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same with Filipino girls here in the US. My ex-GF warned me about her family, I had no idea how bad they are. Total Materialistic Hypocrites. Jealousy abounds.
Isn't that the same in Europe?!?! That was my experience. And it was my BELGIAN ex who extracted €4-5,000 from me for about 5 months before she gave me the bullet... My European friends roll their eyes and call me a fool (correct!) but, suppose that had been a Filipina? Then suddenly it's happeneing because of HER race. (and my foolhardiness!)
Make sure you meet family too, it will tell you if she's married or already has a boyfriend, if she doesn't want you to meet her family? Red flag lol until then? Just spend money on the date.
Get offline. Stop wasting your time w the online BS Save up, get on a plane and go meet women. Allll the times schmucks waste Online is pathetic. She's Always chatting Other men, and the first guy That shows up is getting her anyway. You are NEVER in a relationship with Anyone while in separate countries. You just think you are
Yea but most fall in love many times a year lol even after you meet them.and they love attention from all men, look how many do podcasts and how many men friends haha they have and keep even after they are in a relationship, I'm not saying all, but most, ask her about the fillipinos on tango. I would bet many you see on podcasts has that app, that's a big red flag
This is a great post! Clear, concise and fun. I know men who keeping falling into these traps. I was lucky: got engaged to the first girl, the barangay gave us for free and ocean front lot, and now for 24 years z I have been part of a fishing/ farming family, plus our three great kids.
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels and going to turistic places. I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick. She will try me likes a King. If she doesn't I would not continue with her. If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be I would marry her in Philippines. I would try fine to her family. I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions. If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her. Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions. I wil let she knows what I like and dislike. Loyalty and family are values I appreciate. I wilL let her knows everthing. Then she can decide if all that is fine with her. But I wouldn't allow she control me. She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend, always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally. IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK It is called BEING IN CONTROL. If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
I reckon not getting a girl pregnant & taking off, leaving her to raise a child by herself can be applied to the whole world, not just the Philippines. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I just came back from a two weeks vacations in the Philippines, you should plan to see both tourists attractions and see how Filipinos lives. I visited Cebu, Boracay (I didn’t stay at renown hotel), Tacloban & McArthur in Leyte. I met really nice people, single and family. Filipinos seems to be always smiling at life. We could learn a thing or two from them.
I am from india. I also made a fortnightly trip to Cebu Borocay n Bohol. It's the people of Philippines that have attracted me more than the beaches. So loving, so beautiful, so helpful, so shyfull, so honest. I am talking about the general public in buses jeepneys. Always ready to help you. I love this country because of it's people. They are poor but very happy guys.
#7: Don't marry; you will be expected to bring your wife and her extended family back to your country, support them until your wife finds a better husband.
And just how does her family "get here"? It does not happen that way in the US unless they criminal illegals entering the southern borders, then they are welcomed, supported, embraced and pampered...
I never got a girl pregnant, but the local boy with no job and no plan that my ex was cheating on me with sure did. With no degree between the two of them it's going to be a struggle of a life (statistically speaking). Sure, a foreigner getting a girl pregnant and taking off isn't great, but there are worse things, at least with some foreigners there is a bit of a chance of ongoing support.
Yes that sure surprise me, a minority of young women don’t look at their future prospect, they don’t mind getting pregnant with the guy who as no job and no future. That is mind boggling for we westerners.
You realize some of them don’t care about money and future plans right lol she didn’t want you, she wanted him let it go. The way I see it you dodged a bullet you should be happy. So if the alternative is her staying with you and using you just for your money while thinking your disgusting and wanting to be with someone else vs her cheating early on with someone she likes giving you the opportunity to find someone who really likes you…. I’d say you won buddy, I know it hurts but the women to men ratio in the Philippines is in your favor… get off RUclips and find another one brother
Yes its a fair call Kenny, the post was a bit of a subtle dig that's true, I do realize all your saying. There's only so much nuance you can insert into a youtube comment. She chose what she chose and that's the reality, I'm certainly not the only one that's disappointed in her life choices, I'm not family, I can move on and find another, but jeez I feel for her sister that raised her.. But your right, I won, I dodged a bullet, and like you say, if it was going to happen its better for it to happen soonish... As you and others have rightly pointed out she didn't think about anything other than the here and now and there's no point pondering the why's and how's. Thanks for your comment appreciate the candid feedback.
Hey brother I know how you feel… trust me every man has been there. It takes a lot for us to stop running the streets but when we do we’re all in. So I know her leaving hurts, and starting over sucks but you’ll find someone else as for her maybe she’ll regret her decision maybe she won’t. Doesn’t matter tho, life is just about making the best decision for yourself with the options you have in the moment.
A lot of foreigners will take the leftovers, meaning single mothers. Some ladies actually want to get pregnant with a 'mixed' baby, to trap the foreigner guy, or because they think the child will be more beautiful. Also, the women don't like to use birth control here, and that's another problem. Unless you really want to be with her long term, be careful!
done (back in the 1990's)..and even better do not tell her you had it done..wait for the "i am buntis and it is yours story" or if she wants to get buntis..tell her i don't know why you cant get buntis so we need to keep trying hahaha
Filipino Cupid it’s a big scam. They will not meet you in person once you’re in the Philippines. Better to go for walk-in approach instead to find your Filipina.
Foreigners mostly north americans are not into foreign, just want a club med experience, warm beaches cheap drinks, girls, and some souvenirs.... white bread white peoples as long as it is in english and dollars .
@@Marvin-hv4cm Ha ok! I inderstand. The asian way of saving face by lying. My Indonesian GF did that. She didnt do "nothing wrong" but was in a bad situation. So she dis the right thing but lied on everything to save face. I left her for it. Now i understand what you ment. Thx!
@JustinArut No matter where you go, a women will always be a women. The difference by going to the Philippinesis that YOU ARE THE PRICE. You got tye leverage. You still jeed to vet them and get a good one. And good ones are rare.
There are so many traps here honestly. Like even going to a bar. They’ll try to sit you at what most western men would think is a normal table. But truth is you need to ask them how much is it to sit there. Tables go for anywhere from 800-2k pesos.
Be prepared to lose any property if you build or buy it in the Phillipines on matter how in love you are and be ready to pay child support for 18 years. Other than that you will have all the girls you want until you run out of money. As long as you have money or a desirable country you will have the most faithful girl in the world by your side.
It’s a shame that the Philippines is getting flooded with American Chain food restaurants. Crap replacement for boring local offerings. If only Thai and Vietnamese food could get a run. Better health and better tastes.
Wow, she spits facts and looks very pretty doing it. Love her positive vibes and will definitely think of all these points once I am there. Very cool, thanks a lot.
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels and going to turistic places. I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick. She will try me likes a King. If she doesn't I would not continue with her. If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be I would marry her in Philippines. I would try fine to her family. I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions. If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her. Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions. I wil let she knows what I like and dislike. Loyalty and family are values I appreciate. I wilL let her knows everthing. Then she can decide if all that is fine with her. But I wouldn't allow she control me. She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend, always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally. IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK It is called BEING IN CONTROL. If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
Jollibee isn't American! It's fast food. But it's very PH. American's do *not* make sweet spaghetti. LOL. I'm happy there's finally a Jollibee close to me in the US. But your point is valid. When I travel I prefer to go to local restaurants, especially family owned. The real local food is one of the best things about experiencing another country.
I'm not a foodie, but I always want to try local food. It's part of the travel experience. I've eaten alot of stuff I didn't like. But I now know what it tastes like.
I must have fell for most of the traps. Met a filipina, married her, got her pregnant (x3), bought land, bought stuff. but never chatted online. so 6 traps seems not enough i think there are more. you can buy stuff, but your next visit you might find things missing. so we want to build a house so we have our own place when we visit, rather then staying with relative. we love our relatives but when your stay is longer then one month its nice to have your own place for a change and a bonus is our children can use it when they visit Philippines. Being our children can be duel citizens they can own land. my filipina and I have been married for 29 years, so marriage would be trap number 7. But its not a bad trap, I would say its a good trap.
Another to avoid is giving people money in general, especially so much money. Don’t EVER give them anything more than 20 pesos or simply buy them a small meal. If you’re a regular and they see how generous you are they’ll be at your neck every damn day they see you. Say goodbye to those peaceful nights. It sucks to say no and see someone hungry but at the end of the day these people are NOT your responsibility.
Thanks! Hello there my new friend Great to see how u look out for us from America 🇺🇸 I talk to others there but I haven't been to Philippines hope to see places you go to. ❤
@@mrshowtime7465 Beautiful Girls are like honey. Guys are very attracted to them and they get trapped. Because they are so sweet and pretty. Our brains short circuit from all that Sweetness.
I am a 90's kid! The chatting with girls online seems crazy to me. I would have hit the streets to find bars or clubs. Anywhere to meet people! I haven't been to the Philippines but I spent a year in Korea and loved it. I got out and made so many friends and even fell in love! Get out there and live your life!
LOVE!! "Chatting w girls online" -> nice to hear a country that wants people to meet holistically and build authentic experiences based on chemistry, wit, and grit
number 4) don't buy so much stuff - completely agree! There is one problem though, my family want me to buy them gifts hehe - one for my mum, one for my auntie etc lol - I always tell them there is no space in the suitcase.
I mean its okay to get some familiar comfortable food when you travel but yeah, eat the local food when you go out of country, that's part of the experience and joy of travel.
What a lot of guys don't understand (as well as lot of guys DO understand but know that the Filipina is not aware of this) is that American citizens are held to the same laws abroad in certain countries (The Philippines is one of these countries) as we are here in the US, and that includes paying child support! An expat friend of mine from California, a retired attorney now running a successful resort in Cebu, also ran a group for awhile informing the unsuspecting girls of this. They tracked down a number of willful deadbeats (Canadians also) to let them know there will be legal consequences if they don't comply! One of his reasons for doing this is due to his own visiting a Pinay that he met online, getting her pregnant and doing the responsible thing by moving there to be a dad and help raise their son (now grown)! When we visited Subic Bay/Olongapo, we saw many PSA's warning the girls NOT to expect to meet their American "dream man" when the US ships come into port/Clark AFB!
Have to say that Thai food is more my style. If you think about cars, filipino food is like Toyota Corolla, serves you well and don't let you down, But Thai food is like Lamborghini, spicy and fun.
Nice video. I actually laughed at a couple of these. I met my Pinoy wife in the US some 38 years ago. She doesn't want to retire in PI, and I'm begging her to because we can own land. Anyway we have family to visit and that's all you need.
Unfortunately your wife has the experience from living there that she knows from not wanting to go back there to retire. My wife is the same way, she would rather live in another country close to PI but a short enough plane ride away. Who knows though? They both might change their minds (our wives)
@andreakizomba8849 we've had our ups and downs, but we have grandchildren now, and they are beautiful. I will always love my wife for making this possible regardless of our spats.
Not if you intend on coming back there throughout the year and have ties to the Philippines. My wife and her family are ties to PI so we might buy a condo and visit every few months when I retire
@@calvinsparrow9829 it's been awhile but I think I was thinking about short term. Someone that has no ties or doesn't want any. Entirely new mindset now. I'll be moving there permanently in 2 years.
Boots on the ground. When meeting and dating ladies appreciate that ghosting is a normal process as they don't like conflict. Oh and if you happen to drink the water, try ginger tea.
Pocari Sweat (local store bought drink) and immodium. I know this from experience from being in El Nido with my gf at the time (know my wife). Believe me, it works
Correction, #1 is Walking Street in Angeles City, LOL! J/K, great video. It sounds like you've reduced the echo in the room some, much better audio lately :) I did #6 23 years ago here in the USA... yeah, don't do that.
Ur English is excellent, so is the info.....and with all due respect...you are more than beautiful..keep rocking in the free world girl!! Greetings from Havana.
Lechon is extremely much better eating than any fast food restaurant food. Buying fresh yellowfin tuna and cook it yourself is also much much better. Pork or chicken adobo is also very tasty. I am no fan of sinigang.
Buying then cooking fresh yellowfin tuna? Just buy it in a can if that's the taste you want. Fresh caught yellowfin tuna should be eaten as sashimi ... sliced raw, dipped in soy sauce, wasabi, and served with sliced ginger.
@@mrwonderful612 Cooking yellowfin tuna like you cook a steak rare is extremely different from canned tuna. You claiming it tastes the same, clearly suggest that you have never tried it. Far from all of us like pure raw sashimi. The best way to eat tuna sashimi in my opinion is to sear the outside of it quickly in a hot pan or even better on the grill. Just like many Japanese prefer it. And I do not like wasabi at all. Grilled yellowfin tuna collars are fantastic eating as well. You are clearly missing out if you only eat yellowfin tuna as totally raw sashimi.
Lol I will stick with my Chicken Adobo, Lumpia and Tinola as well as sinigang. I am so glad I married a filipina who graduated from with a Hotel and Hospitality degree 😁
Another trap to avoid. Taxis while drunk and you booked a “grab”, “move it” or one of those apps. If you’re drunk and alone with them, you run the chance of them trying to take advantage of you and tell you that you didn’t pay yet to see if you’ve forgotten while in your drunk state of mind.
Why do you say don't get a girl pregnant? Most woman in the Philippines are single moms, so the woman obviously don't live by that rule, it's not just the man's responsibility. Most women there from experience would rather have a baby than a husband or boyfriend anyway.
@@johnv5156 it's a way of life there, it won't change overnight, it's what they've done all their life. I say just go there have fun be respectful but never anything serious, I've even gotten responses from Filipinos here doing podcasts, they say about 80 percent of the women. there are that way. I told her that seems about right. Of course not 100 percent. But I'm telling you most have an agenda you don't know about.
@GentleTraveler-999 well if podcasts are about facts??? All I'll say is that I could be friends and hang out or dare a Filipino ( and I have several) but a serious relationship? Oh no, they all love attention from other men, have alot of men friends ( drama waiting to happen) and are very secretive about things when you're not around, just be careful.
Another to avoid is drinking with random girls who ask if THEY can go drink with you. You think you’ll be having a good time and but in truth all they are waiting for is to also see if you’ll take them home with you to have you pay for sex. And if you don’t want to take them home they’ll get angry and tell you to pay them for their time of hanging out with you.
This isn't everywhere. Just the tourist locations with foreigners. Experienced this near a US Navy base (long time ago), though they were more upfront that they were offering a girlfriend rental service.
There's nothing wrong with eating what your body and system are comfortable with. That's being said, I can't wait to get some local food in a few weeks! This next month can't go by fast enough.
I will retire at 56 and come on an investment visa to the Philippines this year. You made me believe that there are very smart girls in the Philippines. I will find my one 35+
I can tell you, it's true. I was lucky enough to find one. And for five years, I was happier than I had ever been. But the fire that burns twice as bright, burns half as long. I lost her in a car accident. Stay safe my friend.
American chain restaurants are over priced just like everything else in my home country usa 🇺🇸 so you don’t have to tell me twice when I come to the Philippines I won’t even be in no area where there are chain restaurants I’ll be far away from that crap😅.Thats why I like the Mindanao and Davao region because they do there own thing there not overly developing it and they have a lot of Filipino culture restaurants and events.Manila,bgc,Cebu is a little bit to extra for me in my opinion the southern region of the Philippines is the best 😊.
Just be aware that you don't want to be the only foreigner for miles around because you become a target. Pinoys (can't hold their liquor) get drunk and they talk. Some think we're all rich. Now if you dress and act like a pauper you might be safe. Never flash any signs of wealth. Ever. Unless you live in a gated guarded sub-division, and even then be very careful.
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels and going to turistic places. I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick. She will try me likes a King. If she doesn't I would not continue with her. If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be I would marry her in Philippines. I would try fine to her family. I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions. If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her. Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions. I wil let she knows what I like and dislike. Loyalty and family are values I appreciate. I wilL let her knows everthing. Then she can decide if all that is fine with her. But I wouldn't allow she control me. She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend, always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally. IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK It is called BEING IN CONTROL. If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
Guys listen... dont be weird guys... Reine, you are becoming an even bigger attraction than .... Boracay. Dont be weird guys. And yes, I have subscribed and liked..
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ur pretty
You are too loud. Try being more subtle.
Like cuban girls… spend better our money😅
Getting a girl pregnant and not being serious is a big no no anywhere
Yeah, don't be like so many Filipino guys, leaving the single mom's to raise their mistakes.
But some Filipinas Abandoned their Filipino boyfrieinds 🤣😆
You’ve clearly never been to Africa and it shows….
why is it always defaulted to the man's fault? Met my share of women with unhealthy expectations and demands, that happens with the Filipinas too.
@@markdsm-5157It is not about "fault", it is about responsibility.
You don't just get a girl in the Philippines, you get the whole extended family and all their problems too.
same with Filipino girls here in the US. My ex-GF warned me about her family, I had no idea how bad they are. Total Materialistic Hypocrites. Jealousy abounds.
Maybe so but if it is a decent family
Isn't that the same in Europe?!?! That was my experience. And it was my BELGIAN ex who extracted €4-5,000 from me for about 5 months before she gave me the bullet... My European friends roll their eyes and call me a fool (correct!) but, suppose that had been a Filipina? Then suddenly it's happeneing because of HER race. (and my foolhardiness!)
@@exentr A decent family is not waiting for you. They stick with their wealthy Filipino friends
@@Roy-gx2yj decent is not synonymous to wealthy
The biggest trap... don't fall for a girl before meeting her in person... like I have with Reine.
Haha!! me too!!!
Nice! Classic!
Make sure you meet family too, it will tell you if she's married or already has a boyfriend, if she doesn't want you to meet her family? Red flag lol until then? Just spend money on the date.
Get offline. Stop wasting your time w the online BS
Save up, get on a plane and go meet women. Allll the times schmucks waste
Online is pathetic. She's Always chatting Other men, and the first guy
That shows up is getting her anyway. You are NEVER in a relationship with
Anyone while in separate countries. You just think you are
Yea but most fall in love many times a year lol even after you meet them.and they love attention from all men, look how many do podcasts and how many men friends haha they have and keep even after they are in a relationship, I'm not saying all, but most, ask her about the fillipinos on tango. I would bet many you see on podcasts has that app, that's a big red flag
I love the way this girl talks and I appreciate the fact she goes directly to the point . Good job.
Yeah, she's really lovable!
Yeah, that's my woman!
I like how she says....Mc.Donalds...Laughing.
I like how she can barely speak English
Thank you for stressing that the physical presence of father is necessary and that he's not just a financial provider. 👏
She won me over. So smart and morals are good. Love this, thanks.
This is a great post! Clear, concise and fun. I know men who keeping falling into these traps. I was lucky: got engaged to the first girl, the barangay gave us for free and ocean front lot, and now for 24 years z I have been part of a fishing/ farming family, plus our three great kids.
Lucky and quite unusual from what I can gather in experiences.
Livin the dream
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels
and going to turistic places.
I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick.
She will try me likes a King.
If she doesn't I would not continue with her.
If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be
I would marry her in Philippines.
I would try fine to her family.
I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions.
If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her.
Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions.
I wil let she knows what I like and dislike.
Loyalty and family are values I appreciate.
I wilL let her knows everthing.
Then she can decide if all that is fine with her.
But I wouldn't allow she control me.
She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend,
always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally.
IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK
It is called BEING IN CONTROL.
If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
This is the most wholesome thing I've ever seen. "Don't get girl pregnant. Don't have broken family." So obvious but so.....pure. Great channel!
you need to get out more
I reckon not getting a girl pregnant & taking off, leaving her to raise a child by herself can be applied to the whole world, not just the Philippines. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
That's the reason wh@res were invented.
I just came back from a two weeks vacations in the Philippines, you should plan to see both tourists attractions and see how Filipinos lives.
I visited Cebu, Boracay (I didn’t stay at renown hotel), Tacloban & McArthur in Leyte.
I met really nice people, single and family.
Filipinos seems to be always smiling at life.
We could learn a thing or two from them.
I am from india. I also made a fortnightly trip to Cebu Borocay n Bohol. It's the people of Philippines that have attracted me more than the beaches. So loving, so beautiful, so helpful, so shyfull, so honest. I am talking about the general public in buses jeepneys. Always ready to help you. I love this country because of it's people. They are poor but very happy guys.
#7: Don't marry; you will be expected to bring your wife and her extended family back to your country, support them until your wife finds a better husband.
Bahahahhahah cope
And just how does her family "get here"? It does not happen that way in the US unless they criminal illegals entering the southern borders, then they are welcomed, supported, embraced and pampered...
True.
Not in my experience. My wife's family doesn't ask for or expect anything; and they have no interest in coming to the U.S.
Really
I never got a girl pregnant, but the local boy with no job and no plan that my ex was cheating on me with sure did. With no degree between the two of them it's going to be a struggle of a life (statistically speaking). Sure, a foreigner getting a girl pregnant and taking off isn't great, but there are worse things, at least with some foreigners there is a bit of a chance of ongoing support.
Yes that sure surprise me, a minority of young women don’t look at their future prospect, they don’t mind getting pregnant with the guy who as no job and no future.
That is mind boggling for we westerners.
You realize some of them don’t care about money and future plans right lol she didn’t want you, she wanted him let it go. The way I see it you dodged a bullet you should be happy. So if the alternative is her staying with you and using you just for your money while thinking your disgusting and wanting to be with someone else vs her cheating early on with someone she likes giving you the opportunity to find someone who really likes you…. I’d say you won buddy, I know it hurts but the women to men ratio in the Philippines is in your favor… get off RUclips and find another one brother
Yes its a fair call Kenny, the post was a bit of a subtle dig that's true, I do realize all your saying. There's only so much nuance you can insert into a youtube comment. She chose what she chose and that's the reality, I'm certainly not the only one that's disappointed in her life choices, I'm not family, I can move on and find another, but jeez I feel for her sister that raised her.. But your right, I won, I dodged a bullet, and like you say, if it was going to happen its better for it to happen soonish... As you and others have rightly pointed out she didn't think about anything other than the here and now and there's no point pondering the why's and how's. Thanks for your comment appreciate the candid feedback.
Hey brother I know how you feel… trust me every man has been there. It takes a lot for us to stop running the streets but when we do we’re all in. So I know her leaving hurts, and starting over sucks but you’ll find someone else as for her maybe she’ll regret her decision maybe she won’t. Doesn’t matter tho, life is just about making the best decision for yourself with the options you have in the moment.
A lot of foreigners will take the leftovers, meaning single mothers. Some ladies actually want to get pregnant with a 'mixed' baby, to trap the foreigner guy, or because they think the child will be more beautiful. Also, the women don't like to use birth control here, and that's another problem. Unless you really want to be with her long term, be careful!
#6 Get A Vasectomy! The Child Is NOT And CANNOT Be Yours Now.
Done!
His name was Doctor Chop. I'm not kidding! But now, I am invincible!
Woman can STILL get pregnant after you’ve had that procedure done. It’s NOT 100 percent Fool Proof Genius.🙄🙄🙄
I had six kids first, and then she let me get the vasectomy while she was/is still young. We cooperate!
done (back in the 1990's)..and even better do not tell her you had it done..wait for the "i am buntis and it is yours story" or if she wants to get buntis..tell her i don't know why you cant get buntis so we need to keep trying hahaha
This girl is so sweet, I can’t help but listen to her
Filipino Cupid it’s a big scam. They will not meet you in person once you’re in the Philippines. Better to go for walk-in approach instead to find your Filipina.
What is walk-in approach?
@@rational_observergo to the mall and go shopping 😊
@@rational_observer
Just be a normal person? lol
I laughed out loud when she unmasked #1; I was expecting some deep dark secret about the Philippines and instead I got avoid McDonalds.
That took me by surprise too.
Avoiding junk food is a good advice anywhere on this planet
This is the best advice. Why go to a foreign country to not eat the local food
What she left out is they put way too much mayonnaise in the chicken sandwiches.
Foreigners mostly north americans are not into foreign, just want a club med experience, warm beaches cheap drinks, girls, and some souvenirs.... white bread white peoples as long as it is in english and dollars .
My advise after 6 years.
Rent place to live, rent a wife, move often.
Do not let the lying get you down. It's just part of the culture.
Could you give more i fo about the lying? I am not aware of that.
@@celuiquipeut6527 most of the lying is to save face.
Or they think you will never find out, so it does not matter.
@@Marvin-hv4cm Ha ok! I inderstand. The asian way of saving face by lying. My Indonesian GF did that. She didnt do "nothing wrong" but was in a bad situation. So she dis the right thing but lied on everything to save face.
I left her for it.
Now i understand what you ment.
Thx!
@JustinArut No matter where you go, a women will always be a women. The difference by going to the Philippinesis that YOU ARE THE PRICE. You got tye leverage. You still jeed to vet them and get a good one. And good ones are rare.
@@celuiquipeut6527they always lie in the Philippines 🇵🇭.. fact . Part of the culture let he said . To save face .
There are so many traps here honestly. Like even going to a bar. They’ll try to sit you at what most western men would think is a normal table. But truth is you need to ask them how much is it to sit there. Tables go for anywhere from 800-2k pesos.
Be prepared to lose any property if you build or buy it in the Phillipines on matter how in love you are and be ready to pay child support for 18 years. Other than that you will have all the girls you want until you run out of money. As long as you have money or a desirable country you will have the most faithful girl in the world by your side.
Sounds like a better deal than in America.
I accept those terms yee haw
@@dewjr Lots of horror stories between expats and Filipino women.
So you get a vasectomy and everything will be great.
@user-qs2br2jl4x that's true. Not sure why these guys are so into the idea of being married in a different country.
It’s a shame that the Philippines is getting flooded with American Chain food restaurants. Crap replacement for boring local offerings. If only Thai and Vietnamese food could get a run. Better health and better tastes.
You think Jollibee is any better?
Give them a decade and they’ll be suffering an obesity epidemic.
@@eu7435 At least Chicken Joy tastes good.
So cute and intelligent beyond her years !
Filipinas not that intelligent. Mature yes, perhaps but intelligent I wouldn't say so. Jealous, hell yes.
Wow, she spits facts and looks very pretty doing it. Love her positive vibes and will definitely think of all these points once I am there. Very cool, thanks a lot.
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels
and going to turistic places.
I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick.
She will try me likes a King.
If she doesn't I would not continue with her.
If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be
I would marry her in Philippines.
I would try fine to her family.
I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions.
If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her.
Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions.
I wil let she knows what I like and dislike.
Loyalty and family are values I appreciate.
I wilL let her knows everthing.
Then she can decide if all that is fine with her.
But I wouldn't allow she control me.
She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend,
always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally.
IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK
It is called BEING IN CONTROL.
If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
You have good advices ,many peoples get in troubles ,we don't want to get scam
Jollibee isn't American! It's fast food. But it's very PH. American's do *not* make sweet spaghetti. LOL. I'm happy there's finally a Jollibee close to me in the US. But your point is valid. When I travel I prefer to go to local restaurants, especially family owned. The real local food is one of the best things about experiencing another country.
I'm not a foodie, but I always want to try local food. It's part of the travel experience. I've eaten alot of stuff I didn't like. But I now know what it tastes like.
Jollibee is a must because it's the pride and joy of Philippine fast food.
I must have fell for most of the traps. Met a filipina, married her, got her pregnant (x3), bought land, bought stuff. but never chatted online. so 6 traps seems not enough i think there are more. you can buy stuff, but your next visit you might find things missing. so we want to build a house so we have our own place when we visit, rather then staying with relative. we love our relatives but when your stay is longer then one month its nice to have your own place for a change and a bonus is our children can use it when they visit Philippines. Being our children can be duel citizens they can own land. my filipina and I have been married for 29 years, so marriage would be trap number 7. But its not a bad trap, I would say its a good trap.
In your case it worked out well, and yeah one of the pros of being married you can own property.
Another to avoid is giving people money in general, especially so much money. Don’t EVER give them anything more than 20 pesos or simply buy them a small meal.
If you’re a regular and they see how generous you are they’ll be at your neck every damn day they see you.
Say goodbye to those peaceful nights. It sucks to say no and see someone hungry but at the end of the day these people are NOT your responsibility.
All good points, and true. Good delivery. But also comedy gold! I burst out laughing at half of them.
Thanks! Great video. Buy yourself a nice coffee. R/ Dan
Thanks! Frappucinos! We really appreciate you. xoxo - Daisy and Reine
Every man think about a romantic encounter should be made to watch this video! Smart Girl Philippines # 1.
so controling
My list: Filipina, Filipina, Filipina, Filipina, Filipina, Dont drink the water
Love seeing you on videos, you are a very smart, informative, beautiful young lady reine. Chester hixon
What happens with the water??? Bottle water??What to drink??
Plasticides level? bottled water or sparkling water should be fine correct?
@@bourjoism3917 What to drink ? Red Horse of course, haha 🤣
Don't eat Filipino food, yucky.
Very Smart Girl...Thanks for your Advice...I will Remenber ...
Why is a 12 year old girl telling adults what to do? Of course, some advice makes sense.
well said!
😂😂😂true
I think she’s 14-15 years old, not 12. She has another video telling us to date younger fillipinas 🤣. It’s awesome, she could sell sand in the desert.
25 year old filipino girl looks like a 12 year old US girl
Because she's smarter than a lot of adults.
Thanks! Hello there my new friend Great to see how u look out for us from America 🇺🇸 I talk to others there but I haven't been to Philippines hope to see places you go to. ❤
The Biggest Trap in the Phils is the Honey Trap!
What is honey trap?
@@mrshowtime7465 Beautiful Girls are like honey. Guys are very attracted to them and they get trapped. Because they are so sweet and pretty. Our brains short circuit from all that Sweetness.
@@mrshowtime7465lmfao sex getting robbed nd transgender
i wanna get honey trapped.
@@jmseipp Isn't that kinda the idea? To find one of these cute friendly small girls?!
I am a 90's kid! The chatting with girls online seems crazy to me. I would have hit the streets to find bars or clubs. Anywhere to meet people! I haven't been to the Philippines but I spent a year in Korea and loved it. I got out and made so many friends and even fell in love! Get out there and live your life!
Good message and you're fun to listen to. Thanks for doing this.
LOVE!! "Chatting w girls online" -> nice to hear a country that wants people to meet holistically and build authentic experiences based on chemistry, wit, and grit
number 4) don't buy so much stuff - completely agree! There is one problem though, my family want me to buy them gifts hehe - one for my mum, one for my auntie etc lol - I always tell them there is no space in the suitcase.
Bring a bigger suitcase, lol
I mean its okay to get some familiar comfortable food when you travel but yeah, eat the local food when you go out of country, that's part of the experience and joy of travel.
What a lot of guys don't understand (as well as lot of guys DO understand but know that the Filipina is not aware of this) is that American citizens are held to the same laws abroad in certain countries (The Philippines is one of these countries) as we are here in the US, and that includes paying child support!
An expat friend of mine from California, a retired attorney now running a successful resort in Cebu, also ran a group for awhile informing the unsuspecting girls of this. They tracked down a number of willful deadbeats (Canadians also) to let them know there will be legal consequences if they don't comply!
One of his reasons for doing this is due to his own visiting a Pinay that he met online, getting her pregnant and doing the responsible thing by moving there to be a dad and help raise their son (now grown)!
When we visited Subic Bay/Olongapo, we saw many PSA's warning the girls NOT to expect to meet their American "dream man" when the US ships come into port/Clark AFB!
Good information, is it good to buy a moped, and then sell when you move back to your country? Only things I'll carry on my laptops for business
Have to say that Thai food is more my style.
If you think about cars, filipino food is like Toyota Corolla, serves you well and don't let you down,
But Thai food is like Lamborghini, spicy and fun.
Panays won't let you down. Most Pinays are irresponsible.
Home ported in the Philippines in the 70s loved it the best part of WESTPAC
This has been brought to you by Jollybee 😜
I love the way you explained some of this and I know you probably are taken and you might hear this often but you’re a beautiful Woman.
I'll be honest, I don't care about my fun and wellbeing, I only listened to her cause she's adorable
Common sense & respect goes a long way I agree with you completely
Well now what do I do? That was my whole "to do list" when I visit the Philippines
Good Sound Advice........Well Done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dont fall for the taxi meter broken scam,oh i just take you for this much etc.
Nice video. I actually laughed at a couple of these. I met my Pinoy wife in the US some 38 years ago. She doesn't want to retire in PI, and I'm begging her to because we can own land. Anyway we have family to visit and that's all you need.
Unfortunately your wife has the experience from living there that she knows from not wanting to go back there to retire. My wife is the same way, she would rather live in another country close to PI but a short enough plane ride away. Who knows though? They both might change their minds (our wives)
She is probably scare to be replaced by a younger girl 😊,
@andreakizomba8849 we've had our ups and downs, but we have grandchildren now, and they are beautiful. I will always love my wife for making this possible regardless of our spats.
Condos are not good if you go back home. You have to leave it behind 😮
Not if you intend on coming back there throughout the year and have ties to the Philippines. My wife and her family are ties to PI so we might buy a condo and visit every few months when I retire
@@calvinsparrow9829 it's been awhile but I think I was thinking about short term. Someone that has no ties or doesn't want any. Entirely new mindset now. I'll be moving there permanently in 2 years.
Haha I am very lucky Filipina...I owned a Land near a very popular Beach....but I am very deserving of it. ❤❤❤❤❤I am very lucky to my partner.....
The queen of the whiteboard! Excellent advice, thank you 👍
Thanks Reine good advice, joe
Boots on the ground. When meeting and dating ladies appreciate that ghosting is a normal process as they don't like conflict.
Oh and if you happen to drink the water, try ginger tea.
50 better beaches in Phil...
Pocari Sweat (local store bought drink) and immodium. I know this from experience from being in El Nido with my gf at the time (know my wife). Believe me, it works
I always pull out. It's homemade high protein lotion. Good for the skin.
I agree with getting a vasectomy. And being like a Sunkist Orange. All juice & no seeds....lol
lol
Lechon, Adobo, Chicheron with San Mig Light - great combo’s & yummy 😊
lechon kawali the best pork i have ever eaten
She is encouraging man to talk to them in person more often...😅..Fair point anyway
Smart, pretty, and full of time-honored wisdom :)
Vasectomies saves wallets. Get a vasectomy before arriving in the Philippines.
If you don't live there you should be fine for not getting one.
You seem very honest. Thank you
Correction, #1 is Walking Street in Angeles City, LOL! J/K, great video. It sounds like you've reduced the echo in the room some, much better audio lately :)
I did #6 23 years ago here in the USA... yeah, don't do that.
Ur English is excellent, so is the info.....and with all due respect...you are more than beautiful..keep rocking in the free world girl!!
Greetings from Havana.
Lechon is extremely much better eating than any fast food restaurant food.
Buying fresh yellowfin tuna and cook it yourself is also much much better.
Pork or chicken adobo is also very tasty.
I am no fan of sinigang.
Buying then cooking fresh yellowfin tuna? Just buy it in a can if that's the taste you want.
Fresh caught yellowfin tuna should be eaten as sashimi ... sliced raw, dipped in soy sauce, wasabi, and served with sliced ginger.
@@mrwonderful612
Cooking yellowfin tuna like you cook a steak rare is extremely different from canned tuna.
You claiming it tastes the same, clearly suggest that you have never tried it.
Far from all of us like pure raw sashimi.
The best way to eat tuna sashimi in my opinion is to sear the outside of it quickly in a hot pan or even better on the grill.
Just like many Japanese prefer it.
And I do not like wasabi at all.
Grilled yellowfin tuna collars are fantastic eating as well.
You are clearly missing out if you only eat yellowfin tuna as totally raw sashimi.
Lol I will stick with my Chicken Adobo, Lumpia and Tinola as well as sinigang. I am so glad I married a filipina who graduated from with a Hotel and Hospitality degree 😁
Item 3. Only visiting tourist hotspots; I agree that's the worst thing you can do. Get out there and meet the people and see the country.
Another trap to avoid. Taxis while drunk and you booked a “grab”, “move it” or one of those apps.
If you’re drunk and alone with them, you run the chance of them trying to take advantage of you and tell you that you didn’t pay yet to see if you’ve forgotten while in your drunk state of mind.
Or, just don't go out and get drunk. If one wants to drink excessively, do that at home base
You should be more concerned about being in India getting ripped you pff
Well done. Meet your Filipina in person. I have been with my Filipino wife 17 years. Met her in the USA. Online does not work.
Is she out of Junior High yet?
Filipinas are small, like most Asians. Don’t be racist
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
i love the courage for speaking foreign language, maraming mang gagaya sayo nyan, basta pinoy asahan mo na.😅
Why do you say don't get a girl pregnant? Most woman in the Philippines are single moms, so the woman obviously don't live by that rule, it's not just the man's responsibility. Most women there from experience would rather have a baby than a husband or boyfriend anyway.
Men and women are not equal. Sometimes we need to lead them away from their emotional bad choices.
@@johnv5156 it's a way of life there, it won't change overnight, it's what they've done all their life. I say just go there have fun be respectful but never anything serious, I've even gotten responses from Filipinos here doing podcasts, they say about 80 percent of the women. there are that way. I told her that seems about right. Of course not 100 percent. But I'm telling you most have an agenda you don't know about.
Smart Girl Philippines you are beautiful and smart 😘
Lechon is fantastic, but get it from a restaurant, not like a food court - you'll notice the difference and be happy you went with quality.
Reine you’re a really good presenter!
Great advice Reine. Thanks for this video.
@@3dmixer552 Reine doesn't have to make sense she is beautiful 😀
I thought about this it all makes sense, maybe you know these but most do make at least one of these mistakes, so actually very useful stuff.
@@zerocarbdoc - Agreed, plus Reine is soo damn cute and sexy.
Great job young lady 👏 blessing
Not that I will be trying to do that, but you need to preach what your saying to your own people
@GentleTraveler-999 well if podcasts are about facts??? All I'll say is that I could be friends and hang out or dare a Filipino ( and I have several) but a serious relationship? Oh no, they all love attention from other men, have alot of men friends ( drama waiting to happen) and are very secretive about things when you're not around, just be careful.
I'm at least grateful that she is trying to warn us
Thank you so much for the great video, very interesting and informative 👍
Another to avoid is drinking with random girls who ask if THEY can go drink with you.
You think you’ll be having a good time and but in truth all they are waiting for is to also see if you’ll take them home with you to have you pay for sex.
And if you don’t want to take them home they’ll get angry and tell you to pay them for their time of hanging out with you.
Who cares pay them and f’’k them. Usually only 1500-2000 pesos
This isn't everywhere. Just the tourist locations with foreigners. Experienced this near a US Navy base (long time ago), though they were more upfront that they were offering a girlfriend rental service.
There's nothing wrong with eating what your body and system are comfortable with. That's being said, I can't wait to get some local food in a few weeks! This next month can't go by fast enough.
I will retire at 56 and come on an investment visa to the Philippines this year. You made me believe that there are very smart girls in the Philippines. I will find my one 35+
I can tell you, it's true. I was lucky enough to find one. And for five years, I was happier than I had ever been. But the fire that burns twice as bright, burns half as long. I lost her in a car accident. Stay safe my friend.
You can choose one 25 !
Good job young lady !! That was very informative!!
American chain restaurants are over priced just like everything else in my home country usa 🇺🇸 so you don’t have to tell me twice when I come to the Philippines I won’t even be in no area where there are chain restaurants I’ll be far away from that crap😅.Thats why I like the Mindanao and Davao region because they do there own thing there not overly developing it and they have a lot of Filipino culture restaurants and events.Manila,bgc,Cebu is a little bit to extra for me in my opinion the southern region of the Philippines is the best 😊.
Just be aware that you don't want to be the only foreigner for miles around because you become a target. Pinoys (can't hold their liquor) get drunk and they talk. Some think we're all rich. Now if you dress and act like a pauper you might be safe. Never flash any signs of wealth. Ever. Unless you live in a gated guarded sub-division, and even then be very careful.
@@conservativeinexile8474Did you get robbed?
Bullshit, if I go to Philippines I don't waste my time in buying cars, renting hotels
and going to turistic places.
I am in control. She can not control me. Because I would give her a kick.
She will try me likes a King.
If she doesn't I would not continue with her.
If she want to be my girlfriend and she is obedient and submisive may be
I would marry her in Philippines.
I would try fine to her family.
I will talk her and let she knows my TRUE intentions.
If she want to be mi loyal girlfriend I will take care of her.
Before she become my girlfriend she will be warned about my intentions.
I wil let she knows what I like and dislike.
Loyalty and family are values I appreciate.
I wilL let her knows everthing.
Then she can decide if all that is fine with her.
But I wouldn't allow she control me.
She can love me, she can advise me, warning me, to take care of me and be condescending girlfriend,
always willing to sneak my needs phsysically and emotionally.
IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY I WILL GIVE HER A KICK
It is called BEING IN CONTROL.
If you are not in control in Phillipines MANY THINGS CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
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If it is honey trap, I am all in. LOL!
Were these the ‘BIGGEST TRAPS”? Is everything OK, Smart Girls? Maybe a day off to recharge your batteries and thoughts?
Yeah, we're tired. Name some traps we can add to our list.
Those Philippine restaurants that you mentioned sounded really good im all of a sudden hungry 🤤
Yes Filipinas are so nice and so sweet and so nice until they don't get wtw
😂 Am going out with one now here in NJ. She get upset but don’t tell me why.😂
Exactly 💯
lmao that's women everywhere.
Number 4 I didn’t know you could do. Just want to visit and see what it is like.
I'm new to this site.. Enjoying the great information and her presentation is fun... She's so damn cute and I love her accent
Guys listen... dont be weird guys... Reine, you are becoming an even bigger attraction than .... Boracay. Dont be weird guys. And yes, I have subscribed and liked..
Why go if you can’t be weird?
I ate mostly Philippines food while there
You're Brilliant, Adorable, And Honest. Thank You. Thank You. Thank You. 🎉💐💜🍀💰💰💰
I live in Angeles, stay at Orchid Inn cheap and great restaurant
I stayed at Orchid Inn 30 years ago. Will be over in a month. I think I will stay at Wild Orchid
Though I love rice... sometimes a little to much... can I get a lot of meat and vegetables dishes in the Philippines?
Yes, mostly it tends to be monkey meat on a stick, And ALL THE VEGETABLES YOU WANT, JUST GO THE THE INSANE ASYLUM...
You can never own land there unless You are a national.
You get married and problem solved.
She's so adorable!!!
Hi,
Good informations.Thx.
Just love your channel and all the hostesses! So entertaining!