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Men! This is your sign to start speaking up! I’m a married woman with 2 kids, and I support this because I have a son. A son we are currently raising to not get married and stay the hell away from single Moms.
No no, this is not a sign for men to start speaking up, this is a sign to VVOMEN to start speaking up. Men have been saying this stuff for DECADES. It’s YOUR responsibility to change this otherwise men are just not going to get married and we’ll enjoy the free milk we get without buying the cow
You're ahead of the curve then. Many women in my family gave me a lot of grief for many years until their sons that are 8-10 years younger than me got out of school and they got a closer look at the market. They now understand. All others still don't get it though and shame us.
1. Eliminate Alimony 2. Default 50/50 custody 3. Eliminate division of assets 4. Mandatory DNA Paternity tests 5. Child support is what the child actually needs. Thank you RC! This is very helpful and at the same time a fair path to reforming divorce laws. For the gentlemen watching this; search the latest that Hollywood A list actor Kevin Costner had to face in court 💵 💲.
I would add that the government needs to set up some sort of "SNAP-like" system where the child support gets loaded on to a card that can ONLY be used for food/clothing/necessities. This way she doesn't just simply get a bundle of cash to mostly spend on herself.
Who is the government to assume that I am not supporting my child and who the hell are they to tell me how much I need to pay to raise my child? This is all about taking authority over your own kids. All under the ridiculous guise of being "the child's best interest".
My own daughter told her 'Then boyfriend' that he was the father when she was pregnant & the young Man's mom demanded he do a DNA test after the birth of the child while the baby was still in the hospital. IT WAS NOT HIS!. My daughter felt like a fool (as she should have)
@@lipsticknista5319 No, it's the truth so it is what it is. Families are not perfect. We all do the best we can each day and try to learn from our mistakes
Introducing your future woman to your mother (vice versa, future husband to father) is a pivotal moment. Being a woman, she can spot the flaws & red flags of women far more than a man. eg. Women can easily smell a 304, women can easily note emotional damages. If your mother (even elder sisters) says, be careful with that woman, you better be careful.
@@ToLateToSaveAny person who does that is morally and ethically bankrupt. As a father, it was your job to teach her to be honourable, moral, and virtuous. Sir the fact that your daughter did that tells me everything I need to know about you & you’re wife & about you as a father and as a man. Take responsibility and take accountability for your daughter’s absolutely evil behaviour. Shame on you and shame on your degenerate evil daughter!
I don't even think that I will tell either of my children to get married and I am religious. I will try to tell both of them to chase their purpose in life. Additionally, I will be brutally honest about what marriage looks like nowadays, what it may be like to stay single, and the need for a prenup if they decide to get married.
Unless they won’t have sex, which most ppl have that desire, ur telling them to sin against God by committing fornication. Lame. I’ve personally seen men who are married with 13 children from the same wife. How come his marriage worked? There are men who convert their wife before marrying her.
My father married his penpal from Czech Republic after ONE visit. She sent pics of herself in bathing suits. He declared himself in love. What a joke. This woman demanded to immediately be added to the title of his home and bank accounts. She bashed HIS children (me & my sister) to the point he no longer wanted us in his life. He was a weak Beta man who said yes, yes to everything. Good on you Rich for educating men on how to properly vett women. This woman he married was a blonde bombshell. He fell for her blonde hair and voluptuous body. She also refused to work because her back hurt. At 40? Yeah sure.
I have a 9 year old son. I will unfortunately not encourage him to ever get married. I don’t ever want him to go through the pain I’m going through now after my divorce. Unfortunately successful happy marriage is practically impossible. It’s simply not worth it.
During my law education (2017) one of the family judges showed us a document from Netherlands saying that 28% of fathers were not raising their bio children. The test was based on bloodwork and it was done around 2001. RED FLAG for MEN in a women. If you are a dating a new girl and she talks about the future, children, tell her you would do a test after the child is born or even during. Her reaction will tell you a lot about her. From my experience most react 🤯🤯🤯 and a man should be a man blah blah and other BS just to force you to submit to her
I relate to your anger on this subject rich, especially when it comes to women ignoring the unfair way men are treated in divorce. Women simply do not care because they benefit from it AT the expense of men, it's disgusting.
Boston, MA - My son and I both had to have our DNA tested for a medical issue and BOOM the hospital won't tell me if he is mine. I caught her cheating with a coworker soon after she gave birth and I have every reason to believe my youngest son is not mine.
In Germany if you own a property before marriage and after divorse your property appreciates in value you have to share 50% of that gain value with your ex. In Germany are parking spaces for womens. But in face of the law are we equal?
Right about the parking spaces. I travel a lot and see lots of dedicated parking at the entrances (prime spots) for them. I thought they're strong, independent and have legs? They're still infantilized
Most women have no care or concern about men's suffering and abuse. As Rich says they don't care about your struggles, but only wait at the finish line to pick the winner.
I’m married and I vouch for this! I always think of my brothers, nephews and son. Let’s try to get an interview on Fresh and fit, daily wire, Sadia khan, pearly things etc…to get this message out rich! It will save people so much heartache
These points are absolutely correct. These things WILL fix marriage. I disagree that we can't fix these things though. We need to start educating young men on these issues and men need to start making noise about it.
It is Western culture that is broken. When women glamorize being single, having a career and making money plus have the “you go girl” mentality, of course she will be miserable to deal with and certainly not a woman I would be willing to risk my future, and any children, with. Men, unfortunately, have to deal with the penalties of selecting one of these women while she is rewarded for her poor choices.
The only thing that I’d add is that since most marriages occur between similar tax brackets (rich people marry rich people, middle class people marry middle class people, etc…), there should be no need for child support if 50-50 child custody is the default.
Divorce was illegal in Ireland right up into the 90s. We have no pre-nups. They are not legally recognised. So I will not be getting married thank you very much
A list of countries like that would be amazing, when I do search, I get tons of links of countries where women are treated best, but few/near zero for where men are treated best.
“Best” is an undefinable word. You as a man have to invest in yourself and travel to these countries you feel fit your needs. My preference is Latin America. I visited 4 countries before I found one that fit my needs. Then visit that country a few times and experience the culture. Look into the laws, taxes and so on. Unfortunately almost all men would rather deal with “good enough” rather than go beyond and put in the work.
When I looked into this, there were a few articles and the hospitals position flat out was "Best interests of the child", which means that Dad is there even if he isn't the actual father. It doesn't matter about the truth. It doesn't matter about what's right. They will do everything in their power to keep the information from the Dad. So if you think doctors will help you, or have some obligation to tell you the truth, they absolutely do not and in all likelihood will never tell you. This is why it pays to be aware of these things. Some guys might think, oh we all did blood screenings for this genetic issue with our baby, they would have said something. Nope. Absolutely not. They won't tell you. They won't lie to you. So they might say "You aren't a donor" but they won't ever expose the mother. Also during birth they will try everything in their power to get you to sign that birth certificate. Don't think they will support you if you say you want a paternity test. They will side with the mom and hit you with every emotional attack to get you to sign it. Guilt. Shame. The works. If you want to do a paternity test, you need to figure that out early. You need to decide if you're going to tell her or keep it secret. You need to check your local laws. In Quebec, you have less than 90 days to contest paternity in a marriage, otherwise nothing can release you, not even DNA. Do your research. Take the time to figure this stuff out if you're going to deal with women.
NO CHILD SUPPORT like in the Scandinavian states NO involvment of the social workers: everything has to be dealt with in the tribunal before a judge (he can ask the children questions if he wants)
One thing is missing from this list. Since the state is already involved, the state must pay for 2 years of training, counseling, and testing for BOTH candidates in order for them to qualify for a marriage license. Drivers can't get a license without tests and proving they can drive, so why can just any idiot get a marriage license?
I have been saying this for years, so 100% Concur with all points. How to FIX Marriage 1 Get rid of Alimony 2 Default to 50/50 Custody 3 Eliminate Division of Assets 4 Mandatory DNA Tests for Paternity 5 Child Support is what the Child Actually needs and requires
I forget the state, (Delaware?) but it requires all child support to go on a card that is used for specific child costs, such as food and clothing. I would require receipts for all expenses associated with the child as a check to be sure the (usually mother) custodial parent is spending for its original purpose.
These laws are gender neutral. I'm a woman and was the sole provider in my marriage. Upon divorce he got half of my stuff and alimony. Thank goodness I didn't have children with him. I would love to see these laws changed, they are unfair no matter what gender you are.
Your absolutely right marriage will never change until all your bullet points are adopted. Unfortunately I won't hold my breath for these things to change. It's a mine field.
my divorced friend dated a single mom of 3 after his failed marriage (her fault) he paid for her and her kids. I scrutinized him a way a friend would, tough love. I thought he got the message, he left her. we celebrated. couple weeks later hes dating a new single mom of 2 lol. I said why not go for young women? he then blamed me for not introducing him, me a married man of 2, why would I have women on my roster? lol
your friend is low value provider - single moms give his type a lot of attention. he knows that he will actually have to work on himself to get a younger woman. basically, he is going to the low hanging fruit (or the fruit that is no the ground)
That’s why being wealthy and show off in nice cars is a way is a curse Women have an agenda and smart sly about it I like to be humble and live a minimalists lifestyle
Marriage is both the best financial deal you can make in life and the worst financial deal you can make. It just depends on which side of the deal you are on. Chose wisely.
I recently had the same thought on how to fix divorce. Here is my suggestion. Get a couple of Men's rights attorneys together and have them put together a GENDER NEUTRAL pre-nuptial agreement that addresses all of these issues that Rich raises. Make sure it's legally tested by compiling Prenups that passed the test in court trials. Put together a tutorial on what has to occur in order for a prenup to be considered binding at trial. Have a youtube video link showing this in that tutorial. It's more complicated than just having her sign it. A contract that is gender neutral and that treats both parties fairly based on what they brought into the marriage as well as removing incentives for which ever party brings the divorce, would "more likely" be viewed as unbiased towards either party. If we can get such a prenup available and eventually widely adopted, we have a much better chance of having this divorce methodology adopted by the courts "eventually". In the meantime, we can protect men by having them execute prenups in a manner that are almost guaranteed to be upheld in a divorce action. If the bride to be doesn't want to sign one, at least the man knows that he chose to remain single wisely.
Marriage as it is viewed today has not kept up with modern realities. A prenup will work as long as it follows certain procedures of that state/province. I agree your suggestion has merit but the bigger issue is the overall system that feeds off vulnerable men. She holds the leverage and, as too many men have learned, her promises can not be enforced in court. Love…what is that? Cleaning, cooking, laundry….he can do that without her.
And consult an attorney before you get married. It is a contract at the end of the day, and knowing the laws of the state you are getting married in is important as well because that could impact divorce decrees later on.
Remember, laws can be passed later that you are made subject to. All those men that got married in the 50s when divorce required that fault be proven were still subject to the new no-fault divorce laws. Just because you accept the risks of marriage as they are now, you have no idea what risks they will introduce in 30 years
@@jth_printed_designs certainly laws are always changing, but putting a plan together with an attorney before getting married to protect pre marital assets is general common sense. You can apply the what if game to everything in life and talk yourself out of doing anything. Change is constant, that ain't nothing new.
I can only speak from experience, but when I divorced my first husband, I didn’t ask for any alimony. I was an RN, worked in the OR and made good money. I just needed our house to live in. We had three children, all in their teen years, so that was critical. The truth be known, my husband revealed to me later he was positive I would never agree to the terms. He did not want the divorce. I remember the Judge asking me if I did agreed to these terms. We had been married 19 years and had financial resources, a business, etc. But I knew I couldn’t stay married to him. The Bible says, be not unevenly matched, and we were! I’m not sure if that’s the direct quota. I would need to ask my youngest daughter ❤. She is the Biblical scholar in our family.
I would start by requiring a prenup and the initial marriage license should expire after 3 years. As part of the prenup add “an escape clause” which allows him to end the marriage prior to the end of the “contract”. If, at the end of the term, either side can file the fee and the divorce is granted. No lawyers, no courts, no legal problems. This would keep her in check since she knows he can leave at the end of the term. If they choose to continue, the original prenup stays in effect unless a major change occurs (children or purchase a home). If a woman has an issue with these terms he learns real fast she is the wrong woman.
Determining the Alimony Amount: Suppose the prenup specifies 20% of your annual income for alimony. Annual income = $160,000 20% of $160,000 = $32,000 per year Monthly alimony payment = $32,000 / 12 = $2,666.67 Duration of Alimony: If the marriage lasted 5 years, and alimony is to be paid for half the duration of the marriage: Duration of alimony = 5 years / 2 = 2.5 years (30 months). The state thinks 20% is fair but length can be enforced in the prenup. A signed letter of understanding from both parties is required. She understands what is in the prenup. That she signed with a sound mind. That she does not have a mental illness or prenup might be dismissed or forced to sign.
An audit and accounting of every dollar and penny should be required by law for woman receiving child support/alimony. Any descrepency above 1 cent becomes grounds for complete forfeiture of said child support/alimony. Also discrepency should be treated as fraud and punishable by a prison sentence and custody revoked. Take away the incentive to get "free" money by the woman. She will ALWAYS be accountable for the money, just like the man is required to do. With great power comes great responsibility!
very good... add the true game changer CHILDREN GET THE HOUSE as in parents rotate visitation (staying w/ 3 roomies in a 2bd apt of other divorced parents if they cant afford an extra house to rotate into on off 2 weeks)... and limit support/division (bcs youre never gonna get rid of em) to 50% of halfway btwn a minimum the govt will fund and half of what the non-filing higher earner makes
Rich you need to add to #5 that child support needs to include accountability for what it’s used for. Maybe an account set up only for the children. My Ex used it for liposuction and I wound up paying twice because I did not let my children go without.
I agree with all of this except your remarks on the "Pink Pill women." I, for one, am grateful that we're finally seeing some women bringing attention to it and are at least taking the first steps towards getting the ball rolling. All revolutions start at the bottom. Unbeknownst to most people, significant movements that have impacted the course of human history had their seeds planted decades earlier. The concept of democracy didn't begin fully formed in 1776. Communism wasn't a totally unknown idea until 1917. Woman's suffrage wasn't birthed in 1919. These things take time. So while I agree there isn't a groundswell of women picketing and demonstrating on behalf of marriage and divorce laws right now, it doesn't mean it's a lost cause and we should just tune them out. Limited influence is still better than zero influence. I don't consider Red Pill women insincere grifters exploiting a male audience for money. Women are not that strategic typically. These women also receive enormous backlash from other women outraged by their comments. Women typically fold when placed under social pressure. The fact these women haven't backed down in the face of these enraged women tells me these are their genuine beliefs and principles. It says a lot when a woman is willing to endure the slings and arrows of holding these positions.
They're just OF without the explicitness. Manosphere Fans content regurgitators feeding off the male attention. Same demographic targeted and manipulated for adrev, time, attention, views and clout
I am 100% for marriage, and I also 100% endorse the 5 changes to divorce law. The law makes no sense if you want to encourage marriage, which is nearly always the best way to ensure kids are brought up right. Change these laws, and at the same time strengthen laws against abusive/violent/narcissistic men/women who ruin marriages. But I agree, it will never happen, and so we see the decline of Western civilisation. Enjoy the decline? That sucks for our grandchildren.
Rich your recommendations will never happen because Money! Money money money! Romance is a business. Weddings are a business. Relationships are a business. Kids are a business. Divorce is a business. And round and round it goes. All driven by our Women (Normally I would never have spent half the money on crap that I did in the past; i.e. when I was married compared to single life now). The State want it this way. Why would they want to screw up part of their money tree? Gotta keep the money flowing. Money money money! 😁
Most of this is already true or mostly true in the netherlands and marriage isn't fixed. Default 50/50 custody check, division of assets is optional to choose in the start of the marriage (and even the default division of assets is only what came after marriage), Child support is much less and closer to what a child needs (though not perfect), and you can have a contract called the "samenlevingscontract" or a contract for living together to avoid marriage and alimony all together while still keeping all the rules of marriage (plenty of people do that instead). None of this has fixed marriage. Sure it isn't the hellhole of the US, but at its core the ability to leave a marriage without good reason is what destroys marriage. The whole point is that you're stuck together so you have to figure out your life together. That way you want the best for your partner because you can't bail out halfway, so you'll be stuck with whatever misery they suffer / you cause them. And if they're stupid enough to not realize that the first 5 years they'll keep being miserable and getting advice until they do get it. All while being an example for others to learn from (don't be a b to your partner or else you'll suffer for years). The only real reasons for divorce are reasons such as infidelity, serious threats of physical harm, or inability to have children (as that's in the end the point of marriage for society, though not for the individual).
Gentlemen, I have a fix. I'm currently drawing up plans to build a large, mobile, island in the Gulf of Mexico. So long as you can pass initial vetting, supply your own approved materials and the required engineered flotation, and contribute to island maintenance you may build onto the island and reside there for a minimum secondary vetting period at the completion of which you will receive citizenship. This will be a toxic man camp with all of the vices and virtues associated. Engineers, architects, construction managers, medical professionals, and all those with valuable contributions to mankind are encouraged to apply. Women may only reside on a temporary visa under the sponsorship of a male resident. Once structurally large enough, we will tow into the Mid-Atlantic and register as The Republic of New Atlantis. Seriously though. Elon if you're reading this....
As per famous divorce lawyer James J. Sexton, at present rate, 56% of marriages end in divorce. Another 20 - 25% marriages are merely continuing for the sake of children, or they can not afford the divorce. So that's like only 20% marriages are continuing in a healthy way. That's a pretty bad situation. That's a pretty bad deal. If you are about to jump from a plane & get to know that the odds of parachute deployment is only 20%, will you jump??? Like Rich pointed out, unless there are drastic changes in marriage & divorce law, getting married is a very dumb option.
What is very sad is marriage-aged women are only getting worse. Within another 10 years we may be looking at 10% chance the marriage is fulfilling for both sides.
I would add one more: eliminate state and company pension. People use to have a lot of kids and put effort in raising them because their future was depended on it. The simple correlation was: "when something will go wrong my kid will support me". That's why they cared about ethics, proper values, culture, marriage, family, living in a community. Nowadays we are being told that the government will take care of us and what are the results? Just look at Italy and Japan (among others). There are no taxpayers being born to secure the pension, yet everyone ignores it. Think about it. Who introduced state pension? For what reasons? What were the consequences? How did families live before the pension was introduced?
Western lifespan is now 85yrs not biblical 3score and 10 =70yrs but could be declining obesity drugs stress etc alot of very old people now average age first birth not 20yrs but 31yo. Everything solid turning to vapour
This is why I get so angry. Many of the most prominent gurus of the Red Pill - or whatever I'm supposed to call it this week because reasons - have mocked, denigrated, attacked and dismissed the Men's Rights Movement for years, and here we are with one of those gurus who mocked and ridiculed making a post that is exactly equivalent to what the Men's Rights activists have been saying for years. Rollo recently had a guest, talking about the same things in the same way, yet Rollo has been vicious in his denouncement of the Men's Rights Movement. HYPOCRITES. So my conclusion is that it's ok to ridicule and mock people who say something that doesn't perfectly align with your point-of-view until you come to the same conclusion and say it. Then it's golden.
Default 50/50 custody and if ANYONE fights it, they pay for ALL court costs and time lost at work. PAY FOR IT ALL. ALL experts, lawyers, drive to the courthouse, loss of PTO....
This is the problem with Kevin Coster's divorce. The claim is that the woman is entitled to the same standard of living when she was married. No, when you choose to leave the marriage, your standard of living may fall, by your choice. Costner's ex gets 129,000 a month. It doesn't cost 129,000 a monthe to feed, clothe, and house 3 kids.
The only way the divorce laws may change is if it's forced on "society," by a large fraction of men "going on strike" and refusing to get married - and being vocal about why. Even then, there will be the usual cycle of disbelief, mocking, shaming, panic and bargaining before actual change occurs.
I remember an article back in the early 2000's that stated it was close to 30% of children are raised by fathers that aren't there own. That in itself should push the man if he truly wants children to tell the mother that he will seek a paternity test at the birth before the mans name goes on the birth certificate. Her reaction to that will tell the man all he needs.
I was at the court for some bs proceeding. We were waiting for this woman who brought an urgent motion to get money from her long-term husband. They both had a business that they wound up and shut down. Their only asset was their house which they were selling but didn't get the money yet. He didn't have an income either and there she was paying a lawyer to take his ass to court to give her an income. I guess it never occurred to her that she could work at McDonalds or, even better, another business in the same market as their business. So why is he paying for her in court? Is it because he bagged money that was rightfully hers? If the only money left was the house, then that theory is off. Where, then, did the money come from to hire a lawyer? Or is it that he had her for her prime years and now she has no value so he should pay? Doesn't that also go against femanist theory that women who are older are not worthless or have the ability to make their own living? Its like the legal system is doing everything in a vacuum as if women have no power so the man has to pay even if he's also broke. Strange deformity of human society.
This is not legal advice. You can take care of 1-4 . Tennessee has a mandatory paternity testing. Florida now has a default 50/50 custody . A Prenup ( and no , it doesn't get thrown out if done right ) can eliminate alimony , attorney's fee and can protect your net worth during the marriage as well. Child support is the only thing that is out of your control , but depending on the state , roughly you'll pay 17% for the first child and 25% for two children based on the difference of both of your incomes. I hate to say it , but if you don't want to pay child support, mate with someone who is making the same amount as you . And for those who think Islam has it , Lemme tell you why it's even a worst deal there. Feminism has reached most of the middle east with the exception of a few countries. You as a man are required by LAW ( that's right) to provide. She is not required to do shit at the house . Most women there nowadays grew up spoiled, they had their education and mostly working their 9-5 . They see women who cater to their husbands as slaves. They want you to provide for everything including bringing a full time maid to do her supposedly wife duty . If you think you're getting a virgin , good luck. You will find out the true meaning of your money is hers and her money is hers. Doesn't matter how much money she makes, she can still use the law to make you pay for everything. You divorce , you pay alimony for a few months and you pay child support until the kids are grown ( based on your income as well, not the need of the child). You have to provide a home for her. Custody automatically goes to the mother. The only good thing is that there is no division of assets.
Hi rich, I'm a lawyer in small 3.5 million country of eastern europe, called Georgia. All of those laws are in charge here, but we still have the divorce rate of 65%..., because of my law practice and also Red Pill, even tho I found the girl who fits all the Green flag, Red flag list, I still kinda refuse to marry her, because of all the things you and red pill teaches, can you suggest what can be done to replace the marriage,when you want living together and having children with her. Btw here, marriage only exists when two people sign legal documents, it means if you have children and live with the woman for 50 years, but have never signed documents for marriage, you are not considered wife and a husband, just random people who have mutual kids. With what should I replace marriage to have kids and normal life with the woman I love and consider very good candidate.
If you cave in and get married, she will no longer respect you and turn on you and make your life a living hell, then leave and take whats left when she determines there's nothing more to gain or has a better option lined up. Once you get married, you give all your power to her and female nature is to exploit and abuse power. Would you gamble on a horse with a 65% chance of losing the race?
the moment ALL men with value stop getting married, everything on Rich's list will be fixed. i don't expect women to give up the good thing - that is until they can no longer find a man interested in marriage. so, at the end it's up to men to fix this - yet again.
Rich is right...how many of these women grifting off the men's community would petition to change divorce law? Vigorously...in court and through legislation? Nah, much easier to get simp followers on YT..for attention...that's the primary motivation...it always is.
I would say no division of assets for petitioning divorcer. I'm not sure how you say no division of assets when both names are on the deed or title. I have a mess of vehicles in my name only (classic car gifted to me by my father) and they are mine, but our home is in both our names. Ironically in Oklahoma if you are married both names of a married couple are required on the deed. Honestly I am fine with that, but if my wife decides to petition for divorce she shouldn't be qualified for a piece of my retirement or the house and land.
U-tube is full of suggestions on how to fix marriage. Some of them may even sound like a good start. However none of it is going to happen. Marriage in western society cannot be fixed, so it should be avoided at all cost. This is a simple solution already being practiced by a huge and growing percentage of men, who are wising up.
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Men! This is your
sign to start speaking up!
I’m a married woman with 2 kids, and I support this because I have a son.
A son we are currently raising to not get married and stay the hell away from
single Moms.
Stfu you don’t give af about men! Stop the cap!
My son is 24 and we do the same as you
No no, this is not a sign for men to start speaking up, this is a sign to VVOMEN to start speaking up. Men have been saying this stuff for DECADES.
It’s YOUR responsibility to change this otherwise men are just not going to get married and we’ll enjoy the free milk we get without buying the cow
You're ahead of the curve then. Many women in my family gave me a lot of grief for many years until their sons that are 8-10 years younger than me got out of school and they got a closer look at the market. They now understand. All others still don't get it though and shame us.
1. Eliminate Alimony
2. Default 50/50 custody
3. Eliminate division of assets
4. Mandatory DNA Paternity tests
5. Child support is what the child actually needs.
Thank you RC! This is very helpful and at the same time a fair path to reforming divorce laws.
For the gentlemen watching this; search the latest that Hollywood A list actor Kevin Costner had to face in court 💵 💲.
I would add that the government needs to set up some sort of "SNAP-like" system where the child support gets loaded on to a card that can ONLY be used for food/clothing/necessities.
This way she doesn't just simply get a bundle of cash to mostly spend on herself.
Women will never agree to this in a thousand years 🙄
Who is the government to assume that I am not supporting my child and who the hell are they to tell me how much I need to pay to raise my child? This is all about taking authority over your own kids. All under the ridiculous guise of being "the child's best interest".
@@Son-of-Krypton. That’s why men need to boycott marriage.
If that were to ever happen, they would give up custody
My own daughter told her 'Then boyfriend' that he was the father when she was pregnant & the young Man's mom demanded he do a DNA test after the birth of the child while the baby was still in the hospital. IT WAS NOT HIS!. My daughter felt like a fool (as she should have)
Insane…. Wow
@@lipsticknista5319 No, it's the truth so it is what it is. Families are not perfect. We all do the best we can each day and try to learn from our mistakes
Introducing your future woman to your mother (vice versa, future husband to father) is a pivotal moment. Being a woman, she can spot the flaws & red flags of women far more than a man. eg. Women can easily smell a 304, women can easily note emotional damages. If your mother (even elder sisters) says, be careful with that woman, you better be careful.
@@ToLateToSaveAny person who does that is morally and ethically bankrupt. As a father, it was your job to teach her to be honourable, moral, and virtuous. Sir the fact that your daughter did that tells me everything I need to know about you & you’re wife & about you as a father and as a man. Take responsibility and take accountability for your daughter’s absolutely evil behaviour. Shame on you and shame on your degenerate evil daughter!
Hopefully you have disowned her.
I don't even think that I will tell either of my children to get married and I am religious. I will try to tell both of them to chase their purpose in life. Additionally, I will be brutally honest about what marriage looks like nowadays, what it may be like to stay single, and the need for a prenup if they decide to get married.
Already doing that and my son is 11.
Only say that to a boy, a female is on a marriage meal ticket funded by her husband slave for life with all the power.
Prenup’s are largely useless. Especially if the marriage lasts very long. Don’t count on that to save you.
take them to family court at 10 years old.
Unless they won’t have sex, which most ppl have that desire, ur telling them to sin against God by committing fornication. Lame. I’ve personally seen men who are married with 13 children from the same wife. How come his marriage worked? There are men who convert their wife before marrying her.
The only way to fix it ?
Don’t get married !
Marriage, for a man, is like a long dull dinner where the pudding is served first.
😂
Lmaooo 😂
My father married his penpal from Czech Republic after ONE visit. She sent pics of herself in bathing suits. He declared himself in love. What a joke. This woman demanded to immediately be added to the title of his home and bank accounts. She bashed HIS children (me & my sister) to the point he no longer wanted us in his life. He was a weak Beta man who said yes, yes to everything. Good on you Rich for educating men on how to properly vett women. This woman he married was a blonde bombshell. He fell for her blonde hair and voluptuous body. She also refused to work because her back hurt. At 40? Yeah sure.
I have a 9 year old son. I will unfortunately not encourage him to ever get married. I don’t ever want him to go through the pain I’m going through now after my divorce. Unfortunately successful happy marriage is practically impossible. It’s simply not worth it.
This is why I listen up when Rich gives advice. Great video.
Just watched a short where a man found out 3 out of his 4 kids weren't his... and rather than own up to it, the wife self-deleted 😮
She should have been honest with him too bad what she did at the end. DNA testing must be mandatory, it could have saved her life.
At least the divorce was cheap! Lol
Sounds like a happy ending.
At least the father didnt
I appreciate Riches work to the red pill and manosphere community. Definitely leader material.
During my law education (2017) one of the family judges showed us a document from Netherlands saying that 28% of fathers were not raising their bio children. The test was based on bloodwork and it was done around 2001.
RED FLAG for MEN in a women. If you are a dating a new girl and she talks about the future, children, tell her you would do a test after the child is born or even during. Her reaction will tell you a lot about her. From my experience most react 🤯🤯🤯 and a man should be a man blah blah and other BS just to force you to submit to her
I relate to your anger on this subject rich, especially when it comes to women ignoring the unfair way men are treated in divorce. Women simply do not care because they benefit from it AT the expense of men, it's disgusting.
Boston, MA - My son and I both had to have our DNA tested for a medical issue and BOOM the hospital won't tell me if he is mine. I caught her cheating with a coworker soon after she gave birth and I have every reason to believe my youngest son is not mine.
In Germany if you own a property before marriage and after divorse your property appreciates in value you have to share 50% of that gain value with your ex. In Germany are parking spaces for womens. But in face of the law are we equal?
Right about the parking spaces. I travel a lot and see lots of dedicated parking at the entrances (prime spots) for them. I thought they're strong, independent and have legs? They're still infantilized
Trouble is that most guys are walking around with their eyes wide shut...
Most women have no care or concern about men's suffering and abuse. As Rich says they don't care about your struggles, but only wait at the finish line to pick the winner.
The winners have realized that leasing is a far better deal than buying.
I’m married and I vouch for this! I always think of my brothers, nephews and son.
Let’s try to get an interview on Fresh and fit, daily wire, Sadia khan, pearly things etc…to get this message out rich! It will save people so much heartache
Thanks for fighting for the men in the world! Great job!
These points are absolutely correct. These things WILL fix marriage. I disagree that we can't fix these things though. We need to start educating young men on these issues and men need to start making noise about it.
It is Western culture that is broken. When women glamorize being single, having a career and making money plus have the “you go girl” mentality, of course she will be miserable to deal with and certainly not a woman I would be willing to risk my future, and any children, with. Men, unfortunately, have to deal with the penalties of selecting one of these women while she is rewarded for her poor choices.
The only thing that I’d add is that since most marriages occur between similar tax brackets (rich people marry rich people, middle class people marry middle class people, etc…), there should be no need for child support if 50-50 child custody is the default.
Rich. I believe a marriage license should be like a drivers license … it has a set expiration date and if you choose to renew it then renew it.
Suggestion: limit the 'payout' from divorce to the dowry put up for the marriage.
Divorce was illegal in Ireland right up into the 90s. We have no pre-nups. They are not legally recognised. So I will not be getting married thank you very much
Add in strict judical penalties for false DV accusations and paternity fraud.
A list of countries like that would be amazing, when I do search, I get tons of links of countries where women are treated best, but few/near zero for where men are treated best.
“Best” is an undefinable word. You as a man have to invest in yourself and travel to these countries you feel fit your needs. My preference is Latin America. I visited 4 countries before I found one that fit my needs. Then visit that country a few times and experience the culture. Look into the laws, taxes and so on. Unfortunately almost all men would rather deal with “good enough” rather than go beyond and put in the work.
When I looked into this, there were a few articles and the hospitals position flat out was "Best interests of the child", which means that Dad is there even if he isn't the actual father. It doesn't matter about the truth. It doesn't matter about what's right. They will do everything in their power to keep the information from the Dad. So if you think doctors will help you, or have some obligation to tell you the truth, they absolutely do not and in all likelihood will never tell you. This is why it pays to be aware of these things. Some guys might think, oh we all did blood screenings for this genetic issue with our baby, they would have said something.
Nope.
Absolutely not. They won't tell you. They won't lie to you. So they might say "You aren't a donor" but they won't ever expose the mother. Also during birth they will try everything in their power to get you to sign that birth certificate. Don't think they will support you if you say you want a paternity test. They will side with the mom and hit you with every emotional attack to get you to sign it. Guilt. Shame. The works.
If you want to do a paternity test, you need to figure that out early. You need to decide if you're going to tell her or keep it secret. You need to check your local laws. In Quebec, you have less than 90 days to contest paternity in a marriage, otherwise nothing can release you, not even DNA. Do your research. Take the time to figure this stuff out if you're going to deal with women.
NO CHILD SUPPORT like in the Scandinavian states
NO involvment of the social workers: everything has to be dealt with in the tribunal before a judge (he can ask the children questions if he wants)
This is spot on Rich. Thanks for this.
Many women never want to
marry or remarry, and they still have an edge.
Don’t get married, period.
One thing is missing from this list. Since the state is already involved, the state must pay for 2 years of training, counseling, and testing for BOTH candidates in order for them to qualify for a marriage license. Drivers can't get a license without tests and proving they can drive, so why can just any idiot get a marriage license?
I have been saying this for years, so 100% Concur with all points.
How to FIX Marriage
1 Get rid of Alimony
2 Default to 50/50 Custody
3 Eliminate Division of Assets
4 Mandatory DNA Tests for Paternity
5 Child Support is what the Child Actually needs and requires
I forget the state, (Delaware?) but it requires all child support to go on a card that is used for specific child costs, such as food and clothing. I would require receipts for all expenses associated with the child as a check to be sure the (usually mother) custodial parent is spending for its original purpose.
I will use this going forward.
This video is spot on.
Rich you are 100% bang on!
Rich has the best take on marriage in the entire RUclips red pill manoshpere
Rich uses common sense. The others try to get you to go through the same shit they wen't through.
That’s cuz you haven’t watched CGA yet
@@jjeffery129 who tha fook is that guy
@@brandonmacey964you don't know about the C God Allahhhhh you're missing out
@@brandonmacey964I believe he means Coach Greg Adams
it's so much work just to get betrayed and have everything stolen from you, just don't do it
These laws are gender neutral. I'm a woman and was the sole provider in my marriage. Upon divorce he got half of my stuff and alimony. Thank goodness I didn't have children with him. I would love to see these laws changed, they are unfair no matter what gender you are.
Amazing video!
Well done Sir...
Facts and 100% truth
Glad I don’t live in delusional ideology La La land
Rich you nailed it with that Twitverse post
She won’t get a dime from me. I don’t have any.
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Put your assets into an irrevocable trust and you would be amazed at how much more balance and control you have in your relationship.
Your absolutely right marriage will never change until all your bullet points are adopted. Unfortunately I won't hold my breath for these things to change. It's a mine field.
You make some very valid points here
my divorced friend dated a single mom of 3 after his failed marriage (her fault) he paid for her and her kids. I scrutinized him a way a friend would, tough love. I thought he got the message, he left her. we celebrated. couple weeks later hes dating a new single mom of 2 lol. I said why not go for young women? he then blamed me for not introducing him, me a married man of 2, why would I have women on my roster? lol
your friend is low value provider - single moms give his type a lot of attention. he knows that he will actually have to work on himself to get a younger woman. basically, he is going to the low hanging fruit (or the fruit that is no the ground)
He can’t get hotter, better women. Men only date single moms because that’s the best they can get
That’s why being wealthy and show off in nice cars is a way is a curse
Women have an agenda and smart sly about it
I like to be humble and live a minimalists lifestyle
Marriage is both the best financial deal you can make in life and the worst financial deal you can make. It just depends on which side of the deal you are on. Chose wisely.
Indiana has 1,2, and 5. Amazing state to live in.
I recently had the same thought on how to fix divorce. Here is my suggestion. Get a couple of Men's rights attorneys together and have them put together a GENDER NEUTRAL pre-nuptial agreement that addresses all of these issues that Rich raises. Make sure it's legally tested by compiling Prenups that passed the test in court trials. Put together a tutorial on what has to occur in order for a prenup to be considered binding at trial. Have a youtube video link showing this in that tutorial. It's more complicated than just having her sign it.
A contract that is gender neutral and that treats both parties fairly based on what they brought into the marriage as well as removing incentives for which ever party brings the divorce, would "more likely" be viewed as unbiased towards either party.
If we can get such a prenup available and eventually widely adopted, we have a much better chance of having this divorce methodology adopted by the courts "eventually". In the meantime, we can protect men by having them execute prenups in a manner that are almost guaranteed to be upheld in a divorce action.
If the bride to be doesn't want to sign one, at least the man knows that he chose to remain single wisely.
Marriage as it is viewed today has not kept up with modern realities. A prenup will work as long as it follows certain procedures of that state/province. I agree your suggestion has merit but the bigger issue is the overall system that feeds off vulnerable men. She holds the leverage and, as too many men have learned, her promises can not be enforced in court. Love…what is that? Cleaning, cooking, laundry….he can do that without her.
And consult an attorney before you get married. It is a contract at the end of the day, and knowing the laws of the state you are getting married in is important as well because that could impact divorce decrees later on.
Remember, laws can be passed later that you are made subject to. All those men that got married in the 50s when divorce required that fault be proven were still subject to the new no-fault divorce laws.
Just because you accept the risks of marriage as they are now, you have no idea what risks they will introduce in 30 years
@@jth_printed_designs certainly laws are always changing, but putting a plan together with an attorney before getting married to protect pre marital assets is general common sense. You can apply the what if game to everything in life and talk yourself out of doing anything. Change is constant, that ain't nothing new.
@@nateg3949 You just don’t have to get married. It does nothing for men, so it makes no sense to do it.
I can only speak from experience, but when I divorced my first husband, I didn’t ask for any alimony. I was an RN, worked in the OR and made good money. I just needed our house to live in. We had three children, all in their teen years, so that was critical. The truth be known, my husband revealed to me later he was positive I would never agree to the terms. He did not want the divorce. I remember the Judge asking me if I did agreed to these terms. We had been married 19 years and had financial resources, a business, etc. But I knew I couldn’t stay married to him. The Bible says, be not unevenly matched, and we were! I’m not sure if that’s the direct quota. I would need to ask my youngest daughter ❤. She is the Biblical scholar in our family.
Typical F 85% divorces instigated by you and youll always find a reason and play the victim 😂
I would start by requiring a prenup and the initial marriage license should expire after 3 years. As part of the prenup add “an escape clause” which allows him to end the marriage prior to the end of the “contract”. If, at the end of the term, either side can file the fee and the divorce is granted. No lawyers, no courts, no legal problems. This would keep her in check since she knows he can leave at the end of the term. If they choose to continue, the original prenup stays in effect unless a major change occurs (children or purchase a home). If a woman has an issue with these terms he learns real fast she is the wrong woman.
Determining the Alimony Amount:
Suppose the prenup specifies 20% of your annual income for alimony.
Annual income = $160,000
20% of $160,000 = $32,000 per year
Monthly alimony payment = $32,000 / 12 = $2,666.67
Duration of Alimony:
If the marriage lasted 5 years, and alimony is to be paid for half the duration of the marriage:
Duration of alimony = 5 years / 2 = 2.5 years (30 months). The state thinks 20% is fair but length can be enforced in the prenup. A signed letter of understanding from both parties is required. She understands what is in the prenup. That she signed with a sound mind. That she does not have a mental illness or prenup might be dismissed or forced to sign.
An audit and accounting of every dollar and penny should be required by law for woman receiving child support/alimony. Any descrepency above 1 cent becomes grounds for complete forfeiture of said child support/alimony. Also discrepency should be treated as fraud and punishable by a prison sentence and custody revoked. Take away the incentive to get "free" money by the woman. She will ALWAYS be accountable for the money, just like the man is required to do. With great power comes great responsibility!
very good...
add the true game changer
CHILDREN GET THE HOUSE
as in parents rotate visitation
(staying w/ 3 roomies in a 2bd
apt of other divorced parents if
they cant afford an extra house
to rotate into on off 2 weeks)...
and limit support/division (bcs
youre never gonna get rid of em)
to 50% of halfway btwn a minimum
the govt will fund and half of what
the non-filing higher earner makes
Also- eliminate no fault divorce. Either parent that is unfaithful loses primary custody of the kids automatically.
Rich you need to add to #5 that child support needs to include accountability for what it’s used for. Maybe an account set up only for the children. My Ex used it for liposuction and I wound up paying twice because I did not let my children go without.
Been divorced 2x. DON'T DO IT. its a 1 sided good deal for them.
I agree with all of this except your remarks on the "Pink Pill women." I, for one, am grateful that we're finally seeing some women bringing attention to it and are at least taking the first steps towards getting the ball rolling. All revolutions start at the bottom. Unbeknownst to most people, significant movements that have impacted the course of human history had their seeds planted decades earlier. The concept of democracy didn't begin fully formed in 1776. Communism wasn't a totally unknown idea until 1917. Woman's suffrage wasn't birthed in 1919. These things take time.
So while I agree there isn't a groundswell of women picketing and demonstrating on behalf of marriage and divorce laws right now, it doesn't mean it's a lost cause and we should just tune them out. Limited influence is still better than zero influence.
I don't consider Red Pill women insincere grifters exploiting a male audience for money. Women are not that strategic typically. These women also receive enormous backlash from other women outraged by their comments. Women typically fold when placed under social pressure. The fact these women haven't backed down in the face of these enraged women tells me these are their genuine beliefs and principles. It says a lot when a woman is willing to endure the slings and arrows of holding these positions.
They're just OF without the explicitness. Manosphere Fans content regurgitators feeding off the male attention. Same demographic targeted and manipulated for adrev, time, attention, views and clout
I am 100% for marriage, and I also 100% endorse the 5 changes to divorce law. The law makes no sense if you want to encourage marriage, which is nearly always the best way to ensure kids are brought up right. Change these laws, and at the same time strengthen laws against abusive/violent/narcissistic men/women who ruin marriages. But I agree, it will never happen, and so we see the decline of Western civilisation. Enjoy the decline? That sucks for our grandchildren.
Excellent!
Rich your recommendations will never happen because Money! Money money money!
Romance is a business.
Weddings are a business.
Relationships are a business.
Kids are a business.
Divorce is a business.
And round and round it goes. All driven by our Women (Normally I would never have spent half the money on crap that I did in the past; i.e. when I was married compared to single life now). The State want it this way. Why would they want to screw up part of their money tree? Gotta keep the money flowing.
Money money money! 😁
Facts!!!!
Most of this is already true or mostly true in the netherlands and marriage isn't fixed. Default 50/50 custody check, division of assets is optional to choose in the start of the marriage (and even the default division of assets is only what came after marriage), Child support is much less and closer to what a child needs (though not perfect), and you can have a contract called the "samenlevingscontract" or a contract for living together to avoid marriage and alimony all together while still keeping all the rules of marriage (plenty of people do that instead).
None of this has fixed marriage. Sure it isn't the hellhole of the US, but at its core the ability to leave a marriage without good reason is what destroys marriage. The whole point is that you're stuck together so you have to figure out your life together. That way you want the best for your partner because you can't bail out halfway, so you'll be stuck with whatever misery they suffer / you cause them.
And if they're stupid enough to not realize that the first 5 years they'll keep being miserable and getting advice until they do get it. All while being an example for others to learn from (don't be a b to your partner or else you'll suffer for years).
The only real reasons for divorce are reasons such as infidelity, serious threats of physical harm, or inability to have children (as that's in the end the point of marriage for society, though not for the individual).
Gentlemen, I have a fix. I'm currently drawing up plans to build a large, mobile, island in the Gulf of Mexico. So long as you can pass initial vetting, supply your own approved materials and the required engineered flotation, and contribute to island maintenance you may build onto the island and reside there for a minimum secondary vetting period at the completion of which you will receive citizenship.
This will be a toxic man camp with all of the vices and virtues associated. Engineers, architects, construction managers, medical professionals, and all those with valuable contributions to mankind are encouraged to apply. Women may only reside on a temporary visa under the sponsorship of a male resident.
Once structurally large enough, we will tow into the Mid-Atlantic and register as The Republic of New Atlantis.
Seriously though. Elon if you're reading this....
As per famous divorce lawyer James J. Sexton, at present rate, 56% of marriages end in divorce. Another 20 - 25% marriages are merely continuing for the sake of children, or they can not afford the divorce. So that's like only 20% marriages are continuing in a healthy way. That's a pretty bad situation. That's a pretty bad deal. If you are about to jump from a plane & get to know that the odds of parachute deployment is only 20%, will you jump??? Like Rich pointed out, unless there are drastic changes in marriage & divorce law, getting married is a very dumb option.
What is very sad is marriage-aged women are only getting worse. Within another 10 years we may be looking at 10% chance the marriage is fulfilling for both sides.
All 💯 correct
I would add one more: eliminate state and company pension.
People use to have a lot of kids and put effort in raising them because their future was depended on it. The simple correlation was: "when something will go wrong my kid will support me". That's why they cared about ethics, proper values, culture, marriage, family, living in a community. Nowadays we are being told that the government will take care of us and what are the results? Just look at Italy and Japan (among others). There are no taxpayers being born to secure the pension, yet everyone ignores it.
Think about it. Who introduced state pension? For what reasons? What were the consequences? How did families live before the pension was introduced?
Western lifespan is now 85yrs not biblical 3score and 10 =70yrs but could be declining obesity drugs stress etc alot of very old people now average age first birth not 20yrs but 31yo. Everything solid turning to vapour
Default 50/50 custody. Best idea ever.
You missed this...
6. Do a lie dector test on woman's real body count before wedding.
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This is why I get so angry. Many of the most prominent gurus of the Red Pill - or whatever I'm supposed to call it this week because reasons - have mocked, denigrated, attacked and dismissed the Men's Rights Movement for years, and here we are with one of those gurus who mocked and ridiculed making a post that is exactly equivalent to what the Men's Rights activists have been saying for years. Rollo recently had a guest, talking about the same things in the same way, yet Rollo has been vicious in his denouncement of the Men's Rights Movement. HYPOCRITES.
So my conclusion is that it's ok to ridicule and mock people who say something that doesn't perfectly align with your point-of-view until you come to the same conclusion and say it. Then it's golden.
Default 50/50 custody and if ANYONE fights it, they pay for ALL court costs and time lost at work. PAY FOR IT ALL. ALL experts, lawyers, drive to the courthouse, loss of PTO....
This is the problem with Kevin Coster's divorce. The claim is that the woman is entitled to the same standard of living when she was married. No, when you choose to leave the marriage, your standard of living may fall, by your choice. Costner's ex gets 129,000 a month. It doesn't cost 129,000 a monthe to feed, clothe, and house 3 kids.
The only way the divorce laws may change is if it's forced on "society," by a large fraction of men "going on strike" and refusing to get married - and being vocal about why. Even then, there will be the usual cycle of disbelief, mocking, shaming, panic and bargaining before actual change occurs.
If all these changes were implemented No women will marry
rich for president !
I remember an article back in the early 2000's that stated it was close to 30% of children are raised by fathers that aren't there own.
That in itself should push the man if he truly wants children to tell the mother that he will seek a paternity test at the birth before the mans name goes on the birth certificate. Her reaction to that will tell the man all he needs.
A man needs to fish; a women needs a dish.
I was at the court for some bs proceeding. We were waiting for this woman who brought an urgent motion to get money from her long-term husband. They both had a business that they wound up and shut down. Their only asset was their house which they were selling but didn't get the money yet. He didn't have an income either and there she was paying a lawyer to take his ass to court to give her an income. I guess it never occurred to her that she could work at McDonalds or, even better, another business in the same market as their business. So why is he paying for her in court? Is it because he bagged money that was rightfully hers? If the only money left was the house, then that theory is off. Where, then, did the money come from to hire a lawyer? Or is it that he had her for her prime years and now she has no value so he should pay? Doesn't that also go against femanist theory that women who are older are not worthless or have the ability to make their own living? Its like the legal system is doing everything in a vacuum as if women have no power so the man has to pay even if he's also broke. Strange deformity of human society.
This is not legal advice. You can take care of 1-4 . Tennessee has a mandatory paternity testing. Florida now has a default 50/50 custody . A Prenup ( and no , it doesn't get thrown out if done right ) can eliminate alimony , attorney's fee and can protect your net worth during the marriage as well. Child support is the only thing that is out of your control , but depending on the state , roughly you'll pay 17% for the first child and 25% for two children based on the difference of both of your incomes. I hate to say it , but if you don't want to pay child support, mate with someone who is making the same amount as you .
And for those who think Islam has it , Lemme tell you why it's even a worst deal there. Feminism has reached most of the middle east with the exception of a few countries. You as a man are required by LAW ( that's right) to provide. She is not required to do shit at the house . Most women there nowadays grew up spoiled, they had their education and mostly working their 9-5 . They see women who cater to their husbands as slaves. They want you to provide for everything including bringing a full time maid to do her supposedly wife duty . If you think you're getting a virgin , good luck. You will find out the true meaning of your money is hers and her money is hers. Doesn't matter how much money she makes, she can still use the law to make you pay for everything. You divorce , you pay alimony for a few months and you pay child support until the kids are grown ( based on your income as well, not the need of the child). You have to provide a home for her. Custody automatically goes to the mother. The only good thing is that there is no division of assets.
Hi rich, I'm a lawyer in small 3.5 million country of eastern europe, called Georgia. All of those laws are in charge here, but we still have the divorce rate of 65%..., because of my law practice and also Red Pill, even tho I found the girl who fits all the Green flag, Red flag list, I still kinda refuse to marry her, because of all the things you and red pill teaches, can you suggest what can be done to replace the marriage,when you want living together and having children with her. Btw here, marriage only exists when two people sign legal documents, it means if you have children and live with the woman for 50 years, but have never signed documents for marriage, you are not considered wife and a husband, just random people who have mutual kids. With what should I replace marriage to have kids and normal life with the woman I love and consider very good candidate.
If you cave in and get married, she will no longer respect you and turn on you and make your life a living hell, then leave and take whats left when she determines there's nothing more to gain or has a better option lined up. Once you get married, you give all your power to her and female nature is to exploit and abuse power. Would you gamble on a horse with a 65% chance of losing the race?
TFM said it best
the moment ALL men with value stop getting married, everything on Rich's list will be fixed. i don't expect women to give up the good thing - that is until they can no longer find a man interested in marriage. so, at the end it's up to men to fix this - yet again.
Rich is right...how many of these women grifting off the men's community would petition to change divorce law? Vigorously...in court and through legislation? Nah, much easier to get simp followers on YT..for attention...that's the primary motivation...it always is.
I have to agree. 💯
I would say no division of assets for petitioning divorcer. I'm not sure how you say no division of assets when both names are on the deed or title. I have a mess of vehicles in my name only (classic car gifted to me by my father) and they are mine, but our home is in both our names. Ironically in Oklahoma if you are married both names of a married couple are required on the deed. Honestly I am fine with that, but if my wife decides to petition for divorce she shouldn't be qualified for a piece of my retirement or the house and land.
Yep, it is what it is.
A friend of mine has a super religious mother who collected Alimony from her 1st husband WHILE MARRIED TO HER SECOND... RICH HUSBAND.
I’d add one
6. If the woman is independent and have a career , then the husband is not obligated to pay for 100% of the family expenses
this fixes divorce. fixing marriage is a much bigger issue
Have a private marriage-there are no laws that people have to be married thru a states legal system
Rich has identified The Daily Wire/The Blaze/PragerU. Impressive. Very nice. You might have some merit after all.
I agree Rich totally abolish alimony.
I think almost all of this is default in Scandinavia, like Sweden and Denmark.
What happened to the discussion of #3?
U-tube is full of suggestions on how to fix marriage. Some of them may even sound like a good start.
However none of it is going to happen.
Marriage in western society cannot be fixed, so it should be avoided at all cost.
This is a simple solution already being practiced by a huge and growing percentage of men, who are wising up.
Facts!!!
Also, divorce not allowed with underage children.
Alimony is largely gone, especially in progressive states where male/female incomes are almost at par.