Great point. Not to mention, a woman's male friends are also basically her unofficial boyfriends. Women prioritize attention from Men, and if she's getting that from a particular dude on a consistent basis, then that's basically her boyfriend. Women basically have like 5 boyfriends at the same time....boyfriend number 1 is basically her official boyfriend.... then boyfriend 2, 3, 4 etc....are basically her unofficial boyfriends like her "work boyfriend" her "best friend" boyfriend, her "ex-boyfriend" her "next up replacement boyfriend" and etc This is why allot of women say that that they "started off" as "friends" with their current boyfriend.... well its not that they were "friends", its simply that he was one of the unofficial boyfriend that simply TURNED official.
@@graceannputtin6618 same thing but mostly we keep girlfriend for that one chance because most times the friendship was her friend zoning us today I don't really keep close friendship with women I'm low-key attracted to or women in general I respect women and I don't want to put the woman I date in that position of her questioning my loyalty coz I hang around another woman it's just unfair
@@stumza.m3 I just think that if women can't have male friends that men can't have female friends, but I always get told it's OK fir men to have female friends but not the other way around
I’ll trust a car with no brakes before I hear tht “He just a friend” shit just your replacement and same wit guys If you in a relationship keep tht attention to your partners 2023 is not the year for relationships if ppl can’t see tht by now
Hear me and hear me good guys, the ONLY way a girl can be friends with a guy is if , it’s a couples thing like your friends with her friend and she’s friends with your friend, that’s it , everything else is BS , ignore at your own peril
Couples friends can work but too much contact creates speculation and jealousy. Even though it's inappropriate and a little off topic. I watched a French drama movie where a couple swapped their partners and these couples were parents and friends, they decided to create a couples swapping relationship. In the end it created friction and jealousy that they had to end the open relationship affairs. Any type of communication that should be sacred in between a marriage can be destructive. Most of the elders who understood friendships can testify millennials generation of friendship may or may not be beneficial anymore 😊
I'm not married but I'm in a relatively new relationship. He has female friends. In my previous relationship, neither one of us had friends of the opposite gender. But, since his female friends were here before I was, I'm not going to ask if he can ditch his friends for me. I would want him to do that voluntarily. I don't like forcing anything. I used to be that way but not anymore. I recently made a male friend at work and we exchanged numbers. I let him know. I figured I can't be the only one in that mindset of being the most devoted wife the world has ever seen and not have any male friends but he can when I'm just his girlfriend. Things can't be one sided and he ain't doing the same for me, ya know. I didn't do it to be spiteful I just was like, hey, if it's cool with you it's cool with me. Maybe he'll start thinking differently after I told him. I'm fine either way
Disagreed. Best way to keep a male and female friendship is to not spend a lot of time together in person. Go out monthly, but not weekly. I slept with most of my female friends, because they would be around me all the time. Also, my female friends kept sleeping over. It always starts with them asking me for “back rubs” before bed. And yes, many of them were in relationships 🚬🕵🏾♂️
And this is what causes downfalls. This is so true. I lost my ex wife due to too many people in her ear and my voice was fading away till it meant nothing. Now she regrets everything and suffering greatly. Smdh woman don't understand you never let anyone in or have too much knowledge of your relationship. Definitely males.
Good shit brother, she was smashing those dudes on the back end. NEVER let your woman have male friends. They WILL smash at any moment. If your girl doesnt wanna agree with this then leave that bitch. No woman who respects or truly loves their man would EVER want a male friend. Men and women can't relate, no reason to have a male friend.
Faaaaaaaaacts!!!! I dealt with exact thing!! My girls older Brother was trying to put Game down in her life; I told her to make a decision or I was going to make it for her. So true about it not always being someone trying to sleep with your girl. Dudes just be trying to delegate at times when it's not their place.
You two can't grow and face things together and strengthen your bond if either of you have opposite sex friends, cause instead of figure out minor issues you'll just try to leave her and take the other one.
It’s disrespectful to play with somebody’s girl to their relationship. These men who fool women are using them for something but one thing is for certain they don’t give a fuck about her partner or relationship.
In my personal opinion it’s vice versa. When I got into a committed relationship I left the female friend thing where is was because at one point they were attracted to me or I was attracted to them.
I think female friends do not make sense for men. I do not know why a men needs more than male friends. And I do not know any men who does not feel attracted by nature and the majority wait for a good chance to have something more later on. Then also given you have a dispute or something it might be dangerous to lean on the wrong shoulder. For me it's just a unnecessary playing with fire and disrespectful to your main relation...
This is so stupid. So he’s saying it’s negative because it ‘confuses’ her (so u think we’re stupid?) thus not aligning with your path? Remember she is human too and shouldnt be denied friends because her man is insecure? She might have her own path she wants to go, which is fine! Dating shouldn’t be a matter of getting one to submit to the others’. IPlease put yourself in her shoes. Cause I guarantee u wouldn’t appreciate the feeling.
@@walidzein1 Still better than middle east, which is beyond repair. Look what happens to poor women over there. Rest of the world learns what not to do by looking at middle east 😂
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Great point. Not to mention, a woman's male friends are also basically her unofficial boyfriends.
Women prioritize attention from Men, and if she's getting that from a particular dude on a consistent basis, then that's basically her boyfriend.
Women basically have like 5 boyfriends at the same time....boyfriend number 1 is basically her official boyfriend....
then boyfriend 2, 3, 4 etc....are basically her unofficial boyfriends like her "work boyfriend" her "best friend" boyfriend, her "ex-boyfriend" her "next up replacement boyfriend" and etc
This is why allot of women say that that they "started off" as "friends" with their current boyfriend....
well its not that they were "friends", its simply that he was one of the unofficial boyfriend that simply TURNED official.
Well what about the other way around
@@graceannputtin6618 same thing but mostly we keep girlfriend for that one chance because most times the friendship was her friend zoning us today I don't really keep close friendship with women I'm low-key attracted to or women in general I respect women and I don't want to put the woman I date in that position of her questioning my loyalty coz I hang around another woman it's just unfair
@@stumza.m3 I just think that if women can't have male friends that men can't have female friends, but I always get told it's OK fir men to have female friends but not the other way around
Exactly, that's why women created the term " situationship" . To try to make sense of her confusion.
@@graceannputtin6618its the same for men as well. That’s why I don’t have any female friends. That’s our culture
I’ll trust a car with no brakes before I hear tht “He just a friend” shit just your replacement and same wit guys If you in a relationship keep tht attention to your partners 2023 is not the year for relationships if ppl can’t see tht by now
Hear me and hear me good guys, the ONLY way a girl can be friends with a guy is if , it’s a couples thing like your friends with her friend and she’s friends with your friend, that’s it , everything else is BS , ignore at your own peril
In that case your woman and your guy friend still CANNOT be friends, just associates.
Couples friends can work but too much contact creates speculation and jealousy.
Even though it's inappropriate and a little off topic. I watched a French drama movie where a couple swapped their partners and these couples were parents and friends, they decided to create a couples swapping relationship. In the end it created friction and jealousy that they had to end the open relationship affairs.
Any type of communication that should be sacred in between a marriage can be destructive. Most of the elders who understood friendships can testify millennials generation of friendship may or may not be beneficial anymore 😊
I'm not married but I'm in a relatively new relationship. He has female friends. In my previous relationship, neither one of us had friends of the opposite gender. But, since his female friends were here before I was, I'm not going to ask if he can ditch his friends for me. I would want him to do that voluntarily. I don't like forcing anything. I used to be that way but not anymore. I recently made a male friend at work and we exchanged numbers. I let him know. I figured I can't be the only one in that mindset of being the most devoted wife the world has ever seen and not have any male friends but he can when I'm just his girlfriend. Things can't be one sided and he ain't doing the same for me, ya know. I didn't do it to be spiteful I just was like, hey, if it's cool with you it's cool with me. Maybe he'll start thinking differently after I told him. I'm fine either way
Disagreed. Best way to keep a male and female friendship is to not spend a lot of time together in person. Go out monthly, but not weekly. I slept with most of my female friends, because they would be around me all the time. Also, my female friends kept sleeping over. It always starts with them asking me for “back rubs” before bed. And yes, many of them were in relationships 🚬🕵🏾♂️
And this is what causes downfalls. This is so true. I lost my ex wife due to too many people in her ear and my voice was fading away till it meant nothing. Now she regrets everything and suffering greatly. Smdh woman don't understand you never let anyone in or have too much knowledge of your relationship. Definitely males.
how do u know she regrets
This why I let my wife go
Good shit brother, she was smashing those dudes on the back end. NEVER let your woman have male friends. They WILL smash at any moment. If your girl doesnt wanna agree with this then leave that bitch. No woman who respects or truly loves their man would EVER want a male friend. Men and women can't relate, no reason to have a male friend.
Good job bro u saved urself headache no woman should have male friends unless it’s for business or work related not make bestfriends hell no.
@@jordanmitchell9742but how about a male having a female friend 🤔
@@graceannputtin6618thats not
okay either, it goes both ways. they are both just wrong
@@chuckchuck720 THATS WHAT IM SAYING
Faaaaaaaaacts!!!! I dealt with exact thing!! My girls older Brother was trying to put Game down in her life; I told her to make a decision or I was going to make it for her. So true about it not always being someone trying to sleep with your girl. Dudes just be trying to delegate at times when it's not their place.
No one can follow 2 Masters
Exactly, I had these same thoughts today pondering this from a conversation.Women are easily influenced! So it's an absolute No!
I like a woman who respects her man ❤ don’t need no other man validation
Straight up…!!! No sugar coating.
Keep up the good work bro!!!
Bro talks about his wife like it’s his dog
Very well said bruh❤
This was beautifully said also so true
Who tf got time for all this bs?
So you won't date Phoebe because she friend with Joey and Chandler😂😂😂
This is on point!
You two can't grow and face things together and strengthen your bond if either of you have opposite sex friends, cause instead of figure out minor issues you'll just try to leave her and take the other one.
Absolute facts.
Facts to this
Facts!
If another player has some type of influence on my bitch that means my game is weak
Nah she's weak bro.. not you
She isn’t worth your time champ find another girl.
Nah
Nah bro, you ain’t week, she is.
I bet you follow bitches on insta too😂, but she can't?
Facts?
Facts
Truth
It’s disrespectful to play with somebody’s girl to their relationship. These men who fool women are using them for something but one thing is for certain they don’t give a fuck about her partner or relationship.
What about guys and their “female friends “. Can someone explain this to me. I’m being serious. I need advice
In my personal opinion it’s vice versa. When I got into a committed relationship I left the female friend thing where is was because at one point they were attracted to me or I was attracted to them.
I think female friends do not make sense for men. I do not know why a men needs more than male friends. And I do not know any men who does not feel attracted by nature and the majority wait for a good chance to have something more later on. Then also given you have a dispute or something it might be dangerous to lean on the wrong shoulder. For me it's just a unnecessary playing with fire and disrespectful to your main relation...
Guys shouldn’t have girl friends either it goes both ways
I didn't know this
"Females should not have guys as friends.." -- said by a guy who also has female friends.
Thank you!!!
And u shouldn't have female friends
You're a hypocrite
I'll have kids in my 40s or 50s, maybe 60s. Im 24 btw
Trust me you don't wanna wait that long.
Women need to follow their own path and not follow behind a man
They not wives in spirit after they leave dat man that broke dat hymien, or pop that cherry, however it's said.
This is so stupid. So he’s saying it’s negative because it ‘confuses’ her (so u think we’re stupid?) thus not aligning with your path? Remember she is human too and shouldnt be denied friends because her man is insecure? She might have her own path she wants to go, which is fine! Dating shouldn’t be a matter of getting one to submit to the others’. IPlease put yourself in her shoes. Cause I guarantee u wouldn’t appreciate the feeling.
She's for the streets
What about a guy who has tons of girlfriends????
Hes either gay or a player.
Its the same shit, men and women aren't relatable so they can't be friends. If a man has a ton of girlfriends, hes definitely a player/cheater.
Tell me you are insecure, without telling me you're insecure.
Low IQ comment, it’s not about insecurity, it’s about respecting the man you’re with, men don’t think like women
So you feel it’s insecurity if you oppose to your girl/wife having a guy friend?
@@damianwright5631 Yes, I will understand, because I have female friends as well. Men who don't have any female as a friend are insecure af.
@@prateektigga4231 lmao, no wonder why western civilization is doomed
@@walidzein1 Still better than middle east, which is beyond repair. Look what happens to poor women over there. Rest of the world learns what not to do by looking at middle east 😂