Women Are Always The Victim
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If your name is boyfriend, fiancé or husband, black women nowadays will not put in the work to self correct. However if your name is girlfriends, job or school now it’s “oh I’m sorry, it won’t happen again”.
Don’t forget felon or side dude…
Well said!!!
Bro, you ain't know; they've got their priorities all f'd up.
Girlfriend job school and cat
😂😂😂😂
"Weaponized victimhood" is one of the most utilized tactics in the gynocracy.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION!
Women disregard our feelings because they believe the whole point of a relationship is only for THEM.
Solipsism at its finest.
it's men fault to a degree. most men/not all. let them have their way ALL the time in those relationships. NEVER checking them and saying, NO.
@@mysticakhenaton1701 True indeed
@@mysticakhenaton1701I say this all the time! Men act like they’re afraid to check women
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND! STRAIGHT UP FACTS AND REAL TALK ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION!
Exactly! Like Sista Kendra said on another clip " You want brothers to love you, but you don't love them"!
time is fleeting, we not explaining anything to these women anymore we leaving and finding better
EXACTLY RIGHT!
They are a victim everytime! And then when you call them out for doing wrong “You can’t handle me!” “I just speak my mind” you can’t win😐
you CAN win. just DON'T let them take you on their kiddie playground of emotions/mentality. stay on a higher mental level. there as men, we WIN.
FACT 💯
"YOU can't handle me" blame shifting
Stay single kings. Marriage is done.
it was NEVER set-up for men anyway. it was set-up to benefit the women and children. NOT men.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY BROTHER! STAY SINGLE AND DRIZZLE DRIZZLE KINGS!
All this work started by Kevin and all the creators that are doing it now I cannot appreciate them enough... But it's not working, the abysmal ignorance is real and this is not penetrating it... I love living alone in my three bedroom home, sorry ladies two of the bedrooms belong to my yellow lab
Isn't this the same chick that said there were no good men left, and ol' boy had to check her by saying that the good men aren't checking for them?
Yes.
Yep that's her. Trying to have a viral moment twice.
😩 thank you! Yes, that's her...
Oh she's said some DUMB shyt on their podcast. It's almost as if, she's the "character" that's only purpose is to "stir the pot" or ruffle feathers.
@@dallasmckay1455
And that's why she's ALONE 👈🤣
Men want PEACE, in their homes, families, and lives. If I gotta come home to CONFUSION everyday, what do I need you there for, then?🤔
@@mcole442💥 🎤 😳mic drop
A lot of them can't take constructive criticism because of ego and being evil spirited.
Women raised in households with excessively adoring fathers (bestowing the Dad's Little Princess treatment and title on her) or in single mother homes both end up unable to accept male criticism or critique of any kind that isn't fawning or praising them. Neither have received correction from a male authority figure. In her mind, a man's role is to unconditionally worship her, never criticise her for any reason whatsoever. Without self-reflection or therapy, she is a broken person:a child in an adult's body.
Exactly
This why the age old hook still stands, "don't save her. she don't wanna be saved."
It's a true Statement but it's sure as hell Not age old. It's as new a saying as there is
@@rgtunderworldrgt7773 is in Proverbs. Which was dated to as old as the first Pharaoh of Egypt. So it was wisdom from over 5000 years ago.
Also, if we walk away, then it's still our fault. We give so much grace. Its exhausting.
It’s beyond exhausting. Men turn to drugs, porn, violence, go into a depression and delete themselves over this.
I love my three bedroom home and I love living there alone... Sorry ladies two of the bedrooms belong to my yellow lab... I would never negotiate with this
Exactly
I grew up mostly around women, I have two older sisters, and before their relationships began the number one on the agenda for black men was get what you can from them and do not respect them as men.
Where was your father? No disrespect but the context is important here, were y’all raised by a single mom ?
Growing up in a household full of women is dangerous.
@@robbylebothafacts can’t really blame your sisters if your mom is the root problem, they just imitating momma behavior/energy
I bet they are single to this dat
YOU SEE I HAVE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR YEARS NOW!!
I told my wife exactly this back in 2019. Take yourself out of your body for a second and actually consider what it is that I am saying. It turns into a deep depression being disregarded and put off CONSTANTLY. Most men won’t admit that but I’m not too gangster to tell my woman what it is that I’m going through. Imagine not being able to express yourself as a Black Man in Chicago while simultaneously being an emotional punching bag for your woman to unload on about EVERYTHING… work, other females that get her nerves, dealing with children on top of her emotions, family etc. Listen to what Kendra is saying and get out of your own way. It doesn’t make you less of a woman by being quiet so you can actually comprehend what we’re saying, it makes you more of a woman.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION!
Very well put! That ego of theirs! It's outta control!
It makes you human. I don't get why women think they are the only ones who don't need to be held to such a standard. I hold that standard with every human I interact with. My significant other better be the best at following those human decency standards than everyone else. Not the least.
Thank You.
Too Many Men Think “Alpha’ing” Their Way Through Life Is The Answer.
Nothing Wrong With Stoicism Either.
Problems Arise When You Do NOT Address The Issues.
This Is Where I Have Complete Umbrage With The Notion of ALWAYS Seeing Positivity, Because You Then Begin Running From Everything, Instead of Confronting It.
Balance Is Key, And Sometimes Your Answers Lie In The Darkness As Well As They Do The Light.
If You Have To Take The Good With The Bad, Then Embrace The Villainy ACCORDINGLY.
100%, valid point!
I know a woman and one of the first things she told me was, "I just want you to know that I have a mouth on me!" I commended her honesty, but at first I thought of being in a relationship with her until she said that. THATS A NO GO FOR ME?!
Yes, a disaster waiting to happen! My friend was honest with me about being masculine! I've seen it, although she's two hours away from me, I'm questioning our friendship/ relationship! Spoke about it, but I'm not to sure how long we'll last! Fyi, she wants us to read a book together about communication in a relationship however she doesn't like CRIMSON CURE PLATFORM! OK, WE HAVE A PROBLEM! THAT SPELLS ONE SIDEDNESS! What your point of view about this?
@@MD-DLive if she's not looking at it or considering your point of view either leave her where she's at,...
Good call.
@jaha777jaha6 Thank you for point of view!
I was dealing with a young lady that was super masculine and I liked her enough to try to sit her down and tell her what I didn’t like about her attitude. She wouldn’t listen. Then I said “ok if you won’t take it from me then listen to this sista” I put a couple Crimson Cure videos on and you should have seen her! It was like throwing holy water on a demon. Long story short she couldn’t listen long enough to get the point so I just gave up. I wish her good luck in the future.
It doesn’t matter anymore, most black men are checked out, their epiphanies have come much too late at this point. 📘✈️✌🏾
90% of women
It's all about growing up. It's all about having the maturity to be in a relationship and raising children.
Nothing will change until we stop dealing with them fellas. Theyre too far gone. We are the prize and they dont deserve us. Not now anyway....
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION AND THAT'S WHY WE ARE THE DRIZZLE DRIZZLE KINGS!
Then they have the nerve to wonder why the man leaves them. They still blame him for leaving.
I'm serious fellas. We gotta stop being weak physically and mentally. We know that we love them and their beautiful bodies, but in order for this to work, we have to resist the temptation. They want us just as bad as we want them, but they're better at hiding it. Let's try to go 2 weeks without helping them, complimenting them, having relations with them etc. If they are still acting stoopid, we will cut interactions for a month.... well keep increasing the time frame until they get it. Who is with me?
@@greatestever80sbaby Damn! 🦗 🦗
@@greatestever80sbabyI’m already doin it. 🫡
This doesn't sound like victimhood. It's simply lack of accountability. Women believe they never do anything wrong in relationships and that men have all the burden of making relationships succeed or fail. It's laziness
Yes! As well as the " entitled " attitude and thinking! Unfortunately, many brothers play into this thinking to please the sistas, avoid court/ divorce,simpin and they( brothers) believe they're being RIGHTEOUS!
FACT 💯
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION NOT ONE IN 500 YEARS HAS EVER SAID THAT THEY WERE WRONG AND THAT ACCOUNTABILITY IS BLACK WOMENS KRYPTONITE!! THAT'S EXACTLY WHY THEY
ARE FEMINNISTS AND WOMEN FROM SORORITIES ALWAYS WANT TO THROW BRICKS AT THEIR OWN
MEN AND USE FEMALE MINIONS TO DO HIDE BEHIND MISANDRY ( THE UNJUSTIFIABLE HATRED OF MEN ESPECIALLY BLACK MEN THAT THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW WORKING WITH ON BEHALF OF MASSA TO DESTROY HER OWN PEOPLE SMDH!
Narcissist think like that
Women take correction as oppression
Exactly! Many associate it with control- that's not the case
Why do women respect and treat you better when you don’t commit to them?
It’s downhill from the day you actually commit to them. But if you don’t give them a relationship, they actually treat you better.
They have it backwards unfortunately and we’ve figured it out.
Because the Serpent treated Eve like shit first and it stuck
Because they need you tricked and if you’re un-tricked then she has “unfinished business”. She is willing to waste her wasteful time and break down a UN-tricked until he’s tricked then…she’s gone
@@darrieng6608 BOOM
Modern women are educating themselves out of relationships. You can't fight every battle. Men need peace
I dated a woman who talked her way out of a relationship with me.. because anytime i try talking with her about my frustrations with a lot of the biases i be going through with white men at work. She always makes it about her. How she go through stuff to. And how I'm overreacting. And should go to work and ignore it and keep my job. That is why she's alone. Now, and she's still looking for a replacement.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY BROTHER ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION! SO THAT'S EXACTLY WHY US AS MEN ARE GOING OUT TO PASSPORT BROS! M.G.T.O.W AND NOW OUR NEW DRIZZLE ARE KINGS OUR TIME IS HERE AND NOW TO REALIZE THAT WE ARE THE PRIZE AND WE DESERVE THE ABSOLUTE VERY BEST!
You have your friends for that, bro. The brotherhood.
The lady is lying. All it took was her hearing this decades ago, destroying relationships and becoming older and washed up hoping for someone to take her seriously. I looked up the IG. That's a lot of work done.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION ALL WASHED UP USED UP RAN THROUGH BY THE WHOLE CREW NOW YOU WANT TO ASK WHERE ARE THE GOOD MEN TRICK PLEASE G.T.F.O.H!
Whats her name?
This is EXACTLY what I wish my wife knew..
Just because you're a lioness, doesn't mean that you are perfect... We are all in the biggest room, the room for improvement. ❤️🙏🏾
09:23
I once asked my ex-wife "Why are you always yelling?" Her reply was "I'm not yelling at you. I'm speaking loudly in order for you to understand me." 🙄
In 17 minutes, you fixed what my wife's therapist could not do in 7 months. I am now your newest subscriber!
Here's the way we men think: we'll give a woman our all but the moment we confide in you and you deflect or emasculate us for that, the relationship is on a fast track, downward spiral. It's a give and take, no way around that.
It's unfortunate that women can't see that being a perpetual victim comes off as exhausting.
Never wrong and men have to change and fix their problems.
That shit is crazy af
You’re correct with that. The solution is for us women to understand that and work on fixing it.
@@gemneye8039 🙏🏾
I'm presently going through this with a female friend who I was going to dry to be in a relationship with, now I see it's not going to work with her. She has no problem with telling me about what I need to work on but when it comes time for her to be corrected it's a different story. Now I bearly tell her anything anymore.
Get your passport bro, leave & get peace of mind.
Sadly, I've had these same conversations in all of my past relationships. The solution is right there in their faces, to bad it's all just being ignored. That is why I now found peace in solitude,...no arguing, no back & forth, no headaches,......just peace. Relationships are overrated. Quietness has been my best friend for over 7 years now. ( ...I luv quiet 🤩)
Manipulation at its finest. It's sad that women are doing this to good men that want to be in the relationship and make it work.
This is a STRAIGHT UP sermon and those that scoff at it will always wonder why they are dropped and unpicked.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY DRIZZLE DRIZZLE KING!
@@meezybeezy4711 LMAO
This is so exhuating
This is the "emotional labor" that men have to do in relationships & it's very rarely discussed at all.
💯 I really from very bottom of my heart appreciate you CC! These are the thoughts over the years, I wish I could put into these fluid word form they way you do?! Its music to my ears CC. And by the way I did get your book for my sister and nieces. I bring up the talk points in the book to bring light to them as women looming for husband 51 yrs old and 31 yrs old and 33yrs old🙏💯
@@t.713. Yeah because it upends the narrative that women are better communicators and more emotionally intelligent.
Lioness, thank for your Truth, All day Everyday 💐🌹
This is really just BASIC, REMEDIAL "being a human being" skills.
Crimson, your Perspective is Always on Point, may you continue to Bless us w/your Wisdom. Inshallah!!🕋
Thank you crimson for sharing this light. You have a very good point on sharing the light on the other side.
How men feel in the situation, I never thought about that. Thank you again ❤
In your opinion, why do you think women don't regard men's feelings and emotions, cariña?
This is why the drizzle drizzle movement exist of lack of appreciation
What I see is that most men have become the more mature party in relationships, whereas modern women tend to act like children. Only a child can't be corrected, only wants its way, is selfish and refuses to consider other's feelings. This leaves a man with a person who just wants to suck resources from him without any appreciation or respect for what's required to create those resources and make them available to her. A good man follows a code, and it's impossible for him to build with someone who has no real, tangible standards and who allows themselves to do whatever they want, then to justify it through deflection, lying and playing the victim. The only thing these women truly understand is when the man finally leaves them and their life of abject, eternal loneliness begins.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION AND AGREE WITH YOU ABSOLUTELY 10000%
Stages of development. Traumatic experiences can get a person stuck in a stage of development for the rest of their lives.
Single motherhood is trauma. Especially a young mother still out drinking, sleeping around and generally foul in the house. Especially with weed. The child is bound to experience trauma.
Always have been God made it that way
Don’t care anything about a man’s feelings, but want to claim high emotional intelligence? Make that make sense.
Preach Sister CC. A woman doesn't like a soft guy era, a wife is suppose to be HIS soft place era! Reminds me of a Steve Wonder lyric... She doesn't use her love to make him weak. She uses her love to keep him strong.
This is the only thing I've ever heard her say that I agree with. She is typically emotional amd argumentative.
Well stated, excellent advice and analysis.
Sometimes these women be bringing that mindset towards a another man who they try to cook up with. If that second man find a issue and the issue keep going. That means they've been doing that in the past relationship. When you called it out they leave.
Listening to you speak helps me understand it's not just father's these kids are missing, but wisdom from a good woman.
I’ll put money on it that she instigated most of the conflicts of her relationships
Sista’s are not going to take responsibility for their feelings and emotions.”A male bird will not land in a nest full of thorns.”😮 Women always wonder why men don’t express themselves. Why? Whatever is said, men know it will be used against him at some point.
EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION! FINALLY GOT SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!
Treat these relationship like business, because it is💲💲💲💲
Black women refuse to fix their character
So they function from evil. To many games staying single
Perpetual victims being “called out” for unethical behaviors will cause righteous indignation towards those who have called them out. Being “called out” for unethical behaviors is equivalent to KRYPTONITE.
This was well made 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
EXACTLY RIGHT
But you know, this behavior in Black women (particularly the younger ones) can be found in other arenas. This harms them in the long run. I see this ALL. THE. TIME. No acceptance of correction.
This is what our mamas and grandmas used to teach us. It's male/female relationships 101.
This topic should be looked into more! 💯
Thank you for the message big sis 🙏🏽 i’m not perfect i made some mistakes in relationships but i’m relearning and learning all over again and healing as well. I appreciate these videos very much♥️♥️🫂
We cant even form relationships that lead to marriage and community and nation building this is sad and pathetic.
This one hit home.
Absolutely schooled. A brilliant video, I experienced this exact type of interaction.
Was told that I was being controlling because I brought something up that bother me with regards to her behaviour.
It was like dealing with a child.
Excellent and timely work. I had the brutal task of explaining the reasoning behind much of this in the aftermath of my daughter's grad school graduation coming in the footsteps of getting an advanced degree in a technical field. I am praying that she learns positive lessons from this experience and improves herself rather than embracing bitterness. She has the raw materials of a supernova, if she makes the right choices.
Strong and empowered but perpetual victims 😂
This is scary true!!!👀💯🤷🏾♂️
This video was therapeutic. Thank you, Kendra. ❤
Want you to chase em the whole relationship
Quite right. We'll said.
Kendra, you cooked this. Emotional Safe Space. Thanks for the verbiage. It'll help me communicate better. I wish I could triple like this!
I'm not sure you will read this. I appreciate you, your insight and explanation of the way women act and think. I would like to book a one on one phone or face time session if that is something you offer. Please let me know what your rate or cost is. Thank you.
Yep!
I had to learn this ☝🏽
Monk mode gentlemen
Much needed advice, Mrs Kendra. 🌷
This was a really really GREAT video
Treat men like how you’d treat your son and treat your women like how you’d treat your daughter. Basically make them feel safe, spoil them when you can, help them be safe and disciplined and do everything else to encourage their growth and be productive and proud in society.
But y’all wanna be enemies and opponents in a fight you’ve inherited from social media
Big fax sis!❤❤❤❤
Well said sista!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The men are tired of the abuse
Truth!
100% Correct
GEMS!!
It's what there mother's done
Helpmeets vs nonhelpmeets.....
You sound a bit under the weather Mrs Kendra. Hope all is well with you 🙏🏾 ✨️
The child-like, first world victim complex negates much "toxic" diamond-making pressure and developmental growth. No other living creature has had life this comfortable.
"Do not ask for an easy life but pray for the strength to endure a difficult life."
-Bruce Lee
ELOQUENT TALKING POINTS MA'AM .... SALUTE 🫡
Done re ensuring now!!
Never received support
You cannot tell a narc to have empathy that's the whole reason they are narcissistic that's what narcissistic means so I do not expect empathy from people who show those traits
women are brick collectors. what that mean is anything that you tell them bout your self regarding your feelings, something bot your family on yo side and or anything or are emotional about that might be painful or not. be assured that one day you gone through that brick back in your face, what ever you did, said, saw or your family did. that is the brick she collects.
07:29 is perfect for a video short!
"Men do need to be emotionally safe in their marriages, point blank, period..."
Women always tring to tone check and then come out their mouth sideways and the man flip then he's the villain 🤔
❤❤❤❤❤😊
Ladies, pay attention to that side eye 👀 your man gives you. He may not say a word cause that's how men are. When he finally say something it because you are intentionally trying to ignore his tude towards you. Not a game, it's just how most men are wired.
9:55 Aunty, CC… you are asking the impossible from black women
Fellas retain your semen & attention from women in earnest 🤴🏾
The perils of self-deception and the attempt to redefine truth when in error.
By Verbalizer EX (5-13-24)
The hazards of attempting to redefine everything when one is mistaken are manifold and extensive. When faced with an error, the initial impulse may be to move the goalposts, distort the facts, or simply alter the rules to align with one's own narrative. However, this slippery slope can result in a decline into deceit, undermining trust and credibility. By refusing to admit to our errors and instead trying to redefine the truth, we not only jeopardize our relationships but also compromise our integrity and self-awareness. Additionally, this behavior can impede personal development and learning, as we prioritize defending our flawed perspectives over addressing and rectifying them. Ultimately, the endeavor to redefine everything in the face of our mistakes may cultivate a culture of dishonesty, where the truth is twisted and accountability is forsaken.
It is detrimental when individuals deceive you, but even more harmful when you deceive yourself.
Amen, everything is not a BLM or Feminist or I'm a Woman or LMNOP Moment or bcuz I Say So , Boss B moment
Guys, more flights out the country!
You have a choice for a better life, so why suffer??
2:42 the need to be right
I watch this podcast occasionally. Ole girl (Azar) is hit or miss. She will sometimes speak some real truth, but when pressed, she will exhibit hyena hind foot-dust kicking behavior.
Think a less Southern, less likable, more verbally aggressive version of the worse aspects of a Courtney Michelle.
(Note - this is not a shot at Courtney).
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So this explains the sexual assaults that they been doing to these school kids. Women just have no accountability to anything.