Why Am I So Jealous of My Partner's Friendships?

Welcome to Dear Sybersue! Today I discuss: Why Am I So Jealous of My Partner's Friendships? The first thing I would like to acknowledge here is that you are aware of this jealousy issue, which means you have a chance to fix this. Jealousy is a big problem and often contributes to the demise of many relationships. It is so important to understand what is happening between you and your partner in order to repair this damaging situation.
Has there always been a jealousy?
Have you always had the tendency to be jealous or If it is something you have been dealing with for many years, there could be a fear of abandonment or a distressing breakup that you dealt with at a younger age.
This could make you feel insecure in your partnerships, which may require some counseling to help you heal from whatever transpired in the past. You may not even be aware of what this is until you delve into some professional therapy. It is definitely worth getting to the bottom of where your jealousy is derived from so that you can be in a healthy relationship with your partner.
Has something recently changed within your partnership that is making you jealous? Please click on the video to hear more about today's topic. Thank you, Sybersue xo
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[@EllevanMusic]

Ya it’s just because I’m not invited to their time, and kept out. Jeeez. Tough to beat it!

[@yanaluvs34]

Thank you so much! This helped a lot!! :)

[@DearSybersue]

I’m happy to hear that!

[@thejordyjoansofficial]

Adored this! ❤❤❤

[@sulmabanderas7375]

What if I do include him and he just doesn’t want to be a part of my circle. He sees that I am very loved and I want to include him in that. But he just doesn’t want to join. It upsets him when I go hang out with them. He doesn’t even like coming out of the room when I invite friends over.
He has no real friends. He stopped talking to all of them because of a big betrayal. So I feel like he only has me.
I don’t know how to tell him that he’s actually acting jealous.

[@DearSybersue]

Hi there! I’m not sure how long you’ve been with your boyfriend but sadly, this behaviour from him is a big red flag. Your partner should always be supportive of you, be happy for you, and encourage your friendships. I have seen this scenario many times before and you are right that it is a jealousy, but it is also a form of control.
He has felt betrayed in the past by his own friendships, but it’s not fair to inflict those feelings onto you. He needs to understand the lesson he was supposed to learn and not paint everybody with the same brush. He seems to have lost his trust in people.
He may be stuck due to the hurt that was caused by the betrayal he felt. If you are serious as a committed couple I would suggest you go for counseling together. This will become a much bigger problem over time if things are left to continue in this manner. Please keep me posted and I hope things improve for you. ❤

[@positivevibesonly6671]

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[@kyacross]

thankyou for this!! it helped a lot 🩷