What Is A Wife's Role In Marriage | Paul Friedman
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- Опубликовано: 22 сен 2020
- Are you wondering what should be the wife's role in marriage? Watch Paul gives you helpful information for you to understand what marriage is all about.
This may seem almost like a religious question like the kind of question that would be dealt with from a religious point of view. But it's not just religious it is spiritual though because I'm not
going to talk about so much, the mundane, a wife should be driving the children and the husband should be doing this and I'm not going to go there. Rather we're going to come to the basis of marriage and we're going to understand it from that point of view. Because frankly, that's what's important so, why do you get married?
Why do people want to get married in the first place?
And I'm not talking about, "Oh, well. I found the ideal man. I have found the ideal woman," in case whatever. I'm going to talk about why people want to get married. It's really simple if you think about it and yet it's never discussed in society. The number one reason why people want to
get married. Are you ready? Is so they could be happier but not just happier but happier every single day of your life. You're not signing up for this general blase, "Oh yeah. Well, I'm happier now that I got married." No, you want to be happier that's what you want in life. That's what you want from life, isn't it?
No one ever thinks about these things. We go through life like automatons. One day at a time, get up in the morning have a routine, have a little entertainment sometimes, have a great meal
other times, get some loving in, get some whatever every day -- it's not enough. A living person
is an evolutionary person. Evolutionary to what? More education, more knowledge, more intelligence? Maybe but who needs that. What you really want is you want to be happier and we get married for the exact same reason. We want to be happier.
Your role in a marriage is to make yourself happier by ever increasing love. That's the second
reason for getting married. We want to feel love. Why? Because love is the one thing that is intangibly tangible. You can't touch it, smell it, feel it whatever with your five senses but it's tangible. It's real. You experience love and you know it's real because you're a soul. Souls experience love. They don't just experience sort of the things that come from love but they experience love itself. We're the only creatures that can say, we do and that love we also know intuitively that love has no end, has no boundary. Now our mind tells us that can't be real but it is real.
Love has infinite attached to it nothing else does even outer space is not infinite. There's an end somewhere but there is no end to love. There's no end to love and that's what we want because we know that that love makes us happy. So there's your two things, you want to be happier every single day of your life and you want ever increasing love, very simple.
What's the role of a wife?
The role of a wife is to contribute to that happiness so there's two parts to that. Do you like how I dissect things, how I break it down? There's two parts to that. One part is don't do anything that's going to cause stress, worry, drama, negativity. Don't do any of those things. We have free will.
We always have a choice because of that free will that we can behave, act in a way that is beneficial or detrimental. Some people say, what about neutral? There is no such thing because
we're alive. We're always moving. So those are your two options, it doesn't matter what it is. You could always act either beneficially, contributing to the love and happiness of your marriage which is unique. Or you could behave detrimentally and bring down your marriage, poison it, destroy it. Take away all the fun from it. Those are your two options.
Watch the video for more.
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My husband gave me the "I love you but am not in love with you" talk at the beginning of October. I was horrified and totally disoriented by this but after watching so many of your videos and not only having a change of heart but a change of action, he told me he loves me last night and that he wants to go through life with me hand in hand. Thank you for everything, you are a truly incredible person and teacher 🌷
You are fortunate to have made the changes without needing the course for women, good job!
U break down points so clearly with clarity. Most women of today's time need to see ur videos.
Thank you! I try.
Wow, this is for the grown and mature! I'm going to do this!
This is such a powerful message thank you so much
This is such amazing advice! Thank you Paul, this really speaks deeply to me and gives me hope I can continue to get better and better.
You're so welcome! Wouldn't this be a great topic for middle school girls?
Thank you, Paul Friedman. God bless you too.
You are very welcome
Thank you for all your work!
It is my way to serve, thank you. 🙏
A fantastic video thank you , god bless you
I love your videos. They are so wise and have really inspired me to live my life in love. I truly want to do this for the rest of my life.
Oh Paul.. You are amazing.. I just found you today, i wish i found u earlier would hv found lots of happiness..
You are really making my mind n heart calm
Amen. Love is all that matters in everything in life.
Yes, and learning how to manifest that love in our marriage is a self-serving service and obligation.
@@TheMarriageFoundation Yes, I'm learning with God's help to treat my husband as I would want him to treat me always. It's not easy at times but it helps me to have peace and a better marriage. I thank you for all your videos and wanting to help others have a better marriage. God bless you and your family!
Bless you too 🙏
Thank you so much for your massage.. .. Love can find away in as Blessing ...
To God be the Glory forever, thank you 🇿🇲
Thanks for this video
Thank you
It's been long time ⌛️ I've been negative and nagging he has held on so much I'm blessed he didn't leave me ❤ so know I'm fixing myself and my marriage
Determination to make inner changes will make your life and marriage joy filled. We are here to inspire you and help you
Thanks
So, out of curiosity, how exactly do you propose a woman remain positive and loving all the time with a man who is negative, depressed and does not follow through on things he has promised he will do -- big, important things which will affect and secure their future? He has been this way for 15 years and I have tried being positive and loving, tried being patient and have suggested counseling to him. He won't go. At your suggestion, I am not supposed to talk to anyone about this, not supposed to talk about my feelings and am supposed to sit with this alone and just keep smiling, being loving and positive to him and ignoring the problem, right?
It can be a struggle to be around one who is as described but you should only do what will actually help yourself, him, and your marriage. Being loving describes a stylized action, not an open loving heart. Learn to love without conditions and you will both benefit.
I thank the Lord he led me to your videos , Jesus is talking to me , I been praying he would change me and make me a better women and wife to be.Amen 💞🤗🙏
I wish my wife would watch this. 😢
What happens when your spouse is not seeing the love
What can a wife do if her husband admits that he is only committed 60% in his marriage yet he knows his wife is more then 100% committed?
There are reasons why a man who married a woman has lost his dedication to the marriage and although you are doing your best you do not know enough, not your fault, to please him. Use our knowledge in your marriage and he will come around.
It may be the case, but often runs deeper to her thinking which is the springboard for all actions. Try taking a negativity fast for 3 days where you do not allow any negative thoughts to stay in your mind. See what happens.
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Wow how to take the negativity fast
Where can I find the man’s role video?
please search in the main directory
I need more tips on the greater power 🔋
I would like to help though I'm not sure what you are looking for.
@@TheMarriageFoundation awesome 👍 that would be great. How do we talk?
leave your messages here. My hourly rate is on our website if you wish a phone conference.
Wat if the wife has troubles of her own.?
not a soul on earth has no troubles.
What happens when my husband is not seeing the love what do I do?
Love is within each of us and is impossible to expose someone to their innate state of love, as is the soul. So, just demonstrate your love without attachment to his receptivity. Be sure, however, your expressions are true and not muddled by other expressions at other times.
@@TheMarriageFoundation Thank you so much. God bless 🙏
I am finding that I may have chosen the wrong man. Period.
I just want to be happier! But it's the opposite
You SHOULD be happier. Try one of the books, or get the course for women.
Thank you i send this to my wife
that is a bad idea. One should only notice their own roles and not have expectations of their spouse.
My wife consistantly asks me to stop doing things that make her "uncomfortable", things that are important to me and a big part of my life.
What is acceptable when she asks me to change my life, to the point where i give up everything that is important to me so she can feel more comfortable? How do you solve these disputes, what is reasonable and what is abusive? Should you truly change everything about yourself for your partner?
People who change for the better are always better off as are those around them. Your wife's admonishments are probably good indicators of things you would be better off changing.
So how is it going?