My mother didn’t even leave me alone with her father or her brothers alone. As a child I always wondered why this was the case. Fast forward and I'm in my late 30s, i found out only this year that my best friend was m0lested by her paternal uncle from aged 8 to 11. She only opened up to her younger sister about this recently and found out that she too was being abused around the same time from the age of 7-10. By the same Uncle. Not only has it been an ongoing trauma, but tragically a trauma that has doubled in magnitude for them. I cried for weeks after 💔 I am forever grateful to my mother for her fierce protection over her children 💗
Thank you for talking about this subject. My mom went to Hajj and he lead the group. My mom is devastated because she thought of the sheikh to be a great person and didn’t think this would ever happen. Educating our kids about the signs of abuse is SO important. May Allah reward you for educating us. Ameen
I'm a therapist, I've worked with substance users who have been through things as children we could only begin to think of. I also knew the sheikh in question when i myself was very young about 15 years ago. I have my own child now. My feelings around this have been numbness. I looked up to this man like my older brother. To know that there are babies out there that he HURT.....my heart is not the same. I'm still processing. I'm making dua for those children. I'm so so sorry for them.
Parents should learn Tajweed and Qirah on their own and teach their kids themselves at home. And if you can’t, at least send them girls to female teachers to reduce the risk of getting harassed by predators. This is an extremely upsetting incident and cases as such should never happen.
When it comes to women’s issues in general- I’ve reached out to well known shaykhs about issues severely impacting women and it was dismissed or ignored. Until they listen nothing will change.
Unfortunately even the major dawah personalities don’t talk about this like Ali Dawah and Mohamed hijab or Daniel haqiqatjou. Ali Dawah will be quick to discuss polygamy 🙄
I was touched inappropriately at tutoring when I was 5 by an older person that the teacher asked to help me. I cant remember if it happened more than once, however I told my mom who told me to tell the teacher. I did that, she slapped that person in face and removed that person from tuition. I found out like 12 years later the teacher didn't tell his mother why she removed him. Other than that I wasn't too terribly affected because the right steps were taken swiftly, no joke I completely forgot for 10 years about it. That's power of adressing things before it gets out of hand, harm is greatly reduced. Ofc this situation is a lot more extreme than mine Subhanallah.
Unfortunately I don’t trust fathers anymore after what my father did while me and my siblings were growing up. I will never leave my child alone with any guy be it a father or uncles.
Has the alleged abuser been found guilty? Has he had a chance to defend himself or have we just wholeheartedly accepted the statement of the Zionist FBI organisation.
The moment you put your trust in wordly matters, you are doomed. Put your trust in Allah swt and you will feel at ease. You will know that if Allah swt intends good for you nothing or nobody can stop no matter how much they try and if Allahswt doesn’t intend something for you nobody can change that . The bigger the test the more Allah SWT loves you.
Yeah its true we should put our trust in Allah alone. However, don't we have an obligation to prevent evil? especially if the person doing it is a fellow Muslim brother. If left unadressed deviance will rampant, it can be dangerous to ummah and can lead to people's misunderstanding of the essence of the Islamic religion.
Has the alleged abuser been found guilty? Has he had a chance to defend himself or have we just wholeheartedly accepted the statement of the Zionist FBI organisation.
Parents should be more vigilant in this day and age. They must make their children aware of these incidents and train them properly. Technology can be used to protect them like wearing digital handwatch which will monitor the heart rate and stuff.
Laa hawlaa wa laa quwwata illa billah 😢😮 I'm speechless!! How disappointing and heartbreaking 💔 😢 Yaa, Rab. When our leaders whom we look up to, and respect Dearly shame us 😢 whom do we turn to!!?? It is Only You we have Yaa Rabbal Allameen.
Salam all sometimea family do not deal with abusers especially if its a family member. MOST IMPORTANTLY ABUSERS CAN BE MALE OR FEMALE NOT ALL MEN ARE PREDATORS.
I read through these comments and a lot of people keep mentioning the separation of genders. While I agree that that is 100% a valid point and that Allah has implemented these restrictions and rules for our safety, no one seems to be wanting to address the fact that this type of abuse is not only perpetrated by men towards women or young girls. This is a disgusting, egregious vile behavior that is perpetrated by both men and women towards both genders. Men have abused other males and women have abused both males and females. I know several people who have been abused in this manner at the hands of someone of the same gender. No child should be left alone with a single person, period. Parents need to be much more diligent and protective of their children. As a mother of four, I would never leave my kids alone with anybody. Ever. It doesn’t matter if it’s a female. That’s not gonna happen. I would never send my girls to a female teacher because that would make them safe. I would never send my boys to a male teacher because that would make them safe. No one gets access to my children by themselves. Either myself or my husband have to be there, but no one is accessing my children alone. That includes family, teachers, religious leaders, nobody. Speaking of someone who has endured that type of abuse, once that damage is done, it can never be undone. I 100% agree that I would rather be overly paranoid when it comes to the safety of my children then risk something like that happening. The level of trauma that type of abuse causes can truly break somebody.
Islam has clear guidelines - Never be alone in a room with a woman (man), let there be a third person. Respect must be given to the former VP Pence, he did not have meetings alone with a woman.
Asalamu alikum sister. Thank you so much for this video and a topic that isn’t discussed enough, not only in the Muslim community, but in many immigrant communities. I work in community engagement for a large healthcare organization and am blessed to work with leaders in so many diverse spaces. I’m keenly aware of the stigma,that so many in communities of color,with getting professional mental health help. I understand the fear and I know that there would be greater acceptance of help if it was culturally aligned to one’s beliefs. I’ll be sending you a PM to share some thoughts with you. May Allah continue to bless you.
The so called mother should be punished in this world and in the hereafter for a her cruelty towards her child!!! I don’t even allow my kids to use the restroom in the masjid without me taking them myself. As parents we can’t allow ourselves to let our guide down even in the masjid. As a kid my parents were extremely overprotective of me and my siblings at time I didn’t understand until I became a parent. Children are a blessing and as a parent it’s our responsibility to protect them at all times.
When faith is present just on your lips, but not in your life, you end up like this, as an hypocrit who's private life is not in accordance with what you preach. In this situation are 90% of us, fake people pretending to be bealivers.
I have kids now in late teens and I was very protected toward my kids even with boys ,i never let them go alone in wash room .when they had practice ,I never left the ground and it was tough as I have different age group children.my kids at that time never like it but now they understand and my son who is 19 shared your channel I always wanted my son to do hafiz but that imam was transfer from other city and I never had good vibes and once my son said he watch videos in wash room ,we report it but our masjid board said we cannot get any imam for that salary .but I decided not to send my kids for hafiz and it is better they just learn how to read ans I hlep them memorize yes I did subscribed
"I have kids now in late teens and I was very protected toward my kids even with boys ,i never let them go alone in wash room .when they had practice ,I never left the ground and it was tough as I have different age group children.my kids at that time never like it but now they understand and my son who is 19 shared your channel" Could you kindly elaborate a bit on this?
I think she meant that no matter what, even though her kids were different ages, she never let them go to the bathroom by themselves despite the circumstance. They didn't like it when they were younger, however, as they grew up they understood why and they even appreciate this channel@@優さん-n7m
In regards to the sick individuals who commit SA on anyone, the prison populations, Muslims and kafir alike, do not tolerate that whatsoever. They will automatically be put in segregation for their own safety. May Allah reward you sister, I'll recommend this channel.
May God protect the children abused and non abused from these predators. We have do better than what the Catholic priesthood does. Covering up nun murders, child molestation and what not. May God bless our Muslim community with able leaders who can bring this to fruition.
My faith is at its weakest, but I am the happiest I've been in forever-a bittersweet feeling. When I was younger, if I were on fire, my parents and other adult family members would stop and pray rather than grab a fire extinguisher. Islamic teachings were used to gaslight me, It tore me apart. Now, I'm stitching my soul back together through psychology and self-therapy. I believe many Muslims, in their journey of submission to Allah, have forgotten what He has given them. The disregard for human intellect is baffling; it seems we decided hundreds of years ago to stop learning. Islamic knowledge has become quantifiable, and anything newly discovered is labelled innovation, hypocrisy, blasphemy, or reformism. Ironically, even what we now call the most authentic forms of Islam were once under even worse scrutiny. I hope you succeed in your ambitions. You’re the only person I’ve seen who combines trauma science with Islam. Although your content is aimed primarily at women, it has helped me a lot in regaining trust in religion.
A major issue today is the influence of freemixing and the spread of liberal ideologies within Western interpretations of Islam. Institutions like Al-Maghrib and figures such as YQ and OS have been called out for promoting a more liberal version of Islam, and now we see them making public statements like, "We never allow ourselves to be alone with women," as if to distance themselves from their previous stance. This shift highlights why traditional madrassa settings are so strict about interactions between males and females. They typically enforce complete separation, or in some cases, they avoid such mixed settings altogether. While it’s true that incidents of abuse, including pedophilia, have occurred in madrassas, it’s important to note that such issues are not unique to Islamic institutions. Abuse can happen in any sector-corporate, educational, or otherwise. The key is to ensure proper safeguards and accountability, not to dismiss or overlook the larger problem.
I dont really understand how you got to that conclusion at all. Free mixing and being alone w someone are two different things. I really wish the muslim community would actually deal w the issues it faces than just blame “liberalism.” It’s such a scapegoat. People deal w child R*pe and abuse and SA all over the world esp in so called muslim communities such as Pakistan. Way to see a problem and entirely miss the point
Yaqueen institute does not spread "liberal version of islam", it just spreads Islam. Instead of spreading false claims, go speak directly with Imam Omar Suleiman or Imam Tom.
It's NOT free mixing bad people have been molesting Children for generations and in this case it was via device and long distance not face to face. Stop spreading misinformation, it isn't free mixing. It is over video chat. Also they manipulate the mom in order to get the child it is Truly sick.
Jazakallah Khayr for this video. I do think our communities need to step up. There’s no benefit to finger pointing we need to productively move forward with an action plan. There are too many incidents or organizations covering up for child abusers and the same happening within families. Muslims showed genocide is a redline- time to show that child abuse should also be a redline.
As-Salaamualaikum sister .. I really appreciate you pointing out tge fact that leadership traditionally was based on Taqwa .. only problem is tgat today ppl know how to be fake and 2 faced .. so what are some practical solutions to prevent this?
Thank you sister for your video... If this so called imam proved to have done what was accued of, then he's a criminal & the law should be applied to him. He didn't only disgraced himself but Islam, because he was supposed to be a leader.....!!?
Celebrity Shaikh, this is the first time I heard his name and I have been around for a while now. Please use your words wisely. Guilty he may be but the title is misleading.
@@blueboycaribbean3209 misleading how? Because you’re not familiar with the term? Then allow me to clarify, it is very common term used in the world of Islamic community work, references individuals who have a position of influence based on Islamic knowledge and are widely known. But Sheikh is actually not an Islamic term, it’s an Arabic term, anyone can be called sheikh, there’s no religious root to it, is is a term used to denote respect.
@@A.--. what does the tarbiya of the child have to do with them being abused? There is no fault of a child being groomed by their own parent and a trusted teacher.
@alasryh abused kids are more vulnerable to exploitation by everyone including parents, teachers, relatives. Having less kids allows more parental watch and training (aka tarbiya) so the kid is more protected. Too many children leads to lack of attention, neglect and suboptimal tarbiya. Guys use an IUD please
@@A.--. this truly is a non-issue. What allows for abuse to continue is that we have a culture that punishes victims and lets abusers get away with their abuse. I know individuals who were the only child and were abused and ones who had many siblings. There is a huge amount of pre work that has to happen which MOST parents don’t know how to do (how to educate their children on what abuse is, creating a safe relationship, where children could speak about anything that may have happened to them whether they understand it as abuse or not, who to go to to report abuse for investigation). This is a community issue.
@alasryh that case with the 1 child, were his parents a power couple focusing more on careers than him (her) or was one parent a full time caregiver? Im not against many children as long as parents can give proper Tarbiya and im not for sungle child if parents cant give Tarbiya. Im all for more education but i think parental neglect of duties is the Primary source of the problems
This case of perversion, promiscuity, and the sexual exploitation of certain men highlights the validity of Allah's Divine Laws as outlined in Sharia, particularly concerning modesty, hijab, and the appropriate levels of interaction between men and women. Those secularized Muslims who align themselves with the values of secularism and feminism, and who criticize or label Sharia as overly strict, are often misguided. Every commandment from Allah is designed to safeguard women and young girls from the predatory behaviors exhibited by individuals like this. It is essential to recognize the protective intentions behind these laws. But yet these Secularised so called Muslims are criticizing and barking at the Islamic Emirate of Afghanistan who is trying to implement Divine Laws of Hijab,modesty, level of male and female interaction that are ultimately intended to protect women. Allah's Laws are for the benefit of mankind, they are not to restrict them but to protect them from the dark evil inside them like this case in hand.
its funny how you think this happened due to secularism or feminism, even though many texan masjids have gone through similar things and many of them have tried to cover it up. People like you always use scapegoats such as feminism, when the issue is our own muslim community and how we are not strict with the evil people themselves
Sister its not about choosing the "right" leader. Its about systemic changes to prevent risks and pitfalls. A) imams should not teach opposite gender (his wife should or a female imam should) B) no kids left unsupervised with any imam C) gender segregation offline and online D) imam needs to keep his balls empty before leaving home E) no gender mixing (no APNA, ICNA etc conventions either) F) less kids to give more better tarbiya to each kid....every trauma starts at home with abandonment
Why Putting the face?? why publicly harassing someone the investigation didnt incriminate for sure yet??? why making a whole name, a whole family suffer?? why this worlds is resorting to such bad behaviour??? someone is criminal?? just say what is necessary and stop spreading evil
there is sufficient evidence in the fbi files... Anything as serious as this, regarding child abuse, should be taken very.seriously! There is no room for benefit or mercy for these kinds of horrid individuals causing deep pain for children.
@@zeldamiaz9858 hey hey stop it there..... enough of this BS..... evil is evil...... the abused kid will suffer because of HIS CRIMINAL ACT (if the investigation reveals its totally true), and the family of the criminal will also suffer because OF YOU, yes you ARE NEARLY AS CRIMINAL..... you and everyone propagating the same sh1t everytime some scandal happen.... and the ummah wil suffer because of YOU....... he did the act in silence he will not be responsible in the eyes of Allah of this mass mediatisation..... YOU WILL be accountable for that...... no one asked anyone to put the names, the faces or anything..... if anyone of these pitiful content makers were genuine, they would simply put no single reference to the person, not even saying " a famous quran teacher", they would simply warn people about these things to protect their kids..... (even if in this case, he isnt the main actor in this drama, even if the FBI want it to be so, the main culprit is sadly THE WICKED MOTHER according to the data)
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I’d rather be paranoid than allow my children a trauma. Amen to that. I completely agree. Protect our children at all costs
I was hoping Sharia Law be mentioned and its importance. Death penalty and punishments .
My mother didn’t even leave me alone with her father or her brothers alone. As a child I always wondered why this was the case.
Fast forward and I'm in my late 30s, i found out only this year that my best friend was m0lested by her paternal uncle from aged 8 to 11. She only opened up to her younger sister about this recently and found out that she too was being abused around the same time from the age of 7-10. By the same Uncle. Not only has it been an ongoing trauma, but tragically a trauma that has doubled in magnitude for them. I cried for weeks after 💔
I am forever grateful to my mother for her fierce protection over her children 💗
@@hennam that’s so heartbreaking and your mom knew deep down what she was protecting you from. May Allah protect her
Sharia Law exists for a reason..
sharias punishments exist for a reason
As far as healing I dont disagree with you sister
Thank you for talking about this subject. My mom went to Hajj and he lead the group. My mom is devastated because she thought of the sheikh to be a great person and didn’t think this would ever happen. Educating our kids about the signs of abuse is SO important. May Allah reward you for educating us. Ameen
Is anyone reaching out to the imams wife for support. She is the unsung hero in this case
So true...she really represents the great in Islam...someone else who have found excuses not to say anything may Allah bless her
@halimatoudiallo1029 she fulfilled "Amar bil maroof wa nahee anil munkar" duty
Islam came to correct these issues....we should never worry about what the non muslims think of us.
I'm a therapist, I've worked with substance users who have been through things as children we could only begin to think of. I also knew the sheikh in question when i myself was very young about 15 years ago. I have my own child now. My feelings around this have been numbness. I looked up to this man like my older brother. To know that there are babies out there that he HURT.....my heart is not the same. I'm still processing. I'm making dua for those children. I'm so so sorry for them.
Parents should learn Tajweed and Qirah on their own and teach their kids themselves at home. And if you can’t, at least send them girls to female teachers to reduce the risk of getting harassed by predators. This is an extremely upsetting incident and cases as such should never happen.
When it comes to women’s issues in general- I’ve reached out to well known shaykhs about issues severely impacting women and it was dismissed or ignored. Until they listen nothing will change.
Unfortunately even the major dawah personalities don’t talk about this like Ali Dawah and Mohamed hijab or Daniel haqiqatjou. Ali Dawah will be quick to discuss polygamy 🙄
I was touched inappropriately at tutoring when I was 5 by an older person that the teacher asked to help me. I cant remember if it happened more than once, however I told my mom who told me to tell the teacher. I did that, she slapped that person in face and removed that person from tuition. I found out like 12 years later the teacher didn't tell his mother why she removed him. Other than that I wasn't too terribly affected because the right steps were taken swiftly, no joke I completely forgot for 10 years about it.
That's power of adressing things before it gets out of hand, harm is greatly reduced. Ofc this situation is a lot more extreme than mine Subhanallah.
I'm glad I've learned tajweed from a good teacher when I was in my 20s, and then taught my family how to recite Qur'an using the tajweed rules
Unfortunately I don’t trust fathers anymore after what my father did while me and my siblings were growing up. I will never leave my child alone with any guy be it a father or uncles.
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Im so sorry to hear that. Knowledge negates ignorance. Educate these kids !
I hear you when it comes to lack of appetite for trauma education. We just need to keep fighting. Don't give up.
This is a very delicate topic which needed to be brought to the table, Jazaka Allah khair
The sad thing is when the abuser is the actual father, grandfather, uncles… who in the world can we trust😢
Has the alleged abuser been found guilty? Has he had a chance to defend himself or have we just wholeheartedly accepted the statement of the Zionist FBI organisation.
Allah and Allah alone
The moment you put your trust in wordly matters, you are doomed. Put your trust in Allah swt and you will feel at ease. You will know that if Allah swt intends good for you nothing or nobody can stop no matter how much they try and if Allahswt doesn’t intend something for you nobody can change that . The bigger the test the more Allah SWT loves you.
Yeah its true we should put our trust in Allah alone.
However, don't we have an obligation to prevent evil? especially if the person doing it is a fellow Muslim brother. If left unadressed deviance will rampant, it can be dangerous to ummah and can lead to people's misunderstanding of the essence of the Islamic religion.
@@ikhlasulamaliyah8207exactly 🙌🙌🙌
Salam sister. I agree with you 100%. May allah guide us all and keep us ALL safe.
سلام عليكم و جزاك الله خيرا..
I hope and Dua'ing the girl is safe ,and that she have support, love to go through this ,healing 💔
Jazakillahu Khairun for this ❤ I feel like I have healed a little just by watching your videos for the last few months. Alhumdulillah 💕
It's so 😔 sad to hear all of these things. Jazkallah sister for educating us.
"Celebrity Sheikh" = Oxymoron
Any celebrity religious leader has such a high level of responsibility like thats a power even regular entertainment celebs dont have imo
I’m so shocked of this brother I watched and learn Quran from him . May Allah give the child that was harmed justice 😢
Has the alleged abuser been found guilty? Has he had a chance to defend himself or have we just wholeheartedly accepted the statement of the Zionist FBI organisation.
This is why Sharia Law exists in Islam for a reason where people (even Muslims) in West call barbaric
Aameen
Is it Nouman Ali Khan or Omar Suleiman?
@@tdackjordan5873 no someone else
Parents should be more vigilant in this day and age. They must make their children aware of these incidents and train them properly. Technology can be used to protect them like wearing digital handwatch which will monitor the heart rate and stuff.
Laa hawlaa wa laa quwwata illa billah 😢😮
I'm speechless!! How disappointing and heartbreaking 💔 😢
Yaa, Rab. When our leaders whom we look up to, and respect Dearly shame us 😢 whom do we turn to!!?? It is Only You we have Yaa Rabbal Allameen.
Pedophilia is a sickness you just don’t know who the predators are.
Salam all sometimea family do not deal with abusers especially if its a family member. MOST IMPORTANTLY ABUSERS CAN BE MALE OR FEMALE NOT ALL MEN ARE PREDATORS.
I read through these comments and a lot of people keep mentioning the separation of genders. While I agree that that is 100% a valid point and that Allah has implemented these restrictions and rules for our safety, no one seems to be wanting to address the fact that this type of abuse is not only perpetrated by men towards women or young girls. This is a disgusting, egregious vile behavior that is perpetrated by both men and women towards both genders. Men have abused other males and women have abused both males and females. I know several people who have been abused in this manner at the hands of someone of the same gender. No child should be left alone with a single person, period. Parents need to be much more diligent and protective of their children. As a mother of four, I would never leave my kids alone with anybody. Ever. It doesn’t matter if it’s a female. That’s not gonna happen. I would never send my girls to a female teacher because that would make them safe. I would never send my boys to a male teacher because that would make them safe. No one gets access to my children by themselves. Either myself or my husband have to be there, but no one is accessing my children alone. That includes family, teachers, religious leaders, nobody. Speaking of someone who has endured that type of abuse, once that damage is done, it can never be undone. I 100% agree that I would rather be overly paranoid when it comes to the safety of my children then risk something like that happening. The level of trauma that type of abuse causes can truly break somebody.
May Allah swt Bless you for talking about this. You've addressed it well.
It's so scary. That's why I always try to do the classes in groups. And why I learned Quran and keep learning so that I can teach my own kids.
Islam has clear guidelines - Never be alone in a room with a woman (man), let there be a third person. Respect must be given to the former VP Pence, he did not have meetings alone with a woman.
Asalamu alikum sister. Thank you so much for this video and a topic that isn’t discussed enough, not only in the Muslim community, but in many immigrant communities. I work in community engagement for a large healthcare organization and am blessed to work with leaders in so many diverse spaces. I’m keenly aware of the stigma,that so many in communities of color,with getting professional mental health help. I understand the fear and I know that there would be greater acceptance of help if it was culturally aligned to one’s beliefs. I’ll be sending you a PM to share some thoughts with you. May Allah continue to bless you.
The so called mother should be punished in this world and in the hereafter for a her cruelty towards her child!!!
I don’t even allow my kids to use the restroom in the masjid without me taking them myself. As parents we can’t allow ourselves to let our guide down even in the masjid. As a kid my parents were extremely overprotective of me and my siblings at time I didn’t understand until I became a parent. Children are a blessing and as a parent it’s our responsibility to protect them at all times.
When faith is present just on your lips, but not in your life, you end up like this, as an hypocrit who's private life is not in accordance with what you preach. In this situation are 90% of us, fake people pretending to be bealivers.
May Allah forgive us😢
I have kids now in late teens and I was very protected toward my kids even with boys ,i never let them go alone in wash room .when they had practice ,I never left the ground and it was tough as I have different age group children.my kids at that time never like it but now they understand and my son who is 19 shared your channel
I always wanted my son to do hafiz but that imam was transfer from other city and I never had good vibes and once my son said he watch videos in wash room ,we report it but our masjid board said we cannot get any imam for that salary .but I decided not to send my kids for hafiz and it is better they just learn how to read ans I hlep them memorize
yes I did subscribed
"I have kids now in late teens and I was very protected toward my kids even with boys ,i never let them go alone in wash room .when they had practice ,I never left the ground and it was tough as I have different age group children.my kids at that time never like it but now they understand and my son who is 19 shared your channel"
Could you kindly elaborate a bit on this?
I think she meant that no matter what, even though her kids were different ages, she never let them go to the bathroom by themselves despite the circumstance. They didn't like it when they were younger, however, as they grew up they understood why and they even appreciate this channel@@優さん-n7m
What do you mean your sons watched videos in a washroom but reported it to a masjid?
Very informative 👏
In regards to the sick individuals who commit SA on anyone, the prison populations, Muslims and kafir alike, do not tolerate that whatsoever. They will automatically be put in segregation for their own safety. May Allah reward you sister, I'll recommend this channel.
Trauma healing must interwine/be based on Islamic principles and practices (salah, dhikr, etc.).
May God protect the children abused and non abused from these predators.
We have do better than what the Catholic priesthood does. Covering up nun murders, child molestation and what not.
May God bless our Muslim community with able leaders who can bring this to fruition.
Jazaki Allah Khair
My faith is at its weakest, but I am the happiest I've been in forever-a bittersweet feeling.
When I was younger, if I were on fire, my parents and other adult family members would stop and pray rather than grab a fire extinguisher. Islamic teachings were used to gaslight me,
It tore me apart. Now, I'm stitching my soul back together through psychology and self-therapy.
I believe many Muslims, in their journey of submission to Allah, have forgotten what He has given them. The disregard for human intellect is baffling; it seems we decided hundreds of years ago to stop learning. Islamic knowledge has become quantifiable, and anything newly discovered is labelled innovation, hypocrisy, blasphemy, or reformism. Ironically, even what we now call the most authentic forms of Islam were once under even worse scrutiny.
I hope you succeed in your ambitions. You’re the only person I’ve seen who combines trauma science with Islam. Although your content is aimed primarily at women, it has helped me a lot in regaining trust in religion.
A major issue today is the influence of freemixing and the spread of liberal ideologies within Western interpretations of Islam. Institutions like Al-Maghrib and figures such as YQ and OS have been called out for promoting a more liberal version of Islam, and now we see them making public statements like, "We never allow ourselves to be alone with women," as if to distance themselves from their previous stance. This shift highlights why traditional madrassa settings are so strict about interactions between males and females. They typically enforce complete separation, or in some cases, they avoid such mixed settings altogether. While it’s true that incidents of abuse, including pedophilia, have occurred in madrassas, it’s important to note that such issues are not unique to Islamic institutions. Abuse can happen in any sector-corporate, educational, or otherwise. The key is to ensure proper safeguards and accountability, not to dismiss or overlook the larger problem.
This isn't about men and women though. Separating men and women would not resolve the issue because these are kids!
I dont really understand how you got to that conclusion at all. Free mixing and being alone w someone are two different things.
I really wish the muslim community would actually deal w the issues it faces than just blame “liberalism.” It’s such a scapegoat.
People deal w child R*pe and abuse and SA all over the world esp in so called muslim communities such as Pakistan.
Way to see a problem and entirely miss the point
Yaqueen institute does not spread "liberal version of islam", it just spreads Islam. Instead of spreading false claims, go speak directly with Imam Omar Suleiman or Imam Tom.
If freemixing is such a problem, explain why there are numerous cases of little BOYS being molested by MALE mullahs in madrassah?
It's NOT free mixing bad people have been molesting Children for generations and in this case it was via device and long distance not face to face. Stop spreading misinformation, it isn't free mixing. It is over video chat. Also they manipulate the mom in order to get the child it is Truly sick.
Jazakallah Khayr for this video. I do think our communities need to step up. There’s no benefit to finger pointing we need to productively move forward with an action plan. There are too many incidents or organizations covering up for child abusers and the same happening within families. Muslims showed genocide is a redline- time to show that child abuse should also be a redline.
جزاک اللہ خیرا کثیرا🌹
Salam do you have any good books on the intersection of Islam and Trauma healing
As-Salaamualaikum sister .. I really appreciate you pointing out tge fact that leadership traditionally was based on Taqwa .. only problem is tgat today ppl know how to be fake and 2 faced .. so what are some practical solutions to prevent this?
Thank you sister for your video...
If this so called imam proved to have done what was accued of, then he's a criminal & the law should be applied to him.
He didn't only disgraced himself but Islam, because he was supposed to be a leader.....!!?
Malignant narcissist do this
Am divorcing one who did it !
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Thank you for this video❤️
Allah SWT has exposed him before he could do more harm, alhamdulillah! It’s just shocking and beyond disgusting!!!
Get'em muslimah!
In Shaa Allah is false
I can’t believe it 😢😢😢😢
Actually, who cares about non-Muslims watching?! Such a disgusting act!
May Allah reward you Hana for talking about this.
maybe non muslims should find out, so maybe muslims will actually try and do something about this
Celebrity Shaikh, this is the first time I heard his name and I have been around for a while now. Please use your words wisely. Guilty he may be but the title is misleading.
@@blueboycaribbean3209 misleading how? Because you’re not familiar with the term? Then allow me to clarify, it is very common term used in the world of Islamic community work, references individuals who have a position of influence based on Islamic knowledge and are widely known. But Sheikh is actually not an Islamic term, it’s an Arabic term, anyone can be called sheikh, there’s no religious root to it, is is a term used to denote respect.
Mashaa Allah sister ❤❤
Has he been detained yet?!
Yea
It happens in Madrassas too. Even Deobandi founders have documen6in their books that they wiuld tub each other in dirty ways.
100% agree
Parents first of all stop having too many kids when you cant give them proper tarbiya
@@A.--. what does the tarbiya of the child have to do with them being abused? There is no fault of a child being groomed by their own parent and a trusted teacher.
@alasryh abused kids are more vulnerable to exploitation by everyone including parents, teachers, relatives.
Having less kids allows more parental watch and training (aka tarbiya) so the kid is more protected.
Too many children leads to lack of attention, neglect and suboptimal tarbiya.
Guys use an IUD please
@@A.--. this truly is a non-issue. What allows for abuse to continue is that we have a culture that punishes victims and lets abusers get away with their abuse. I know individuals who were the only child and were abused and ones who had many siblings. There is a huge amount of pre work that has to happen which MOST parents don’t know how to do (how to educate their children on what abuse is, creating a safe relationship, where children could speak about anything that may have happened to them whether they understand it as abuse or not, who to go to to report abuse for investigation). This is a community issue.
@alasryh that case with the 1 child, were his parents a power couple focusing more on careers than him (her) or was one parent a full time caregiver?
Im not against many children as long as parents can give proper Tarbiya and im not for sungle child if parents cant give Tarbiya.
Im all for more education but i think parental neglect of duties is the Primary source of the problems
This case of perversion, promiscuity, and the sexual exploitation of certain men highlights the validity of Allah's Divine Laws as outlined in Sharia, particularly concerning modesty, hijab, and the appropriate levels of interaction between men and women. Those secularized Muslims who align themselves with the values of secularism and feminism, and who criticize or label Sharia as overly strict, are often misguided. Every commandment from Allah is designed to safeguard women and young girls from the predatory behaviors exhibited by individuals like this. It is essential to recognize the protective intentions behind these laws. But yet these Secularised so called Muslims are criticizing and barking at the Islamic Emirate of Afghanistan who is trying to implement Divine Laws of Hijab,modesty, level of male and female interaction that are ultimately intended to protect women. Allah's Laws are for the benefit of mankind, they are not to restrict them but to protect them from the dark evil inside them like this case in hand.
its funny how you think this happened due to secularism or feminism, even though many texan masjids have gone through similar things and many of them have tried to cover it up. People like you always use scapegoats such as feminism, when the issue is our own muslim community and how we are not strict with the evil people themselves
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Sister its not about choosing the "right" leader. Its about systemic changes to prevent risks and pitfalls.
A) imams should not teach opposite gender (his wife should or a female imam should)
B) no kids left unsupervised with any imam
C) gender segregation offline and online
D) imam needs to keep his balls empty before leaving home
E) no gender mixing (no APNA, ICNA etc conventions either)
F) less kids to give more better tarbiya to each kid....every trauma starts at home with abandonment
What on earth do you mean by D)???????
@saraleena007 it means smash everyday before leaving home
What is wrong with you? You are acting like child grooming is something normal that anyone falls into when they are tempted. Bet you are one of them
@@MH-bf4uu hi, who is your question for?
@@saraleena007the initial comment
Jazaakillah khairan sister for great job you’re doing. I’m saddened disappointed and speechless🥹
Why Putting the face?? why publicly harassing someone the investigation didnt incriminate for sure yet??? why making a whole name, a whole family suffer?? why this worlds is resorting to such bad behaviour??? someone is criminal?? just say what is necessary and stop spreading evil
there is sufficient evidence in the fbi files... Anything as serious as this, regarding child abuse, should be taken very.seriously! There is no room for benefit or mercy for these kinds of horrid individuals causing deep pain for children.
@@zeldamiaz9858 hey hey stop it there..... enough of this BS..... evil is evil...... the abused kid will suffer because of HIS CRIMINAL ACT (if the investigation reveals its totally true), and the family of the criminal will also suffer because OF YOU, yes you ARE NEARLY AS CRIMINAL..... you and everyone propagating the same sh1t everytime some scandal happen.... and the ummah wil suffer because of YOU....... he did the act in silence he will not be responsible in the eyes of Allah of this mass mediatisation..... YOU WILL be accountable for that...... no one asked anyone to put the names, the faces or anything..... if anyone of these pitiful content makers were genuine, they would simply put no single reference to the person, not even saying " a famous quran teacher", they would simply warn people about these things to protect their kids..... (even if in this case, he isnt the main actor in this drama, even if the FBI want it to be so, the main culprit is sadly THE WICKED MOTHER according to the data)
Allah SWT has exposed him before he could do more harm, alhamdulillah! It’s just shocking and beyond disgusting!!!