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  • @Najib99
    @Najib99 Год назад +13817

    Chelsea is so brave for been genuine and transparent. It takes so much self awareness and maturity to point out her own weaknesses as part of her explanations 💕

  • @shelbi5204
    @shelbi5204 Год назад +21216

    tara and jake are so real and genuine - they’re literally made for eachother

    • @shaynaclickovich5416
      @shaynaclickovich5416 Год назад +61

      yes 😍

    • @CaitWylie
      @CaitWylie Год назад +36

      Facts

    • @leensalocin
      @leensalocin Год назад +14

      Yaaassss

    • @jackyflores245
      @jackyflores245 Год назад +6

      rightttt

    • @aubreyy__15
      @aubreyy__15 Год назад +212

      I feel bad for Jake tho at the end lol.. when he was talking about kids and she interrupted him you could see it In his face so he had to slowly add his answer while the other people talked lol DONT GET ME WRONG I LOVE TARA SO MUCH AND THEY ACTUALLY TALKED ABOUT THIS PROBLEM IN JC STREAM SO DONT TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY

  • @katrinasierra2733
    @katrinasierra2733 8 месяцев назад +1114

    The way people really use "breaks" as an excuse to sleep around and then say that they are "so necessary" for relationships to thrive is actually insane. No way a person who isn't manipulative or narcissistic thinks this way.

    • @vivianahernandez1130
      @vivianahernandez1130 7 месяцев назад +106

      trynna to find a comment that talked about that bc there’s literally no way you date someone and randomly when you’re comfortable be like do i want this person? leave and go fuck someone .. like huh? it’s a break like they said. if it’s a break that’s considered cheating to me personally. just break up if you want to fuck other people. your partner shouldn’t be a second choice because you’re unsure ? how are you unsure after 4 years? make it make sense.

    • @kissmyasss420
      @kissmyasss420 7 месяцев назад +19

      I also agree but it's a good thing we can choose our person and we can choose to leave. If someone asked for a break I would just leave and never return lol I'm not dealing with that 😂

    • @jam3269
      @jam3269 7 месяцев назад +29

      No fr. Like Why do u have to sleep around to know if u really want to be with skmeone

    • @tinymogi
      @tinymogi 7 месяцев назад +5

      exactly

    • @Meccarox
      @Meccarox 7 месяцев назад +5

      Right??

  • @kevinadiel777
    @kevinadiel777 Год назад +2233

    “I have my life Tara has her life and we have our life” that line was simple but very powerful. I liked a lot!

    • @jiminjimin1227
      @jiminjimin1227 10 месяцев назад +46

      Ya I agree …. They are young but seemed to have more of a healthy relationship then most older people … I love that … they know what they want and it feels like if they came to a bump in the road and wanted different things in life … they would part ways relationship wise with ease … and they would probably stay friends …

    • @kaywee4200
      @kaywee4200 8 месяцев назад +3

      100 percent.

    • @krissed7770
      @krissed7770 4 месяца назад +15

      @@jiminjimin1227the fact that you’re right

    • @heartclouds
      @heartclouds 4 месяца назад +12

      @@jiminjimin1227they did exactly that

    • @samanthaxo819
      @samanthaxo819 3 месяца назад +5

      @@jiminjimin1227ahaha that’s exactly what they did!

  • @jiayiwang4973
    @jiayiwang4973 Год назад +2092

    Tara and Jake is the relationship I would want to be in
    No kids, no trust issues, no looking phones, stylish, perfect.

    • @thedcvilswhcre_
      @thedcvilswhcre_ 10 месяцев назад +13

      Sameee it’s what I strive to have.

    • @WillowTree363
      @WillowTree363 9 месяцев назад +71

      Yeah, and I like that Tara acknowledges that she won’t be a perfect mother. Not saying she won’t, but many adults have kids without thinking and they might not be the best parents, so I really like that about Tara

    • @Subsistence69
      @Subsistence69 9 месяцев назад

      Same, that shit looks tight

    • @tevarose
      @tevarose 7 месяцев назад +25

      this didn’t age well

    • @denjiwh0re
      @denjiwh0re 7 месяцев назад +42

      @@tevarosethey still love each other tho, they just decided to follow their own ways which i find really healthy!

  • @Wra8h
    @Wra8h Год назад +6504

    You know why Tara and Jake work so well? Because they are fantastic people who know themselves even if they weren't in a relationship! As they said, there's her, his, and their lives, not just one. I really love their input.

    • @ashleyh2578
      @ashleyh2578 Год назад +118

      This. They seem like confident people. Idk them but they exude that idea of knowing yourself first and also healthy effin boundaries.

    • @ShayNola
      @ShayNola Год назад +45

      you cant stop having your own life because youre in realationship yes youre together but its kinda sad if youre one person honestly

    • @shrutik9673
      @shrutik9673 Год назад +15

      @@ShayNola Tara is the most intelligent of them all

    • @ShayNola
      @ShayNola Год назад +1

      @@shrutik9673 agreed

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent Год назад +5

      they were my favorite

  • @abbeyz4920
    @abbeyz4920 Год назад +7865

    I honestly love seeing how healthy and genuine Tara and Jake's relationship is - every time I see them together I’m always so impressed by how well they communicate and are so clear and comfortable within themselves and with each other. Both such well-rounded humans who balance being mature and knowing what they want with allowing themselves to have fun and make the most of life by doing what makes them happy. Honestly so lovely to see partners that understand each other in that way and have clearly put in the work to cultivate such a strong and healthy relationship.

    • @aubreyy__15
      @aubreyy__15 Год назад +30

      They were made for each other

    • @abbeyz4920
      @abbeyz4920 Год назад +49

      * Should clarify that I don’t mean to take away from anyone else’s relationship! Everyone seems happy and secure in their own style and doing what works for them. Just feel like (especially for a young couple) they are a great example of what I’d love to see in my own life!

    • @kaylahmatano1749
      @kaylahmatano1749 Год назад +4

      @@aubreyy__15 honestly tho, they're so compatible

    • @iman4944
      @iman4944 Год назад +2

      @@abbeyz4920 you are so right and don’t worry you weren’t putting down other relationships but relationships now of days are toxic and them being so young while maintaining a healthy relationship is something I want as well🥺

    • @etherdragun
      @etherdragun Год назад +1

      😆😆

  • @kelseyfrazier7110
    @kelseyfrazier7110 Год назад +2643

    Throw back to when Kian & Ayla said they wanted a baby within the next 3 years and now look at them 6 months later 🤍 Congratulations Ayla & Kian!!

    • @roseyfan
      @roseyfan 11 месяцев назад +6

      yay! 🎉

    • @amyserrano5823
      @amyserrano5823 11 месяцев назад +18

      I came back to watch this video because of the foreshadowing 😢🎉❤

    • @merrelltwinslover1556
      @merrelltwinslover1556 11 месяцев назад +3

      💓

    • @miadaniel294
      @miadaniel294 10 месяцев назад +3

      right omgg

    • @cheyennediedrich
      @cheyennediedrich 7 месяцев назад +6

      At first I thought Ayla was already pregnant but haven’t told anyone yet. 😅

  • @makaylagaitan
    @makaylagaitan Год назад +1605

    this aged so well for kian and ayla😭❤️ so happy to see them become parents

    • @roseyfan
      @roseyfan 11 месяцев назад +6

      yas!

    • @landoncoffel3104
      @landoncoffel3104 3 месяца назад +6

      Just found and followed bc this comment

    • @eerriiiika
      @eerriiiika 2 месяца назад

      Yess

    • @glendagonzalez4217
      @glendagonzalez4217 2 месяца назад +3

      definetly did not age well for tara and jake :( i wish they didnt break up

    • @lester499
      @lester499 2 месяца назад +5

      @@glendagonzalez4217 i mean you could tell from the video they wouldn't last

  • @sashac175
    @sashac175 Год назад +3629

    Tara and Jake are so good at communication. You can really tell by their boundaries that it’s a healthy relationship too

    • @hannahknolly
      @hannahknolly 10 месяцев назад +12

      right?!! and im pretty sure they have been together the longest out of all the couples! they compliment each other so well, i love them!

    • @morganhall7336
      @morganhall7336 7 месяцев назад +18

      this didn’t age well

    • @divyaa4459
      @divyaa4459 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@morganhall7336 oh, did they break up?😐

    • @andreagonzalezo.7954
      @andreagonzalezo.7954 7 месяцев назад

      @@morganhall7336wait, they broke up?

    • @tessaelto1472
      @tessaelto1472 7 месяцев назад +49

      @@morganhall7336just because they broke up doesn't mean they didn't have a healthy relationship with good communication lmao jeez

  • @megan_1
    @megan_1 Год назад +1880

    JC saying "WHAT IS A BREAK" is literally me 😂
    and then Kian telling Ayla "and then when I kicked you out of the house we took a break for a weekend" lmfao Kian 💀

  • @savannahdamico2011
    @savannahdamico2011 10 месяцев назад +396

    watching ayla sprint to strongly agree to having kids in the next three years knowing they’re pregnant is crazy

  • @meg_collins
    @meg_collins Год назад +2881

    “let’s all fight”
    kian is so effortlessly funny 😭

    • @aubreyy__15
      @aubreyy__15 Год назад +32

      I literally cant get enough of Kian HAHA

    • @dolahdoles4481
      @dolahdoles4481 Год назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Alejandracortes98
      @Alejandracortes98 Год назад +21

      His gf is too much man, she just likes to disagree lmao

    • @kaylahmatano1749
      @kaylahmatano1749 Год назад +16

      and also when he said "I trust Ayla with my heart, she could take it out like a heart surgeon and keep it alive" lol

    • @biancadisanto222
      @biancadisanto222 Год назад

      when was this?

  • @shaneelizabeth4010
    @shaneelizabeth4010 Год назад +4616

    I cannot believe Tara is only 22. She is wise beyond her years and so mature! I genuinely think she would be a fantastic mom and give such good advice

    • @leticiaquitete7205
      @leticiaquitete7205 Год назад +258

      it’s usually how it is, the people that would be great parents doubt themselves bc they understand how much effort it takes to raise a great human being and put too much pressure on themselves

    • @R2S0725
      @R2S0725 Год назад +128

      she said herself she’s too selfish and self centered right now to be able to be the best mom lol which is very apparent so it’s good she’s that self aware to prevent any accidents bc she knows she’s no where near ready

    • @arielm.4997
      @arielm.4997 Год назад +17

      @@R2S0725 yeah I agree, it's better that she's honest & aware instead of having a baby she knows she can't take care of

    • @jewel8439
      @jewel8439 Год назад +69

      She said she doesn’t have motherly instincts. That’s actually the most important thing you need to be a mom, to want the kid. I’ve loved kids and babies my whole life and she says she doesn’t even like them. I applaud her self reflection and knowing herself, she’s a very nice and mature person

    • @arielm.4997
      @arielm.4997 Год назад

      @@jewel8439 oh yeah, I forgot she said that too, but you're right

  • @lgerd8828
    @lgerd8828 Год назад +471

    Taking a “break” is different than needing space for a second. In my 10 year relationship we have faced many of hard times that required space but we never once needed a “break”. We worked though it together and that’s what makes you stronger

    • @StellaRose.
      @StellaRose. Год назад +26

      I love your comment and I agree. My boyfriend and I been together for 7 years and we never want our own space and we never fight, we agree and disagree but never a fight.

    • @ecstasyecs
      @ecstasyecs Год назад +44

      Same. I always said it’s an excuse to sleep with other people and they kinda confirmed it here lol.

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 Год назад +1

      @@ecstasyecs yep! I think Chelsea is late 30s which explains her views!!

    • @MC32595
      @MC32595 11 месяцев назад +1

      agreed!

    • @keyLimner
      @keyLimner 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ecstasyecs Maybe that's healthy sometimes.

  • @michelle2367
    @michelle2367 3 месяца назад +52

    i LOVED tara and jake's explanation about the looking through phones. they explained my thoughts perfectly they get it

  • @AllieDanielleYoga
    @AllieDanielleYoga Год назад +2811

    when JC says “speak your truth, baby” to Chelsey, my heart melted omfg 🥺

    • @kaylahmatano1749
      @kaylahmatano1749 Год назад +13

      same omg I love them

    • @ri6516
      @ri6516 Год назад +10

      That was so cute. 😭

    • @cheddarsunchipsyes8144
      @cheddarsunchipsyes8144 Год назад +4

      “Your truth” is such a dumb term, there is only 1 truth in any scenario. You can have your own experience and your own opinion.

    • @shannematalang9707
      @shannematalang9707 Год назад +16

      @@cheddarsunchipsyes8144 it’s poetic actually. As you said, you can have your own opinions and I believe JC didn’t mean to say the real definition of truth what he meant to push her to say was what’s really on her mind and feelings so meaning that’s her truth

    • @romanbisek1498
      @romanbisek1498 Год назад +6

      @@cheddarsunchipsyes8144 taking it too literal bro.

  • @haileystrang
    @haileystrang Год назад +5822

    It’s was so weird to me seeing Kian and jc talk about kids until I realized that they really are grown adults now, it’s hard to believe how far they’ve come sometimes I still see them as the kids they were when I first started watching

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe Год назад +34

      exactly! time flew

    • @estefanysepulveda10
      @estefanysepulveda10 Год назад +38

      lol I was kind of shocked, then remembered they are full on adults JC is already 30

    • @brynnamanda6278
      @brynnamanda6278 Год назад +12

      FR I remember seeing kians first ever video

    • @iris-xo
      @iris-xo Год назад +9

      I seriously am struggling to comprehend they’re like 30

    • @avin374
      @avin374 Год назад +16

      And now kian and ayla are having a baby😭🥹

  • @meetoo5088
    @meetoo5088 Год назад +575

    I love the boyfriend giving support to his girl every time she talks about her insecurities and the toxic traits she’s able to acknowledge and work on ❤

  • @bri7614
    @bri7614 Год назад +587

    Kian has the ability to be immature but mature at the same time😅

  • @ItsMe34120
    @ItsMe34120 Год назад +2002

    Jake and Tara are literally perfect for each other!

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Год назад +2867

    chelsey's answers were so real and relatable, I love how she wasn't afraid to be transparent with her answers.

    • @fatsanii
      @fatsanii Год назад +4

      yes !!

    • @anjieeee
      @anjieeee Год назад +3

      she’s so real

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 Год назад +9

      Being honest about your "lack of values" doesn't really give you a lot of points! She's"honest" tho, I guess.

    • @lulue.5655
      @lulue.5655 11 месяцев назад

      @@blueskies6475 how does expressing insecurities mean she lacks values???

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 11 месяцев назад

      @@lulue.5655 Sorry, I don't recall her insecurities. What were they?

  • @nishamiah4564
    @nishamiah4564 Год назад +85

    who’s watching after kian and ayla announced their baby news🥺been watching kian for the last 11 years and i cant believe he’s going to be a dad, so surreal to hear them talk about it in this video 💕

  • @Xx-ic8ym
    @Xx-ic8ym Год назад +391

    kian, jc and david saying they see themselves as parents in 3 years kind of made me a little emotional. i grew up watching these people so i'm definitely gonna cry when that day comes

    • @Xx-ic8ym
      @Xx-ic8ym 11 месяцев назад +15

      NOW KIAN AND AYLA AND PREGNANT I'M CRYING

  • @melh5531
    @melh5531 Год назад +2138

    Legit can’t get enough of this friend group, from the dating blind series to the series where you get to see everyone’s mindset. Love all this content

  • @mariamosquera1183
    @mariamosquera1183 Год назад +1297

    You can really see that age difference matters when answering these questions. Love jake and Tara for keeping it real and truly enjoying their early 20’s as they should

    • @smome7773
      @smome7773 Год назад +10

      Lol absolutely. I feel like my expectations and mentality really developed over time.

  • @unoriginxlity
    @unoriginxlity Год назад +174

    i’m really happy they mentioned the FOMO type of jealousy because i always feel like such a horrible person when my bf gets to hang out & have fun with his friends and im sitting at home because i have no other friends besides him and i get that FOMO kind of jealousy, but i also don’t wanna break boundaries by insisting that i have to always be there when he’s hanging out with them

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 Год назад +2

      Then, have your own friends! Get busy!!

    • @unoriginxlity
      @unoriginxlity Год назад +19

      @@blueskies6475 if you don’t understand my struggle then ignore my comment. it was not targeted at you. it was for anyone else who might share my struggle so maybe they won’t feel so alone like i do.
      maybe try to be a little more kind in your replies because whether you believe it or not, reminding the wrong person of that in your tone could send them over the edge.
      i’m glad you’re able to make and keep friends but not everyone on this earth is as lucky.
      it takes more energy to type up a rude response than it does to not type one up at all.

    • @p_roduct9211
      @p_roduct9211 Год назад +8

      Hey hun, I'm kind of horribly ambivalent towards wanting to be part of my BF's friends hangouts (I am always grateful to be included, but I don't expect and feel obligated to always be there as the 2nd half). But I get what you mean. I think it feels normal because there's this unsettling thing between his ability to have fun with another group and possibly have a different story or bond develop without you there... and the contrast to your lack of friend action at home. Don't feel obligated to always be a social butterfly. I can count my true friends on one hand, we connect and chat maybe 2-3 times a year since we are all spread across the world now but go to each other with all our deepest insecurities, goals, secrets and successes. Fun is overrated, remember 90% of the time boys are sitting around doing the dumbest shit, drinking and jking around. Don't feel guilty to not match the same level of social activity. Protect your energy and be happy with those closest to you.

  • @SacrificeLoveJoyLife
    @SacrificeLoveJoyLife Год назад +198

    They definitely need to start doing these blindfolded. People look at what others are doing, and then follow.

    • @MT-ov8qf
      @MT-ov8qf Год назад +13

      i disagree, i think it adds to it when people are being indecisive and have to explain why

    • @daisyhayzzz
      @daisyhayzzz Год назад +20

      if they were blindfolded how would they see the lines to know where to go to lol

    • @Nisa-oe9dd
      @Nisa-oe9dd 7 месяцев назад +1

      I mean they literally ask for their ideas so anytime they talk it’ll be obvious

  • @molly.elizabeth5639
    @molly.elizabeth5639 Год назад +2468

    This video just reinforces my belief that “healthy” relationships are different for every single human. What’s healthy to one person could not be to someone else & that’s why there’s specific people for each other.. because you’ve gotta find someone who aligns with you. It’s kinda a beautiful reminder of how diverse each individual person is. ❤

    • @kaylahmatano1749
      @kaylahmatano1749 Год назад +2

      exactly

    • @molly.elizabeth5639
      @molly.elizabeth5639 Год назад +2

      @@kaylahmatano1749 :))

    • @lorelylopez9448
      @lorelylopez9448 Год назад +2

      So true!!!!!

    • @onemillionpercent
      @onemillionpercent Год назад +19

      kinda true. but! there are still some universal concepts of health ...

    • @molly.elizabeth5639
      @molly.elizabeth5639 Год назад +12

      @@onemillionpercent For sure. I’m not saying “it’s okay you’re partner beats you or controls what you wear bc it’s healthy to you.” I didn’t think I needed to include toxic/abusive behaviors, because those things are obviously not healthy.

  • @corischrade6787
    @corischrade6787 Год назад +4411

    But really, Chelsea shows so much maturity, bravery, and self awareness. You can tell she has put in work to better herself for her and therefore for her relationship. That’s not easy, so I just want to commend her on that and being so authentic during this video. I feel like so many people can relate to the struggles she talks about and it is extremely validating to hear someone with a platform and in a long term relationship speak up about it ❤

  • @queenavocado9441
    @queenavocado9441 Год назад +83

    Jake and tara have the most healthiest and adult relationship. They also look like they’ve come straight from an 80s & 90s movie

  • @shegotit143
    @shegotit143 Год назад +110

    Really appreciate Chelsea being vulnerable and real even when it shows her own toxic traits or low self-esteem. I think we all can relate but to vocalize and be real about it… oof girl 🙌🏼❤️

  • @Asshlaay1
    @Asshlaay1 Год назад +2651

    I feel like everyone is talking about how healthy Tara and Jake are, and they are. But I appreciate how vulnerable and open everyone else was sharing their honest opinions. Especially Chelsea. You can tell she struggles with insecurities and trust. I’m happy that she and everyone else is open to talking about these things not only with their partners but with their friends as well. Talking about these things really helps others learn and realize their own toxic habits. I would love a part 2 of this!

  • @autumn4161
    @autumn4161 Год назад +877

    Tara and jake are so mature and have such a healthy relationship because of it

  • @BlackLightning47
    @BlackLightning47 8 месяцев назад +29

    A break is a breakup for people in denial. What they are describing is just having some "me time" away from your SO. Which is okay and probably necessary for healthy relationships. It could be a weekend away from each other or going to see family or a friends only vacation.
    A break sounds like someone who fell out of love or isn't interested in the relationship anymore but hasn't realized it yet.

    • @thumbsuckerjoe
      @thumbsuckerjoe 2 месяца назад

      Bro exactly. Every relationship whether a bf/gf or even close friends are allowed to have some distance and me time whenever its needed.
      The only reason they use the term "a break" is because of exactly what the girl said in the video: they explicitly want a time where they can go fuck around with other men/women.
      Saying its "a break" is just an attempt at a guilt free pass to do so at the detriment of their partner.

  • @kittyfairy662
    @kittyfairy662 9 месяцев назад +12

    I agree with Tara and Jake so much especially with the phone thing, i think that everyone deserves privacy, just bc youre in a relationship doesnt mean that you have to show that person everything all the time, you still deserve to have private conversations etc. for me i use my notes app as a therapist and diary and i just want in there and i would be so uncomfortable if i caught someone looking through it

  • @ariannam1103
    @ariannam1103 Год назад +1137

    this friend group just seems so safe and fun. i hope one day i’ll be able to find a true group of friends like this. y’all have amazing souls and will each move on to amazing things. can’t wait to see what they are♥️

    • @aubreyy__15
      @aubreyy__15 Год назад +6

      Couldn’t of said it any better. I fully agree with you. This is like my biggest wish.

    • @indierain8524
      @indierain8524 Год назад +12

      100% agree. Even though i am 21 and i feel like finding a group of friends like this is pretty much impossible now, i still hope that i can find ones like them.

    • @sebastianreyes7917
      @sebastianreyes7917 Год назад

      Completely agree

    • @jujumariex
      @jujumariex Год назад +2

      couldn’t agree more, and i’m 29 so i feel like times ticking 😂 but supposedly 30’s are the new 20’s!

  • @indierain8524
    @indierain8524 Год назад +498

    i love how Tara and Jake are so calm and mature. You can tell they don't center their life around their relationship and i honestly feel like that's the most healthy thing. Love them both and it was good to hear their points of views.

    • @persiabell556
      @persiabell556 11 месяцев назад +2

      I’ve seen them bicker a lot too tho, and boderline being rude to each other. Which is fine they’re both young and couples can fight too, but they seems to treat each other more like friends.

  • @damitamarie2458
    @damitamarie2458 Год назад +80

    Tara and Jake have one of the strongest "influencer" relationships I have seen in a while. They just meld so perfectly and are clearly on the same page about a lot of things in life.

  • @ReganSkye2010
    @ReganSkye2010 Год назад +13

    This video is so important and I’m so glad it exists. So many great conversations displaying HEALTHY, non-toxic relationships, but also being open about “toxic” traits and explaining how they’re actively working to improve, for themselves AND their relationships. BRAVO 👏🏻

  • @coo1ranch820
    @coo1ranch820 Год назад +908

    Love the fact that Tara says how her friends tell her personal stuff and that it’s not for bf eyes. My ex best friend always let her bf on her phone like in class and he was the kind of guy who would read our text to find our drama. So I always felt uncomfortable with it especially since I always told her my family drama. Like at some point I felt like I couldn’t tell her anything because I was too worried he would read all about it without my permission. One of many reasons why we aren’t friends anymore

    • @arielm.4997
      @arielm.4997 Год назад +75

      I think Jake had a really good point when he said "there's my life, Tara's life, & our life." I think if someone can't separate their life with their friends & their life with their significant other then it's a problem. I've had friends who put more importance on her boyfriend of 1 month over our friendship of 6 years, so I can kind of relate to you, I'm glad you're not friends with her anymore

    • @estefanysepulveda10
      @estefanysepulveda10 Год назад +6

      @@arielm.4997 that's so true, some in a relationship may even say why can't you just tell me their "family drama", or secrets, or whatever else it could be because you're supposed to tell me everything. But no, they don't have to tell you everything if it doesn't have anything to do with your relationship. Specially if your friend is trusting you with this info, why does your partner need to know this info? It really just depends on the situation though

    • @pxaolaaa
      @pxaolaaa Год назад +2

      thisssssss

    • @YamiiiC7
      @YamiiiC7 Год назад +5

      @@arielm.4997 my bsf does that to me now, we’ve been friends for 10 years now and she finally got her first bf and they are super close so she kinda brushed me to the side and the only time we rlly talked to eachother was when I reached out to her so I stopped reaching out and we go weeks without talking to eachother, and atp idk how to feel cuz I’ve been going through a hard time these past months and she never rlly check up on me sooo I feel like I don’t rlly got a bsf anymore. And it bothers me cuz he means a lot to me….🫠🫤

    • @arielm.4997
      @arielm.4997 Год назад

      @@YamiiiC7 I'm sorry you're going through that, I've been there & it hurts a lot. Have you talked to her about it? She may or may not realize she's doing it but either way telling her how you feel is a good idea. Especially since you guys have been friends for 10 years, that's too important to let it end like that. I hope it gets resolved

  • @b3ttr0ff
    @b3ttr0ff Год назад +529

    tara and jake being on the same side most of the time is goals no cap 🤞

  • @tess98y
    @tess98y Год назад +120

    it's so nice from Chelsea to be genuine and transparent about her insecurities 'cause I could relate so much to her and I'm myself on a journey trying to get better about it. Also seeing how a beautiful and smart girl talking about having times of weakness made me feel a little better about myself like the fact i'm insecure doesn't mean i'm not pretty 💞

  • @nutella9446
    @nutella9446 Год назад +214

    This is the first time I saw grace in a video and she absolutely killed it , such a smart , articulate & effortlessly funny person & she’s also stunning
    You complement each other beautifully, sending you lots of love

  • @amywestlund
    @amywestlund Год назад +581

    These couples are making my relationship expectations even higher than they already are lol

    • @wendy.darling
      @wendy.darling Год назад +1

      right? 😭

    • @amywestlund
      @amywestlund Год назад +8

      @@wendy.darling like I’m gonna be single forever at this point lmaoo no one will be Kian Lawley 😂

    • @leomessirules19
      @leomessirules19 Год назад

      @@amywestlund stop

    • @nakynie463
      @nakynie463 Год назад +1

      Ikr? Nothing saves me from the old cat lady life anymore

  • @SuperEmilio2011
    @SuperEmilio2011 Год назад +725

    I just love Tara so much, just a wholesome, well-rounded, grounded person.

  • @lovalexis
    @lovalexis Год назад +19

    I just love this whole friend group. And everyones relationships are so different but yet so similar because there's so much trust in each one of them. Everyone was so vulnerable and honest with each question and that amazing and so helpful for the people in relationships watching this not so much to compare but to see like "oh yeah they went through this also" kind of thing. I relate so much with Chelsea and I'm happy for her and her own growth.

  • @ItsChelseaSymone
    @ItsChelseaSymone Год назад +3

    Yooo David's girl said such a great thing🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 yessssss about the genuine friend thing cause there are girls who are very conscious about their friend's girlfriend's feeling and don't want to be anything more than friends. Being mature is a HUGE part of that. Trusting yourself and your partner has to be there to be comfortable with outside friends

  • @winnierenee0
    @winnierenee0 Год назад +25

    “having a break” is a high school mentality. i have been with my spouse for 9 years. you are either in it or not. if you are gonna take a break like tara said then most likely they aren’t for you.

    • @thumbsuckerjoe
      @thumbsuckerjoe 2 месяца назад

      I'm in my late 20s and this is one of the first videos I've seen that had really made me feel old.
      I truly don't understand how someone can rationally say "Sometimes in a relationship you need to take a break to go sleep with people to see if you truly want to be with someone and if they're 'your person'".
      It's just a selfish mindset and a lack of respect and commitment to your partner.
      You're either in, or you're out.

  • @laurenkellie
    @laurenkellie Год назад +1640

    David: "it's okay to be jealous"
    Jake: "Nick Jonas was."
    that was iconic😂😂

  • @napturalkassie
    @napturalkassie Год назад +19

    Jake and Tara really go together, you can tell how much they respect and trust eachother.😍All of the couples had a really great dynamic. This is such a fun friend group to watch. Keep em commmin!

  • @steffycastro6446
    @steffycastro6446 Год назад +2

    I love that you are making these videos because I enjoy hearing from people who I have grown up watching talk about just real life topics that i discuss with my friends. I hold a lot value in hearing your guys genuine opinions. And just the fact that as I grow up, you guys are growing up too 😢

  • @yasmeenallouch5258
    @yasmeenallouch5258 Год назад +530

    Genuinely can't wait for the day when this friend group start getting engaged/married/having kids. I just know that baby will be loved, spoiled as HECK, cared for, and be surrounded by amazing people who will move mountains for them.
    I've been watching the majority of this group since the beginning and to see them all now, grown and talking about having kids is crazy. Love you sooo much David and thank you for always making such amazing videos.
    (Also, I freaking love Ayla and Kian😂😂He's effortlessly funny and I'm here for it)

  • @josse1yn
    @josse1yn Год назад +287

    i’ve always been told by my friends that i was “too chill” in relationships but seeing that i agreed with jake and tara with every topic and knowing that they’re in a beautiful, healthy relationship makes me feel at ease. everyone is different and sees healthy relationships in different ways, you just need to find your person and work through those different ideals together.

    • @zarahshabs7936
      @zarahshabs7936 Год назад +17

      I think people mistake fighting for passion and care in the relationship
      When in reality if you guys have your boundaries and can handle conflict calmly, there’s nothing wrong with be calm!!
      Go you!

    • @MiaAshlynM
      @MiaAshlynM 2 месяца назад +3

      this didn’t age well

  • @ainsleym9202
    @ainsleym9202 Год назад +21

    JC's girlfriend is so sweet, I get you with the insecurity and the fact she recognizes it and is obviously self aware and honest is so sweet and JC comforting her as she's talking is so sweet

  • @brandimunguia
    @brandimunguia Год назад +35

    I aspire to have the level of confidence and security that Tara has, in herself and in her relationship.

  • @MM-tj9to
    @MM-tj9to Год назад +220

    jake and tara are probably the most mature, healthy and genuine couple i know

    • @mipox2851
      @mipox2851 2 месяца назад

      what are you on about bro

    • @mipox2851
      @mipox2851 2 месяца назад

      what did you smoke brev

  • @Bilal_Aslam_
    @Bilal_Aslam_ Год назад +84

    “We took a break for a week.”
    “We broke up.”
    “We took a break for a week.” Sounds like Ross and Rachel 😅 WE WERE ON A BREAK!

  • @Blueeyesinthesky
    @Blueeyesinthesky Год назад +9

    What a great set of couples! They all have good morals and care about their relationships. I can understand Chelsea with the questions thing because I have been guilty of doing the same thing with my boyfriend. It’s toxic and isn’t helpful to yourself but you do it anyways due to anxiety and being an over thinker. I commend her for being so transparent and honest

  • @arifapatel13
    @arifapatel13 Год назад +1

    Ahhhhh I'm sooo glad you decided to make this video!! I remember commenting on the Do All Guys Think The Same video to make one with the couples, glad to see it, it really was great conversation and also very eye opening. I love watching these kinds of videos because you get to hear so many different perspectives and sometimes they help me make decisions if I'm on the fence about a question that was asked. Love the content, can't wait to see what's in store next! Lots of love to all ☺

  • @destinyanngel
    @destinyanngel Год назад +288

    Jake and Tara are very genuine and understanding of a real relationship but also the parent question they answered how people really should think when it comes to kids. People think that because they’re in a good place or they’re happy enough that this is a good time to have a kid when its really about if you’re ready to put your life on hold to raise a child to be its own person which is something barley any adult or parents understand so they have kids for the wrong reason such as “my cousin is having kids i should too” and such. I’m happy they know they have a life to live and goals that they would probably struggle to reach if they were pressured to think they needed to have kids soon because its the “right thing to do.”

    • @jesse-mu4ue
      @jesse-mu4ue Год назад +4

      Completely agree with you!!

    • @yazzzmin1025
      @yazzzmin1025 Год назад +4

      agreed!

    • @aereid6
      @aereid6 Год назад +14

      I agree the goal shouldn't be to have kids it's to raise good humans. Lots of people use kids for selfish reasons like passing on their "legacy" or using them to heal their own issues. Children don't owe you anything I wish more people considered these things a little more.

  • @_daniellelizabeth
    @_daniellelizabeth Год назад +276

    I absolutely love Tara and Jake, they’re so real with eachother
    I also agree with Tara 100% on her outlook on having kids which I feel like is a uncommon opinion so it’s nice to hear how open she is with expressing it

  • @sakshi3034
    @sakshi3034 Год назад +10

    here after kian and ayla announced that they are pregnanttttt!!!!!!!! SO HAPPY FOR THEM

  • @_serenelynn_4577
    @_serenelynn_4577 Год назад +9

    me and Chelsea are the same. Her answers were all so relatable to mine.
    I also feel like this would be a great idea for couples to just do. Gets you guys talking more, and will most likely make your relationship stronger, or realize that you guys aren’t great together. Which is not a bad thing.

  • @AngelinaFraser
    @AngelinaFraser Год назад +287

    David really be stirrin' the pot in all his friends relationships 😂 excited to see what else he comes up with

  • @valeriaaamunoz
    @valeriaaamunoz Год назад +191

    I love how everyone was so sincere and genuine with their answers and I love how mature jake and Tara are in their relationship when they are the youngest in the friend group. Overall great video !

  • @dianatorres5315
    @dianatorres5315 Год назад +27

    Tara and Jake would do great as a married couple. So much communication and honesty. And although everyone else doesn’t agree on everything, these questions and videos helps put things into perspective which is brave of everyone! Marriage is up and down, just know that as long as you’re willing to stick it out together, you’re already on the upside of things. I’d like to see more videos like these, but how about adding married couples in the mix..it would be nice to see the different answers. I’ve been married 22 years, and some of these answers made me cringe lol😅❤ love to all of you though!! 😊

  • @r113y0
    @r113y0 2 месяца назад +7

    Tara and Jake are the perfect example of right people wrong time

  • @DavidAlvareeezy
    @DavidAlvareeezy  Год назад +170

    Hi guys! hope you enjoyed the video! comment so you have a chance to win! also... I'm gonna be doing this again. with other couples and some of the same. what questions should I ask?

    • @user-zx1er7to9k
      @user-zx1er7to9k Год назад +7

      KEEP KNJ

    • @Sashasancheez
      @Sashasancheez Год назад +31

      Bring roni & Aaron!!!

    • @mariamorales9687
      @mariamorales9687 Год назад +32

      Nezza and Crawford
      Or Jac and Scott !

    • @monicavalencia5439
      @monicavalencia5439 Год назад +16

      Oooo you should ask if there has ever been a moment they thought “ I can’t do this anymore “ like being in a relationship with them ?

    • @mackkers5146
      @mackkers5146 Год назад +4

      You should do one with ex’s and new partners or just ex’s !

  • @kirstennichole5430
    @kirstennichole5430 Год назад +686

    i love chels and jc, she’s so mature and grounded, alpha female vibes the intellectual level is there

  • @tationagaiten9074
    @tationagaiten9074 Год назад +9

    This is probably one of my favorite questionarries that David has done. I don't know why but I loved this one for sure.

  • @Xx-ic8ym
    @Xx-ic8ym Год назад +3

    what a good video david. such good and mature conversations that i think they and us viewers needed to have

  • @yohanna799
    @yohanna799 Год назад +41

    Tara and Jake look like little bratz dolls they compliment each other so well 🥹

    • @izzy-zh1re
      @izzy-zh1re Год назад

      They match so well❤❤

  • @xhairystyles
    @xhairystyles Год назад +262

    something about grace seeming like the total opposite of david makes me believe wholeheartedly that they compliment each other so well lmaooo I wanna see more Grace!

  • @vicxxo_
    @vicxxo_ Год назад +1

    I honestly loved the honesty and realness of this video. Great job 👏🏻

  • @khrystynacollins3696
    @khrystynacollins3696 Год назад +6

    I feel like you are all well rounded adults in healthy relationships, being able not only communicate to each other with different opinions, but to the internet as well. It shows relationships will sometimes have different dynamics, and as long as it's expressed it works.

  • @ximenasagastume2315
    @ximenasagastume2315 Год назад +98

    Chelsey being so vulnerable, made this so genuine 💌

  • @desireemcmillan
    @desireemcmillan Год назад +111

    I really love hearing their explanations and seeing the similarities and differences between everyone

  • @user-lu4nc6by9m
    @user-lu4nc6by9m 2 месяца назад +3

    But really, Chelsea shows so much maturity, bravery, and self awareness. You can tell she has put in work to better herself for her and therefore for her relationship. That’s not easy, so I just want to commend her on that and being so authentic during this video. I feel like so many people can relate to the struggles she talks about and it is extremely validating to hear someone with a platform and in a long term relationship speak up about it

  • @katelynwright3165
    @katelynwright3165 Год назад

    I always love these type of videos with my favorite people, good work david!! and i love the honesty from every couple

  • @jasp6653
    @jasp6653 Год назад +16

    i knew i loved this group for a reason!! it was so refreshing to see people being real about their insecurity's and feelings towards relationships! i would love a part two

  • @ereenemiera6057
    @ereenemiera6057 Год назад +52

    absolutely loveee jake and tara’s relationship!! and also love how chelsea is so transparent and recognises her own weaknesses ❤

  • @iits_raelyn5825
    @iits_raelyn5825 Год назад +18

    i love how every couple has their own style

  • @Mr.Perry33
    @Mr.Perry33 4 месяца назад +33

    There's no such thing as a break in a relationship. You're either together or broken up. People who are married don't take "breaks"

  • @casswynn4273
    @casswynn4273 Год назад +70

    bro jake and tara are amazing together and are like a solid couple, but also all the other couples seem great for one another and you can tell there’s so much trust and love between all these couples. mad respect to all of them for being so open and honest. we need more representation for healthy and honest couples :)

  • @natashasaliba24
    @natashasaliba24 Год назад +35

    David, your quality in videos is just amazing, they always brighten my day. Thank you for making videos 🙏🏻

  • @mary1412
    @mary1412 Месяц назад +2

    So crazy seeing Tara and Jake still
    Together…. But shit they’re STILL relationship goals. They broke up but they’re still so good with each other, best friends, hang out all the time, have all the same friends etc… love them. Together or apart.

  • @mujin_kingdom1159
    @mujin_kingdom1159 Год назад +11

    This video made me realize how well Tara and Jake work and made me adore them even more their relationship is amazing

  • @tamramaiden451
    @tamramaiden451 Год назад +6

    love love love these relationships and how each one of y’all are genuinely yourself in your relationship and as individuals ♡

  • @FruitsandRoots-vegan
    @FruitsandRoots-vegan Год назад +19

    I have to say, this was honestly an amazing video. Props to everyone for being so raw and honest and sharing their perspectives. Also, great thealthy communication between the couples. Loved hearing everyone's views. It's wonderful to see so many happy healthy couples

  • @jadaonye
    @jadaonye Год назад +1

    Its really nice and refreshing to see all of them in a healthy realtionship, I love that for all of them ❤

  • @arianamarcotte8691
    @arianamarcotte8691 11 месяцев назад +12

    coming back to this after kian and aylas pregnancy announcement :'))))))

  • @emilyw5743
    @emilyw5743 Год назад +16

    Wow I love this video, I love how honest everyone is and how compatible everyone is with their significant other! Jake and Tara is a different story thought, those 2 are completely meant for each other!!

  • @ianeerac
    @ianeerac Год назад +9

    I love this video, the way everyone has different perspectives on their relationships goes to say a lot. It’s very eye opening especially since a lot of people are influenced to think of love a certain way when everyone’s different ❤

  • @lexxluuther
    @lexxluuther Год назад +9

    I 💗 Jake and Tara. Giving genuinely secure & comfortable vibes. Also love Ayala's outfit 😍

  • @elladacramer9597
    @elladacramer9597 Год назад +8

    I love Tara so much, I can relate to their relationship opinions. It’s the most real way to think

  • @krispipatty
    @krispipatty Год назад +32

    I knew it! I've been waiting for this video! Thank you so much David for uploading this! You are awesome! Plus I love how chill Tara and Jake! I love their relationship ☺️

  • @flor0223M
    @flor0223M Год назад +92

    It was interesting hearing everyone’s point of views. Love this friend group💙
    Why are Jake and Reggie so naturally funny😂😂
    “There is nothing wrong with being jealous”
    Jake: “Nick Jonas is!”

  • @lillypad4174
    @lillypad4174 Год назад

    This is one of my favorite ones of these so far loving the content David ❤

  • @IslandEmpressTarot
    @IslandEmpressTarot Год назад +96

    chelsea is seriously stunning and seems like a sweetheart. it makes me sad to hear her say she’s so insecure, but it’s incredibly admirable that she’s willing to be honest about that

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 Год назад

      When there is deceit and trickery, you feel fake which leads to insincerity.

    • @lowrider0013
      @lowrider0013 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@blueskies6475 you’ve commented twice about chelsey being a cheater like what’s the beef? I’ve got way heavier insecurities and I’ve never cheated

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 11 месяцев назад

      @@lowrider0013 Exactly. I'm not the only one who noticed it either.

    • @lowrider0013
      @lowrider0013 11 месяцев назад

      @@blueskies6475 oh are you saying jc did something?

    • @blueskies6475
      @blueskies6475 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@lowrider0013 no, not jc. I just recall thinking that she wants to keep her options open so she must not be into jc that much. She appears older than him.