Eating Disorders from the Inside Out: Laura Hill at TEDxColumbus.

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  • Опубликовано: 30 окт 2012
  • Calm, pleasure and satisfaction is what most people experience after eating. But for people with eating disorders, food brings anxiety, disturbance and noise. Dr. Hill takes a look from the inside out from the "sound" to the biology of these diseases and how the future holds a different approach to manage the illness while bringing these patients hope.

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  • @bugsneedhugs8760
    @bugsneedhugs8760 3 года назад +409

    "don't ask me to take the test and eat breakfast too." I haven't heard someone explain this so well, I've had an eating disorder for 7 years now and just very recently told two close friends about it and what I've found to be the hardest part to explain is sometimes I can't eat, I have things to do and if i eat it's all i will think about and it's just so incredibly overwhelming.

    • @knabellaks
      @knabellaks 2 года назад +4

      You trained your way in, and you will have to train your way out... Hope you make that choice

    • @peekingintojocelynslife9987
      @peekingintojocelynslife9987 2 года назад +1

      Me too 💔 I’ve been anorexic / bulimic for 15 years and yesterday I finally told my mom and dad and my best friend of 10 years 💔 and I wanna get help because now I’m dying 😞 and I was killing my self slowly

    • @jamespratt3213
      @jamespratt3213 2 года назад +3

      @@peekingintojocelynslife9987 How are you doing now? My 10 year old granddaughter told me she has not eaten in three days and she’s just not hungry. I was concerned so I looked it up on RUclips. Please reach out if you need someone to talk to.
      I still believe it’s something Chemical. My son wrestled with anxiety and got on a serotonin inhibitor. It worked miracles.

    • @robingrosch3303
      @robingrosch3303 2 года назад

      She is so spot on its scary

    • @jaimebanks8377
      @jaimebanks8377 Год назад

      @@peekingintojocelynslife9987 I hope you're doing better now. I only recently realized I'm anorexic. It's much more common in men than most realize. I rarely feel very hungry anymore, and I feel shame if I eat. What a terrible struggle.
      We can overcome, though...

  • @Kimmehface
    @Kimmehface 10 лет назад +529

    When she teared up I was very touched. It shows how much she cares about her patients and I love that.

    • @sarahcarnahan9116
      @sarahcarnahan9116 10 лет назад +30

      She REALLY, REALLY does. I know from experience. :-)

    • @Kimmehface
      @Kimmehface 10 лет назад +8

      wow~ good to hear that! thnx for your response

    • @Kimmehface
      @Kimmehface 10 лет назад +7

      thnx for sharing :) glad you are doing better

    • @robingrosch3303
      @robingrosch3303 2 года назад +1

      I missed that where does she tear up

    • @Fybre0ptix
      @Fybre0ptix Год назад

      @@robingrosch3303 18:10 -18:25, as she says that her patients had said that they would be standing there with her.

  • @kateflake
    @kateflake 10 лет назад +177

    I don't have an eating disorder, but I have an anxiety problem. When she did that noise thing with the tape recorder, I totally understood. When you're anxious sometimes all you hear all you hear are nasty comments. It makes you freak out (at least I freak out).

    • @julieannelovesbooks
      @julieannelovesbooks 3 года назад +3

      I can relate to this comment so much. I've had anorexia and I still have anxiety and depression and the noise between them is very similar and sometimes bleeds over into each other.

    • @danifestit
      @danifestit 2 года назад

      I cried. It just hit too hard

  • @queeneiii4545
    @queeneiii4545 2 года назад +40

    I actually was moved to tears when she played the noise--the noise, the voices, the thoughts that a person with an eating disorder hears while they're eating (and all day). I can't believe I just actually heard with my ears what I've heard in my head for years. How powerful. I so appreciate her impeccable explanation of what it's like to have an eating disorder, so those who don't can understand, and so those who do can feel seen, heard and cared about.

  • @BleedPeroxide
    @BleedPeroxide 9 лет назад +39

    This video struck a really deep nerve - so few people understand that it's NOT just about food. It's not just a matter of telling someone, "Oh, just eat a sandwich, just eat, that's all it takes." The ED can be a coping mechanism; it's not simply a matter of vanity and "a diet gone wrong". It's a mental disorder, plain and simple. If given the choice to deal with expected stress like a test or a trying day at work, or try to ~recover~ and add to the incessant noise that comes with eating? I'm not going to fucking eat in order to still have the ability to focus and function in my day-to-day life. Hill absolutely nails this perfectly.

    • @BethDiane
      @BethDiane 8 лет назад +1

      +Bleed Peroxide I'm waiting for someone to come up with the same explanation and some strategies for the opposite problem--there's also no use in telling someone to stop eating as if their life depends on it unless you can prove that it does not. Some of us were indirectly, and no doubt unintentionally, given to understand that it does.

    • @Kikuye
      @Kikuye 7 лет назад

      " I'm not going to fucking eat in order to still have the ability to focus and function in my day-to-day life." the issue with this is that long term, one with an ED has less likelihood in the long run to be able to maintain "normal" day to day life if they do not deal with the anxiety and eat, and learn to deal with it...that was the point.

    • @BleedPeroxide
      @BleedPeroxide 7 лет назад +1

      +KrayolaBlue91 I'm unfortunately quite aware of that. But when you don't have the luxury to drop everything and devote all of your energy, time, and/or money into recovering, you have to patch the holes and deal with it. I don't have the luxury to dig through almost three decades' worth of bullshit to fix my ED or complicate my life with a recovery-centric lifestyle - so I manage with the tools I have.
      (I realize my tone may come off as hostile - please do not take it as such.

    • @Kikuye
      @Kikuye 7 лет назад

      I can understand that; it sucks that in our "system" that, for some that is how it is. I just wanted to state the point in case others who do have access, that their eating disorder simply tries to use it as an excuse to not recover; as ED can try to use anything and everything.

    • @katiegrundle9900
      @katiegrundle9900 2 месяца назад

      mine started from trauma from my mom telling me am i skeleton and suffering from bi polar. my body is the only thing i can control

  • @forestque1531
    @forestque1531 10 лет назад +285

    That noise is almost always in my head. That is so accurate.

    • @celestialcircledance
      @celestialcircledance 8 лет назад +7

      +yerb Who is a normal eater any more ? I think most woman in particular are screwed up by unrealistic expectations

    • @haileyrafferty2372
      @haileyrafferty2372 4 года назад

      How do you understand anything it says

    • @TaintedBeautifully
      @TaintedBeautifully 2 года назад

      That’s how my head is too. I have a panic disorder with agoraphobia and bulimia.

    • @hidbee
      @hidbee 2 года назад

      Same.

  • @katmatally
    @katmatally 10 лет назад +215

    That "noise" is what people who have feelings of low self-worth in general hear in their minds much of the time.

    • @maditaknuth6040
      @maditaknuth6040 6 лет назад +6

      Exactly! And I think that the low self-worth of a person, struggling with anxiety in general, is able to displace to eating behaviours. It's like "I am not worth it, so I'm no worth the food as well. I have to earn the food before (or after)." Mental illnesses like anxiety, OCD, depression etc. have so much in common with eating disorders such as anorexia...

    • @vonbunn
      @vonbunn 5 лет назад +4

      Oh you poor thing. I am trying to learn about this as my darling niece who is 20 has this disorder. She is trying to work with the help she can get, which is at college, but they are limited in the time she can use them. Other words she can only use them for a semester or so. She is 20, and in school, so she can't afford medical help she should get. If I were able, I would assist, I'm 74, and have little limited income. I am devastated over this. I don't think she knows I know about this. I love this girl more than life itself. I was not prepared to hear this about the voices, although I lay awake at night fearing that particular thing was happening. I wish there was something that could be done. I'd sell my house and give the money for anything. God please get help to these people.

    • @recoveryfocused8798
      @recoveryfocused8798 5 лет назад +1

      @@vonbunn You are an angel.

  • @monicaconley263
    @monicaconley263 9 лет назад +238

    It's important to know that even though one is diagnosed with a disorder, that the way in which it manifests can be very different from person to person. No two people ever experience a diagnosis in exactly the same way. There is no need to judge or be rude to others because their experience is different than another's. Instead of dividing ourselves through criticism and judgment, let's rally together to form some real solutions for those that suffer from any eating disorder!

    • @recoveryfocused8798
      @recoveryfocused8798 5 лет назад +1

      THANK YOU

    • @hannahanderson5658
      @hannahanderson5658 2 года назад

      EDs are typically competitive. If we can work to not compete with one another’s, we are winning the battle together.

  • @madelinegraf1715
    @madelinegraf1715 8 лет назад +533

    This presentation was alright. It is always good to get more attentions to ED's and know that is is not about food. However, she made it sound as if the anorexic brain is chemically different than a "normal" person's. In my anorexia, I still got hunger cues, though i worked hard to suppress them. I still enjoyed food, though i hated to admit it. And as someone else on the thread said, my ind was never quiet. Even if not eating, i was still thinking about food- when i would eat, how many hours until i could eat, counting calories from the past day 10-20 times obsessively.

    • @wesgerrr5835
      @wesgerrr5835 8 лет назад +31

      Completely agree with this. I went from being a binge eater to anorexia and the obsession with food is real.

    • @RoseWater20
      @RoseWater20 8 лет назад +23

      +Madeline Graf Mine was/is the exact same way. I kinda think there may be different "types" of anorexia in itself (type I, type II maybe?) I love food but I love the feeling of denying myself and the control more for sure.

    • @madelinegraf1715
      @madelinegraf1715 8 лет назад +1

      Hi Charlie! Thank you! I am doing very well!

    • @Kikuye
      @Kikuye 7 лет назад +13

      "For some it's definitely a relationship with food that is very much like OCD. For some it's almost an underlying anxiety or depression. For some it's a way to gain control over an out of control life" I see those things as all pretty much the same thing. OCD is an anxiety disorder (and as I see it, so are EDs in general) If someone has an anxiety disorder, it is likely at some point or another they are going to be depressed from it. Anxiety disorders, anxiety is often caused by holding a certain belief and then facing a situation or something that is incongruent with that belief and then trying to get rid of the feeling it causes (anxiety, anger, embarrassment, etc) by then trying to cope, control and so on; these things can be considered compulsions. It might just be the belief that one shouldn't be feeling anxious, or do not want to and are trying to chase a certain feeling, or running from anxiety (and sadly/ ironically, causing it more).
      I also think that often times people with EDs go back and forth between "love/hate" of food. It just tends to depend on which side they feel more cognitively aligned with at the time. There's a reason so many "recovery" accounts online are just photos of food taken obsessively....
      A lot of times it is that there is a sort of burn out I think, in being so anxious, that one "learns" in some ways, to just give up and not enjoy food. It is a response to anxiety. As I see it, a "let go of all desire and it won't hurt/ be painful, no anxiety over it. If you don't have the desire, it won't hurt anymore." but you also don't really get any pleasure out of it. It's being controlled by the ED, cognitively aligned and beaten down.

    • @hana6769
      @hana6769 7 лет назад

      KrayolaBlue91 p

  • @maryz5454
    @maryz5454 11 лет назад +105

    This woman has changed my life in so many ways. As her client, she has not only given me hope, but she has also instilled in me a passion to contribute my life to the research and treatment of eating disorders. I can only hope to make as much of an impact on individuals as Dr. Hill made on me. She gives relief to those suffering just by vocalizing what many of us have not been able to. Thanks, you all are beautiful :) keep fighting... there is hope.

  • @angelaelackey
    @angelaelackey 11 лет назад +32

    So true. I'm a recovering anorexic, and I can say I was hungry all.the.time. I loved food, was obsessed with it. I just stifled my normal biological responses.
    It's not really about food. Food and restriction are merely the symptoms.

    • @zz-ec
      @zz-ec 4 года назад

      how did you recover?

    • @religion3696
      @religion3696 4 года назад

      How did you recover ?

  • @sfaure91
    @sfaure91 9 лет назад +208

    even when youre not eating theres noise anorexia consumes your brain even when youre not eating all you think about is food

    • @9MuzzyGirl9
      @9MuzzyGirl9 8 лет назад +1

      +Sarah F and this is true for all kinds of eating disorders also

    • @sfaure91
      @sfaure91 8 лет назад +1

      yeah I agree I should have said that

    • @MissyRichmond
      @MissyRichmond 3 года назад +8

      I even dream about it. I wake up excited to eat whatever I dreamed. Usually a Snickers or a huge plate of spaghetti. Then, I realize it was a dream and I’m not eating those things. It sucks sooooo much.

    • @Lalliuu-
      @Lalliuu- 3 года назад +4

      The noise is always there

    • @BellaAthena2241
      @BellaAthena2241 3 года назад

      @@sfaure91 I agree - the noise is always there. Have your studies shown why the noise is so loud all the time? Thank you so much for sharing! 🌺

  • @brianbk1974
    @brianbk1974 2 года назад +46

    This was incredible. As a dad helping his daughter battle through this (with the help of a program and experts), it was great to get a better understanding of what she is going through.

    • @linnjuge1131
      @linnjuge1131 2 года назад +2

      She is lucky to have a loving dad searching for more knowledge on this topic…it is indeed very complex…I’m wishing the best for your daughter✨

    • @edreyes3442
      @edreyes3442 Год назад

      I'm helping my daughter battle through Anorexia as well. It is brutal for me to see her go through these "episodes" of hers. I am as supportive as I can. It is harder now that she has relapsed.

  • @ariadnatobarrapena1034
    @ariadnatobarrapena1034 8 лет назад +68

    This woman has made me cry. I have suffered from anorexia for five years now, I've learnt to live with that second voice inside of me, but there are several days that eating feels like a war, and people just wouldn't understand. If only someone knew how much anxiety I felt (and I still feel) from "going out of my confort zone" with food, recovery would be way easier and no one would say "you just have to be more flexible, that's all". It's not that easy.
    (Sorry for my bad English)

    • @robbinthimble2396
      @robbinthimble2396 5 лет назад

      Ariadna Squirrel Same for me. Anxiety off the charts!

  • @clairedavis8922
    @clairedavis8922 8 лет назад +19

    This is the most accurate thing for me. The noise is slightly different but its basically the same

  • @raqueljones6607
    @raqueljones6607 2 года назад +10

    This helped me to understand what my daughter is going through. When I would cook dinner and make her sit down with us I could see the agony on her face! It’s horrible and I just didn’t understand why. Thank you for this

  • @arianaward4985
    @arianaward4985 8 лет назад +43

    This video was shown to my mom while I was at the Emily program and it created a whole new understanding of an eating disorder so that she could help me through this illness. I'm so thankful for this video

  • @94trab
    @94trab 11 лет назад +18

    This talk was extremely informative, although I wish more time were given to discussing Bulimia, BED and EDNOS and each of their effects on the brain.

  • @miskay5526
    @miskay5526 7 лет назад +91

    these ted talks are addicting....

    • @enjoywithme8144
      @enjoywithme8144 7 лет назад

      Thе Rеal ЕD Cure is over 300 Yеars Оld! twitter.com/7a4537061018a73c1/status/804602507225808896 Еating Disоrdеrs from thеeе Inside Оut Laura Hill аt ТEDхCоlumbus

    • @mariahelizabeth6921
      @mariahelizabeth6921 6 лет назад

      Mis Kay ikr

  • @forestrot666
    @forestrot666 9 лет назад +129

    I have had anorexia for 17 years this April, and I am 24. (I have never had a bmi over 18.5) This was the most accurate description of anorexia and the voices inside the head of many of those who suffer from actual anorexia. It was difficult to watch the first time she pressed the tape recorder and took me over a month to rewatch that part because of how seriously accurate that was. This is also a good video to show to those who do not have a clue about eating disorders and the mental damage that it causes. (including anorexia).

    • @forestrot666
      @forestrot666 9 лет назад +8

      *fyi: everyone is different, even in their eating disorders. those with eating disorders have different roots of manifestations and different health problems and side effects.

    • @plutoplatters
      @plutoplatters 9 лет назад +1

      Bailey Watt You have allowed it. The machine's taught you how to do it. If you grew up on a deserted ocean island you'd be a hunter/gatherer. the end.

    • @plutoplatters
      @plutoplatters 9 лет назад

      Bailey Watt If you "eat" food the "anorexia" will disappear.

    • @forestrot666
      @forestrot666 9 лет назад +8

      not exactly... last time I checked it doesn't work that way half the time...some people do recover that way but mine is too deep rooted to just eat and be normal again. sorry.

    • @JasonLeeLeeLee
      @JasonLeeLeeLee 9 лет назад +10

      Bailey Watt Since this is anonymous I will share with you Bailey. I applaud your professional and mature dealings with plutoplatters who is either a lousy troll, or an ignorant sheep. The brain is a complex and interesting "machine" to use pluto's words. Your machine doesn't view food as a source of joy the way most of our brains do. I find it fascinating that your brain sees food as what it actually is- fuel/medicine, and not what the rest of us lab rats see it as- reward/payment/therapy/etc. I find your mind's way of viewing food as advanced because you are not shackled by your tastes or desire to seek pleasure. My mind is unique as well. I dont feel empathy or guilt the way others do. My brain stores memories differently. There are many pros and some cons to the way my brain works, but you know, its as silly to think that if only I'd "feel more" I'd be less sociopathic, than it is for you to "eat food and make the anorexia go away." Its like telling a shark to eat more seaweed and he will become a vegetarian.

  • @Checksoutcalledit
    @Checksoutcalledit 5 лет назад +3

    Oh damn. That recording of the noise was....spot on. Scarily on point

  • @CruzLegend3
    @CruzLegend3 6 лет назад +4

    She's not inaccurate about the noise. There's definitely an overwhelming sense of anxiety, at pretty much a 24/7 constant state, that gets heightened even more so when you have to make a decision about eating. But her speech gave me anxiety and i rarely experience anxiety at all anymore. Recovered. I don't think the focus should be on treating the disease, rather they need to be treating that person themselves. Their mental state and where this stems from. But kudos for this ted talk!

  • @singinwithceline
    @singinwithceline 10 лет назад +25

    I was so excited to find this talk. I am recovering from EDNOS & I'm also a psychology student. So many people misunderstand ED's & I was glad that she looked at it from a physical/biological standpoint. About her just choosing Anorexia, maybe that's the main illness she treats. Some people who treat ED's specialize in treating one type. Maybe she just had to focus on one disorder for time sake. Many treatment centers only work with female patients. Maybe that's why she said "she" so much, although I do agree that men & boys do have eating disorders. But sadly, many male cases are underreported/undertreated.

  • @TheSailorsPaw
    @TheSailorsPaw 8 лет назад +23

    Holy god, THIS is a REALLY GOOD talk.

  • @letita5997
    @letita5997 3 года назад +5

    wow. when she brought up that tape. it’s honestly really realistic, like she got it exactly right

  • @pattirodzewich7081
    @pattirodzewich7081 4 года назад +11

    I have viewed this several times. I am speaking for myself. This was exactly my thoughts when I was severely in anorexia. I wouldn’t eat until 4P at work because if I ate my mind would be completely lost in my anorexic thoughts about what the food would do to my body. I would watch others eat and get back to work and just couldn’t understand how they could eat and not think about the food they ate. Today I do get the thoughts although I have taught myself it is ok because for me food is my nutrition to live. Nothing more and nothing less.

  • @cececooper3113
    @cececooper3113 10 лет назад +17

    I believe that Dr. Hill has a very strong grasp on what the inside of the mind of a patient suffering from an eating disorder looks like, but I wonder about her "planned eating" treatment. Can this not also create a different type of obsessive disorder in which a patient will become fearful of eating anything that has not been prescribed or planned? Dr. Hill's treatment makes me think of bodybuilders and figure competitors who fear eating anything other than what they have deemed "healthy", for it might change the appearance of the their muscle. Just because they appear to be healthy does not mean that they do not suffer from the same fear as the anorexic. They still take extreme measures to quiet the voices which control their actions, sometimes to extreme lengths, and causes them turmoil.

    • @jenniferellison3480
      @jenniferellison3480 2 года назад

      I think what you outline might fall under orthorexia or ARFID. My child was originally diagnosed with anorexia when her symptoms fall more under orthorexia/ARFID.

  • @mabelsue123
    @mabelsue123 4 года назад +11

    It feels good to be hungry. I love feeling empty. It makes me feel lighter. Makes me feel like I’m strong and in control.

  • @amenehbagh
    @amenehbagh Год назад +5

    I have never heard someone explain it so well! Perfectly illustrated

  • @dr.larapence
    @dr.larapence 10 месяцев назад +1

    As a psychologist specializing in eating disorders and working on the front line with parents, the challenges families face are astounding. Taking the time to understand the complexities of eating disorders, their potential causes, and their impact on both mental and physical health is imperative for everyone in the entire family system. And sharing your concerns, challenges, and triumphs with others who can relate can provide a sense of solidarity and valuable advice.

  • @rachelkraut46
    @rachelkraut46 9 лет назад +24

    Thank you, Dr. Hill, thank you for this very important talk. You gave the best insight I've ever heard into what actually goes on inside the head of an anorexic (or at least in a certain manifestation of anorexia)...as the mother of a severely anorexic daughter, it helped me to react with understanding and sympathy, rather than blank despair and confusion. Even though I was fully aware of anorexia being a mis-wiring problem of fear vs. food circuits in the brain, this made it much more real to me, so that I can deal with it more calmly.

    • @TheTwan85
      @TheTwan85 9 лет назад +1

      All the best for you and your daughter Rachel, I hope she's feeling better soon.

  • @wjcuzzins
    @wjcuzzins 7 лет назад +18

    My bmi right now is 13.5 and I'm 5'5. It's been a 9 year struggle with anorexia and this video truly helped me understand the disorder and I am so thankful for Dr. Hill. I will not allow myself to become a statistic. I will recover. I can't live like this anymore.

    • @dasa1974
      @dasa1974 7 лет назад

      I know you can do it,we all can recover

    • @lingnaikee
      @lingnaikee 7 лет назад +1

      Whitney Clement My daughter has anorexia as well and she's on her way to recovery. just don't give up and we all have hope.:)

    • @josievega4552
      @josievega4552 7 лет назад

      Whitney Clement you can do it, I know it's hard but you can do it, God will help you thru this!

    • @pixam345
      @pixam345 Год назад

      How are you?

  • @cruzcameron8685
    @cruzcameron8685 Год назад +1

    i’ve never seen something explain what goes on in my head more perfectly than this. 3:20

  • @Hpfreak9206
    @Hpfreak9206 10 лет назад +6

    anatomyandneurobio i know you posted this comment a month ago but when i read it i felt like i needed to respond. I too struggled with bulimia for the majority of my teenage years. Recovery doesn't happen all at once it takes time. I relapsed many times before i final came to a state of what i like to think of as full recovery. Mess ups are going to happen it's the pushing through starting the count the weeks you have gone purge free again that help you make it through. Keep trying! i know you can do it, try keeping a journal that's what i did.Write the positive things you achieved and dont be afraid to write the negative too, it's a nice way to look back and see how far you've come. Hope you can make it into recovery cause i know how life is with bulimia and without and without is were you want to be! good luck!

  • @mayaroberts6489
    @mayaroberts6489 5 лет назад +6

    I love this video. I always thought I was crazy or something because that inner critic is something I struggle with every moment. My boyfriend and I watched it together and it gave both of us a new understanding of what i'm going through. Thank you Laura Hill!

  • @michelleca77
    @michelleca77 9 лет назад +12

    Good presentation and many accurate points. I would have been nice if she talked about why some people develop eating disorders while others do not.

  • @marieke2282
    @marieke2282 7 лет назад +10

    I cant explain how well you capture what i'm feeling right now ... i'm planning on showing this to my friends because they don't understand this and i think this will help

  • @jlovelysoul
    @jlovelysoul Год назад +3

    This is so spot on. She is incredibly accurate.

  • @pamchin-lai1277
    @pamchin-lai1277 8 лет назад +3

    Dr. Hill, thank you for teaching about eating disorders in a way that helps the public truly understand that EDs are an illness.

  • @lzzy3726
    @lzzy3726 4 года назад +4

    I have struggled with an eating disorder for a while and she absolutely nails everything about the vicousness of eating disorders.

  • @Iisdabest889
    @Iisdabest889 9 лет назад +6

    I was very lucky to only be diagnosed with a minor form of anorexia when I was 13, but I want to express the fact that it's a mental illness, not a physical one. I eventually recovered somewhat after two years of intense treatment, but the damage is already done and every time I eat I still get paranoid. I'm still quite slim, which for me is ok (I guess), but it's not worth the paranoia and social isolation you put yourself through whenever eating a meal with other people.

  • @bethf9589
    @bethf9589 4 года назад +2

    Thank you Dr. Hill I'm a diagnosed bulimic, and I just shared this vidwith my daddy and my man. I want them to understand, that story of the father brought tears as it brings hope in my recovery. Lots of love.

  • @Rosethatwantstomove
    @Rosethatwantstomove 10 лет назад +2

    Dr. Laura Hill is my cousin. If I remember correctly she had eating disorder while growing up. She's several years older than me, I just remember mom talking about the problem occassionly.

    • @Rosethatwantstomove
      @Rosethatwantstomove 10 лет назад

      ***** I will send her a letter stating that. I googled her just to see what my cousin up to these days. Actually I haven.t talked to her in yrs. I did manage to get her address off another cousin though.

  • @pamfureyp1759
    @pamfureyp1759 8 лет назад +1

    Everyone with eating disorder should listen to all of this. Thanks to my future son inlaw

  • @Aaron-xu6pc
    @Aaron-xu6pc 9 лет назад +2

    This video needs more views tbh.. For all those who are suffering from this.. It makes me really sad that many teenagers in many countries have been target to this disease :'(

  • @Yolduranduran
    @Yolduranduran 2 года назад +2

    Noise in your head is so true! I've wondered if I could live off of Ensure so that I don't have to think about what I am going to eat anymore. It's in my head 24/7.

  • @stills-td9yt
    @stills-td9yt 3 месяца назад

    I originally watched this TedTalk years ago and never forgot it. She describes it so perfectly. She really is of due diligence. I'm so happy she chose to share her knowledge to spread awareness.

  • @ChrissyMarquardt22
    @ChrissyMarquardt22 2 года назад +9

    Thank you for this. My 9 year old son was recently diagnosed with anorexia and this was so helpful to watch. It added another link in my chain of hope to his recovery. I really and truly appreciated the explanation of what’s happening in my son’s head when it comes to meals. As heartbreaking as it is, it’s also an eye opener for how I can better communicate with him, and help him to turn down Ed( his eating disorder voice.) Thank you 🙏🏽❤️🥰.

    • @lowcalpumpkinlatte8040
      @lowcalpumpkinlatte8040 Год назад +1

      you and your son is so strong mama

    • @lhvt.a
      @lhvt.a Год назад +1

      he’s so young i’m so sorry🥺 i hope he recovers, we’re all in this together❤️

  • @kaymungaray7359
    @kaymungaray7359 6 месяцев назад

    One of the BEST Ted Talks I’ve ever heard. Moved me to tears at the end…

  • @kaylujan5517
    @kaylujan5517 3 года назад +2

    I was not expecting that tape to hit me like it did. It is so exact. Wow.

  • @BernarDeathMuorBDM
    @BernarDeathMuorBDM 8 лет назад +9

    If I only could tell how many times I've skipped go to school because those noises at my head. Twelve years hearing them... it has not been easy to live.

    • @religion3696
      @religion3696 4 года назад

      How did you overcome it ?
      My only daughter 13 y old in November base been diagnosed with it last week.

  • @1313becca1313
    @1313becca1313 11 лет назад +5

    I suppose I am now the first person you've met that matches what she said in the speech. I struggled with an eating disorder for over 10 years as well and I guess I will always fight. I did not like food and did not grow hungry. Sometimes I could physically tell that my stomach was empty but I did not grow hungry. Her speech cut to the core of my eating disorder and so clearly spoke to me and my history. But I suppose that's the hard part eating disorders, everyone really is so different.

  • @rjsarner
    @rjsarner 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Dr. Laura Hill. I am a 50 year old with EDNOS A-typical Anorexia. I am struggling to explain what it's like to have to overcome something invisible. You brought the voices to life. I appreciate you bringing more awareness to the subject of Eating Disorders and hope that research continues to help the general public understand something they cannot see. Unlike a broken arm, it's hard to see an ED and have compassion for what goes on inside the head and the body when someone is starving to stay sane. Thank you for bringing that vision to life.

  • @elizabethspringmeyer1714
    @elizabethspringmeyer1714 8 лет назад +8

    such a great way for to explain it to people who have a loved one who is suffering from this.

  • @marcoamaral884
    @marcoamaral884 8 лет назад +6

    So accurate, so informative. Absolutely beautiful to see her passion for helping those recover.

  • @eliotsprague
    @eliotsprague 3 года назад +4

    This was hugely beneficial. Thank you so much. - from a father of an anorexia sufferer

  • @kristent5376
    @kristent5376 11 лет назад +2

    Thank you! I have been bulimic for 13 years, and have finally, at age 30 decided to seek help. I truly believed that I had control over "my food issues" as I referred to it, never believing it is what it is, bulimia. I am 12 days sober, and tonight I had a pizza, the noise/voiced was there, but tonight they were only a soft whisper. I know I still have a long road to recovery, and some days the voices are as loud as a speeding train, but I know I will beat this. I have no choice, I want to live!

  • @brookedietzmann5572
    @brookedietzmann5572 6 лет назад +2

    FINALLY!! God bless you for sharing not just for your patients, but for all of us who are suffering

  • @mistiehernandez3601
    @mistiehernandez3601 3 года назад +2

    This is spot on! The noise : (

  • @dreaming9to5
    @dreaming9to5 3 года назад +1

    I told my therapist I felt like I did better in school when I was using behaviors. How it is presented in this video makes so much sense. You are calmer when using behaviors...

  • @elainewelch2020
    @elainewelch2020 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this insightful talk! It's about time doctors learn about the biological link. Seems like the majority of medical physicians still don't know anything about this link or about the recovery process.

  • @nanoname
    @nanoname 10 лет назад +3

    I agree with a lot of this. For some people it is just too hard to just try to jump from nothing to eating normally. So while it might sound crazy to some people to see food as medicine or 'ration', it is a mindset that can really really help others adapt to normal lives.

  • @cynthiafasulo3828
    @cynthiafasulo3828 Год назад

    Thank you. I needed to hear this right now.

  • @MarkJones-cj9wk
    @MarkJones-cj9wk Год назад

    Amazing insight shared , thank you very much dr hill and your patients ❤

  • @jessicaleach3317
    @jessicaleach3317 9 лет назад +28

    I've had severe, life destroying anorexia nervosa for 15 years, and I don't think I spent a minute of it not obsessing, fantasizing and dreaming about food. Every bite I allowed myself was heavenly. I would read cookbooks and watch the food network like it was porn. She made a lot of good points in her talk, but I've never met another anorexic who could honestly claim to not enjoy food.

    • @cannibale101
      @cannibale101 5 лет назад +1

      Totally agree, although I think she means that the *ultimate result* in the brain is that the activity in itself isn't enjoyed as much by anorexic people. The reasons for it are far more complex than what brain scans can tell, and here's my little hypothesis.
      I've always loved food like crazy and identify very much to what you're describing (the obsession being even more acute when I'm in crisis), but when combined with the anxious and mean voices, the endless calorie calculations and the deep, deep feelings of failure and guilt associated to the moment of eating, the situation as a whole is much less enjoyable - and it reflects in the actual taste buds sensitivity + neuronal receptors. Anyone who eats while being deeply preoccupied definitely won't taste as much as someone else.

    • @recoveryfocused8798
      @recoveryfocused8798 5 лет назад +2

      I cannot enjoy food. It causes me no pleasure whatsoever.

    • @melindagrace87
      @melindagrace87 5 лет назад

      @@recoveryfocused8798 Same. The "everything tastes like cardboard" bit she talks about is what I experience, and even after months of recovery, it's still the same. It's hard to eat when it not only causes anxiety, but there is also no enjoyment in the process. It just goes to show that how each person's brain responds to starvation and eating disorders is a little bit different.

  • @gallevran
    @gallevran 2 года назад

    Wonderful. Literally made me cry.
    👏🏼

  • @singinwithceline
    @singinwithceline 11 лет назад +1

    I LOVE THIS! I need to show this to my parents.

  • @lozmarie6865
    @lozmarie6865 7 лет назад +4

    Love this video! The description of trying to accomplish things through the intense noise in the mind is what I have had trouble trying to explain for so so long. Just wish those close to me would watch this, it might just help to provide a little of piece of insight.

  • @jennymauger
    @jennymauger 5 лет назад

    Namaste ... so much more known, shared & expressed than 40+ years back for me ... much gratitude ... I can relate to soooo much

  • @Yolduranduran
    @Yolduranduran 2 года назад +1

    That made a lot of sense to me.

  • @veronicamoujaes8561
    @veronicamoujaes8561 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video, thank you! I never knew how to lucidly explain to my friends and family what it’s like. I always have my meal box with me and get a lot of remarks and questions. This made me feel observed and anxious but with this video I simply share the link and avoid having to explain myself more 😊

  • @mlinea433
    @mlinea433 5 лет назад +1

    So spot on with the "thoughts" that are on autoplay. I could not have shared it better. Being someone who's struggled with anorexia off and on since I was 13 it is so true (am 26 now). Not eating keeps the voice down, but the flip side are all the symptoms of hunger that make life hard. Very interesting. Thanks!

  • @MeawMeaw1212
    @MeawMeaw1212 8 лет назад +1

    I thank Dr Hill... I've been struggling so much for the past year, and now I have hope and direction to what should I do to get functional again... the ending was so emotional. she's amazing. God bless her.

  • @deeb4731
    @deeb4731 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for this! I’ve struggled for 20 years and have never heard someone explain how it feels so well! I’m really grateful for listening to you, and feeling heard!
    I can enjoy food though but just feel extremely panicked by the consequences of what’s going in. But I found the noise example really helpful! It’s like a when you’re trying to concentrate on something else the noise is so loud of fear, guilt, shame , panic etc that it’s too loud to concentrate on other things.

  • @anna-lenatoledo2768
    @anna-lenatoledo2768 2 года назад

    This was incredibly helpful! I never heard it explained this way. I'm going to share it with my husband and I think it will help him understand my struggle.

  • @alohaaitshopee
    @alohaaitshopee Год назад

    I have tears in my eyes right now. No one has ever explained what I've felt for years with such an accuracy

  • @DanaBelieberLBS
    @DanaBelieberLBS 10 лет назад +9

    This is so true 4:24 that's me 24/7 and it's ruining my life i wish I was thinner but i also with that i didn't wish that I was thinner

    • @jorgemunoz4986
      @jorgemunoz4986 5 лет назад

      Dana Al you’re being controlled by your disorder

  • @vickyoli
    @vickyoli Год назад +1

    This makes so much sense. My BFF “had” anorexia (in reality that form of thought never goes away even at healthy weight). I filter as much as I can regarding food and weight, but many times I roll my eyes when she talks “BS” bc I know is not her, is the anorexia. Im still happy at least she eats something, although she is VERY orthorexic.

  • @dalepurdon8948
    @dalepurdon8948 3 года назад +1

    Youre changing lives. Keep doing what youre doing

  • @heyheyhey4113
    @heyheyhey4113 6 лет назад +5

    Weed helped me to get the hunger signal back again after a while, and it also lowered the noices and let them fade to the background slow but steady. For a while it wasn't healthy how much weed I smoked, but in the end it saved me from something way worse.

    • @jgp11.11
      @jgp11.11 3 года назад

      maybe CBD could work? Sending love ❤️

  • @MissyRichmond
    @MissyRichmond 3 года назад +1

    That tape is every waking moment in my life. I’ll even dream it sometimes. There’s no escape.😔

  • @rubyhartley6473
    @rubyhartley6473 8 лет назад +1

    I had bulimia about two years ago, and I think Doctor Hill is very correct in saying that recovery is so difficult. seeing weight come back on is so hard, you want to pinch and slice off all the fat. you know its good for you, but at the same time, it is the hardest thing emotionally. I'm not going to say I have developed a positive body image, but understanding that it eating disorders are an illness, not just a habit, is so important for everyone.

  • @cson777
    @cson777 3 месяца назад

    Love this. Thank you for this Ted Talk.

  • @BeautyPurrfect
    @BeautyPurrfect 8 лет назад +3

    That was a great lecture. I have known a beautiful young woman who could have been a cat walk model. But she was anorexic.she just couldn't see what we could. Now I get it. Thank you.

  • @emilythesongbird2306
    @emilythesongbird2306 8 лет назад +8

    This was a powerful, creative and educational presentation. You were the voice for so many who struggle with this condition. I could feel it in the last words you spoke. Your clients were standing on stage with you. Even though I am not anorexic, I struggle with some of the thoughts you described and am grateful for your compassionate and innovative perspective. Thank you.

  • @blindophelia
    @blindophelia 10 лет назад +1

    Speaking as someone who has struggled with BED and bulimia for a lifetime, I can say that a lot of this rang true for me.

  • @hashachar70
    @hashachar70 6 лет назад +1

    I'd love to see/hear Laura Hill do the same presentation on our brains on bulimia. Enlightening presentation! Thank You!!!

  • @ekd4594
    @ekd4594 2 года назад +1

    Wow, this was so powerful.

  • @cherryazul4957
    @cherryazul4957 7 лет назад +3

    Wow amazing speech. 👏👏👏

  • @gillianatkinson3711
    @gillianatkinson3711 2 года назад

    Flawless explanation THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU

  • @beesknees508
    @beesknees508 4 года назад +1

    Fantastic speech!! Thank You

  • @analeisel8074
    @analeisel8074 6 лет назад

    I'm so thankful for Dr. Hill....I'm hoping to use this video to explain to my parents what I have been going through for 40+ years...like so many that don't know this...but they say if you are, then why do you do this....why don't you eat...you have to think about my daughter...etc This explains so much!

  • @Eli-qb2sw
    @Eli-qb2sw Год назад +7

    I think she is only partially correct. She is talking about a very specific type of anorexia, but most anorexic people DO NOT HAVE THAT EXPERIENCE. Most of us starve, we feel hungry, ALL. THE. TIME. We do not see food as a medicine, we do not believe it's bland, We do feel pleasure from food, we think ALL DAY about food. Each person has it's own reason for an ED, and I can assure you, 90% of us don't have "I just don't like food" as a reason.

    • @CaseyLyons-yc2ri
      @CaseyLyons-yc2ri 5 месяцев назад

      This. I enjoy good food. I can be picky with textures but mainly I enjoy it. But that lasts so short that I'll feel like I should be full despite still being hungry and it makes me feel unable to eat

  • @shivaasrari8854
    @shivaasrari8854 2 года назад +1

    Ah Thank you, It was very clear explanation.
    Our daughter recently diagnosed with eating disorder.
    It has been difficult to find and get right help and answer.
    This video was super helpful.🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @FamilyMeans_OhanaMeans
    @FamilyMeans_OhanaMeans 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for hearing us with ED 😭😭😭😭

  • @Exxtol1
    @Exxtol1 3 года назад

    I had to watch this for a nutrition class and I'm glad I did because my initial impression was, "This isn't a mental disorder. Just eat". The doctor explained this well in a way that I could understand and empathize. When she put on the recording of the voices I was frustrated just trying to hear her. So I can't imagine what it must be like for a person experiencing this. "Dosing" out the medicine by ways of a set meal plan is brilliant imho. No surprises makes coping a whole lot easier. Treatment for anorexia has come a long way.

  • @mbrunocondello
    @mbrunocondello 5 лет назад +1

    Such a top video - lots of fact - the average person doesn’t understand the complexity of this illness- excellent information here

  • @christineclarevilgos-mitch1955
    @christineclarevilgos-mitch1955 10 лет назад +1

    This was helpful in understanding other psychological issues too. Very informative.

  • @pezeron24
    @pezeron24 7 месяцев назад

    Wonderful, insightful talk.

  • @tinafoltynewicz3294
    @tinafoltynewicz3294 Год назад

    Incredible Information, so helpful in understanding ED's Thank you!