Your comment about ExxJs needing compliments is so true and so under spoken. Te doms especially are always touted as being independent, but really we need praise or at least validation about as much as Fe leads.
We (ENTJs) really don't. Not as a type per se. Those who are enneagram 3 do, but because of that, not because of being ENTJs. Enneagram 8s (another most common ennea type for ENTJs) don't. We appreciate it, but we don't need it
Validation? That’s on my checklist. I need to check the box so I can move on. Hurry up and validate that what I did was done well ✅ done on time or even better - early ✅ and that the system I used was the best one ✅. It isn’t emotional validation, though. Just show me the feedback. Give me the data. Hurry up! I need to check it off. I have things 👏 to 👏 do 👏 😂😂😂
Just when I thought I cannot learn anything new about it- you blow my mind 😳🤯 As ENFJ with ‘looping’ as a youngster, my father is lead Se as well, so... I learned I have to trust my Ni!!!!! My superpower 🤩 Thanks heaps 🙏 So spot on! Mwah😘😘
ENTJ here! Most definitely, I like my Extroverted Thinking validated! If I don’t get validated, I am stubborn enough to stick to my extroverted thinking if it is correct. ENTJ here. I am about to launch my RUclips videos with content. I would love to be interviewed as a way to give and receive insight on another platform and introduce myself to your audience. I feel I have depth and insight to add on the functions from my studies over the past 6 plus months!
"The Child function sees the Hero function as childish." Are you sure it's not the other way around? I would think it would be the Hero that sees the Child function as childish. The Child might see Hero as arrogant or overbearing, but I don't think childish. Also, I'm an INFP and I've noticed that I tend to see my ISTJ brother's value system as a bit naive. And I've gotten the impression that my disorganization bothers him.
She meant as in the user of the third function sees people using that function as dominant as childish. You basically said the same thing when you admitted you see your brother's value system as "a bit naive".
Damn…my Se has gotten me into soooo much trouble and has wasted years of my life on crap and crappy people 🤣 Learned late but once I did it improved my life so much and right away. If I could give another ENTJ advice it would be to focus on yourself first and take in mind that people are not gonna give you the same attention and value as you give them. With that in mind you can give without expecting the same in return..and don’t judge your friends and family based on what they give..everybody shows love very differently..I’m working on that lol
I came from the Fe vs Fi video cuz I'm sending it to my gf I'm an ENTP I definitely side with the Fe perspective because it's encompassing of everyone else when Fi is more self oriented to the point it seems cruel and entitled so I could guess compromise is almost a foreign concept to them, no win/win strategies at all but just I get what I want cuz it's me me me My girlfriend is an INFP so I live in hell, thing is I'm in love with her and that's it for me, so I find my self in extremely difficult situations where I cant ever get my way because she has to have hers and the emotional reasoning is something I can't argue against using either logic or efficiency or long term consequences, it's only when I reach an emotional turmoil over a disagreement she deems it as something worth considering, not even accepting but just considering and then she might back out or change her mind Which in the span of life and time even in relationships it is just unrealistic because life can't and won't always be the way you want it to be I would love it if you both especially that Fi user there lmao if you could make a video highlighting a relationship help guide for ENTP-INFP relationships and showcasing also where they might clash, I searched the entire internet and all I've found is just superficial but your videos to me are quite thoughtful
As a person being a versed MBTI nerd and a female 27 year old ENFJ, i may be interested in your guises interview process if you haven’t reached your quota
Your comment about ExxJs needing compliments is so true and so under spoken. Te doms especially are always touted as being independent, but really we need praise or at least validation about as much as Fe leads.
We (ENTJs) really don't. Not as a type per se. Those who are enneagram 3 do, but because of that, not because of being ENTJs. Enneagram 8s (another most common ennea type for ENTJs) don't. We appreciate it, but we don't need it
Validation? That’s on my checklist. I need to check the box so I can move on. Hurry up and validate that what I did was done well ✅ done on time or even better - early ✅ and that the system I used was the best one ✅. It isn’t emotional validation, though. Just show me the feedback. Give me the data. Hurry up! I need to check it off. I have things 👏 to 👏 do 👏 😂😂😂
Just when I thought I cannot learn anything new about it- you blow my mind 😳🤯
As ENFJ with ‘looping’ as a youngster, my father is lead Se as well, so... I learned I have to trust my Ni!!!!! My superpower 🤩
Thanks heaps 🙏
So spot on!
Mwah😘😘
ENTJ here! Most definitely, I like my Extroverted Thinking validated! If I don’t get validated, I am stubborn enough to stick to my extroverted thinking if it is correct.
ENTJ here. I am about to launch my RUclips videos with content. I would love to be interviewed as a way to give and receive insight on another platform and introduce myself to your audience. I feel I have depth and insight to add on the functions from my studies over the past 6 plus months!
Thanks team awesome!
"The Child function sees the Hero function as childish."
Are you sure it's not the other way around? I would think it would be the Hero that sees the Child function as childish. The Child might see Hero as arrogant or overbearing, but I don't think childish.
Also, I'm an INFP and I've noticed that I tend to see my ISTJ brother's value system as a bit naive. And I've gotten the impression that my disorganization bothers him.
She meant as in the user of the third function sees people using that function as dominant as childish. You basically said the same thing when you admitted you see your brother's value system as "a bit naive".
i think it works both ways
4:58 but what if they don’t get it? What if using their extraverted feeling usually had let to punishments or so?
Damn…my Se has gotten me into soooo much trouble and has wasted years of my life on crap and crappy people 🤣 Learned late but once I did it improved my life so much and right away. If I could give another ENTJ advice it would be to focus on yourself first and take in mind that people are not gonna give you the same attention and value as you give them. With that in mind you can give without expecting the same in return..and don’t judge your friends and family based on what they give..everybody shows love very differently..I’m working on that lol
Istp with a entj wife. I will stop telling my wife she is fishing for compliments.........I will just compliment her
I came from the Fe vs Fi video cuz I'm sending it to my gf
I'm an ENTP I definitely side with the Fe perspective because it's encompassing of everyone else when Fi is more self oriented to the point it seems cruel and entitled so I could guess compromise is almost a foreign concept to them, no win/win strategies at all but just I get what I want cuz it's me me me
My girlfriend is an INFP so I live in hell, thing is I'm in love with her and that's it for me, so I find my self in extremely difficult situations where I cant ever get my way because she has to have hers and the emotional reasoning is something I can't argue against using either logic or efficiency or long term consequences, it's only when I reach an emotional turmoil over a disagreement she deems it as something worth considering, not even accepting but just considering and then she might back out or change her mind
Which in the span of life and time even in relationships it is just unrealistic because life can't and won't always be the way you want it to be
I would love it if you both especially that Fi user there lmao if you could make a video highlighting a relationship help guide for ENTP-INFP relationships and showcasing also where they might clash, I searched the entire internet and all I've found is just superficial but your videos to me are quite thoughtful
As a person being a versed MBTI nerd and a female 27 year old ENFJ, i may be interested in your guises interview process if you haven’t reached your quota
Thank you so much for your interest! A new data set will be open soon. : ) We are looking primarily for sensors at the moment : ) ---J
Interesting. I've often thought that "society" favored "thinking" over "feeling," and wasn't terribly fond of Fe. I'll have to think on that further.