It’s so sad that they are like this. This says everything you need to know about who’s side they are on and how they are themselves. This is unacceptable and unforgivable - both of them.
My mom gave me the worst advice about women Dad wasn’t much better I knew a guy that had a red pill mentality before red pill was a thing and women chased him like crazy I did the the same and shocker it worked
This ex was doing some expert level cheating even before the 'open' request. She was doing several guys, lying and sneaking to set up elaborate meetups like the Florida dude. And trying to get with a 13 year old brother of her friend. If the genders had been reversed they would have put them under the jail. I think he should have told the mom at a minimum the ex cheated with MANY other guys and tried to manipulate him. Thank goodness the dad has some RP knowledge. I think part of the problem is his mom has no idea how bad he was really abused in this relationship. Do not try to protect a cheater. And consider getting a protective order.
Always make her _earn_ the relationship from you. And don't stop making her earn it once you give it. That's an ongoing commitment. Men are expected to protect, provide and be faithful. Women are only expected to be faithful - and even that's being contested. And that's one reason why a woman cheating is so much worse. Require her to not only be faithful but demonstrate it on an ongoing basis. Only the ones who truly love and respect you, who are capable, will do so. The rest are like OP's girlfriend - can't keep up the act forever, wants "space" (going to Florida alone, for example), offer open relationships - in other words, she's not yours, it's just your turn. If she's truly yours, she would ACT LIKE IT, and your gut would agree. Mom is either naïve or a 304 [remember, feelings aren't logical]. Dad is on point - listen to dad.
Always control the narrative, fellas. Even if things get embarrassing or awkward or anything. Always tell the truth, and nothing but. Bring proof, too. People readily believe women over men, sadly; and often women can never admit to fault of any kind and would rather lie on you being a bad person than to accept accountability for their actions. Control the narrative, fellas. Yes, it must be said twice.
Well have a Good Christmas everyone Started early Whiskey with ice in one hand and a Good Cigar in the other hand and see if i can stay up late enough to give Sur Santa a half gallon to keep him warm.
So what does the ex want to go back to before the offer of an open relationship? She was already cheating, so I guess the change would be OP not also sleeping with other people. No thanks. Lol
What bother me about you, is how do make decision that is going have serious issues. Show you didn’t about how he would react. Actually I think you expected, but you didn't care how he felt about it. What you didn't know how it was going to go wrong. Learning hard way is always the most difficult way.
Dude don’t listen to your mother. She believes in the Sisterhood over her own flesh and blood. Stay strong dude. If she won’t leave then you leave!
Exactly, you can tell why he's in this position to begin with- mother's a piece of work.
Yeah, he gotta the parents off. F*** em.
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It’s so sad that they are like this. This says everything you need to know about who’s side they are on and how they are themselves.
This is unacceptable and unforgivable - both of them.
My mom gave me the worst advice about women
Dad wasn’t much better
I knew a guy that had a red pill mentality before red pill was a thing and women chased him like crazy
I did the the same and shocker it worked
Your mother cheated.
^this
Tell your mom the truth she is lying to your mom
Mom is(was) a 304
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This ex was doing some expert level cheating even before the 'open' request. She was doing several guys, lying and sneaking to set up elaborate meetups like the Florida dude. And trying to get with a 13 year old brother of her friend. If the genders had been reversed they would have put them under the jail. I think he should have told the mom at a minimum the ex cheated with MANY other guys and tried to manipulate him. Thank goodness the dad has some RP knowledge. I think part of the problem is his mom has no idea how bad he was really abused in this relationship. Do not try to protect a cheater. And consider getting a protective order.
If my parents would have invited her in they can spend Christmas with her because I'll be somewhere else hanging out with friends
Merry Christmas 🎄
Maybe OPs mother has a dark history too - I’d dump and block the mother for this betrayal until she absolutely apologises 🤔
Always make her _earn_ the relationship from you. And don't stop making her earn it once you give it. That's an ongoing commitment.
Men are expected to protect, provide and be faithful.
Women are only expected to be faithful - and even that's being contested.
And that's one reason why a woman cheating is so much worse.
Require her to not only be faithful but demonstrate it on an ongoing basis. Only the ones who truly love and respect you, who are capable, will do so. The rest are like OP's girlfriend - can't keep up the act forever, wants "space" (going to Florida alone, for example), offer open relationships - in other words, she's not yours, it's just your turn. If she's truly yours, she would ACT LIKE IT, and your gut would agree.
Mom is either naïve or a 304 [remember, feelings aren't logical]. Dad is on point - listen to dad.
If you can, you should leave the house and tell your parents your not coming back unless she leaves
Dad has a brain
Merry Christmas True Story Epic!
Always control the narrative, fellas. Even if things get embarrassing or awkward or anything. Always tell the truth, and nothing but. Bring proof, too. People readily believe women over men, sadly; and often women can never admit to fault of any kind and would rather lie on you being a bad person than to accept accountability for their actions. Control the narrative, fellas. Yes, it must be said twice.
Well have a Good Christmas everyone
Started early Whiskey with ice in one hand and a Good Cigar in the other hand and see if i can stay up late enough to give Sur Santa a half gallon to keep him warm.
This guys mother is a potential cheater
This guy is dipping in Petri dishes and brags about it 🙄.
So what does the ex want to go back to before the offer of an open relationship? She was already cheating, so I guess the change would be OP not also sleeping with other people. No thanks. Lol
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What bother me about you, is how do make decision that is going have serious issues. Show you didn’t about how he would react. Actually I think you expected, but you didn't care how he felt about it. What you didn't know how it was going to go wrong. Learning hard way is always the most difficult way.