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I had a coworker do this. 32yr guy, he married a 28yr chick after knowing her for 6 months. After they got married she started pressuring him to adopt her 4 yr old daughter from a previous relationship, the father wasn't paying any child support. My coworker talked to me about it cause we were friends. I tried as hard as I could to talk him out of it for a week, which ended up destroying our friendship. Roughly a year after he'd adopted the kid, she divorced him and he's on the hook for child support. Some dudes are so dumb with this stuff.
.....the wife may have also been interacting with the non child support paying Ex the whole time AND may have gone back to that guy once she divorced your former friend. Yikes.
I wonder if i could get him to marry me. Platonic, of course. I dont roll that way of unnatural behavior. But If a moe ron wants to give money to people who don't care for him in any way. I am willing to get in the game.
@@davidturner1641 Well I think he would marry you if you can fuck him like she's fucking him... Men are so thirsty and desperate these days that even hoes are marriageable to them knowing it is a detriment to them.
2 single moms that I know personally , both remarried. Then a few years after having a child with the new husband , cheated on the new husband . Basically they were used as security income / paychecks ,not husbands . Can’t wait to teach these lessons to my son.
They need to have a serious adult present relationship and future requirements goals expatations (need to date at least before considering a relationship). Anyway women and men with children from a prior relationship should put what's best for their children above anything or anyone else.
Hope you don’t learn the hard way but browse the posts of other guys who got burned 2023 I am 51. In 1995 I was 22 US Army stationed in Germany 🇩🇪. Met gorgeous Brazilian who had 2 kids w German and was getting divorced. I fell in lust. Moved in. But, I knew it was a bad call. Army asked if I wanted to extend 1 more year in Germany? I said no, knowing it would hasten our break up. It did. 1998, I was back in USA 🇺🇸, and got a Christmas 🎄 card from her w new last name Tucker and military address. She married another soldier. 2004, I bumped into her in Germany 🇩🇪 again !! She had another kid w the American. I was an officer now. We had a 1 hour conversation. Caught up. They moved to Georgia. 2019, I went back to Germany. I FB peeked her. Divorced. I am happy w my wife and 2 kids in California. I was lucky 🍀. It’s painful. Like cutting off your infected leg. But, you will be better off. Trust me. I wish I could talk to her 2nd ex husband and ask if he felt it was worth it. He got 2 kids out of her, so maybe? But, now I know she is bound to him and Georgia for YEARS due to custody. Oh well. Life. AVOID 🚫 UNNECESSARY DRAMA 🎭!!! PS5 DEAD-DROP
This guy's convinced himself that ANYTHING is better than being "alone". He doesn't realise, for whatever reason,that a fate much worse than loneliness awaits him. He is a product of his culture.
I've been alone for over ten years, and I haven't had sex in over 6, loneliness is real, but I've never let myself stoop to this level. At least I have that going for me.
@@krimodiarbi9800 if you date one, keep your life style, keep your own place, keep finances separated. If she is looking for someone for dating love and sex, then it should be enough. But be aware that she wont have much time for you, and only don it in the case there is a father who takes the kids every weekend or so. If not, its not worth it and she will have zero time for you
2 types of guys who are beyond help & are most in danger of being totally vulnerable to these types of scenarios: 1) the young guy who's never been in love before & feels like she is "the one"; 2) the older guy who is desperate & feels like he's running out of options
I can add to that. Got six kids with a fruit loop ex (ALL mine and I've had them DNA tested) and one baby with the last one. In my mid 40s and I've had it with women. Loved the sex, occasionally loved the company but can seriously live without the shite afterwards!
@@thebesttheworst2277 I've fought the battle. Didn't lose my house (everything was/is in my name from day one). Definately won't be going down the well trodden relationship path again!
If you're in your fifties.....your only options are single mothers or childless spinsters. They both are problematic. So, don't date them, just bang them. And don't be so stupid that you get caught in their web.
@@peterwallis4288 That may be true, but it's not another guy's job to raise the kid. And any guy that does do it, while he may think he is doing a noble or admirable thing, in reality, is not.
@@CharlesCowart-x2w that's true too. But imagine you had become a father figure to the kid. You truly care about the kid and want him or her to have a good start in life. I really don't think I could abandon that child even if I split up with the mother.
@@CharlesCowart-x2w also, how can you say it's not a good thing? Obviously it might be a stupid thing to do, but isn't giving a child a better education always a good thing?
@@hansmeier3287 Obviously not. Think about it, he's such a weak person that he is so uncertain what to do in this situation that he posts online looking for advice.
I was dating a 'traditional' woman from an Eastern European country but questioned it when she told me she wanted a prenup that would see me pay her alimony if we ever broke up. I live in Australia where we don't have alimony, so I wasn't going to sign up for that. We didn't last much longer after that.
@@KP99 We don't have alimony in Sweden either. Im 80% sure Denmark and Norway doesn't either. There's a split of assets at the divorce, but that's it. Nothing afterwards. My guess is that alimony is an anglosphere thing, and not very common outside of that.
Apparently age is NOT a sign of wisdom. That's almost sad, we live in the information age and men like this still walk around... But hey, societal brainwashing is also a very powerful tool. And it seems to have worked wonders on this guy. That bastard probably never stood a chance.
My wife left me thinking I had no future…now I’m a lawyer earning a six figure salary… and she is stuck being broke and constantly asking me if we can reconcile I simply turned to her and said I’ll take the kid but I don’t deal with bludgers
Beyond cutting off the bedroom fun she let him know that she’s about to monkey branch to another guy by insinuating that she’s worried about her financial future. He’s been paying her bills for the last 9 months, so she’s worried those bills won’t get paid when she monkey branches to Enrique.
Dated a single mom for 5 yrs and it ended pretty bad lol her youngest son's dad died before he was born. I love this kid and after the break up he came to live with me. She was doing drugs. It's been almost 8 yrs and he is almost done with school. Every situation is different but I hear what you're saying
Bro, you rescued that kid from a horrible life. It's honorable that you took on that responsibility and raised him. I commend you for being one of the rare people able to do such a thing. He was delt a bad hand in this life and you stepped up to make sure he has a winning hand.
Since I got redpilled (roughly 2018, I think) and started seeing the "code in the matrix", I tried to warn many friends against getting into LTRs with single moms. None of them listened. A dumpster fire each time. I am frequently shocked with how visible and predictable all those behaviour patterns are once you know what is what.
Wouldn't it be easier to pay for sexual favors directly? If you're paying top dollar, might as well hire a professional who leaves when the job is done and doesn't want 50% of your stuff when you are no longer a customer.
This is what I learned last year. I had coworkers who claimed they spend $150 on a date and then get "ghosted". Then a friend took me to a gentleman's club and I learned I can get a "full meal" for $150 in a private room. I'm old enough now not to look down on these "catering services".
Asinine... this is a perfect example of why Beta weak males exist vs strong Alpha males. I hope the guy comes to his senses although it does not seem likely. Stay strong fellas!
Betas might as well wear a flashing "Kick Me" sign, they're so desperate that they'll sacrifice their future for a little short-term poon and women can spot that from across a crowded bar.
@6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow 100tries and you've never pulled a girl? Something is wrong if you're good looking and have money... I see ugly guys with reasonably good looking girls all the time. I am good looking, tall, and have money but I'm an autist with bad social anxiety so I don't even try lol
Society creates betas--the schools, the media. We have to teach those weaker and hopefully wake them up. Most times they don't do it, but once in a while they see the light.
@@billr5842 @billr5842 tall is really important to them. I have ADHD, anxiety, and sleep disorder. But, I'm short, and minority, so it is all the harder. Maybe there is some website? Or maybe luck will come your way someday.
In addition to everything you said, my immediate reaction was, it's always a huge red flag 🚩 when a woman you are in a relationship with is openly contemplating her future without you. Run Forrest! 🏃♂
Yep, listen to his advice on this topic. I got nailed on child support for a child I didn't see for 2 years. But, there was only one BIG problem. She picked a fight a with woman, my mother, that grew up during WWII in German. She knew how to fight. And we won full-custody a year later. Steven and I are very close 25 years later.
A friend of mine had another horror story dating a single mom - he had another kid with her, but then when they broke up he ended up having to raise not only his kid alone, but the other kid that wasn’t even his!
I would say he at least has a return on his investment in this case. Anytime a man can get full control of his own kid is a good thing despite having to raise the other one. Sounds like she went to prison, is a drug user, or is dead?
In my early 30s, I was naive and didn't know much in the dating world. Was kind of surprised when an attractive single mom made me her favorite on a dating website. So after inquiring with her as to why and messaging back and forth - started dating her for a few months and saw the red flags of trying to get locked down so I could be her financial escape.
Have you ever noticed that when there's talk of virtues; being honest, taking responsibility, doing for somebody else, ect, it's always men that they're talking to? Women don't do that, it's not expected of them and they see it as a sign of weakness.
Don't even hit it, it takes too much time and effort and they cancel too often, the. They can take back their consent afterwards. So just move on or tell her you just want a fwb
His book is very high to recommend. Especially for the younger guys. 2023 is not 1950. If you choose the wrong woman today, you DESTROY your life literally. The wrong (modern) woman in a LTR bear more danger and risk than a loaded firearm without to know the security rules.
Damn, I’m 57 now and when I was still dating 35 years ago, I dated a couple single moms and my buddies warned me but like this guy, I ignored their advice. After a couple months it became real clear why she latched onto me, I had a good income and benefits from being in the Army and women know our benefits packages. So after probing a little deeper, it became clear and I cut sling load. A few months later, I met a Puerto Rican lady that was a virgin and we’ve been married for over 33 years now and have to grown daughters AND, my wife still looks hot because she never smoke or drank and weighs a pound or two from her body weight during our dating days. I dated her for about 3 months and asked her to marry me so, after 5 months total we got married. She’s around an 8 but she has a humble heart and doesn’t hang around materialistic, shallow women. So please choose wisely men, single mothers are always single for a damn good reason! Looking at what kind of friends a prospective girlfriend/wife has will tell you everything you need to know about how she’ll be in the future.
@@kenlandon7803 I had to buy 31 tickets before I won though, lol. And 2 were single moms which taught me well. Just hope all this helps a young man before he makes the worst mistake in his life. Single moms are ALWAYS nice and perfect until a few months after putting a ring on their finger then the crazy starts to show its face. I’ve seen it happen with a few of the Soldiers I worked with and family members and each time they were warned by many people what was in store for them but like me, they blew it off thinking they were special or could do better.
Definitely talking from previous experiences. Vetting a potential Mrs. for a whole year or two especially in these times is ESSENTIAL. Men we need to check the woman for a whole Season not only one or two episodes 👍
“If the man assumed the parental role of the child during the relationship and the court finds that he has established a parental bond, he may be required to pay child support in some jurisdictions.” I will never date another single mom again in my entire life!
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Eons ago I was dating a single mother who told me that not only would I be obligated to care for her, and for *HER* kids, but also for her ex-husband because he was her childhood sweetheart and the father of *HER* kids. Notwithstanding the insanity of such a demand, I was taken aback that she was claiming individual ownership of the kids while incorporating her ex into my obligations. Never been so happy to part company with a gal in my life.
Guys I fell in love with one who had three. Thank god I keep up on this channel and the energy. That train wreck is over but feel free to bag on me for being stupid.
I did worse, it was 1989 before internet was easily available, no wise old man role model male to talk to, no advice anywhere in the biased male hateing media, so I was tricked into marrying a mother with 4 kids, she was 8 years older than me. Boy did I pay a price of being in hell for 5 years. Now with the internet I try to help others by sharing my horror experience.
Get into a committed long term relationship with a single mother if you want to. You'll figure out why she's a single mother within a year tops.. this dude is gonna pay all her bills. Her debt. And take care of her. Only for her to leave him for her child's father. Or a better option. Seen this happen wayyy to many times through friends ,and acquaintances I've worked with. Don't do it. The single mother is always looking for help. And you're only around cause the man she truly wanted tobe with doesn't want her.
You know what Rich, am waiting for your second book. I went straight to Starbucks 3 days ago after your book delivered to me from Amazon. It is great book that every man should read it once in 6 months to refresh their mind.
Almost happened to a close fam member. They signed some papers on a teenage step kid's newborn just before the wife filed for divorce. Thank God for an awesome legal team.
I find it funny how this single mom doesn't want to take the real baby daddy to court for alimony or child support but she's wants to give the new guy basically no options but to pay her alimony and child support if they were to "breakup." As soon as the new guy says and it's finalized by the court or on any type of agreement that he's going to pay her if they break up she'll leave him without any remorse.
She wants to obligate Terasimp to pay so her (Chad) baby daddy is off the hook. Once he starts paying, the child support (AKA alimony) will never stop. Dude should just volunteer for prison, and make a stop at the commissary for Vasiline. I hope this is fiction. It's hard to imagine one person being THAT stupid. It scares me that I might share highways with such people.
Honestly, she is probably still banging Chad... And that is why the guy is getting 'weird vibes', like she is not (sexually) interested in him lately...
You know I’ve noticed something with single moms and it’s that they always bring money up the first or second thing when I talk to them. Kind of a turn off actually.
Unlike some men, single moms don't fear being lonely in the future (they have a kid, which they usually say is their 'world' and always will come first). Instead, they fear being broke in the future. That's their incentive to having a man.
Some question to ask: 1. Why isn't the biological father paying child support? 2. Why didn't she think about her financial security before having the child? 3. Why does he think it is his responsibility to provide financial security to her, and her child, in the future? 4. After she leaves him, will she be receiving enough money to rent a place big enough for her and her new bad-boy, unemployed boyfriend?
1. Numerous reasons, might be in jail, dead... 2. What women thinks about that when having a child? No one! It is proven that women think more empathic than men. We, as men, tend to think more rational and we try to find a solution to problems. 3. Beta male, one of the many who thinks with the other head. (He needs to fix a "problem"). 4. Theses questions seem like they are from a 14yo boy or a women who is in the same situation as her.
Hey @Stering P - Good Grief !! Do you go through life asking questions no one can answer?? If the answers were given ... would you sleep better at night ?!?
Because they are taught and raised to know that first the government will support them and secondly that a gump will also likely help out which allows them to freely be irresponsible
I know a guy who started a relationship with a single mom with two young kids. He bought her a house in another city 5 hours flight away. A few months ago, the biological father moved into the house with his ex wife. WTF?
My buddy broke up with his lady who had two kids from a previous. (dad was not in his kids' lives) He grew close to her kids, as expected. On her way out the door she says she wants him to continue being a part of their lives. I warned him that she only wanted a free babysitter. Sure enough, she wanted him to take the kids overnight while she spent the night with her new guy. (surprise surprise, she was already banging the new guy before they broke up)
Or the opposite I know someone married a former single mom he keeps cheating on her. He doesn't want someone kids thats why he cheats. He married her for being backup, rebound while he still keep looking she married him for money resources, low self esteem afraid to be alone for no wants her anymore cuz she knows men don't want to date single mothers.
Dear lord, this dude needs some self-respect. It amazes me how many men are so easily manipulated by women. EDIT: I know this might come off as petty, but I'd say dating single mums isn't picking low hanging fruit, it's more like picking rotten fruit already on the floor.
I’ve been involved in a single mom who was 66 yrs old. I was taken aback when she invited me to her basement home. On board we’re (5) children. Uncle!!!
been in a "relationship" with a scheming manipulative woman just like this -- But even though I was in love (with the idea of her), I don't think I was ever this bad
I could never have a serious long term relationship with a single mom. The way I look at is this: The woman made her choice to get involved with another man, she had children with that man. She made a horrible choice hence why she is no single with a kid. You had your chance, you screwed it up. I wont put myself in a situation where you (the woman) screws up my life as well. I also am not supporting another mans child.
It's just impossible for me to believe these women are getting pregnant by accident somehow. What they want, and think they can have, is sex and offspring, with one man. And have another man (or the government!) pay for it.
I can promise this guy who is thinking with the wrong head, that if he becomes legally responsible through consenting to this professional female con artist, that it would be just a few days after he is on the financial hook that she will toss him like the morning trash.
This guy actually breaks my heart since I have 3 boys that I can see doing similar. I'm 61 with a 35 year old instagram influencer who loans money to my real estate deals, and my tall, handsome boys are shy and can't seem to break through. I'm afraid this scenario can play out in their lives.
A good friend of mine is now dating a single mother and giving her financial support. Her ex is still around but he has psychological and financial issues. I have said several times this is a bad idea. On top of this my friend is woke and this single mom is black, so she is in my friend's eyes oppressed. As these are hard times and people have less money, so does my friend. And he says he needs to talk about this with her because he can't afford to support her much longer. So he is trying to get her to move in with him with the kids to save money. But months after that, nothing seems to have changed. I will need to talk to my friend more about this, but I wonder if that will help much.
He will get his krama I almost did this to an ex friend mines I still trying to find a meaningful purpose I am not chasing no one from a woman perspective I am at place is about my peace
This man, if I can even call him that, has clearly been with next to no women in his life. Anyone who knows there is always another woman around the corner would NEVER do something like this.
I have EXPERIENCE. Kids were dysfunctional, mother dysfunctional. Caused stress on the marriage despite me trying to be noble and welcome them all in. Did my research late into the Marriage and discovered a pattern with the past relationships and baby daddy.
the thing about single moms is that they never say they have kids, until after you start courting her. then you just cut her off. :/ (feels messy sometimes, but it must be done.)
My experience has been they always tell me they have kids before i even ask them out and when i hear that i just nope right on out of there😂 they always seem so disappointed too 😂
Reminds me of the quote from Cool Hand Luke: "Some men you just can't reach. So you get what we had here last week, which is the way he wants it; we'll, he gets it. I don't like it any more than you men."
Imagine going to a lawyer and telling him that you want him to draft a "reverse pre-nuptial agreement"!!! That you will pay the lawyer to write such a document that has never been written before because no one that stupid has thought of wanting it before. This document will make sure that none of your assets are protected and you will be required to pay alimony and/or child support.
I'm actually starting to see this kind of behaviour a lot more. I liken it to the masochistic aspect of the "dark tetrad." Guys like to set themselves up for this kind of this kind of relationship, chop of their body parts, tuck their body parts, etc etc., and the reason is because of masochism.
Remember if they can do it to someone else, they can do it to YOU too! Remember that as you begin to uncover her past and who she is as a person to others.
I learned this the hard way. If she could kick the father to the curb, what made me any better? Things you don't think about when you're thinking with your little "head" instead of the big one. Lost 4 years to her and that kid, which broke my heart twice!
there are too many "good guys", guys with a superhero complex that want to save the world and make everybody happy. Those guys are the one that eat the " happy wife / gf , happy life" and tend to give everything away for a smiles, thanks and a bit of S E X. Sadly those heroes are the ones exploited and taken advantage first, they usually become plow horses and never ending pleasers, while everybody roll their eyes on their backs. Those guys are quite dangerous, because they will sacrifice everything in order to get the Alpha partner happy, not just their own interest, everything around.
Great video and advice/ I have just one thing to say to this guy wanting to fix or help ths single mom / (ready) Run----------I mean just Run------------ Run for your life/
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Most of single mothers are looking for help, not love
Not even help, robbery.
Never feel sorry for them.
When they were screwing with bad boys, they did not ask for permit from me.
So why do I feel sorry for them?
Not most of the time, all of the time
Exxxactly
Single moms only have love for her past bad boys
I had a coworker do this. 32yr guy, he married a 28yr chick after knowing her for 6 months. After they got married she started pressuring him to adopt her 4 yr old daughter from a previous relationship, the father wasn't paying any child support. My coworker talked to me about it cause we were friends. I tried as hard as I could to talk him out of it for a week, which ended up destroying our friendship. Roughly a year after he'd adopted the kid, she divorced him and he's on the hook for child support. Some dudes are so dumb with this stuff.
Your friend will learn the hard way lol
Sad to hear,however he had to learn the hard way.
.....the wife may have also been interacting with the non child support paying Ex the whole time AND may have gone back to that guy once she divorced your former friend. Yikes.
In Germany we say: "If you don't want to listen, you have to feel."
Can you follow up? What happened next?
This single mom definitely hit the jackpot. She's the envy of all the sisterhood.
Brutal Honesty confirmed.
I wonder if i could get him to marry me.
Platonic, of course. I dont roll that way of unnatural behavior.
But
If a moe ron wants to give money to people who don't care for him in any way.
I am willing to get in the game.
@@davidturner1641 Well I think he would marry you if you can fuck him like she's fucking him... Men are so thirsty and desperate these days that even hoes are marriageable to them knowing it is a detriment to them.
@@davidturner1641 For real.
Found herself a sucker.
2 single moms that I know personally , both remarried. Then a few years after having a child with the new husband , cheated on the new husband . Basically they were used as security income / paychecks ,not husbands . Can’t wait to teach these lessons to my son.
Definitely teach your sons to make smart choices in life. As they get older they sometimes reject it, so best to start early.
Teach your daughter to stand on her own two feet instead of relying on others to clean up her mess(es).
Lol I definitely learned the hard way, even had my own kid from it 😆. Never talking to a single mom again unless it's at soccer games 😄.
@Lindsey Summers how about teach your daughters how to pick good men and then stay with those good men
@@Vakator-29 - re: "Lol" = since you learned the hard way .... what is so funny about the comment, along with 2 smileys??
She tells the guy she wants his money even if they split and he didn't pick up on that?! He's beyond saving.
Haha so true. He's too far gone.
Definitely raised by a single mother himself.
Stupid is as stupid does.
I think she was Implying she wanted long term commitment and security. Hinting at marriage essentially
Maybe this video of Rich's is the slap that he needs to wake up.
They need to have a serious adult present relationship and future requirements goals expatations (need to date at least before considering a relationship).
Anyway women and men with children from a prior relationship should put what's best for their children above anything or anyone else.
Dating a single mom is like starting a new game on somebody else's save file.
That’s great 😅🤘🏼
😂😂😂😂
Ooh that’s a good one 😅
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Hope you don’t learn the hard way but browse the posts of other guys who got burned
2023
I am 51. In 1995 I was 22 US Army stationed in Germany 🇩🇪. Met gorgeous Brazilian who had 2 kids w German and was getting divorced. I fell in lust. Moved in. But, I knew it was a bad call. Army asked if I wanted to extend 1 more year in Germany? I said no, knowing it would hasten our break up. It did. 1998, I was back in USA 🇺🇸, and got a Christmas 🎄 card from her w new last name Tucker and military address. She married another soldier. 2004, I bumped into her in Germany 🇩🇪 again !! She had another kid w the American. I was an officer now. We had a 1 hour conversation. Caught up. They moved to Georgia. 2019, I went back to Germany. I FB peeked her. Divorced. I am happy w my wife and 2 kids in California. I was lucky 🍀. It’s painful. Like cutting off your infected leg. But, you will be better off. Trust me. I wish I could talk to her 2nd ex husband and ask if he felt it was worth it. He got 2 kids out of her, so maybe? But, now I know she is bound to him and Georgia for YEARS due to custody. Oh well. Life.
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This guy's convinced himself that ANYTHING is better than being "alone".
He doesn't realise, for whatever reason,that a fate much worse than loneliness awaits him.
He is a product of his culture.
Lonely and less money lol
@Matt THX Ah yes!....Thats the indoctrination right there!! 😃👍
@@636NinjaBlade ....And decidedly less appealing to other women,even 5/10's 🤣😂
@Matt THX Once you're aware of it,we see it everywhere.👍
I've been alone for over ten years, and I haven't had sex in over 6, loneliness is real, but I've never let myself stoop to this level. At least I have that going for me.
For me dating a single mom was the worst nightmare and the darkest place i was in my life.
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I did the same many years ago. Huge mistake on my end and will not happen again.
@@ryanwolf4101can you explain more why is it so awful to date a single mom bro?
@@krimodiarbi9800 they will use you without taking accountable for their actions
@@krimodiarbi9800 if you date one, keep your life style, keep your own place, keep finances separated. If she is looking for someone for dating love and sex, then it should be enough. But be aware that she wont have much time for you, and only don it in the case there is a father who takes the kids every weekend or so. If not, its not worth it and she will have zero time for you
She is already planning the divorce!
Since the wedding.
100% true
Bingo!
@@ron.247 they're not even married
men are fucking stupid. Why would she be worried about her financial security if she planned on staying married to him?!? 🤦♂
2 types of guys who are beyond help & are most in danger of being totally vulnerable to these types of scenarios: 1) the young guy who's never been in love before & feels like she is "the one"; 2) the older guy who is desperate & feels like he's running out of options
Been/am both. Still trying to keep my nose clean, despite offers. Just not worth it. As I close in on retirement age, I have too much to lose.
I can add to that. Got six kids with a fruit loop ex (ALL mine and I've had them DNA tested) and one baby with the last one. In my mid 40s and I've had it with women. Loved the sex, occasionally loved the company but can seriously live without the shite afterwards!
@@klawlor3659 ... *Mr Lawlor knows* 👏👌
@@thebesttheworst2277 I've fought the battle. Didn't lose my house (everything was/is in my name from day one). Definately won't be going down the well trodden relationship path again!
I'm a man in my fifties with no kids and until this present day I do not date single mothers ⚠️. Too much of a Liability 🚩🚩
Also, your parents did not raise you to end up with a single mom. So, wear that badge with honor. 😂
Why seek out praise for doing the right thing?
@@arreng2364exactly
If you're in your fifties.....your only options are single mothers or childless spinsters. They both are problematic. So, don't date them, just bang them. And don't be so stupid that you get caught in their web.
@6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow ESPECIALLY if you have money.
I was dating a woman with two kids, big mistake. I broke up with her, and will never do that again.
Red flag
You know, it’s actually a federal crime not to report a train wreck. 😂
...or a dumpster fire.
Hahahaha
N1
Not to take it personally for those in pallestine Ohio but this makes that derailment a cake walk
😂😂
"Being the dad that stepped up" is the biggest lie a guy who dates a single mom tells himself to make himself feel good or feel like a "real man"
I do feel bad for the kids though. It's not the child's fault.
@@peterwallis4288 That may be true, but it's not another guy's job to raise the kid. And any guy that does do it, while he may think he is doing a noble or admirable thing, in reality, is not.
@@CharlesCowart-x2w that's true too. But imagine you had become a father figure to the kid. You truly care about the kid and want him or her to have a good start in life. I really don't think I could abandon that child even if I split up with the mother.
@@CharlesCowart-x2w having said that, I wouldn't be giving her permission to split up with me by signing an agreement. That's just dumb.
@@CharlesCowart-x2w also, how can you say it's not a good thing? Obviously it might be a stupid thing to do, but isn't giving a child a better education always a good thing?
She straight-up told him he's temporary and there to make her life easier. Amazing.
Disgusting. Unkind people, products of social nanny states. "Social Welfare" promotes single motherhood.
How can't he see that he is being used and abused?
@@hansmeier3287 Obviously not. Think about it, he's such a weak person that he is so uncertain what to do in this situation that he posts online looking for advice.
Probably an issue from childhood, single mother parenting
@@hansmeier3287 hindsight is a wonderful thing. Lots of comments here saying 'it would nt happen to me' but this is soo common!
"Dealing with single moms is never really a very good idea." - You, sir, have the wisdom of the ages.
Single Mothers are a Liability Not an Asset
-Kevin Samuels 💯💊
What about the Dad that walked out on his child ? I guess he's a hero.
@@bbh7550 nope- he's where that Tyler Durden guy came from. Settin up Franchise shops.
Selfish isn't heroic.
The Godfather!
@@bbh7550 well if you're dumb enough to keep his kid knowing what kind of guy he is that's your problem.
Substitute "Single Mothers" with "Women"
I married a single mom. My wife and I were both single parents and had 2 together. All 4 are adults now. Going on 24 years married.
Different times
That guy is eager to go to a life sentence being non guilty of any charges 😂
Is possible cuckold a charge?
He should be rather careful.
Bro really woke up one day and decided to fuck his life up
My ex wife mom of 4 thinks she deserves the world. Delusional
For real. May as well visit a prison and plead guilty to someone else's murder conviction.
One of the greatest sins, and the guy in discussion has it, is stupidity.
I was dating a 'traditional' woman from an Eastern European country but questioned it when she told me she wanted a prenup that would see me pay her alimony if we ever broke up.
I live in Australia where we don't have alimony, so I wasn't going to sign up for that.
We didn't last much longer after that.
That's the single most positive thing I've ever heard about Australia.
Can you expand on this? I'm shocked that any Western country doesn't have alimony. How are divorces handled there?
@@KP99 We don't have alimony in Sweden either. Im 80% sure Denmark and Norway doesn't either.
There's a split of assets at the divorce, but that's it. Nothing afterwards.
My guess is that alimony is an anglosphere thing, and not very common outside of that.
True!! Alimony is a bullshit Anglo-American invention that has hurted men for over a century or longer!!
Good on you. Right choice.
How can he be 39 years old when he was born yesterday?
Apparently age is NOT a sign of wisdom. That's almost sad, we live in the information age and men like this still walk around... But hey, societal brainwashing is also a very powerful tool. And it seems to have worked wonders on this guy. That bastard probably never stood a chance.
I know right...
🤣🤣🤣
Lol 😆
Nice
My wife left me thinking I had no future…now I’m a lawyer earning a six figure salary… and she is stuck being broke and constantly asking me if we can reconcile I simply turned to her and said I’ll take the kid but I don’t deal with bludgers
What the hell is a blogger?
Reading between the lines. She cut off sex and he's trying to negotiate his way back into the bedroom by showing m'lady his worth.
Beyond cutting off the bedroom fun she let him know that she’s about to monkey branch to another guy by insinuating that she’s worried about her financial future. He’s been paying her bills for the last 9 months, so she’s worried those bills won’t get paid when she monkey branches to Enrique.
Exactly what I was thinking.
Deserves it every time she brings home Tyrone, Carlos, Mustafa, or Chad.
Never resume another man’s saved game.
Dated a single mom for 5 yrs and it ended pretty bad lol her youngest son's dad died before he was born. I love this kid and after the break up he came to live with me. She was doing drugs. It's been almost 8 yrs and he is almost done with school. Every situation is different but I hear what you're saying
That’s honorable. Good for you. Poor kid got a raw deal for a mother.
Dang...good job, but seems unusual.
@Thomas Milby - re: "lol"(first line) = what is so funny about the first line above?!? Or do you use "lol" in most social media comments.
@@warriormanmaxx8991 laughing out loud because they all end bad when they end in my experience. It's rare I get to part ways without any bs
Bro, you rescued that kid from a horrible life. It's honorable that you took on that responsibility and raised him. I commend you for being one of the rare people able to do such a thing. He was delt a bad hand in this life and you stepped up to make sure he has a winning hand.
Since I got redpilled (roughly 2018, I think) and started seeing the "code in the matrix", I tried to warn many friends against getting into LTRs with single moms. None of them listened. A dumpster fire each time.
I am frequently shocked with how visible and predictable all those behaviour patterns are once you know what is what.
What are the patterns, please tell me I need to know
@@Haykke Easy, basically any westernized women.
Wouldn't it be easier to pay for sexual favors directly? If you're paying top dollar, might as well hire a professional who leaves when the job is done and doesn't want 50% of your stuff when you are no longer a customer.
This is what I learned last year. I had coworkers who claimed they spend $150 on a date and then get "ghosted". Then a friend took me to a gentleman's club and I learned I can get a "full meal" for $150 in a private room. I'm old enough now not to look down on these "catering services".
Maybe he wants to give the kid good opportunities. Its not the child's fault.
Best comment so far.
Agreed. She made clear all she wanted from him was his money, exactly like a professional but without the advantages of a professional.
You don't pay her for sex. You pay her to leave afterwards 👍
Next will be the guy who wants to pay alimony for a single mother he has never met in person, only online.
Yeah, they're called Twitch and OF "subscribers", buddy!
Funny.
Asinine... this is a perfect example of why Beta weak males exist vs strong Alpha males. I hope the guy comes to his senses although it does not seem likely. Stay strong fellas!
@6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow shit, didn't even think about that lol. Maybe we need some betas for these scenarios
Betas might as well wear a flashing "Kick Me" sign, they're so desperate that they'll sacrifice their future for a little short-term poon and women can spot that from across a crowded bar.
@6 pack 6 foot 6 figs single somehow 100tries and you've never pulled a girl? Something is wrong if you're good looking and have money... I see ugly guys with reasonably good looking girls all the time. I am good looking, tall, and have money but I'm an autist with bad social anxiety so I don't even try lol
Society creates betas--the schools, the media. We have to teach those weaker and hopefully wake them up. Most times they don't do it, but once in a while they see the light.
@@billr5842 @billr5842 tall is really important to them. I have ADHD, anxiety, and sleep disorder. But, I'm short, and minority, so it is all the harder. Maybe there is some website? Or maybe luck will come your way someday.
In addition to everything you said, my immediate reaction was, it's always a huge red flag 🚩 when a woman you are in a relationship with is openly contemplating her future without you. Run Forrest! 🏃♂
Yep, listen to his advice on this topic. I got nailed on child support for a child I didn't see for 2 years. But, there was only one BIG problem. She picked a fight a with woman, my mother, that grew up during WWII in German. She knew how to fight. And we won full-custody a year later. Steven and I are very close 25 years later.
Who's Steven? 😮
@@hnr9lt-pz7bn My son.
A friend of mine had another horror story dating a single mom - he had another kid with her, but then when they broke up he ended up having to raise not only his kid alone, but the other kid that wasn’t even his!
Bad
😂😂😂
I would say he at least has a return on his investment in this case. Anytime a man can get full control of his own kid is a good thing despite having to raise the other one. Sounds like she went to prison, is a drug user, or is dead?
I hope his kid is truly his, you know what I mean.
In my early 30s, I was naive and didn't know much in the dating world. Was kind of surprised when an attractive single mom made me her favorite on a dating website. So after inquiring with her as to why and messaging back and forth - started dating her for a few months and saw the red flags of trying to get locked down so I could be her financial escape.
Have you ever noticed that when there's talk of virtues; being honest, taking responsibility, doing for somebody else, ect, it's always men that they're talking to? Women don't do that, it's not expected of them and they see it as a sign of weakness.
Women who make bad decisions who have kids make horrible partners...DONT DO IT. HIT IT AND QUIT IT
I would say hit a good woman, you have to value your time
@@PATRYK-R1 Foreal. Another dick means nothing to women who make bad decisions.
I wouldnt even hit it. Let her marinade in her venom alone 😅
Don't even hit it, it takes too much time and effort and they cancel too often, the. They can take back their consent afterwards. So just move on or tell her you just want a fwb
Yeah, don’t even hit it..
His rescue game makes him feel like a hero.
His book is very high to recommend. Especially for the younger guys. 2023 is not 1950. If you choose the wrong woman today, you DESTROY your life literally. The wrong (modern) woman in a LTR bear more danger and risk than a loaded firearm without to know the security rules.
Younger guys should get passports.
This comment goes both ways. A female who has a non reliant dudes kid is on the same boat
Damn, I’m 57 now and when I was still dating 35 years ago, I dated a couple single moms and my buddies warned me but like this guy, I ignored their advice. After a couple months it became real clear why she latched onto me, I had a good income and benefits from being in the Army and women know our benefits packages. So after probing a little deeper, it became clear and I cut sling load. A few months later, I met a Puerto Rican lady that was a virgin and we’ve been married for over 33 years now and have to grown daughters AND, my wife still looks hot because she never smoke or drank and weighs a pound or two from her body weight during our dating days. I dated her for about 3 months and asked her to marry me so, after 5 months total we got married. She’s around an 8 but she has a humble heart and doesn’t hang around materialistic, shallow women. So please choose wisely men, single mothers are always single for a damn good reason! Looking at what kind of friends a prospective girlfriend/wife has will tell you everything you need to know about how she’ll be in the future.
You hit the Lottery of Lotteries!
@@kenlandon7803 I had to buy 31 tickets before I won though, lol. And 2 were single moms which taught me well. Just hope all this helps a young man before he makes the worst mistake in his life. Single moms are ALWAYS nice and perfect until a few months after putting a ring on their finger then the crazy starts to show its face. I’ve seen it happen with a few of the Soldiers I worked with and family members and each time they were warned by many people what was in store for them but like me, they blew it off thinking they were special or could do better.
Definitely talking from previous experiences. Vetting a potential Mrs. for a whole year or two especially in these times is ESSENTIAL.
Men we need to check the woman for a whole Season not only one or two episodes 👍
RIGHT ON! Marco...
They change bro , could be ten years later
@@allseeingotto2912 true
At least two, IMO. Anyone can fake it for a year, especially when the stakes are so crazily high.
Yeah you need to check her out on HER birthday and YOUR birthday AND the holiday season. I'd say Oct-Jan.
I just ended a relationship with a single mom. I'm never doing that crap again.
What happens
What if the next single mother is like really REALLY hot?
@@arbiter8246they all not good for a man who doesn’t have children at all
I could not thought of this in a dream this is crazy. He is crazy. Thanks, Mr. Cooper. fixing to read your book for the second time. 👍🏾
“If the man assumed the parental role of the child during the relationship and the court finds that he has established a parental bond, he may be required to pay child support in some jurisdictions.”
I will never date another single mom again in my entire life!
Guys. SHARE your stories to WARN OTHERS!
1997 - I was stationed in Heidelberg, Germany 🇩🇪. M was a smoking 🚬 hot 🔥 Brazilian 🇧🇷; but divorced from a German w 2 kids. Fell 😍/ love- 💕 lust- but she broke up w me… - 2004 I get sent back to Germany 🇩🇪 for 3 week Annual Training. Bumped into her AND husband BT - damn. I was an officer now and felt like I dodged a bullet. 2020. I go back to Germany 🇩🇪 for 9 months. I unblock her on FB for a peek 👀 - newly divorced new last name R. She has left a path of destruction 💔 behind her…. BEWARE
As the movie line goes, “Momma says stupid is what stupid does”. I’m amazed he posted his future disaster plans online.
RUN FORREST!!
I remember this line off the movie, 'Forrest Gump'. 😊
Eons ago I was dating a single mother who told me that not only would I be obligated to care for her, and for *HER* kids, but also for her ex-husband because he was her childhood sweetheart and the father of *HER* kids. Notwithstanding the insanity of such a demand, I was taken aback that she was claiming individual ownership of the kids while incorporating her ex into my obligations. Never been so happy to part company with a gal in my life.
Guys I fell in love with one who had three. Thank god I keep up on this channel and the energy. That train wreck is over but feel free to bag on me for being stupid.
Why? Most have done something similar. You learned and that's what really matters.
wisdom is knowing when you are about to make a mistake,,, again.
I did worse, it was 1989 before internet was easily available, no wise old man role model male to talk to, no advice anywhere in the biased male hateing media, so I was tricked into marrying a mother with 4 kids, she was 8 years older than me. Boy did I pay a price of being in hell for 5 years. Now with the internet I try to help others by sharing my horror experience.
Alright, I'm about to take your ass to the cleaners, check this out...jk
Never under any circumstance underestimate the power of stupidity.
George Carlin was right---Think about how stupid the average person is, then keep in mind that ~1/2 of them are dumber than THAT.
First rule of financial holes; stop digging.
My dad and uncles tought me about crap like this when I was 12.
Consider yourself fortunate , I never received any of this help and got used and abused by unmarried mothers. Now I am wise.
Consider yourself super luck Hans
Get into a committed long term relationship with a single mother if you want to. You'll figure out why she's a single mother within a year tops.. this dude is gonna pay all her bills. Her debt. And take care of her. Only for her to leave him for her child's father. Or a better option. Seen this happen wayyy to many times through friends ,and acquaintances I've worked with. Don't do it. The single mother is always looking for help. And you're only around cause the man she truly wanted tobe with doesn't want her.
This story makes my head hurt. How could somebody be so desperate?
You know what Rich, am waiting for your second book. I went straight to Starbucks 3 days ago after your book delivered to me from Amazon. It is great book that every man should read it once in 6 months to refresh their mind.
I refer to mine just about every week..........
Almost happened to a close fam member. They signed some papers on a teenage step kid's newborn just before the wife filed for divorce. Thank God for an awesome legal team.
How can we save this man from his own mistakes? There is a brotherhood that must look out for one another.
Well, Rich said that this dope deleted his post after getting roasted in the comments, so it's not like he doesn't have a clue.
I find it funny how this single mom doesn't want to take the real baby daddy to court for alimony or child support but she's wants to give the new guy basically no options but to pay her alimony and child support if they were to "breakup." As soon as the new guy says and it's finalized by the court or on any type of agreement that he's going to pay her if they break up she'll leave him without any remorse.
She wants to obligate Terasimp to pay so her (Chad) baby daddy is off the hook. Once he starts paying, the child support (AKA alimony) will never stop. Dude should just volunteer for prison, and make a stop at the commissary for Vasiline.
I hope this is fiction. It's hard to imagine one person being THAT stupid. It scares me that I might share highways with such people.
I know it's so bad it smelled of fiction. I hope so!
Honestly, she is probably still banging Chad... And that is why the guy is getting 'weird vibes', like she is not (sexually) interested in him lately...
You know I’ve noticed something with single moms and it’s that they always bring money up the first or second thing when I talk to them. Kind of a turn off actually.
If you set the precedent of paying for the kid it will be used by her lawyers as evidence you have to keep doing it when you break up.
As Rich mentioned, it happens. Even if it's just for a year, the court will view that as taking a parental role and compel you continue to pay.
Unlike some men, single moms don't fear being lonely in the future (they have a kid, which they usually say is their 'world' and always will come first). Instead, they fear being broke in the future. That's their incentive to having a man.
Not to mention the fact that she's already planning that they're not going to be together in the future. She's basically telling him that .
Richard, I just finished your book! It was amazing. I recommend it to all my friends
Some question to ask:
1. Why isn't the biological father paying child support?
2. Why didn't she think about her financial security before having the child?
3. Why does he think it is his responsibility to provide financial security to her, and her child, in the future?
4. After she leaves him, will she be receiving enough money to rent a place big enough for her and her new bad-boy, unemployed boyfriend?
1. Numerous reasons, might be in jail, dead...
2. What women thinks about that when having a child? No one! It is proven that women think more empathic than men. We, as men, tend to think more rational and we try to find a solution to problems.
3. Beta male, one of the many who thinks with the other head. (He needs to fix a "problem").
4. Theses questions seem like they are from a 14yo boy or a women who is in the same situation as her.
1. None of your business.
2. Who cares? That's HER problem, not yours.
3. Because he was raised by a single mother.
4. Again, who cares?
Hey @Stering P - Good Grief !! Do you go through life asking questions no one can answer?? If the answers were given ... would you sleep better at night ?!?
Nailed it.
Because they are taught and raised to know that first the government will support them and secondly that a gump will also likely help out which allows them to freely be irresponsible
I know a guy who started a relationship with a single mom with two young kids. He bought her a house in another city 5 hours flight away. A few months ago, the biological father moved into the house with his ex wife. WTF?
I wonder if those types have Asperger's syndrome or autism.
My buddy broke up with his lady who had two kids from a previous. (dad was not in his kids' lives) He grew close to her kids, as expected. On her way out the door she says she wants him to continue being a part of their lives. I warned him that she only wanted a free babysitter.
Sure enough, she wanted him to take the kids overnight while she spent the night with her new guy. (surprise surprise, she was already banging the new guy before they broke up)
Or the opposite I know someone married a former single mom he keeps cheating on her. He doesn't want someone kids thats why he cheats. He married her for being backup, rebound while he still keep looking she married him for money resources, low self esteem afraid to be alone for no wants her anymore cuz she knows men don't want to date single mothers.
Dear lord, this dude needs some self-respect. It amazes me how many men are so easily manipulated by women.
EDIT: I know this might come off as petty, but I'd say dating single mums isn't picking low hanging fruit, it's more like picking rotten fruit already on the floor.
I’ve been involved in a single mom who was 66 yrs old. I was taken aback when she invited me to her basement home. On board we’re (5) children.
Uncle!!!
(5) kids from (5) guys…
Great video Rich. I wish you know how many lives you have changed with your experience and knowledge. Waiting for your second book
Thank you Rich for helping stop the craziness!!!
been in a "relationship" with a scheming manipulative woman just like this -- But even though I was in love (with the idea of her), I don't think I was ever this bad
He’s literally sabotaging his entire life and for what? The simping is strong with this poor bastard. He’s going to learn a hard hard lesson.
OMG, this guy is thinking from his little-head instead of his big head
Keep up the good work on informing viewers about red-flag relationships. I find most of your advice useful. Thank you
I could never have a serious long term relationship with a single mom. The way I look at is this: The woman made her choice to get involved with another man, she had children with that man. She made a horrible choice hence why she is no single with a kid. You had your chance, you screwed it up. I wont put myself in a situation where you (the woman) screws up my life as well. I also am not supporting another mans child.
Exactly. I know a SM who left her husband (two very young kids) rode the CC for a few years , now wants a husband. Unbelievable 😂
It's just impossible for me to believe these women are getting pregnant by accident somehow. What they want, and think they can have, is sex and offspring, with one man. And have another man (or the government!) pay for it.
Thanks!
I can promise this guy who is thinking with the wrong head, that if he becomes legally responsible through consenting to this professional female con artist, that it would be just a few days after he is on the financial hook that she will toss him like the morning trash.
I dated a single woman with children, long story short when the money stops the dating stops
I'm speechless... this just makes me want to remain single.
This guy actually breaks my heart since I have 3 boys that I can see doing similar. I'm 61 with a 35 year old instagram influencer who loans money to my real estate deals, and my tall, handsome boys are shy and can't seem to break through. I'm afraid this scenario can play out in their lives.
Men’s advocate says paternity test should be mandatory at BIRTH.
To not even be wrecked by the woman but to go ahead and just wreck yourself?! Quite possibly one of the saddest things I’ve ever heard.
"Beta Bucks"🤣🤣🤣
OMG this is just the worst situation ever.... I had a friend that did something like this .. he was a "rescuer" As you can expect it didn't go well
Damn
A good friend of mine is now dating a single mother and giving her financial support. Her ex is still around but he has psychological and financial issues. I have said several times this is a bad idea. On top of this my friend is woke and this single mom is black, so she is in my friend's eyes oppressed.
As these are hard times and people have less money, so does my friend. And he says he needs to talk about this with her because he can't afford to support her much longer. So he is trying to get her to move in with him with the kids to save money.
But months after that, nothing seems to have changed.
I will need to talk to my friend more about this, but I wonder if that will help much.
Don't. You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. "Friend" is an anchor that needs to be cut lose!
Go woke go broke.
He will get his krama I almost did this to an ex friend mines I still trying to find a meaningful purpose I am not chasing no one from a woman perspective I am at place is about my peace
This man, if I can even call him that, has clearly been with next to no women in his life. Anyone who knows there is always another woman around the corner would NEVER do something like this.
Common sense isn't so common anymore...
We live in a clown world unfortunately
It's so rare that it can now be considered a superpower.
I have EXPERIENCE. Kids were dysfunctional, mother dysfunctional. Caused stress on the marriage despite me trying to be noble and welcome them all in. Did my research late into the Marriage and discovered a pattern with the past relationships and baby daddy.
the thing about single moms is that they never say they have kids, until after you start courting her. then you just cut her off. :/
(feels messy sometimes, but it must be done.)
My experience has been they always tell me they have kids before i even ask them out and when i hear that i just nope right on out of there😂 they always seem so disappointed too 😂
New generation of single moms are totally waste of time. Save yourself guys.
A definite no-no, especially paying for everything having just met her 😳 and then to carry on paying if they split up 😬
Brother, you are the man! Straight up! Such important information. Passed on to my bfam fools
A classmate of mine did this in high school. He was a great guy- hope it worked out.
Hard brutal truths. Thanks, Rich.
I bet the guy is still going to go through with it even after listening to Rich and the comments. Some people can’t be saved.
Reminds me of the quote from Cool Hand Luke: "Some men you just can't reach. So you get what we had here last week, which is the way he wants it; we'll, he gets it. I don't like it any more than you men."
"But she's different. She loves me!" 🤪
@@charlesadams41”We don’t need no Civil Waaaaahhhhrr”
Imagine going to a lawyer and telling him that you want him to draft a "reverse pre-nuptial agreement"!!! That you will pay the lawyer to write such a document that has never been written before because no one that stupid has thought of wanting it before. This document will make sure that none of your assets are protected and you will be required to pay alimony and/or child support.
I'm actually starting to see this kind of behaviour a lot more. I liken it to the masochistic aspect of the "dark tetrad." Guys like to set themselves up for this kind of this kind of relationship, chop of their body parts, tuck their body parts, etc etc., and the reason is because of masochism.
Remember if they can do it to someone else, they can do it to YOU too!
Remember that as you begin to uncover her past and who she is as a person to others.
I learned this the hard way. If she could kick the father to the curb, what made me any better? Things you don't think about when you're thinking with your little "head" instead of the big one. Lost 4 years to her and that kid, which broke my heart twice!
there are too many "good guys", guys with a superhero complex that want to save the world and make everybody happy. Those guys are the one that eat the " happy wife / gf , happy life" and tend to give everything away for a smiles, thanks and a bit of S E X. Sadly those heroes are the ones exploited and taken advantage first, they usually become plow horses and never ending pleasers, while everybody roll their eyes on their backs. Those guys are quite dangerous, because they will sacrifice everything in order to get the Alpha partner happy, not just their own interest, everything around.
“…if she was more sure of her future finances AFTER we part ways”
If ever a guys needs a sign to walk away and never look back, this is it.
"A fool and his money are soon parted."
Great video and advice/ I have just one thing to say to this guy wanting to fix or help ths single mom / (ready) Run----------I mean just Run------------ Run for your life/