The five minute rule! I have a two year old and our house looks like a tornado went through it and a lot of the time I leave it because I feel too overwhelmed with all the stuff. I need to toss things and make cleaning mote efficient.
1. 5 minute rule (if you can’t clean a room in 5 minutes there’s too much stuff in that room) 2. If this wasn’t mine how much would I pay to purchase it? 3. One in one out rule 4. No single use items (ex: apple slicer, a dress you can only wear to one kind of event with one kind of bra) 5. If it’s not for your season then there isn’t a reason (ex: fantasy self) 6. 90/90 rule (if you haven’t used it in last 90 days and won’t in next 90 it’s gotta go) 7. Stop being a storage facility for other people
I watched this video and thought, ok, this isn't too different from what all the other organization people say. Then I started looking around my house and asked "Can I live without this?" and it brought an entirely new perspective on my stuff. It's such a small change in what we ask ourselves, but is life-changing in the results. There are lots of items in the kitchen alone I would have thought I "needed" but I am really OK living without them! Wow. This is brilliant. And actually it's easier for me to make a decision on whether to keep something or not.
Three months ago I started a “one thing out every day” program. A box on the garage collects all the stuff and at the end of the month I take the box(s) to a donate center. I try to make sure I have 7 things in the box at the end of each week. So far 90 things have left the house. Some things are small (CDs, books, jewelry, art and office supplies) and some are large. It’s so freeing!!! I still have a long way to go😅
I think that's a great idea as I have a garage and conservatory full of old stuff too good to bin, a lot is from my late parents house. It's really hard and over whelming to tackle but I think your idea of a few items at a time is a great idea, I have been promising myself to do car boot sales for years but it never happens always excuses. So it's almost new year so I think it's a good time to try your idea out as sounds the gentler option. Hopefully this time next year I will feel less burdened and free so I can enjoy my living space. Thank you for sharing 😊
There's a video going around the internet with a lady's voice repeatedly saying, "Don't put it down, put it away." I love this motto and it's much easier if there is less stuff around.
When I’m decluttering my wardrobe and I’m undecided on a piece, I ask myself- if I can live without it (yes -it goes) and is it my favourite (no-it goes) and this has helped me so much more than ‘do I like it’. I only want to wear my favourites…
I got more sorted when i realised I had no “ place” for things. I began with pens and pencils - whenever I found them, I put them all in one place ( a drawer). Ditto craft stuff, ditto mugs in kitchen cupboards. I had hoarded gift bags, so I use them as donation bags and tried to take one with me every car trip, small amounts at a time. I just yesterday gathered all the baskets I have collected, I like three, the rest I am going to sew liners for ( using my fabric stash!), and donate to the church fundraising stall coming up pre. Xmas. I can do it!
😢I came upon this great useful video today after I made a recent choice to minimize my living. All her points are credible and worth exploring. One point in particular stood out. I currently do not use social media expect to buy and sell. And if you count RUclips. I rarely comment. Her point on social media is so bang on and deserves a mention! I feel things like Facebook chatter, instagram and TikTok if you are so attached ( like hourly, or even daily) rob our lives of time that could be used for face to face human connections, ambition to perform even simple tasks or even large projects needing your attention. Procrastinating is a big one! You may be indeed addicted to so many media connections that tasks and commitments you made are pushed back to engage in your “social life.” what ever happened to having a meal or watching a movie with a friend or spouse and not fidgeting with a device? Instead we instinctively dig for our device to respond to the notifications that interrupt our real time life! Dropping the social media habit will improve your immediate relationships, enrich your conversation with others and put your mind and body at rest as soon as it realizes there are no notifications that need attention NOW! The other points she made will not only free up your mind but your time with family. Your living space, schedule and bank account will change for the good. I’m not a hoarder by a long shot but sentimental values for things is a struggle in my life.
My mom hangs everything backwards on her closet rail and flips the hanger when she wears something. I find clothing really hard, but this method makes it easier.
The storage space for other people really hit me. The loss of my Grams hit me sooo hard I collected everything from her house that no one else wanted and I moved that stuff 2x before I finally let my husband have a yardsale and I went away for 2 days. But I photo'd everything to keep the memories and not the stuff. I'm downsizing from 2k soft hs to now 600 and the rule about single use things is going to help me sooo much in the kitchen. I am also watching this video 2-3 times a day to hammer it in. TY
Keeping something out of sentimental value is not a bad thing. memories come from them, obviously too much stuff can stifle that, but I have possessions which belonged to both my grandparents and my hubbies grandparents, our past is where we came from.
Another tip I got from someone else - if the item doesn't evoke happy memories (only guilt, sadness, etc), get rid of it out of your life. Keep the things that give you joy.
We live in a family house that holds the things from estates of at least 5 other couples. It would sure be nice to have space for my own things because good gad. I have to stealth donate because I live in fear my in laws will ask where something is. Why they didn’t gut the house of all the stuff is a long story. It’s a thing
I recently moved states and went back to clean out my storage unit. I threw out and gave away a lot of stuff that my sister (she passed away in 2021) gave me. I told myself not to feel guilty about it. I knew I wouldn’t use it so there was no reason to keep it.
"You are not a storage facility for other people." This statement really got my attention; sometimes I find myself "setting the stage" in my home, as if readying it for other people and what they might think, from the books on my shelves to the greeting cards I hang up to share. All of this for what? We rarely have visitors and the people who do come to see us love us for who/how/why/what we are any ol' which way! As soon as I post this comment I'm going to re-examine some of my aesthetic choices...thank you :)!
“If it’s not for your season, then there isn’t a reason” - hearing this finally allowed me to let go of some sentimental items I’ve been wanting to release for a long time but haven’t. Thanks for creating these videos you have a beautiful channel! ❤️
@@carolglaze1499 I was holding onto sentimental items that were given to me that were beautiful, but actually created pain when I held them. They reminded me of painful past moments, people, etc and I knew that I could not hold onto them anymore even though they were gifted to me. It was as if I had to free myself of the item to let go of the past. I now only will keep those that truly make me happy and hold positive memories 🫶🏻 I hope this helps
@@carolglaze1499 for me I let go of sentimental items that brought me pain. Ones that I held onto since they were gifts, etc. It was like closing an old chapter. I hope this helps 😊
@MONEYBAGARTSfor me that allows more crap to be hoarded. I have things under the bed in closets in storage bins etc that I haven’t used or don’t need but just can’t let go. I have to declutter and not use those spaces so what I own I see . Not there yet but that’s the plan. ONE DAY ❤
TEN ITEM WARDROBE!!!! Oh my gosh!! I had to go back several times and make sure I was hearing that right! You are a goddess! I can't even imagine paring down to just 10. I am going away for 3 days and I have more than that going with me. Obviously, I had to find you. Such an inspiration!
I declutterred my attic, I moved in to this house in 2006 and filled the attic at that time. In 2018 I decided to sort through it. I took 2 loads to the tip and filled a charity van, all I had left in the attic was 2 boxes and some important papers. I then decided to do the same with the garage, time to do the same with the rest of the house now
I have hoarded for so long “for my children” because I was a new mum with nothing. 20yrs later and I’m very much at breaking point. I’ve watched a lot of videos on this subject trying to find an answer and you have hit the nail on the head. Thanks :-)
oh wow - this was really rich. Especially rule no.5, "if it's not for your season, then there isn't a reason" (to acquire or keep something) got me going deep... I have a lot of past-self physical things that keep me tied to a time that was wonderful and very important, but is long past. Being surrounded by these things leaves me feeling that nothing compares to that time, so my present is always lacking... which is so not good for fully being here, appreciating *this* season of my life with its own unique gifts, and making the most of it here & now! Fantasy-self is also really interesting... it's not so much physical clutter, more mental baggage like expectations others had (or I had) who/what I should become. Now the future is here, and I am/my life is different from those expectations; the fantasy has not come true. The mental baggage keeps telling me: your life is not what it was meant to be! Your present self is not who you should have become! Which makes me feel miserable, and results in closing off to the present rather than opening into it. I'm missing out on my actual life, because of old fantasy-selves cluttering up my mind and my heart. This stuff has got to go!!!
Tech clutter gets me. I have so many pictures I’ll never use, so many posts tagged and memes. Also the physical stuff, cords I have no idea what they go to, old iPads iPhones, computers and drives that I don’t know how to get rid of. I have been minimizing over the last year, and my challenge is my craft space. Hanging onto what I may do when I have more time, and what is already paid for.
"If it wasn't mine, how much would I pay for it?"... so helpful. I've also heard it framed "If I was moving cross country, would I pay to have this shipped?" I have a bag beautiful but ill fitting summer clothes that are getting donated this spring.
So grateful for people like yourself who take the time to share your helpful insights :) The tip that clicked with me the most is ‘what would I pay for this if I didn’t already own it?’ Wow, I feel like I just unlocked the next level of declutterring. Thank you 🙏🏼
Not being a storage space for other people for me looks like- Setting hard boundaries & Saying "No thank you" to the people who constantly try to gift their hand me downs (aka trash they feel bad getting rid of) to me & my family. When people find out we are living a Minimalist lifestyle, family especially, has tried to get us to take things we don't need or want. It's hard for people to get the concept that an over abundance of material items does not bring me joy.
Thank you Jess, so helpful. This year with lots of healing from Christ i started pulling things out of storage boxes and ask myself, do i enjoy this item and have I needed it the past year? If yes, i start using it and enjoying it with gratitude. Example, 10 unframed watercolor pictures i have had 20 years in a box. So this year i took measurements & have found 5 nice matted inexpensive frames at thrift store. Now the art decorates my walls & brings me joy. Five more to go.
I lived in a motor home with a ahopaholic. That was when I first heard of and began applying the one-in-one-out rule. Except because our home was soooo cluttered, I changed it to one-in-TWO-out. Gradually decluttering. Worked!!
Hi Connie, I am sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom, and I hope you are able to take it all one day at a time. When my Dad passed, I held onto as many things as I possibly could, but over time, as the emotional intensity of my grief eased, bit by bit, I was able to slowly let things go, give them away, donate, gift away etc. It took time and me changing (as time does change us and our perspectives, our needs) in order to do this, and it took days, weeks, months and even years. In the beginning, our living room looked like a Dad museum. I think this is a very personal process unique to you, it is not to be rushed or pressured, but do keep your eyes and heart open, gently asking yourself questions of curiosity along the way. Take good care and give yourself time, XOXO
Connie I can relate to this. We lost grandparents and two of our parents and their stuff was forced on us by a mom who couldn't keep it but couldn't let go. I'm going to try taking pictures of the stuff collecting dust so I can get rid of it. Wishing you success
I cared for my grandmother, my mother, 2 aunts...I got stuff from each..that mental/heart clutter has had a hold of me for 30 years!! I need to release all this. I am going to take pictures of the "important". Slowly go here.
Wonderful ideas! May I add, as a mom whose kids are grown now, you will make your life much easier as they get older if you teach them to help with cleanup. They often love to count and sort things and be praised for it, so having them put things away as you go or when you are finished is a great habit to start building with them to make both of your lives better.
The only rule I disregard is the single-use. I make room for an apple-peeler, an egg-slicer, a strawberry huller, and a corkscrew in the kitchen. They're seasonal but as necessary as my snow-shovel. My rule is The Prime Real Estate belongs to everyday items. The top shelf, the deep corner of the lower cupboard, etc. are places for seasonal items. .
My single-use items are my sushi rolling mat, my apple corer, and my strawberry/tomato corer that also does a great job of scraping out bell peppers :) Single-use items only become a problem in my opinion when you have lots of them--including large ones--and very limited space to work with....and if you haven't already simplified your kitchen.
Same thoughts. Single use Apple peeler/corer invaluable when processing apples. I think the issue is more single use items that are literally single use. You know, the pineapple corer and slicer that you use for a party & never again because you don’t buy pineapples! That stuff needs to go/not be bought at all!
Just wanted to say that as someone with adhd and all of the organisational nightmares that come with that, I found this video really refreshing and am not a subscriber. I began with some of your advice this morning and will do some more this afternoon. Thank you!
DANG ok a random video that I expected to be full of things I’ve heard before and would just fill the ten minutes between tasks turned out to be extremely timely and relevant. I get the sense this is not a bit - she’s for real and it shows. That level of calm, assured, contentment??? Yes please. I’ve been saying for months we have too much stuff and no one seems to agree. Everyone tells me that’s just how it is. This is a breath of fresh air and so validating, Jess. Thanks for sharing your truth and inspiring us to follow ours, no matter what “the culture” is telling us!!! ❤
👋 This is the first video of yours that I'm seeing, thanks to the RUclips algorithm. I was very impressed with the quality of your content and how well-spoken you are!
Thank you. Such wonderful advice. I am currently starting to declutter again. It really helps with opening up your space for sure, but it helps with your mental state and gives you peace in your space. I always say less is more. When you have less to manage and wash and put away, then you have more time for yourself and your relationships so you can be present. It helps with feeling weighed down, depressed and even feeling guilty because you can't keep your space clean. Too much stuff and clutter can cause you to feel overwhelmed, I am very visual, so when there is to much in a space it feels like there is no room for my self. I love everything you shared and I will come back to this video to watch again as I start declutter my space which is currently just a bedroom & bathroom. Thank you so much. Blessings I so agree with what you said about social media. I am only on YT but I also see I need to declutter this as well. Thanks again.
There is a party of my basement that is filled with household goods of my daughter, who has lived abroad for eight years now. I'm hoarding all that stuff in case she ever comes back, even though she told me years ago to dispose of it. Thanks to you, this stuff is now going out the door, and good riddance! 😅
Hi Jessica! I rwlly like the "rule" about stop storing stuff for others. Since I had that epifany myself some years ago it helped my alot. I often practice this when I help or try to motivate other people decluttering to. Tho I take it one step furter and look at all things (boxes aso) people actually store. Many people save their kids outgrown stuff either "small kids"-items in case the kids want them when they are grown ups or they store their young adult childrens stuff when the kids have left home. They do this instead of making decisions/making their young adult sort their stuff and the stuff just sits there for years and years and often gets destroyed by the material not aging well. All this is taking space that could be used in other ways, that make the home look cluttered or that hinder other things/activities for the person who shuld be in charge of the space. As you say it, it´s the same with gifts and things we inherrit, sometimes we don´t want them but keep them because of the person who gave us them. It becomes guilt and that is not a good feeling to have of items in ones own home. All this stuff people are keeping can also stop someone form having a better economy, a healtier life, from relocation or downsizeing aso. You talk about doing, having and bying things because others have them. I think big seldom used (formal) dining rooms are one of those things. Not all of us need one or can really afford to have a room like that or perhaps we would be better with a big fun hobby room . Still some people keep rooms that is nearly never used. It´s the same with big sitting areas, sofas, large collections of dinnerware and even space. When I am out helping people declutter (mostly family, extended family, friends aso) and the one I am helping gets their Aha! moment and se this, that you don´t need to keep stuff etc for others its such a shift in how they look at their homes, stuff and their oppertunites. It´s really fun to watch.
It’s nice to see you actually have some decor in your home and it’s not a beige empty non lived in space. I feel like I can’t call myself a “minimalist” because I have decor on mi walls and a china cabinet. When really we don’t have a lot of stuff, I keep things cleaned and organized, and have a paired down wardrobe. So thank you!
That's why I really like Joshua Becker's definition of "minimalism" - it's something to the effect of "the intentional promotion of the things that matter and the removal of the things that detract from it".
I’ve been waiting for your video to drop all morning! You’re one of the few RUclipsrs I love listening to that I feel like actually provides value and stimulates my brain! Lol. Love your content ❤️
Number six is the most difficult for me. While some memorabilia (old service uniforms) are merely taking up a little space in the attic, other items-old textbooks, hobby gear, etc-not only take up physical but also emotional space. I hope that, as the kids get older, or when they leave home, I may once again have time and energy for those pursuits. And as money gets harder to come by, I’m more afraid to get rid of something only to have to buy it again, if I can even find a replacement. (Eg some of what was in my textbooks that I got rid of I cannot find online in as easily digestible form. )
Adding this to my motivation playlist! NO plans of moving, but I'm decluttering in preparation for the next move. My poor husband is still having flashbacks from all of my stuff I had him move. #5 spoke to me.
Appreciate the idea of storing other people’s things as in other people’s ideas of what I should have. Falling prey to the marketing and such. Good food for thought!!
Thank you thank you thank you for making this video. You have put these ideas in such a good way that I feel like I will be able to get my husband to understand. I’m very glad I found this/you. I’ll be sharing this with my friend in California who really needs to hear this as well. ❤❤❤
This content takes other "decluttering/tidying our homes" videos to a next level. Thank you Jess! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ *Currently clearing out upwards of a decades worth of miscellaneous gift stash itens* 😊❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Great tips. I need to get rid of more. A large family here, and even though we have far less than some families half our size, it still gets overwhelming and messy. Bedrooms get so messy when there’s 2 or 3 kids in each room. They can’t keep it tidy. Our master room is also hard to keep tidy and minimal as it seems to become a dumping ground for things because we don’t have space elsewhere - my donation pile, the cat litter tray, the “I don’t have a home for this yet but there’s no where else for it to go” piles. It does not serve our room well.
I have a lot of stuff, collectible items. I think the smart thing to do is to decide which ones I really treasure, and let the other ones go. When I’m deciding, I think about the new people and homes that my things will hopefully go to, and I wish that they will be treasured and enjoyed. I also give away things for free on Craigslist. That’s part of the process, not knowing what is going to happen…it’s a little scary but also liberating and nice to have space.
We have accumulated so much stuff since we’ve had kids and moved into a bigger house. We used to be quite minimal and all this stuff is causing me so much stress The thing that stops me from decluttering is the guilt of overconsumption. Our accumulation will be the cause of more trash (not everything can be donated) or stuff in the world (for what can be donated) I’m at the point where I HAVE to declutter for my mental health, but if we don’t change our consumption habits, that decluttering guilt will never end…which also strains my mental health 🙃 my family needs to have a serous values realignment. And I am so passed ready for that hard conversation Thanks for this short and encouraging video
One thing that helped me was to realize these things are going to exist somewhere in the world. That place does not need to be my home. I do not need to store trash bc I feel bad about throwing it out. 🙏
I definitely need to revisit the season topic. But when you spoke of the mugs...I had a giggle as I have all unique mugs I picked up pretty much 2nd hand or on vacation that that I usually paid between 50 cents and 5 Euros for. So...although I do need to get rid of some of the sentimental ones that are not a fit - I actually like my everyday mugs that I would still happily pay 50 cents or a dollar for again. 😁🥰. Great video though...I need to try the 5 min rule. But first, I need to clean out more storage clutter. Looking forward to checking out your channel. Thanks!
I am getting to a point that I forgot I had some items, it is time to declutter. My reasonning is if I havent touched and used an item in year it has to go. Today I gave away some Christmas decor that I didn't use. I dont need to decorate the whole house anymore, a little bit is enough. I also have to confront my fantasy self and the stuff that goes with it; I will never play the violin. I kept things form my mom when she downsized and my dad passed. Somehow I kept some things in an effort to keep his memory, but hey! My dad is not coming back to use his favorite saw, I can sell it.
First time watcher...I once heard this...has this item served it's purpose? If so, it's ok to let it go." Dawn from Minimalist Mom...wow, game changer. Rule 1 made me think, especially of my bedroom. Time to get busy and serious about decluttering!
This five minute rule is really applicable now that our beautiful home is on the market & to easily prepare for showings. I will definitely take this rule with us as we move into a new rental townhome. Thanks, Jess! ❤
These rules are really helpful. As a mom with young kids, I have one question that I think makes this difficult to see applying: do you buy physical gifts for your kids that are things they want and don’t need? How do you keep their things from adding up?
Maybe a kid-friendly version of 1-in-1 -out ruel would be helpful? I watched a video with a kid that where told to put his old toys in a bag that santa could bring and give to other smaller kids. He seemed to enjoy to sort it out and felt proud that he was a big boy now. And as a result he voluntairly gave away parts of his toy colection at the same time as he got new toys.
So excellent. I do the one in, one out but I have been holding on so many clothes and items because "one day I'll need this." Love number 2 and number 4. Thank you!
I would love to see a video about running a business without social media! I have recently deleted my social media but am contemplating just doing my business pages. But I feel so hypocritical lol!
Love this so much, thank you for articulating the philosophy and suggesting new and better ways to become spacious. The last rule is my favorite. (Btw do you really have a 5 min rule in the kitchen? How do you do dishes or load and empty dishwasher in under 5 min?)
Thank you very much! The Mug rule was a real eye-opener. I looked at my stuff and wept: had it not been mine, I would have parted with most of it unflinchingly. 💖 But the season rule really cut me to the quick. "Where you're supposed to be". This is the greatest truth I've ever heard. It opened my eyes to the fact that I did indeed continue to lead a fantasy existence in my head instead of appreciating my real life journey. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! 🙏🙏💖
Oh wow, thank you for making this video, it speaks to me ALOT. I already use 1 or 2 of these rules but I don't enforce them all the time and I need to implement ALL of them asap.
#5 "if it's not for your season there isn't a reason" this one really caught my attention. I lost my husband 4 years ago and I still keep a lot of things that I will probably never use or wear again. I'm slowly letting go, and this statement helps me see a good reason too. Thank you.
As someone with chronic illness and ADHD, this made me feel better about myself and that I can tackle the cleaning of my house slowly but still efficiently. Thank you for sharing 🥹💜
Jan. 1, all clothes are hung with the hangers backwards. After the first, clothes that are worn are hung with hangers foreward. On Dec. 31, any clothes hanging on backwards hangers are donated. If I haven't worn it in the last year, I'm not going to.
Wow thank you! This is one of the best videos I’ve watched on decluttering! I loved the value point. That you put value to it cause it’s yours. I’m currently not home but can’t wait to get back and declutter some 😅
All of them!! This was 🔥🔥🔥 You've translated these ideas into language I understand that goes behind the excuses, anxiety and rationalisation. New subscriber here 🙋🏾♀️
Makes perfect sense to me and you managed to really motivate me ☺️ Stopped the video half-way through, went into the kitchen and sorted out my mugs 😄. Good stuff, thank you 🙏🏻❤️
Which of these are you planning on trying out?
Getting rid of things that aren’t in my season anymore!
The five minute rule! I have a two year old and our house looks like a tornado went through it and a lot of the time I leave it because I feel too overwhelmed with all the stuff. I need to toss things and make cleaning mote efficient.
The year rule. There are garden tools that get passed over and others that are the favorites. Why keep the unused?
The 5 minute rule! It's brilliant 👏
😂 do you do house calls
1. 5 minute rule (if you can’t clean a room in 5 minutes there’s too much stuff in that room)
2. If this wasn’t mine how much would I pay to purchase it?
3. One in one out rule
4. No single use items (ex: apple slicer, a dress you can only wear to one kind of event with one kind of bra)
5. If it’s not for your season then there isn’t a reason (ex: fantasy self)
6. 90/90 rule (if you haven’t used it in last 90 days and won’t in next 90 it’s gotta go)
7. Stop being a storage facility for other people
brb throwing out my winter coat
Thank you for the cliff notes! 😅
Thanks! So so tired of videos that take 10 minutes to say something that can be said in under ONE.
very good comment
Thank you for summarizing
I watched this video and thought, ok, this isn't too different from what all the other organization people say. Then I started looking around my house and asked "Can I live without this?" and it brought an entirely new perspective on my stuff. It's such a small change in what we ask ourselves, but is life-changing in the results. There are lots of items in the kitchen alone I would have thought I "needed" but I am really OK living without them! Wow. This is brilliant. And actually it's easier for me to make a decision on whether to keep something or not.
Three months ago I started a “one thing out every day” program. A box on the garage collects all the stuff and at the end of the month I take the box(s) to a donate center. I try to make sure I have 7 things in the box at the end of each week. So far 90 things have left the house. Some things are small (CDs, books, jewelry, art and office supplies) and some are large. It’s so freeing!!! I still have a long way to go😅
I think that's a great idea as I have a garage and conservatory full of old stuff too good to bin, a lot is from my late parents house. It's really hard and over whelming to tackle but I think your idea of a few items at a time is a great idea, I have been promising myself to do car boot sales for years but it never happens always excuses. So it's almost new year so I think it's a good time to try your idea out as sounds the gentler option. Hopefully this time next year I will feel less burdened and free so I can enjoy my living space. Thank you for sharing 😊
There's a video going around the internet with a lady's voice repeatedly saying, "Don't put it down, put it away." I love this motto and it's much easier if there is less stuff around.
Yes that video was life changing!
My mom, now 97, taught us "A place for everything and everything in its place."
When I’m decluttering my wardrobe and I’m undecided on a piece, I ask myself- if I can live without it (yes -it goes) and is it my favourite (no-it goes) and this has helped me so much more than ‘do I like it’. I only want to wear my favourites…
Love that!
Sound advice 👍🏻
This is harsh…but I like it! 😃
Lol. I would end up with nothing to wear! 😂
Me,too!!!!
I got more sorted when i realised I had no “ place” for things. I began with pens and pencils - whenever I found them, I put them all in one place ( a drawer). Ditto craft stuff, ditto mugs in kitchen cupboards. I had hoarded gift bags, so I use them as donation bags and tried to take one with me every car trip, small amounts at a time. I just yesterday gathered all the baskets I have collected, I like three, the rest I am going to sew liners for ( using my fabric stash!), and donate to the church fundraising stall coming up pre. Xmas. I can do it!
And if you never get around to it, you will take them AND the fabric stadh to charity right?😉
Thank you for calling out decluttering our mental space by deleting social media! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Whole-heartedly agree!
😢I came upon this great useful video today after I made a recent choice to minimize my living. All her points are credible and worth exploring. One point in particular stood out. I currently do not use social media expect to buy and sell. And if you count RUclips. I rarely comment. Her point on social media is so bang on and deserves a mention!
I feel things like Facebook chatter, instagram and TikTok if you are so attached ( like hourly, or even daily) rob our lives of time that could be used for face to face human connections, ambition to perform even simple tasks or even large projects needing your attention. Procrastinating is a big one! You may be indeed addicted to so many media connections that tasks and commitments you made are pushed back to engage in your “social life.” what ever happened to having a meal or watching a movie with a friend or spouse and not fidgeting with a device? Instead we instinctively dig for our device to respond to the notifications that interrupt our real time life!
Dropping the social media habit will improve your immediate relationships, enrich your conversation with others and put your mind and body at rest as soon as it realizes there are no notifications that need attention NOW!
The other points she made will not only free up your mind but your time with family. Your living space, schedule and bank account will change for the good. I’m not a hoarder by a long shot but sentimental values for things is a struggle in my life.
yes!! this has been so freeing for me in the past year or so
at baby #2 I got off Facebook... almost 10 years ago and haven't looked back!
Not to mention some people let it destroy their relationships
My mom hangs everything backwards on her closet rail and flips the hanger when she wears something. I find clothing really hard, but this method makes it easier.
The storage space for other people really hit me. The loss of my Grams hit me sooo hard I collected everything from her house that no one else wanted and I moved that stuff 2x before I finally let my husband have a yardsale and I went away for 2 days. But I photo'd everything to keep the memories and not the stuff. I'm downsizing from 2k soft hs to now 600 and the rule about single use things is going to help me sooo much in the kitchen.
I am also watching this video 2-3 times a day to hammer it in. TY
Im honored that this is helping you to simplify! That sounds like a massive step you've done already!
Keeping something out of sentimental value is not a bad thing. memories come from them, obviously too much stuff can stifle that, but I have possessions which belonged to both my grandparents and my hubbies grandparents, our past is where we came from.
Another tip I got from someone else - if the item doesn't evoke happy memories (only guilt, sadness, etc), get rid of it out of your life. Keep the things that give you joy.
‘I am not a storage facility for other people’ l. This is so true and so well said.
We live in a family house that holds the things from estates of at least 5 other couples. It would sure be nice to have space for my own things because good gad. I have to stealth donate because I live in fear my in laws will ask where something is. Why they didn’t gut the house of all the stuff is a long story. It’s a thing
I recently moved states and went back to clean out my storage unit. I threw out and gave away a lot of stuff that my sister (she passed away in 2021) gave me. I told myself not to feel guilty about it. I knew I wouldn’t use it so there was no reason to keep it.
❤Sorry for your loss.
"You are not a storage facility for other people." This statement really got my attention; sometimes I find myself "setting the stage" in my home, as if readying it for other people and what they might think, from the books on my shelves to the greeting cards I hang up to share. All of this for what? We rarely have visitors and the people who do come to see us love us for who/how/why/what we are any ol' which way! As soon as I post this comment I'm going to re-examine some of my aesthetic choices...thank you :)!
I take this point to mean that I shouldn’t be storing “stuff” for my grown up kids who all have their own homes. If only!
“If it’s not for your season, then there isn’t a reason” - hearing this finally allowed me to let go of some sentimental items I’ve been wanting to release for a long time but haven’t. Thanks for creating these videos you have a beautiful channel! ❤️
Love that! & thank you!
How did you get rid of sentimental items?
@@carolglaze1499 I was holding onto sentimental items that were given to me that were beautiful, but actually created pain when I held them. They reminded me of painful past moments, people, etc and I knew that I could not hold onto them anymore even though they were gifted to me. It was as if I had to free myself of the item to let go of the past. I now only will keep those that truly make me happy and hold positive memories 🫶🏻 I hope this helps
@@carolglaze1499 for me I let go of sentimental items that brought me pain. Ones that I held onto since they were gifts, etc. It was like closing an old chapter. I hope this helps 😊
@MONEYBAGARTSfor me that allows more crap to be hoarded. I have things under the bed in closets in storage bins etc that I haven’t used or don’t need but just can’t let go. I have to declutter and not use those spaces so what I own I see . Not there yet but that’s the plan. ONE DAY ❤
TEN ITEM WARDROBE!!!! Oh my gosh!! I had to go back several times and make sure I was hearing that right! You are a goddess! I can't even imagine paring down to just 10. I am going away for 3 days and I have more than that going with me. Obviously, I had to find you. Such an inspiration!
I couldn’t do a 10 item wardrobe. Where I live it gets to 100° and down to the single digits.
BEST decluttering video I’ve come across yet after hours and years of listening.
I declutterred my attic, I moved in to this house in 2006 and filled the attic at that time. In 2018 I decided to sort through it. I took 2 loads to the tip and filled a charity van, all I had left in the attic was 2 boxes and some important papers. I then decided to do the same with the garage, time to do the same with the rest of the house now
Awesome and inspiring 👏
I have hoarded for so long “for my children” because I was a new mum with nothing. 20yrs later and I’m very much at breaking point. I’ve watched a lot of videos on this subject trying to find an answer and you have hit the nail on the head. Thanks :-)
oh wow - this was really rich. Especially rule no.5, "if it's not for your season, then there isn't a reason" (to acquire or keep something) got me going deep... I have a lot of past-self physical things that keep me tied to a time that was wonderful and very important, but is long past. Being surrounded by these things leaves me feeling that nothing compares to that time, so my present is always lacking... which is so not good for fully being here, appreciating *this* season of my life with its own unique gifts, and making the most of it here & now!
Fantasy-self is also really interesting... it's not so much physical clutter, more mental baggage like expectations others had (or I had) who/what I should become. Now the future is here, and I am/my life is different from those expectations; the fantasy has not come true. The mental baggage keeps telling me: your life is not what it was meant to be! Your present self is not who you should have become! Which makes me feel miserable, and results in closing off to the present rather than opening into it. I'm missing out on my actual life, because of old fantasy-selves cluttering up my mind and my heart. This stuff has got to go!!!
Tech clutter gets me. I have so many pictures I’ll never use, so many posts tagged and memes. Also the physical stuff, cords I have no idea what they go to, old iPads iPhones, computers and drives that I don’t know how to get rid of. I have been minimizing over the last year, and my challenge is my craft space. Hanging onto what I may do when I have more time, and what is already paid for.
Best Buy has recycling bins for old cords, tech stuff and will even take one appliance or tech item for recycling, usually.
"If it wasn't mine, how much would I pay for it?"... so helpful. I've also heard it framed "If I was moving cross country, would I pay to have this shipped?" I have a bag beautiful but ill fitting summer clothes that are getting donated this spring.
So grateful for people like yourself who take the time to share your helpful insights :)
The tip that clicked with me the most is ‘what would I pay for this if I didn’t already own it?’ Wow, I feel like I just unlocked the next level of declutterring.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Not being a storage space for other people for me looks like-
Setting hard boundaries &
Saying "No thank you" to the people who constantly try to gift their hand me downs (aka trash they feel bad getting rid of) to me & my family. When people find out we are living a Minimalist lifestyle, family especially, has tried to get us to take things we don't need or want. It's hard for people to get the concept that an over abundance of material items does not bring me joy.
What has been helpful to me is the advice to let the store, store it for me!
love this!
Thank you Jess, so helpful. This year with lots of healing from Christ i started pulling things out of storage boxes and ask myself, do i enjoy this item and have I needed it the past year? If yes, i start using it and enjoying it with gratitude. Example, 10 unframed watercolor pictures i have had 20 years in a box. So this year i took measurements & have found 5 nice matted inexpensive frames at thrift store. Now the art decorates my walls & brings me joy. Five more to go.
I lived in a motor home with a ahopaholic. That was when I first heard of and began applying the one-in-one-out rule. Except because our home was soooo cluttered, I changed it to one-in-TWO-out. Gradually decluttering. Worked!!
*shopoholic
Thanks for sharing. Guilt clutter….My Mom passed away, and I have her things stored that I need to go through. So many memories. It’s hard to let go.
Hi Connie, I am sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom, and I hope you are able to take it all one day at a time. When my Dad passed, I held onto as many things as I possibly could, but over time, as the emotional intensity of my grief eased, bit by bit, I was able to slowly let things go, give them away, donate, gift away etc. It took time and me changing (as time does change us and our perspectives, our needs) in order to do this, and it took days, weeks, months and even years. In the beginning, our living room looked like a Dad museum. I think this is a very personal process unique to you, it is not to be rushed or pressured, but do keep your eyes and heart open, gently asking yourself questions of curiosity along the way. Take good care and give yourself time, XOXO
@@CakeandPants Thank You for the kind comment.
Connie I can relate to this. We lost grandparents and two of our parents and their stuff was forced on us by a mom who couldn't keep it but couldn't let go. I'm going to try taking pictures of the stuff collecting dust so I can get rid of it. Wishing you success
I cared for my grandmother, my mother, 2 aunts...I got stuff from each..that mental/heart clutter has had a hold of me for 30 years!! I need to release all this. I am going to take pictures of the "important". Slowly go here.
Wonderful ideas! May I add, as a mom whose kids are grown now, you will make your life much easier as they get older if you teach them to help with cleanup. They often love to count and sort things and be praised for it, so having them put things away as you go or when you are finished is a great habit to start building with them to make both of your lives better.
The only rule I disregard is the single-use. I make room for an apple-peeler, an egg-slicer, a strawberry huller, and a corkscrew in the kitchen. They're seasonal but as necessary as my snow-shovel.
My rule is The Prime Real Estate belongs to everyday items. The top shelf, the deep corner of the lower cupboard, etc. are places for seasonal items. .
Agreed. We all pick our own necessities. I like most of those too.
My single-use items are my sushi rolling mat, my apple corer, and my strawberry/tomato corer that also does a great job of scraping out bell peppers :)
Single-use items only become a problem in my opinion when you have lots of them--including large ones--and very limited space to work with....and if you haven't already simplified your kitchen.
LOL I have the same items that I really use and like.
Same thoughts. Single use Apple peeler/corer invaluable when processing apples. I think the issue is more single use items that are literally single use. You know, the pineapple corer and slicer that you use for a party & never again because you don’t buy pineapples! That stuff needs to go/not be bought at all!
Yes my egg slicer came to mind and I will never get rid of that. I'm never trying to cut an egg with a knife again 😂
Just wanted to say that as someone with adhd and all of the organisational nightmares that come with that, I found this video really refreshing and am not a subscriber.
I began with some of your advice this morning and will do some more this afternoon. Thank you!
DANG ok a random video that I expected to be full of things I’ve heard before and would just fill the ten minutes between tasks turned out to be extremely timely and relevant. I get the sense this is not a bit - she’s for real and it shows. That level of calm, assured, contentment??? Yes please. I’ve been saying for months we have too much stuff and no one seems to agree. Everyone tells me that’s just how it is. This is a breath of fresh air and so validating, Jess. Thanks for sharing your truth and inspiring us to follow ours, no matter what “the culture” is telling us!!! ❤
👋 This is the first video of yours that I'm seeing, thanks to the RUclips algorithm.
I was very impressed with the quality of your content and how well-spoken you are!
Thank you. Such wonderful advice. I am currently starting to declutter again. It really helps with opening up your space for sure, but it helps with your mental state and gives you peace in your space. I always say less is more. When you have less to manage and wash and put away, then you have more time for yourself and your relationships so you can be present. It helps with feeling weighed down, depressed and even feeling guilty because you can't keep your space clean. Too much stuff and clutter can cause you to feel overwhelmed, I am very visual, so when there is to much in a space it feels like there is no room for my self. I love everything you shared and I will come back to this video to watch again as I start declutter my space which is currently just a bedroom & bathroom. Thank you so much. Blessings I so agree with what you said about social media. I am only on YT but I also see I need to declutter this as well. Thanks again.
There is a party of my basement that is filled with household goods of my daughter, who has lived abroad for eight years now.
I'm hoarding all that stuff in case she ever comes back, even though she told me years ago to dispose of it.
Thanks to you, this stuff is now going out the door, and good riddance! 😅
Sorry, typo. Meant to say Part of my basement
Ha ha . . . I liked 'party'. The stuff was having a party in your basement,and you weren't invited...oh dear. 😮😮
Rule number 2 appeals to me. I hadn't heard it before. "If it wasn't mine, how much would I pay for it?" Allows us to look at our stuff differently.
I love getting rid of stuff!!! I feel so clear and at peace. Also, you're gorgeous! 🙏
Hi Jessica!
I rwlly like the "rule" about stop storing stuff for others. Since I had that epifany myself some years ago it helped my alot. I often practice this when I help or try to motivate other people decluttering to. Tho I take it one step furter and look at all things (boxes aso) people actually store.
Many people save their kids outgrown stuff either "small kids"-items in case the kids want them when they are grown ups or they store their young adult childrens stuff when the kids have left home. They do this instead of making decisions/making their young adult sort their stuff and the stuff just sits there for years and years and often gets destroyed by the material not aging well.
All this is taking space that could be used in other ways, that make the home look cluttered or that hinder other things/activities for the person who shuld be in charge of the space. As you say it, it´s the same with gifts and things we inherrit, sometimes we don´t want them but keep them because of the person who gave us them. It becomes guilt and that is not a good feeling to have of items in ones own home. All this stuff people are keeping can also stop someone form having a better economy, a healtier life, from relocation or downsizeing aso.
You talk about doing, having and bying things because others have them. I think big seldom used (formal) dining rooms are one of those things. Not all of us need one or can really afford to have a room like that or perhaps we would be better with a big fun hobby room . Still some people keep rooms that is nearly never used. It´s the same with big sitting areas, sofas, large collections of dinnerware and even space.
When I am out helping people declutter (mostly family, extended family, friends aso) and the one I am helping gets their Aha! moment and se this, that you don´t need to keep stuff etc for others its such a shift in how they look at their homes, stuff and their oppertunites. It´s really fun to watch.
I love this! It really is little but life changing
Great collection of tips, done well. Thank you!😊
I really appreciate the way you explain things, thank you 😊
It’s nice to see you actually have some decor in your home and it’s not a beige empty non lived in space. I feel like I can’t call myself a “minimalist” because I have decor on mi walls and a china cabinet. When really we don’t have a lot of stuff, I keep things cleaned and organized, and have a paired down wardrobe. So thank you!
haha I totally get that! To me, minimalism is a lot more about intentionality than strict rules or limitations. I'm glad it spoke to you!
Minimalism has many levels! It’s about not having what you don’t need, not having a specific aesthetic or owning only a certain number of items
That's why I really like Joshua Becker's definition of "minimalism" - it's something to the effect of "the intentional promotion of the things that matter and the removal of the things that detract from it".
@@SnowySpiritRubyI like that too
I love minimal mom! I am 44 and I finally cannot live like this anymore. Wish I figured this out when my babies were babies!
En tant que psychologue, j’apprécie les règles fondées sur des preuves! 😊
I’ve been waiting for your video to drop all morning! You’re one of the few RUclipsrs I love listening to that I feel like actually provides value and stimulates my brain! Lol. Love your content ❤️
that is so sweet!!
Number six is the most difficult for me. While some memorabilia (old service uniforms) are merely taking up a little space in the attic, other items-old textbooks, hobby gear, etc-not only take up physical but also emotional space. I hope that, as the kids get older, or when they leave home, I may once again have time and energy for those pursuits. And as money gets harder to come by, I’m more afraid to get rid of something only to have to buy it again, if I can even find a replacement. (Eg some of what was in my textbooks that I got rid of I cannot find online in as easily digestible form. )
Adding this to my motivation playlist! NO plans of moving, but I'm decluttering in preparation for the next move. My poor husband is still having flashbacks from all of my stuff I had him move. #5 spoke to me.
Appreciate the idea of storing other people’s things as in other people’s ideas of what I should have. Falling prey to the marketing and such. Good food for thought!!
The mug rule - SO TRUE!! I want the one-in one-out rule, especially for my adult son!! Thanks for this video!!
Thank you thank you thank you for making this video. You have put these ideas in such a good way that I feel like I will be able to get my husband to understand. I’m very glad I found this/you. I’ll be sharing this with my friend in California who really needs to hear this as well. ❤❤❤
This content takes other "decluttering/tidying our homes" videos to a next level. Thank you Jess! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
*Currently clearing out upwards of a decades worth of miscellaneous gift stash itens* 😊❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
hahaha go heather!
That denim dress in the first moments of your video is adorable!!
Nice video. I like that you always share the name of the books you read❤
Great tips. I need to get rid of more. A large family here, and even though we have far less than some families half our size, it still gets overwhelming and messy. Bedrooms get so messy when there’s 2 or 3 kids in each room. They can’t keep it tidy. Our master room is also hard to keep tidy and minimal as it seems to become a dumping ground for things because we don’t have space elsewhere - my donation pile, the cat litter tray, the “I don’t have a home for this yet but there’s no where else for it to go” piles. It does not serve our room well.
I totally understand and can relate to that cluttered 'this isn't serving us' feeling!
You are so wise for your years! Thank you for sharing these succinct reminders!!!
Food for thought, I think I need to watch it again. I really have trouble letting go. Thank You!
I have a lot of stuff, collectible items. I think the smart thing to do is to decide which ones I really treasure, and let the other ones go. When I’m deciding, I think about the new people and homes that my things will hopefully go to, and I wish that they will be treasured and enjoyed. I also give away things for free on Craigslist. That’s part of the process, not knowing what is going to happen…it’s a little scary but also liberating and nice to have space.
I‘ve been a minimalist for years but your video still gave me new ideas. Great work, thank you! 😊
One of the best decluttering videos I've seen. Well done.👏
Thanks so much 😊
Very helpful and a new perspective despite watching lots of decluttering videos looking for help
We have accumulated so much stuff since we’ve had kids and moved into a bigger house. We used to be quite minimal and all this stuff is causing me so much stress
The thing that stops me from decluttering is the guilt of overconsumption. Our accumulation will be the cause of more trash (not everything can be donated) or stuff in the world (for what can be donated)
I’m at the point where I HAVE to declutter for my mental health, but if we don’t change our consumption habits, that decluttering guilt will never end…which also strains my mental health 🙃 my family needs to have a serous values realignment. And I am so passed ready for that hard conversation
Thanks for this short and encouraging video
One thing that helped me was to realize these things are going to exist somewhere in the world. That place does not need to be my home. I do not need to store trash bc I feel bad about throwing it out. 🙏
@@mamasrelaxation8612that is very wise. I can appreciate this advice immediately!!!
the first thing to declutter...the guilt. It's a useless (& harmful) thing that's gotta be kicked to the curb. ;-)
I definitely need to revisit the season topic. But when you spoke of the mugs...I had a giggle as I have all unique mugs I picked up pretty much 2nd hand or on vacation that that I usually paid between 50 cents and 5 Euros for. So...although I do need to get rid of some of the sentimental ones that are not a fit - I actually like my everyday mugs that I would still happily pay 50 cents or a dollar for again. 😁🥰. Great video though...I need to try the 5 min rule. But first, I need to clean out more storage clutter. Looking forward to checking out your channel. Thanks!
I am getting to a point that I forgot I had some items, it is time to declutter. My reasonning is if I havent touched and used an item in year it has to go. Today I gave away some Christmas decor that I didn't use. I dont need to decorate the whole house anymore, a little bit is enough.
I also have to confront my fantasy self and the stuff that goes with it; I will never play the violin.
I kept things form my mom when she downsized and my dad passed.
Somehow I kept some things in an effort to keep his memory, but hey! My dad is not coming back to use his favorite saw, I can sell it.
The SEASON THING!!! 😅😅totally. Thank you! 😮
First time watcher...I once heard this...has this item served it's purpose? If so, it's ok to let it go." Dawn from Minimalist Mom...wow, game changer.
Rule 1 made me think, especially of my bedroom. Time to get busy and serious about decluttering!
I love her videos!
This five minute rule is really applicable now that our beautiful home is on the market & to easily prepare for showings. I will definitely take this rule with us as we move into a new rental townhome. Thanks, Jess! ❤
Great reminders! When you mentioned the five minute rule, I thought of Dana K White, A Slob Comes Clean-love her!
that sounds like my life story hahah
These rules are really helpful. As a mom with young kids, I have one question that I think makes this difficult to see applying: do you buy physical gifts for your kids that are things they want and don’t need? How do you keep their things from adding up?
Maybe a kid-friendly version of 1-in-1 -out ruel would be helpful? I watched a video with a kid that where told to put his old toys in a bag that santa could bring and give to other smaller kids. He seemed to enjoy to sort it out and felt proud that he was a big boy now. And as a result he voluntairly gave away parts of his toy colection at the same time as he got new toys.
You presented MULTIPLE….AMAZING suggestions for decluttering!!!
FANTASTIC… video!!!
Thank you for sharing your inspirations!!🤍
You are so welcome!
One of the very best videos on the topic!!! And I’ve watched a lot!! New sub.. blessings from BC, Canada
Jessica, great video! You're so young and sooooo clear, this is awesome and inspiring! Thank you!
The season reason rule hit so hard. Trying to declutter for a move and I’m so motivated to get back to my closet again. Thank you
So excellent. I do the one in, one out but I have been holding on so many clothes and items because "one day I'll need this." Love number 2 and number 4. Thank you!
Got my room clean. ❤❤❤❤❤
90/90 is new to me but very impactful. I can't wait to go home and take another pass
I would love to see a video about running a business without social media! I have recently deleted my social media but am contemplating just doing my business pages. But I feel so hypocritical lol!
always ask yourself if it adds value? it doesn't have to be a principle thing, but if you feel it costs more money than it creates traffic...?
Thanks for sharing. Motivated to do a declutter today.
Thanks for another great video Jessica, very interesting and so true.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Fantastic! Grazie! 👍🏻
So true , thanks for sharing
Bless you. I needed to hear this. It is beyond true!
Love this so much, thank you for articulating the philosophy and suggesting new and better ways to become spacious. The last rule is my favorite. (Btw do you really have a 5 min rule in the kitchen? How do you do dishes or load and empty dishwasher in under 5 min?)
So much wisdom!🧡
Thank you very much! The Mug rule was a real eye-opener. I looked at my stuff and wept: had it not been mine, I would have parted with most of it unflinchingly. 💖
But the season rule really cut me to the quick. "Where you're supposed to be". This is the greatest truth I've ever heard. It opened my eyes to the fact that I did indeed continue to lead a fantasy existence in my head instead of appreciating my real life journey. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! 🙏🙏💖
Very well stated. I save your video to rewatch and share with other family members, particularly #6
Oh great video! I also like this a 9 min video too! Decluttering is my next stage of life. Thanks for sharing this!
Oh wow, thank you for making this video, it speaks to me ALOT. I already use 1 or 2 of these rules but I don't enforce them all the time and I need to implement ALL of them asap.
This is so good. My “baby” is 18, and there are still lessons in this video for me. I especially liked the “seasons” rule. Thanks! ❤
I'm so happy you found it encouraging!
This video was OUTSTANDING! Thank you so much for the inspiration!❤
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS GREAT AND USEFUL INFORMATION ❤
So glad you liked it!
Wow, Everything you said really connected with me! I have placed an order for the Essentialism book. Thank you so much!
#5 "if it's not for your season there isn't a reason" this one really caught my attention. I lost my husband 4 years ago and I still keep a lot of things that I will probably never use or wear again. I'm slowly letting go, and this statement helps me see a good reason too. Thank you.
As someone with chronic illness and ADHD, this made me feel better about myself and that I can tackle the cleaning of my house slowly but still efficiently. Thank you for sharing 🥹💜
Jan. 1, all clothes are hung with the hangers backwards. After the first, clothes that are worn are hung with hangers foreward. On Dec. 31, any clothes hanging on backwards hangers are donated. If I haven't worn it in the last year, I'm not going to.
that's a great idea!
Thank you 💗
Excellent, clear, honest advice.
And perfect timing.
I am decluttering today 🎉
Just subscribed, thanks for the concepts in a simple but meaningful way
I'm glad you found it helpful!
Wow thank you! This is one of the best videos I’ve watched on decluttering! I loved the value point. That you put value to it cause it’s yours. I’m currently not home but can’t wait to get back and declutter some 😅
All of them!! This was 🔥🔥🔥 You've translated these ideas into language I understand that goes behind the excuses, anxiety and rationalisation. New subscriber here 🙋🏾♀️
Makes perfect sense to me and you managed to really motivate me ☺️
Stopped the video half-way through, went into the kitchen and sorted out my mugs 😄. Good stuff, thank you 🙏🏻❤️
That was great! I love that your advise wasn't the same old stuff everyone else says.