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Dude I am married for 10 years and already abide by 90% of of this advice. I learned it the hard way. You are always spot on. This female needs to stand and look her self deeply in the mirror with this one.
Sir. How do we get to your recommend reading list?
Entrepreneurs in Cars , Fantastically informative video. Can you add a few vids in your mix that focus on the Entrepreneurial spirit /mindset and pursuit of bettering yourself (health, skills, appearance etc) such as what to focus on, whys and hows etc. Basically, how to pursue excellence vids mixed in with these awakening videos that help us let go of our past and avoid repeating mistakes.
"If you love someone, set them free. If they return they're yours, if they don't then they were never yours to begin with"
Hay man. Good job keep waking more men up
My ex cheated on me and said she didn’t “really love me because I would never be successful.” Found out a couple months ago her banker husband cheated on her. Hahahahahaha
Money money money....money money...if women could they would prolly have sex with money...my ex left me for the same reason....even if you’re making enough money they could find a firefighter or police who may be a hot fuck for them. Pussy and money is what dating is about....
@@tharpeaddy Women seek SECURITY - Men seek to change the (or at least THEIR) world!
A true American revenge story. Warms my heart
Hope the bloke didn't knock her up cause like it or not he'll still have to pay up if he knocked her up
They forget karma exist
He's not good with money.... Translation: He's not giving enough of it to me!
Or he's not making enough to pay my way. Either way, it's all about her in the end.
or he spends on something that she doesn't deem valuable i.e. his car or his hobby...🤔😉
So right dude
If he pays HIS bills and spends money on his passion - regardless of what it is - then he’s good with money.
Good one
⚠️ *Never swim where other men have drowned.* -Single moms-
That landed like an atom bomb 😅
Amen rod 100%
Dude! The Savage Truth! Wish I'd have known this 40 years ago...
Truth brother, Truth.
Big homie I’m stealing that my man, hilarious.
"He's amazing and I don't wanna lose him, but he's also not good enough."
Options. Women love em.
She is a textbook example of narcissism (probably balled together with a few other "isms")...
The short version of her story:
She lost the best man she was ever going to get, because she overestimated her own value (destroying his life in the process).
Now, she has "settled" for the best man she'll ever find to replace him, who is (unsurprisingly) a bit of a "beta".
And lastly, she wants to raise the new man's value, just enough to make him "a better catch" for HER, but not enough for him to notice that HE IS TOO GOOD FOR HER. (Narcissism/gaslighting/etc.)
There is only one word that I have to describe women like her, but I generally won't type it on the internet, because it is too (ahem) "blunt".
Modern-day American women in a nutshell. Ain't nothin' ever good enough.
They always have to say things like "he's amazing" to preface whatever they are going to say to district you from the fact they do not in fact find the guy amazing. When women find a guy amazing they do not have a laundry list of things he needs to work on.
“I really like this guy... lemme ruin this real quick”
"How do I encourage him to develop a masculine frame, while still keeping him under my thumb?" A woman's insecurity will make her the crab in a bucket pulling a man down into beta submission. Mothers do this to sons, girlfriends do this to boyfriends and wives do this to husbands. To alleviate her insecurity, she will pull you down to where no woman desires you, and eventually she'll kick you to the curb. Solution: Don't let her insecurity dictate your frame.
Thank you sir
Wow!!!!unbelievable but true.
don't forget the attention-seeking sister, she and mom both pull you down. Sister throws you under the bus 🚌 with her sob stories, while mom thinks she kicked you to the side just to pretend that she cares for you.
This happened to me almost verbatim.... I am trying figure out how to get myself back up on top, while dealing with breaking my back 2 times in life, so my pain to gain scale is a bit rough to deal with. Any advice for my situation would be helpful?
@@wadestanion4617 my brother, the 4 pronged approach for mental , physical, emotional and financial. 1.(mental )withdraw into your shell.(nothing like a hurt lion licking his wounds like badges of failure).
2. (physical) Start carpentry, craft or any other creative work(helps fight depression and tempers revenge). Be fit and goal is 6 pac-abs.
3. (emotional)Remind yourself of the hurt(helps boost memory and discipline).
4.(financial) Learn legal codes and "be prepared for revenge". New career skill. Cut up your credit cards and useless spending.
Coz when its time for revenge, you'll be looking too good.
living on my moms basement after my company went bankrupt i can vouch 100% on this one. I just do my best to ignore it while i'm working on a new business so i can GTFO ASAP!
"Women don't cheat on guys that they value" - precisely.
Problem is, your value is constantly changing in their eyes, thus the saying... She's not yours it's just your turn.
@@porgyjr.7737 I think the bigger point is that women typically no longer value men at all. They only look for what they can gain by attaching themselves to us.
@@KingKoopa1 Yes, exactly. Man it's rough out here. But if a man can accept the truth, things aren't so hard to navigate, I think things are clear for the fully intiated.
"First your exciting, adventurous and funny so the complaining you don't take thing serious, if you then change and becomes dead serious on things you have become boring in her eyes and don't work hard enough on whats important to get, so you work harder and give her more attention, then she thinks your'e to clingy...............................................
and on and on, when you meet a woman like that you can never be enough whoever you are, it's better you do your thing instead and see if there is someone that likes you as you are, but try them hard if they had keep up with you and you watched up with all their manipulative narcistic bullshit rethorics some of them have, always check her real reaction and actions instead letting her infiltrate and indoctrinate your mind on how you should think about her, so many "storytellers" out there that you don't want to waist your time, money, life on.
It's impossible for them to value anything other than themselves. So they all cheat.
My theory, men are not afraid of dying alone, men are afraid of living in misery. Don’t settle for women like this.
When the bell tolls we're ALL alone.
Ha! I've been saying that for years. There are a couple old hermits that live alone on my street. My wife says it's her worst nightmare to end up that way. But for me...it's looking better and better each day!
Well it looks like a lot of women are going to end up dying alone
Not Fear, Wisdom man.
Amen!! They don't want to die having wasted all their time
A year ago, in my college, every girl who I met/in my class said pretty much "I wouldn't date you but you'd be a great husband because you're sweet, can cook, you're responsible etc".
That felt out of place and till now, I haven't really understood it.
Fast forward a year later when I'm making a decent amount of money and travelling here and there (before the pandemic) and every girl is asking me "are you seeing anyone?"
I don't think I'll date for a couple of years for now.
I had the same thing occur, had it happen even when dating in my 20s. Then I just stopped at 27. Once most of them hit 30 and up they have been calling, texting and messaging me on social media. I just tell them I no longer date and I do not date ex-gfs because there's a reason why they are an ex. Almost all give me a compliment and then tell me they made a mistake, once they find I won't budge or won't meet with them they get nasty.
@@cedric3973 hey bro don’t ever go back. Your spot on. That’s why they get nasty bc they aren’t getting their way and I’ll be honest your not the only guy realizing this /she’s trying to get chad to commit too.
Plus if you couldn’t get them to commit/communicate/ see I were worth it back then/ she couldn’t come to a compromise in a relationship then she won’t down the road.
My point in sharing I had a couple women do that to me from 18-30 I just laughed not worth my time. I’m 31 almost 32 and a few women know I’m finally figuring it out (finishing college) and starting my career now these women who have been ran through/ have kids/ weren’t “totally sure about us” hav been chatting me up lately no thanks.
Sums it up perfectly.
No concern for her child's upbringing. Only her own selfish desires being met.
Yep my flower first with chad the child (oh crap chad dont care about my daughter)
She'll drag every Chad in town through her child's home and think nothing of it. It's all about her.
That's the lie. Being "happy" now is about satisfying urges not finding inner peace.
Excellent observation
@@cman101892 100%!
He’s not good with money , I’ll never be able to get alimony and child support from him
Boom. They just at guys as an ATM
Hard pass on single moms. No matter how beautiful they think they are.
@Dacia Sandero guys Single moms are great f for the guys who are snipped. No doubt.
@Jordan Decker 😭😭 tears of joy
@sean flemming dont get snipped
@sean flemming do not get snipped
@sean flemming i wouldnt get snipped because i think it changes you. I believe it lowers your sexdrive and cjanges your behaviour. Even if it doesnt lower your T, something is still different. You do you, i woukdnt do ot.. just use a condom its 99%
My ex, just before the divorce was finished once said, "I will forgive you for anything you have done, don't go!" She had no concept that I filed divorce not because of what I had done, but her!
Shes trying to emasculate him under the guise of helping him. Imagine hearing that your girl is going to another guy to try to help you become more masculine.
OUCH !
Try and imagine if it were reversed and he gave her a certificate for pole dancing lessons lmao 😂
You want your guy to be more dominant and masculine, try being submissive and feminine
exactly. give her a quick boot out the door.
Imagine if dude were to hit up some fitness channels for advice on how he can make his girl less fat and more feminine
I find it funny that when she's tired of trying to nag him, she's nagging you to nag him.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂effin gold . Level 1000 right there
LOL, BEST COMMENT ON HERE
Yep !! Insane
She will end up cheating again .
Yep!
Word.
"She'll end up cheating again." Yes. Most certainly. First thing I thought about. Then again, at least the dog will have some fun.
Exactly.
Yeah he wont know the sex is good hahaha yeh yeh superman sex
Can you imagine being that boyfriend? He's not enough, she wants him to improve BUT NOT TOOOOO MUCH because she might lose him.
Walking the razors edge, if he improves too much he leaves her, she is nuts
She is gaslighting him.
"Can't allow him to realize his worth or he may notice that I'm not good enough for him."
That’s what you guys are teaching men to do to women.
Daam! This is my story! I was always trying to improve and she pushing me donw! Why???? Afterall Hypergamy is not about have the best? I was working on it day by day!
= covert narcissist 1.0
98% of redpill is about narcissism and men with codependency dissorder
What she doesn't understand is that her beta boyfriend cannot become an alpha because even if he was an alpha, getting with a single mom makes you a beta. Catch 22
Oh the irony; I laughed my arse off as soon as I read ".... dating a single mom". I knew right there what you were getting at 👍 Check and mate, point well made brother
I think she secretly suspects it too hence why EIC says she has a conundrum. Had to laugh when he read out her wishful thinking. Wants to build the beta to be like an alpha but not have become cognizant that he will then appeal to a lot more women. Well I guess she has a better shot at pulling it off then trying to snag an alpha right off the mark.
Bingo! Right on point
BINGO!!!
Only LTR
When did being a single mother be some kind of virtue? My congresswoman features her single-motherhood prominently in her political campaign ads. Single-motherhood is now equivalent to military veteran status.
True. They are put on a pedestal for some bizarre reason.
Please don't insult our military and Confused hypergamy with patriotism. Politicians? Now there's a fantasy world. Not quite as bad as Hollywood but darn close
I was a single dad who raised my daughter on my own where's my trophy 🏆
you can't have a revolution without chaos, and nothing creates chaos like single moms....there's a reason it's one of the Big Ten's "don'ts".
Its supposed to be because its "hard" yet if its that hard why do sonmany women choose to be single mothers? Oh bc they get the brownie points.
We really need to bring back some shame to being a baby mama
He's not good with money. Translation: He doesn't make enough to buy me everything I want when I want it.
Maybe she pays bis bills.
She wasn t very precise what exactly meant "not good with money"
Lol
Rich you’re a valuable guy.
this woman sounds like she doesn’t want to take complete responsibility for her actions. And she’s taught not to by feminism.
Basically a modern woman.
She F'ed up royally by cheating on the last guy and now she's trying to move on with her life like it didn't happen so she can be "happy", whatever the hell that means for her. See, she spent a long time punishing herself and regretting it and fretting over the emotional harm it did to the guy she cheated on.....JUST KIDDING! She got over it before she even did it! Because femenazis taught her that she should never have to pay for or accept responsibility for her mistakes, but if she were cheated on, the guy that did it would deserve to "lose EVERYTHING AND DIE, DIE, DIIIIIE!!!!" Because that's how dumb, self absorbed b!©hes think.
Feminism doesn't do that lol
@@Space_Cadet13 Yes it does lol
@@Space_Cadet13 Absolutely, feminism is simply the pony she rides into the realm of self-entitlement. These days though, the saddles seem to be somewhat loose.
“Build a better beta” had me rolling 😂
Build back better!
Like tunning a crappy car 😹
Rip him into a new beta
She: looks like a good beta, hope i can change/upgrade him.
Reality: she changes to a nagging bitch. And weaponizes sex😂
Him: she seems like a hot nice girl and finaly a girl thats not like the rest!. I hope she don’t change!
Reality: he turns from a avrage man, to a stressed, fat, delusional, bitter lower beta 😂
Maybe he handles his money fine for himself. Sounds like she wants advice about handling his money for him.
My theory: A beta chump whose good with money wouldn't be with her. She probably doesn't like that he spends money on junk FOR HIMSELF while she wants him to save money for HER and HER KIDS. She doesn't like that he has a decent job that pays him well FOR HIMSELF because if he worked harder, he could make more money FOR HER. If he was bumming money off of her SHE'D HAVE SAID THAT. She's upset he doesn't want to be an alpha male earner with beta male generosity. As a side observation: alphas I know are cheap. One alpha I know would go to target, get a boombox, take it to his fishing trip for a week out of the year, and box it up again and return it (he said he didn't use it otherwise.) Why should alphas spend money on chicks when they get chicks for free?!?!
@@PolishKnightUSA Yep. Female logic. They think prince charming is gonna rescue them and another mans kids.
Guy has a decent average or slightly above average income that he doesn't blow away on bullshit.
Women goggles: *not good with money*
“I have no interest in cheating on him because I don’t want anybody to go through that ever again.”
Translation: “I don’t want to try to find someone I think I deserve because I’m afraid this is the best I’m gonna get, and I don’t want be alone.”
*BINGO* *_Right on!_*
Correct
@Life of Attenborough Wahmen like this never see the karma coming, that's the entire emphasis behind "where did all the good men go?"
I think it’s that and also she wants him to basically just check off new boxes she magically added and wasn’t aware of to her checklist. I had plenty of kw,en tell me I’m all and everything next thing I know they’re banging Kevin in sales. I was perfect at first...now I don’t make enough money, have my own place, etc...but at first I was everything....
...the last straw for her...
"Dating a guy I really like but I want to change (improve) him".
As Bill Burr said " Why are we always working on me, as if she's the finished product".
Because Daddy told her she was the finished product when she was 6.
Ain't that the truth.
Never date a single mother
@The Abstract.... I told my sons/grand son the very same thing.
I also gave my grand daughters that same advice about the men they date..
Single parents have a LOT of baggage with very little to give to a new "friend".
Never
Dating a single mom is like someone who tries to get their insurance company to cover a pre-existing condition.
@Daves Semuels Still disagree.
Any single person with kids has BAGGAGE.
"Adult children" will always be afraid Daddy's new gf is gonna take away "their" money or Daddy's new wife will "get" their inheritance.
I know a middle aged man who became a stepdad 30 years ago. The daughter became a big thot. Now he’s taking care of her two kids from different dads. I’m sure he loves his step grandkids but I’m sure wouldn’t have signed up for that had he known lol
Dating single female Pecking order:
Kids
Parents
Grandparents
Siblings
Best friends
Personal trainer
Boss
Way down the line
There you are
Cheers
Correction:.
Your money
Kids
Parents
Grandparents
Etc
Etc
You
TRUTH.
Pets rank right up there as well.
You forgot pets.
I’ve said for years, if mama ain’t happy no one is happy, if daddy ain’t happy who gives a fuck
A woman like her that wants a so called "more dominant male" would only raise the bar of impossible expectations further. Rather than be submissive and more attractive to her "new more dominant male" she would take it as competition and cheat out of insecurity once again. When she said "I don't want to cheat on him" you might as well include YET at the end of that sentence. The narcissism is strong Obi Wan.
...many women are confused and don't know what they want...
That os so true!
Cheated on her Boyfriend who she loved: RED FLAG !
BIg Red Flag!!!🚩👍
*Claims she loved.
If that's how she love...I'd rather have hate💯
NEVER get involved with a known cheater.
At least... not beyond a serious, long term relationship lasting for one night only 😊🤗
He also spoke of men cheating on their wives and coming home and still love them...?🤷🏽♀️ the world is truly morally fucked
You are so right. When a woman is satisfied, other men are invisible to her.
Ive been divorced for 20 yrs after 2 marriiages lasting 19 yrs! And the last had 2 brats! Ive never regretted being divorced and living better! I have money now and its quiet!
My father once described the attitude of my mother towards family finances. In her own words, "What's yours is mine, and what's mine is mine".
Most women think this way, and it is the reason why most married/LTR couples will have joint bank accounts where the man's salary is deposited into, and all household bills and mortgage payments are paid from. Most of the women in these relationships will also have a separate (and often undeclared to their spouse) bank account on the side which contains "their money". Smart unplugged men will also keep their own money separate too, as put simply; IT IS THEIR OWN MONEY!
Spot-on observation. Many women view themselves as 'complete', whereas the guy is always something of a 'work in-progress'.
Often when you meet her children her value goes to zero.
You mean sub-zero since she was already at zero because of kids, right?
being a child of a single mom is hard,(it wasn't because of feminism,it was because of domestic violence from my dad)she brings multiple guys a week while i play on my xbox
She doesn't want to boost him up, she wants to put him down so he feels insecure enough about himself to stay with her. At the same time, she wants him "fixed" to her exact specifications. All the while, he views himself as somewhat inadequate and in need of her guidance while she reaps all the benefits of a good man. Classic manipulation.
narcissism
@@caitm8209...
Exactly... and actively gaslighting.
From a reforming beta male who has been in this situation multiple times: RUN DON'T WALK.
Never run, just be polite, say "No" and walk away.
Leaving her without an argument will do her head in till she figures another angle.
Easy to change your no to yes, but you are stuffed if you think you can say yes and expect her to accept you changing your yes to no later.
Say "NO" and go do your own stuff. Smile knowing she will try again. If she doesn't .... Give her the backseat for your attention.
Investing in a single mom is like investing in a totaled car with a salvage title
Facts
One of the most accurate description I have ever heard! Well said...
I guess you Were raised by your mom and your father?
I totally agree....but, I got a really good deal on an '05 Silverado salvage. I LOVE that truck. So, I maybe it's like a side piece with no strings attached?
More like a moped...
"How do I get my guy to improve without leaving me?"
"Be better yourself?"
"H E R E S Y"
🤣
This is so accurate.
Did somebody say HERESY?
- Imperial Inquisition
For real though. Shes like im afraid when he sees how amazing he is hell leave me. Then youd better be hitting that gym, breaking out that cook book, and have him LIMPING from all the sex you give him
I know a guy in my building who is in his 20+ and dates a single mother with three kids... lol
Poor bastard.
I think you hit the nail on the head with her request. She wants free advice and its only someone else's problem, nothing is free kids and at the center of all your problems in life is yourself...you ARE the problem, so fix yourself.
I've said plenty of times CHOICES always have consequences. Be ready to pay them. Yet they keep being stupid.
@@fabiomoreira5820...
That's the problem with "modern" women...
They want "all play, no pay".
It's never okay for men or women to cheat
@GIGN Any Mission Any Time sad but this statement is so true.
Convert to Islam or Mormanism and get a second wife. Its not cheating.
@@yorgenibnstrangle3072 😂😂😂 I hate to break it to you but Mormons don't actually do that anymore. It's the polygamists you're talking about; they're not Mormons anymore even though they claim to believe in the same thing.
That's definitely not a life I'd want to be apart of though. It's sad to see them.
@@NaviO.o No true scotsman
A cultural ideal.
Evolutionary biology disagrees...
"I have to consider my actions and discover how they have impacted the situation" was never said by a woman, ever.
Nor a man.
@@ensignmjs7058 Wrong.
Exactly. My ex cheated on me blames everyone but herself. Women will never accept they made a mistake.
Since she doesn’t want him to learn enough to leave her, she doesn’t truly want what’s best for him she wants what’s good for her at his expense, how selfish.
Just about every man over 25 knows a woman he would have locked down or taken seriously if she didn't have kids
Right on.
@@danielvibez4000 just being honest brother myself and most friends I have all know a woman or 2 we liked but her kids made it more trouble than it's worth. It's a unfair expectation to have a man take on the responsibility (financial, discipline ect) of another man's child when the real father gets off the hook.
I had 2 after my fiance. It is just not worth it. I left when I felt the walls closing in around me. I knew that I was never going to be allowed to be a real father to their children, but would be required real financial support to them. I knew that my place was below their kids, family, girlfriends and hell even the dog in one case. I knew that any time that they felt their hypergamy kick in, or simply got bored that I would be powerless to do anything but lose 50 percent of my assets and move on. All for what, an average chick with baggage? A mixed family and being unable to afford to have kids of my own? No thanks. It's better to be single and do what I want to do.
@@TNAROHfan I even needed to hear what you had to say
@@jayjordan833 especially if he can figure she will run interference for her kids and not let him be head of the house. ☹️
"I told my wife she was lousy in bed. She went out and got a second opinion."
Good one 😂😂😂
..and a third one and a fourth one..
I told your wife she's terrible...try harder.
She wants her bf to be confident, but wants him to not realize his value, which comes from confidence, so he doesn't leave her. She wants the power of choice, but wants to deny him the power of choice.
What a selfish piece. She only cares about herself.
She doesn't trust that he won't leave her when he improves himself because she knows she would instantly leave him if she finds a better option. She doesn't trust herself and thinks everyone is the same like her.
@@iroh1796 Exactly. 100% self-centered
My ex cheated on me and it changed my life since then I bought the truck she always said was stupid I bought the Harley she said I could never afford and with a girl who is supportive of me and my goals my ex is still stagnant
If this guy had any self worth he wouldn't be with someone like this. Single mom? No thanks. History of cheating? Hard pass.
"Caffeinating the hamsters in her head..." That's a line I am going to have to use sometime in the future 🤣
Very nice!
Beautiful
Simple: lady if you wanna keep your man, treat him well.
Crazy right?
Wow. She sounds like a truly terrible person. Yes, I am judging her.
Feel free to.
You were factual imo...
"Yes, I am judging her. "...
And yet... I don't feel offended by that at all.
One of the biggest problems plaguing women is they’ve been convinced that humbling themselves is the same as putting themselves down and being negative about themselves.
3 reasons why someone is with a single parent:
1. They have low self esteem aka beta.
2. They want a ready made family.
3. They are a single parent themselves.
If you're a single person avoid single parents for a relationship.
When my boy take his glasses off the sermon is about to begin 😂good content as always bro
A woman who refuses coaching is more than likely damaged.
I'm a chick and I watch your videos. I think you're honest and helped me understand the relationship realms from a man's point of view and gave me some great pointers as I am raising my 18 year old son. Thank you.
Lol no woman is willing to look at herself honestly in the mirror.
Facts: Walking definitions of hypocrisy is the female gender. Alfa males NEVER let them slide with anything.
Not true.
It's called integrity... I recommend it also to men.
I have a Caitlyn Jenner joke to insert here, but I'll let it slide.
Listen to her. Not one word about "What can I do to make him want me more". Can't be I need to be "Better".
And if she does, her flaws are to be accepted.
My ex-girlfriend said she was ‘training’ me to be a better person. After a few years together I could not take the training / belittling anymore.
If you want a good dominate male? Don't you think you need to be the Prom Queen first? Great solid advice in this video. We have way to many people thinking they are something they are not.
the mother of my kids blew 28k out of our account and when I asked a female friend for advice the first thing she asked was WHAT DID I DO? . One of the most sobering things ever.
Yikes. She wants to change the guy not because of altruism or genuinely helping him moving forward for the sole benefit of him and his person only, but only because he doesn't completely fit the mold she prefers having alongside her. If you're in your late 20s or early 30s or even older and you are still this self obsessed and deluded, you should seek help asap.
Hey. At least let's give her credit that she understands the psychology of this well enough to know that if that dude watched your channel he'd self realise and most likely leave her.
“I love him and want to spend my life with him...
...help me change him.”
Never date a single mother FULL STOP!
She's out of options! Point Blank!
And she has stretch marks! Sad!!
One thing I have found true with most women is that they don't want
to solve or fix problems. The want to talk about them.
Taking about problems, even absent a real solution, just makes them
feel better and like they have done something.
So...the lady who wants you to help out thinks getting you
involved with her relationship with the Beta is solving the problem.
That's human; not about gender entirely. There's tons of problems we ultimately have to solve or deal with on our own but it still does not mean that sharing the burden with someone else is useless.
@@miesvaillanykyisyytta3252 while is it a human condition to both want to solve problems as well as occasionally vent frustrations, men in general are more logical and solution oriented while women are more emotional and socially oriented.
@Jordan Decker It sounds like you're not very fond of psychology and differing personalities or world views. That's OK if you're saying that in jest but you won't make many quality friends with an attitude like that where you patronize people by defining what is valuable.
@Jordan Decker Nah bro, they wrecked you articulately and politely.
@@miesvaillanykyisyytta3252
Absolutely NOT. It's NOT a human thing, it's a WOMAN thing.
For men, a problem is something to be fixed, and until it is, it vexes him, being constantly in the back of his mind. Women feel better by just talking about it, then it can put away, unsolved.
This is why my wife would want me to talk about how my day in the office went. Whereas for me it'd be reminder that I'd left unfixed some problems at the office, and I didn't want to be reminded about that fact.
She never could understand why I didn't want to talk about it.
Not good with money=he spends it on stuff I don’t like or doesn’t benefit me.
Yes, when I was younger a hot single mum was only interested in how much money I had, to support her and her 2yr old daughter. I saw it within a week and left before she did
Single mothers are the used rental Kias at the buy here pay here lots of the dating car market... salvage titles include.
Spot on as usual. Take his advice before the train wreck because it’s too late for some of us and we sincerely want younger guys to avoid our mistakes.
Senor! I am a newly divorced man and experiencing single life after 22 years of marriage ... I watch your shit daily for many reasons but mostly due to your complete honesty and commitment to educate .... love this and keep rocking! Love from the DR ....
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The paradox of women. Wants her man to be brave, dominant and confident, but at the same time, somehow dumb enough to not recognise his self worth?
Lady, a confident man always knows how amazing he is. That's where the confidence comes from in the first place.
Yeah he needs to be hard but soft, rugged but smooth, thoughtful but spontaneous, tall but not too tall, dark but not too dark, masculine but with a fememine side. Anyway you get it, I can't type it all as it will take 24 hours.
*_She wants a PERFECT MAN and has identified the perceived imperfections she wants to modify_* *TYPICAL, EVEN STEREOTYPICAL*
I didn't get married until I was 32. It was a first marriage for both of us and we've been doing this together since 1993. I wouldn't trade her for the world. My philosophy for years had been that it is always better to be alone than it is to be in miserable company, which explains why I didn't establish any "life-long" and "meaningful" relationships until that point. My longest relationship prior to marriage lasted about three years back in the late 1980s. She was a single mom a couple of years older than me with a 4 year old boy. I told her from the outset that she should not expect anything more out of me than what I was giving her, which was some fun companionship and sex, as I was just a dumb kid who was not in any real hurry to get married right away. I thought she understood this, as she said she agreed, but then, stuff started happening. That look in her eyes and on her face one day told me that she was taking this beyond friendship with benefits. She was glowing.
Uh-oh.
In hindsight, that's when I should have broken it off. But, I was a lonely, inexperienced twenty-something kid with access to a willing adult female. This was a road that I did not really want to go down in a big hurry at that time. I could have gone there, had it lasted longer, but then she started to sabotage the gear works.
It was uncanny. Just when I was just starting to really like her, she would say or do something to make me like her a little less. I don't do jealousy and I don't play games. She would say something about how attractive another woman might be and how I would probably prefer being with that other one, to which I would usually try to placate her by saying, "well, I'm with you, aren't I?"
After a while, as it would pop up more and more often as we continued the relationship, I finally got to the point where I would just get up and leave her house whenever she would do that. She had asked me to move in with her several times, but something warned me that this would probably not be a good idea. Hell, I didn't even live with my wife until after we were married! I maintained my own apartment several miles away, and believe me, I am glad I did! It gave me a sanctuary where I could isolate myself, to recoup against the insidious emotional game-playing she seemed to be unable to control. After two or three days, she would call and be a lot more conciliatory toward me, but this, it turns out, would be only a brief respite until the next bit of jealous idiocy would pop out of her mouth, without fail.
In case anyone was wondering why I stayed with her as long as I did, she was really good in bed. It was not one of those things where she used sex as a weapon or as a reward for "good behavior" (that was the previous girlfriend, a spoiled brat from Manhattan who over-valued herself and could do no wrong, as all princesses believe they can do. That lasted about six months). No, she actually enjoyed it and I don't recall a time where she ever denied me access to the glory hole. She would "do things" without my having to ask. I thought I was the luckiest guy on earth, at first.
But, it was not worth it in the long run. Head games, jealousy, snide comments, exploding over stupid, harmless stuff, insane declarations, and pleading and begging; none of these things induced me to want to tie that knot and make it permanent, with her. It was not the kid, either. Hell, he was a pretty good little guy. He later joined the Navy and became an intelligence specialist and learned Arabic. Smart kid. No, it as all her. I was finally shed of her when she moved to Italy. She asked me to come with her and my first thought was "Awesome! That would be a great way to meet European women!" Then I thought, "No, that's not right." It would not have been fair to her, so I ended it right there by saying I could not accept her offer. That was that. She moved back the States a few years later, married some guy, and got a job at Amazon. I wish her the best.
Can a man be a balanced mix of beta and alpha? I believe they can. My husband is a delightful mixture of both. He speaks his mind, he is the man of the house, he's great with our finances, he doesn't take $hit from people but yet he is well crafted in the art of listening and validating, he shares his emotions but is still a strong man in my eyes, he is direct~ he says how he feels, we both do, with respect and absolutely no mind games (trying to GUESS what the other is feeling or assume crap), he is incredibly attentive and giving regarding intimacy, as am I. There's no refusing each other, again- no mind games, no secrets which destroy our connection.
I believe the perfect man is both~ I know I wouldn't like a man who was _all_ Alpha or _all_ Beta. But, that's just me ☺️ I love my roll as the woman, the weaker sex in some respects, but I can see clearly that the differences between men and women should be embraced & celebrated! I don't think men and women are "equal" and I don't agree our world should push that. We were all made differently for good reasons.
Very enlightening channel!
Would love to see you do a show on "Ask & Guess Culture" and how this works with men and women, their communication and relationships. It's a fascinating topic.
Please find that guy Rich and save him from the single mom curse.
He's gotta learn on his own
If every man who watches this video, shares it with every man he knows... there's a good chance the dude will see it.
It'll help the channel too... for those who care about that sort of thing.
Women by their nature are solipsistic and they're going to stay that way. What are we supposed to do about it? Thanks for the continued awesome content, Rich.
so correct. When my marriage fell apart, she was so convinced all of the issues to be fixed were in my camp. I had a few, but she had many more. She failed to recognize this and we were soon divorced.
So she can't support him because she won't be able to control him? Sick that's just sick!
Just get it = be dominant
NO ! stay away from single moms .
What I can't figure out is why people try to push these single moms on us. We don't want em.
Just listening to this woman reminds why I'm happily single.
So she says, in a DM in which she is soliciting you for advice, "I don't need one on one coaching." Hmmmm
One cannot make up such storyline, it can only be true: "I want more from this dude! How can I make him increase his value ?"
The more kids they have, the more devalued these women are.
This is why most women, married or not, constantly belittle and berate their partners. They are so insecure that they do not want their men to realize their self worth.
"I'm not a man so I don't need to be improved. I was born perfect and I'll die perfect, anything imperfect in my life is due to all the other imperfect actors" is basically what she's saying.
I'd tell her to accept him as he is and just keep your finances separate and try to inspire him to practice better financial habits but leave the rest to him. Let him be a man for that matter.
You think like an angel. She wants him to do better with HIS finances so there is more left over for HER and her brats. Why cant SHE try harder to make more money herself!
Too much work for a single mom. Easy to get Rich to nag at him so he giver her all his money
She is simply a Golddigger! Stay clear of them!
As a child free woman, I wont date a man with kids even if theyre grown or a man with grandkids. I dont want to put myself in a situation where I could wind up taking care of kids at all. I enjoy my freedom.
I've been in a relationship for quite a while, and I think she thought years back that I was this kind of guy. The thing is, she realizes the same as I do, that even non-6-pack guys like me have options available at every store we enter, every street we walk down. I think because of that, she does a great job at working to keep me around, which I appreciate.
For the girl in your story here, I think she realizes that she has to do more, and she just doesn't want to.
@sean flemming why I said 'non'
Not only single moms, many women in their 30s also unrealistic with their chances in the sexual market place
40’s also. The post wall realization is often a bitter pill for them to swallow.
So true , every few sentences out of their mouths is about marriage or kids
@@scottp2462 haha they do realize but cry calling men is trash
How does it never occur to people to speak plainly and honestly and kindly to their partner?
Wow that's really eye-opening. Very demanding expectations, from a woman with that meny problems.
Brutal.
wants the guy to become alpha and expect him not to leave her? thats like saying you can bench 350 but dont want to put on muscle, it just simply doesnt work that way!
Hilarious
She wants control over his realization of his own self worth...
Classic narcissism right there, plain and simple.
The best possible thing that anyone could do about "her" situation... is warn the boyfriend to RUN.
He's not good with money...translates into she can't fleece him,, or he's too smart for her to extort alimony from him