younger single mothers desperate for a provider.
Don't wonder , what you are thinking is true. Though there are also scary stories about western men would target moms with children because they are pedos.
@@FilipinaDes8888 Right. God and Satan are one and the same.
1 Sex is not being discussed in most families
2 Discussions about condoms (to the kids) and other birth control methods is not common
3 Morning-after pills are pricey and not easily accessible
4 Abortion is illegal
5 Many parents won’t pressure the biological father
6 Philippines children support law is not strictly enforced
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8 Lack of guidance of parents (see 1 & 2)
9 Schools lack effort to educate students about sex
10 Many Filipinas are easy to get
In other words, filipinas are dumb and the guys are smart.
Price for the pills is cheaper than a child !
Well, a child is more expensive over time but they don’t have 1,000 Pesos today go pay for the pill,,especially when they don’t know if they are going to get pregnant. Many are faced with “do I eat this week or get the pill? The pill may be a compete waste of money because I may not get pregnant. And if I get the pill I have to borrow and make up a story and then not eat for a week to pay it back.” When you see it from a perspective of real poverty it is understandable. I didn’t say it was a good decision, I said it is understandable.
@@Kevin-G-7 TIME for the good old Non-Doctor! ;oP
Very true! If only my parents taught me about this probably I am still childless until now!🤣
Hello Des
I think you are correct about some young men’s attitudes about children and making them also I do believe in supporting your offspring if a person makes three Paso’s a day they should support their children I’m not judging I’m saying it’s the moral thing to do baby’s shouldn’t be raising baby’s
Local men those deadbeat fathers , sperm donors justify that at least I gave my child 500 pesos a month.
Well presented video here, clear and direct without the coarseness, sensationalism,and overbearing judgements made in many other videos on these topics. It comes as no surprise and quite natural that what is covered here is from a Philippine woman, a citizen with considerable experience, aware of the pressures and issues at play regarding single mothers in her country. No buzzwords, no code phrases to decipher, no breathy suggestive voices...simply the facts as she sees them and has all her life in an honest open manner, Hey who knows better than Mom ?
Thank you Dutch! Well you can also share if you disagree about any topic I discussed.
Using birth control (contraceptives) is much cheaper than all the cost for hospital tests during pregnancy and the cost of raising a baby.
Its so easy to avoid getting pregnant even without using any form of contraceptives. It only takes a little knowledge of the ovulation cycle.
Very true!!!!
Shocking about the morning after pill being so expensive… As an American who has been to the PH a lot … I have heard a lot of single mother stories…. Very sad.. If they had strict child support laws it might could help… but with work being so scarce, kind of hard to enforce that.
I am a single mother myself but I stopped playing the victim game of this is the guy's fault. Single moms will not turn into single moms if we only choose better guys. Two way street in blaming.
Thank you.. dear.friend for letting us know.love & ❤
Prostitution LEGAL, controseptives ILLEGAL., buying condoms EMBARRASSING, getting AIDS unbashed.
For such a religious country, why aren't they stressing no sex until marriage?
What’s Marriage. 12 or 14 years old at the oldest? Please.
Isn't that the TRUTH? It makes me truly wonder about them being and claiming a "RELIGIOUS COUNTRY!"
It is easier said than done. When you are horny would you wait for a taxi in the middle of a rice field to get a room with your Filipina? Just do it in the rice field!🤣
they are. problem is, it's proven time and again with lots of scientific data that abstinence based education doesn't work. better to equip teens with and teach them about safe sex methods.
@mr.fabulousmeg… if marriage is allowed as early as 12-14 years old. At what age do you start teaching these pre teens sexual education classes. Even it western societies what start teaching at 10 years old. Please answer me back.
Could it be the Philippines culture that the children are supposed to take care of the parents when they get older. So women want to have children when they are young.
Many Cultures have been proven wrong in history. So how do you make this one right?
Thanks for asking. We now live in a more modern times where we can interact with many people. We can vent out how we feel about Debt of Gratitude. Filipinos use social media platforms to help the ones trap, caged and getting abused by their family in this mindset of "we are supposed to take care of the parents when they get old/er". Women want children mainly because that is what we are wired to do. I myself want to just be a housewife and form a football team, not here getting stressed with all the comments in this section (sarcasm). 🤣 Anyway, if we raise our kids well we don't need to pressure them and obligate them to take care of us. We can send money to support their meds. That is a form of love. Only the good parents understand that if their child has their own family , the family is the priority.
Are they really single, or are they separated. Many Filipinas who have been separated for years start representing themselves as single and then present this to foreign men . This lie is extremely dangerous for both people involved, and the Filipinas don't have as much to lose as the men do . Foreign men aren't aware of a cinamar, and a divorce is legal where they come from they usually don't have to deal with it, and the penalties don't exist for dating a separated woman. I met a woman who claimed to be single, and all of her documentation was in her maiden name, including her passport. It was nearly two years since I found out that she had a son, and his last name was different from hers. This naturally opened up the question about her marital status, and she admitted that she was separated and told me not to worry about it. Of course naturally I did and that's when I started doing my research and found out that the philippines is very strict about relationships outside of marriage and a foreign man can be jailed and worse be black listed from the philippines. They are desperate, and they don't care about foreign men and just want a better life no matter who they hurt .
Have you actually traveled to the Philippines?
@@kylejamesdalzell2839 yes
Rergarding Child Support, in many cases you are really wasting your time, there is very little work available and what is available is usually low paid, "YOU CAN'T GET BLOOD OUT OF STONE". What are you going to do, put millions of men in prison for no result. It is what it is. Cheers Aussie John
Contraception can be had for 1 Peso in the Philippines, all the woman has to do is place it firmly between her knees and never let it fall unless she is married. Pretty dumb simple if you ask me. Cheers Aussie John
Darn
Or how about putting 1 single mom in prison using morality laws. That would spread the word. Or on the grounds of "baby trapping". Women commonly use babies to extort money from men. Often several men for the same baby.
😂😂😂 Where did you get the price of 1 peso contraceptive, Wikipedia?
@@FilipinaDes8888 The 1 Peso comment I made has nothing to do with the price of contraceptives, it simply means that if the woman doesn't have sex then she shouldn't get pregnant until mmarried. Obviously, Seperated woman with children is a different issue, very often they can be the victims of selfish/abusive partners (I include cheating as selfish abuse). Hope that clears up any misunderstanding. Cheers Aussie John
A man should make sure his children are safe and looked after. Thats basics of being a man.
Being a single mum must be so hard and the children will suffer with out a father
Great video thank you! Really enjoy watching all your videos. Makes a change to listen to a Filipina that has more than her fair share of common sense. It’s very difficult to sit down and have a sensible conversation with a Filipina. They don’t have the capacity to Engage in adult conversation. Keep up the good work.😊
There would be a lot of single mom's in America if we didn't have legal abortions. I'm sad to say the last figure I saw from 1973 to 2023 there had been 90 million legal abortions. The entire Philippines population is 119 million. So America has aborted almost as many babies as the whole population of the Philippines. That makes me cry!
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The foreigners who say they are getting scammed, no sorry for them, they are willing victims too. Thank you and welcome aboard!
What about being macho boys and body count competition? I hear this from many many of my female contacts, on facebook, messenger, whatsapp, all over the place: he gave me a pregnancy and ran away and cannot be found, only his parents know where he is and they're not telling (that part you did cover). Or the girl gets raped by one or more boys and don't really know who was the impregnator....
What is your opinion, @Filipinia Des 8888 ???
And thanks for the videos -- all of them are just excellent
Really, the females are saying this? Well of course. Every interview of a Filipina I've ever heard says the same... "He cheated." Filipinas are always the saint at all times and in every way. It's always those evil males. Same story we hear all over the world.
And thirsty men line up to believe every word. Now we're going to call Filipino men rapists too? Ease up on that simping.
@GentleTraveler-999 a Filipina SHOULD blame herself. Nobody else spread her legs. Regardless of what som teen boy may say and promise, in the end, it was HER choice to lay down.
I mentioned my opinion about this long time ago in a video about single moms too. In short I stopped playing the victim game. I just enjoy what I have now, peace of mind, I have my kids, blessed in many ways and I wonder if those deadbeat guys have new clothes. 😂
@@FilipinaDes8888 yes I agree that it's not a good situation for a single mom to play the victim game. Some do and some don't. More power to you for deciding to not do that and be happy and feel blessed for the child(ren).
Quality content as usual.
Glad you think so!
Here on Leyte children sleep in same room as parents. They know about sex. They have heard, seen and watched sex since being a baby.
Young teen Girls dream about
Being mothers.
In 1965 there were about 32 million people in the Philippines.
Today there are over 114 million.
Unless a father signs the baby's life birth papers, DSWD will not try to collect child support.
I’ve wondered why in a supposedly religiously devout Christian culture the women are not remaining chaste until marriage and even the ones who do a lot of the time end up estranged from their husbands.
It cannot all be down to the fault of the guys surely.
How about women making bad choices and then expecting the foreigner to take care of HER family. Its kinda like in the west but there you wont have to pay for the whole clan.
I agree.
Walang double mother pg tinatawag ang isangagulang na single mother. Single parent ang tawag kung mg isa lng nya bunubuhay ang pamilya ..
there is sex education now actually in Philippines but not all schools. but not all single mom are like that. I am a single mom,married but I choose to seperate my cheater husband. I got my daughter not biological. she is my husband and mistress child but they abandoned her so I adopted her. they live happily I dont care. at least I have my own daughter. So, dont judge some single mom because there is a story behind it.😅 and I dont need a support from them I can give my child needs tho. but some true Ate.
Maybe you misunderstood me. Napansin ko to sa maraming Pinoy, sa kahit anong video topics na malinaw namang hindi naggegeneralize yung content creator hahanap talaga ng wala sa video. Sasabihin talaga wag magjudge. Maraming Pinoys magaling lang manood pero walang comprehension. Watch the video again na lang kasi I don't know sa yo kung anong part po na nagjudge ako.
well i wish i would have enough Money to can meet one of the honest Woman cause many Time we meet in Single Portals just scamming Woman and only a few honest Woman and in my Case 3 or and the Rest be Scammers
If men don't want to use raincoats, then they shall learn to remove their poles at the right time!
True!
Why doesn’t the church influence young people if the parents aren’t.maybe if your not mature or financially able to take care of children you shouldn’t have sex
Media. Internet. Bad friends. Parents lack time to educate kids. Busy parents. Cornhub is easily accessed. We live in a modern times where a lot of the dirty stuff is just a click away.
Some have reported cancer with Those morning after pills - save your money
Wonderfully interesting. My exwife and girlfriend said no sex before marriage 😂😆
Thanks for sharing. Well those are her terms.
good video, i never knew you are so wild Des :) hah
Ha?! I am not wild! I just said burrito. 😅
@@FilipinaDes8888 🤣🤣
Is there a study of women that become singles mothers in the Philippines from relationships with dead beat foreigners? I would be interested in knowing if this number rises due to the popularity of social media and more frequent traveling. 🤔
Good question. I don't know any study but we have some infamous places called baby factories in Pampanga and Zambales.
I do know of one Filipina with a YT channel who trashes a guy from Europe for not supporting his child. She was trying to embarrass him into paying her money.
Sad story, right?
But there's another side. The dude did in fact send her a lot of money by PH standards when the child was first born for the first 3 years. He stopped when the demands got too much from the mom. The child was from a one nightstand and there was question about who the father actually was.
It's called "baby trapping". Have a baby with a guy to trap him into marriage and/or support.
It's the same with married Filipinas. "My husband left me. He was a cheater." 100%. Never anything she did wrong. Save me Mr Foreign White Knight.
If you only listen to Filipinas you heard they're all saints and men are all evil. It's partly a female thing and partly the Asian facing saving thing. And wow there's a long line of foreign ready to believe every word.
Sure, blame foreigners.
@@formica.no one is blaming foreigners. It’s a curious question. I think we all know that this problem is self inflicted based on the things that she listed in the video. No one is contesting that. Just wondering how many are due to foreigners. The percentage, I am sure, is minuscule.
@@feralranchu4150 small for sure but it could be high a little bit in Subic and Angeles in Pampanga.
For the same reason there are so many single black moms in the USA.
Filipinas are really no different
@@Xeyne098p😂
@user-of2co3ke5p it's true! Filipina women are actually no different.
Misconception naiveness false beliefs falling in love as a form of security or emotional connection no life experience irresponsible behaviours controlling with violence unstable personality disorders or individuals changes of the heart going separate paths unagreeable inconceivable differences disrespect teen sex getting married for all the wrong reasons there are many factors as to why we end up where we are presently.
It’s because Filipino women lost the Maria Clara image. They are very sexually active now. I don’t blame them. It’s the modern age now after all.
I trully agree.
To what extent did social media corrupt them? Or was this a major problem before the rise of smart phones and social media?
@@kylejamesdalzell2839: I think the cause is the lack of information and limited to access to contraceptives. Also caused are the sexual violence that are unreported.
why woman on ph dont know how to calculate the body time to choice get pregnanty and when not, ask google or toutube for answer
If a Filipina is horny do you think we still think about if we have rice in the next 12 months? We become careless by default. 😂
Many do. They have sex with a guy at the best time to get pregnant to try and force him to marry and support her. Yes, some men flea. Many more do in fact get trapped into marriage and she nags him forever to earn more money. Take a look at Filipino couples and you will often see an obese woman and a very thin man. Kind of shows the relationship.
There are many more Filipino men "doing the right thing" as defined by females and simp males.
South Korea is a fairly Christian country in Asia. Not as Christian as the Philippines, and more Protestant than Catholic.
South Korea , Rocks !
South Korean men are known for impregnating Filipinas while on vacation, and then heading back to their country to escape the consequences. When the pregnant Filipina implores the South Korean government for help and enforcement of child support, they get stonewalled.
Why are fathers not hold responsible for their children
A comment that makes sense. thank you!
Why??? One reason! They have sex too easily. It takes two to tango and if one doesn’t tango there is no pregnancy.
I agree!
Nice video
Spread the news, wait until marriage to have kids. God said, fornicators shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
They all know already. Don't care.
@@waterbug1135 I see the single mothers suffer. They need to keep their pants on, it's their fault also.
We wear panties not pants. 😆😁
Religion is not relevent to the situation. Would the filipino people stop being who they are if they suddenly became methodist or buddhist? Of course not.
That's xxxs!
Because the Catholic religion !
yes!
Protection is not used.
Because the stupid church won't allow it .. therein lies the problem.
In the U.S. promiscuity increased with the rise of sex education, and inappropriate images and messages on TV and in the movies. That and as you say economics which force both parents to work have eroded the family structure which once served as a barrier to such behavior until marriage. We are now in the second and third generations of people who literally have no idea how things used to be. Broken families will inevitably lead to a broken society and the fall of civilizations.
Toxic third wave feminism has corrupted women all over the world. And now due to nasty meat grinder divorce courts, many men do not want to get married and play Russian Roulette with their future... And so marriage and birth rates are plummeting in America.