This is Why You’re Going To Marry The Wrong Person 🤦🏽♀️
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I have a narcissist mother and am now starting to realize why I act the way I do and why it’s so hard for me to let go of people. I’m also quick to give that person my all. I’m slowly learning how to heal. Im only 20 so I have a lot to experience
35 and I've learned to let my mother go from the centre of my heart, she doesn't need me like I thought she did, still living and learning to respect her while stating my individuality and boundaries, since she comes from a good place. Luckily we share similar values, which I've realized only after many years of trying to make my own life and finding similarities with our goals for akhirah and being good to our family
Unmarried folks out here, here's a bit of hope for y'all. Recite this dua to get a pious spouse in which we all could find peace in. I pray we all find the missing part of ours soon, In Shaa Allah..
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ "
" وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
(“rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama”)
“Our Lord, grant us from among our pious spouse and offsprings comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
(Surah Furqan:74)
Aameen
Thank you for sharing!
It's really cool seeing how everything is linked back to trauma and how understanding the problem can help you understand the solution. You helped make this concept easy to digest alhamdulilah
Trauma, because it affects the brain, has so many implications for real life experiences because everything uses our brain. Our self-image, our confidence, our faith, our relationships, our family dynamics, etc
What I love about you is, you are setting good example for Muslim girls like me, thank you, I love the way you talk and wear no make up, may Allah bless you sis! I;m new to Deen and i accidentally found your channel :)
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Great information to share.
We marry our unfinished business 😢
Sad but accurate 😢
Oooohhh I like this way of phrasing it!
You made a very important point which i highly agree on. The point of following Allah's instructions. When we follow the structure of marriage set by deen and set the standards that the prophet prioritised, chances are we'll end up with the right person iA. I also agree that we have to heal our truamas first (not necessarily all of them but at least some of them), if we're praying for amazing partners, then it would be unfair to not acquire some level of emotional stability to treat them with. May allah help us heal our traumas and reward us with great spouses
The Quran & Hadith are the answer. But people like going in circles.
Sadly ❤
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بارك الله فيك❤❤❤
Nice info.. I was also wondering the flip side. Is there such thing as loving yourself too much? How do you know if your standards are too high?
When we step into naricissism, selfishness, self-inflation, just as God hates, we’ve “loved ourselves too much.” And in that case, it strains relationships as a natural consequence.
I don’t have a perfect answer for this but I believe 1) we should strive to develop the characteristics in ourselves we want in a spouse. 2) we should focus on the character and deen and prioritize setting our standards for that.
Of course, nobody is perfect but there’s a difference with accepting someone’s flaws that aren’t toxic and detrimental to a marriage, versus accepting it because you have such low self-esteem, you’ll take anything even if it hurts you in the long run.
I love you ❤❤😊😊
Asalamwalkyum. I'm not going to get married ever. Don't need a girl. Just asking my mom to make dua musa made and he married shoabi daughter.
Wa alaikum asalam! JAK for the comment.You said you won't get married (displaying some resentment toward the idea) but are still asking for duaa regarding getting married. Perhaps Allah doesn't gift you that duaa in this world because you're not in the best headspace to receive it. Perhaps He gives it but if you're not in a good place to receive it, it may become more of a test than a blessing. Try to work on what the fears are behind marriage, where the thought of "don't need a girl" comes from and what these beliefs may lead to.
@@alasryh 2005 in physics class when I was premed in my 20s a muslim arab/indian girl liked me, I thought she was sincere but she is just like everyone else, and had alter motives. If you a true muslilm girl you will not want to engage in things that should be done until after marriage, because it is written when men and women are together the thrid party is shaitain. She broke up with me in front of everyone, and watched me ruin my life. She ruined my life, I crashed a 300zx got in legal trouble and was diagnosed bipolar disorder. Yes I had anger issues but she maniplated my moods, she was evil. My moods may have been up and down but I was honest and inocent, I never hurt a girl or ruined her name or innoncence. This world in controlled by the dajjal system, when ISA le salam comes he will end it with the help of medi la salam.
very easy to comment on others and derive conclusion when its not you who has to live with consequences. its very easy to say "oh clearly he is wrong" when your feelings arent involved. learn self love n blah blah flowery stuff that doesnt make sense that much. nothing quite actionable from your side just rambling.
Okay 🙂