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But what if they actually leave you after the disagreement? (happened multiple times, different partners)

Was he a Shia or a Ahmadi

My beloved sister Hana, would you leave your child alone with your husband, their own father?

Please dont mix 1/2 understood religious stories and Science....just stick with scientific evidences

Aslm how do we cure ourselves if we can't afford therapy ?

I have constant anxious feeling in my tummy, is this trauma I am constantly anxious

Living with a narcissist has these trauma effects on your nervous system

Amazing

Thank you really for this Chanel it helps really even with people who might not have something severe like ptsd but else have some type of trauma. And please beautiful sister take care to cover your arms it might sound not very important but it is . Thank and my apologies if I could said it better.

Tabrak Allah, great work ya Hana, keep it up!

Side note: This is one of the many reasons why Hijama is so healing. It helps move the stored trauma in the body and brings it to surface. The bodies intelligence communicates that THIS is what needs to be processed and released. It reveals it. Subhanallah.

can you comment on which type of therapy is the most beneficial for c-ptsd? would emdr be helpful?

Absolutely honoured you have aired this....way overdue. Thank you🤲

Is there a link between trauma to irregular periods or fibroids?

Me and my sisters had numerous private meshabs to teach us, and only ONE out of many was sincere and knowledgeable, May Allah (swt) grant him janatul firdaus (Ameen). The rest were creepy, and only now as an adult I known what was going on. They only came for the money, took advantage of my parents nativity and vulnerability. They were the representatives of Islam for us and we did not know that was not Islam, but we grew up distant from Islam due to them and what we thought Islam was. It was greed for money and ulterior motives that grossed us out but alhamdulillah our first teacher built a solid foundation so we held onto that over the others, but my little sister grew with the other sickos that taught us and she is still traumatized.

This was really well explained looking forward to the next video on this series. Please can you also explain or define exactly what trauma is. I see that word used all over social media. Sometimes it feels like everyone is traumatised by their life events to some degree but some people just cope better than others. Please can you cover what can we class as trauma and why does it affcet people so differently. Why does the same traumatic event for example passing an exam, affect one person so different to someone else where it may not feel stressful to them at all. I always wonder why can one persons body cope better than others for the exact same traumatic event. How come some people can deal with it fine but for others it can manifest into illness ect and they stay stuck in the stress response

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Asalam alaykum, Hana! I have found your videos extremely helpful in my healing journey and I am so thankful for your insight and guidance on the issues occurring in the Muslim community, especially related to trauma. And it's because I enjoy your content so much that I want to bring awareness to your use of AI in your thumbnails. I completely understand that making a thumbnail is time-consuming and the AI is essentially a shortcut, but generative AI, unfortunately, is killing the environment and is contributing to global warming, which is devastating our planet. I hope you can research more into the negative affects of AI and consider no longer using it for your videos. JazakiAllahukhairan and I hope you have a wonderful day!

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Assalamu’alaikum, can you kindly let me know how to contact you?

With all due respect, the “ummah” is like this, they habitually refuse to educate themselves instead they follow clergyman. That was NEVER a mandate. You as a Muslim were meant to READ the book yourself not elect someone to do the thinking for you. Reciting is fine, but the meaning is READ, ponder, reflect. Sectarianism gets you this cultish behavior. May Allah protect these innocent children. These clergymen should have never had the clout that they have, the Muslim community continues to look for sources outside of the Quran, like the Hadith etc. This is the crux of the issue. The Quran states it is complete and easy for you to understand, on top of that it says that Allah teaches it. Again, all theses sects, all these clergymen, all these Ulama, all these fatwa’s and all the depravity and hateful attitudes towards women, other ppl stems from those “tafsirs” Return to the straight path, Allah sent down his rissalah for mankind to take heed, yet very few choose that path.

One more question, Does dry fasting help heal the nervous system, or does it stress the body more?

Salam. How I can contact you?

Asalam Alaikum Sister, Does your body go into the sympathetic nervous system when you exercise? I mean HITT training, weight training, and cardio, not yoga/pilates. What is the body’s signals that tell you, you are over exercising and it’s causing more harm than good? Constant state of fight/fight. Also, are your emotional reactions/regulation intertwined with the nervous system? What does it mean when you have a hard time regulating your emotions after a fight/flight response? If it lingers much longer throughout the day rather then just coming and going. Thanks in advance!

Powerful video, keep it up

Love your patterned hijabs. Where are they from? 😊

There is deafening silence from the sheikhs in America . They are not condemning these heinous acts. Why are they silent? Do they care about the wellness of their communities? It appears they are not listening ! One day they will run around just like mad people when the mosques and their institutions will be targeted as unsafe for the children !

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How much money are you making from this

Thank you. You are correct in that any religious community needs to have checks and balances in place so as to diminish harm and handle harm when it is done. Our deen emphasizes justice.

I blame female narcissism on feminism Narcissism is a pathology of the self. If you have ever studied the personality disorder of narcissism, you know it has certain classic hallmark features. Thinking about it more deeply, I've realized lately that feminism and narcissism share many core features. The narcissist is a person who has key pathological aspects to their personality structure: 1. An exaggerated sense of self-importance 2. Entitlement 3. Lack of empathy for others 4. Victim complex 5. Requires a convenient scapegoat Now let's see how well the ideology of feminism matches up with the pathology of narcissism. 1. Exaggerated Self-importance: Feminism teaches women that they are all-important, that their needs and wants overrirde the needs of others. Women are placed at the center of all things. Women are the metric by which everything else is measured and judged. Based on how such-and-such society "treats women," we can judge it to be good or bad. Based on how this or that country "respects women's rights," we can deem it to be good or bad. Everything revolves around women and their feelings and whims. Women are "queens" who "slay." In essence, feminism teaches female supremacy. Psychologists call this mindset of delusions of grandeur the narcissist's "grandiosity." Feminism teaches women to have grandiosity, an inflated ego. In Islam, the word for this is كبر (kibr, arrogance). 2. Entitlement: Feminists are women who are entitled. Feminism teaches women, who are "queens," to demand their "rights," which are in reality not their rights at all. As Muslims, we recognize that the only true rights of any person are those rights set by Allah the Creator. Demanding more rights above and beyond what Allah has decreed for women (or for men) is injustice. Taking more than your due is wrong. But if you believe that you are special and superior to others, you demand more than your due. This is entitlement. 3. Lack of Empathy: Feminism drills into its adherents the need to put themselves as women first, at all costs. The woman is special and is entitled to special rights and privileges and can have all the choices, regardless of the consequences of those choices on men, children, the family, or society at large. None of this matters. As long as the woman pleases herself in the moment and reaches her "potential" and "takes up space" and "smashes the glass ceiling" and is fully "strong and independent." The suffering of her own children, or her husband, or her family, or of society is inconsequential in the mind of the self-centered feminist. Feminism indoctrinates women with not only fierce individualism, but also an utter lack of empathy for anyone who isn't a woman (read: another feminist). I once told a female acquaintance about an article I had read about a woman who had killed her husband by decapitating him and then chopping off his genitals. I was aghast, and mentioned how disturbed I felt by that crime. My female acquaintance shrugged and replied nonchalantly, "So what? He probably deserved it. She was probably pushed to it by something he did! She wouldn't have done that unprovoked. He got what he deserved." I was speechless. I had to pick my jaw up off the floor at her comment. Zero empathy. 4. Victim Complex: This one is a no-brainer. If you have ever listened to a feminist or to a narcissist speak for any length of time, you can instantly note the similarity. There is a deep fixation on perceived slights, on imagined insults, on grievous "injustices." The narcisisst and the feminist are both masters at playing the victim in any and all scenarios. They are long-suffering martyrs. They are perpetual victims, wronged constantly by others and never wrong themselves. Nothing is ever their fault. If you try to point out something that a feminist could have done differently, the shrill answer comes back immediately, "You're blaming the victim!!" Feminism teaches women to see themselves as victims in all cases. This is also how the narcissist sees himself or herself. A person who is always the victim avoids all responsibility and all accountability for their own actions. 5. The Scapegoat: If things are never the fault of the narcissist or the feminist, then whose fault is it?? *Somebody* must take the blame. But it can't be the feminist (or the narcissist) because that would entail taking some personal responsibility for actions and having some accountability. We can't have that. So it becomes necessary to assign blame to someone. If women are the victims, then who are the oppressors? Someone has to victimize the victim for the victim to even *be* a victim. It must be men. Feminism teaches women that *men* are the enemy. Women are the martyrs because men kill them. Women are the victims because men victimize them. Women face oppression, suppression, injustice at the hands of men as a collective across time and space because of one key word: THE PATRIARCHY! The most perfect scapegoat for all of women's problems is this much-maligned patriarchy. Feminism teaches women to take no responsiblity for any type of shortcoming and instead to expertly dodge any and all blame, and to project all blame onto men. Putting all these pieces of the puzzle together, it becomes easy to see why women under the delusional indoctrination of feminism can so casually blame men for "rapes and wars" and so easily paint all men with the same careless brush. Men are the handy scapegoat. Essentially, feminism teaches women narcissism, which is a pathology of the self.

As Salamualaikum Hana We love and subcribed to your channel. However we are seeking to contact you but dont see where our email is. We love for you be a guest on our channel?

What's the age of consent in islam?

بارك الله فيك. هذا موضوع جدا مهم . الله يجزاك خير ❤

I just found you. I know the sister in question and have hugged and loved her child. It breaks my heart. I took Shahada at the same time with this sister. We have been reverts for almost 30 years, and This mom even wore Niquab for years.. Our entire community is broken. They met through QR class back in 2021. Please pray for this sweet child that was abused by her own Mother! She was warned to stop talking to him outside of class but she was told by him he would marry him. We lost contact, she was living with another Sister at that time and was asked to leave as the sister could no longer support her for so long…This sister is hurt so much...This so called mother just got custody back in the last year. Groomed..but I blame my ex friend now! I was abused, the mom said she was abused, but she is a sociopathic liar. This has to stop ! He is being sent to Alabama for a trial. I imagine they will plead to avoid a trial but we will see. Thank you for the video. You bring me hope. JazakAllahKheir ( I will be in touch inshallah)

💯🎯. May Allah Aid us to handle these situations correctly in a way that helps communities and not damage communities. Ameen

Salaams…unfortunately that is all ‘Islamic institutions..tbh I don’t find any Islam in our Islamic institution…we will get back to you and they never do and this includes so called scholars’. I have always been disheartened with our Islamic institutions and Muslims as a whole.

These “leaders” “imams” “celebrity imams” don’t want the accountability they do not want oversight and they do not want to be held accountable. The boards and people are complicit by either benefitting directly or being blinded “Sheeple”. At this point it’s safe to say that every religious institution is tangled in corruption, the masajid, the charity orgs, the learning centers, etc. I’ve been involved as a member for nearly 30 years and I can safely say this is one major reason of why I want to make Hijra.

More than once I've gotten my period same time as big stressful changes like going to uni. Made my first midterm very rough emotionally.

He’s not a sheikh only imam

Why do we enjoy talking about things like this in this way? Aren't we Muslims? Don't we know the principles to follow when there's accusations or allegations? Many are just talking about what they have no details about?

Stop F-- king around with so called western raised Sahabis in private sessions , when hadith is cleared about male and female in private the third one is shatan . Stop this nonsense of learning deen from shaikhs , sister alimas for sisters and brother alims are for brothers , you need to learn come to masjid , write Questions on paper and have conversation behind curtain without looking at each other . You run masajids like churches you will endup with dubious character in female and particularly male . Stop and go back to real deen of Allah is proper seperation or get ready for worse . This is just a start and it won't stop here till Muslims will be known and end up like catholic priest and nuns . Deen of Allah is very clear and pure, so not corrupt it with your western mentality and feminism.

Islam is not bad, bad people are..