My spouse just scoffs or laughs at what I'm trying to say no matter how I say it. I feel like he has no respect for how I feel about anything. Then when I get upset that he's not being respectful then I'm dramatic and "this is why I don't talk to you". When if he was just considerate in the first place I wouldn't be upset.
Consider all we can do is take control over how we choose show up. When we share something , knowing that we can’t control what he does about it only what we can do. There is no need to get pulled in or take the bait, knowing when to step away and commit to not getting pulled into argument. 💗
ok, ive noticed my boyfriends protectiveness has turned into control. I dont know how to tell him that it bothers me without hurting him, im not even sure he realizes what hes doing
My spouse just scoffs or laughs at what I'm trying to say no matter how I say it. I feel like he has no respect for how I feel about anything. Then when I get upset that he's not being respectful then I'm dramatic and "this is why I don't talk to you". When if he was just considerate in the first place I wouldn't be upset.
Consider all we can do is take control over how we choose show up. When we share something , knowing that we can’t control what he does about it only what we can do. There is no need to get pulled in or take the bait, knowing when to step away and commit to not getting pulled into argument. 💗
That was just what I needed to hear. The slow start up. Thank you!
ok, ive noticed my boyfriends protectiveness has turned into control. I dont know how to tell him that it bothers me without hurting him, im not even sure he realizes what hes doing