As a 16 year old girl who comes from a home of shirk, where I’ve been mocked for dressing modest and not wanting to wear makeup. I really needed this, thank you so much ❤️
I grew up in shirk and thought it was normal ( though family called themselves Muslim). After I found my way, I was abused verbally. It was mentally exhausting. Everything I did was scrutinized and family members used to say I think I'm better then them. Ofc I never, I just wanted to end that way of life. Do you regardless of what others say. That's what's bought me inner peace
Im a Dad who occasionally listens to your videos with interest. I have forwarded my 16 year old a few of them in the past. This one i played out loud on the car speaker on our way home this evening. Inshallah she sincerely heard and took to heart the amazing message in your video. Jazakallah for sharing.
I used to wear it everyday at school until i found out it was considered adornment , so then i stopped. Im glad i never become reliant on it Alhamdulillah
Thank you for making this video sis. I used to be a makeup artist. It was my job and I was good at it. But the more clients I worked on, the more I understood how much they hated themselves and how much they want to change their appearance. It made me sad to see so many women who couldn't bare to see their faces without makeup. This made me walk away from makeup artistry because I didn't want to propagate the idea that women need makeup to feel/look good. It still astonishes me that we think we will only look presentable in the work place, or the wedding, if we are wearing makeup. We're distorting our God given beautiful faces, just to please others and many of us have yet to realize that. May Allah guide us all.
@@ugeshnikhan such an interesting perspective as a makeup artist! Thank you for sharing. I love getting my makeup professionally done but never at the expense of self-hatred!
powerful, WOW! What an insight! Heck, even socalled "MEN" are going for skinwhitening creams. Shameful. 🤦😬 We obsess over outward appearances forgetting that real beauty lies in the heart, mind, and soul that ONLY ALLAH ALONE can beautify by His Mercy when we come close to Him. Allahu Akbar.
@maddiec6186 It was the way they spoke about themselves. The comments they would make about their features and how they wanted it "fixed". How they thought I was some saviour who turned them from ugly into beautiful. How they wished they looked like Kim K or some other celebrity. It was clear that they had attached their worth to their appearance, and they only felt worthy when they were covered in makeup. Some are going further than makeup and want more permanent solutions. The number of young women that want to get lip plumping injections, or "corrective" nose surgery is heart breaking. If this is not a sign of self-hatred, I don't know what is.
I watched the whole Video sis and all I can say is May Allah reward you for talking about the things that we all need to hear as muslim sisters and im ngl the truth stings but its needed and its a sign and guidance from Allah. Makes it even better that you are practicing what you preach. I know its not easy, I also recently embarked on the jjourney to stop wearing makeup and its soooo hard but may Allah reward us for our efforts.
You're beautiful without makeup. Your confidence, honesty and natural beauty raises the vibrations. This Is what I like. This is what I love- authenticity.
Your content is absolute gold! I found this very encouraging and uplifting. You give off wise older sister vibes. May Allah bless you and increase you. This is what I call Muslim women empowering Muslim women. I appreciate your insights are coming from a place of genuine concern, and not judgement of others. It’s refreshing to see that you are not pandering to other people’s whims and desires. It doesn’t matter if everyone is doing something, it doesn’t make it right and it doesn’t mean you should follow it. JazakAllah khayr and please keep the videos coming! 🥰
@@thehkprojectxo thank you sis ❤️love that it gives older sister vibes. I’m the youngest but an aunt to a LOT of nieces so that’s likely where it comes from. Eventually I’ll get “canceled” for something, but I intend to put out content that supports the healing (body, mind AND soul) of Muslim women, regardless of if it makes people uncomfortable.
@@alasryh You are rizq to your nieces. I pray Allah enables them all to benefit from your insights and advice as they journey through their lives. There will always be a group of us who will be here to support you in your pursuit of speaking the truth ❤️ Your last point reminded me of this ayah: قَالَ يَا قَوْمِ أَرَأَيْتُمْ إِن كُنتُ عَلَىٰ بَيِّنَةٍ مِّن رَّبِّي وَرَزَقَنِي مِنْهُ رِزْقًا حَسَنًا وَمَا أُرِيدُ أَنْ أُخَالِفَكُمْ إِلَىٰ مَا أَنْهَاكُمْ عَنْهُ إِنْ أُرِيدُ إِلَّا الْإِصْلَاحَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ وَمَا تَوْفِيقِي إِلَّا بِاللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَإِلَيْهِ أُنِيبُ “He said, "O my people, have you considered: if I am upon clear evidence from my Lord and He has provided me with a good provision from Him...? And I do not intend to differ from you in that which I have forbidden you; I only intend reform as much as I am able. And my success is not but through Allah. Upon him I have relied, and to Him I return.” (11:88)
Thank you Hana, I needed this. Long ago, I decided to go makeup-free, but to this day, I haven’t been able to stop wearing mascara. I’ve even started wearing lip tint or stain.
MashaaAllah this vedio was comforting to hear as it showed me that I'm not alone struggling to put my ego away. May Allah grant you jannah and keep you steadfast. ❤
Only recently came across your videos and I really appreciate your perspective. It takes a lot to guts to talk about some of these topics and you did it so well mashallah tabarakallah
This came at a great time, I was just about to buy some more lashes lmao. Thank you for your wise words it is definitely helping me to question who am I living for and why I do things that I do.
Literally what I’ve been looking for on RUclips „how to stop tabarujj“ 😂subhanallah I’m really struggling, especially when I think about if somebody is going to marry me if I’m not wearing any makeup. I know it’s a dumb thought but I am only seeing pretty sisters getting married…
Thank you so much for making this video. I reverted to Islam two years ago and am wearing the hijab for over a year now. I have made Muslim friends and pretty much all of them are not wearing the hijab. I understand that this journey is difficult and that not everybody feels ready to do it, especially when living in a western country, but I just hate to see it that they are wearing make up and dressing in tight clothes. I don’t even know if they are praying or not because every time I try to talk to them about the hijab or Islamic rulings in general, they give me the feeling that they are not ready and that I should not question their behavior.
I think you come across judgy hence why they don't really want to hear the lectures. I have so many friend who wear hijab but don't pray. Don't just assume just because someone doesn't dress a certain way that they may not practise other aspects
@@flabbytobaddieI always try not to judge others based off of their appearance but I do not understand why they would not want to talk about the teachings of Islam 🤷🏻♀️
I am also a revert and know exactly what you mean. It’s sad. It feels like you cannot share with others your thoughts or concerns about Islam without people feeling attacked. I am having a hard time with this right now. I recently started wearing hijab and no one around me wears except a few ladies. It’s uncomfortable to feel that we have to tip toe around topics that are not up for debate because someone might be offended. The more you give up the more people start to see you as “crazy” or “ unapproachable”. It feels like you cannot be honest about religion and our short falling s. I am not in any way perfect but making improvements everyday. I pray for friends who can motivate us to be better and keep us grounded in our beliefs Ameen.
@@AustinMama religion is a personal journey, so while you are on yours other may be too, or may not be. Hence why you will not be always debate everything. Best to focus on yourself and to find friends or people you feel are on the same religious level etc.
Sister, you’re so inspiring. I love to see someone without makeup for once. You’re naturally so beautiful allahumabarik. I always get told to wear makeup by family, despite not wanting to. Seeing your video makes me feel less alone and less “abnormal”
Thank you for this video, it's very much needed as a reminder for so many muslim women these days. وَذَكِّرْ فَإِنَّ ٱلذِّكْرَىٰ تَنفَعُ ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ (الذاريات - 55) . . . a little note, your scarf is a bit sheer it shows your earrings. 🌹
May Allah bless you and reward you abundantly, I really needed this. We need sisters online to remind us of how it should be!! I felt every single word. May Allah swt give us the strength to always truly submit and fulfill his commands
Jazzakallahu khair ukhti, I know you don’t need any outside validation, but the second I watched your video I thought to myself wow she is so pretty. You really don’t need makeup. I love your message since its so frowned upon to say to ppl make up is haram and shouldn’t be worn in public. It’s very brave of you to make this video, may Allah bless you sister
Wheew this video is amazing. Every Muslim woman needs to watch this especially in the age of social media and Muslim influencers. Thank you so much Hana, may Allah reward you and allow you to keep speaking the truth
Ma sha Allah, Jazak’Allah kheir for this important conversation. I feel we need to realign to Islam fundamentally. If we did and didn’t have “wahn” (love for dounia) in our hearts, including the want to beautify, we wouldn’t be watching a genocide happening to our brothers and sisters in Gaza.
Masha Allah. I enjoyed the video ❤. I want to be in the minority believe as well. May Allah guide all Muslim and our young Muslim to the right path. 🤲🤲
Assalamu alaikkum sister, I don’t wear makeup at all, but when I go to wedding functions in my family, relatives often ask, 'Why don't you put on some makeup? Why don't you wear some lipstick? Why are you looking so plain? It's a function.' Usually, I'm not really concerned about my appearance without makeup, but when they start asking these kinds of questions, I become very self-conscious about how I look. All my cousins look good because they use makeup, and standing among them, I feel very self-conscious .It makes me question whether I’m even presentable enough to attend a wedding or any similar event🙂
Girl i was bullied by pakistani girls whats worse was they were my muslim sisters too around 20 for ten years since a child it gave me body dysphormia and i wouldnt leave the house to even get food to eat and starve in my room for 48 hours till i would lose consciousness because i couldn't leave the house WITH makeup. i still felt so hideous and ugly. it gave me anorexia and ocd i weight 39kg rn. Currently Alhamdullilah i can leave the house in a do or die situation with MAKEUP. i hope despite the trauma and disorders given to me by the girls bullying me for the face Allah chose for me i reach one day like you and leave makeup in sha Allah. i still hate myself i still never felt what it was like to look in the mirror and love myself. i wear makeup as armour to protect the chilld in me from them even at the age of 23. so anyone reading this if you see an ukhti wearing makeup do not judge and assume the best. some of them may have dependency due to severe bullying the same way some have for drugs.
@@younggirl-r8o salam sis, are you in therapy and rehabilitation for these issues? These are very deep rooted traumas that need deep rooted healing, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with it. It certainly is not the norm but it can lead to horrible pain and outcomes and Allah knows best. Most girls are not dealing with the degree of issues you are and it speaks more to the sickening standards we place on women. I hope you’re getting treatment or plan on it soon. Anorexia does damage well beyond what we see, please please take that seriously. JAK
@@alasryh Currently i have signed up for talking therapy in the NHS but the waiting time is very long. i just find it so sad because of these girls i feel like a zombie day in and out. and in a serious situation i apply makeup before tying to rescue myself eg i woke up unconcious in hopsital and the fiirst thing i was worried about was how i looked than anything. i felt like if anyone looked at me theyd be traumatised (like im frankestein lol) although i look normal but the abuse altered my perception that i started panicking for how others would see me without it including the clinician who was treating me and other patients in ward. but anyways i wear makeup to cover my trauma i guess. but i hope to normally view myself one day and maybe love myself in sha Allah.
@@afnanj it’s a beautiful sign of modesty and a profound act of worship. Women who do it are strong. I don’t take the opinion that it’s fardh (or I’d be wearing it). May Allah reward the ladies who do it, they’re better than me.
This "Haram Police" term is so damaging! yes, there are rules to how you shoud give advices in Islam, but not giving advice at all is not one of them. يقول النبي (صلى الله عليه وسلم) "مَن رأى منكم منكرا فليغيره بيده، فإن لم يستطع فبلسانه، فإن لم يستطع فبقلبه، وذلك أضعف الإيمان" They want everyone to keep it in thier heart ignoring it's the last resorte after failing in changing منكر with your hands or your tongue.
@@TheNewMiracunini yes, but he’s not a woman. Perspective is important, men don’t have the same pressures on appearance. They experience different pressure.
I find it interesting that men give advice on things only women go thru for example menstruation, menopause, makeup( the self esteem portion of it), female fatigue, labor pains, etc etc… Thank you for speaking from your personal experiences
26:57 you should take these videos down my sister في صحيح مسلم: من سن في الإسلام سنة سيئة كان عليه وزرها ووزر من عمل بها من بعده من غير أن ينقص من أوزارهم شيئاً. you don't want to be collecting sins with showing a sin you actualy stoped doing, and not to be making other muslim women feel okay with showing thier makeup in public infleunced by those old videos of yours.
My sisters, PLS, hijab is 🌹🏵🌼BEAUTIFUL🌷🌺💮. Allah gave you something much better than facepaint 🙄AKA 👎makeup👎. You all look like grand noble 👑QUEENS👑 in hijab, pious GOD-loving🕋 monotheists☝. Makeup gives you NONE of that. Ya Allah, pls help us all to understand that you have given us the very 🌟BEST✨ in your deen. Ameen. 🤲
As a 16 year old girl who comes from a home of shirk, where I’ve been mocked for dressing modest and not wanting to wear makeup. I really needed this, thank you so much ❤️
That's really sad .
May ALLAH swt make it easy for u ameen 🙏🏻 😊
@@noreenbi9079Ameen, jazakallah khayr💗
I grew up in shirk and thought it was normal ( though family called themselves Muslim). After I found my way, I was abused verbally. It was mentally exhausting. Everything I did was scrutinized and family members used to say I think I'm better then them. Ofc I never, I just wanted to end that way of life. Do you regardless of what others say. That's what's bought me inner peace
@@flabbytobaddie
That's really bad
That's actually sad yk I don't went too see my any sister going threw that may allah make things easy for you ameen inshallah ❤️🙂🙂
Im a Dad who occasionally listens to your videos with interest. I have forwarded my 16 year old a few of them in the past. This one i played out loud on the car speaker on our way home this evening.
Inshallah she sincerely heard and took to heart the amazing message in your video. Jazakallah for sharing.
I used to wear it everyday at school until i found out it was considered adornment , so then i stopped.
Im glad i never become reliant on it Alhamdulillah
wish every girl saw this like me, jazakumallah khayr
@@englishblade wa iyaaki
Thank you for making this video sis. I used to be a makeup artist. It was my job and I was good at it. But the more clients I worked on, the more I understood how much they hated themselves and how much they want to change their appearance. It made me sad to see so many women who couldn't bare to see their faces without makeup. This made me walk away from makeup artistry because I didn't want to propagate the idea that women need makeup to feel/look good. It still astonishes me that we think we will only look presentable in the work place, or the wedding, if we are wearing makeup. We're distorting our God given beautiful faces, just to please others and many of us have yet to realize that. May Allah guide us all.
@@ugeshnikhan such an interesting perspective as a makeup artist! Thank you for sharing. I love getting my makeup professionally done but never at the expense of self-hatred!
powerful, WOW! What an insight! Heck, even socalled "MEN" are going for skinwhitening creams. Shameful. 🤦😬
We obsess over outward appearances forgetting that real beauty lies in the heart, mind, and soul that ONLY ALLAH ALONE can beautify by His Mercy when we come close to Him. Allahu Akbar.
@maddiec6186 It was the way they spoke about themselves. The comments they would make about their features and how they wanted it "fixed". How they thought I was some saviour who turned them from ugly into beautiful. How they wished they looked like Kim K or some other celebrity. It was clear that they had attached their worth to their appearance, and they only felt worthy when they were covered in makeup. Some are going further than makeup and want more permanent solutions. The number of young women that want to get lip plumping injections, or "corrective" nose surgery is heart breaking. If this is not a sign of self-hatred, I don't know what is.
I watched the whole Video sis and all I can say is May Allah reward you for talking about the things that we all need to hear as muslim sisters and im ngl the truth stings but its needed and its a sign and guidance from Allah. Makes it even better that you are practicing what you preach. I know its not easy, I also recently embarked on the jjourney to stop wearing makeup and its soooo hard but may Allah reward us for our efforts.
@@Asdffghhtt Ameen, proud of you!
Alhamdulillah Allah allowed me to listen to you my dear sister ❤❤
You're beautiful without makeup. Your confidence, honesty and natural beauty raises the vibrations.
This Is what I like. This is what I love- authenticity.
Beautiful message for my teenage daughter to listen to. May Allah bless you and your family, Ameen.
okay Hana, so this was an honest and much needed conversation.
Jazzakillah khair for making this video 💛
@@halimatolatunji5672 wa iyaki, thank you ❤️
Your content is absolute gold! I found this very encouraging and uplifting. You give off wise older sister vibes. May Allah bless you and increase you. This is what I call Muslim women empowering Muslim women. I appreciate your insights are coming from a place of genuine concern, and not judgement of others. It’s refreshing to see that you are not pandering to other people’s whims and desires. It doesn’t matter if everyone is doing something, it doesn’t make it right and it doesn’t mean you should follow it. JazakAllah khayr and please keep the videos coming! 🥰
@@thehkprojectxo thank you sis ❤️love that it gives older sister vibes. I’m the youngest but an aunt to a LOT of nieces so that’s likely where it comes from.
Eventually I’ll get “canceled” for something, but I intend to put out content that supports the healing (body, mind AND soul) of Muslim women, regardless of if it makes people uncomfortable.
@@alasryh You are rizq to your nieces. I pray Allah enables them all to benefit from your insights and advice as they journey through their lives.
There will always be a group of us who will be here to support you in your pursuit of speaking the truth ❤️ Your last point reminded me of this ayah:
قَالَ يَا قَوْمِ أَرَأَيْتُمْ إِن كُنتُ عَلَىٰ بَيِّنَةٍ مِّن رَّبِّي وَرَزَقَنِي مِنْهُ رِزْقًا حَسَنًا وَمَا أُرِيدُ أَنْ أُخَالِفَكُمْ إِلَىٰ مَا أَنْهَاكُمْ عَنْهُ إِنْ أُرِيدُ إِلَّا الْإِصْلَاحَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ وَمَا تَوْفِيقِي إِلَّا بِاللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَإِلَيْهِ أُنِيبُ
“He said, "O my people, have you considered: if I am upon clear evidence from my Lord and He has provided me with a good provision from Him...? And I do not intend to differ from you in that which I have forbidden you; I only intend reform as much as I am able. And my success is not but through Allah. Upon him I have relied, and to Him I return.” (11:88)
You look beautiful sister Allahumma barik
Thank you for this. It's very hard for me to battle this. And to balance wanting to look put together and going too far.
Thank you Hana, I needed this. Long ago, I decided to go makeup-free, but to this day, I haven’t been able to stop wearing mascara. I’ve even started wearing lip tint or stain.
MashaaAllah this vedio was comforting to hear as it showed me that I'm not alone struggling to put my ego away. May Allah grant you jannah and keep you steadfast. ❤
Forwarded this video to my daughters thank you
Only recently came across your videos and I really appreciate your perspective. It takes a lot to guts to talk about some of these topics and you did it so well mashallah tabarakallah
@@Azizelle JAK!
This came at a great time, I was just about to buy some more lashes lmao. Thank you for your wise words it is definitely helping me to question who am I living for and why I do things that I do.
Just found out about your page as this vid was recommended to me by YT. Love what you're all about
@@givemeelectricity beautiful sis! Proud of you for your steadfastness
JazakAllah khair from making this video, may Allah reward you for it and keep you on the straight path ameen
Literally what I’ve been looking for on RUclips „how to stop tabarujj“ 😂subhanallah I’m really struggling, especially when I think about if somebody is going to marry me if I’m not wearing any makeup. I know it’s a dumb thought but I am only seeing pretty sisters getting married…
This is such a beautiful and honest reminder. Thank you ❤
Jazakallah khairan for the much needed reminder.
Thank you so much for making this video. I reverted to Islam two years ago and am wearing the hijab for over a year now. I have made Muslim friends and pretty much all of them are not wearing the hijab. I understand that this journey is difficult and that not everybody feels ready to do it, especially when living in a western country, but I just hate to see it that they are wearing make up and dressing in tight clothes. I don’t even know if they are praying or not because every time I try to talk to them about the hijab or Islamic rulings in general, they give me the feeling that they are not ready and that I should not question their behavior.
I think you come across judgy hence why they don't really want to hear the lectures. I have so many friend who wear hijab but don't pray. Don't just assume just because someone doesn't dress a certain way that they may not practise other aspects
@@flabbytobaddieI always try not to judge others based off of their appearance but I do not understand why they would not want to talk about the teachings of Islam 🤷🏻♀️
I am also a revert and know exactly what you mean. It’s sad. It feels like you cannot share with others your thoughts or concerns about Islam without people feeling attacked. I am having a hard time with this right now. I recently started wearing hijab and no one around me wears except a few ladies. It’s uncomfortable to feel that we have to tip toe around topics that are not up for debate because someone might be offended. The more you give up the more people start to see you as “crazy” or “ unapproachable”. It feels like you cannot be honest about religion and our short falling s. I am not in any way perfect but making improvements everyday. I pray for friends who can motivate us to be better and keep us grounded in our beliefs Ameen.
@@NourBintFaiz it's because religion is a personal thing. And although people wish to advise etc many times ppl are judgemental etc
@@AustinMama religion is a personal journey, so while you are on yours other may be too, or may not be. Hence why you will not be always debate everything. Best to focus on yourself and to find friends or people you feel are on the same religious level etc.
Sister, you’re so inspiring. I love to see someone without makeup for once. You’re naturally so beautiful allahumabarik. I always get told to wear makeup by family, despite not wanting to. Seeing your video makes me feel less alone and less “abnormal”
@@ariana19055 ❤️
Thank you for this video, it's very much needed as a reminder for so many muslim women these days.
وَذَكِّرْ فَإِنَّ ٱلذِّكْرَىٰ تَنفَعُ ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ (الذاريات - 55)
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a little note, your scarf is a bit sheer it shows your earrings. 🌹
@@Gowawbara thank you sis
There is so much wisdom packed into every second of this video, Allahuma baarik. الله يجزيك الخير
You are naturally beautiful ❤️
May Allah bless you and reward you abundantly, I really needed this. We need sisters online to remind us of how it should be!!
I felt every single word. May Allah swt give us the strength to always truly submit and fulfill his commands
Thank you for sharing. This is very refreshing ❤
Jazzakallahu khair ukhti, I know you don’t need any outside validation, but the second I watched your video I thought to myself wow she is so pretty. You really don’t need makeup.
I love your message since its so frowned upon to say to ppl make up is haram and shouldn’t be worn in public. It’s very brave of you to make this video, may Allah bless you sister
@@armey7658 wa iyaki, thank you Sis ❤️
Love this God-centric channel. Keep up the content ❤️
Wheew this video is amazing. Every Muslim woman needs to watch this especially in the age of social media and Muslim influencers. Thank you so much Hana, may Allah reward you and allow you to keep speaking the truth
@@ruqiyaa Ameen ya rab ❤️
Ma sha Allah, Jazak’Allah kheir for this important conversation. I feel we need to realign to Islam fundamentally. If we did and didn’t have “wahn” (love for dounia) in our hearts, including the want to beautify, we wouldn’t be watching a genocide happening to our brothers and sisters in Gaza.
No makeup and still beautiful! MashAllah
Sister, hijab looks great, no need for makeup, glad you understand this, hope all sisters understand this. May Allah give you all good, Ameen.
Masha Allah. I enjoyed the video ❤. I want to be in the minority believe as well. May Allah guide all Muslim and our young Muslim to the right path. 🤲🤲
Loved this video ❤❤❤
بارك الله فيك
@@fatimaa-q6f و فيكم❤️
Assalamu alaikkum sister,
I don’t wear makeup at all, but when I go to wedding functions in my family, relatives often ask, 'Why don't you put on some makeup? Why don't you wear some lipstick? Why are you looking so plain? It's a function.' Usually, I'm not really concerned about my appearance without makeup, but when they start asking these kinds of questions, I become very self-conscious about how I look. All my cousins look good because they use makeup, and standing among them, I feel very self-conscious .It makes me question whether I’m even presentable enough to attend a wedding or any similar event🙂
Jazakillahu khair ❤❤
Thank you
Not wearing make up is honorable and only the best can achieve.
Jzk sister!
Girl i was bullied by pakistani girls whats worse was they were my muslim sisters too around 20 for ten years since a child it gave me body dysphormia and i wouldnt leave the house to even get food to eat and starve in my room for 48 hours till i would lose consciousness because i couldn't leave the house WITH makeup. i still felt so hideous and ugly. it gave me anorexia and ocd i weight 39kg rn. Currently Alhamdullilah i can leave the house in a do or die situation with MAKEUP. i hope despite the trauma and disorders given to me by the girls bullying me for the face Allah chose for me i reach one day like you and leave makeup in sha Allah. i still hate myself i still never felt what it was like to look in the mirror and love myself. i wear makeup as armour to protect the chilld in me from them even at the age of 23. so anyone reading this if you see an ukhti wearing makeup do not judge and assume the best. some of them may have dependency due to severe bullying the same way some have for drugs.
@@younggirl-r8o salam sis, are you in therapy and rehabilitation for these issues? These are very deep rooted traumas that need deep rooted healing, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with it. It certainly is not the norm but it can lead to horrible pain and outcomes and Allah knows best. Most girls are not dealing with the degree of issues you are and it speaks more to the sickening standards we place on women. I hope you’re getting treatment or plan on it soon. Anorexia does damage well beyond what we see, please please take that seriously. JAK
@@alasryh Currently i have signed up for talking therapy in the NHS but the waiting time is very long. i just find it so sad because of these girls i feel like a zombie day in and out. and in a serious situation i apply makeup before tying to rescue myself eg i woke up unconcious in hopsital and the fiirst thing i was worried about was how i looked than anything. i felt like if anyone looked at me theyd be traumatised (like im frankestein lol) although i look normal but the abuse altered my perception that i started panicking for how others would see me without it including the clinician who was treating me and other patients in ward. but anyways i wear makeup to cover my trauma i guess. but i hope to normally view myself one day and maybe love myself in sha Allah.
@@alasryh JazakAllah kahyr for your reply and your kindness ukhti may Allah swt grant you and me jannah ameen.
What are your thoughts on niqab?
@@afnanj it’s a beautiful sign of modesty and a profound act of worship. Women who do it are strong. I don’t take the opinion that it’s fardh (or I’d be wearing it). May Allah reward the ladies who do it, they’re better than me.
This "Haram Police" term is so damaging!
yes, there are rules to how you shoud give advices in Islam, but not giving advice at all is not one of them.
يقول النبي (صلى الله عليه وسلم) "مَن رأى منكم منكرا فليغيره بيده، فإن لم يستطع فبلسانه، فإن لم يستطع فبقلبه، وذلك أضعف الإيمان"
They want everyone to keep it in thier heart ignoring it's the last resorte after failing in changing منكر with your hands or your tongue.
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This is a topic that a brother named Faiyad Fit on YT has covered in multiple videos.
@@TheNewMiracunini yes, but he’s not a woman. Perspective is important, men don’t have the same pressures on appearance. They experience different pressure.
@@alasryh true, I was watching his content for a short period of time only, but when I was he was mostly coming at men.
I find it interesting that men give advice on things only women go thru for example menstruation, menopause, makeup( the self esteem portion of it), female fatigue, labor pains, etc etc…
Thank you for speaking from your personal experiences
26:57 you should take these videos down my sister
في صحيح مسلم: من سن في الإسلام سنة سيئة كان عليه وزرها ووزر من عمل بها من بعده من غير أن ينقص من أوزارهم شيئاً.
you don't want to be collecting sins with showing a sin you actualy stoped doing, and not to be making other muslim women feel okay with showing thier makeup in public infleunced by those old videos of yours.
My sisters, PLS, hijab is 🌹🏵🌼BEAUTIFUL🌷🌺💮. Allah gave you something much better than facepaint 🙄AKA 👎makeup👎.
You all look like grand noble 👑QUEENS👑 in hijab, pious GOD-loving🕋 monotheists☝.
Makeup gives you NONE of that. Ya Allah, pls help us all to understand that you have given us the very 🌟BEST✨ in your deen. Ameen. 🤲
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