Hey dont worry man, everything is going to be fine, who cares what other people think or say. They probably didnt research anything or got their hopes up way too high and then had to face reality harshly and suddenly. You'll be fine and remeber, people will always try to put down others and blame them for their problems
-Anxious 17 year old You called? But seriously I'm fucking terrified. It probably won't be as bad as it looks in the end, but try telling my adrenaline that.
Hmong families even live together. Like, kids living with parents. Then their kids kids live their as well. They pool their money together and live nice lives. At least as far as spending and fiscal responsibility goes. I live in Minnesota, and there are groups of Hmong families that did this and ended up owning businesses and being super rich. It’s smart.
The most horrifying thing about growing up is that you never do. I always thought when I was 18 I would be older or more mature, but honestly I feel the same way that I was when I was 15 and I wasn't prepared for this at all. You don't just magically become an Adult, you get older and more experienced but that's it.
I definitely feel more grown up at 22 then i did at 17. I have a lot more confidence, although i am still very unsure about the future. When you talk to someone who is x ammount of years younger then you, you realize how much you have grown.
I made a salad with canned tuna, corn, lettuce, raw garlic, fresh onion, onion with soy sauce olive oil pepper and salt and vinegar with two cups of coffee and now I am drinking matcha tea this at 5-7 I the morning
@CGMe That's not very good advice by itself. Ton of people get a degree, land a shitty low paying "entry level" job anyway, and now have debt on top of being poor.
I’m too stubborn about independence. I’d live under an overpass before moving back in with my parents. When I struggled financially, I simply got a second job and didn’t waste money. Problem solved
Step 1) fight with parents Step 2) move out because u sick of living with them and think u can manage better on your own 3) after your first month (or week) realize that we have to go back morty. 4) get denied and stand by your poor choice making living off ready to eat ramen and sometimes a tomato
"but three months later you'll be laying in the dark on an uncovered mattress at 3 am listening to your neighbors trying to save their marriage while wondering how long it would take for anyone to notice if you didn't wake up" damn that one caught me off guard, nearly had coffee fly out of my noise.
To all the high schoolers who get anxiety by just watching this, as I did back then: You will be fine. I promise. I know it feels like you're in no way ready for "adult things" and you feel like you can't move out until you magically become a different, more capable person, otherwise you'd just drown in the adult world. But that's not true. Even if you can't cook at all, have never done your own laundry, and super awkward and afraid - there is nothing magical and mysterious about life away from your parents. Some new chores come up that you'll manage, some old ones are no longer a concern, and you'll get through it being exactly who you are right now. You don't need to adult before moving out, you're inevitably going to adult as you move out. Don't worry so much.
Totally agree. To add to this, in case people have any doubts: How hard is cooking? It's easy - just buy stuff and Google how to cook it. Laundry is easy - learn how to do it online, ask your mom, or just go to a place that does it for you, if you can afford that. Taxes, insurance - this can all be done online. People say all this stuff is hard because they didn't expect it in the first place. If you're worried about "adulting", it's because you have already thought about it. And if you've thought about it enough to worry, you've already thought about it more than is warranted, for its level of difficulty.
the absolute worst is meeting people the same age as you and they have incredible well paying jobs, their own beautiful home, a car, a great relationship, countless fun activities with others and you have to repress your tears at the thought of people like that existing or you might accidentally take your toaster with you for a swim the coming evening.
Kokusskatz yo been there i live on my friends floor from hs while the same kids we went to school with drive nice cars and foreman jobs from their dad handing it to them it’s called a silver spoon it doesn’t always taste good those people don’t have skills in this day and age if you’re successful most likely handed to you
Bronzewarrior Did you know there are signs on the airport that tell you not to bring bombs, weapons, drugs, acidic substances and nuclear devices? Man I didn't know, thankfully I saw them before passing the security and could guve them to my friend who drove me there.
But 60-year-olds have possible mental issues and can be injured easier and making them alone is completely a bad idea, this is why old people have shelters. Or if they're already healthy, they would be retired causing them to struggle due to the fact that they don't have a job.
To be fair, you could always skip the unhappy loveless marriage part and just buy a child straight off of Craigslist. They won't love you, but you'll at least discover an old friend who has always been there for you: alcohol. After all, nothing is more effective at getting rid of the sound of a crying child than getting blackout drunk.
A tip for young people: Be proactive in learning about adult life! For instance, I started joining my mom when she went grocery shopping, just to form a baseline understanding of what one might need to buy and how much things cost. Also ask your parents a lot of questions! I recently had quite a lengthy conversation with my parents about house loans and how expensive of a house I might be able to afford with X salary etc.
@@cczsus6513 I had to join my mom on her shopping rounds when I was too young to be left home alone, but as a teenager I didn't have to come. And it's not until that age you actually have the awareness to register what's going on. Plus, if you're just getting dragged along (regardless of age) you're probably not really paying attention to things, you're just waiting for your parents to be done. So my advice is basically to take the initiative to pay attention to the shopping, what is being bought, what things cost, scan the shelves to get an idea of what the options are other than what you're personally getting, etc :) My boyfriend - who is a few years older than me - clearly has no idea how to grocery shop so I have to take the lead to buy necessities. That's no good, every adult should have some idea of how to buy food for themselves
@@cczsus6513 Why would being rich make you not know how to grocery shop? :P I think that just has to do with lack of experience - another contributing factor may be if you don't really know how to cook and therefore don't have a good idea of what items you may need. Like I said, my boyfriend is pretty bad at it, and when my brother moved out he kinda struggled with it too. It's one thing to just buy a bunch of premade stuff (which is what my boyfriend does, he'll just buy frozen meals and stuff like that) but if you're going to actually cook you need to have some sense of awareness of what sorts of things you need. And if you've never really participated in grocery shopping (being dragged along by your parents does not count as "participating") it's hard to know what to get. You kinda get used to just taking for granted that everything is already available at home, until the day you live alone and suddenly realize you've got no salt or flour.
@@cczsus6513 Yeah, each person's experience is different. I think a lot of people grow up hardly ever thinking about food - their parents always do the shopping and cook for them, so they're used to food practically just appearing in front of them. If you live like that, it can become quite a shock when you're suddenly faced with the task of taking care of yourself. So I'm really trying to train my boyfriend to shop and cook, he has lived most of his adult life just eating takeout food (which gets really expensive). He has been getting those Hello Fresh boxes delivered for a while, where you get recipes and pre-proportioned ingredients and stuff, which I think is a good way for him to get used to cooking and learning the basics. Eventually he'll be able to get stuff himself :)
@@Merthalophor You could possibly do that too, yeah. I've done that a couple of times. But you'd probably have to start off going with a parent to learn, and also doing it alone might not be an option if you're too young to drive
Gavin B me and my girl freaked and had a mini dance party the first time I half asses filled the fridge after that’s it been big is working mad overtime never seeing each other trying to make ends fucking meet🤘🏼
@@arandomdudeontheinternet4199 No shame when you've saved enough living with them to buy your own place at 30 and you never have to pay rent to anyone. That's what I did, one of the best decisions I ever made.
People used to call me a loser because I would sit in my moms basement playing World of Warcraft all day. But now they can't say shit because I got a job and now I rent out someone elses moms basement and still play World of Warcraft as much as I can.
@@rds6129 Says who? If one finds WoW, or any game for that matter, fun and a good use of their time, why should they stop playing? It's their time, and they seem to have their life in check anyways.
@@olivier6840 I'm assuming that since he's playing WoW all day he probably also has a programming or similar job. And why learn a language if he never gets social interaction? Some people just settle at a plateau in life. Most do, really, otherwise society would be unable to function.
Then you're rich. If i would live on my own i would barely afford any food after rent and utilities were paid. It took some time to make my mother come to terms that i'm not moving out. Like why would i if i don't change cities? To pay the amount of an R7 cpu each month only on rent just to live in a smaller and more crappy room than the one i already had been using for so long? I'd rather save that expense and live somewhat comfortable. Get better quality shoes, can afford a decent gaming PC, any game that i want without needing to pirate and so on. Moving out is a bit overrated if odds are not in your favor when you're starting out.
How much was your rent when living on your own? Where I live in England here a 1 bed apartment is around £700-850pm and average salary in my city is £21,000. But as an 18 year old you'd not earn that much in my city... Idk how I'd be able to afford living by myself when I hit 18 next year..
Getting a solid job makes a lot of this better. Figure out/ learn some things that people will pay you to do. Ask for raises, move to better paying jobs, learn more skills (like how to use a chainsaw) and you’ll see your life get better. Also figure out how to create a second income.
😅 I've come to accept that fact that if you rent places under a certain price cap, but do NOT want to live in squalor, you're gonna wanna develop some DIY and gardening skills. Sadly, most owners simply won't fix things, unless law changes force them to or the house actually starts falling apart. They're often simultaneously very fussy about how clean and tidy you keep the place though! There's most certainly a strong double standard present. If you can find out what your basic rights as a leaser are, that's a really good precaution?
i lived off of buying raw chicken and pasta. yeah, it takes like half an hour to prepare and another half an hour to eat but thinking of good ass food motivates me.
Laundry maybe, the nearest laundromat is just uncomfortably far for me, as for cooking, my mom hates cooking and I cook pretty much everytime I visit her lol, I know it's not how it usually goes but for me moving out was pretty easy and so liberating, student support is really good in the UK even if you end up with a massive debt, which doesn't really matter because the repayment system is pretty damn fair. Decent student accomodation+ maintenance loan + even a single day part time job and I live a better quality life than most adults working full time, I get about 300 quid a month from my part time job, I also have about 500 quid a month leftover from the maintenance loan, so basically 800 quid that I can put aside for whatever I want.
@Antares I agree. When you go from a place that has a dishwasher, laundry machines, and a place to park and you have to hand wash everything, take all your stuff to another place blocks away to wash it, and not have a consistent parking spot everyday, you'll appreciate how big those little things were.
@@WPFreeinternet Luckily for me those are a non issue, I hand wash things anyway, I have a motorbike so my parking is always wherever i want it (right in front of the block usually) overall yea they were nice but it's honestly not that big a deal, I'm pretty bored as a student as I barely have any work to do so chores become a good way to spend time.
luckily, I lived at my aunts house for three months when I was 13 and my mom told me to do everything myself. So I learned to iron, do laundry, keep relatively clean, help out as much as I can, etc.
I did it anyway. Basically, find roommates (room listing), ask questions about their habits and how serious they are about limiting exposure, social bubble, etc.
Wow. Got kicked out with $8 during quarantine. That first part hit hard although a more accurate representation for getting kicked out in 2020 is being flung into a high speed freeway on a motorized scooter.
Step 1: Invent time machine so that you can go back to when it was possible to buy a house and support a family on $14/hr with a job that you got by physically walking into a random store and asking for a handshake with the boss 2: Move out
This is painful to anyone that still lives with their parents in their late 20's... It's like telling us that you have to climb Everest just to earn basic respect. At least that's how I see it in the US.
Focus on being grateful to having your parents around. Love them and think that this is the best moment to find a job and study something usefull, because in some time you won't have the same luxury of having loving people around you and will be weaker. You don't have to climb Everest, climb your own mountain, within your possibilities. Make your parents proud, make yourself proud. Come on start now, even if it's not comfortable even if it's not perfect. The first thing is an achievable goal, the second, going for it!
I actually don’t mind that you don’t upload often/at a set pace. it makes each video genuinely refreshing. Keep those rare, quality videos coming💛surprise gems for the win
Haley seriously. I don't really Care for the "upload everyday" protocol a lot of creators resort to. At A minimum I think once a week is OK but when they are very random it can be a nice surprise
I didn't experience any of this moving out at 18. Started working at 15, saved as much as I could and continued to work close to min. Wage jobs while going to school for 5 years. Growing up in an abusive family will motivate your a$$ to move out with fiscal responsibility an no regrets.
Ì wish I could keep living with my parents and instead of paying at least 550€ rent and utilities to live alone, work fewer hours and save like 300€ instead. But for some of us living with our parents isn't pleasant. I want to move out, not sure if I'll really do it.
This hits so close to home except for the part about hearing the neighbors have sex since I just pass out because of the copious amounts of alcohol I consume because it turns out I have no self constraint when no one is watching.
It's was scary for me to move out at first when I was 29, but it became happier that my parents don't control me all the time. No more curfews, nagging, or asking for permission to do anything. I moved out because I got a new job with much better pay in SF Bay Area. At first, I was living in someone's bedroom and the home owner was friendly at first. But things turned bad in a month and I started to search for my own apartment. After living in an apartment for a while, I faced a big rent increase and decided to look for a new apartment. At first, I looked at apartments, but then I decided to look at buying a house instead. I had just gotten married so I decided it would be a good time to buy a home anyways. In hindsight, I'm really glad I did buy a home. My home value skyrocketed in the last couple years that I lived in it. Doing laundry is really simple. You just put all your clothes into the washer and add a cup of detergent. Once it's done, just move the clothes to the dryer. After the dryer is done just take the clothes out and fold it all up. The washers and dryers are all automatic these days anyways, so just set to normal and forget it. Bills are really self explanatory. Most of them can be setup on autopay, so you can just set it and forget it. My wife, who is an accountant, does the taxes. But, all you have to do is just get Turbotax every year and just answer the questions. For bills that don't support autopay, I just put them into my Google calendar. Cooking isn't too hard either. Most foods have directions on them so you can just microwave it, boil it, or bake it in the oven. It's not much harder than making ramen in college anyways.
Kind of similar situation to you, but the important thing is you are getting paid a lot compared the average folks - most people can't afford to get ready to cook food all the time (where I am from it's very frowned up on, ugh being in India). Having a significant disposable income makes everything else extremely easy.
Reference from your previous land lord? No problem, i'll ask my mom. Reference from your employer? No problem, i'll write it myself. How about your previous employer? No problem, i''ll ask my dad.
lol love the Jordan Peterson 12 Rules for Life reference. "The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up Your Room with Nietzschean Philosophy" on a lobster print book. beautiful.
Watching your videos always brings a smile to my face, and makes me feel like i’m not alone in the way that life has been workin for me so far. Thanks for the humor and honesty. Really helping me get through the rough patches
Ah, I remember getting my first apartment. I lived by myself and actually managed to afford all of my rent, utilities, and other expenses. It was great until the crushing loneliness set in. After my second suicide attempt, however, my family coerced me into moving back in with them and now I don't have to pay rent at all. Happy endings do exist.
I just don’t wanna grow up man, that moment when you realize you are 18 and you are moving out when you just started getting flashbacks of your family having fun with you and realizing that you will never feel the same way
I had to change my major a few times as I began to realize I was never going to manage to complete the education that I wanted. Then I finally just had to quit school and focus on work, because it's almost impossible to scrape by at the bare minimum when you don't have a degree, and almost impossible to get a degree when you're stuck at the bottom. And even if I got the degree, I'd still be lucky if it got me a job.
Indeed. The plan is to save for a deposit to put down for a house, since houses are generally a solid investment due to their habit to increase in valuation over time (at least in the UK). But if you are renting, it is near impossible to start saving, which makes it hard to fund a deposit for a mortgage.
I love how everyone is sharing their stories. We’re all different, but in the same boat. I have love for everyone here for that. There is more wisdom in this comment section than in most schools these days.
95% of people here: life is so unfair, a small minority of humanity got an advantage and thats my justification for not doing anything beside complaining. yeah....wisdom.
Dude, just be honest, you just wanted to insult schools and act as of you said something deep and profound, the people in RUclips comments are LITERALLY just privileged spoilt people who just want to complain, there's no wisdom here, who do you think watch these kinds of videos for ENTERTAINMENT? People with LOADS of free time and money, not the other way around
I just want you to know that I went on a first date a little over a year ago and my date introduced me to your channel. We could not get enough! Fast forward, to now and we're still watching your videos...the only difference is we're engaged. If I could I would have you at our wedding-thank you for all your wittiness and for providing us with endless entertainment!
Yes they usually want proof of previous residency since first time tenants are very frowned upon. I have never heard of one wanting to actually talk to your employer though, they just want proof of employment and an income number. Also don't cut yourself on all that edge Jake, trying to squeeze in our fucked up prisons into every conversation is only going to make people annoyed not spread awareness.
So they make money by doing nothing just because a paper says who is the owner and they are still really picky about who moves in to the point of wanting a previous landlord recomendation? Man, talk about being a parasite.
When you move out you finally realize you had nothing important to do all along. Then you get a job you hate, and become a cog in a machine that serves people who were born financially stable. You quickly realize they're the "real" people of society, and you stare at them going about their day doing things they want to do, enjoying the sunshine, raising families...and wonder if you'll ever know what it's really like to be a real human.
Southern Pimp You can't possibly think life was meant to be enjoyed by the stone workers. It's been made pretty clear: Get money, be happy. And as long as literally several billion inbred retards, keep operating the way they do, we'll never truly succeed.
I had to do a video presentation for my quarantine class so I just used ms paint and ms video editor with my voice in the back using my phone and OMG it took 2 full days and it was only 3 minutes long. I can't believe you put all your time into this, my lazy ass admires you so much
HA! Having a girlfriend is a luxury. Most people can't afford that because our sadistic god loves to spite people by cursing them with being as unfuckable and unlovable as humanly possible or atleast convincing them that they are that.
@@arcturus9366 Then I guess relationships aren't for you then? What made you feel like sharing this? Also, believe it or not, you can do all those things in a relationship. Its a magnificent concept called, "Healthy Boundaries". YES, some days you can just do fuck all and do nothing for your partner and some days all you want to do is shower them with as much love and affection as humanly possible and sometimes you can just escape from it for a little while when you don't feel like it by spending time with your friends, family, or more importantly yourself.
@@yansongzeng7755 Ehh yeah I was kinda feeling like an edgelord when I typed that. But I still feel the universe in general is a pretty sadistic and uncaring. I like to believe that if there were a god he would be some nihilistic sadist who finds amusement in building people up only to tear them down in a beautiful symphony of chaos we call life. While he suffers in perpetual boredom.
This.... I am in tears. I must admit, I was, in the beginning, a denier. I thought that it would be impossible. But as the seconds counted up and as Casually explained continued with steely determination... I started to believe. I started to believe in something greater than myself. Something greater than any thing before. Hands down, the most beautiful, most life changing video on this platform. I commend Casually explained for his hard work and for the strides he is taking to dismantle the problematic society we live in, to tear apart social constructs that seek to divide and weaken the solidarity of community. I am so glad to see quality content, LIFE CHANGING content such as this video being recommended to me. It reminds me that there is something in this world that we should be striving for. Among the fake news and the cat videos... This is the savior the internet has been waiting for. THIS is what we need, what we deserve and what will be remembered as the greatest man made contribution in all of history. Congratulations, Casually explained . You are an inspiration to all of us. You are an enlightened being. From the bottom of my heart and, though I do not speak for the masses, the hearts of many other people, thank you.
Everyone's experience is different. It hasn't been easy, but It hasn't been that bad. I was kinda forced into homelessness, and eventually my own apartment after the death of my parents. It's scary, but you can't let it get you down. It has been six years on my own, and I'm pretty happy. It doesn't have to be depressing or anxiety inducing. Living on your own is tough, but that's life. You make the best of it, organize your life, and live responsibly and life won't have to be nearly as hard for you. It might even have a few bright spots along the way.
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"... you have nothing to lose, except your self-esteem"
Joke's on you, I can't lose what I never had
Kai Blahnik sure you can! It's called self-esteem debt!
Kai Blahnik don't forget about negative and imaginary numbers... there is always more to lose
That’s both comforting and depressing
Nine Noodles damn
Nothing to lose but your will to live.
Just kidding It's been years since I've seen that.
Nothing spikes a 17 year old’s anxiety like the countless people saying how far down they are about to fall
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Hey dont worry man, everything is going to be fine, who cares what other people think or say. They probably didnt research anything or got their hopes up way too high and then had to face reality harshly and suddenly. You'll be fine and remeber, people will always try to put down others and blame them for their problems
Personally i loved moving out. So much freedom. I couldnt go back anymore.
The video is accurate but all those things don't happen at once ( usually ). You'll figure it out.
-Anxious 17 year old
You called? But seriously I'm fucking terrified. It probably won't be as bad as it looks in the end, but try telling my adrenaline that.
In many Asian cultures, you usually don’t move out till you’re married because being alive is too damn expensive
exactly. why do we have to pay for being alive? Not like we chose to exist smh...
Hmong families even live together. Like, kids living with parents. Then their kids kids live their as well. They pool their money together and live nice lives. At least as far as spending and fiscal responsibility goes.
I live in Minnesota, and there are groups of Hmong families that did this and ended up owning businesses and being super rich. It’s smart.
Can confirm, this is normal in Pakistan.
Same here in Mexico
@@saeedbaig4249 Yep, here from Pakistan as well.
The most horrifying thing about growing up is that you never do. I always thought when I was 18 I would be older or more mature, but honestly I feel the same way that I was when I was 15 and I wasn't prepared for this at all. You don't just magically become an Adult, you get older and more experienced but that's it.
Life is honestly just learning from the amount of times you trip and get back up, we're all kids masquerading as adults in the end
Eduardo Flores you could say we’re all humans with a brain capable of storing information. Oh wait, we are
I definitely feel more grown up at 22 then i did at 17. I have a lot more confidence, although i am still very unsure about the future. When you talk to someone who is x ammount of years younger then you, you realize how much you have grown.
Yep, 28 and still the same as I was at 16.
Well this makes me glad then.
More like Casually Depressed.
that was his backup name
Pratik yeah nah fr.
It’s all true tho
More like Bore: Ragnarok
@@TheExplodingBacon wow that hurt
One first aspect of moving out: You’ll eat the weirdest things at the weirdest times.
i can relate so much its wierd
I made a salad with canned tuna, corn, lettuce, raw garlic, fresh onion, onion with soy sauce olive oil pepper and salt and vinegar with two cups of coffee and now I am drinking matcha tea this at 5-7 I the morning
Got to travel for my studies. Had biscuits with salmon cream for dinner
Weed?
My mom always told me that you dont start probably cooking until you have children hahaah
“Why are young people so anxious and depressed?”
Either your parents were the most uncreative they could possibly be when naming you "John Smith" or you were just uncreative coming up with an alias
@@assassinsquid3352 ok then what's your name
@@davidnally2426 AssassinSquid33 it says it right there.
@@Novozymandiaz understandable have a nice day
John Smith - ok boomer, calm down.
Why is life so expensive I'm not even having a good time
Do you have a college degree that isn’t something stupid? That’s a good start.
@@cgme7076 Ichthyology intensifies
I want a refund
@CGMe That's not very good advice by itself. Ton of people get a degree, land a shitty low paying "entry level" job anyway, and now have debt on top of being poor.
Why do I feel like this is a very common thing to happen in America as I live in Australia
My favorite part of moving out is moving back in cuz you're broke
LifeOfMatt xD
Moving back in oh yes. This life is not what you signed up for
so you move in because i’m broke.. rip
Oh yeah...i did that!...
I’m too stubborn about independence. I’d live under an overpass before moving back in with my parents. When I struggled financially, I simply got a second job and didn’t waste money. Problem solved
_this is the price you pay for growing up_
It's funny because you make it look like a choice
Choosing to remain a child is a thing. Just look at your average leftist activist.
Usually when people explain why something's funny it ruins the joke but you managed to make it funny somehow
There's a 900 foot per second choice
It’s more like a fine for not dying yet
Step 1) fight with parents
Step 2) move out because u sick of living with them and think u can manage better on your own
3) after your first month (or week) realize that we have to go back morty.
4) get denied and stand by your poor choice making living off ready to eat ramen and sometimes a tomato
"but three months later you'll be laying in the dark on an uncovered mattress at 3 am listening to your neighbors trying to save their marriage while wondering how long it would take for anyone to notice if you didn't wake up" damn that one caught me off guard, nearly had coffee fly out of my noise.
How did you make your comment show up right as he was reading that?? Magic
nose
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1 week for the body to start smelling and 2 more for somebody to do something about it. You know. Because they cant handle the smell.
The funny thing is how accurate this actually is- minus the time frame, because neighbors like to "save their marriage" in the hours of 6-9pm (nice).
To all the high schoolers who get anxiety by just watching this, as I did back then: You will be fine. I promise.
I know it feels like you're in no way ready for "adult things" and you feel like you can't move out until you magically become a different, more capable person, otherwise you'd just drown in the adult world. But that's not true. Even if you can't cook at all, have never done your own laundry, and super awkward and afraid - there is nothing magical and mysterious about life away from your parents. Some new chores come up that you'll manage, some old ones are no longer a concern, and you'll get through it being exactly who you are right now. You don't need to adult before moving out, you're inevitably going to adult as you move out. Don't worry so much.
Totally agree. To add to this, in case people have any doubts: How hard is cooking? It's easy - just buy stuff and Google how to cook it. Laundry is easy - learn how to do it online, ask your mom, or just go to a place that does it for you, if you can afford that. Taxes, insurance - this can all be done online. People say all this stuff is hard because they didn't expect it in the first place. If you're worried about "adulting", it's because you have already thought about it. And if you've thought about it enough to worry, you've already thought about it more than is warranted, for its level of difficulty.
Thanks for actually being a positive person :)
Ok boomer
@@mayzikm.3235 ...I'm 21
This really helped thank you i'm so nervous about all of this lmao i didnt know i was supposed to be until i watched this
the absolute worst is meeting people the same age as you and they have incredible well paying jobs, their own beautiful home, a car, a great relationship, countless fun activities with others and you have to repress your tears at the thought of people like that existing or you might accidentally take your toaster with you for a swim the coming evening.
Kokusskatz yo been there i live on my friends floor from hs while the same kids we went to school with drive nice cars and foreman jobs from their dad handing it to them it’s called a silver spoon it doesn’t always taste good those people don’t have skills in this day and age if you’re successful most likely handed to you
That's why I forced myself to go to college, as much as I dislike, and at least get an AS degree
Lol ask what their credit score is. 9/10 times it's not what it seems.
They're probably up to their eyeballs in debt.
Some of us just won the lottery, sorry man. You can keep withering in depression, or you can start doing something about it
Damn dude, I wish I knew about the golden rule of not telling people I'm a terrorist. That would've made life a whole lot easier.
I guess that’s why your not in 5mash #freeWaluigi
Getting rid of your Waluigi profile pic should be your firat step
Bronzewarrior
Just tell em you're retired.
Bronzewarrior Did you know there are signs on the airport that tell you not to bring bombs, weapons, drugs, acidic substances and nuclear devices? Man I didn't know, thankfully I saw them before passing the security and could guve them to my friend who drove me there.
We gotcha scumbag 👊
“Wondering how long it would take for someone to notice if you didn’t wake up.”
Damn that one hit hard
answer : ages
1 week for the body to start smelling and 2 more weeks for somebody to do something about the smell.
til it’s past rent due and you haven’t paid.
literally me
2020: 30 year olds living with parents
2080: 60 year old living with parents
60 year olds living with their parents actually sounds reasonable. You worry about them when they're that old.
Darling
But 60-year-olds have possible mental issues and can be injured easier and making them alone is completely a bad idea, this is why old people have shelters. Or if they're already healthy, they would be retired causing them to struggle due to the fact that they don't have a job.
that’s actually reasonable
Check out your math.
*This is easily one of the best channels on RUclips*
Hello I disagree
Clever name hey I disagree
he said one of the best, take it easy
Manpreet Singh yes
Is Culture or Crash the one commenting though 🤔🤔🤔
Finding someone to have kids with in the next 60 years is a bit ambitious don't you think?
TheRemixDenuo #foreveralone
To be fair, you could always skip the unhappy loveless marriage part and just buy a child straight off of Craigslist. They won't love you, but you'll at least discover an old friend who has always been there for you: alcohol. After all, nothing is more effective at getting rid of the sound of a crying child than getting blackout drunk.
@@IndiBrony dad is that you?.... oh wait he died
I’m 999
IndiBrony bruh😩😂
"living off of microwave noodles and lucky charms" wow look at mr millionaire over here being able to afford cereal
Are you saying you can afford noodles? Man, It must be nice to be rich. ;-)
look at mr millionaire over here able to afford a house
And this is why I still live with my mom :)
Sahil Sharma i cant afford the air i breathe.
Every time i inhale i get further and further into debt man...send help!
xSwiftx4 I can give you a lucrative loan to ease that debt. =)
A tip for young people: Be proactive in learning about adult life! For instance, I started joining my mom when she went grocery shopping, just to form a baseline understanding of what one might need to buy and how much things cost. Also ask your parents a lot of questions! I recently had quite a lengthy conversation with my parents about house loans and how expensive of a house I might be able to afford with X salary etc.
@@cczsus6513 I had to join my mom on her shopping rounds when I was too young to be left home alone, but as a teenager I didn't have to come. And it's not until that age you actually have the awareness to register what's going on. Plus, if you're just getting dragged along (regardless of age) you're probably not really paying attention to things, you're just waiting for your parents to be done. So my advice is basically to take the initiative to pay attention to the shopping, what is being bought, what things cost, scan the shelves to get an idea of what the options are other than what you're personally getting, etc :) My boyfriend - who is a few years older than me - clearly has no idea how to grocery shop so I have to take the lead to buy necessities. That's no good, every adult should have some idea of how to buy food for themselves
@@cczsus6513 Why would being rich make you not know how to grocery shop? :P I think that just has to do with lack of experience - another contributing factor may be if you don't really know how to cook and therefore don't have a good idea of what items you may need. Like I said, my boyfriend is pretty bad at it, and when my brother moved out he kinda struggled with it too. It's one thing to just buy a bunch of premade stuff (which is what my boyfriend does, he'll just buy frozen meals and stuff like that) but if you're going to actually cook you need to have some sense of awareness of what sorts of things you need. And if you've never really participated in grocery shopping (being dragged along by your parents does not count as "participating") it's hard to know what to get. You kinda get used to just taking for granted that everything is already available at home, until the day you live alone and suddenly realize you've got no salt or flour.
@@cczsus6513 Yeah, each person's experience is different. I think a lot of people grow up hardly ever thinking about food - their parents always do the shopping and cook for them, so they're used to food practically just appearing in front of them. If you live like that, it can become quite a shock when you're suddenly faced with the task of taking care of yourself. So I'm really trying to train my boyfriend to shop and cook, he has lived most of his adult life just eating takeout food (which gets really expensive). He has been getting those Hello Fresh boxes delivered for a while, where you get recipes and pre-proportioned ingredients and stuff, which I think is a good way for him to get used to cooking and learning the basics. Eventually he'll be able to get stuff himself :)
Or just go shopping yourself for your family? 😂 it's not that hard
@@Merthalophor You could possibly do that too, yeah. I've done that a couple of times. But you'd probably have to start off going with a parent to learn, and also doing it alone might not be an option if you're too young to drive
3:39 Nothing more real than that calendar
@Steph Lewis haha
@Steph Lewis lmao not anymore
oh hello Gingerpale and yeah fr tho
thiccpale
Honestly though, as a college student i never felt more successful than when i had a full fridge at the apartment.
Gavin B me and my girl freaked and had a mini dance party the first time I half asses filled the fridge after that’s it been big is working mad overtime never seeing each other trying to make ends fucking meet🤘🏼
@Invincible Mage me neither bro...leave them be ig
@@gavinc2827 I had a stroke reading that.
Bruh I'm this guys twin
@@gavinc2827 are you guys still dating?
"If you're a terrorist don't say you are."
Are you trying to tell us something
Man I made this joke at a stand-up thing 15 or so years ago. True as it ever was
tortron it's funny because not only is it obvious but you can't really be one if you don't make some pledge of allegiance to a Political movement lol
Never went to a country outside of the schengen area, are these questions really on the forms?
Of course not....
but what if I'm not a terrorist, I say to them I'm not a terrorist but they don't believe me?
The best advice my career and life management teacher ever gave was "live with your parents for as long as possible"
i feel like its gonna be great but then ur gonna get older and be ashamed that you still live with your parents
@@arandomdudeontheinternet4199 No shame when you've saved enough living with them to buy your own place at 30 and you never have to pay rent to anyone. That's what I did, one of the best decisions I ever made.
@@BradyUK how old are you now?
A great advice if your parents don't sabotage your life through their toxic behavior and fucked up your mental health.
@@bing4131 yea this advice only works for functional families, can confirm 😁👍
People used to call me a loser because I would sit in my moms basement playing World of Warcraft all day. But now they can't say shit because I got a job and now I rent out someone elses moms basement and still play World of Warcraft as much as I can.
vanilla private server i hope. bfa LOL
@@rds6129 Says who? If one finds WoW, or any game for that matter, fun and a good use of their time, why should they stop playing? It's their time, and they seem to have their life in check anyways.
@@olivier6840 Implying there's a better thing to do
@@olivier6840 I'm assuming that since he's playing WoW all day he probably also has a programming or similar job. And why learn a language if he never gets social interaction?
Some people just settle at a plateau in life. Most do, really, otherwise society would be unable to function.
@@psychocrysis2 just wait 16 years when your body grows weaker and you realizer you never really got gud at anything
Abolutely love this channel
Yes Theory woah. Cool when one of my favorite youtube channels watch the same videos as me lol
When one of your favorite channels comments on a video of another one of your favorites 👍🏾
Yoooooo, two of my favorite channels right here!
Wtf you are yes. We're meant to say no
Is that your theory?
Well back to waiting another two months for a new video
Retro Fury Well at least I'd be used to my new apartment by then.
im fine with waiting if the video is good
atleast theyre funny
Quality over quantity! If he made one every week it might be hard to make them as good as these.
Don't worry, he now lives on his own so he has lots of spare time
I've lived on my own for 2 years now, and I still can't cook.
But I've upgraded my PC setup don't you worry
Then you're rich. If i would live on my own i would barely afford any food after rent and utilities were paid.
It took some time to make my mother come to terms that i'm not moving out. Like why would i if i don't change cities? To pay the amount of an R7 cpu each month only on rent just to live in a smaller and more crappy room than the one i already had been using for so long? I'd rather save that expense and live somewhat comfortable. Get better quality shoes, can afford a decent gaming PC, any game that i want without needing to pirate and so on. Moving out is a bit overrated if odds are not in your favor when you're starting out.
@@somnorila9913 sounds like a sad life that you are living
How much was your rent when living on your own? Where I live in England here a 1 bed apartment is around £700-850pm and average salary in my city is £21,000. But as an 18 year old you'd not earn that much in my city... Idk how I'd be able to afford living by myself when I hit 18 next year..
the best way toi handle that is to live closely to your parents because they can just cook for you since they are forced to love their child!
@@arandomdudeontheinternet4199 I'm about 500 km from my parents so your solution doesn't work for me unfortunately
Thought this would be enlightening considering I'm currently 18, it's not. It's depressing. In its entirety.
Doesnt get better lmao
Getting a solid job makes a lot of this better. Figure out/ learn some things that people will pay you to do. Ask for raises, move to better paying jobs, learn more skills (like how to use a chainsaw) and you’ll see your life get better. Also figure out how to create a second income.
@@Will-sy5wo thanks 19 current ly
It's life, sad but in an endearing kind of way
@@Succadeez it's just sad. I've recently been trough this process and I feel mizerable
Glad to know there's so much to look forward to in life.
"You can start looking at places in the most expensive parts of town and then gradually lowering your standards as you come to grips with reality"
Ah yes, small house squashed in the suburbs without garage or yard, with two bedrooms for 1750 euros per month. What a dream!
I love how each sentence is relatable to almost every one living in any part of the world.
😅 I've come to accept that fact that if you rent places under a certain price cap, but do NOT want to live in squalor, you're gonna wanna develop some DIY and gardening skills. Sadly, most owners simply won't fix things, unless law changes force them to or the house actually starts falling apart. They're often simultaneously very fussy about how clean and tidy you keep the place though! There's most certainly a strong double standard present. If you can find out what your basic rights as a leaser are, that's a really good precaution?
"...until you start living off microwave noodles and Lucky Charms..."
So, college then
Not even just college, I know people who graduated and still struggle. If it’s not a business or accounting degree you’re basically fucked
@@ashigaramii__ INDEED
: ((((((((
Everyone says eat noodles when you are poor. But noodles are expensive food. It is much cheaper with potatoes, rice, pasta and low-cost sausages.
Noodles and not eating. Was indeed college for me.
i lived off of buying raw chicken and pasta. yeah, it takes like half an hour to prepare and another half an hour to eat but thinking of good ass food motivates me.
This video was hilarious. I was laughing constantly throughout it until I noticed I was bawling uncontrollably in the fetal position on the floor.
They had us in the first half, not gonna lie.
jajaja
I live off lucky charms anyway, so nothing new there
now it's depressing and not youthful
Try ramen noodles and sliced ham diet
Get a rifle and go hunting. Free proteins.
Agro Dolce
Keep those thoughts to yourself buddy.
Okartel don't be so dramatic buddy
Having a mom that would cook at home constantly and do all the laundry and then you leave it and you're like oh dang. I totally took that for granted.
Laundry maybe, the nearest laundromat is just uncomfortably far for me, as for cooking, my mom hates cooking and I cook pretty much everytime I visit her lol, I know it's not how it usually goes but for me moving out was pretty easy and so liberating, student support is really good in the UK even if you end up with a massive debt, which doesn't really matter because the repayment system is pretty damn fair. Decent student accomodation+ maintenance loan + even a single day part time job and I live a better quality life than most adults working full time, I get about 300 quid a month from my part time job, I also have about 500 quid a month leftover from the maintenance loan, so basically 800 quid that I can put aside for whatever I want.
this is the most relatable
@Antares
I agree. When you go from a place that has a dishwasher, laundry machines, and a place to park and you have to hand wash everything, take all your stuff to another place blocks away to wash it, and not have a consistent parking spot everyday, you'll appreciate how big those little things were.
@@WPFreeinternet Luckily for me those are a non issue, I hand wash things anyway, I have a motorbike so my parking is always wherever i want it (right in front of the block usually) overall yea they were nice but it's honestly not that big a deal, I'm pretty bored as a student as I barely have any work to do so chores become a good way to spend time.
luckily, I lived at my aunts house for three months when I was 13 and my mom told me to do everything myself. So I learned to iron, do laundry, keep relatively clean, help out as much as I can, etc.
Me: I'm finally moving out this year
2020: He Ho Hey, Not today!
Feel you
I second that. I was supposed to move out 4 months ago.
I did it anyway. Basically, find roommates (room listing), ask questions about their habits and how serious they are about limiting exposure, social bubble, etc.
Same lol but will execute this soon
That part about 3 months later sleeping on an uncovered matress at 3am hit like a truck
Hopeful Strength same man...
Lol i didn’t even have a mattress the first 6 years of Being on my own.
Spaghettiio Assassin lol im sure it was quite fun
I honestly wanna know if your back is ok
You are a gentlemen and a scholar
Sounds like something from Avenue Q
“Oh I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. My mistake”
he’s a killer?
Michael scott
Sir hammerlock at your service
Wow, an *_upload!_*
2 months later lol
He stepped up in quality though, he uses PhotoShop now :O
he was moving out
Dank Matter oh it’s you
Rent was due
Dank Matter Better than never.
Wow. Got kicked out with $8 during quarantine. That first part hit hard although a more accurate representation for getting kicked out in 2020 is being flung into a high speed freeway on a motorized scooter.
Parents are both life and death givers smh, no shame at all.
Bruh how tf do you pay for rent
@@elvis4868 I would assume they couch surfed while finding a job?
Step 1: Invent time machine so that you can go back to when it was possible to buy a house and support a family on $14/hr with a job that you got by physically walking into a random store and asking for a handshake with the boss
2: Move out
Pr0l0gue yea but then... No Rick & Morty. And I ask you. Is it worth it?
If I could go back in time I would just become rich by winning the lottery.
Yeah but did you hear about their trip to school?
Our deathly hard lives today are nothing compared to their grueling hike to obtain precious knowledge
I can support my self at $13 an h hahaha and I spend a lot of my money on weed
"Videos every 2 weeks"
Well, we always love Quality over quantity
Justin Y. Too bad we dont get either
Welp, hello again
It's a guideline
I'm really annoyed at the rate your popping up
Can't say the same for your comments lol
"Dont worry we all regret it "
hit me too much that i wanna dying right now
rizki shibgotullah if you say your name out loud it summons a demon. Try it
My autism is exacerbated saying this, but I like your name.
“Well technically it’s been 6 years and 8 months”
Fuck me i am dead
This is painful to anyone that still lives with their parents in their late 20's... It's like telling us that you have to climb Everest just to earn basic respect. At least that's how I see it in the US.
Dopamine live with yours parents forever and be a virgin then
Why this when you can live with your parents for free and without making them sad?
No, climbing Everest would be easier.
Focus on being grateful to having your parents around. Love them and think that this is the best moment to find a job and study something usefull, because in some time you won't have the same luxury of having loving people around you and will be weaker. You don't have to climb Everest, climb your own mountain, within your possibilities. Make your parents proud, make yourself proud. Come on start now, even if it's not comfortable even if it's not perfect. The first thing is an achievable goal, the second, going for it!
What? Lol i think after 25, you should start looking for a way to support yourself. Is there a reason why you consider moving out as Mount Everest?
Missed you casually explained!! xD
No
Missed you casually, Explained!
He was busy moving out..
Matt Spicer did you just xD in 2018?
I see you in like every comment section. Lol
I actually don’t mind that you don’t upload often/at a set pace. it makes each video genuinely refreshing. Keep those rare, quality videos coming💛surprise gems for the win
Haley seriously. I don't really Care for the "upload everyday" protocol a lot of creators resort to. At A minimum I think once a week is OK but when they are very random it can be a nice surprise
I didn't experience any of this moving out at 18. Started working at 15, saved as much as I could and continued to work close to min. Wage jobs while going to school for 5 years. Growing up in an abusive family will motivate your a$$ to move out with fiscal responsibility an no regrets.
damn right. I can't wait to move out
Mood
*ragrets*
@Rus Lemus wow!
Ì wish I could keep living with my parents and instead of paying at least 550€ rent and utilities to live alone, work fewer hours and save like 300€ instead. But for some of us living with our parents isn't pleasant. I want to move out, not sure if I'll really do it.
This hits so close to home except for the part about hearing the neighbors have sex since I just pass out because of the copious amounts of alcohol I consume because it turns out I have no self constraint when no one is watching.
Felix Brakel Holy shit, this hits hard :(
I live alone and often think about how long it would take for people to find my body if I died 😂
Bob the Cat train your cat to use CPR?
cody1212143 I tried, i think it will end up just eating my lips and then face..
That's depressing.
Obviously you haven't thought hard enough because you'd know the smell would give you away within mere days.
apanst I don't live in an apartment so if all my doors and windows are closed it's unlikely anyone would smell anything.
The life changing magic of tidying up your room with nietzschean philosophy
aka. Jordan Peterson
tim ramone I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought this exact same thing.
It's was scary for me to move out at first when I was 29, but it became happier that my parents don't control me all the time. No more curfews, nagging, or asking for permission to do anything.
I moved out because I got a new job with much better pay in SF Bay Area. At first, I was living in someone's bedroom and the home owner was friendly at first. But things turned bad in a month and I started to search for my own apartment. After living in an apartment for a while, I faced a big rent increase and decided to look for a new apartment. At first, I looked at apartments, but then I decided to look at buying a house instead. I had just gotten married so I decided it would be a good time to buy a home anyways. In hindsight, I'm really glad I did buy a home. My home value skyrocketed in the last couple years that I lived in it.
Doing laundry is really simple. You just put all your clothes into the washer and add a cup of detergent. Once it's done, just move the clothes to the dryer. After the dryer is done just take the clothes out and fold it all up. The washers and dryers are all automatic these days anyways, so just set to normal and forget it.
Bills are really self explanatory. Most of them can be setup on autopay, so you can just set it and forget it. My wife, who is an accountant, does the taxes. But, all you have to do is just get Turbotax every year and just answer the questions. For bills that don't support autopay, I just put them into my Google calendar.
Cooking isn't too hard either. Most foods have directions on them so you can just microwave it, boil it, or bake it in the oven. It's not much harder than making ramen in college anyways.
Thank you, I'm screenshotting this
Kind of similar situation to you, but the important thing is you are getting paid a lot compared the average folks - most people can't afford to get ready to cook food all the time (where I am from it's very frowned up on, ugh being in India).
Having a significant disposable income makes everything else extremely easy.
Reference from your previous land lord?
No problem, i'll ask my mom.
Reference from your employer?
No problem, i'll write it myself.
How about your previous employer?
No problem, i''ll ask my dad.
Perfect
What about any references from someone you’ve done any work for? No problem I’ll ask my school
@@sandevastated1 :(
lol love the Jordan Peterson 12 Rules for Life reference.
"The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up Your Room with Nietzschean Philosophy" on a lobster print book. beautiful.
indeed peace be with the fellow lobster
Brandon I'm yer huckleberry, beautiful day for a troll don't you think?
while having dictionary.com open lmaoo
Brandon that's a lot of resentment bucko. Sounds like someone needs to rescue their father from the belly of the whale
CLEAN YOUR ROOM DAMMIT
age 40, made my own batcave ...still waiting for parents to move out.
But... Batman doesn't have parents! Who are you and what did you do to Bruce Wayne..? Joker! Stahp!
like your chicken tendies?
Watching your videos always brings a smile to my face, and makes me feel like i’m not alone in the way that life has been workin for me so far. Thanks for the humor and honesty. Really helping me get through the rough patches
Whenever I'm feeling down I just watch one of your videos. Now I can chuckle softly as I tighten this noose. Thanks Casually Explained!
Way too accurate
Fun fact, this got released right as my mom came screaming in to my room, to tell me to move out. Good weather were having today :)
Couldn't have been uploaded at a better time.
That self-sabotage part of living alone part really hit home :) I’m currently binging RUclips as a mean to avoid real life crisis
How are you doing now?
Ah, I remember getting my first apartment. I lived by myself and actually managed to afford all of my rent, utilities, and other expenses. It was great until the crushing loneliness set in. After my second suicide attempt, however, my family coerced me into moving back in with them and now I don't have to pay rent at all. Happy endings do exist.
Lol, I'm living that moment right now.. no suicide attempts so far!
I'm an introvert so I guess it does have its perks
@Random Stuff Still nothing
@@HiguchiBR Give it time
We all have diff lives
Videos every two weeks
Seems legit
This got uncomfortably real with the "wondering how long it would take for someone to notice if you didn't wake up"
I just don’t wanna grow up man, that moment when you realize you are 18 and you are moving out when you just started getting flashbacks of your family having fun with you and realizing that you will never feel the same way
You moved out at 18?
It scares the fuck out of me fr
This is a comforting to me because it was never fun so like pretty much nothings going to change except I’ll starve
If you ever collab with Sam O' Nella the universe would implode
No, a whole new one will be made
This is true
Why do you watch the same exact stuff as me
Justin Y. I can only get so erect.
Hello again friend
Or... you can skip all this and go into the army...
This comment was brought to you by the army
...Somebody help me...
Unless you get slapped with a deferral. That you didn't bribe for... (cough, Trump, cough)
Today, that’s honestly the best move.
Yeah, but then you'll have to deal with the civilian life you tried escaping someday.
It's the worst trade deal in the history of trade deals
You'll get shit on every second you're there, but hey! No more loans right?
My mom said I don’t have to pay rent while I’m in college...I’ve changed my major 6 times so far.
shawn gately man, I'm in the same situation. Good luck finding your thing tho
Familly dinners must be awkward
shawn gately I'm in the same situation. Good luck man, hope all is well
ForEveryOccasion I don’t have to pay rent, everything is great!! 😂
I had to change my major a few times as I began to realize I was never going to manage to complete the education that I wanted. Then I finally just had to quit school and focus on work, because it's almost impossible to scrape by at the bare minimum when you don't have a degree, and almost impossible to get a degree when you're stuck at the bottom. And even if I got the degree, I'd still be lucky if it got me a job.
3:15 look closely at the beer
I’m waiting for your “Casually Explained: How to Time Travel”
This channel shows me how to live my life to the fullest
The dark truth is living with the parents is actually optimal
Lexicon Prime fucking depressing, but 100% true
My family fortunately realized this long ago, then again we're more rural and treat land like a miniature country.
Lexicon Prime if ur not black then u will be fine. If not... Well....
Just no
Indeed. The plan is to save for a deposit to put down for a house, since houses are generally a solid investment due to their habit to increase in valuation over time (at least in the UK). But if you are renting, it is near impossible to start saving, which makes it hard to fund a deposit for a mortgage.
You dropped this the day I moved out haha!
good luck on your journey
Good luck mate
Take heed!
Good luck, you'll need it
same here and its so accurate
I love how everyone is sharing their stories. We’re all different, but in the same boat. I have love for everyone here for that. There is more wisdom in this comment section than in most schools these days.
95% of people here: life is so unfair, a small minority of humanity got an advantage and thats my justification for not doing anything beside complaining.
yeah....wisdom.
Dude, just be honest, you just wanted to insult schools and act as of you said something deep and profound, the people in RUclips comments are LITERALLY just privileged spoilt people who just want to complain, there's no wisdom here, who do you think watch these kinds of videos for ENTERTAINMENT? People with LOADS of free time and money, not the other way around
@@ramteja1550 i hope things get better for you. life sucks for me right now too.
I just want you to know that I went on a first date a little over a year ago and my date introduced me to your channel. We could not get enough! Fast forward, to now and we're still watching your videos...the only difference is we're engaged. If I could I would have you at our wedding-thank you for all your wittiness and for providing us with endless entertainment!
*youtuber makes a second channel*
*assumes it will be a gaming channel*
Provocateur in the USA we have the largest prison population on earth coupled with a for profit prison industry.. yeah we are basically slaves man
Yes they usually want proof of previous residency since first time tenants are very frowned upon. I have never heard of one wanting to actually talk to your employer though, they just want proof of employment and an income number.
Also don't cut yourself on all that edge Jake, trying to squeeze in our fucked up prisons into every conversation is only going to make people annoyed not spread awareness.
So they make money by doing nothing just because a paper says who is the owner and they are still really picky about who moves in to the point of wanting a previous landlord recomendation? Man, talk about being a parasite.
Jake Mitch in Australia we're literally slaves. Check the history out haha
This actually caused me existential dread
Moral of the story: Living is hard
don't live
Like a wise man said: Everytime you breath you're alive
T O G E T H E R W E C A N S T O P T H I S
@@justsomeweebwithoutanpfp9082
you reminded me of 'a minute passes every 60 seconds in Africa' lmao-
so true
"Moving out(of the basement)"
Blitzkrieg I don’t have a basement 😎
Who else loves this guy's cooking channel?
Me
This guy has a cooking channel?
Vaperius legit never knew that till I saw this comment
yah, its called howtobasic
TyphoonZebra I am sure he is not YSAC or HowToBasic
"Live
Laugh
Leave"
I'm fucking dying
The sad thing is the $1100 for rent at that time seemed wildly speculatively high.
now it's a great deal
I don't have any self esteem to lose in the first place
Rsps and07
Yea self esteem is a myth
i was watching this in the kitchen and my mother laughed a lot and wanted me to show her your channel, so you now have me and my mother as new fans
Casually Explained: "emergency fund"
Me: "Is that food?"
We need an updated video on this topic for the year 2023
Watching this in Victoria when that map came up. Weird.
I dont know how he got a place here without selling his body...
That seemed familiar. Now I realize that I am living there lol
Watching this as a poker player in Victoria and seeing Jaime say he's in Victoria while watching it... (inception noise)
Yes! I live in the area he put the cardbord box!
The rent is Bad here, pro tip live in an RV or trailer in someone’s driveway, made me able to afford school debt free
I just moved out and this made me feel -100% better
Coleman Wolf good luck man
I’m crying reading this
When you move out you finally realize you had nothing important to do all along. Then you get a job you hate, and become a cog in a machine that serves people who were born financially stable. You quickly realize they're the "real" people of society, and you stare at them going about their day doing things they want to do, enjoying the sunshine, raising families...and wonder if you'll ever know what it's really like to be a real human.
Holy shit
Danie F See, this is why he has a funny RUclips channel and you don’t >.>
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I don’t know man , that sounded so accurate it’s actually laughable .
Damn.. This lowkey made me question my existence.
Southern Pimp You can't possibly think life was meant to be enjoyed by the stone workers. It's been made pretty clear: Get money, be happy. And as long as literally several billion inbred retards, keep operating the way they do, we'll never truly succeed.
As someone who plans on moving out as soon as im out of highschool *so like 1 year* this is AMAzing and so insightful
coming back to this sometime in the future to relate
You either gonna find this ridiculous or cry from the deepest of your soul, there's no in between.
Lying on an uncovered mattress at 3 am wondering how long it would take for people to notice you didn’t wake up 😂😂😂 I felt that
Same here
-> Feeling clever living at parent for free while saving up cash
-> House prices increase double rate of salary
I had to do a video presentation for my quarantine class so I just used ms paint and ms video editor with my voice in the back using my phone and OMG it took 2 full days and it was only 3 minutes long. I can't believe you put all your time into this, my lazy ass admires you so much
"Live, laugh, leave" always gets me
As someone who just moved out, alone, in a new part of town - the laying awake at three am part was way too real aye
26 year old me doesn’t like this.. i wanna go back.. Don’t grow up kids for the love of GOD
It is not our choice
It's a trap!
Thanks for telling me
@@pholiux1418 You'll stop growing up if you die
wished i could stop it
“The best roommate is your girlfriend, however it only applies if you have one” -My dad’s friend who owns 12 houses
HA! Having a girlfriend is a luxury. Most people can't afford that because our sadistic god loves to spite people by cursing them with being as unfuckable and unlovable as humanly possible or atleast convincing them that they are that.
@@derpherp1810 u must be a goth or emo
@@arcturus9366 Then I guess relationships aren't for you then? What made you feel like sharing this? Also, believe it or not, you can do all those things in a relationship. Its a magnificent concept called, "Healthy Boundaries". YES, some days you can just do fuck all and do nothing for your partner and some days all you want to do is shower them with as much love and affection as humanly possible and sometimes you can just escape from it for a little while when you don't feel like it by spending time with your friends, family, or more importantly yourself.
@@yansongzeng7755 Ehh yeah I was kinda feeling like an edgelord when I typed that. But I still feel the universe in general is a pretty sadistic and uncaring. I like to believe that if there were a god he would be some nihilistic sadist who finds amusement in building people up only to tear them down in a beautiful symphony of chaos we call life. While he suffers in perpetual boredom.
@@arcturus9366 try a boyfriend instead 😃
I moved out for university and moved back in. Still here after 4 years of shit temp and unskilled retail jobs. Fml.
good luck
I feel it
What did you major in?
Dance Artist Biology and Environmental Science
ChispyReddit I was sitting here for too long trying to figure out what a Dance Artist Biology Environmental Science degree was :/
This.... I am in tears. I must admit, I was, in the beginning, a denier. I thought that it would be impossible. But as the seconds counted up and as Casually explained continued with steely determination... I started to believe. I started to believe in something greater than myself. Something greater than any thing before. Hands down, the most beautiful, most life changing video on this platform. I commend Casually explained for his hard work and for the strides he is taking to dismantle the problematic society we live in, to tear apart social constructs that seek to divide and weaken the solidarity of community. I am so glad to see quality content, LIFE CHANGING content such as this video being recommended to me. It reminds me that there is something in this world that we should be striving for. Among the fake news and the cat videos... This is the savior the internet has been waiting for. THIS is what we need, what we deserve and what will be remembered as the greatest man made contribution in all of history. Congratulations, Casually explained . You are an inspiration to all of us. You are an enlightened being. From the bottom of my heart and, though I do not speak for the masses, the hearts of many other people, thank you.
Theo H. Is this how you extend your essay to fit word limit
This but unironically
I'm just moving out and this video was like a punch to the face. thank you.
Everyone's experience is different. It hasn't been easy, but It hasn't been that bad. I was kinda forced into homelessness, and eventually my own apartment after the death of my parents. It's scary, but you can't let it get you down. It has been six years on my own, and I'm pretty happy. It doesn't have to be depressing or anxiety inducing. Living on your own is tough, but that's life. You make the best of it, organize your life, and live responsibly and life won't have to be nearly as hard for you. It might even have a few bright spots along the way.
How rare! Someone who isn't a cynic on the internet!