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same with Filipino girls here in the US. My ex-GF warned me about her family, I had no idea how bad they are. Total Materialistic Hypocrites. Jealousy abounds.
Isn't that the same in Europe?!?! That was my experience. And it was my BELGIAN ex who extracted €4-5,000 from me for about 5 months before she gave me the bullet... My European friends roll their eyes and call me a fool (correct!) but, suppose that had been a Filipina? Then suddenly it's happeneing because of HER race. (and my foolhardiness!)
Make sure you meet family too, it will tell you if she's married or already has a boyfriend, if she doesn't want you to meet her family? Red flag lol until then? Just spend money on the date.
Get offline. Stop wasting your time w the online BS Save up, get on a plane and go meet women. Allll the times schmucks waste Online is pathetic. She's Always chatting Other men, and the first guy That shows up is getting her anyway. You are NEVER in a relationship with Anyone while in separate countries. You just think you are
Yea but most fall in love many times a year lol even after you meet them.and they love attention from all men, look how many do podcasts and how many men friends haha they have and keep even after they are in a relationship, I'm not saying all, but most, ask her about the fillipinos on tango. I would bet many you see on podcasts has that app, that's a big red flag
This is a great post! Clear, concise and fun. I know men who keeping falling into these traps. I was lucky: got engaged to the first girl, the barangay gave us for free and ocean front lot, and now for 24 years z I have been part of a fishing/ farming family, plus our three great kids.
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels and going to turistic places. I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick. She will try me likes a King. If she doesn't I would not continue with her. If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be I would marry her in Philippines. I would try fine to her family. I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions. If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her. Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions. I wil let she knows what I like and dislike. Loyalty and family are values I appreciate. I wilL let her knows everthing. Then she can decide if all that is fine with her. But I wouldn't allow she control me. She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend, always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally. IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK It is called BEING IN CONTROL. If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
I just came back from a two weeks vacations in the Philippines, you should plan to see both tourists attractions and see how Filipinos lives. I visited Cebu, Boracay (I didn’t stay at renown hotel), Tacloban & McArthur in Leyte. I met really nice people, single and family. Filipinos seems to be always smiling at life. We could learn a thing or two from them.
I am from india. I also made a fortnightly trip to Cebu Borocay n Bohol. It's the people of Philippines that have attracted me more than the beaches. So loving, so beautiful, so helpful, so shyfull, so honest. I am talking about the general public in buses jeepneys. Always ready to help you. I love this country because of it's people. They are poor but very happy guys.
I reckon not getting a girl pregnant & taking off, leaving her to raise a child by herself can be applied to the whole world, not just the Philippines. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I never got a girl pregnant, but the local boy with no job and no plan that my ex was cheating on me with sure did. With no degree between the two of them it's going to be a struggle of a life (statistically speaking). Sure, a foreigner getting a girl pregnant and taking off isn't great, but there are worse things, at least with some foreigners there is a bit of a chance of ongoing support.
Yes that sure surprise me, a minority of young women don’t look at their future prospect, they don’t mind getting pregnant with the guy who as no job and no future. That is mind boggling for we westerners.
You realize some of them don’t care about money and future plans right lol she didn’t want you, she wanted him let it go. The way I see it you dodged a bullet you should be happy. So if the alternative is her staying with you and using you just for your money while thinking your disgusting and wanting to be with someone else vs her cheating early on with someone she likes giving you the opportunity to find someone who really likes you…. I’d say you won buddy, I know it hurts but the women to men ratio in the Philippines is in your favor… get off RUclips and find another one brother
Yes its a fair call Kenny, the post was a bit of a subtle dig that's true, I do realize all your saying. There's only so much nuance you can insert into a youtube comment. She chose what she chose and that's the reality, I'm certainly not the only one that's disappointed in her life choices, I'm not family, I can move on and find another, but jeez I feel for her sister that raised her.. But your right, I won, I dodged a bullet, and like you say, if it was going to happen its better for it to happen soonish... As you and others have rightly pointed out she didn't think about anything other than the here and now and there's no point pondering the why's and how's. Thanks for your comment appreciate the candid feedback.
Hey brother I know how you feel… trust me every man has been there. It takes a lot for us to stop running the streets but when we do we’re all in. So I know her leaving hurts, and starting over sucks but you’ll find someone else as for her maybe she’ll regret her decision maybe she won’t. Doesn’t matter tho, life is just about making the best decision for yourself with the options you have in the moment.
A lot of foreigners will take the leftovers, meaning single mothers. Some ladies actually want to get pregnant with a 'mixed' baby, to trap the foreigner guy, or because they think the child will be more beautiful. Also, the women don't like to use birth control here, and that's another problem. Unless you really want to be with her long term, be careful!
#7: Don't marry; you will be expected to bring your wife and her extended family back to your country, support them until your wife finds a better husband.
And just how does her family "get here"? It does not happen that way in the US unless they criminal illegals entering the southern borders, then they are welcomed, supported, embraced and pampered...
Be prepared to lose any property if you build or buy it in the Phillipines on matter how in love you are and be ready to pay child support for 18 years. Other than that you will have all the girls you want until you run out of money. As long as you have money or a desirable country you will have the most faithful girl in the world by your side.
Foreigners mostly north americans are not into foreign, just want a club med experience, warm beaches cheap drinks, girls, and some souvenirs.... white bread white peoples as long as it is in english and dollars .
done (back in the 1990's)..and even better do not tell her you had it done..wait for the "i am buntis and it is yours story" or if she wants to get buntis..tell her i don't know why you cant get buntis so we need to keep trying hahaha
@@Marvin-hv4cm Ha ok! I inderstand. The asian way of saving face by lying. My Indonesian GF did that. She didnt do "nothing wrong" but was in a bad situation. So she dis the right thing but lied on everything to save face. I left her for it. Now i understand what you ment. Thx!
@JustinArut No matter where you go, a women will always be a women. The difference by going to the Philippinesis that YOU ARE THE PRICE. You got tye leverage. You still jeed to vet them and get a good one. And good ones are rare.
Filipino Cupid it’s a big scam. They will not meet you in person once you’re in the Philippines. Better to go for walk-in approach instead to find your Filipina.
It’s a shame that the Philippines is getting flooded with American Chain food restaurants. Crap replacement for boring local offerings. If only Thai and Vietnamese food could get a run. Better health and better tastes.
Jollibee isn't American! It's fast food. But it's very PH. American's do *not* make sweet spaghetti. LOL. I'm happy there's finally a Jollibee close to me in the US. But your point is valid. When I travel I prefer to go to local restaurants, especially family owned. The real local food is one of the best things about experiencing another country.
I'm not a foodie, but I always want to try local food. It's part of the travel experience. I've eaten alot of stuff I didn't like. But I now know what it tastes like.
Wow, she spits facts and looks very pretty doing it. Love her positive vibes and will definitely think of all these points once I am there. Very cool, thanks a lot.
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels and going to turistic places. I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick. She will try me likes a King. If she doesn't I would not continue with her. If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be I would marry her in Philippines. I would try fine to her family. I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions. If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her. Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions. I wil let she knows what I like and dislike. Loyalty and family are values I appreciate. I wilL let her knows everthing. Then she can decide if all that is fine with her. But I wouldn't allow she control me. She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend, always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally. IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK It is called BEING IN CONTROL. If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
There are so many traps here honestly. Like even going to a bar. They’ll try to sit you at what most western men would think is a normal table. But truth is you need to ask them how much is it to sit there. Tables go for anywhere from 800-2k pesos.
Another to avoid is giving people money in general, especially so much money. Don’t EVER give them anything more than 20 pesos or simply buy them a small meal. If you’re a regular and they see how generous you are they’ll be at your neck every damn day they see you. Say goodbye to those peaceful nights. It sucks to say no and see someone hungry but at the end of the day these people are NOT your responsibility.
LOVE!! "Chatting w girls online" -> nice to hear a country that wants people to meet holistically and build authentic experiences based on chemistry, wit, and grit
What a lot of guys don't understand (as well as lot of guys DO understand but know that the Filipina is not aware of this) is that American citizens are held to the same laws abroad in certain countries (The Philippines is one of these countries) as we are here in the US, and that includes paying child support! An expat friend of mine from California, a retired attorney now running a successful resort in Cebu, also ran a group for awhile informing the unsuspecting girls of this. They tracked down a number of willful deadbeats (Canadians also) to let them know there will be legal consequences if they don't comply! One of his reasons for doing this is due to his own visiting a Pinay that he met online, getting her pregnant and doing the responsible thing by moving there to be a dad and help raise their son (now grown)! When we visited Subic Bay/Olongapo, we saw many PSA's warning the girls NOT to expect to meet their American "dream man" when the US ships come into port/Clark AFB!
I must have fell for most of the traps. Met a filipina, married her, got her pregnant (x3), bought land, bought stuff. but never chatted online. so 6 traps seems not enough i think there are more. you can buy stuff, but your next visit you might find things missing. so we want to build a house so we have our own place when we visit, rather then staying with relative. we love our relatives but when your stay is longer then one month its nice to have your own place for a change and a bonus is our children can use it when they visit Philippines. Being our children can be duel citizens they can own land. my filipina and I have been married for 29 years, so marriage would be trap number 7. But its not a bad trap, I would say its a good trap.
Ur English is excellent, so is the info.....and with all due respect...you are more than beautiful..keep rocking in the free world girl!! Greetings from Havana.
Another to avoid is drinking with random girls who ask if THEY can go drink with you. You think you’ll be having a good time and but in truth all they are waiting for is to also see if you’ll take them home with you to have you pay for sex. And if you don’t want to take them home they’ll get angry and tell you to pay them for their time of hanging out with you.
number 4) don't buy so much stuff - completely agree! There is one problem though, my family want me to buy them gifts hehe - one for my mum, one for my auntie etc lol - I always tell them there is no space in the suitcase.
Why do you say don't get a girl pregnant? Most woman in the Philippines are single moms, so the woman obviously don't live by that rule, it's not just the man's responsibility. Most women there from experience would rather have a baby than a husband or boyfriend anyway.
@@johnv5156 it's a way of life there, it won't change overnight, it's what they've done all their life. I say just go there have fun be respectful but never anything serious, I've even gotten responses from Filipinos here doing podcasts, they say about 80 percent of the women. there are that way. I told her that seems about right. Of course not 100 percent. But I'm telling you most have an agenda you don't know about.
Boots on the ground. When meeting and dating ladies appreciate that ghosting is a normal process as they don't like conflict. Oh and if you happen to drink the water, try ginger tea.
Pocari Sweat (local store bought drink) and immodium. I know this from experience from being in El Nido with my gf at the time (know my wife). Believe me, it works
Guys listen... dont be weird guys... Reine, you are becoming an even bigger attraction than .... Boracay. Dont be weird guys. And yes, I have subscribed and liked..
Thanks! Hello there my new friend Great to see how u look out for us from America 🇺🇸 I talk to others there but I haven't been to Philippines hope to see places you go to. ❤
Nice video. I actually laughed at a couple of these. I met my Pinoy wife in the US some 38 years ago. She doesn't want to retire in PI, and I'm begging her to because we can own land. Anyway we have family to visit and that's all you need.
Unfortunately your wife has the experience from living there that she knows from not wanting to go back there to retire. My wife is the same way, she would rather live in another country close to PI but a short enough plane ride away. Who knows though? They both might change their minds (our wives)
@andreakizomba8849 we've had our ups and downs, but we have grandchildren now, and they are beautiful. I will always love my wife for making this possible regardless of our spats.
American chain restaurants are over priced just like everything else in my home country usa 🇺🇸 so you don’t have to tell me twice when I come to the Philippines I won’t even be in no area where there are chain restaurants I’ll be far away from that crap😅.Thats why I like the Mindanao and Davao region because they do there own thing there not overly developing it and they have a lot of Filipino culture restaurants and events.Manila,bgc,Cebu is a little bit to extra for me in my opinion the southern region of the Philippines is the best 😊.
Just be aware that you don't want to be the only foreigner for miles around because you become a target. Pinoys (can't hold their liquor) get drunk and they talk. Some think we're all rich. Now if you dress and act like a pauper you might be safe. Never flash any signs of wealth. Ever. Unless you live in a gated guarded sub-division, and even then be very careful.
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels and going to turistic places. I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick. She will try me likes a King. If she doesn't I would not continue with her. If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be I would marry her in Philippines. I would try fine to her family. I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions. If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her. Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions. I wil let she knows what I like and dislike. Loyalty and family are values I appreciate. I wilL let her knows everthing. Then she can decide if all that is fine with her. But I wouldn't allow she control me. She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend, always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally. IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK It is called BEING IN CONTROL. If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
Correction, #1 is Walking Street in Angeles City, LOL! J/K, great video. It sounds like you've reduced the echo in the room some, much better audio lately :) I did #6 23 years ago here in the USA... yeah, don't do that.
Very impressive! Agree with her AND I love Rain's personality! She really know what she talkkng about. Her confidence in front of camera.. her hands.. hahha Must be she has a little Italian blood in her. I am Italian Americsn and I talk with my hands although I also can do sign language. She got me stopped one more thing she did not list. Do not be fooled if the lady is underage or not. Jailbait! I can name a lot more. There is a law that you have to support family because you are actually marrying her family. Not just her. Facts. I love how she did this with the white board and revealing. She will be a great blogger. That is coming feom me a blogger. Good job Rain. -MARK FALSO
Not if you intend on coming back there throughout the year and have ties to the Philippines. My wife and her family are ties to PI so we might buy a condo and visit every few months when I retire
@@calvinsparrow9829 it's been awhile but I think I was thinking about short term. Someone that has no ties or doesn't want any. Entirely new mindset now. I'll be moving there permanently in 2 years.
When i went overthere. Everyone is so nice to you. But theres always these people who tell you if they can carry your bags to the hotel. Last time traveled once. Some random guy kinda young asked me to if he can carry my bags to my hotel room after hearing my number where ill be staying. Im like take that one. Had 3 banana's healthy 😂. A whole melon 🍈 and a cup with watermelon slices and some cucumber slices. I had a mini box of milk and cereal 1 penney and a towel over my fruit. Had 3 books and 2 shirts to give out. Also 2 bags of popcorn 🍿. Girl gaved me the keys she was also young. And the moment i went 3 stories up the elevator and to get into my room 🤦 oh my god i did not just do that. I gaved a person my bag 🎒 forgetting i was the one who has both keys. And he was not around. It turns out when i went to ask the hotel girl after leaving my stuff in the hotel that there was this person who took my bag and forgot you gaved me the keys and haven't asked my hotel room number yet stole my bag. She said i thought he was your friend and unfortunately we can't do anything because there is not cameras. I got my refund and left that hotel. Unsafe. I let my bag go because it had nothing important. My luggages i don't let no one take em. But yeah scary try to get hotel with cameras and never let someone kind ask to carry your luggage.
Oh ganda sa Philippine Angeles City as Pampanga our homeland I have pamilya there a few places Mabalacat San Frenando and Olongapo I wish to enjoy my retirement in our country Luzon of our Mother Miss na miss kita Lolo Pedro Lola Maria God Rest them I will Subscribe for your channel salamat po
Reine always tells you how it is! Great information about the Philippines. Its going to come in useful when I come in August. And to add #7. Don't be weird 😂
i just got back from cebu and i loved it ...i went everywhere ...moalboal , then catmon ...nice beaches and the carbon markets are amazing ....i toured the whole island of cebu and i will return in january my condo was not my trip ...it was beautiful on the 60th floor with balcony and looking at the water and cclex bridge but i dint sit in the condo all day i was always out
Yes Cebu is great admittedly. We stayed at the Plantation Bay for like a week then a few days at the Quest hotel in the city and then when we got back to Manila, the F4 in BGC. Some really nice hotels and areas all over the Philippines for sure which is why I want to retire there. Good to hear you enjoyed your time there
Great video and Reine has excellent points! The biggest problem I have is that I'm ready to make mistake #6 with Reine! But I won't be irresponsible. I'll either move to the PH or else help her move here to the US.
Another trap to avoid. Taxis while drunk and you booked a “grab”, “move it” or one of those apps. If you’re drunk and alone with them, you run the chance of them trying to take advantage of you and tell you that you didn’t pay yet to see if you’ve forgotten while in your drunk state of mind.
I will retire at 56 and come on an investment visa to the Philippines this year. You made me believe that there are very smart girls in the Philippines. I will find my one 35+
I can tell you, it's true. I was lucky enough to find one. And for five years, I was happier than I had ever been. But the fire that burns twice as bright, burns half as long. I lost her in a car accident. Stay safe my friend.
Lechon is extremely much better eating than any fast food restaurant food. Buying fresh yellowfin tuna and cook it yourself is also much much better. Pork or chicken adobo is also very tasty. I am no fan of sinigang.
Buying then cooking fresh yellowfin tuna? Just buy it in a can if that's the taste you want. Fresh caught yellowfin tuna should be eaten as sashimi ... sliced raw, dipped in soy sauce, wasabi, and served with sliced ginger.
@@mrwonderful612 Cooking yellowfin tuna like you cook a steak rare is extremely different from canned tuna. You claiming it tastes the same, clearly suggest that you have never tried it. Far from all of us like pure raw sashimi. The best way to eat tuna sashimi in my opinion is to sear the outside of it quickly in a hot pan or even better on the grill. Just like many Japanese prefer it. And I do not like wasabi at all. Grilled yellowfin tuna collars are fantastic eating as well. You are clearly missing out if you only eat yellowfin tuna as totally raw sashimi.
Lol I will stick with my Chicken Adobo, Lumpia and Tinola as well as sinigang. I am so glad I married a filipina who graduated from with a Hotel and Hospitality degree 😁
There's nothing wrong with eating what your body and system are comfortable with. That's being said, I can't wait to get some local food in a few weeks! This next month can't go by fast enough.
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ur pretty
You are too loud. Try being more subtle.
Like cuban girls… spend better our money😅
You don't just get a girl in the Philippines, you get the whole extended family and all their problems too.
same with Filipino girls here in the US. My ex-GF warned me about her family, I had no idea how bad they are. Total Materialistic Hypocrites. Jealousy abounds.
Maybe so but if it is a decent family
Isn't that the same in Europe?!?! That was my experience. And it was my BELGIAN ex who extracted €4-5,000 from me for about 5 months before she gave me the bullet... My European friends roll their eyes and call me a fool (correct!) but, suppose that had been a Filipina? Then suddenly it's happeneing because of HER race. (and my foolhardiness!)
@@exentr A decent family is not waiting for you. They stick with their wealthy Filipino friends
@@Roy-gx2yj decent is not synonymous to wealthy
The biggest trap... don't fall for a girl before meeting her in person... like I have with Reine.
Haha!! me too!!!
Nice! Classic!
Make sure you meet family too, it will tell you if she's married or already has a boyfriend, if she doesn't want you to meet her family? Red flag lol until then? Just spend money on the date.
Get offline. Stop wasting your time w the online BS
Save up, get on a plane and go meet women. Allll the times schmucks waste
Online is pathetic. She's Always chatting Other men, and the first guy
That shows up is getting her anyway. You are NEVER in a relationship with
Anyone while in separate countries. You just think you are
Yea but most fall in love many times a year lol even after you meet them.and they love attention from all men, look how many do podcasts and how many men friends haha they have and keep even after they are in a relationship, I'm not saying all, but most, ask her about the fillipinos on tango. I would bet many you see on podcasts has that app, that's a big red flag
Getting a girl pregnant and not being serious is a big no no anywhere
Yeah, don't be like so many Filipino guys, leaving the single mom's to raise their mistakes.
But some Filipinas Abandoned their Filipino boyfrieinds 🤣😆
You’ve clearly never been to Africa and it shows….
Read my comment about pregnancy
@@levyoliver5363you are correct check out my comments
Thank you for stressing that the physical presence of father is necessary and that he's not just a financial provider. 👏
I love the way this girl talks and I appreciate the fact she goes directly to the point . Good job.
Yeah, she's really lovable!
Yeah, that's my woman!
I like how she says....Mc.Donalds...Laughing.
I like how she can barely speak English
This is a great post! Clear, concise and fun. I know men who keeping falling into these traps. I was lucky: got engaged to the first girl, the barangay gave us for free and ocean front lot, and now for 24 years z I have been part of a fishing/ farming family, plus our three great kids.
Lucky and quite unusual from what I can gather in experiences.
Livin the dream
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels
and going to turistic places.
I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick.
She will try me likes a King.
If she doesn't I would not continue with her.
If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be
I would marry her in Philippines.
I would try fine to her family.
I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions.
If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her.
Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions.
I wil let she knows what I like and dislike.
Loyalty and family are values I appreciate.
I wilL let her knows everthing.
Then she can decide if all that is fine with her.
But I wouldn't allow she control me.
She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend,
always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally.
IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK
It is called BEING IN CONTROL.
If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
I just came back from a two weeks vacations in the Philippines, you should plan to see both tourists attractions and see how Filipinos lives.
I visited Cebu, Boracay (I didn’t stay at renown hotel), Tacloban & McArthur in Leyte.
I met really nice people, single and family.
Filipinos seems to be always smiling at life.
We could learn a thing or two from them.
I am from india. I also made a fortnightly trip to Cebu Borocay n Bohol. It's the people of Philippines that have attracted me more than the beaches. So loving, so beautiful, so helpful, so shyfull, so honest. I am talking about the general public in buses jeepneys. Always ready to help you. I love this country because of it's people. They are poor but very happy guys.
I reckon not getting a girl pregnant & taking off, leaving her to raise a child by herself can be applied to the whole world, not just the Philippines. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I never got a girl pregnant, but the local boy with no job and no plan that my ex was cheating on me with sure did. With no degree between the two of them it's going to be a struggle of a life (statistically speaking). Sure, a foreigner getting a girl pregnant and taking off isn't great, but there are worse things, at least with some foreigners there is a bit of a chance of ongoing support.
Yes that sure surprise me, a minority of young women don’t look at their future prospect, they don’t mind getting pregnant with the guy who as no job and no future.
That is mind boggling for we westerners.
You realize some of them don’t care about money and future plans right lol she didn’t want you, she wanted him let it go. The way I see it you dodged a bullet you should be happy. So if the alternative is her staying with you and using you just for your money while thinking your disgusting and wanting to be with someone else vs her cheating early on with someone she likes giving you the opportunity to find someone who really likes you…. I’d say you won buddy, I know it hurts but the women to men ratio in the Philippines is in your favor… get off RUclips and find another one brother
Yes its a fair call Kenny, the post was a bit of a subtle dig that's true, I do realize all your saying. There's only so much nuance you can insert into a youtube comment. She chose what she chose and that's the reality, I'm certainly not the only one that's disappointed in her life choices, I'm not family, I can move on and find another, but jeez I feel for her sister that raised her.. But your right, I won, I dodged a bullet, and like you say, if it was going to happen its better for it to happen soonish... As you and others have rightly pointed out she didn't think about anything other than the here and now and there's no point pondering the why's and how's. Thanks for your comment appreciate the candid feedback.
Hey brother I know how you feel… trust me every man has been there. It takes a lot for us to stop running the streets but when we do we’re all in. So I know her leaving hurts, and starting over sucks but you’ll find someone else as for her maybe she’ll regret her decision maybe she won’t. Doesn’t matter tho, life is just about making the best decision for yourself with the options you have in the moment.
A lot of foreigners will take the leftovers, meaning single mothers. Some ladies actually want to get pregnant with a 'mixed' baby, to trap the foreigner guy, or because they think the child will be more beautiful. Also, the women don't like to use birth control here, and that's another problem. Unless you really want to be with her long term, be careful!
#7: Don't marry; you will be expected to bring your wife and her extended family back to your country, support them until your wife finds a better husband.
Bahahahhahah cope
And just how does her family "get here"? It does not happen that way in the US unless they criminal illegals entering the southern borders, then they are welcomed, supported, embraced and pampered...
True.
Not in my experience. My wife's family doesn't ask for or expect anything; and they have no interest in coming to the U.S.
Really
This is the most wholesome thing I've ever seen. "Don't get girl pregnant. Don't have broken family." So obvious but so.....pure. Great channel!
Be prepared to lose any property if you build or buy it in the Phillipines on matter how in love you are and be ready to pay child support for 18 years. Other than that you will have all the girls you want until you run out of money. As long as you have money or a desirable country you will have the most faithful girl in the world by your side.
Sounds like a better deal than in America.
I accept those terms yee haw
@@dewjr Lots of horror stories between expats and Filipino women.
So you get a vasectomy and everything will be great.
@user-qs2br2jl4x that's true. Not sure why these guys are so into the idea of being married in a different country.
I laughed out loud when she unmasked #1; I was expecting some deep dark secret about the Philippines and instead I got avoid McDonalds.
That took me by surprise too.
Avoiding junk food is a good advice anywhere on this planet
This is the best advice. Why go to a foreign country to not eat the local food
What she left out is they put way too much mayonnaise in the chicken sandwiches.
Foreigners mostly north americans are not into foreign, just want a club med experience, warm beaches cheap drinks, girls, and some souvenirs.... white bread white peoples as long as it is in english and dollars .
#6 Get A Vasectomy! The Child Is NOT And CANNOT Be Yours Now.
Done!
His name was Doctor Chop. I'm not kidding! But now, I am invincible!
Woman can STILL get pregnant after you’ve had that procedure done. It’s NOT 100 percent Fool Proof Genius.🙄🙄🙄
I had six kids first, and then she let me get the vasectomy while she was/is still young. We cooperate!
done (back in the 1990's)..and even better do not tell her you had it done..wait for the "i am buntis and it is yours story" or if she wants to get buntis..tell her i don't know why you cant get buntis so we need to keep trying hahaha
My advise after 6 years.
Rent place to live, rent a wife, move often.
Do not let the lying get you down. It's just part of the culture.
Could you give more i fo about the lying? I am not aware of that.
@@celuiquipeut6527 most of the lying is to save face.
Or they think you will never find out, so it does not matter.
@@Marvin-hv4cm Ha ok! I inderstand. The asian way of saving face by lying. My Indonesian GF did that. She didnt do "nothing wrong" but was in a bad situation. So she dis the right thing but lied on everything to save face.
I left her for it.
Now i understand what you ment.
Thx!
@JustinArut No matter where you go, a women will always be a women. The difference by going to the Philippinesis that YOU ARE THE PRICE. You got tye leverage. You still jeed to vet them and get a good one. And good ones are rare.
@@celuiquipeut6527they always lie in the Philippines 🇵🇭.. fact . Part of the culture let he said . To save face .
Filipino Cupid it’s a big scam. They will not meet you in person once you’re in the Philippines. Better to go for walk-in approach instead to find your Filipina.
What is walk-in approach?
@@rational_observergo to the mall and go shopping 😊
@@rational_observer
Just be a normal person? lol
It’s a shame that the Philippines is getting flooded with American Chain food restaurants. Crap replacement for boring local offerings. If only Thai and Vietnamese food could get a run. Better health and better tastes.
You think Jollibee is any better?
Give them a decade and they’ll be suffering an obesity epidemic.
@@eu7435 At least Chicken Joy tastes good.
You have good advices ,many peoples get in troubles ,we don't want to get scam
My list: Filipina, Filipina, Filipina, Filipina, Filipina, Dont drink the water
Love seeing you on videos, you are a very smart, informative, beautiful young lady reine. Chester hixon
What happens with the water??? Bottle water??What to drink??
Plasticides level? bottled water or sparkling water should be fine correct?
@@bourjoism3917 What to drink ? Red Horse of course, haha 🤣
Don't eat Filipino food, yucky.
Jollibee isn't American! It's fast food. But it's very PH. American's do *not* make sweet spaghetti. LOL. I'm happy there's finally a Jollibee close to me in the US. But your point is valid. When I travel I prefer to go to local restaurants, especially family owned. The real local food is one of the best things about experiencing another country.
I'm not a foodie, but I always want to try local food. It's part of the travel experience. I've eaten alot of stuff I didn't like. But I now know what it tastes like.
Jollibee is a must because it's the pride and joy of Philippine fast food.
All good points, and true. Good delivery. But also comedy gold! I burst out laughing at half of them.
So cute and intelligent beyond her years !
Filipinas not that intelligent. Mature yes, perhaps but intelligent I wouldn't say so. Jealous, hell yes.
Wow, she spits facts and looks very pretty doing it. Love her positive vibes and will definitely think of all these points once I am there. Very cool, thanks a lot.
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels
and going to turistic places.
I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick.
She will try me likes a King.
If she doesn't I would not continue with her.
If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be
I would marry her in Philippines.
I would try fine to her family.
I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions.
If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her.
Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions.
I wil let she knows what I like and dislike.
Loyalty and family are values I appreciate.
I wilL let her knows everthing.
Then she can decide if all that is fine with her.
But I wouldn't allow she control me.
She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend,
always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally.
IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK
It is called BEING IN CONTROL.
If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
There are so many traps here honestly. Like even going to a bar. They’ll try to sit you at what most western men would think is a normal table. But truth is you need to ask them how much is it to sit there. Tables go for anywhere from 800-2k pesos.
The Biggest Trap in the Phils is the Honey Trap!
What is honey trap?
@@mrshowtime7465 Beautiful Girls are like honey. Guys are very attracted to them and they get hooked. Because they are so sweet snd pretty.
@@mrshowtime7465lmfao sex getting robbed nd transgender
i wanna get honey trapped.
@@jmseipp Isn't that kinda the idea? To find one of these cute friendly small girls?!
Every man think about a romantic encounter should be made to watch this video! Smart Girl Philippines # 1.
Another to avoid is giving people money in general, especially so much money. Don’t EVER give them anything more than 20 pesos or simply buy them a small meal.
If you’re a regular and they see how generous you are they’ll be at your neck every damn day they see you.
Say goodbye to those peaceful nights. It sucks to say no and see someone hungry but at the end of the day these people are NOT your responsibility.
This girl is so sweet, I can’t help but listen to her
LOVE!! "Chatting w girls online" -> nice to hear a country that wants people to meet holistically and build authentic experiences based on chemistry, wit, and grit
Good message and you're fun to listen to. Thanks for doing this.
Good information, is it good to buy a moped, and then sell when you move back to your country? Only things I'll carry on my laptops for business
What a lot of guys don't understand (as well as lot of guys DO understand but know that the Filipina is not aware of this) is that American citizens are held to the same laws abroad in certain countries (The Philippines is one of these countries) as we are here in the US, and that includes paying child support!
An expat friend of mine from California, a retired attorney now running a successful resort in Cebu, also ran a group for awhile informing the unsuspecting girls of this. They tracked down a number of willful deadbeats (Canadians also) to let them know there will be legal consequences if they don't comply!
One of his reasons for doing this is due to his own visiting a Pinay that he met online, getting her pregnant and doing the responsible thing by moving there to be a dad and help raise their son (now grown)!
When we visited Subic Bay/Olongapo, we saw many PSA's warning the girls NOT to expect to meet their American "dream man" when the US ships come into port/Clark AFB!
Very Smart Girl...Thanks for your Advice...I will Remenber ...
Is she out of Junior High yet?
Filipinas are small, like most Asians. Don’t be racist
I must have fell for most of the traps. Met a filipina, married her, got her pregnant (x3), bought land, bought stuff. but never chatted online. so 6 traps seems not enough i think there are more. you can buy stuff, but your next visit you might find things missing. so we want to build a house so we have our own place when we visit, rather then staying with relative. we love our relatives but when your stay is longer then one month its nice to have your own place for a change and a bonus is our children can use it when they visit Philippines. Being our children can be duel citizens they can own land. my filipina and I have been married for 29 years, so marriage would be trap number 7. But its not a bad trap, I would say its a good trap.
The queen of the whiteboard! Excellent advice, thank you 👍
Ur English is excellent, so is the info.....and with all due respect...you are more than beautiful..keep rocking in the free world girl!!
Greetings from Havana.
Good job young lady !! That was very informative!!
Another to avoid is drinking with random girls who ask if THEY can go drink with you.
You think you’ll be having a good time and but in truth all they are waiting for is to also see if you’ll take them home with you to have you pay for sex.
And if you don’t want to take them home they’ll get angry and tell you to pay them for their time of hanging out with you.
Who cares pay them and f’’k them. Usually only 1500-2000 pesos
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Why is a 12 year old girl telling adults what to do? Of course, some advice makes sense.
well said!
😂😂😂true
I think she’s 14-15 years old, not 12. She has another video telling us to date younger fillipinas 🤣. It’s awesome, she could sell sand in the desert.
25 year old filipino girl looks like a 12 year old US girl
Because she's smarter than a lot of adults.
You're Brilliant, Adorable, And Honest. Thank You. Thank You. Thank You. 🎉💐💜🍀💰💰💰
Smart, pretty, and full of time-honored wisdom :)
Well now what do I do? That was my whole "to do list" when I visit the Philippines
number 4) don't buy so much stuff - completely agree! There is one problem though, my family want me to buy them gifts hehe - one for my mum, one for my auntie etc lol - I always tell them there is no space in the suitcase.
Bring a bigger suitcase, lol
Reine you’re a really good presenter!
Smart Girl Philippines you are beautiful and smart 😘
Lechon, Adobo, Chicheron with San Mig Light - great combo’s & yummy 😊
lechon kawali the best pork i have ever eaten
I'll be honest, I don't care about my fun and wellbeing, I only listened to her cause she's adorable
Good Sound Advice........Well Done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why do you say don't get a girl pregnant? Most woman in the Philippines are single moms, so the woman obviously don't live by that rule, it's not just the man's responsibility. Most women there from experience would rather have a baby than a husband or boyfriend anyway.
Men and women are not equal. Sometimes we need to lead them away from their emotional bad choices.
@@johnv5156 it's a way of life there, it won't change overnight, it's what they've done all their life. I say just go there have fun be respectful but never anything serious, I've even gotten responses from Filipinos here doing podcasts, they say about 80 percent of the women. there are that way. I told her that seems about right. Of course not 100 percent. But I'm telling you most have an agenda you don't know about.
Number 4 I didn’t know you could do. Just want to visit and see what it is like.
Well done. Meet your Filipina in person. I have been with my Filipino wife 17 years. Met her in the USA. Online does not work.
Home ported in the Philippines in the 70s loved it the best part of WESTPAC
Thank you so much for the great video, very interesting and informative 👍
Boots on the ground. When meeting and dating ladies appreciate that ghosting is a normal process as they don't like conflict.
Oh and if you happen to drink the water, try ginger tea.
50 better beaches in Phil...
Pocari Sweat (local store bought drink) and immodium. I know this from experience from being in El Nido with my gf at the time (know my wife). Believe me, it works
Guys listen... dont be weird guys... Reine, you are becoming an even bigger attraction than .... Boracay. Dont be weird guys. And yes, I have subscribed and liked..
Why go if you can’t be weird?
Thanks Reine good advice, joe
Those Philippine restaurants that you mentioned sounded really good im all of a sudden hungry 🤤
Thanks! Hello there my new friend Great to see how u look out for us from America 🇺🇸 I talk to others there but I haven't been to Philippines hope to see places you go to. ❤
Common sense & respect goes a long way I agree with you completely
i love the courage for speaking foreign language, maraming mang gagaya sayo nyan, basta pinoy asahan mo na.😅
Nice video. I actually laughed at a couple of these. I met my Pinoy wife in the US some 38 years ago. She doesn't want to retire in PI, and I'm begging her to because we can own land. Anyway we have family to visit and that's all you need.
Unfortunately your wife has the experience from living there that she knows from not wanting to go back there to retire. My wife is the same way, she would rather live in another country close to PI but a short enough plane ride away. Who knows though? They both might change their minds (our wives)
She is probably scare to be replaced by a younger girl 😊,
@andreakizomba8849 we've had our ups and downs, but we have grandchildren now, and they are beautiful. I will always love my wife for making this possible regardless of our spats.
American chain restaurants are over priced just like everything else in my home country usa 🇺🇸 so you don’t have to tell me twice when I come to the Philippines I won’t even be in no area where there are chain restaurants I’ll be far away from that crap😅.Thats why I like the Mindanao and Davao region because they do there own thing there not overly developing it and they have a lot of Filipino culture restaurants and events.Manila,bgc,Cebu is a little bit to extra for me in my opinion the southern region of the Philippines is the best 😊.
Just be aware that you don't want to be the only foreigner for miles around because you become a target. Pinoys (can't hold their liquor) get drunk and they talk. Some think we're all rich. Now if you dress and act like a pauper you might be safe. Never flash any signs of wealth. Ever. Unless you live in a gated guarded sub-division, and even then be very careful.
@@conservativeinexile8474Did you get robbed?
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels
and going to turistic places.
I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick.
She will try me likes a King.
If she doesn't I would not continue with her.
If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be
I would marry her in Philippines.
I would try fine to her family.
I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions.
If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her.
Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions.
I wil let she knows what I like and dislike.
Loyalty and family are values I appreciate.
I wilL let her knows everthing.
Then she can decide if all that is fine with her.
But I wouldn't allow she control me.
She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend,
always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally.
IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK
It is called BEING IN CONTROL.
If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
Correction, #1 is Walking Street in Angeles City, LOL! J/K, great video. It sounds like you've reduced the echo in the room some, much better audio lately :)
I did #6 23 years ago here in the USA... yeah, don't do that.
I agree with getting a vasectomy. And being like a Sunkist Orange. All juice & no seeds....lol
lol
Item 3. Only visiting tourist hotspots; I agree that's the worst thing you can do. Get out there and meet the people and see the country.
Thanks! Great video. Buy yourself a nice coffee. R/ Dan
Thanks! Frappucinos! We really appreciate you. xoxo - Daisy and Reine
Very impressive! Agree with her AND I love Rain's personality! She really know what she talkkng about. Her confidence in front of camera.. her hands.. hahha Must be she has a little Italian blood in her. I am Italian Americsn and I talk with my hands although I also can do sign language. She got me stopped one more thing she did not list. Do not be fooled if the lady is underage or not. Jailbait! I can name a lot more. There is a law that you have to support family because you are actually marrying her family. Not just her. Facts. I love how she did this with the white board and revealing. She will be a great blogger. That is coming feom me a blogger. Good job Rain.
-MARK FALSO
She is encouraging man to talk to them in person more often...😅..Fair point anyway
Well...thank you for this information!
great video, good advice, keep posting we love ur videos
Condos are not good if you go back home. You have to leave it behind 😮
Not if you intend on coming back there throughout the year and have ties to the Philippines. My wife and her family are ties to PI so we might buy a condo and visit every few months when I retire
@@calvinsparrow9829 it's been awhile but I think I was thinking about short term. Someone that has no ties or doesn't want any. Entirely new mindset now. I'll be moving there permanently in 2 years.
Haha I am very lucky Filipina...I owned a Land near a very popular Beach....but I am very deserving of it. ❤❤❤❤❤I am very lucky to my partner.....
Good advice Hon Thanks for the video.
When i went overthere. Everyone is so nice to you. But theres always these people who tell you if they can carry your bags to the hotel. Last time traveled once. Some random guy kinda young asked me to if he can carry my bags to my hotel room after hearing my number where ill be staying. Im like take that one. Had 3 banana's healthy 😂. A whole melon 🍈 and a cup with watermelon slices and some cucumber slices. I had a mini box of milk and cereal 1 penney and a towel over my fruit. Had 3 books and 2 shirts to give out. Also 2 bags of popcorn 🍿. Girl gaved me the keys she was also young. And the moment i went 3 stories up the elevator and to get into my room 🤦 oh my god i did not just do that. I gaved a person my bag 🎒 forgetting i was the one who has both keys. And he was not around. It turns out when i went to ask the hotel girl after leaving my stuff in the hotel that there was this person who took my bag and forgot you gaved me the keys and haven't asked my hotel room number yet stole my bag. She said i thought he was your friend and unfortunately we can't do anything because there is not cameras. I got my refund and left that hotel. Unsafe. I let my bag go because it had nothing important. My luggages i don't let no one take em. But yeah scary try to get hotel with cameras and never let someone kind ask to carry your luggage.
Vasectomies saves wallets. Get a vasectomy before arriving in the Philippines.
If you don't live there you should be fine for not getting one.
Oh ganda sa Philippine Angeles City as Pampanga our homeland I have pamilya there a few places Mabalacat San Frenando and Olongapo I wish to enjoy my retirement in our country Luzon of our Mother Miss na miss kita Lolo Pedro Lola Maria God Rest them I will Subscribe for your channel salamat po
Reine always tells you how it is! Great information about the Philippines. Its going to come in useful when I come in August. And to add #7. Don't be weird 😂
You had me at Mac Donald's, loved it.
Lechon is fantastic, but get it from a restaurant, not like a food court - you'll notice the difference and be happy you went with quality.
I stay away. Too rough on one like me. Let em come over here. Good cooks by far. Pansit is a treat.
Very kind of you for this advice, you are amazing thank you
i just got back from cebu and i loved it ...i went everywhere ...moalboal , then catmon ...nice beaches and the carbon markets are amazing ....i toured the whole island of cebu and i will return in january my condo was not my trip ...it was beautiful on the 60th floor with balcony and looking at the water and cclex bridge but i dint sit in the condo all day i was always out
Yes Cebu is great admittedly. We stayed at the Plantation Bay for like a week then a few days at the Quest hotel in the city and then when we got back to Manila, the F4 in BGC. Some really nice hotels and areas all over the Philippines for sure which is why I want to retire there. Good to hear you enjoyed your time there
Just love your channel and all the hostesses! So entertaining!
Great video and Reine has excellent points! The biggest problem I have is that I'm ready to make mistake #6 with Reine! But I won't be irresponsible. I'll either move to the PH or else help her move here to the US.
Thank you so much🙏🙏 this info is so useful🙏🙏
Another trap to avoid. Taxis while drunk and you booked a “grab”, “move it” or one of those apps.
If you’re drunk and alone with them, you run the chance of them trying to take advantage of you and tell you that you didn’t pay yet to see if you’ve forgotten while in your drunk state of mind.
Or, just don't go out and get drunk. If one wants to drink excessively, do that at home base
You should be more concerned about being in India getting ripped you pff
I will retire at 56 and come on an investment visa to the Philippines this year. You made me believe that there are very smart girls in the Philippines. I will find my one 35+
I can tell you, it's true. I was lucky enough to find one. And for five years, I was happier than I had ever been. But the fire that burns twice as bright, burns half as long. I lost her in a car accident. Stay safe my friend.
You can choose one 25 !
This is good advise when traveling to any foreign country
Lechon is extremely much better eating than any fast food restaurant food.
Buying fresh yellowfin tuna and cook it yourself is also much much better.
Pork or chicken adobo is also very tasty.
I am no fan of sinigang.
Buying then cooking fresh yellowfin tuna? Just buy it in a can if that's the taste you want.
Fresh caught yellowfin tuna should be eaten as sashimi ... sliced raw, dipped in soy sauce, wasabi, and served with sliced ginger.
@@mrwonderful612
Cooking yellowfin tuna like you cook a steak rare is extremely different from canned tuna.
You claiming it tastes the same, clearly suggest that you have never tried it.
Far from all of us like pure raw sashimi.
The best way to eat tuna sashimi in my opinion is to sear the outside of it quickly in a hot pan or even better on the grill.
Just like many Japanese prefer it.
And I do not like wasabi at all.
Grilled yellowfin tuna collars are fantastic eating as well.
You are clearly missing out if you only eat yellowfin tuna as totally raw sashimi.
Lol I will stick with my Chicken Adobo, Lumpia and Tinola as well as sinigang. I am so glad I married a filipina who graduated from with a Hotel and Hospitality degree 😁
EXCELLENT 🎉🎉🎉
She's so adorable!!!
Good information
Good advice good job
Watching from 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 Nigeria bcus we are all over the world like the Chinese 🇨🇳
If it is honey trap, I am all in. LOL!
There's nothing wrong with eating what your body and system are comfortable with. That's being said, I can't wait to get some local food in a few weeks! This next month can't go by fast enough.
She is so cute lol...
I couldn't take her serious, too cute lol