But sister it's not proven and if wrong, the defamation thumbnail is 80 lashes and it's definitely coming for Muslims through PElICANTHEORY Although other religions lead by judail christians perhaps from maybe AU or US or EU but it's coming. People should learn how to verify before using people's faces in thumbnails for views and other things. 🌟Thumbnail was defamation big Time!!!!! Where is the video? All other people are on Twitter.?
“Whoever conceals the fault of his Muslim brother, Allah (SWT) will conceal his faults on the Day of Resurrection. Whoever exposes the fault of his Muslim brother, Allah will expose his faults, until He shames him, due to it, in his house.” English translation: Vol. 3, Book 20, Hadith 2546
Use your mind for a sec at least. Have a good thought of your brother. You guys keep saying sharia law bla bla but my guy it’s the sharia law that tells you to have a good thoughts of your brother. Y’all will be lashed 80 times 😂😂 Forget about wisam sherif😂 Please go study your religion wallah y’all sounds like pure jahil.
@@alasryh i understand about the healing from trauma you discussed. I know West sees sharia as barbaric. But it’s part of Islam and should not be ignored. I know lot of Muslims don’t like to speak on this issue. Allahs mercy exists for a reason, same way punishments for crimes also exists. Jazakallah Khairan
My mother didn’t even leave me alone with her father or her brothers alone. As a child I always wondered why this was the case. Fast forward and I'm in my late 30s, i found out only this year that my best friend was m0lested by her paternal uncle from aged 8 to 11. She only opened up to her younger sister about this recently and found out that she too was being abused around the same time from the age of 7-10. By the same Uncle. Not only has it been an ongoing trauma, but tragically a trauma that has doubled in magnitude for them. I cried for weeks after 💔 I am forever grateful to my mother for her fierce protection over her children 💗
@HA-vc5dl hopefully she can start a GoFundMe if she needs it and she should sue al maghrib and other employers for compe6. She should seek legal council ASAP
Thank you for talking about this subject. My mom went to Hajj and he lead the group. My mom is devastated because she thought of the sheikh to be a great person and didn’t think this would ever happen. Educating our kids about the signs of abuse is SO important. May Allah reward you for educating us. Ameen
I'm a therapist, I've worked with substance users who have been through things as children we could only begin to think of. I also knew the sheikh in question when i myself was very young about 15 years ago. I have my own child now. My feelings around this have been numbness. I looked up to this man like my older brother. To know that there are babies out there that he HURT.....my heart is not the same. I'm still processing. I'm making dua for those children. I'm so so sorry for them.
When it comes to women’s issues in general- I’ve reached out to well known shaykhs about issues severely impacting women and it was dismissed or ignored. Until they listen nothing will change.
Unfortunately even the major dawah personalities don’t talk about this like Ali Dawah and Mohamed hijab or Daniel haqiqatjou. Ali Dawah will be quick to discuss polygamy 🙄
@@MaaliLuqman Subhan'Allah I can only imagine the frustration you may have felt. It is very annoying when you raise such concerning issues for it to be dismissed - which is a reflection of the individuals dismissing/ignoring such heinous crimes and sick behaviour. It does go back to the issues of misogyny and how such misinterpreted and skewed understandings of Islam and womens' roles are widespread not just by men, but even some women too!
Stop a munkar with actions or words or at least feel it is wrong in your heart. What happens to those hearts that don't even feel it is wrong, over and over. Alhamdulilah there will be people who speak and follow the commands and prohibitions decreed by Allah. There will be people whose words and actions are a reflection of Qur'an and Sunnah. There will be people who aren't misled by the ignorant, the liars or the extremists. The promise of Allah is true that Islam will be preserved. Abuse, corruption and oppression are a reflection of the people. Islam will be in people that addresses injustices.
I was touched inappropriately at tutoring when I was 5 by an older person that the teacher asked to help me. I cant remember if it happened more than once, however I told my mom who told me to tell the teacher. I did that, she slapped that person in face and removed that person from tuition. I found out like 12 years later the teacher didn't tell his mother why she removed him. Other than that I wasn't too terribly affected because the right steps were taken swiftly, no joke I completely forgot for 10 years about it. That's power of adressing things before it gets out of hand, harm is greatly reduced. Ofc this situation is a lot more extreme than mine Subhanallah.
@@nubianqueen6700you being perfect or not perfect has 0 to do with how you treat people, you have to treat people very well, that perfection has to do with how you worship Allah or obeying his command when it comes to him,not your treatment of others, you can't abuse someone and say,oh well I might be Muslim but i am not perfect, Allah(SWA) will take that to account
Parents should learn Tajweed and Qirah on their own and teach their kids themselves at home. And if you can’t, at least send them girls to female teachers to reduce the risk of getting harassed by predators. This is an extremely upsetting incident and cases as such should never happen.
It doesn’t just happen to females, young boys have also been victimised by these depraved men. The answer to unchecked male perversion isn’t to direct immediate attention toward women but to ask what leads these men to commit such vile acts and ensure disciplinary measures are enacted at a very young age to prevent them from even entertaining such evil. This predator had a very disturbing attitude as a religious leader. A lot of Dawah men are very loud spoken, excessively laugh and joke, while freely speaking to women, particularly non Muslim women as though they are entitled to free mix under the guise of religious teaching. This opens the door to much fitnah and you end up with vultures like this vile individual.
@@qmr0n While I blame the imam just as fully, the woman who was included in this scandal willingly did that to her own daughter. Human beings are vile no matter what gender, unfortunately. Shaytaan doesn't play easy.
Has the alleged abuser been found guilty? Has he had a chance to defend himself or have we just wholeheartedly accepted the statement of the Zionist FBI organisation.
The moment you put your trust in wordly matters, you are doomed. Put your trust in Allah swt and you will feel at ease. You will know that if Allah swt intends good for you nothing or nobody can stop no matter how much they try and if Allahswt doesn’t intend something for you nobody can change that . The bigger the test the more Allah SWT loves you.
Yeah its true we should put our trust in Allah alone. However, don't we have an obligation to prevent evil? especially if the person doing it is a fellow Muslim brother. If left unadressed deviance will rampant, it can be dangerous to ummah and can lead to people's misunderstanding of the essence of the Islamic religion.
Unfortunately I don’t trust fathers anymore after what my father did while me and my siblings were growing up. I will never leave my child alone with any guy be it a father or uncles.
@@TheNiqabiDiariesYes but this needs to be looked at in context. From what we know this woman was a white so called convert who had a Muslim sounding surname. Looking at her images it’s clear she is a disturbed individual who as one Shaykh put it, looks like a crack head. The question is how does she have a Muslim surname? She will have been in a relationship with a “Muslim” man. Another problem that conveniently gets overlooked in the community. How are these men from muslim families coming across these women? There are countless cases of haram relationships “Muslim” men are in that are brushed under the carpet. This woman wasn’t a normal woman or mother, I doubt she even was a Muslim but Allah Knows best. The point is Islam is being abused by these type of men by manipulating verses of the Quran and Hadith to fulfil personal sick pleasures. More needs to be done when it comes to raising boys and the unchecked freedoms they entitle themselves to. And women need to be more discerning rather than blind following of men who claim to be of religious authority.
I just found you. I know the sister in question and have hugged and loved her child. It breaks my heart. I took Shahada at the same time with this sister. We have been reverts for almost 30 years, and This mom even wore Niquab for years.. Our entire community is broken. They met through QR class back in 2021. Please pray for this sweet child that was abused by her own Mother! She was warned to stop talking to him outside of class but she was told by him he would marry him. We lost contact, she was living with another Sister at that time and was asked to leave as the sister could no longer support her for so long…This sister is hurt so much...This so called mother just got custody back in the last year. Groomed..but I blame my ex friend now! I was abused, the mom said she was abused, but she is a sociopathic liar. This has to stop ! He is being sent to Alabama for a trial. I imagine they will plead to avoid a trial but we will see. Thank you for the video. You bring me hope. JazakAllahKheir ( I will be in touch inshallah)
Thanks for bring this live, it's a lot cases here related about ustadz/a and their childhood trauma, it's make me understand that parenting pattern is really affected someone's life. May Allah bless us to be a good parent who parenting right to our kids, and heal the muslim generation.. Aamiin ya rabb..
Well-done, sister, may Allah reward your efforts! Those who commit SA were most likely victims of abuse themselves in their childhood. Their own unresolved trauma is by no means an excuse to hurt others, but it clearly points out the importance of dealing with these cases properly and giving all the support for recognition and recovery.
Thank you. You are correct in that any religious community needs to have checks and balances in place so as to diminish harm and handle harm when it is done. Our deen emphasizes justice.
Harm is baked into Islam. Is it just that no-one can just leave if they think Islam is wrong? How just is it to marry a child? How just is it to spread Islam by the sword? The deen is wedded to a 7th C medieval Arab culture.
These types of people do get bolder with time. I have personally experienced this heinous behavior from my qari. He was old and had 10 children of his own. It messes you up. Back then, I was a kid who wanted to improve my recitation and stay connected with the Quran on a daily basis. Well, he surely put a dent in it. It makes me cry to this day. Parents, please, please, never leave your children alone with their teachers under any circumstances. It is our responsibility and no one else. We will be questioned first about it. Men will be men, and abusers will continue to abuse more and more. Devil gets to all of us. Why leave it to chance!
Assalamualaikum, i appreciate this video, thank you. In our small masjid there are 30 children left alone with the imam to learn quran in the evening time. I am thinking about having presence there to ensure accountability and responsibility. May Allah guide us all. Ameen I'd appreciate advice. There really seems to be a lack of foresight and care in our masjid. I'm a mother of three young children 6, 3 and 1 years.
Jazzak Allah khair! This is so important to be elucidated, so others are aware of the harm that is imposed upon children by sick adults. I could tell you stories from my childhood about these so-called religious people who gravitate towards leadership positions where there are children they can exploit. I grew up in Dearborn Michigan and left the area a long time ago due to the systematic trauma that is continuously perpetuated by those in leadership roles. I ask Allah to protect us from all evil. Ameen!
Asalamu alikum sister. Thank you so much for this video and a topic that isn’t discussed enough, not only in the Muslim community, but in many immigrant communities. I work in community engagement for a large healthcare organization and am blessed to work with leaders in so many diverse spaces. I’m keenly aware of the stigma,that so many in communities of color,with getting professional mental health help. I understand the fear and I know that there would be greater acceptance of help if it was culturally aligned to one’s beliefs. I’ll be sending you a PM to share some thoughts with you. May Allah continue to bless you.
Salaam. I am a Muslim born and raised. I was extremely abused as a child molested and raped by men in family and one of their friends. Then as an adult raped by my boss. Of course the Muslim blamed me and I even as a child was blamed and told that I lied. So my whole life it was said I was a liar and exaggerate and I lie on men. It hurts sometimes how the Muslims treat me. I’m Muslim but I have no Muslim community. I have grown to not like Muslims deep in my heart because of how I have been treated.
I’m so sorry to read that you have been through such traumas. I believe you. It takes a lot of courage to speak out and seek help. I’m so sorry that you were not believed and supported the way that you should have been. I pray that you find healing and find a Muslim community that restores your faith in your fellow Muslims 🤲 🤲 🤲
I'm sorry. I can't imagine going through so much trauma and then being told it's my fault. May Allah make this test easier for your and grant you peace❤❤
May God protect the children abused and non abused from these predators. We have do better than what the Catholic priesthood does. Covering up nun murders, child molestation and what not. May God bless our Muslim community with able leaders who can bring this to fruition.
Parents should be more vigilant in this day and age. They must make their children aware of these incidents and train them properly. Technology can be used to protect them like wearing digital handwatch which will monitor the heart rate and stuff.
I read through these comments and a lot of people keep mentioning the separation of genders. While I agree that that is 100% a valid point and that Allah has implemented these restrictions and rules for our safety, no one seems to be wanting to address the fact that this type of abuse is not only perpetrated by men towards women or young girls. This is a disgusting, egregious vile behavior that is perpetrated by both men and women towards both genders. Men have abused other males and women have abused both males and females. I know several people who have been abused in this manner at the hands of someone of the same gender. No child should be left alone with a single person, period. Parents need to be much more diligent and protective of their children. As a mother of four, I would never leave my kids alone with anybody. Ever. It doesn’t matter if it’s a female. That’s not gonna happen. I would never send my girls to a female teacher because that would make them safe. I would never send my boys to a male teacher because that would make them safe. No one gets access to my children by themselves. Either myself or my husband have to be there, but no one is accessing my children alone. That includes family, teachers, religious leaders, nobody. Speaking of someone who has endured that type of abuse, once that damage is done, it can never be undone. I 100% agree that I would rather be overly paranoid when it comes to the safety of my children then risk something like that happening. The level of trauma that type of abuse causes can truly break somebody.
I have kids now in late teens and I was very protected toward my kids even with boys ,i never let them go alone in wash room .when they had practice ,I never left the ground and it was tough as I have different age group children.my kids at that time never like it but now they understand and my son who is 19 shared your channel I always wanted my son to do hafiz but that imam was transfer from other city and I never had good vibes and once my son said he watch videos in wash room ,we report it but our masjid board said we cannot get any imam for that salary .but I decided not to send my kids for hafiz and it is better they just learn how to read ans I hlep them memorize yes I did subscribed
"I have kids now in late teens and I was very protected toward my kids even with boys ,i never let them go alone in wash room .when they had practice ,I never left the ground and it was tough as I have different age group children.my kids at that time never like it but now they understand and my son who is 19 shared your channel" Could you kindly elaborate a bit on this?
I think she meant that no matter what, even though her kids were different ages, she never let them go to the bathroom by themselves despite the circumstance. They didn't like it when they were younger, however, as they grew up they understood why and they even appreciate this channel@@優さん-n7m
Salam , omg sis thanks a lot for making us aware! I subscribed to his YT channel a few years ago when i learned to read the Quran (at a mature age because of creepy imams in my area who taught when i was younger). I always found this guy Wisam a little strange , his techniques for teaching but this is a total shock! ALLAH bless you for your work and efforts in raising awareness. Ameen. New sub here !
Laa hawlaa wa laa quwwata illa billah 😢😮 I'm speechless!! How disappointing and heartbreaking 💔 😢 Yaa, Rab. When our leaders whom we look up to, and respect Dearly shame us 😢 whom do we turn to!!?? It is Only You we have Yaa Rabbal Allameen.
Thanks for addressing these topics, I never see anyone address them in this manner since our societies are all built on the culture of blaming the victim instead of the abuser, I have been SA by a family member, and a stranger on the street and in both cases when I spoke up I was banned from stuff like going to the souq with my mum where the stranger abused me, and with the case of the family member she played the victim and that she was young back then and no body questioned her, but I was interrogated and reprimanded since "it happened a long time ago you shouldn't have shared it now she's the only one now affected by it", well no she is not, after stopping the SA after almost being caught she continued abusing me in a different way mentally tortured me and by hitting me which is something I didn't realise was because she was scared I would remember and tell, these scares are still impeded in my mind and none of them are going away, and she is the victim when I exposed her? This is what culture would do to victims and this kind of culture needs to be gone, relatives, family friends and society won't be your witness on judgement day, your actions are, so we have to stop caring about what people think and what is comfortable and fix this ASAP, or more Muslims are going to diverge from Deen because of things that has nothing woth Islam teachings, all your ideas are gems I really hope an organisation works with you permanently to achieve this, I actually had this same thought about why there's no integration of our islamic teachings and aspect in any of the mental help institutions I payed to get treated with, keep the good work and I hope you addressing this would get the recognition it deserves 💐
Shukran for educating us on this subject. I agree with u as Muslims we often Deny that this could happen to us and also trying to engage with the the Ulamaa not responding to your call is very sad indeed as Muslims. 🙏🇿🇦
As a non- Muslim, I am totally impressed and intend to share my views with others. Non-Muslims, religious and non religious, tend to cover up the crimes . Epstien and the majority of US politicians are prime examples of having their crimes exposed. May God bless the man's wife.
Me and my sisters had numerous private meshabs to teach us, and only ONE out of many was sincere and knowledgeable, May Allah (swt) grant him janatul firdaus (Ameen). The rest were creepy, and only now as an adult I known what was going on. They only came for the money, took advantage of my parents nativity and vulnerability. They were the representatives of Islam for us and we did not know that was not Islam, but we grew up distant from Islam due to them and what we thought Islam was. It was greed for money and ulterior motives that grossed us out but alhamdulillah our first teacher built a solid foundation so we held onto that over the others, but my little sister grew with the other sickos that taught us and she is still traumatized.
In regards to the sick individuals who commit SA on anyone, the prison populations, Muslims and kafir alike, do not tolerate that whatsoever. They will automatically be put in segregation for their own safety. May Allah reward you sister, I'll recommend this channel.
Please make a website to alert ‼️ any stories against imams , list their names and allow to submit anonymous submissions against them , then a red flag should be placed infront of their names !! After 3 flags they should be contacted the mosques ! To keep eye on them
Jazakallah Khayr for this video. I do think our communities need to step up. There’s no benefit to finger pointing we need to productively move forward with an action plan. There are too many incidents or organizations covering up for child abusers and the same happening within families. Muslims showed genocide is a redline- time to show that child abuse should also be a redline.
Salam all sometimea family do not deal with abusers especially if its a family member. MOST IMPORTANTLY ABUSERS CAN BE MALE OR FEMALE NOT ALL MEN ARE PREDATORS.
The so called mother should be punished in this world and in the hereafter for a her cruelty towards her child!!! I don’t even allow my kids to use the restroom in the masjid without me taking them myself. As parents we can’t allow ourselves to let our guide down even in the masjid. As a kid my parents were extremely overprotective of me and my siblings at time I didn’t understand until I became a parent. Children are a blessing and as a parent it’s our responsibility to protect them at all times.
My faith is at its weakest, but I am the happiest I've been in forever-a bittersweet feeling. When I was younger, if I were on fire, my parents and other adult family members would stop and pray rather than grab a fire extinguisher. Islamic teachings were used to gaslight me, It tore me apart. Now, I'm stitching my soul back together through psychology and self-therapy. I believe many Muslims, in their journey of submission to Allah, have forgotten what He has given them. The disregard for human intellect is baffling; it seems we decided hundreds of years ago to stop learning. Islamic knowledge has become quantifiable, and anything newly discovered is labelled innovation, hypocrisy, blasphemy, or reformism. Ironically, even what we now call the most authentic forms of Islam were once under even worse scrutiny. I hope you succeed in your ambitions. You’re the only person I’ve seen who combines trauma science with Islam. Although your content is aimed primarily at women, it has helped me a lot in regaining trust in religion.
There is deafening silence from the sheikhs in America . They are not condemning these heinous acts. Why are they silent? Do they care about the wellness of their communities? It appears they are not listening ! One day they will run around just like mad people when the mosques and their institutions will be targeted as unsafe for the children !
These “leaders” “imams” “celebrity imams” don’t want the accountability they do not want oversight and they do not want to be held accountable. The boards and people are complicit by either benefitting directly or being blinded “Sheeple”. At this point it’s safe to say that every religious institution is tangled in corruption, the masajid, the charity orgs, the learning centers, etc. I’ve been involved as a member for nearly 30 years and I can safely say this is one major reason of why I want to make Hijra.
I think there’s an elephant in the room that needs to be addressed . Not talking about SA here at all which should get zero tolerance from the whole community , but what we are facing is a generation gap here . Society right now consists of parents who were brought up back home with different sets of norms & rules & kids growing up in the west whose standards of tolerance towards advice or even in being reprimanded by parents & elders is different. So much of what we Asian parents consider normal parenting is considered mental abuse by kids here . There is a disconnect that needs to be addressed and just hammering away the point that something is abuse because it’s defined as such by a western society is not going to convince a parent who has seen the success of Asian parenting by their own parents . Everyone is learning as we go and maybe more talks addressing this would help, InshaAllah .
Has the alleged abuser been found guilty? Has he had a chance to defend himself or have we just wholeheartedly accepted the statement of the Zionist FBI organisation.
I went on a pilgrimage and had this tour staff member continuously hit on me. I’m naive and raised in the west so I thought I was being nice. BIG MISTAKE! This creep pushed me into a crowd during jamarat and rubbed himself on my backside. It was so brazen, I was with a new friend I met there who witnessed it. The messed up part is after this, he continuously tried to get me alone with him, and hovered around me. There’s a lot of messed up perverts especially in such a holy place . I can’t imagine what’s being hidden.
@@blitzkrieg7081 this makes me so angry, I’m SO sorry you had to deal with that, and near the house of Allah, we have to start normalizing for women that it’s okay to say NO to creeps rather than us feeling like we need to be “nice” so we don’t appear as “blowing things out of proportion.”
@ Thank you for your lovely response. To make it worse, I notified the tour lead, he said he’ll handle it but instead removed me out of the WhatsApp group. Reflecting upon his behaviour, he was also quite predatory. Now I have a little PTSD but it has become a learning experience. Sadly, some men of our culture who claim to be Muslim, do this. Even a smile and a kind word, an introduction can be misconstrued for ‘ she’ interested’. I’ve lived in the west my whole life and never had this happen to me and to have it done to me at such a holy place has been a little traumatising.
As-Salaamualaikum sister .. I really appreciate you pointing out tge fact that leadership traditionally was based on Taqwa .. only problem is tgat today ppl know how to be fake and 2 faced .. so what are some practical solutions to prevent this?
Thank you sister for your video... If this so called imam proved to have done what was accued of, then he's a criminal & the law should be applied to him. He didn't only disgraced himself but Islam, because he was supposed to be a leader.....!!?
We live in times of fitnah never witnessed in history, never leave your kids alone with anyone. Teach them about personal space at school, and how to seek help if they are in a problem.
Islam has clear guidelines - Never be alone in a room with a woman (man), let there be a third person. Respect must be given to the former VP Pence, he did not have meetings alone with a woman.
@@Mett1234it does. It CAN be for the purposes of not opening the door to a consensual yet haram relationship, but it can also serve to hold people accountable. Of course, this doesn’t protect men from men or women from women, or children where a man and a woman may be abusing him/her, but I suspect a third in this situation likely would have shut it down quickly.
Go straight to the police whenever this happens. Do not let yourself be manipulated by organisations to make you let it go. In the imam nick case the ‘cultural misunderstanding’ excuse was so so disturbing. May Allah swt protect all of us especially the most vulnerable
A major issue today is the influence of freemixing and the spread of liberal ideologies within Western interpretations of Islam. Institutions like Al-Maghrib and figures such as YQ and OS have been called out for promoting a more liberal version of Islam, and now we see them making public statements like, "We never allow ourselves to be alone with women," as if to distance themselves from their previous stance. This shift highlights why traditional madrassa settings are so strict about interactions between males and females. They typically enforce complete separation, or in some cases, they avoid such mixed settings altogether. While it’s true that incidents of abuse, including pedophilia, have occurred in madrassas, it’s important to note that such issues are not unique to Islamic institutions. Abuse can happen in any sector-corporate, educational, or otherwise. The key is to ensure proper safeguards and accountability, not to dismiss or overlook the larger problem.
I dont really understand how you got to that conclusion at all. Free mixing and being alone w someone are two different things. I really wish the muslim community would actually deal w the issues it faces than just blame “liberalism.” It’s such a scapegoat. People deal w child R*pe and abuse and SA all over the world esp in so called muslim communities such as Pakistan. Way to see a problem and entirely miss the point
Yaqueen institute does not spread "liberal version of islam", it just spreads Islam. Instead of spreading false claims, go speak directly with Imam Omar Suleiman or Imam Tom.
It's NOT free mixing bad people have been molesting Children for generations and in this case it was via device and long distance not face to face. Stop spreading misinformation, it isn't free mixing. It is over video chat. Also they manipulate the mom in order to get the child it is Truly sick.
In Islam, free mixing of genders is discouraged to uphold modesty and prevent immorality. Unfortunately, many Western Islamic institutes seem to overlook this limit. We often see male and female scholars sitting face-to-face, laughing and engaging casually under the banner of Islamic discussions. Allah reminds us, *"These are the limits of Allah, so do not approach them."* (Quran 2:187). By respecting these boundaries (hudoodullah), we preserve the dignity and values Islam teaches us.
The ethnicity of the victims has not been revealed. Some may say this is not important. But I'm willing to bet that the victims are American reverts, who are particularly vulnerable to this type of exploitation because they don't have Muslim extended family or guardians. This issue never gets addressed publicly and the victims are often shamed out of the community after being victimized.
My husband personally knows Imam nick, that whole situation was very unfortunate and what they did to imam nick for standing up for the children was disappointing Making it seem like he didn’t understand the “culture” and etc They talked bad upon him for many years 4:59
As a non muslim…I agree, abuse of children goes on in and throughout religious communities all over the world. However, and with respect….you follow a prophet who took a 9yr old child to his bed. This man is a model for humanity..for all times. Indeed so much so, in many Islamic countries round the world this practice continues….i find this inexplicable…..
He's not celebrity shaihk he was a teacher of tajweed, i don't know if we cam call him shaihk, and I don't think he was celebrity either, because i personally and may others never heard of him till now.
This man taught quran and arabic. The question is: Did he understand the meaning of the quran and the guidance that came from the quran? We are living in a time of fitna and so much of wrongdoing, that it has become compulsory for everyone of us to internalise the meaning of the quran, and to live by the laws and commands of Allah.
@@HumbleLighty That’s an odd question, but yes, of course I would. That is the man I married and that is their Islamic right to be with their father. I didn’t mention it in the video but that’s because it’s a given.
@@Fx_Explains that’s a given. She was a mom who failed her daughter. But she doesn’t have access to hundreds of thousands of individuals like someone like her does.
Celebrity Shaikh, this is the first time I heard his name and I have been around for a while now. Please use your words wisely. Guilty he may be but the title is misleading.
@@blueboycaribbean3209 misleading how? Because you’re not familiar with the term? Then allow me to clarify, it is very common term used in the world of Islamic community work, references individuals who have a position of influence based on Islamic knowledge and are widely known. But Sheikh is actually not an Islamic term, it’s an Arabic term, anyone can be called sheikh, there’s no religious root to it, is is a term used to denote respect.
@alasryh You're just as manipulative and evil. Not just paranoia, but false accusations lead people with positions of power to commit these acts. I think you shouldn't be around children either, I wouldn't allow my family near you with how you make your own ideology up as you go. You labeled him celebrity, the first statement is correct not everyone knows of him just your community. Hundreds of thousands vs population over 8 billion. He had nothing against the world just the people he was dealing with.
Salaams…unfortunately that is all ‘Islamic institutions..tbh I don’t find any Islam in our Islamic institution…we will get back to you and they never do and this includes so called scholars’. I have always been disheartened with our Islamic institutions and Muslims as a whole.
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But sister it's not proven and if wrong, the defamation thumbnail is 80 lashes and it's definitely coming for Muslims through PElICANTHEORY
Although other religions lead by judail christians perhaps from maybe AU or US or EU but it's coming.
People should learn how to verify before using people's faces in thumbnails for views and other things.
🌟Thumbnail was defamation big Time!!!!!
Where is the video? All other people are on Twitter.?
2:29 child pee? As in urine?
“Whoever conceals the fault of his Muslim brother, Allah (SWT) will conceal his faults on the Day of Resurrection. Whoever exposes the fault of his Muslim brother, Allah will expose his faults, until He shames him, due to it, in his house.”
English translation: Vol. 3, Book 20, Hadith 2546
I’d rather be paranoid than allow my children a trauma. Amen to that. I completely agree. Protect our children at all costs
I was hoping Sharia Law be mentioned and its importance. Death penalty and punishments .
Use your mind for a sec at least. Have a good thought of your brother. You guys keep saying sharia law bla bla but my guy it’s the sharia law that tells you to have a good thoughts of your brother. Y’all will be lashed 80 times 😂😂 Forget about wisam sherif😂
Please go study your religion wallah y’all sounds like pure jahil.
@@jason-s8c salam, I was not familiar with the hadd in this case so I was not comfortable sharing without proper knowledge
@@alasryh i understand about the healing from trauma you discussed. I know West sees sharia as barbaric. But it’s part of Islam and should not be ignored. I know lot of Muslims don’t like to speak on this issue. Allahs mercy exists for a reason, same way punishments for crimes also exists. Jazakallah Khairan
I agree with this statement one hundred percent!
My mother didn’t even leave me alone with her father or her brothers alone. As a child I always wondered why this was the case.
Fast forward and I'm in my late 30s, i found out only this year that my best friend was m0lested by her paternal uncle from aged 8 to 11. She only opened up to her younger sister about this recently and found out that she too was being abused around the same time from the age of 7-10. By the same Uncle. Not only has it been an ongoing trauma, but tragically a trauma that has doubled in magnitude for them. I cried for weeks after 💔
I am forever grateful to my mother for her fierce protection over her children 💗
@@hennam that’s so heartbreaking and your mom knew deep down what she was protecting you from. May Allah protect her
Sharia Law exists for a reason..
sharias punishments exist for a reason
As far as healing I dont disagree with you sister
And some or a lot of men say they are protectors but it looks like more are destroying more than protecting
@@alasryh Ameen. Thank you, she sure did. I describe her wisdom as 'wordly'.
@@jason-s8cyou seem to forget that the same scholars will interpret the sharia law and it will definitely be in their favour!
Is anyone reaching out to the imams wife for support. She is the unsung hero in this case
So true...she really represents the great in Islam...someone else who have found excuses not to say anything may Allah bless her
@halimatoudiallo1029 she fulfilled "Amar bil maroof wa nahee anil munkar" duty
I hope she hasn’t been abandoned by her family and friends. Sadly, people who call this stuff out are usually blamed more than the perpetrator
@HA-vc5dl hopefully she can start a GoFundMe if she needs it and she should sue al maghrib and other employers for compe6. She should seek legal council ASAP
I agree. The wife’s just actions will keep others from being harmed.
Thank you for talking about this subject. My mom went to Hajj and he lead the group. My mom is devastated because she thought of the sheikh to be a great person and didn’t think this would ever happen. Educating our kids about the signs of abuse is SO important. May Allah reward you for educating us. Ameen
That's the problem with the ummah. Putting sheiks on a pedestal. After all they are human beings . And Satan touches us all
I'm a therapist, I've worked with substance users who have been through things as children we could only begin to think of. I also knew the sheikh in question when i myself was very young about 15 years ago. I have my own child now. My feelings around this have been numbness. I looked up to this man like my older brother. To know that there are babies out there that he HURT.....my heart is not the same. I'm still processing. I'm making dua for those children. I'm so so sorry for them.
When it comes to women’s issues in general- I’ve reached out to well known shaykhs about issues severely impacting women and it was dismissed or ignored. Until they listen nothing will change.
Unfortunately even the major dawah personalities don’t talk about this like Ali Dawah and Mohamed hijab or Daniel haqiqatjou. Ali Dawah will be quick to discuss polygamy 🙄
@@MaaliLuqman Subhan'Allah I can only imagine the frustration you may have felt. It is very annoying when you raise such concerning issues for it to be dismissed - which is a reflection of the individuals dismissing/ignoring such heinous crimes and sick behaviour.
It does go back to the issues of misogyny and how such misinterpreted and skewed understandings of Islam and womens' roles are widespread not just by men, but even some women too!
Stop a munkar with actions or words or at least feel it is wrong in your heart. What happens to those hearts that don't even feel it is wrong, over and over.
Alhamdulilah there will be people who speak and follow the commands and prohibitions decreed by Allah. There will be people whose words and actions are a reflection of Qur'an and Sunnah. There will be people who aren't misled by the ignorant, the liars or the extremists.
The promise of Allah is true that Islam will be preserved.
Abuse, corruption and oppression are a reflection of the people.
Islam will be in people that addresses injustices.
I was touched inappropriately at tutoring when I was 5 by an older person that the teacher asked to help me. I cant remember if it happened more than once, however I told my mom who told me to tell the teacher. I did that, she slapped that person in face and removed that person from tuition. I found out like 12 years later the teacher didn't tell his mother why she removed him. Other than that I wasn't too terribly affected because the right steps were taken swiftly, no joke I completely forgot for 10 years about it.
That's power of adressing things before it gets out of hand, harm is greatly reduced. Ofc this situation is a lot more extreme than mine Subhanallah.
I hear you when it comes to lack of appetite for trauma education. We just need to keep fighting. Don't give up.
Islam came to correct these issues....we should never worry about what the non muslims think of us.
We have to address them. Muslims are not perfect, islam is.
@@nubianqueen6700you being perfect or not perfect has 0 to do with how you treat people, you have to treat people very well, that perfection has to do with how you worship Allah or obeying his command when it comes to him,not your treatment of others, you can't abuse someone and say,oh well I might be Muslim but i am not perfect, Allah(SWA) will take that to account
Have you read what Mo got up to?
Non Muslims see Islam for what it is. Predatory. And medieval.
@@nubianqueen6700its just following common our ancestor teaching
Parents should learn Tajweed and Qirah on their own and teach their kids themselves at home. And if you can’t, at least send them girls to female teachers to reduce the risk of getting harassed by predators. This is an extremely upsetting incident and cases as such should never happen.
Women aren't to be fully trusted either, sadly. Although it's seemingly less common, it does happen among women as well.
It doesn’t just happen to females, young boys have also been victimised by these depraved men. The answer to unchecked male perversion isn’t to direct immediate attention toward women but to ask what leads these men to commit such vile acts and ensure disciplinary measures are enacted at a very young age to prevent them from even entertaining such evil. This predator had a very disturbing attitude as a religious leader. A lot of Dawah men are very loud spoken, excessively laugh and joke, while freely speaking to women, particularly non Muslim women as though they are entitled to free mix under the guise of religious teaching. This opens the door to much fitnah and you end up with vultures like this vile individual.
@@qmr0n While I blame the imam just as fully, the woman who was included in this scandal willingly did that to her own daughter. Human beings are vile no matter what gender, unfortunately. Shaytaan doesn't play easy.
Female teachers can be predators too,just so you know
@@nilox2823yes
This is a very delicate topic which needed to be brought to the table, Jazaka Allah khair
The sad thing is when the abuser is the actual father, grandfather, uncles… who in the world can we trust😢
Has the alleged abuser been found guilty? Has he had a chance to defend himself or have we just wholeheartedly accepted the statement of the Zionist FBI organisation.
Allah and Allah alone
The moment you put your trust in wordly matters, you are doomed. Put your trust in Allah swt and you will feel at ease. You will know that if Allah swt intends good for you nothing or nobody can stop no matter how much they try and if Allahswt doesn’t intend something for you nobody can change that . The bigger the test the more Allah SWT loves you.
Yeah its true we should put our trust in Allah alone.
However, don't we have an obligation to prevent evil? especially if the person doing it is a fellow Muslim brother. If left unadressed deviance will rampant, it can be dangerous to ummah and can lead to people's misunderstanding of the essence of the Islamic religion.
@@ikhlasulamaliyah8207exactly 🙌🙌🙌
Jazakillahu Khairun for this ❤ I feel like I have healed a little just by watching your videos for the last few months. Alhumdulillah 💕
Absolutely honoured you have aired this....way overdue. Thank you🤲
Unfortunately I don’t trust fathers anymore after what my father did while me and my siblings were growing up. I will never leave my child alone with any guy be it a father or uncles.
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Im so sorry to hear that. Knowledge negates ignorance. Educate these kids !
Im so sorry to hear that but in this case the mother was also the abuser. Women are often involved in orchestrating and facilitating abuse.
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Yes it’s tragic but statistics show kids are usually touched inappropriately by male relatives
@@TheNiqabiDiariesYes but this needs to be looked at in context. From what we know this woman was a white so called convert who had a Muslim sounding surname. Looking at her images it’s clear she is a disturbed individual who as one Shaykh put it, looks like a crack head. The question is how does she have a Muslim surname? She will have been in a relationship with a “Muslim” man. Another problem that conveniently gets overlooked in the community. How are these men from muslim families coming across these women? There are countless cases of haram relationships “Muslim” men are in that are brushed under the carpet. This woman wasn’t a normal woman or mother, I doubt she even was a Muslim but Allah Knows best. The point is Islam is being abused by these type of men by manipulating verses of the Quran and Hadith to fulfil personal sick pleasures. More needs to be done when it comes to raising boys and the unchecked freedoms they entitle themselves to. And women need to be more discerning rather than blind following of men who claim to be of religious authority.
I just found you. I know the sister in question and have hugged and loved her child. It breaks my heart. I took Shahada at the same time with this sister. We have been reverts for almost 30 years, and This mom even wore Niquab for years.. Our entire community is broken. They met through QR class back in 2021. Please pray for this sweet child that was abused by her own Mother! She was warned to stop talking to him outside of class but she was told by him he would marry him. We lost contact, she was living with another Sister at that time and was asked to leave as the sister could no longer support her for so long…This sister is hurt so much...This so called mother just got custody back in the last year. Groomed..but I blame my ex friend now! I was abused, the mom said she was abused, but she is a sociopathic liar. This has to stop ! He is being sent to Alabama for a trial. I imagine they will plead to avoid a trial but we will see. Thank you for the video. You bring me hope. JazakAllahKheir ( I will be in touch inshallah)
Salam sister, I think this is very important information for you to share with those conducting the investigation if you haven’t shared it already
Thanks for bring this live, it's a lot cases here related about ustadz/a and their childhood trauma, it's make me understand that parenting pattern is really affected someone's life. May Allah bless us to be a good parent who parenting right to our kids, and heal the muslim generation.. Aamiin ya rabb..
Well-done, sister, may Allah reward your efforts!
Those who commit SA were most likely victims of abuse themselves in their childhood. Their own unresolved trauma is by no means an excuse to hurt others, but it clearly points out the importance of dealing with these cases properly and giving all the support for recognition and recovery.
Thank you. You are correct in that any religious community needs to have checks and balances in place so as to diminish harm and handle harm when it is done. Our deen emphasizes justice.
Harm is baked into Islam. Is it just that no-one can just leave if they think Islam is wrong? How just is it to marry a child? How just is it to spread Islam by the sword?
The deen is wedded to a 7th C medieval Arab culture.
It's so 😔 sad to hear all of these things. Jazkallah sister for educating us.
سلام عليكم و جزاك الله خيرا..
I hope and Dua'ing the girl is safe ,and that she have support, love to go through this ,healing 💔
These types of people do get bolder with time. I have personally experienced this heinous behavior from my qari. He was old and had 10 children of his own. It messes you up. Back then, I was a kid who wanted to improve my recitation and stay connected with the Quran on a daily basis. Well, he surely put a dent in it. It makes me cry to this day.
Parents, please, please, never leave your children alone with their teachers under any circumstances. It is our responsibility and no one else. We will be questioned first about it.
Men will be men, and abusers will continue to abuse more and more. Devil gets to all of us. Why leave it to chance!
I'm glad I've learned tajweed from a good teacher when I was in my 20s, and then taught my family how to recite Qur'an using the tajweed rules
Assalamualaikum, i appreciate this video, thank you. In our small masjid there are 30 children left alone with the imam to learn quran in the evening time. I am thinking about having presence there to ensure accountability and responsibility. May Allah guide us all. Ameen
I'd appreciate advice. There really seems to be a lack of foresight and care in our masjid. I'm a mother of three young children 6, 3 and 1 years.
Jazzak Allah khair! This is so important to be elucidated, so others are aware of the harm that is imposed upon children by sick adults. I could tell you stories from my childhood about these so-called religious people who gravitate towards leadership positions where there are children they can exploit. I grew up in Dearborn Michigan and left the area a long time ago due to the systematic trauma that is continuously perpetuated by those in leadership roles. I ask Allah to protect us from all evil. Ameen!
Asalamu alikum sister. Thank you so much for this video and a topic that isn’t discussed enough, not only in the Muslim community, but in many immigrant communities. I work in community engagement for a large healthcare organization and am blessed to work with leaders in so many diverse spaces. I’m keenly aware of the stigma,that so many in communities of color,with getting professional mental health help. I understand the fear and I know that there would be greater acceptance of help if it was culturally aligned to one’s beliefs. I’ll be sending you a PM to share some thoughts with you. May Allah continue to bless you.
Salaam. I am a Muslim born and raised. I was extremely abused as a child molested and raped by men in family and one of their friends. Then as an adult raped by my boss. Of course the Muslim blamed me and I even as a child was blamed and told that I lied. So my whole life it was said I was a liar and exaggerate and I lie on men. It hurts sometimes how the Muslims treat me. I’m Muslim but I have no Muslim community. I have grown to not like Muslims deep in my heart because of how I have been treated.
I’m so sorry to read that you have been through such traumas. I believe you. It takes a lot of courage to speak out and seek help. I’m so sorry that you were not believed and supported the way that you should have been. I pray that you find healing and find a Muslim community that restores your faith in your fellow Muslims 🤲 🤲 🤲
I'm sorry. I can't imagine going through so much trauma and then being told it's my fault. May Allah make this test easier for your and grant you peace❤❤
I have been following you for a while, and i just realised the unique niche you occupy. Thank you
May God protect the children abused and non abused from these predators.
We have do better than what the Catholic priesthood does. Covering up nun murders, child molestation and what not.
May God bless our Muslim community with able leaders who can bring this to fruition.
Parents should be more vigilant in this day and age. They must make their children aware of these incidents and train them properly. Technology can be used to protect them like wearing digital handwatch which will monitor the heart rate and stuff.
Assalamu alaykum sister. Jazak Allah khair for talking about this. We cannot allow this to continue to our vulnerable ones.
I love your content and thank you for addressing this issue. Could you please make a video on how to educate our young children on this topic?
Salam sister. I agree with you 100%. May allah guide us all and keep us ALL safe.
May Allah swt Bless you for talking about this. You've addressed it well.
I read through these comments and a lot of people keep mentioning the separation of genders. While I agree that that is 100% a valid point and that Allah has implemented these restrictions and rules for our safety, no one seems to be wanting to address the fact that this type of abuse is not only perpetrated by men towards women or young girls. This is a disgusting, egregious vile behavior that is perpetrated by both men and women towards both genders. Men have abused other males and women have abused both males and females. I know several people who have been abused in this manner at the hands of someone of the same gender. No child should be left alone with a single person, period. Parents need to be much more diligent and protective of their children. As a mother of four, I would never leave my kids alone with anybody. Ever. It doesn’t matter if it’s a female. That’s not gonna happen. I would never send my girls to a female teacher because that would make them safe. I would never send my boys to a male teacher because that would make them safe. No one gets access to my children by themselves. Either myself or my husband have to be there, but no one is accessing my children alone. That includes family, teachers, religious leaders, nobody. Speaking of someone who has endured that type of abuse, once that damage is done, it can never be undone. I 100% agree that I would rather be overly paranoid when it comes to the safety of my children then risk something like that happening. The level of trauma that type of abuse causes can truly break somebody.
I have kids now in late teens and I was very protected toward my kids even with boys ,i never let them go alone in wash room .when they had practice ,I never left the ground and it was tough as I have different age group children.my kids at that time never like it but now they understand and my son who is 19 shared your channel
I always wanted my son to do hafiz but that imam was transfer from other city and I never had good vibes and once my son said he watch videos in wash room ,we report it but our masjid board said we cannot get any imam for that salary .but I decided not to send my kids for hafiz and it is better they just learn how to read ans I hlep them memorize
yes I did subscribed
"I have kids now in late teens and I was very protected toward my kids even with boys ,i never let them go alone in wash room .when they had practice ,I never left the ground and it was tough as I have different age group children.my kids at that time never like it but now they understand and my son who is 19 shared your channel"
Could you kindly elaborate a bit on this?
I think she meant that no matter what, even though her kids were different ages, she never let them go to the bathroom by themselves despite the circumstance. They didn't like it when they were younger, however, as they grew up they understood why and they even appreciate this channel@@優さん-n7m
What do you mean your sons watched videos in a washroom but reported it to a masjid?
@Moon-h1i5s ohh okay thx
Salam , omg sis thanks a lot for making us aware! I subscribed to his YT channel a few years ago when i learned to read the Quran (at a mature age because of creepy imams in my area who taught when i was younger). I always found this guy Wisam a little strange , his techniques for teaching but this is a total shock! ALLAH bless you for your work and efforts in raising awareness. Ameen. New sub here !
It's so scary. That's why I always try to do the classes in groups. And why I learned Quran and keep learning so that I can teach my own kids.
Laa hawlaa wa laa quwwata illa billah 😢😮
I'm speechless!! How disappointing and heartbreaking 💔 😢
Yaa, Rab. When our leaders whom we look up to, and respect Dearly shame us 😢 whom do we turn to!!?? It is Only You we have Yaa Rabbal Allameen.
Why would you turn to them ?
Thanks for addressing these topics, I never see anyone address them in this manner since our societies are all built on the culture of blaming the victim instead of the abuser, I have been SA by a family member, and a stranger on the street and in both cases when I spoke up I was banned from stuff like going to the souq with my mum where the stranger abused me, and with the case of the family member she played the victim and that she was young back then and no body questioned her, but I was interrogated and reprimanded since "it happened a long time ago you shouldn't have shared it now she's the only one now affected by it", well no she is not, after stopping the SA after almost being caught she continued abusing me in a different way mentally tortured me and by hitting me which is something I didn't realise was because she was scared I would remember and tell, these scares are still impeded in my mind and none of them are going away, and she is the victim when I exposed her?
This is what culture would do to victims and this kind of culture needs to be gone, relatives, family friends and society won't be your witness on judgement day, your actions are, so we have to stop caring about what people think and what is comfortable and fix this ASAP, or more Muslims are going to diverge from Deen because of things that has nothing woth Islam teachings, all your ideas are gems I really hope an organisation works with you permanently to achieve this, I actually had this same thought about why there's no integration of our islamic teachings and aspect in any of the mental help institutions I payed to get treated with, keep the good work and I hope you addressing this would get the recognition it deserves 💐
Powerful video, keep it up
Shukran for educating us on this subject. I agree with u as Muslims we often Deny that this could happen to us and also trying to engage with the the Ulamaa not responding to your call is very sad indeed as Muslims. 🙏🇿🇦
💯🎯. May Allah Aid us to handle these situations correctly in a way that helps communities and not damage communities. Ameen
Thank you. If the non Muslims are watching, we should show them how we deal with this sin.
As a non- Muslim, I am totally impressed and intend to share my views with others. Non-Muslims, religious and non religious, tend to cover up the crimes . Epstien and the majority of US politicians are prime examples of having their crimes exposed. May God bless the man's wife.
Recent update: My university institution has just put out a free small course on SA for all students along with numbers to call, Alhumdulllila
Me and my sisters had numerous private meshabs to teach us, and only ONE out of many was sincere and knowledgeable, May Allah (swt) grant him janatul firdaus (Ameen). The rest were creepy, and only now as an adult I known what was going on. They only came for the money, took advantage of my parents nativity and vulnerability. They were the representatives of Islam for us and we did not know that was not Islam, but we grew up distant from Islam due to them and what we thought Islam was. It was greed for money and ulterior motives that grossed us out but alhamdulillah our first teacher built a solid foundation so we held onto that over the others, but my little sister grew with the other sickos that taught us and she is still traumatized.
In regards to the sick individuals who commit SA on anyone, the prison populations, Muslims and kafir alike, do not tolerate that whatsoever. They will automatically be put in segregation for their own safety. May Allah reward you sister, I'll recommend this channel.
Crazy that they would rather keep a p3d@s. safe than society,makes you wonder how many pedos are in the justice system
Please make a website to alert ‼️ any stories against imams , list their names and allow to submit anonymous submissions against them , then a red flag should be placed infront of their names !! After 3 flags they should be contacted the mosques ! To keep eye on them
Jazakallah Khayr for this video. I do think our communities need to step up. There’s no benefit to finger pointing we need to productively move forward with an action plan. There are too many incidents or organizations covering up for child abusers and the same happening within families. Muslims showed genocide is a redline- time to show that child abuse should also be a redline.
May Allah protect us all
This kind of abuse affects you for life may Allah heal their hearts and mental health
بارك الله فيك. هذا موضوع جدا مهم .
الله يجزاك خير ❤
Very informative 👏
Astaghfirullah May Allah SWT protect all children from other evil people Ameen 🤲🏽
Salam all sometimea family do not deal with abusers especially if its a family member. MOST IMPORTANTLY ABUSERS CAN BE MALE OR FEMALE NOT ALL MEN ARE PREDATORS.
Yes but it's mostly men
The so called mother should be punished in this world and in the hereafter for a her cruelty towards her child!!!
I don’t even allow my kids to use the restroom in the masjid without me taking them myself. As parents we can’t allow ourselves to let our guide down even in the masjid. As a kid my parents were extremely overprotective of me and my siblings at time I didn’t understand until I became a parent. Children are a blessing and as a parent it’s our responsibility to protect them at all times.
My faith is at its weakest, but I am the happiest I've been in forever-a bittersweet feeling.
When I was younger, if I were on fire, my parents and other adult family members would stop and pray rather than grab a fire extinguisher. Islamic teachings were used to gaslight me,
It tore me apart. Now, I'm stitching my soul back together through psychology and self-therapy.
I believe many Muslims, in their journey of submission to Allah, have forgotten what He has given them. The disregard for human intellect is baffling; it seems we decided hundreds of years ago to stop learning. Islamic knowledge has become quantifiable, and anything newly discovered is labelled innovation, hypocrisy, blasphemy, or reformism. Ironically, even what we now call the most authentic forms of Islam were once under even worse scrutiny.
I hope you succeed in your ambitions. You’re the only person I’ve seen who combines trauma science with Islam. Although your content is aimed primarily at women, it has helped me a lot in regaining trust in religion.
There is deafening silence from the sheikhs in America . They are not condemning these heinous acts. Why are they silent? Do they care about the wellness of their communities? It appears they are not listening ! One day they will run around just like mad people when the mosques and their institutions will be targeted as unsafe for the children !
These “leaders” “imams” “celebrity imams” don’t want the accountability they do not want oversight and they do not want to be held accountable. The boards and people are complicit by either benefitting directly or being blinded “Sheeple”.
At this point it’s safe to say that every religious institution is tangled in corruption, the masajid, the charity orgs, the learning centers, etc. I’ve been involved as a member for nearly 30 years and I can safely say this is one major reason of why I want to make Hijra.
Pedophilia is a sickness you just don’t know who the predators are.
It's not a sickness,it's a vile and degenerate mentality,cancer is a sickness
Subhanallah. Its sad that people are worried more about their reputation than justice 😢😢
Trauma healing must interwine/be based on Islamic principles and practices (salah, dhikr, etc.).
I think there’s an elephant in the room that needs to be addressed . Not talking about SA here at all which should get zero tolerance from the whole community , but what we are facing is a generation gap here . Society right now consists of parents who were brought up back home with different sets of norms & rules & kids growing up in the west whose standards of tolerance towards advice or even in being reprimanded by parents & elders is different. So much of what we Asian parents consider normal parenting is considered mental abuse by kids here .
There is a disconnect that needs to be addressed and just hammering away the point that something is abuse because it’s defined as such by a western society is not going to convince a parent who has seen the success of Asian parenting by their own parents .
Everyone is learning as we go and maybe more talks addressing this would help, InshaAllah .
Malignant narcissist do this
Am divorcing one who did it !
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I’m so shocked of this brother I watched and learn Quran from him . May Allah give the child that was harmed justice 😢
Has the alleged abuser been found guilty? Has he had a chance to defend himself or have we just wholeheartedly accepted the statement of the Zionist FBI organisation.
This is why Sharia Law exists in Islam for a reason where people (even Muslims) in West call barbaric
Aameen
Is it Nouman Ali Khan or Omar Suleiman?
@@tdackjordan5873 no someone else
I went on a pilgrimage and had this tour staff member continuously hit on me. I’m naive and raised in the west so I thought I was being nice. BIG MISTAKE! This creep pushed me into a crowd during jamarat and rubbed himself on my backside. It was so brazen, I was with a new friend I met there who witnessed it. The messed up part is after this, he continuously tried to get me alone with him, and hovered around me. There’s a lot of messed up perverts especially in such a holy place . I can’t imagine what’s being hidden.
@@blitzkrieg7081 this makes me so angry, I’m SO sorry you had to deal with that, and near the house of Allah, we have to start normalizing for women that it’s okay to say NO to creeps rather than us feeling like we need to be “nice” so we don’t appear as “blowing things out of proportion.”
@ Thank you for your lovely response. To make it worse, I notified the tour lead, he said he’ll handle it but instead removed me out of the WhatsApp group. Reflecting upon his behaviour, he was also quite predatory. Now I have a little PTSD but it has become a learning experience. Sadly, some men of our culture who claim to be Muslim, do this. Even a smile and a kind word, an introduction can be misconstrued for ‘ she’ interested’. I’ve lived in the west my whole life and never had this happen to me and to have it done to me at such a holy place has been a little traumatising.
As-Salaamualaikum sister .. I really appreciate you pointing out tge fact that leadership traditionally was based on Taqwa .. only problem is tgat today ppl know how to be fake and 2 faced .. so what are some practical solutions to prevent this?
Salam do you have any good books on the intersection of Islam and Trauma healing
Thank you sister for your video...
If this so called imam proved to have done what was accued of, then he's a criminal & the law should be applied to him.
He didn't only disgraced himself but Islam, because he was supposed to be a leader.....!!?
We live in times of fitnah never witnessed in history, never leave your kids alone with anyone. Teach them about personal space at school, and how to seek help if they are in a problem.
جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا🌹
Islam has clear guidelines - Never be alone in a room with a woman (man), let there be a third person. Respect must be given to the former VP Pence, he did not have meetings alone with a woman.
Got nothing to do with grooming a child
@@Mett1234it does. It CAN be for the purposes of not opening the door to a consensual yet haram relationship, but it can also serve to hold people accountable. Of course, this doesn’t protect men from men or women from women, or children where a man and a woman may be abusing him/her, but I suspect a third in this situation likely would have shut it down quickly.
Go straight to the police whenever this happens. Do not let yourself be manipulated by organisations to make you let it go. In the imam nick case the ‘cultural misunderstanding’ excuse was so so disturbing. May Allah swt protect all of us especially the most vulnerable
Jazaki Allah Khair
God bless you. ❤
A major issue today is the influence of freemixing and the spread of liberal ideologies within Western interpretations of Islam. Institutions like Al-Maghrib and figures such as YQ and OS have been called out for promoting a more liberal version of Islam, and now we see them making public statements like, "We never allow ourselves to be alone with women," as if to distance themselves from their previous stance. This shift highlights why traditional madrassa settings are so strict about interactions between males and females. They typically enforce complete separation, or in some cases, they avoid such mixed settings altogether. While it’s true that incidents of abuse, including pedophilia, have occurred in madrassas, it’s important to note that such issues are not unique to Islamic institutions. Abuse can happen in any sector-corporate, educational, or otherwise. The key is to ensure proper safeguards and accountability, not to dismiss or overlook the larger problem.
This isn't about men and women though. Separating men and women would not resolve the issue because these are kids!
I dont really understand how you got to that conclusion at all. Free mixing and being alone w someone are two different things.
I really wish the muslim community would actually deal w the issues it faces than just blame “liberalism.” It’s such a scapegoat.
People deal w child R*pe and abuse and SA all over the world esp in so called muslim communities such as Pakistan.
Way to see a problem and entirely miss the point
Yaqueen institute does not spread "liberal version of islam", it just spreads Islam. Instead of spreading false claims, go speak directly with Imam Omar Suleiman or Imam Tom.
If freemixing is such a problem, explain why there are numerous cases of little BOYS being molested by MALE mullahs in madrassah?
It's NOT free mixing bad people have been molesting Children for generations and in this case it was via device and long distance not face to face. Stop spreading misinformation, it isn't free mixing. It is over video chat. Also they manipulate the mom in order to get the child it is Truly sick.
In Islam, free mixing of genders is discouraged to uphold modesty and prevent immorality. Unfortunately, many Western Islamic institutes seem to overlook this limit. We often see male and female scholars sitting face-to-face, laughing and engaging casually under the banner of Islamic discussions. Allah reminds us, *"These are the limits of Allah, so do not approach them."* (Quran 2:187). By respecting these boundaries (hudoodullah), we preserve the dignity and values Islam teaches us.
Got nothing to do with a man grooming a child
@MahmaHyder You are right. But we shouldn't overlook this problem too..one thing leads to another.
The ethnicity of the victims has not been revealed. Some may say this is not important. But I'm willing to bet that the victims are American reverts, who are particularly vulnerable to this type of exploitation because they don't have Muslim extended family or guardians. This issue never gets addressed publicly and the victims are often shamed out of the community after being victimized.
My husband personally knows Imam nick, that whole situation was very unfortunate and what they did to imam nick for standing up for the children was disappointing
Making it seem like he didn’t understand the “culture” and etc
They talked bad upon him for many years
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As a non muslim…I agree, abuse of children goes on in and throughout religious communities all over the world.
However, and with respect….you follow a prophet who took a 9yr old child to his bed. This man is a model for humanity..for all times. Indeed so much so, in many Islamic countries round the world this practice continues….i find this inexplicable…..
Thank you for this video❤️
He's not celebrity shaihk he was a teacher of tajweed, i don't know if we cam call him shaihk, and I don't think he was celebrity either, because i personally and may others never heard of him till now.
This man taught quran and arabic. The question is: Did he understand the meaning of the quran and the guidance that came from the quran?
We are living in a time of fitna and so much of wrongdoing, that it has become compulsory for everyone of us to internalise the meaning of the quran, and to live by the laws and commands of Allah.
Did he really understood what he reading?(Qu'aran)or just hafiz layssa Fahim.
It seems like these men are doing more harming than protecting
My beloved sister Hana, would you leave your child alone with your husband, their own father?
@@HumbleLighty That’s an odd question, but yes, of course I would. That is the man I married and that is their Islamic right to be with their father. I didn’t mention it in the video but that’s because it’s a given.
@@alasryh Thank you ♥️
the mother seem to have needed some guidance. as an adult, did she not have the wisdom not to follow that guy?
Also, let's not forget the one who actually recorded the videos and sent them, no any excuse for her either.
@@Fx_Explains that’s a given. She was a mom who failed her daughter. But she doesn’t have access to hundreds of thousands of individuals like someone like her does.
Hi any one can explain me what happened that teach what he did exactly? He did harassment
Celebrity Shaikh, this is the first time I heard his name and I have been around for a while now. Please use your words wisely. Guilty he may be but the title is misleading.
@@blueboycaribbean3209 misleading how? Because you’re not familiar with the term? Then allow me to clarify, it is very common term used in the world of Islamic community work, references individuals who have a position of influence based on Islamic knowledge and are widely known. But Sheikh is actually not an Islamic term, it’s an Arabic term, anyone can be called sheikh, there’s no religious root to it, is is a term used to denote respect.
@alasryh You're just as manipulative and evil. Not just paranoia, but false accusations lead people with positions of power to commit these acts. I think you shouldn't be around children either, I wouldn't allow my family near you with how you make your own ideology up as you go. You labeled him celebrity, the first statement is correct not everyone knows of him just your community. Hundreds of thousands vs population over 8 billion. He had nothing against the world just the people he was dealing with.
Actually, who cares about non-Muslims watching?! Such a disgusting act!
May Allah reward you Hana for talking about this.
maybe non muslims should find out, so maybe muslims will actually try and do something about this
Shut up@@MH-bf4uu
Allah SWT has exposed him before he could do more harm, alhamdulillah! It’s just shocking and beyond disgusting!!!
Wait is the scholar mentioned as seen on the pic?
Salaams…unfortunately that is all ‘Islamic institutions..tbh I don’t find any Islam in our Islamic institution…we will get back to you and they never do and this includes so called scholars’. I have always been disheartened with our Islamic institutions and Muslims as a whole.
Get'em muslimah!
Mashaa Allah sister ❤❤
the child will have to live with trauma for life now
Jazaakillah khairan sister for great job you’re doing. I’m saddened disappointed and speechless🥹
Has he been detained yet?!
Yea
He probably had it done to him and he’s now doing it to others.