Coach Greg Adams on the DANGERS of Single Mothers
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I must really be a rare bird, when I went to iraq at age 40 my wife of 18 years had an affair with my sons dr, she wanted a divorce , though the dr was going to marry her, I took the kids,age 8and 10, finished raising them, put them both thru college, kept the house and land, she paid me child support, no way in hell was I going to let another man take my children, the dr did his thing and then dumped her, of course she wanted back into my home and life , didnt happen
my man 👌👍✌️😎
Dr. Pump and Dump, huh...
@Gurey yes I was very fortunate thank you !!
@@howdydo2108 yep I later thanked him for taking her off my hands lol
@@garyboardwine3349 good look my guy, glad to hear something like this
I wasted 6 years on a girl with two kids. Horrible experience and her parents made my life a living hell. Kids are also teens now and I am nothing to them. No matter what I did and spent. Find a single girl with no kids. It's not worth it.
Lmao
This girl with two kids just broke up with me 😂 wow, did me a favor, all single mothers are promiscuous and unable to pair bond
Same here but I don’t care about her leaving me for a low life thugs I’m focusing on myself and my life 😂😂😂💯
Good morning. I apologize for your experience. It has been a problem that the right people don't want to fix.
The Mothers can fix it but..........
Many rather deal in self pity and confusion.
Same! Dealt with a chick who’s daughter was absolutely terrible! I am so thankful that God removed me from that situation
What's missing in this is how the more single mothers you have the more government programs you have
Good point!
Other way around actually.
And the more taxes we pay and the less competitive we become economically
Women are married to the state.
Women’s interests in usurping control over men (men’s resources) and the government’s interests in constantly growing itself is a match made in hell. If we lived in a patriarchal society like the feminists love to say, the government would be about 1/10th its size.
I was a single mom and I agree with this man. Not all single moms are good women. God Bless Y'all 🙏
More about the men not supporting their kids enough, usually mothers got their role as a mother under control. Men are the ones that need to step up as fathers!
@@thewhyofthings8450 it's always men need to step up how about women stepping up and not wrecking havoc and causing broken families. 70% of divorces initiated by women.
Thank you for being honest @Jireh Lozano
NOPE THEY NOT, I REMEMBER MY MOTHER BLAMING ME AND MY BROTHER FOR THE REASON WHY SHE AIN'T GOT NO MAN 😂😂😂 AND SHE STILL SINGLE AND BY HERSELF RIGHT NOW GOING INTO THE 60S. SHE WAS A CORPORATE WOMAN GOT DEGREES WENT BACK IN HER 40S GET A MASTERS SO WHEN THEY ON THAT PATH DON'T F*** WITH THEM THEY ALREADY CREATED THE DESTRUCTION OF THEIR LIFE PRETTY MUCH.... THIS IS THE OUTCOME OF WOMEN THAT LIKE TO MOVE TOO FAST AND NOT KNOW WHAT THEY DOING
@@thewhyofthings8450 once again another woman dodging accountability
I took a single mother and her son on a date once. That was the closest I ever came to being a step dad. Im never doing that again.
Thanks for sharing. Personal stories have a more lasting impact than charts and data
@@cedpete7434 Because charts and data are basically numbers in art form. Numbers can be manipulated. Personal experience cannot be manipulated.
😂😂😂
Why?
@@newyorkfan16 The guy in the video is surely manipulating the numbers.
Kids should have their father in their lives
@@amyrenee1361 I completely agree with you also women abuse kids unfortunately
I was married for 16 years we have 5 kids together this past July I found out she was having an affair with one of my sons school teachers (she would wait for me to go to work to call him, they would talk all night long) once I brought out the evidence that she was talking to someone else she wanted a divorce, April 20 2021 the divorce will be final. I can only see my kids once a week for a few hours. It’s not about what my kids want because everything is about her and her needs. The kids will suffer the worst
I agree on having a father, my step father is who I acknowledge as my dad. Sometimes the biological father is a horrible, horrible role model.
Everyday life not just every other week end and alternate holidays. There when the kids wake up and there when they go to bed just like mom .
You have to remember, sometimes it ain't the woman fault but the men too. Some men literally walks away from their responsibilities. I see some women get tired asking the man to spend time with the children or offer something to the kids.
Also, even though a man in a child's life, that doesn't mean that the child's life is better. I know someone who is married and she had to pay for everything. Yes both are working but he would only chip in a little after his friends help him spend majority of the money on alcohol.
Wish this guy was a guest speaker at my high school growing up, at my high school the olny gest speakers we had were out of shape feminist telling us to be accepting of others and setting medeocraty as the tone to some how reach our goals.
Devil, that man needs to have some time at battalion first Friday. Young Marines need to hear this shit.
Unfortunately, this will never happen. Doesn't fit the liberal agenda...
@@hjkl4153 q
Glad you were able to sniff out bullshit
Not only schools, he need to be at anywhere where there are young men be it schools or workplaces.
The sad part is I wish coach could give these types of talks to teenagers in school. This will really open their eyes and make them think twice before making dumb ass mistakes. I def could have used this kinda talks in my school. I didn't make too many bad mistakes but hearing this at a early age would have changed my perspective alot more when I was in school.
Love what you do coach keep preaching to all our lost brothers out there
Sad part is, no school would ever ask him to speak. His message doesn't conform to their agenda...
Theyd call resource officers on him. Officers in school another product of feminsm.
Amen praise God
Unfortunately he won't be allowed in.
I was born on 70´s and used to listen it from my uncles at young age, in no way has have crossed my mind to marry a single mother and today is the same message I pass to my 2 boys.
Coach, you have nearly 50K views. IT SHOULD BE 50 million! Thank you for being a voice of reason in a mad world.
This is not a widely accepted message or content. That's why you can't accept huge number of people watching such content.
I grew up with a single mother, and its a trash life that damage you bigtime
I know the feeling, it’s frustrating. My emotions have gotten me into trouble multiple times. Not having a father sucks, I didn’t learn much of anything grow up, had some bad habits developed, and luckily I’ve never been arrested.
Yup... and their plan is to get you to be their son-husband, because they can't get what they want out of a man.
I can second that.
I was raised in a similar environment although my mom did her best I grew up with some deficiencies.
That's actually why I work at Social Services outside the fact that it's a government job with security I get to help people who come from broken homes
And single mother households give me the most amount of trouble
@@m.draven477 My mother didn't do her best, because she refused to submit to my father. That means she failed as a wife and as a mother. A mother who does her best is submissive and virtuous. She doesn't think she knows better than her husband and then leaves him while taking his children away from him.
My father abused my mom on the daily, her being a single mother has nothing to do with it. My dad leaving was better for both of us.
Did nit your mother choose her ?
@@Mark-go7qm Your comment makes absolutely no godamn sense lmao.
@@Instinctive_Link who chose your father ? Take accountability rather blaming on somebody. That is a rightful person do.
@@Mark-go7qm sadly people show there true colors after marriage
@@nicosuniverse7565 take responsibility. And take better choices
I respect any black person that speaks against BLM. The most divisive movement in the world.
BLM is renting space in your brain lol
This guy has Nothing to say about the traitors in CAPITAL HILL !!
@@pp3763 Wake up stupid.
When you don't support BLM as a Black man, you're viewed as an "uncle Tom". 🤷🏿♂️
@islandman692k3 Me neither. 🤷🏿♂️
Just broke up with a single mother, this man speaks facts!
I just did as well today, broke up with a single mother. It ain’t worth it. Grateful to have watched this!
Same here, the disrespect, zero accountability and isolation on her part was insane
@@lmchankins as a woman I don’t talk to anymore ghost her as a hot dog as a real woman who is spiritually I just left her as a friend i lost respect for her totally still not married sadly enough
@@sekonaiuli3821 Why?
I think you guys got the message wrong. Single mothers are bad parents because they are raising kids without a good man. You should be that good man that a single mother need, but you are just like the guy who left her the first time.
My wife had no kids before we got married. Baby mama drama is almost impossible to navigate without two parents willing to work for the best of for their child/children and the people they are dating/married to willing to humble themselves for the sake of the child/children. I have been involved in these horrible situations and I have humbled myself to deal with a part-time father trying to flex on me because he got rims on his car but my Jeep was factory. However, his baby mama was asking me to get their kids something to eat because they were hungry. He wasn’t paying child support according to her and I was always coming out of the pocket and I said to myself “I can do bad all by myself.” And I stopped searching and healed up, Focused on self improvement, Got active in my Church, and then my Future wife appeared almost out of thin air.
deadbeat dads: pay your child support
All those hoes are in church!
I was briefly chatting with a woman on Bumble. Her profile didn't mention kids. I find out after a handful of messages that she's actually a single mom.
What cracked me up is that initially she was saying stuff like "lucky for you" and "if things continue well in your favor" like she was the selector. That was already turning me off.
But then when I discovered she had that mindset as a single mom I couldn't help but laugh. Like taking on a woman with two kids under 10 makes her a prize. It's nuts how delusional single mom's are about their SMV. 💯
The entitlement attitude from these heifers is so disgusting.
Everything he just said should be the mainstream thinking, instead of the false mainstream belief that is going on right now. I applaud anyone who stands against a corrupt system the way this man does. Respect.
Wow! One of the few, rare black men that sees and speaks the truth. I guess he’ll be labeled as a sellout because it doesn’t fit the current narrative of being a victim of everything but ones’ own actions.
NA....for those of us who follows coach Adam's, he always speaks about personal responsibility and accountability! If you go out and do something like impregnate a woman, the thats your situation you gotta man up and deal with it.....can'tput that on no one....
I can tell this statement is from a non black man with limited exposure to black people.
He is a sellout. That's the first thing that came to mind
I am a single mom about to get married and I agree with this post!
He isn’t the few and he isn’t rare. A lot of black men, including me, think like this. You are just a racist and have a narrow minded view of black people in general.
In my house - the only authority figure is me. I am happy to listen but decisions run through me. 25 years later I still have a marriage. Good video Coach.
This is totally true. I dated a single mom and her son was obese, and was literally couldn't make any choices without having a mental breakdown. Her daughter was literally a liberal freak who was into the whole liberal pronoun movement. It was sick shit and I had no ability to say anything. Seeing self destruction at its finest.
Yeah she needs a strong man to lead her, you're not strong enough.
My husband took in my son and I when my son was 7. The ONLY WAY it worked, was for me to lean on my husband's wisdom with my son, and require my son to submit to his step-dad. It was really hard, but my son started calling him dad at 14 and honoring my husband for being the one who was there caring for us and doing the work. Now my son is 20 and thank GOD my husband led him (put him in swim, got him in college, made him a man)
@@ArugaPHNo, she doesn't...She needs to be alone.. No man should sign up for that mess.
@@ArugaPH the "strong men" they choose are Walz types, they are feminist males who are actually lame
We need more men like this and speaking up like this. Keep up the preaching brother
I am a woman, I agree with his message
Well it's the truth so anybody that disagrees just wants to live the lie
I am a woman and I disagree with his message. Oh look at that, not all women think or act the same! What a surprise! Duh! This video is so simplistic and immature...
@@hellocolor101llo5 speaking in general most women dont know what they want.
Truth in a world of lies
Or rather a world of liars...
Dear good single mothers watching this. I’m sincerely glad you chose life. Hopefully your child or children become something great! Touch lives & make you proud.
Thanks
It's pretty obvious that we need both an easily available male contraceptive pill and some serious education. The repercussions of single motherhood are generally catastrophic. Much love though and serious respect to the single mothers that have given it their all ❤️
Thank you. I appreciate it 💯
No, I think that would make men sterile. Female birth control can cause cancer. I'd hate to imagine the same thing happening to men.
Vasectomy is the answer.
Or you can just abstain to avoid the pain from dealing with it. It's not that difficult or complicated to practice abstinence.
Single mothers(widows exempt of course) are a plague on society! What we need is the traditional family to be picked up and supported as the best choice which it obviously is! These ladies just laying on their backs having sex with any random loser is the problem! Giving these perpetual poor decision making females any respect is part of the problem. With all these single moms raising these misled boys too is the problem cause their single mothers probably always tell them they don't need no man. Cut all government handouts and see if anything changes, the government is literally enabling people to want to keep pumping out broken families.
Split with a single mother in January. The most selfish woman I've ever dealt with
Me am dating one she has 3 kids and want me to give her money to her nails while she works and she told me don't know how to take care of a women and also she is selfish
So, I don't have biological children, but I helped raise a girl from roughly the age of 11 on. I remember one day I was driving her to school and she came to the kitchen door with a short skirt on and provocative looking shirt. I said, no way, go and change. She thought I was joking. I wasn't. I said, we are not leaving until you go and change. She did and I drove her to school. She was upset, but I wasn't going to let her go to school looking like that. Maybe she brought those clothes with her and changed immediately at school, I don't know. I just know that I wasn't taking her in an inappropriate outfit. I would also give boys the "evil eye" when we would go out in public. I watched her like a hawk. She got in some trouble, but I was always there to teach and comfort at the right moments. She didn't get pregnant, she graduated, and she is a productive adult. Fathers matter. Positive male role models matter. A father isn't a sperm donor either, a father is a male that choose to be a part of a kid's life and help mentor them, guide them, and educate them. You can choose to be a father or you can choose to be a sperm donor. I don't understand why as a society we bash men and fathers instead of building them up and talking about how important they are to society.
It sounds exactly like a woman wrote this.
@@TheFriendlyPsychopath Huh? Just a sane biological male looking out for a girl he cared about.
@@MNDrummer I'm thinking the both of you need a testosterone patch.
EXACTLY! This is what I've been saying for years but no one wants to listen to it. STOP praising single motherhood and start holding them accountable.
If a father has to fight to see his kids through the courts the question should be...WHY ARE YOU MAKING HIM HAVE TO FIGHT TO SEE HIS CHILDREN, LADIES?????
Because they don't love their children. They love their egos.
I was raised by a single mother from 14 on when my mom left my dad. I can attest to what this man is saying. I dropped out of high school, used drugs, went to jail etc.. all by the age of 18. My mom was a horrible parent and all of this happened to me directly due to her lack of parenting.
Was she a terrible parent before the divorce? Were you problematic before the divorce?
@goranmilic442 sorry to reply so late. She was always a horrible, narcissistic, sociopathic person. However, prior to the divorce (she left the day before I started my freshman year in high school) I was in the national junior honor society, I was active in sports and I had never tried alcohol, marijuana, tobacco etc... I was on track to being an exceptional student in high school. I was always shy though. Even though I was active in school as a middle school student, I didn't have any friends. I blame this on my mother. She kind of kept us at home with no option of going anywhere since we lived outside of the closest town.
you blame your mum and your mum blames hers. This is not the way to end the cycle you just repeated the cycle cuz it was convenient.
Your mother didn't force you to do all these things you willingly decided to and now you use your upbringing as an excuse. I grew up in a very strict none loving home no dad around no mum around.
I grew up with a grandma who portended I didn't exist my whole childhood and she was very abusive and aggressive. But I grew up without doing any of these things you mentioned.
Admit you run for what's convenient you told yourself you were the victim and you felt the need to repel but you only harmed yourself in the end.
@@SaraAm91 sounds like you're a single mother. None of what you said makes any sense. Maybe consider laying off the pills before you type.
@@SaraAm91Everyone is different.
Whether I agree with all of this or not, I applaud his bravery for speaking about this.
Great video coach!
I came from a two parent home, but unfortunately I became part of the single parent statistic. I was a in a 7 year relationship that ended after finding he cheated for ~1 year of that (and is still with). Thankfully he still very much apart of our son's life! I refuse to keep my son away and hope their relationship continues to flourish. I have seen bitter co-parenting relationships and it's sad. I pray my son will make the right decisions and not put himself in this type of situation.
Why did you have a baby without getting married? Why were you having sex unprotected? Why were you with a man for 7 years without getting married? If he was cheating for one year, that still leaves 6 years. You should've been married in 2 years.
@@robertlunderwood who said we should get married in 2 years gap?..marriage means nothing, its just a paper,, only commitment is what it counts,, is this some kind of religious thing,? because i dont understand it,, if someone can explain, pls do so,, thank you
@@karenely3830 Anything over two years with no ring is a waste of time, especially for women who are looking to get married and have children. Women only have about a 10 year window to find a man, get married, and start a family; I think it's wrong to waste a young woman's time.
Marriage does indeed matter if you are raising children. It's the best environment for children. Plus, if something were to happen to one of them, the other can make decisions and has legal protections if they are married. It matters so much that the LGBT community fought for it.
@@robertlunderwood a ring means nothing.. its only commitment that matters, the ring is only a material object that is well taken advantaged by companies that sell them.. we were pushed to buy things to make us happy, and we bought that idea of consuming more an more,, The ring is one of those ideas.. 3 YEARS is what it takes for the brain to stop idealizing another person as our partner. we can see better after 3 years of going out with a person ( fall in love stage). when that stage finish then it becomes in getting in more deep commitments , most people get married in that stage. DONT get married when you are in love. ( because we dont see clearly the other person). Nowadays, women dont need to find a man to get children and there are less women that actually wnat to have children, people stopped doing things that sociaty is telling them to do..there is no wrong or right, . I believe one needs to do what it actually works for oneself, and that will be the right thing to do. cheers
@@karenely3830 And this mentality is why things are so messed up. Life is supposed to be lived in sequence. People who live life out of sequence ruin their lives, their children's lives, and the lives of anyone they or their children hurt.
Coach Adams , you remind me of the Staff Sargent who led our Platoon when I was a young Marine stationed in Okinawa . His name escapes me because that was 40 years ago ! I'm 60 now and can attest through my life experiences that what you speak is the TRUTH . Any young man Black , White , Red , Yellow , Orange , Should LISTEN AND LEARN !
Stop trying to get attention, nobody cares that you volunteered to go to a foreign country to kill men, women, and children, destroy their cities and steal their resources on behalf of the American government.
I've tried for decades to get custody of my daughters. Their mother would leave them and go out clubbing 3 to five times a week. My oldest told me she left them one night and didn't get back home till afternoon the next morning.
She was 8 at the time with a 6 year old and 3 year old. But I'm a male and can't take care of my daughter's because they're girls. The family court is not about family it should be called mothers court.
Is that what the judge told you?
You're a breath of fresh air in a smelly world my friend.
Single mom dating tips:
1. Don’t
2. Her kids are not my financial responsibility
3. Single mothers create the very men feminists they complain about
4. To call a single mom a unicorn is like saying a horse with a bad leg makes a great racing horse
5. Single mothers make life needlessly difficult
6. Single moms should wear a sign that says “Don’t date me I make bad decisions”
7. Single moms raise broken children who grow up to be broken people in a broken society
8. A single mom is a parasite to everything in her environment
9. She makes her life better by making yours worse
10. You can’t please a dead heart
@@nine999nr ruclips.net/video/LcWkY-L-0N8/видео.html
Did you just lie to me?
@@nine999nr most men who go through what they have start to think like I do when you women put them through the shitters and take them to the cleaners
@@nine999nr but it’s on your channel
@@nine999nr take them to the cleaners in alimony, child support, forbid them to see their children and still call them deadbeats and you wonder why I am the way I am towards women? It’s because I see this shit happen time and time again I don’t go near you bimbos because a smart man learns from his mistakes a wise man learns from the mistakes of others.
@@nine999nr you should get rid of that
Went through a divorce and thought I was going to lose my kid 80% of the time. Luckily I have 50% which is still heartbreaking. You need to check the laws of your state and make sure what custody laws are. If you marry evil that will not save you because of the possibility of the law being involved. I was very fortunate and I still think it is awful.
being that involved with the government scares the bejeezus out of me ...although the system is geared for me to "win"
it is too much power the government gives to one parent and the real losers are the children
Just don't get married
I'm so glad I don't have kids. But I'm also happy to say I'll NEVER get married. After reading, seeing and hearing and just witnessing all my friends get married and divorced. Yeah marriage is not for men. Day in and day out the laws are against the men. So it's no purpose for men to marry a woman.
@@1969Makaveli Exactly! You don't need to get the gov't involved to have a meaningful relationship. She has your house, you have yours.
@@billpeart Exactly bro, exactly.
I was raised in a 2 parent home. But it was toxic. Because of our MOTHER!
@@austinatomTV same
I know two women who erased the biological father and replaced him with a boyfriend. It is abusive and dishonest for the child.
They push the fathers out of the home.
In Muslim communities, we don’t have a single motherhood crisis. The relatively few single mothers in our communities are either widows, or women who were lawfully married, conceived children, and whose marriages later ended through lawful divorce. All of us were conceived through marriage, and all of us know who are fathers are. You and your children deserve the same. Brothers: embrace Islam-the last bastion of unapologetic masculinity left standing in this world, and the last one with a chance of surviving.
If there's to be a movement for a resurgence of masculinity...this man should be in the forefront. He embodies strength.
The other problem with single mothers is they think they are the prize. No boo.. You lost that when you had kids.
In honest truth you never really had it. Men ARE the prize.
You need to realize as a MN you are the prize.
Men built LITERALLY everything on this planet and women were there to heal your wounds on you can go back then next day and o it again.
Argue with the phone you're holding built by men and internet built by men sitting on the chair built by men, in the house built by men. You get the gist.
Coach putting in work!
Go brother ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
I'm 58 years old single and have escaped all of this. as I've gone through my life when I was younger and dated girls I saw what was happening and got more cautious to commit because of all this recklessness with women. There are a lot of women out there that cannot conceive what is a good man. having kids out of wedlock. it's unbelievable what is happening in our society. I'm a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ and I read my Bible and everything he says is coming to pass. it's very sad to see those statistics because we are sexually driven society. God has the marriage plan in the Bible but people are not obeying God an our society is crumbling.
Thanks Coach spitting facts as usual
After British left India, we were one of the poor contries. We lost everything and was systematically destroyed. The one thing the made us a stronger to come so powerful is our CULTURE that preserved thousands of years in this land. MORAL: The most powerful country (USA) was built to self destruct itself. The state or federal cannot or should have limited interference with family and relationship. Rather than it encourages the destruction by using feminism and making MEN weak. When MEN becomes weak in society, the society will falls slowly.
God will never fall Amen
@@iminlove1148religion is used to serve women and to trap men in a mental landscape that keeps them a slave to anything but themselves
I love the way coach inspires others and I believe most of what he says is absolutely true. I would like to respectfully say that there is another side to this coin.
These men that grow up with single mothers for lack of a better term become "sassy men". Sassy Men are men who grow up with feminine traits and lack guidance from a man. They can be handsome, muscular, successful but Its not about looks or status. These dudes are the guys who go out mess up the game and create more single mothers.
We have to start checking men at the door and helping them become more masculine and in turn become better men. Not alpha, not aggressive but Masculine. Making wiser decisions, recognizing your strengths and talents and capitalizing on them.
Stay sharp and stay safe.
Some aggression is good.
Remember back in the 1980s? Many young girls wanted to be mothers. Well they got them. No man around. Hardly. Back in the 70s, if a high school girl got pregnant she was hauled off to a school called Siesis. You never saw her no more at high school. Now, I graduated in 79. In the 80s, my high school had a nursery. Girls pushing strollers to school.
That's true 70s to 80s was a huge change WTF caused it?
@@jamiecrawford8133 Feminist movement
@@kittykitkat4968 spawned by Cultural Marxism.
Incredible. It is common sense, but lead the way with others man, it’s actually inspirational these days.
This was better than I expected no cap
The first 30 seconds of this video is a truth bomb.
The coach tells the truth!
When he said if you have a father in the house you not gonna let your daughters do this, I’m literally shaking my head no
You sir, are a TRUE American Hero. God bless you Greg.
I mean... you really think there wouldn't have been more divorces back then if women could have escaped abusive situations? I think you're oversimplifying the issue. Its true that there where less single mothers but at what cost. I still see the damage some friends have from having both parents in the same household hating each other every day. Is that better than single parenting? I really don't think so.
Your point doesn't change the facts. Most...I said most of the time there are more positive on being raised in a two parent home.
Thank you for this comment
Women typically get most of everything in a divorce. What is their incentive for working out the relationship if things go bad? Now they just leave. You'll find that most of the time men are willing to work on a marriage. But, women have no reason to as they will usually make out better and just push the man to the curb.
Finally someone with sense
I have nothing to say but 💯💯💯💯💯 for this comment
What us men need to do is being loyal to each other and dismantle the Single mom welfare state. It destroys child's future and makes women horrible.
I was a Special Education major as a university student. I had at least one field placement in a local school almost every fall/spring semester. I tutored and babysat local children who lived in two parent homes. I taught in bottom ranked inner city schools for four years. Most of the students I professionally taught were raised by single mothers. I have seen repeatedly that children raised by single mothers tend to have more behavioral problems and be farther behind academically. I was raised by a volatile mother. I know I didn't become a drug addicted woman with babies born to loser men out of wedlock because I had my father in my life.
funny i am working in this feild in the early childhood education i can tell you i see single mother doing this at my employments
What a great speech with alarming data! Thanks!
An intelligent and brave man to say all this - he knows it needs to be said.
I'm Lorenzo, Italian and activist for the defense of the rights of the male gender. I share the principles of the MGTOW philosophy but it needs to be improved, in my opinion, by sensitizing all men and boys to never donate sperm, vice versa we give another weapon in the hands of women who can decide to have children even without a father, maybe even choosing the sex, obviously female. Therefore, please continuously and obsessively spread the advice to all men and boys to NEVER donate sperm to the sperm bank. NEVER.
I think they do it because they figure if they're going to jack off they might as well get paid for it.
True
Saving lives, Coach. Rock on
Love how he called out Cuties, this man is the real deal
My father is a doctor, my mother is a housewife, I own a medical company, I am also a doctor, I am an Asian, I give everyone a suggestion to associate with a single mother, and wait until her finances depend on you. Lose her, it will be fun
Damnnnnn Brotha
The Asian Chad
Where in Asia? I'm south east.. Malaysia
His dad is Chuck Norris
In my community it's like condoms are foreign. They think its lame to wear protection. My niece just had a kid and not with the father now smh.
I would've made sure to instill in her dont get pregnant by one of these smooth talking boys cause you'll be stuck by yourself and when you get yourself together and find someone mature you'll have baggage
your niece just as bad as that dude lol
@@hopelove897 true.
Have state legislatures and Congress asked this man to testify when they are looking for input on how to fix things in our nation? If we really cared about our urban cities and children then we would do things to foster 2 parent homes with strong fathers and we would stop trying to destroy the family unit and making men out to be evil and/or worthless.
One thing unmarried women don’t mean single.There’s couples who are together who are unmarried and also there’s live in couples.Also there’s coparenting(done by people from all demographics).Ex Trump hasn’t been married to the mother of his first 3 kids for 30 years but he’s always been a present father.
I have these single mom we have been dating for four years. She has a daughter who is sixteen. The problem i have is she wants me to be providing every time for her. She will always call me and tells me shes hungry and i keep asking myself so if you dont have a boyfriend you wont eat. Please help me. My problem is i dont want someone who is 40yrs old depending on me like a child
Got to go wife just walked into the room, thanks coach!
Dont leave, tell her to sit down and watch!
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She was probably in the other room trying to decide when to divorce grape you 😜
My wife doesn't care to listen, I could have this on full blast.
Everything this man said was absolutely true. Especially about the henpecked relationships. 🤦🏽♀️
This is good stuff that should be taught to young men.
Thank the lord somebody is finally speaking reason on this subject.
THANK . You COACH.
Excellent and informative…thank you for being real and unWOKE! Fathers aren’t given any credit anymore and young men don’t know how! Your lecture on SON-HUSBAND is spot on 👍 I hope that one day you and Shapiro can have a discussion online….that would be great! Or with Candace Owen .
I am a single mother of a special needs child my ex husband thought aggression equated masculine energy when our child was diagnosed he had an affair and emotionally checked out wouldn’t go to our church marriage counselor or do anything to preserve our family. There are many women like myself who step up when there so called partner abandons responsibility. It’s really disappointing because he became a different person.
I'm sorry for your situation, but he didn't become a different person - please don't lie to yourself. You may have been unable or unwilling to see the red flags at the time, but you even wrote about one just now- 'my ex thought aggession equals masculine energy'. You didn't say assertiveness, or confidence, or leadership. You said aggression...
You may have been turned on by that at the time, I don't know. But regular unhealthy aggession we both know isn't good.
You chose a bad one then it seems - hope you can learn, or learnt, why.
The other side of this coin is young women being neglected in their education about mating with bad eggs, and why they're attracted to guys that will hurt them, and what they can do about that before the s hits the fan, I fully agree they need much more info and support on this, in some places.
@@JohnDoe-xk1dv your right there were some red flags that I overlooked because I believed in his potential and didn’t realize he has a narcissistic personality, the aggression didn’t start until after her diagnosis. But there are so many women who are single mothers who shouldn’t be ostracized or criticized, parenting is hard enough.
@@beingmimi1717 narcissistic personality - boy, you had one there - again, sorry. Glad you escaped (of sorts) then, and your child hopefully too. But I've worked long term in mental health field. PDs sorry to say from the research don't start typically in later adulthood: they start far sooner, and especially narcissism. Something is missing here.
Were you attracted to the Machiavellian Triad? If so, really hope that's been understood since, and the dangers that can cause - and sounds like that guy could have been a potential poster boy for it.
I totally agree as well it's not about ostracizing or hating single mums... but immune from criticism, at all? Come on, please don't try and pull that one here, if that's the case. That'd be lying to ourselves again.
Unfairly criticised, yes - but some criticisms are legit. They're difficult to hear for sure, but people shutting their ears to it is hurting all of us - women and men alike.
A percentage of single mothers are going to be great, but some are terrible, related to their circumstances - same for the single fathers too.
Peace 👌 🤞
@@JohnDoe-xk1dv He definitely used masking and after our daughter he unmasked, he like most narcissist would decline counseling and any therapy. I am not a psychologist but I know he fits some of the criteria in DSM5, for personality disorder. I was definitely not attracted to any triad he mirrored a lot of my personality which of course made me feel comfortable with him. But yes you escape but never unscathed! As far as criticism goes no one is above criticism, but I also feel in our community we lack humility and empathy for each other, so an honest critique can never be heard because it’s seen as an attack. But that’s just my opinion, peace to you 😌
Coach Greg Adams is the example by which we must learn. Following in the footsteps of Tom Leykis. Thank You Coach!! Hope to meet You down the road to personally say Thanks!! #CoachGang
Excellent message you have my respect
WOW… men and women needs to stop the blame game. It takes two to tangle. The government in family affairs due to neglect of a parent (s) who are not properly providing for the single family unit. Its about the child(ren). The child(ren) usually suffers the negative effects of bad relationships, decrease self esteem, poverty etc. Thus causes the breakdown of the unit, lack of support where it gets financially, emotionally, physically hard/challenging etc for one parent family. The government may offer help financially or social programs etc but its not enough for the single family to escape poverty etc. The entrapment begins and passes down to generations to generations. The stigmas, social castings etc that single parent encounter in society is unbelievable destructive towards/ or for the single family. The government/state steps in to dictate whats goes on in the family life/affairs. It takes a village to raise a child so where’s everyone at when the family in crisis, in need, in trouble etc ? It should be everyone responsibility to ensure the family stays intact not the government. . Let’s break these generational sins & curses off our family. It begins with the parents to provide on all levels for the child/family. Men arise and take divine places/roles in the family/society to provide on all levels. Women allow men in the child(ren) lives so they can build a positive relationships. Parents stop being bitter of the relationships do not workout. Seek God and help your child(ren) to be productive member(s) of society. Thus in produce healthy family structure.
Thanks CGA
Thanks Coach. Seriously.
Good because I am not inviting to strange men being around my children anyway. Who knows what types of criminal background child sexual abuse they've committed. I prefer to keep my relationship OUTSIDE AWAY from my private life.
So good thanks for this. Not all of us are looking for a step dad.
I lead 2 sons into adulthood, into AUTO TECH school, a Sports Coordinator currently, also a college Grad.
Hats off 💯💪🏾
Get'em outta Auto tech buddy. That's a dead end career. There is a reason theres a nation wide technician shortage and it isn't due to peoples lack of interest in cars. Look I am a master tech at a dealership. They charge 165 bucks per labor hour. Now being the one doing 95% of the work and a master tech how much do you think I get out of that 165? Less than fifty bucks.
Coach Greg one of the OG's in the game
I'm a single mother and I am so thankful this is not my reality for my family. My girls straight A students and very kind.
Yo I'm glad I'm not the only 1 realizing this
Saddly in NZ single motherhood in certain parts of our society strive for it because all the benefits available to them and they don't have to work , its pretty rife under the surface ..
But scareyly solo fathers arnt able to get the same benefits,. And usually not with out a fight just to get the basics ..
men should just leave that country
take a shot everytime coach says Chad and Tyrone
When the father is absent, the State becomes the father figure.
Exactly 💯
This man is spitting pure facts 👏
I feel really bad for the kids who grow up this way. You can’t even do anything about it because the mothers don’t even want to hear it and always think they’re right and like we all know they have the law, goverment, etc on their side so the chances of even getting through to them is really basically none.
They don’t care if it damages their children, they’ll call it empowerment, and say that no one tells them what to do….things like that.
That’s the worst part. They have such a huge ego that they can’t even fathom that maybe just maybe it’s actually true and these girls and boys need their fathers.
Most of these single mothers were also the product of either shitty parents or absent parents.
It genuinely makes me feel awful because these kids will grow up and not even understand that they grew up this way until maybe one of them has problems and actually decides to break the cycle by bettering themselves. And even then they might not be able to stop it anyways.
Sad af these mothers out here care more about hoeing around instead of their childrens future.
Both genders are to blame but really these women out here got way too addicted to social media and the validation/attention they crave so badly.
No, WOMEN are to blame. The law, government and society backs up women. Men are not going around thinking the world owes them something, simply because they're men.
Thank you, brother!
Great speech.
Also, single fathers are sympathized with and applauded for raising children, while single moms receive all the heat.
In my city, it's more 99% of children are born to unwed women, and they ALL end up single single mother talking about "there's no more good men out there."
Sounds about right
I avoid dating single moms no way!
@lianna
Exactlty you said that very wel! By the way i am so succesful and rich and happy in life. And i have the love of my dreams😁
@lianna
That are your words. Enjoy for being right. I rather choose to be rich.
This needs to be shown to all my friends who’s fathers walked out on them
Nah needs to be shown to their mommas bro lol
@@Citylifesteve most of the time the mothers didn’t do anything. Men just didn’t step up and take responsibility for being a child into the world. At least the mothers I know don’t leave and take responsibility
@@Citylifesteve cause men are exempt from responsibility...more societal bullshit
"most of the time the mothers didn't do anything"
I agree. That's why they're single mothers. They didn't try to fix the problems.
@@blahblahblah3083 Lmao.
They didn't bring a child into the world, the Mothers did. Unles they were married, the men didn't consent to being parents. Women control reproduction, women can get abortion, men cannot. That's before we get to all the ways in which women deliberately make it hard for Father who do want to be Fathers to take on that role equally.
It's a woman's responsibility to select a capable and WILLING man to procreate with. And then it's their responsibility to give him equal power over the child. Their body, their choice, their responsibility.
Even with all that, women are legally entitled to child support and it's men paying the taxes which support single parents and their kids. So men are paying one way or the other.
I was in a four year relationship with a single mom. Never never will I do that again. Nothing but headaches and problems. This guy is 100 percent correct
I noted that many ppl said step father line the last under the single mum mind.. Let said, if the bio father of the kids come back to the single mum, would the mum turn and put the bio father as first priority?
@@tommywong9056 sometimes. No guarantees in anything. But the advice is to avoid unnecessary nuclear drama and risk. Nightmares.
What u are saying is making so much sense u are doing a great job god bless u
The dangers of single fathers.