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My Husband Doesn’t Show Affection | Paul Friedman

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  • Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
  • My husband doesn’t show affection
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Комментарии • 26

  • @janetsparks9136
    @janetsparks9136 5 месяцев назад +3

    The problem with this is .. some folks just run with that and take advantage further and so the other person should just ignore their own needs for however long and remain in a one sided relationship? Hmmm sounds healthy 😒

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  5 месяцев назад

      I undestand the logic, it is the logic of the mind. But we do not connect with our soulmate on that level if we want to experience love and joy. The advice I give works, period. I have seen our formulas work for almost a quarter of a century for thousands of people.

  • @Nolacarsillo
    @Nolacarsillo Год назад +6

    Very compassionate angle you take. It is easier said then done. Sometimes I take it very personally. I need to think about it/ approach it in this way. There is definitely some expectation tied to affection especially in the US. My husband is from another culture where this is not the case. God Bless you ❤

  • @bintssembajja9298
    @bintssembajja9298 Год назад +3

    I was about to give up. Thank you so much for this.

  • @tinajackson2663
    @tinajackson2663 2 года назад +8

    After having a few drinks one evening, my husband tells me I have gained weight and he Loves me but is NOT in love with me. He says he does not remember saying this to me. I have heard alchohol is like a truth serum, rather that be true or not, I can not seem to get passed those words I CLEARLY heard him say. How should I deal with this ? Please help !

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  2 года назад +1

      A few words are enough for you to take heed that you are not living up to your vows as a wife, otherwise you would not be affected. Get the course for women.

    • @lookwithinandsee
      @lookwithinandsee Год назад +7

      Tina, dear. You are worthy of love at ANY size. If he truly loved you, he would have never said that to you. That is so incredibly hurtful, I hope that you didn't define yourself by any of his uncaring words.

    • @simplykacy134
      @simplykacy134 Год назад +21

      @@TheMarriageFoundationcan you explain this? It sounds like you are telling women to be a door mat. How do we know when our emotions matter? What was her vows as a wife to not gain weight?! Where is the for better or for worse come into play? Sighh.

    • @flamboyant731
      @flamboyant731 Год назад +8

      @@simplykacy134 Well said❤

    • @ElisabethMateas-nh8js
      @ElisabethMateas-nh8js 2 месяца назад

      @@TheMarriageFoundationWOW how dare you say that it’s her fault her husband said that to her! What a stupid course you offer. Want nothing to do with advice like yours. Your marriage foundation is stupid if that’s the kind of advice you offer! What a joke 😂.

  • @amandawilliams2798
    @amandawilliams2798 25 дней назад

    What happened to the affection shown when there was overflow with courting,,,no affection brings loneliness

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  25 дней назад

      That is right, neither learned how to continuously improve the connection, til now themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/

  • @DanielleCandaceBellomyLa-tm7ep
    @DanielleCandaceBellomyLa-tm7ep 4 месяца назад +2

    I need a whole lot more than just my monetary needs met. :”0(( I’m SO lonly.

  • @marthaguzman1814
    @marthaguzman1814 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful answer.

  • @DanielleCandaceBellomyLa-tm7ep
    @DanielleCandaceBellomyLa-tm7ep 4 месяца назад

    Long before I even had a dog for companionship, he has been the same way for years and now he says it’s the dog because I hug and kiss the dag on dog that he does not want to touch me. I keep my cool and I usually don’t show my anger. But I would like to get a punching bag just so I can take my frustrations out.

  • @vickigatwood6824
    @vickigatwood6824 2 года назад

    How do I watch the course for women? I’ve ordered one of the books written by Paul Friedman. My 31 year marriage is in trouble, and has been for years. I need help. I’m enjoying the information I’ve been hearing. I’m trying to apply these practices.

  • @DanielleCandaceBellomyLa-tm7ep
    @DanielleCandaceBellomyLa-tm7ep 4 месяца назад

    He knew how to share affection with me before we got married. I’m begging God to help me fight Temptations, but good news is I don’t want to go to hell. Never been a cheating kind. I don’t want to do it now. really starting to get ticked off now because I feel very ripped off been married 15 years

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  4 месяца назад

      Readiing your three comments just reminds me of how far from the truths of marriage and how wonderful marriage can be our worldly teachings are, filled with such non-helpful advice and lore. I pray you are led to our wonderful marriage help courses 🙏

    • @Lala-gn4pj
      @Lala-gn4pj 4 месяца назад +1

      Sometimes, when you've been lacking love/affection your entire life, you try a new relationship and hope that will provide some of what you missed. But unfortunately when you're young you don't always know yourself and don't choose wisely. The husband should learn to love his wife the way she needs, anything else is quite selfish. I can accept no affection and be happy bc the Bible tells husbands to live their wives. This undoubtedly involves affection. Marriage is an interchange of love.

    • @tracy9667
      @tracy9667 Месяц назад

      I’m always the giver of affection. I am tired of always giving it and never getting it FIRST. If I don’t reach out, I get nothing. My love language is touch 🥲

  • @nancydee6106
    @nancydee6106 Месяц назад +1

    Yeah, ladies, let’s do more! Lmao! Nothanks

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  Месяц назад

      People who are sure they are perfect generally have to wait for a perfect partner. But there aren't any

  • @SamMcKinley
    @SamMcKinley 3 месяца назад

    I agree but women don’t want to hear this. I’m gonna do better t being affectionate. All this Logic stuff don’t irk other women

    • @TheMarriageFoundation
      @TheMarriageFoundation  3 месяца назад

      We need to understand cause and effect so we do smart things but mostly it is about opening our hearts to our soulmate that matters

    • @user-jc1hs2gt1f
      @user-jc1hs2gt1f 2 месяца назад +1

      I totally disagree. Everyone deserves to feel loved and should not just accept not feeling loved. I have been in relationships with men I feel very loved and I have also been in relationships that I do not feel loved. Relationship are work and both sides need to put in the work to make sure their partner feels loved. This is why people have affairs and get divorced