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+Andrew Goes Places I came out to my folks 36 years ago and my Dad (WW II marine vet) was totally awesome too. He always treated my partner (now husband) as his son in law.
Jim Kohn yes he is so nice u can see that he is sweet from the way he talk so i think he deserve all the support from all people and deserve every swee thing in his life when i see ppl happy it makes me happy so its great^^
I didn't come out until I was well into my 30s wasn't a great experience but knew for years and years and kept denying my true self now 52. I have my partner of 27 years this year who's been by my side since the very beginning. That's great you have some many great coming out stories we are all different I suppose 🌈🌈🌈
+Andrew Goes Places I really wanted to play trumpet, but the music director made me try to learn the French horn instead and I never really got the hang of it.
Andrew, I'm so proud of you for coming out. Thank goodness for having such a supportive family. I didn't come out until I was in my 40s. My son was my hugest support, and he was straight. My wife was absolutely wonderful, and continues to be. (I know that sounds complicated, but it's not...love conquers all. Don't ever forget that, Andrew.) Plus I'm proud of every young person that does come out...what courage it takes to do that, and, for me, it shows incredible character to be honest with yourself and others. Thank for this video. Big thumbs up, Andrew!
You have such a sweet, and warm personality. I can truly see why your friends and family are so supportive of you. Any guy you end up being with, will be truly lucky to have you. Good Luck, and God Bless.
Dude your stories are so relatable especially the stuff about magazines and stuff at a younger age! It brought me to tears and brought back so many memories! :(
Andrew - You are lucky. And your message is one that should be shared often. Especially because you do so in such a "normal" way - absent the timbre of fear that I see so often in other Coming Out messages. Your demeanor is infectious in a most good way. Best to you!
Thank you for sharing your story with us! It is the best feeling when they accept you the way you really are and i'm looking forward to seeing more of you!
Andrew I am a new subscriber here. I wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed your videos. You seem so humble and big-hearted and that is so refreshing. Keep up the good work.
You were soooooooo lucky with your parents and stepmom. Both of my parents were dead set against it. I tried coming out twice. The first time with my Mom she was like how could you be gay you like Dolly Parton and brushed it off. The second time she stopped talking to me for like 3 weeks and I was literally dying inside cause my Mom was my rock. So if you can believe it I talked myself out of being gay and I told my Mom I'd never mention it again. I'm 50....and I've never been on a date....or known love. Just the love of my Mom. She passed on November 3rd 2021....and it's the hardest thing I ever went through in my life. Now it's just me and......I'm alone. It's very hard!!!!
I am sorry to hear that but try and take some time to focus on yourself and your emotions as well okay and try and maybe make some new friends if you can okay and try and be in touch with yourself and get some help if you can okay I wish you all the best in your life
Great video, Thanks for sharing it. I had a similar experience and I realise how lucky I was. Hope it encourages more young people to come - and more families and friends to be relaxed and supportive about it.
Thanks for telling your story. Congratulations on being brave for standing up to be counted. You're well spoken and charming, you made it entertaining. I'm certain people struggling with the issue will find your video inspirational. Props to your parents for being loving and supportive. I'm quite a bit older than you and stories like yours amaze me.
Andrew, of all the vids on here, urs had the most impact on me. I can identify for sure, wish there was some way I could meet you as I feel you are more real and honest than anyone ive heard. I can always hope.
OMG your story is just like mine. Same feelings, same thoughts. It's so good to have someone who we can identify with. Thank u so much for sharing your story!
This video honestly made me so happy. I just recently came out to my peers but idk if I'm ready to come out to my mom and step dad. He is really "old fashion" IG is the word but I'm glad u had that much support!😁
You’re story was really heartwarming. I wish that my family could be as supportive like your’s. I really liked this story you shared. I just want hear more of this often.☺️😊😘
I really have to say. I admire you very very much. you are so courageous, loving and humble, I really look to you and the person you are. I watched alot of your videos and they help me out so much with my own experiences. your one of my biggest role models and I hope to meet you one day. thanks again for the videos you share.
Watching any video no matter how "hard" the story is always helps me. I'm still kind of struggling but I'm getting there. Thank you! And gosh you're cute! Lol
Wow. The reaction you received was great. What a blessing to have people so understanding in your family. Mom, with the glass of wine, was actually quite hilarious. How dramatic and new age with the candles. Loved it.
I know this video is very old, but i just wanted to say that it is very hard for some too come out to even a friend, some like myself never even wanted my fockes to know. I knew it would never be anywhere near the same, I knew that my mother would never look at me the same way again. To be honest she never has, it has changed my whole relationship with her and everyone else in my family, and I don't know if that feeling will ever go away. Thank you for the video, it was what i needed to get through another day.
your a really awesome guy i mean this helped me so much i mean i was already out and it seems we had similar experiences my family was cool with it too so i just smiled watching this as it reminded me how i felt when they were supportive when i came out. Also your videos are awesome and your a really cool guy x
I wish I could like this video a thousand times over. glad you had very accepting parents not everyone is lucky like that, but I feel even if it is a struggle you will always come out stronger at the top being yourself!!
Omg I have watched this so many times. You just are amazing and I wish I had family like yours. You just inspire me and I wish I could meet someone like you. Maybe if I wish on my lucky stars one day. YOU ROCK ANDREWWW
Your experience is nearly identical to mine! Although I never posted on social media about it, rather I told my stepmom and she told my dad and my dad told my mom. However, my mother wasn't as cool about it as your mom was. But I was lucky to have the support of friends and certain family members. But your experiences are so similar to mine and I'm glad you shared your story!
Props from a Baby Boomer whose family didn't take my coming out nearly as well as yours did. I watch videos like this and am so glad that things are better than they were in my day. Best of luck, man.
Sweetheart...thanking you for a wonderful video and the coming out process you experienced. My coming out went just as well because family figured it out long before I knew....anyway, it's been almost 30 years and it was the BEST coming out I could ever imagine. My parents were divorced as well and remember writing my dad a letter about my being gay....he was supportive and loving in his own way and I thought how great that was. All they wanted was for me to be happy. I have been out now nearly 30 years and a mentor to several of our gay youth helping them live in a world that's still not accepting. I teach them about being kind, generous, respectful and tolerant to others and today they're all doing well and now paying it forward from what they learned early on. I AM SO PROUD OF THEM ALL and proud of you baby for sending such a good message to those kids who's yet to come out. Hoping someday that coming out will be a thing of the past and that your sexuality should NOT mean a thing. Wishing you well sweetheart and I have enjoyed your videos for awhile...you are a lovely young man and feel you will go very far in life. Be well and if ever you need to chat I'll be here for you too...xoxox "Mama" Steve😊👍🏿
Your vid appeared in my feed - And I was sure I was going to have something to say, but it turns out that you seem to be handling life far better than most. I'm speechless - and so very thankful for you taking the time to share yourself. You're doing just fine, Andrew. So keep up the good work! Now if you ever decide to get engaged, let me know - I have a lot of good things to share. Hugs....
Watching this video just reminds me of where I was three years ago: watching videos like this trying to get the courage to come out myself. I'm so happy that I'm in a place in my life now where I can watch these videos, not trying to gain courage, but to give empathy.
I am not into the whole "daddy" scene, but seeing you really tests my limits. You are such an awesome looking guy. Don't let the haters shame you because of their personal insecurities. I am a hefty older guy, but they tell me that even I will find my perfect match. LOL
Andrew, I love watching your videos. I follow you on Instagram also. You are such an inspiration to me. I live in Georgia and have been raised in a religious family so the struggle is definitely different.
Andrew, you are very fortunate to have had such a awesome, supportive family and friends. Good for you and best wishes for the adventures that lay ahead for you. You have good looks and most importantly, a good heart.
Hey Andrew thanks for sharing your story :D! Being a gay couple on youtube we are already automatically "out" regardless of making a coming out video or not but we def think its important to share these stories and help little gays all around the world accept and feel comfortable with themselves :) So yeah just wanted to say thanks for sharing buddy! -Philip & Shawn
i can totally relate to checking out the underwear ads as a kid haha thanks for sharing your story man!
+Evan L.
Get your ass in a car and visit that boy. Y'all be destined.
#evdrew
+Evan L. Oh, I see you came across Andrew long before me. Well, so it goes... (re: what do you look for in a guy?)
Sally Mendoza leave
Evan L. i guess its the first thing we all have done 😂 litlle devils
Hey Dr Evan. Dr Andrew is so funny and yet so professional. I subbed and hit the bell.
His nervous chuckle is so damn cute. Lord.
He's so cute I'm crying
teeth whiter than my future...
+Joseph Phillips damn I screwed that one up 😂😭
Brighter*
same
What a handsome and intelligent young man. Whoever ends up with you will be a very lucky man! :) Thanks for sharing your story
Very lucky
"Andrew...I saw some things on your computer..."
("I don't even want to know what he was thinking...")
Been there
You are so lucky to have an awesome mom & Dad (and step mom) to support you.
+Andrew Goes Places I came out to my folks 36 years ago and my Dad (WW II marine vet) was totally awesome too. He always treated my partner (now husband) as his son in law.
Jim Kohn yes he is so nice u can see that he is sweet from the way he talk so i think he deserve all the support from all people and deserve every swee thing in his life
when i see ppl happy it makes me happy so its great^^
so true
I didn't come out until I was well into my 30s wasn't a great experience but knew for years and years and kept denying my true self now 52. I have my partner of 27 years this year who's been by my side since the very beginning. That's great you have some many great coming out stories we are all different I suppose 🌈🌈🌈
Wow! Time sure has flown by Andrew... the boyishness is gone, the manliness emerged!
it's illegal to be this handsome *HOLY SHIT*
"Met a guy that was in band with me..." *Pauses video*Me: "YESSSSSSS!!!! BAND NERDS!!!"*resumes video*
+Andrew Goes Places I really wanted to play trumpet, but the music director made me try to learn the French horn instead and I never really got the hang of it.
trumpet here! 😀
Baritone 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Trumpet/French horn/Drum Major here! :D (Band is love, band is life)
Trumpet here! Why do so many trumpet players seem to be gay haha?
You look like an angel lol The way you speak is very soothing, really nice!
Andrew, I'm so proud of you for coming out. Thank goodness for having such a supportive family. I didn't come out until I was in my 40s. My son was my hugest support, and he was straight. My wife was absolutely wonderful, and continues to be. (I know that sounds complicated, but it's not...love conquers all. Don't ever forget that, Andrew.) Plus I'm proud of every young person that does come out...what courage it takes to do that, and, for me, it shows incredible character to be honest with yourself and others. Thank for this video. Big thumbs up, Andrew!
YOU VOICE IS SO ATTRACTIVE
as soon as you said band camp all i thought was "this one time at band camp...!"
American pie ... omg
i love the movies
I thought the same thing too :)
matt stojko me too!!!! first thing I thought. hahahaha
You're soooooo blessed to have supportive people in your life... I can't even be myself a 100% in my hometown.
Thanks for sharing such a great story Andrew. You are very lucky you had such a positive response and I'm happy for you.
You have such a sweet, and warm personality. I can truly see why your friends and family are so supportive of you. Any guy you end up being with, will be truly lucky to have you. Good Luck, and God Bless.
Thank you Andrew for a most terrific life story. You have a wonderful grasp on a very difficult stage of your life. God Bless.
Dude your stories are so relatable especially the stuff about magazines and stuff at a younger age! It brought me to tears and brought back so many memories! :(
Andrew - You are lucky. And your message is one that should be shared often.
Especially because you do so in such a "normal" way - absent the timbre of fear that I see so often in other Coming Out messages. Your demeanor is infectious in a most good way.
Best to you!
I can't tell you how much it warms my heart to hear stories like yours. Thank you for sharing, Andrew.
Such a good speaker , I never listen to any RUclips till the end..he's smart
this is literally almost identical to what is happening to me right now. thank you for sharing your story and showing how supportive everyone was
Thank you for sharing your story with us! It is the best feeling when they accept you the way you really are and i'm looking forward to seeing more of you!
Andrew I am a new subscriber here. I wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed your videos. You seem so humble and big-hearted and that is so refreshing. Keep up the good work.
You were soooooooo lucky with your parents and stepmom. Both of my parents were dead set against it. I tried coming out twice. The first time with my Mom she was like how could you be gay you like Dolly Parton and brushed it off. The second time she stopped talking to me for like 3 weeks and I was literally dying inside cause my Mom was my rock. So if you can believe it I talked myself out of being gay and I told my Mom I'd never mention it again. I'm 50....and I've never been on a date....or known love. Just the love of my Mom. She passed on November 3rd 2021....and it's the hardest thing I ever went through in my life. Now it's just me and......I'm alone. It's very hard!!!!
I am sorry to hear that but try and take some time to focus on yourself and your emotions as well okay and try and maybe make some new friends if you can okay and try and be in touch with yourself and get some help if you can okay I wish you all the best in your life
I was looking at his teeth the whole time. Omg how tf do they get so white? They are so pretty.
Me You hes a doctor
He's an eye doctor....
I would expect that DD have extreme white teeth ! What do they do in the US ?
@@justaguy1768 Lucky United States ! You have gay doctors who can afford to buy artificial teeth !
Great video, Thanks for sharing it. I had a similar experience and I realise how lucky I was. Hope it encourages more young people to come - and more families and friends to be relaxed and supportive about it.
Thanks for sharing your story Andrew.
Thanks for telling your story. Congratulations on being brave for standing up to be counted. You're well spoken and charming, you made it entertaining. I'm certain people struggling with the issue will find your video inspirational. Props to your parents for being loving and supportive. I'm quite a bit older than you and stories like yours amaze me.
This was awesome. Glad you shared this and spoke about it.
You're literally a visionary, I love your channel. Please don't stop making videos :)
Coming Out stories are so unique and never boring for me. I can hear countless coming out stories and I will still be intrigued.
cheers for you and all who love and support you
you're a drop of sunshine. keep on spreading you're light
you're lucky af... i have no idea if i'm still alive when i came out someday... good for you it's pretty encouraging
absolutely adorable. thanks so much for sharing. you're helping a lot of people
Andrew, of all the vids on here, urs had the most impact on me. I can identify for sure, wish there was some way I could meet you as I feel you are more real and honest than anyone ive heard. I can always hope.
OMG your story is just like mine. Same feelings, same thoughts. It's so good to have someone who we can identify with. Thank u so much for sharing your story!
You are ADORABLE! So happy for you that you can be yourself with your family
Hey drew thank you so much! I'm from Mexico and this is really helpful, thank you for sharing your story.
new subscriber. I'm on a marathon watching all your vids. Glad you had a great experience coming out.
Great Video, loved how much detail he put into it
This video honestly made me so happy. I just recently came out to my peers but idk if I'm ready to come out to my mom and step dad. He is really "old fashion" IG is the word but I'm glad u had that much support!😁
You’re story was really heartwarming. I wish that my family could be as supportive like your’s. I really liked this story you shared. I just want hear more of this often.☺️😊😘
I really have to say. I admire you very very much. you are so courageous, loving and humble, I really look to you and the person you are. I watched alot of your videos and they help me out so much with my own experiences. your one of my biggest role models and I hope to meet you one day. thanks again for the videos you share.
Watching any video no matter how "hard" the story is always helps me. I'm still kind of struggling but I'm getting there. Thank you! And gosh you're cute! Lol
You're very supportive ! Support you, guy !
Really glad that your experience has been so positive......keep sharing it so that experiences like yours become the norm!
Wow. The reaction you received was great. What a blessing to have people so understanding in your family. Mom, with the glass of wine, was actually quite hilarious. How dramatic and new age with the candles. Loved it.
Your amazing. Respect bro🙏❤️
Your voice is so calming and relaxing. I love it!
Hey Andrew, thank you for this video, actually gave me inspiration to start do a video about my experience as well. Keep up the great work.
Instant sub from a str8 ally. So proud of your courage. Congratulations!!! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
He is really really nice on talking I can tell he is nervous
I know this video is very old, but i just wanted to say that it is very hard for some too come out to even a friend, some like myself never even wanted my fockes to know. I knew it would never be anywhere near the same, I knew that my mother would never look at me the same way again. To be honest she never has, it has changed my whole relationship with her and everyone else in my family, and I don't know if that feeling will ever go away.
Thank you for the video, it was what i needed to get through another day.
Crazy man- almost same experience many years back- except it was 'browsing a Sears catalog' when I first noticed my true interests.
your a really awesome guy i mean this helped me so much i mean i was already out and it seems we had similar experiences my family was cool with it too so i just smiled watching this as it reminded me how i felt when they were supportive when i came out. Also your videos are awesome and your a really cool guy x
my mom's a Christian and she don't want me to be this way but she already took my phone away one and I got it back what should I do man
glad you did this. it's wonderful that young people can come out in this way.
Andrew you are a very engaging speaker!
I wish I could like this video a thousand times over. glad you had very accepting parents not everyone is lucky like that, but I feel even if it is a struggle you will always come out stronger at the top being yourself!!
im currently in the middle of coming out to my family and its not going great. I wish I could have had half the support you did. Thanks for sharing
Omg I have watched this so many times. You just are amazing and I wish I had family like yours. You just inspire me and I wish I could meet someone like you. Maybe if I wish on my lucky stars one day. YOU ROCK ANDREWWW
The underwear packages at walmart...talk about an ambush!
Your experience is nearly identical to mine! Although I never posted on social media about it, rather I told my stepmom and she told my dad and my dad told my mom. However, my mother wasn't as cool about it as your mom was. But I was lucky to have the support of friends and certain family members. But your experiences are so similar to mine and I'm glad you shared your story!
i related to your story so much and it really inspired me to come out so i think i’m gonna try and do it soon thank you for sharing!
Inspiring! Thank you for sharing this with everyone 😊
Very well spoken. Thank you
Thanks for sharing your experience, I found a lot to relate to. And you follow Mark and Ethan. Yusssss.
Your smile is perfection.
OMG you are really beautiful
You have a great voice! So handsome and love your story!
You are a amazing and great person. Thanks for sharing your story
wow..your parents are awesome. That makes a whole world of difference.
He was so young and so humble 4 years ago. Now he looks much older and shows off too much.
Very similar stories. I feel blessed to have had such an easy experience. Thank you for sharing :)
Watched you over the yrs. I'm a road musician, love your integrity and sense of humor! Keep it goin! Me
Omggggggggggggggg sooooo luckkkky happy for uuuu
Props from a Baby Boomer whose family didn't take my coming out nearly as well as yours did. I watch videos like this and am so glad that things are better than they were in my day. Best of luck, man.
Sweetheart...thanking you for a wonderful video and the coming out process you experienced. My coming out went just as well because family figured it out long before I knew....anyway, it's been almost 30 years and it was the BEST coming out I could ever imagine. My parents were divorced as well and remember writing my dad a letter about my being gay....he was supportive and loving in his own way and I thought how great that was. All they wanted was for me to be happy. I have been out now nearly 30 years and a mentor to several of our gay youth helping them live in a world that's still not accepting. I teach them about being kind, generous, respectful and tolerant to others and today they're all doing well and now paying it forward from what they learned early on. I AM SO PROUD OF THEM ALL and proud of you baby for sending such a good message to those kids who's yet to come out. Hoping someday that coming out will be a thing of the past and that your sexuality should NOT mean a thing. Wishing you well sweetheart and I have enjoyed your videos for awhile...you are a lovely young man and feel you will go very far in life. Be well and if ever you need to chat I'll be here for you too...xoxox "Mama" Steve😊👍🏿
So happy for you! Had the same thing happened to me this year! :))
Great video Andrew :0) Subbed. You've got a great channel :0)
Your vid appeared in my feed - And I was sure I was going to have something to say, but it turns out that you seem to be handling life far better than most. I'm speechless - and so very thankful for you taking the time to share yourself. You're doing just fine, Andrew. So keep up the good work! Now if you ever decide to get engaged, let me know - I have a lot of good things to share. Hugs....
Loved your story. Thank you
Watching this video just reminds me of where I was three years ago: watching videos like this trying to get the courage to come out myself. I'm so happy that I'm in a place in my life now where I can watch these videos, not trying to gain courage, but to give empathy.
i love the way you talk so calm and so charming
I love this video, I wish my family would have been as supportive but it is what it is. Thanks for this video Andrew! :)
I am not into the whole "daddy" scene, but seeing you really tests my limits. You are such an awesome looking guy. Don't let the haters shame you because of their personal insecurities. I am a hefty older guy, but they tell me that even I will find my perfect match. LOL
I about cried watching this, nothing bad even happened, o was just so glad his family was like that
Andrew, I love watching your videos. I follow you on Instagram also. You are such an inspiration to me. I live in Georgia and have been raised in a religious family so the struggle is definitely different.
Andrew, you are very fortunate to have had such a awesome, supportive family and friends. Good for you and best wishes for the adventures that lay ahead for you. You have good looks and most importantly, a good heart.
Your so open and I love it thank you
Wish I had your parents! Glad for the love and support you've had.
"A part of who you are" - exactly.
Really glad you had such a great family.
I love listening to your stories. Lots of heart. Handsome beautiful guy.
Hey Andrew thanks for sharing your story :D!
Being a gay couple on youtube we are already automatically "out" regardless of making a coming out video or not but we def think its important to share these stories and help little gays all around the world accept and feel comfortable with themselves :)
So yeah just wanted to say thanks for sharing buddy!
-Philip & Shawn
Omg! You're gorgeous! I'm crying rn T.T
you cried because of his gorgeousness?
me too. =/
just still waiting for the day to come out😢, thanks your video.
Glad u didn't have too hard a time coming out, hopefully mine will be just as easy