Expecting Amy | Amy Schumer Destroys Aspergers Stigma | HBO Max
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- Опубликовано: 7 июл 2020
- Amy Schumer has always been known for her humor but this time around, she brings us deep in to her personal life and shares her experiences with her husband who has been diagnosed with Aspergers. #ExpectingAmy
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Him saying "You're perfect" to her was a million times more romantic and heartfelt than any cheesy line from a rom-com movie.
Too bad she's only using him to improve her own image and advance her career and doesn't actually love him.
CJ haas wow, we are now at a stage where RUclips comments can decide if you love someone or not
That’s when I started crying
Yea except she’s nasty
Jimmy B why do u think she is nasty? Just because she says the truth in a way you do not like?
This is so romantic. The part where he says, “you were the first person who ever paid close enough attention to my behavior to put things together” is like a definition of love. Seeing your person so clearly that you notice something everyone else missed. ❤️
You don't know how much I needed to see this clip and read your comment today!! When your constantly accused of criticising or imagining issues, it becomes incredibly lonely. When I'm actually just loving my husband with all my heart, trying to understand him, help him and us!
@@fakingnormal2584 🤗❤️
Part of the reason we marry is to be a witness to each other’s life. We mirror back acceptance and love. That is what humans crave the most, I think. When someone seeks to understand us and accepts us with our flaws, isn’t that the safest feeling ever?
I'm 34 years old, my mother and I were watching this together and near the end of it - I started to say: I see a bit of myself in him - my mom interrupted me and said "I think you are exactly like him." I then started researching autism traits in women and it was like reading a biography. Both my mom and I never understood really what was so 'different' about me and I think we may have finally figured out the final piece of my puzzle. I will be having an assessment soon. This was a wonderful docuseries for so many reasons - we both loved it but it's especially incredible because I think it may have changed my life. Deep thank you to Chris and Amy for sharing their stories.
So, are you one of us?
@@NeelLLumi-AnCatDubh Oh! I had forgotten I had written this comment and now see people 'liked' it too, that's so nice :) Yes, I am one of you and very proud to be so! I received my diagnosis in December and it has truly been completely life changing. I now understand my life and myself, everything finally makes sense - thank you for asking :)
@@katieandree It's amazing what an autism diagnoses can do for a person. I got my diagnose at 39. It has given me so much calmness in my life that I no longer have to wonder why I don't fit in and relax in the knowledge that it's my brain that doesn't work with today's sociatal standards. I'm also very vocal about telling people about my autism and not carring if they feel uncomfortable. That is their problem, not mine. I've far too many years feeling not quite right.
@@NeelLLumi-AnCatDubh so, did you read?
Girl...when I finally found out my diagnosis at 33 and started reading about high functioning aspergers in women. I cried like a baby .I felt seen and understood. I felt normal in a way I never had before. I no longer felt alone in my world
“You have other clothes why don’t you wear those” 😂 I love this and I love them
My mom got a haircut and asked how she looked.. I responded "Oh.. It will grow back eventually".
I have Asperger's and as soon as I retired I got rid of every suit and tie I owned. It's sweats forever more 😄
I'm physically disabled, and I'm crying in a library at the very concept of this kind of understanding, supporting love.
Yeah bro because this countrty is so horrible we've been burning disabled people at the steak. Bit hyperbolic my friend. My sister has Downsyndrome and went to college and has a job as a waitress and nobody even bats an eye.
I hope someday u also will find this kind of love because u deserve it
Same man I am chronically ill and disabled and was so deeply moved by this kind of compassion and pure love and support
You're at a public library with COVID around?
@@JustSomeCanadianGuy Ha, massive library with forcible social distancing, mandatory masks, temperature checks at the door, and disease profiling questionnaires for each guest every day. I'm a risk management guy, not to mention the berth I give everyone. ;)
It never gets old seeing two people love each other
They will be divorced in 5 years.
Ryan luckily who hurt you?
@@bodbn are you ok?
This is gross. She literally had to find a man to marry her that wasn't capable of saying no.
He has Asperger's, and is an award-winning chef and restaurateur.
@@PlumpnDreamyWalrus the severity of his aspergers is very low compared to others. He is practically a fully functioning “normal” adult.
@@JohnDoe-my8kj ~ wow. Abelist much, "John Doe"? Freakin' troll. Clearly, you have NO idea what Autism really is nor how it manifests. Functioning labels are crap science wrapped in Neurotypical projection. ANY Autistic person is capable of doing just about anything... even so-called "low functioning" people. Or they would be if Neurotypical "experts" actually listened to Autistic people in order to learn what they really need in order to do so instead of pretending like they comprehend what we need, all the while stripping of us of our dignity and sovereignty. And for your information, dude, we ARE *normal* adults. Autism may make us different. It does not make us abnormal. Or lesser than. Got it? Good.
@TA A ~ False equivalency. Supporting women's reproductive rights does not equate with eugenics against Autistic people. Go take your "pro-life" agenda somewhere else. Or better yet, go volunteer to mentor an Autistic kid and support their... you know... actual LIFE.
@@PlumpnDreamyWalrus Yes, I know many other persons on the spectrum who have accomplished much.
AdamAuron Lodestone you killing it today, adamauron 👏
His face when they were dancing says everything about their relationship.
To realize how lucky you are **while you are lucky** is the best thing.
So pure.
Before Amy got married, it seemed like she was more famous for being a crass comedian, but this really shows a different side of her. I honestly think Chris helped her become a funnier and inspiring comedian.
The doc shows this whole other side of her, it's incredibly sweet.
What's her material lately?
Any reinvented herself after her old schtick caused everyone to moan because she was truly a horrifically bad comedian and person who stole jokes from other comedians. Now she is a mother and married to a special needs guy and all the gullible saps like you are going awwww omg I love Amy schumer now. Pathetic.
Is everybody forgetting that she raped someone that was unconscious, wtf is wrong with people.
Oh typical. Chalk up a woman’s success to a man. This is utterly offensive.
My partner is also on the Autism Spectrum. When I saw Amy speak about her husband & some of his behaviors, I was like, 'AH-HA! My partner does that, too.' Communication is our biggest challenge. It's something we consciously work on in order to lower both of our frustration levels.
For my partner, his emotions are frequently delayed. For example, his father passed away & he didn't have an emotional reaction to his dad's death for about 2 months. From the outside, it looks like he's uncaring & aloof. In reality, it takes his brain longer process anything related to emotions. Once I figured that out, it helped me understand him more.
"partner"? Are you two cowboys or something?
It doenst take longer, its just hat we feel it more intense so we cant take all inn all the time allways. It will break us down. So we shut out sometimes or often depending on what it is or what else is going on. It looks delayed. Its the prosess thats just so intense. For exemple I lost 3 of my closest ones last year in less then 10 months. Some hit me right away, deeply into tears and then I had to shut it out to keep going. The ones more complicated will be more difficult if its connected to other trauma for exemple interwined realtions tied to that person who died because then all the other stuff comes with it. I cant take all of them inn every minute then I wouldt function. I need to break it down a bit. And especialy when its in the middle of so much else happening. Lots of responsibility. And the fact the world is more intense for us in general, like going to the store because we our nervous system is so sensitiv. The biggest misjudgment NTs do is to think of being NDs as an illness and not empatic. I care even when a bud get crused, I actully dont know any nts who care as deeply about everything, nature and souroundings like I do. But its intense. And we dont have energy for nonsenses. Happiness to. Its so deeply and sponatouns for me. From a litt heart felt stone to someones actions. Sometimes we need time with happiness actions from someone to, because its so intense, and we often have felt manipulation and lies, and since we dont lie, we take it hard, we want to be sure and then we respond often big or very direct. I am glad you take time to try to understand you partner. But dont be like a lot of nts and think of nts as the right way and aspies the wrong. Our honest direct approch seems more empatic to us. We dont get why people hurt eachother with white lies for eksemple. Be open to learn from us aswell.
@@redraiderrider3289 You got a problem with cowboys partner?
For me, it's not that it's necessarily longer to process, but rather that I wonder if what I feel is appropriate to the situation. Rarely am I on the same page as other people, and God forbid I unknowingly upset someone and they expect me to pick up on it. If you're upset with me, just tell me. I don't know why I'M the rude one when beating around the bush is actually quite rude in that context.
@@redraiderrider3289 That's a Pardner, not a partner.
Amy Schumer and her husband are 2 of the luckiest people ever to have found one another. What a wonderful relationship they have.
@@maddymiller1002 How exactly is that sarcasm, idiot?
@@maddymiller1002 Ok I'm sorry for that.And what's with the formal talk. You could talk to us like anyone else you know
@@maddymiller1002 and second she wasn't being cruel all she said was that they are lucky and have and that they have the best lives together.
I feel sorry for her husband. Schumer is a massive narcissist and joke thief.
Beautiful couple!😍😍
My husband has Aspergers, and he is smarter than most. He is socially awkward but he knows how to treat people. Best person I know.
me too
The thing I love about this clip is that it's about understanding Asperger's and not about pitying people who have it
With all due respect, I have never heard of pitying the Neural diverse but I'm most certainly aware of the empathy I have for people who are neural typical and married to someone who isn't, their pain and frustration certainly deserve a. lot of empathy.
From a mom who is just newly dealing with an autism diagnosis for my three-year-old, this and many other videos are so heartwarming. Thank u Amy for being u.
where did he get it from? father? or are you the autistic parent? i am excited for you. i am also autistic, so are my kids and i could not bear to be neurotypical. the world would be so boring to me.
@@lizvlx You don't necessarily "get it from" either parent. Sure, it can run in families, but it's got to start somewhere after all. Neither I nor my wife would fall on the spectrum, but our 9 y.o. son was just recently diagnosed Level 1 for repetitive behavior and Level 2 for social communication, with no intellectual impairment (freaking brilliant). My wife and I definitely have our quirks and our tendencies, but they fall within what would be considered neurotypical (which is of course just another spectrum).
I wanted to reach out as my superhero three year old son has also been diagnosed with ASD. Its such a relief to know we're no longer alone and we're all so excited excited for the future!! ❤️
I hope my son with Asperger’s finds someone who loves him 🙏
I hope my son does too. This is hopeful. (hugs)
He did, you...his family. If yall can love him then anyone can 😘
Everything is fine with ur son . He is far more better than any other horrible people . So no problem with him . He has got this ability . Not disability . Never mam . Ur son will do something beautiful and u have no idea . I do suffer from mental illnes which is horrific related to body and mind . Some thing dangerous incidents i have come across its painful yes . But nobody can stop anybody from living their life . I still suffer . But i i also work on that i am still going on . God bless u .
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I hope anyone with Aspergers finds someone who loves them.
Nuerodiverse brains are wonderful.
It’s not a disorder, it’s just a different way of processing the world.
I’m autistic and we need to do a better job at accepting nuerodiverse folx.
💗💜💗
I agree. 🥰
Yesss exactly
The truth is, we're all a little nuerodiverse, we just don't realize it. Very few people fall into that social sweet spot where they breeze through life effortlessly and without struggle. 💗
@@sharonm.2453 noooooo
Everyone isn’t a little autistic.
Please don’t say that, it’s so dismissive of ASD people and our struggles. 😣
If you think that, you’re probably autistic.
@@sharonm.2453
autisticnotweird.com/stop-saying/ 💔
I have Asperger's and everything in this video is so god damn accurate
Same, but I don't like this for some reason. I don't like that kind of attention cause I feel like it's making people feel less like we're human and more like something to pity
I know what you mean. But still, better accurate information than that other nonsense out there.
I'm not on the spectrum--your viewpoint is 100% valid because...you know how it feels. I want you to know that as someone *not* on the spectrum, this makes me love him and recognize he is a *really, really, really* loving and viable partner. I think this gets misrepresented about Asperger's so, from the other end, people are seeing "Oh maybe I'm overlooking a fantastic partner because I don't immediately get them, or they are quirky." This is showing a full picture of the love you reap when you invest in understanding another--from both parties.
@@thedogshouterer @Shannon J I struggle understanding how aspergers ever end up in relationships. When someone I don't know talks to me, my first reaction is confusion ("Why do they talk to me?") followed by either fear ("I will surely say something wrong") or annoyance ("Why did you have to bring me into this situation?"). I'm always scared of others thinking bad about me or making fun of me because I can't tell or see the clues, so I assume the worst. I usually avoid social contacts at all costs.
@@pallandoromestamo8861 Ah, I see why that would feel impossible in those moments. I totally think those moments--and it sounds like they are in the meeting/beginning stage--are overcomeable. Especially because you are so aware of them. I dated a man with Asperger's and he was gentle and kind and sticks out as one of the kindest men I met in my 7 years online/app dating. My current partner has said a few times he feels like he could be and, as Chris said in this trailer, he has told me I am the first woman who has taken the time to understand him. I have a background working with ASD, so that helps, but I also just love and want to understand humans. I think if you worked with someone, it could help you work through those early-stage thoughts (I see a therapist weekly--I don't want you to feel l'm telling you there is "something wrong with you that needs fixed." I need help too). If you don't want love or are not interested, that's good too. But if you want it, I absolutely think you can have it. And you deserve it. A lot of women are deeply searching for loving men.
Aw this is actually really sweet
Her comedy doesn’t always land for me but this video warms my heart. As somebody who is autistic myself, I could only dream of finding somebody that loved me the way she loves him. But unfortunately not a lot of people are so understanding of my condition.
I don’t cry often but when he said “you’re perfect” it just came up... 🥺❤️❤️❤️ awww man such a great love
Wow, she actually handled a topic with maturity and respect. This is impressive.
By using her husband's disability for relevance? Eek
Psychonautical89 she’s not using his disability for Relevance, she’s trying to spread awareness to Normalize the behavior of people on the spectrum. It’s to help people not boost her own career.
@@Psychonautical89 he's not really "disabled" its more so that he doesn't fit into the mold that society demands. She is bringing awareness in a fun and sweet way. Plus she has his permission. So I don't see what the problem is.
@@lipsohlips97 the problem is that Amy is a hack who will do anything to keep herself relevant. Please educate yourself before spreading your stupidity on the interwebs.
@@bodbn Seems more like you are the hateful spite who is being weird bro. Chill. Hollywood is fickle anyway. If they hated her they would have kicked her out a long time ago. If you don't like her. Move on with your life. There are better things to do than hate on people who are just living on this planet.
I have adhd, anxiety, and severe depression. My husband has bipolar disorder and ptsd. I love that Amy and her husband talk about how to communicate through these "struggles" as opposed to trying to change each other. You have to meet your partner where each of you are every day.
Glad you found each other♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I have 2 sons that are high on the autism spectrum. Very challenging. But I wouldn't trade them for the world.
❤❤you're a good dad.
@@BG-jj8zd Thank you 😊
respect! my brother is autistic and i admit i do lose my patience from time to time but i am learning how to communicate better with him as we get older.
@@sahayeda5220 I'm curious....
.how was life for you growing up with an autistic sibling?
I have a 10 year old whose neurotypical but ridden with anxiety and my 8 year old son has autism. Ive always heard the person who is affected the most in a family with ASD is the sibling. I know my oldest has anxiety because of the way his brother can be. How can I make it easier on my oldest?
No disrespect, but who did it come from? You or their dad?
My son is 10 and was diagnosed formally at 5. This gives me such hope for him. Marriage, children, expressing himself verbally...I want the world for him.
Amy stealing jokes: People don't like that.
Amy stealing this man's heart: People like that.
Amy admitting to sexual assault: People take no notice.
@@kimwiles3220 who did she assault?
@@jane.elliot5782 she was assaulted. She didn’t assault anyone
That is so Frikking old now
Get over it already WTF
@@thedeliabroadcast by who?
Aw this made me happy! My husband has Aspergers and I’ll tell you this, he means the world to me and like Amy I love him dearly. Good on her for making the subject more positive, every time I read or watch something to do with Aspergers, I look at my husband with content and think how lucky I am 😊.
Big hug to all the folks who complimented Amy's compassion *without* having to mention that they dislike her.
This 💕
whtas to dislike? shes great
I love you Amy! My son has autism and I'm happy you are de"stigma"tizing this. Gives me even more hope and excitement for his future.
Me 40 seconds in: HE'S PRECIOUS!
Me at the end: THEY'RE PERFECT!
They PERFECT 🥰💞
I recently began watching their cooking series. I find they are a sweet couple that love one another. Amy is doing her husband justice. Love them both.
I personally am on the autism spectrum as well and I think it's great people are making it not sound so bad.
I love their love. Boy do we need examples like this right now. So thanks Chris and Amy for sharing. Good on ya. 💖
Not a big fan of Ms. Schumer, but I do respect her for this! Not to many Hollywood women would stick it out for a loved one!
You have no idea how many “Hollywood women” would or would not stay with a disabled partner. Just because a women works in the entertainment industry doesn’t mean they’re not compassionate and it doesn’t mean they can’t love unconditionally. Don’t be ignorant. Don’t generalize a whole group of people because you’re ignorant about a topic. Instead open up your mind and educate yourself.
@@Asdfgqedfglo Why are mad for a comment that isn't negative? I literally said not to many Hollywood women, which would mean that there are many that do! We all see what and how Hollywood is and acts.
LOOK AT MY NAME uhhhhhh noooo.. “not too many” means “only a few.” And that is completely not true. Saying that only a few women in the entire entertainment business would stick by a loved ones side through a hard time is just a ridiculous thing to say. It’s ignorant. And no one is mad lol When someone calls you out on being ignorant it doesn’t mean they’re mad. Simply means their educating you. It doesn’t require any feelings at all.
@@Asdfgqedfglo you are mad. That is factual
Your comments are your opinions, not facts. Just as my comments are my opinions and not facts! I don't agree with you, you don't agree with me, so... It is what it is! Just remember, you commented on my comment. No one ask for your opinion.
LOOK AT MY NAME lmao how are you going to tell me how I feel and then say that it’s fact?? Are you some kind of psychic and you have magic powers which makes you able to control peoples feelings and make them feel certain way?(sarcasm). Sorry to burst your bubble but I don’t care about you therefor I have no feelings about you or toward you. Lol weirdo. Thanks for the laugh tho. I work in the entertainment business. 10 years now. And I can confirm there are thousands of people in the entertainment industry that will without a doubt stick by their loved ones when those loved ones are dealing with health/mental issues. That’s a fact.
How they were dancing with each other is everything.
What's strange to me is that you have someone who is considered "special needs" and that person is honest, considerate and forthcoming and what some assume "socially awkward". Then you have someone who is "normal" who lies, cheats, steals and is malicious but that person is the pick of the litter 🤔
All us neurodivergents are very confused about the neurotypicals, trust me 😂 So many times a normie does something cruel and you’re like “And I’M the one who’s the outlier 🤨”
@@CaitFalconer What is neurotypical anyway?
@@CaitFalconer Lol! that's a good point. My aunt asked her very young nieces and nephews (all siblings) if they missed her. The oldest and youngest said "yes" and middle neurodivergent said "no". None of them missed her but its those social niceties that offend people...but you're right he's the most honest and I love that about him.
Normal is a thing that dosnt exist cause we have different brains,attitudes and personalitys.The ways of a "Normal" person can easily be worst than a person that are a little different.People that are different and that stands out from the sheeps are the onces that almost always are geniuses and to box people in different categories and diagnose them with adhd,aspergers or whatever is just stupid cause people are people.Just because a person have a better life then others dosnt mean the person are smarter and better.Some folks are just brutally evil and egotistical and do everything in their power to get success.Does are the real bad once.Does are also the people that judges others and came up with all this different diagnoses just to make money on drugs and medecine.Sadly the "normal" onces are often the crazy once in hindsight cause they believe everything the society tells them instead of being free thinkers.Use no way as way and your own limitations as your limitations.
Yeah women do be like that though
As someone with the exact condition that her husband has, I gotta say that I'm honestly surprised that someone who I rather dislike would spread awareness about something so close to home. Good on her
What difference does it make to the topic whether you like her or not?
@@annmariemcmanus8902 Maybe the reason he doesn't like her is because of how she normally would handle these topics.
@@MrLethalShots I think her comedy persona is different from her real life persona
Honestly gained a lot more respect for her after this.
One of the only ads I’ve ever sat through.
Meeee tooo. The only add I have ever seached to see afterward
I searched up the ad after watching it! It really gave me a different light of her that I appreciate.
Omg same
I sat through it and sure enough Amy Schumer is still a hacky joke thief.
Ryan But you’ve gotta admit, this is sweet. As an autistic man, myself, this makes me feel good about myself... and that’s a feeling I don’t get on a day to day basis.
Everything she said is so true! My son has this, and from the time he regained the ability to talk, I always knew if I wanted the truth to ask him. In regards to anything, including incriminating himself, & he's absolutely brilliant. There's so many amazing qualities, but people only focus on the negatives. TY Amy for bringing awareness to Asperger's! 💙🙏🏻💜
My oldest son is 21 years old and has asperger's, you cannot find a more sencere and loving person. I hope my son finds someone like her, someone who will take a moment to understand who he is.
Really remarkable. It's amazing how Chris accepted his diagnosis and the recommendations and looks forward to putting them into practice to build a happier life. I imagine that many men and women might refuse to take a closer look at themselves--and that this refusal could end a marriage. I admire Chris' confidence and honesty. Solid guy--so much trust--key to a winning relationship.
Eh, a lot of us autistics are like him, he’s not that special. He’s just a normal high functioning autistic.
There is absolutely nothing remarkable about him. Idiots like you look at him and need to say something nice.
@@bodbn As a counselor, I work with many young adults who refuse to be diagnosed and refuse any recommendations. They continue to deny their autism and mask and camouflage to be accepted as NTs, which results in withdrawal, meltdowns, depression, even suicidal ideation. I admire Chris' willingness to share his diagnosis with others and to help remove the stigma of a spectrum diagnosis.
@@merihanlon1493 Meri, thank YOU for being who you are. Thank YOU for helping people like me. I frequently (but unintentionally) make life hell for my wife because because of my Aspergers. As if life wasn't already difficult enough for her just living with me, she feels further isolated/lonely because many people don't offer her validation in her struggles. (Even those we've disclosed my condition to.) I'm in my 40's and we married just a handful of years ago. We had a long distance courtship during which she suspected I had ASD but (out of fear I'd resent her) she resisted making such a pronouncement hoping that one of the many counselors she was encouraging me to see would do so. Now, several years later, things are a little easier because of the many protocols I've adapted and the constant counseling/support we receive from God, professionals, and a few friends.
Honestly, though, we still have a very difficult marriage on any given day but that's because we're also exact opposites as far as the Myers-Briggs Temperament Types go. We knew about this before marriage (and even agreed that our respective MB profiles describe us well) and now, a few years into it, the (frustrating) differences there still come into play VERY frequently. I'll go as far as to say I believe my personality type is more a fundamental part of me than my Aspergers and that the majority of our difficulties stem from our two differing types. To be sure, my Aspergers doesn't help one darn bit, but my MB profile basically reads like a list of the exact characteristics that frustrate her temperament type the most.
One of my few regrets is that I was diagnosed so late in life so now it's so hard to adjust. But, you and others in your field are helping to prevent more cases like me.
@@duckledoodledooser7551 i secondo that. that is the bare minimum for most autistic ppl. there is nothing to accept about a diagnosis, that in itself is a weird thought and illogical. autism is a name for our kind of brains and life and senses that are different from neurotypicals. we know nothing else. difference is, once u know u r autistic, u know that u r not 1 weird person but that there actually is others and u r not alone.
My son has Aspergers, he taught me the True meaning of Love ....he is my Hero , my Best Friend , my Old Soldier and every night before I sleep I Thank God above for blessing me with my beautiful son ....🇨🇦
Bless ya
My partner has Asperger's. She's a great partner and mother, college prof, etc. Yet ignorant people still insist folks like her can't love or feel empathy, that they are "less than" rather than just "different." Given the response she had after coming out with her diagnosis, I'm not surprised many people keep it private.
As a mother of a son whos on the spectrum this gives me such hope for love for him. I love this video so much with tears flowing as I right this, Thank you Amy for loving and caring so much to understand, so beautiful!!🥺❤
Wow! That is so awesome that they found each other and Amy has (now) an understanding of her husband's behavior! Wishing them both a lifetime of happiness and to continue to be there for one another😊
As someone with Asperger's, I find it very inspiring that Amy is bringing awareness to this.
one shoe on one shoe off I just laughed so hard that I cried. very relatable. Thank you.
I have severe ADHD. It’s so nice to see someone supporting & learning about their neruodiverse partner rather than trying to change or fix them. The good times are so good and the bad times can be very hard. Not everyone is built for the level of patience & compassion it takes.
I have Asperger’s there’s some good things to it and there’s some hard things also, it’s hard to fit in with other people, but there’s so many talents that I can do with it.
most people don’t understand it except my Family
it’s hard to communicate with other people especially girls and I’m 19 years old dude
I’m glad that you got a diagnosis. Talking to other people takes practice. Everybody has to start somewhere. The most effective way that I’ve noticed to asking people out is making small talk. Ask people if they want coffee or tea or whatever. Practice makes perfect. You’ll do great.
@@emilyN1 small talk is the worst, especially for people with asd! I personally cannot understand the purpose of "small talk", except that many neurotypical people are uncomfortable with silence for whatever reason, but don't actually have anything meaningful going on in their heads to talk about.
Also, saying something like "just ask if they want coffee or tea" isn't helpful, as some people on the spectrum tend to be more literal and honest about their intentions, and those kind of interactions are steeped in weird unspoken social rules and expectations.
Teach them something? Guitar, math..? Skip the small talk that way.
Be nice to have someone like him and he’s there for his wife🤗
I have one son in the spectrum and the other who we think could be but doctors won’t give him the diagnosis. Both have ADHD. The one that has been diagnosed we didn’t find out till he was almost seven. He hit all his normal milestones when he was a baby. Now he is in his twenties and he just finished trade school to become a cabinet maker. We are so proud of him and all that he has accomplish. My other son is an auto mechanic and does very well for himself as well. I am so happy to see that people are now finely bringing this topic into the light!! Thank you for sharing this story!
To think that finding people that mean what they say and say what they mean without lying-isn’t considered the norm but a diagnosis. I am seeing someone with the condition and I’ve never felt more understood and listened to in my life. I’ll take it over every past person I’ve ever dated. Thanks Amy for bringing this topic up.
I'm really happy to hear this. I hope that I meet a man who will embrace me the same way. Thanks for sharing this 💖
This is such a great documentary.
I can’t even begin to explain how incredible this is. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
My lil aspie heart weeps tears of joy 😭💞
I recently watched this documentary. Enjoyed it immensely. Congrats to you and Chris on the birth of adorable baby Gene.
Thank you for opening your world so others can get a glimpse of your life.
Also congratulations on finding such a wonderful and loving husband. In the documentary I was so touched by the way you helped Chris through his medical diagnosis and Chris with you during your pregnancy. Wow! You’re definitely a trooper considering everything you went through start to the end of your pregnancy including performing on stage under those conditions. You’re a great actress, comedian, wife and mother. Chris is a great husband, chef, father and husband. So jealous you married a chef. You deserve only the best.
I love Amy always. Someone who can write, produce TV & movies takes a certain intelligence and motivation. I admire her even more after this.
i enjoy her as well. women are faced with so much harshness for one main reason
my bf is an Aspi too, he is great, I just need to remember that I need to talk to him, and not expect him to "know" things, I love him so much ^^
Absolutely! Something I try to do is be as direct as possible and not rely on social cues on top of encouraging my parter to never be afraid to asks questions, especially if he doesn't understand my facial expressions
Awesome. My oldest son has Asperger’s. He’s 24 years old and did a lot of work to understand how others operate and how to interact with them. Making eye contact was a huge breakthrough for him. I’m very proud of him!
I went to college with a young man that had the same. He became a great friend! Thank you for sharing your story and family. 💜
Awww! My boyfriend has Asperger's and I'm neurotypical, so this was sooo relatable and warmed my heart! Thank you for sharing!!!
This is beautiful. I've always loved Amy's work, but this makes me love her as a person. (Love, Chris's work in the kitchen, too!)
Thank you. Me too. 65yo and have only known for 5yrs. Life has been such a struggle. So much easier to deal with now that I know. God bless all.
My husband has this .... its so interesting to deal with someone who is very truthful and has no filter. Living in a grey world with a black and white man makes marriage difficult at times.... 21 yrs together 15 married... He is far from perfect but he's perfect for me!!
I have a lot of respect for her helping end the stigma
Amy is one of those people that is who she really is. Love that girl 🙂
She's awesome. And damn hilarious.
My husband has the exact same level of spectrum disorder and many of the same behaviors. It makes for an honest, stable marriage. We are ten years in and happier than ever. When you have one spouse that is very emotional (me) and has high levels of empathy it’s actually a really nice counter balance to have a partner who’s almost entirely unemotional. It takes some learning, but once you understand one another it’s actually quite a smooth, comfortable marriage. His honesty, consistency, and reliability combine to make someone of unimpeachable character. I’m truly happy.
That’s so lovely to hear! Wishing you continued happiness together. Thank you for sharing. :)
This makes me so happy. My son was diagnosed with Aspergers (though it’s no longer called that) late last year. First thing I asked his psychiatrist was if he’d have a normal life and marry. She said yes but this confirms it! He’s extremely smart just wired a little different. ❤️
Omg I love them even more now!! 😭🥰
As a 22 year old with Aspergers, spot on. The moment he started speaking I could see a resemblance to myself.
Do you have any tips for someone who's just found out about their Asperger's?
@@destinypabon1195 Hi Destiny, do you have Asperger's? Or, who do you have in your life that does? I was diagnosed a few years ago in my 40's. If that person wants to fit in more with the world around them and be able to enjoy friendships/relationships more, then I'd recommend having that person study a lot of others who have Aspergers as well, particularly, adults. I have a lot of trouble seeing how I can be a little weird, just a little bit "off" to people in general. So, studying other Aspies has helped me to see myself and to catch my own behaviors.
@@na-vh7ep my significant other does and I'm looking to learn more to help him
So beautiful, you can tell they love each si much. The understanding and support, it got tears to my eyes too.
My wife is a Special Ed teacher and it makes me very happy to see people talking about this. Her worst parts of the day are bully’s and ignorant people.
This is so beautiful , got me right in the feels❤️❤️❤️❤️
My son has high-functioning autism (not Aspergers), and he twirls his hair EXACTLY like Chris (same spot). Gives me hope that he might find someone to love someday.
When he told her “you’re perfect” how perfectly sweet and honest... I’ve been watching their cooking show on discovery plus for a while now... He is SO sweet to her .... just at the right moments he says those things and you can see what a special relationship they have. And now to have seen this clip, not having known his diagnosis but getting to see how Amy works to understand how to communicate and how this affects them as individuals and as a couple. Gives me hope.
This overwhelmed me. So much love. You're so lucky to have each other. Thank you for sharing this ❤
This was probably the most understanding and beautiful things I've seen from her. Surprised me.
Fooled again by Schumer. A woman who will be anything if it keeps her relevant.
@@bodbn amen brother. It's crazy, if she was a guy, she would be in jail for rape.
Why would it surprise you? It’s 100% in line with everything she has always been. Don’t fall in line with these misogynists on here just to be accepted.
@@NAConen my god, it doesn't matter if she is a man or a woman, rape shouldn't be justified.
Why do you praise celebrities?
Ryan How do you know that she doesn’t just love him? I don’t think she’s a good comedian, but that doesn’t make her a bad person.
Wow, that an example of real love!
Amy Schumer made me cry. I got diagnosed with this when I was around 13 (I'm 32 now). And my whole life I've had a chip on my shoulder. Trying to prove everything wrong. Theres no way I have AS. And than I stumble on to this video of Amy Schumer explaining how its not such a big deal. And how much empathy she has for it. The dating game is already a stacked affair for young adult men. And add social awkwardness to it and it seems impossible. I honestly just wish more ladies knew about this. Or maybe felt empathetic. Girls are quick to dimiss guys who are awkward. Sometimes we can't help it...
I'm 19 right now and I'll tell you that it's the hardest thing holding me back from dating and really expressing how I feel cause I find when I'm talking to my parents of friends I'll stammer and stutter and want to say one thing but I never end up saying what I had on my mind and instead going for the usual "small talk"
What a beautiful relationship they have 💕! I’m convinced my dad has Aspergers (social anxiety, extreme focus on work and hobbies, lack of eye contact, etc) and my daughter’s therapist has suggested that she could, as well, but she hasn’t been diagnosed. I can see the similarities in both of them, though it’s so hard to tell the difference between someone who is just anxious and a little awkward. Either way, there should be no stigma. We are all unique humans and we all want the same things; love, relationship, friendship.
I love you Amy for shining a light in this. And I admire your commitment to working on your marriage because it's not easy and many people would just bail.
Soooooo important to be open and accepting and educating. Love is love is love !!!! Amy S remains my shero ! ♥️. What a cool, real, hot (yes cool and hot) relationship.
My son was diagnosed when he was 5 and when this happened I always worry about him having a regular life by that I mean being treated well by others and finding someone to spend his life with, he is now 10 and he is so smart, caring and so special in many ways seeing this gives me hope on him one day finding someone and having a family
Autistic and neurotypical relationships reallly can be intensely loving and supportive. As an autistic person your neurotypical partner is often the person who knows you better than anyone, and they can rely on you to be fully honest, authentic, and accepting. 🥰 These two are just so adorable together.
Yeah my mom def has Aspergers! I almost have to cut her off even adt my stage 4 cancer . If telling them “I am suicidal “ we d expect them to actually get Trigered n in rage call u “how selfish of u ever think like that ! I was suicidal myself ! U shouldn’t ever think of yrself !”
For having A partner that is willing to go thru anything with ASD partner is their utter previlage cuz they will never understand where not like to be in their shoes . However they tend to hurt the partners who care for them the most
I would have preferred if they actually let the husband speak more. Amy and the therapist are talking about him and he doesn't get to tell his point of view, also of the relationship and of the challenges that he might have with Amy.
Often people with Autism don't know in what ways they are different, it's easier for the ones on the outside to notice things that make them different than for them to notice that about themselves.
@@scatteredseedsofhappiness3285 Sure. I just would have liked to know how he perceives his life and what he finds difficult about living with "neurotypical" people. This almost seems like Amy showing off what a good person she is by marrying a person with Aspergers, and everyone praising her for it. And that's a bit condescending to the husband for me.
@@AG-ej7wm as a wife of someone with Autism myself sometimes it feels like we can't win. Maybe she is, maybe she isn't but how can we know that for sure? If she isn't it's heartbreaking to hear that. It can be very hard to be married to a person with Autism, it's both beautiful and painful so I don't even dare to think she is using it. I am glad she talked about it because when one can't it's very hard to carry that alone.
@@scatteredseedsofhappiness3285 Of course we can't know that. It's just that Amy Schumer has had issues with her popularity. She has for instance named her baby son Gene Attell Fischer (sounds like "genital fissure" and she found that a funny pun, ha ha) and then changed the name after backlash. So I question how well she treats the people close to her, when she would even ridicule her own baby. So my cynical mind thinks that this might be her way to try and appear empathetic.
@@AG-ej7wm oh ok, I understand you better now, I didn't know her at all. :/
♡ Thank you Amy... you are amazing
Amy's hair and clothing while she's doing stand up are what I look like when I am at home, haven't showered yet and have thrown something on to clean the house.
Being with someone who can't help but be sincere forces you as their partner to be sincere and this is a good thing.
I love this so very much thank you for posting it!!
Everyone deserves love. I wish everyone finds it.
Amy you are so awesome! Chris and you are awesome together!,,
This is awesome!!! My name also is Christopher and I also have Asperger’s. It’s amazing how much you can start to see on how we progress on things
I love this! Thank you for letting us in your hearts ♥️
Really cool of get to help people understand more about the spectrum but I think he is the real hero for being able to accept her.
You make the world better Amy 🙂
My husband has a lot of these qualities as well and I was raised to be "perfect" in public. We have been really good balance to each other over the years.
My son was diagnosed at age 7. He is 31 now, he had such a hard time in school, being bullying. He is extreme smart and has a job with the Federal Govt working from home. It is a complex way of life.
wow a time where I can actually enjoy listening to her
Keep chugging away on that GED.
@@NAConen i still dislike her but she's handling this liek a real person. and I respect that
It is definitely empowering to take a shitty diagnosis and run with it! I have MS and have slowly developed cognitive issues but I am still moving!
This is so sweet and so informative...I think I know lots of people with Aspergers. Knowing about Aspergers helps to understand the person who has it...thank you Amy💕
I absolutely love Amy :) and I think it's beautiful that she wants to help her husband with things that he said noone ever recognized. You go girl.