3 times a month. ?????? Giant red flag. You are 100% correct. When she asks to open the relationship she’s either already cheating or has someone lined up already
She was cheating and probably was starting to panic after hearing her divorced friends fate, so she decided to try her friends suggestion. Once again another cheater not realising the gravity of their actions and consequences. Thinking if they drop a small bomb on their relationship they can repair the collateral later. Meanwhile they realise they dropped a hiroshima bomb instead. They never imagined that their devastation would be so huge, and now they can't bear their own actions and shame.
Before the wedding OP was able to just walk away. After the wedding he would have to deal with lawyers, judges and maybe forced counseling. An awful thing go go through any breakup, but OP did doge a nuclear detonation.
my ex wrote me a letter many years ago. I still got it somewhere although I'd have to dig to find it. I was very blue pilled then. I wouldn't mind reading it again just to see how it looks through the lens of being red pilled.
All the demands she give him is to force him to do whatever she wants it start small then gets bigger and bigger, she was a master manipulator and he fall for it.
I don't understand why people keep blaming alcohol. Alcohol usually brings out someone's true feelings. Some people use it to say something they have been wanting to say, but know it's not appropriate. They know that they can easily back pedal if the reaction is not wat they wanted.
Apparently after hiding her cheating, she nonchalantly asked you, after drinking to relax her nerve for an open marriage because guilt was beginning to consume her. Her letter was her final attempt to win you back because it’s thought’s from her heart. Too late because you’re used damage goods!!!
I wouldn’t be surprised if her parents were the ones to put the open marriage thing into her head because it sounds like they are into it too according to what her father said.
Even if the odds were even during an open marriage (which they are not even close! Women can find partners at least 10 times the rate that men can) I'd never go for it.
This girl really tried to sing herself out of a break up. Women will do every tactic in the book against you and hope it’ll work🤣 EDIT: and the emotional letter with vague emotional metaphors ‘n stuff. This girl man😭
I have little doubt that this woman had another guy in mind. It was probably in the super early stages and just like a guy at work flirting with her and she shot it down but really wanted to have sex with him. So she asked. Then she can say it was just a dumb question and she has NEVER cheated. Then she got home with her father after the talk with him and he asked her if it was true and she said said it was just a question. The dad then saw that he can't get back his money and the mom knew how embarrassing it will be to call all the relatives and say the wedding is off. The mom will lie of course but word will get out. The parents then came down on the daughter HARD. She then rights the letter BUT in all reality she still wants to have sex with the dude from work.
Her: "Let's have an open marriage." Him: "Let's sign a prenup 1st." Her: "How dare you, you think our love isn't strong enough that you asking me for a prenup?"
Men we are the head authority in our household, if you are a Christian you essentially would be giving your wife permission to commit adultery, at that point her sin is on you. If you say no and she does it, her sin is on her and the marriage is defiled. Never give anyone permission to sin under your authority.
Tip: marriage doesn't benefit a man. And women only want a wedding day and the illusion of marriage. If u find one that acts worthy enough that u want to marry her then do all the things u normally would propose, buy a ring, set the date but have a MOCK WEDDING and don't sign the marriage agreement. That way she gets her selfish...I meant special day and u can still walk away with ALL ur assets when she screws up. This is only used if u feel she's marriage material other than that stay red pill my brothers.
Never cave in to a woman who asks you to ask her to get married.
When true started giggling while reading that note, I couldn't help but laugh also. Nothing but lies she was spewing, block her op 😂
True story was fighting the urge to laugh while reading the letter 😂
She saved you years and going through a divorce
3 times a month. ?????? Giant red flag. You are 100% correct. When she asks to open the relationship she’s either already cheating or has someone lined up already
She was cheating and probably was starting to panic after hearing her divorced friends fate, so she decided to try her friends suggestion. Once again another cheater not realising the gravity of their actions and consequences. Thinking if they drop a small bomb on their relationship they can repair the collateral later. Meanwhile they realise they dropped a hiroshima bomb instead. They never imagined that their devastation would be so huge, and now they can't bear their own actions and shame.
Birds of a feather,
Flock together.
Sure is a lot of flocking going on. Oh, flock! 😊
Before the wedding OP was able to just walk away. After the wedding he would have to deal with lawyers, judges and maybe forced counseling. An awful thing go go through any breakup, but OP did doge a nuclear detonation.
Sadly for them, writing letters won't right their wrongs.
my ex wrote me a letter many years ago. I still got it somewhere although I'd have to dig to find it. I was very blue pilled then. I wouldn't mind reading it again just to see how it looks through the lens of being red pilled.
Those letters don't mean shyte where it matters, in divorce court after you catch her cheating again as your wife.
@@imdon8920And if you live in a no-fault state, you get to pay her half of your assets just so she could and did cheat. WOW!
All the demands she give him is to force him to do whatever she wants it start small then gets bigger and bigger, she was a master manipulator and he fall for it.
All men fall for it at some point in their life.
My favorite part of the story was the super macho overprotective father who thought he could bullly the emailer into marrying his 304ther
She only wanted him because he was a strong man with his own house and a good job.
Its always the women that want an open marriage.
The guy is a BOSS 😂..
I don't understand why people keep blaming alcohol. Alcohol usually brings out someone's true feelings. Some people use it to say something they have been wanting to say, but know it's not appropriate. They know that they can easily back pedal if the reaction is not wat they wanted.
True story, I'm glad I found your new channel man. I missed your videos.
Actions always speak louder than words always PERIOD.
Apparently after hiding her cheating, she nonchalantly asked you, after drinking to relax her nerve for an open marriage because guilt was beginning to consume her. Her letter was her final attempt to win you back because it’s thought’s from her heart. Too late because you’re used damage goods!!!
Sad his girlfriend probably was really loyal, but her trash GFs fill her head with BS. Tough call for OP, but necessary.
The letter is most likely because the woman was blocked on E platforms; email, phone, texts, msgr apps, etc.
I’m just imagining this guy dumping the girl he met during a screening of “Spider-Man”
*You want forgiveness? Get religion.*
*Gonna cry?*
True you got the best thumbnails bro
Rotten apples may corrupted this girl's way of thinking. Those many girls nights out were very suspicious and probable cheating episodes
She was happy in her relationship and about to have a wedding ceremony. Of course the other adult XXs were jealous.
He had a 4 bedroom house ding ding !
Ohhhhhhhh well that's the day she learned something I think but then who knows
Depth of her soul ... Open relationship askers don't have souls...or brains...or honor...
I wouldn’t be surprised if her parents were the ones to put the open marriage thing into her head because it sounds like they are into it too according to what her father said.
Even if the odds were even during an open marriage (which they are not even close! Women can find partners at least 10 times the rate that men can) I'd never go for it.
This girl really tried to sing herself out of a break up. Women will do every tactic in the book against you and hope it’ll work🤣
EDIT: and the emotional letter with vague emotional metaphors ‘n stuff. This girl man😭
Intelligent man.. good job.👍
They write letters because it would work on them, so they think it would work on him.
Single women keep women single
She was starting to drift when she complained about marriage and him not loving her.
She was rationalizing her sketchy behavior.
they all use the same words “stale, vulnerable, toxic, insecure” etc they cannot think for themselves
She is asking for a open marriage? It just means she got tired of hiding her cheating.
Wise Man, He saved himself from years of misery......
Bro i got like 5 letters before me and my ex broke it off hahahaha these were Paragraphs!!! i aint reading that shit haha
I have little doubt that this woman had another guy in mind. It was probably in the super early stages and just like a guy at work flirting with her and she shot it down but really wanted to have sex with him. So she asked. Then she can say it was just a dumb question and she has NEVER cheated. Then she got home with her father after the talk with him and he asked her if it was true and she said said it was just a question. The dad then saw that he can't get back his money and the mom knew how embarrassing it will be to call all the relatives and say the wedding is off. The mom will lie of course but word will get out. The parents then came down on the daughter HARD. She then rights the letter BUT in all reality she still wants to have sex with the dude from work.
I mean... if you wanna be single then say yes to girls nights out hahaha
Good video
Her Letter Translated in Summary: OP, you CAN’T handle the truth!
Never justify yourself or say sorry.
Her: "Let's have an open marriage."
Him: "Let's sign a prenup 1st."
Her: "How dare you, you think our love isn't strong enough that you asking me for a prenup?"
She wants the wedding but not the marriage.
The problem is that what OP did was illegal by throwing her stuff out and furthermore, escalating the situation by not shutting off the sprinklers....
Yeah, lots of things are illegal
Men we are the head authority in our household, if you are a Christian you essentially would be giving your wife permission to commit adultery, at that point her sin is on you. If you say no and she does it, her sin is on her and the marriage is defiled. Never give anyone permission to sin under your authority.
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Tip: marriage doesn't benefit a man. And women only want a wedding day and the illusion of marriage. If u find one that acts worthy enough that u want to marry her then do all the things u normally would propose, buy a ring, set the date but have a MOCK WEDDING and don't sign the marriage agreement. That way she gets her selfish...I meant special day and u can still walk away with ALL ur assets when she screws up. This is only used if u feel she's marriage material other than that stay red pill my brothers.
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This is a bad story
You didn't make a mistake by letting her go out its her fault for being weak minded and listening to other women !!