Intro 00:00:00 Are there single moms who lie about the number of their kids and why 00:01:15 A Filipina lies about her marital status and why 00:05:56 A very important HINT! 00:08:20 Are there and why Filipina lie about being single 00:10:46 Reasons why a Filipina lies 00:12:19
Lying about taking the last piece of cake in the refrigerator is one thing, but lying about having a kid or having many kids or kids with multiple baby daddies are a different level. There would be zero trust anymore, and no legitimate excuse.
I will ask a girl if she have kids , if she told me she have 1 and then a year a past . Then she reveals she have more kids . I will leave her because she lied and I asked her many times
I just want to say I met my red flag girlfriend who's also on Netherland a month ago. Since then we meet up every weekend 😍 she didn't want to meet. And then I decided to just show up at her door over 4 months in. Best decision I made 😋 we wear each other's necklaces aswell. It's so funny I never experienced someone so shy but what a sweetheart so incredibly kind ❤️
Good info Desiree. You've reinforced the importance of making sure a Filipina has a CENOMAR. The kids are one thing, but getting with a married Filipina can get a guy deported or worse.
Before we married, my wife actively sought a man who would accept her two kids. Our first conversation, she asked me straight on if I could accept her two children. I replied that I'd have no problem with two kids as long as they were well-behaved. Then I asked their ages and other things about them. Being a stepfather has been a blessing for me and I have a close and fulfilling relationship with the kids as well as my wife. Supporting and helping to raise them makes me feel more masculine than I've ever felt before. I now realize that men want a family while boys just want to play around.
I haven't been in a relationship with a Filipina that doesn't lie 😅 The first one was the roughest, 11 months dating online then I flew to PH to meet her and first day together she reveals that she had a baby right before we met.
I'm sorry, but although I may not ever come to the Philippines because I do not have the energy to travel. As an adult man I understand that I could be in trouble simply for being with your child. I could be arrested simply for taking your children to the sweet shop as a reward for, say an award at school. That scares me far more than bringing up more children at the age of 65!
You have very good information,I want to say I don't like Facebook because it's too intrusive and too many persons go there just to see ,I have Facebook but deactivated just to get messenger, it's enough,a lot of my friends don't have Facebook. Thank you Des, you're pretty in your dress.
First time stumbling across your channel I don’t know why it took so long. I have a lot of Filipino bloggers that I follow but and I know you’re gonna say I’m not everyone but for me when she lies it’s a character flaw. What else is she lying about? I’m not gonna lie to her. I’m an open book. She wants to know how many women I’ve been with. I’ll tell her she wants to know if I was married before I’m gonna tell her a lie of that type is a breach of trust and that’s what forming a relationship is all about is gaining and earning the respect and trust and admiration of the person that you’re in the relationship with I’m not gonna judge her on if she has one kid or five I’m not gonna judge her if she has all five of the kids by the same guy or three different guys we all make mistakes in our lives and we all have to live with those mistakes. We all have bad judgment at sometime or another and we do things Thatadversely affect our lives we shouldn’t be condemned for those mistakes we should learn from them anyway there’s my two cents.
Thank Des for another great episode If my Inday had a child I wouldn't care I would love her all the same, but I have learned what she tells me is the God's honest truth I went behind d here looking for what she told me, when she found out, she went full scorched earth for 3 hrs I took the beating I almost lost her, she forgave me a few days later and now 4 yrs later we are strong
The "single mom who lie about the amount of children" is not a Filipina-only issue. It happened to me with a Colombian and a Venezuelan girl. Of course I kicked both of them to the curb, because I do not tolerate lies on such important matters. It's not just about "religion", but about betraying my trust *AND* suddenly have unexpected additional $500 a month expenses.
My Filipina GF was honest with me since we met in a LDR less than 4 months ago about having 2 kids. We are now All happily living together in the Philippines.
13:16 this 'trap' you mentioned,, it is not unique to Filipinas,, but I'm curious,, could you put a percentage on how many Filipinas would use that tactic to keep a foreigner man? I've been with a Filipina for over a year.. In the beginning she called me handsome at least a few times a day and often would cut my nails.. Now about 12 months later we have a scooter and a motorbike, an apartment, and purchased much furniture,,, it seems I'm no longer handsome and don't get much attention😢...
Wow a scooter, a motorbike and manyy furnitures in 12 months! 😅Oh well. Not every Filipina is like this, there are still more out there who won't change. I am sorry that this happened to you. Moreover I can't give you any statistics or study that can say a certain population of Filipinas will change if you treat them well. In my opinion it varies on each Filipina's character, if they are for real, materialistic, and many times the truth will come out when it is too late. If I am in your shoes and not married I will get out.
@@FilipinaDes8888 thank you for your reply.. I should clarify a little bit. it is not a bad relationship, the motorbike is mine, and she is not a liar.. but I feel she came on strong in the beginning couple months,, and now that I have invested alot and mailed over 10 bbbox's,, it seems she thinks that she has trapped me and she doesn't have to contribute nearly as much effort into the relationship as in earlier months..
@@Darrynkeith26 I've been living with her 12 of the past 18 months.. I'm in the process of moving to the PH,, so went to my old home 2x for 3 months each to get rid of and pack up stuff.. we were really into eachother the first few months,, but noticably less now as when Des mentioned 'trapped' it sounded familiar to me..
I am not sure why you failed to mention the ramifications of lying to your partner before he falls in love you. He will almost never trust you and most likely will withhold things, and plan his exit from you
no disrespect intended , but all you did here in this vid was sugar coat the fact . Philippine girls in general don't really have a problem with lying . any time being truthful is going to get in the way of what they want, they will lie to your face . You will find this throughout south east Asia culture not just in phili , my opinion only it, was a habit picked up long ago from the muslim societies where lying is acceptable if it's done for good reasons , eg: ( if i tell the truth it will make you upset , so i can lie ,) my thoughts only here .
That is only your opinion. It won't hurt to open your mind a little bit more. Sometimes people misunderstood things because they only watch 5 seconds of a video. Foreign men too have problems in lying.
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Intro 00:00:00
Are there single moms who lie about the number of their kids and why 00:01:15
A Filipina lies about her marital status and why 00:05:56
A very important HINT! 00:08:20
Are there and why Filipina lie about being single 00:10:46
Reasons why a Filipina lies 00:12:19
Powerful Video and Good Knowledge 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Lying is a big red flag, a honest gurl is a keeper.
If lying starts it never ends
Totally!
Lying about taking the last piece of cake in the refrigerator is one thing, but lying about having a kid or having many kids or kids with multiple baby daddies are a different level. There would be zero trust anymore, and no legitimate excuse.
I had an Ldr that did that to me. It took me a month to figure it out 😮😊
@stevesilver7437 You dodged a bullet... you could've easily be baby daddy number 2 or number 6 depending on the day of the week.
@@fialee8ca132 no, both are lies, cake or children
I agree super!Both are lies.
I will ask a girl if she have kids , if she told me she have 1 and then a year a past . Then she reveals she have more kids . I will leave her because she lied and I asked her many times
I have lived on Leyte since 2018.
I was told that half the Filipina's are honest. I hope someday to meet one of the honest ones.
I just want to say I met my red flag girlfriend who's also on Netherland a month ago. Since then we meet up every weekend 😍 she didn't want to meet. And then I decided to just show up at her door over 4 months in. Best decision I made 😋 we wear each other's necklaces aswell. It's so funny I never experienced someone so shy but what a sweetheart so incredibly kind ❤️
Good info Desiree. You've reinforced the importance of making sure a Filipina has a CENOMAR. The kids are one thing, but getting with a married Filipina can get a guy deported or worse.
Before we married, my wife actively sought a man who would accept her two kids. Our first conversation, she asked me straight on if I could accept her two children. I replied that I'd have no problem with two kids as long as they were well-behaved. Then I asked their ages and other things about them. Being a stepfather has been a blessing for me and I have a close and fulfilling relationship with the kids as well as my wife. Supporting and helping to raise them makes me feel more masculine than I've ever felt before. I now realize that men want a family while boys just want to play around.
I haven't been in a relationship with a Filipina that doesn't lie 😅 The first one was the roughest, 11 months dating online then I flew to PH to meet her and first day together she reveals that she had a baby right before we met.
I'm sorry, but although I may not ever come to the Philippines because I do not have the energy to travel. As an adult man I understand that I could be in trouble simply for being with your child.
I could be arrested simply for taking your children to the sweet shop as a reward for, say an award at school.
That scares me far more than bringing up more children at the age of 65!
Yes, it's very dangerous out there in that respect.
You have very good information,I want to say I don't like Facebook because it's too intrusive and too many persons go there just to see ,I have Facebook but deactivated just to get messenger, it's enough,a lot of my friends don't have Facebook. Thank you Des, you're pretty in your dress.
One lie makes you a liar. Why justify lies its deception from the start. One lie is one of many, liars never stop lying.
First time stumbling across your channel I don’t know why it took so long. I have a lot of Filipino bloggers that I follow but and I know you’re gonna say I’m not everyone but for me when she lies it’s a character flaw. What else is she lying about? I’m not gonna lie to her. I’m an open book. She wants to know how many women I’ve been with. I’ll tell her she wants to know if I was married before I’m gonna tell her a lie of that type is a breach of trust and that’s what forming a relationship is all about is gaining and earning the respect and trust and admiration of the person that you’re in the relationship with I’m not gonna judge her on if she has one kid or five I’m not gonna judge her if she has all five of the kids by the same guy or three different guys we all make mistakes in our lives and we all have to live with those mistakes. We all have bad judgment at sometime or another and we do things Thatadversely affect our lives we shouldn’t be condemned for those mistakes we should learn from them anyway there’s my two cents.
No separated or married. No way no how!
Thank Des for another great episode
If my Inday had a child I wouldn't care I would love her all the same, but I have learned what she tells me is the God's honest truth I went behind d here looking for what she told me, when she found out, she went full scorched earth for 3 hrs I took the beating I almost lost her, she forgave me a few days later and now 4 yrs later we are strong
No need to lie if have kid
The "single mom who lie about the amount of children" is not a Filipina-only issue. It happened to me with a Colombian and a Venezuelan girl. Of course I kicked both of them to the curb, because I do not tolerate lies on such important matters. It's not just about "religion", but about betraying my trust *AND* suddenly have unexpected additional $500 a month expenses.
My Filipina GF was honest with me since we met in a LDR less than 4 months ago about having 2 kids. We are now All happily living together in the Philippines.
That's good! I salute those Filipinas who are brave enough to tell the guy the truth.
Like your carved sofa
Some have lied to me about the amount of kids
being married
Thanks for sharing.
Some have said I love you 5 minutes in to the conversation
Well they don't want to waste any more time.
Maybe you are a Stud 😊😮
Camera is much better!
13:16 this 'trap' you mentioned,, it is not unique to Filipinas,, but I'm curious,, could you put a percentage on how many Filipinas would use that tactic to keep a foreigner man? I've been with a Filipina for over a year.. In the beginning she called me handsome at least a few times a day and often would cut my nails.. Now about 12 months later we have a scooter and a motorbike, an apartment, and purchased much furniture,,, it seems I'm no longer handsome and don't get much attention😢...
Time to find someone who appreciates you, vs someone who doesn't. Good luck.
Wow a scooter, a motorbike and manyy furnitures in 12 months! 😅Oh well. Not every Filipina is like this, there are still more out there who won't change. I am sorry that this happened to you. Moreover I can't give you any statistics or study that can say a certain population of Filipinas will change if you treat them well. In my opinion it varies on each Filipina's character, if they are for real, materialistic, and many times the truth will come out when it is too late. If I am in your shoes and not married I will get out.
Damn it’s sounds like I’m going through the same thing smh what I’m learning it’s better to go there first met them and start it off that way.
@@FilipinaDes8888 thank you for your reply.. I should clarify a little bit. it is not a bad relationship, the motorbike is mine, and she is not a liar.. but I feel she came on strong in the beginning couple months,, and now that I have invested alot and mailed over 10 bbbox's,, it seems she thinks that she has trapped me and she doesn't have to contribute nearly as much effort into the relationship as in earlier months..
@@Darrynkeith26 I've been living with her 12 of the past 18 months.. I'm in the process of moving to the PH,, so went to my old home 2x for 3 months each to get rid of and pack up stuff.. we were really into eachother the first few months,, but noticably less now as when Des mentioned 'trapped' it sounded familiar to me..
I am not sure why you failed to mention the ramifications of lying to your partner before he falls in love you. He will almost never trust you and most likely will withhold things, and plan his exit from you
no disrespect intended , but all you did here in this vid was sugar coat the fact . Philippine girls in general don't really have a problem with lying . any time being truthful is going to get in the way of what they want, they will lie to your face . You will find this throughout south east Asia culture not just in phili , my opinion only it, was a habit picked up long ago from the muslim societies where lying is acceptable if it's done for good reasons , eg: ( if i tell the truth it will make you upset , so i can lie ,) my thoughts only here .
They will lie about just about anything 😮 They also have a good way of saying they are not lying 🤥
@@stevesilver7437 so true mate
That is only your opinion. It won't hurt to open your mind a little bit more. Sometimes people misunderstood things because they only watch 5 seconds of a video. Foreign men too have problems in lying.
Yes agree foreign men too.
Wow! Amazing insight on this topic! I'm just learning of this after a 6 year LDR.