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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2024
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  • @DavidAlvareeezy
    @DavidAlvareeezy  3 месяца назад +2851

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      @aaliyahcruz7786 3 месяца назад +7

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      @dashar5725 3 месяца назад +7

      Aww happy birthday! It’s my dad’s as well!

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  • @miksisfragile
    @miksisfragile 3 месяца назад +32951

    The “exes can’t be friends” argument while Tara and Jake are both in the room is wild

    • @jauzkaiye
      @jauzkaiye 3 месяца назад +632

      RIGHT

    • @Youknowsucker
      @Youknowsucker 3 месяца назад +8

      AND THEY BOTH AGREE WITH NO

    • @sheridan7475
      @sheridan7475 3 месяца назад +786

      I feel like they’re more than friends 🥲

    • @Unclegreg4_2o
      @Unclegreg4_2o 3 месяца назад +92

      @@sheridan7475SAME AHAHA

    • @riritsun
      @riritsun 3 месяца назад +173

      @@sheridan7475 they were, they broke up

  • @may-qf1kq
    @may-qf1kq 3 месяца назад +19779

    i love taras giggles whenever jake makes a joke while everyone else looks horrified

    • @breanalee5048
      @breanalee5048 3 месяца назад +442

      Fr it really shows why they're friends

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig 3 месяца назад +12

      timestamp?

    • @Anya_3133
      @Anya_3133 3 месяца назад

      @@rasbyyy_ig 5:20

    • @yurp313
      @yurp313 3 месяца назад +1

      @@rasbyyy_ig 5:17

    • @sunshine.-.9884
      @sunshine.-.9884 3 месяца назад

      @@rasbyyy_ig5:15

  • @annag1468
    @annag1468 3 месяца назад +6847

    Mitsy ate with the “ you didn’t even get her name right “ when she tried to say Tara was a friend 😭😭

  • @sov05
    @sov05 3 месяца назад +3601

    Calling her your friend and then saying her name wrong multiple times is CRAZZYY

    • @Fiveditsxz0
      @Fiveditsxz0 2 месяца назад +9

      FRRRR

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor Месяц назад +56

      She has a very loose definition of friendship. If it was just for the video that would make sense but she seemed pretty serious about it lol

    • @Kapados_
      @Kapados_ Месяц назад +42

      ​@@ComedyGlorlike hunter(?) said, she is probably just out of touch with the term friends because she is surrounded by all these other influencers that are basicly work friends.

    • @Gamfluent
      @Gamfluent Месяц назад +14

      Why are all the comments taking it serious when it’s meant to be a debate show

    • @gabyfc101
      @gabyfc101 Месяц назад +24

      The girl in green literally said it was an accident. Its not that deep. Their mutual friends not besties lol.

  • @bella-ch5kj
    @bella-ch5kj 3 месяца назад +14244

    jake and tara are literally proof exes can be friends

    • @Raneemity
      @Raneemity 3 месяца назад +283

      *with benefits

    • @fernandagudino2935
      @fernandagudino2935 3 месяца назад +304

      Hmm but when that girl said "say we are dating" to Jake and Tara made a face its kinda like hmm can exes really just be friends idk maybe after some time goes by they can but I feel like feelings don't go away that soon after you breakup, especially after such a serious relationship yk? Idk I love them both so much but I just sometimes think exes can't be friends when there's feelings involved

    • @ErgoJunglistix
      @ErgoJunglistix 3 месяца назад +17

      ​@@Raneemity I dont think that's them

    • @ettimira444
      @ettimira444 3 месяца назад +23

      be for real

    • @Teeplesexe
      @Teeplesexe 3 месяца назад +139

      @@fernandagudino2935they absolutely still have feelings for each other they are pretty open about that. but they aren't together, they are friends, that's the point. just because you have feelings for someone doesn't mean you can't be friends

  • @aasiyahhasan7664
    @aasiyahhasan7664 3 месяца назад +15708

    The cheating emotionally v. physically convo is always interesting to me because they're both 100% unforgivable imo🤷‍♀️

    • @prinaecess
      @prinaecess 3 месяца назад +857

      agreed. cheating is cheating regardless of it being emotional or physical

    • @lor962
      @lor962 3 месяца назад +304

      Yea I mean for me the relationship is dead either way but I'd rather it be physically than emotionally

    • @jamesbaggett3655
      @jamesbaggett3655 3 месяца назад

      woah
      @@lor962

    • @soullessnight6539
      @soullessnight6539 3 месяца назад +53

      @@lor962so you would rather your girlfriend not love you but be in love someone else. The fact she actually loves someone else is forgivable but not a one night stand. Interesting.

    • @J-tt1lu
      @J-tt1lu 3 месяца назад

      @@lor962hopefully with the added benefit of STDs!

  • @lena__lu
    @lena__lu 3 месяца назад +2618

    i love how jake and tara were completely silent during the whole "fiends with the ex" argument.

    • @Hellens.melons
      @Hellens.melons 3 месяца назад +81

      I swear if it were me I would have been so loud I have no idea how they kept so quiet 😭

    • @_Rizul_
      @_Rizul_ Месяц назад +18

      It turned more into a “who are your friends” argument lolol let’s be honest

  • @joeyps2861
    @joeyps2861 2 месяца назад +426

    I’ve only seen Mitsy act in skits, so I gotta say I did NOT expect her to be so extremely shy 😭

    • @juliettecharron6717
      @juliettecharron6717 Месяц назад +29

      Ahahah she’s just like me. I just can’t talk / think when a group of people are looking at me, I find it really intimidating. But I’m ok on one on one even with people I think are really cool 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @gutsswife9023
      @gutsswife9023 6 дней назад +2

      She's so cute tho😭

  • @Lena.kpp_
    @Lena.kpp_ 3 месяца назад +6473

    I love how Tara gets Jakes humour and laughs at his jokes

    • @igoriliev5305
      @igoriliev5305 3 месяца назад +135

      Its almost like they were together for multiple years 😂😂

    • @stillclouds
      @stillclouds 3 месяца назад

      she doesn't even bother to put any input when he talks cause she knows and is just watching the girls squirm XD

    • @pretty.in.blue.
      @pretty.in.blue. 2 месяца назад

      It might seem crazy what I'm bouta say..​@@igoriliev5305

  • @trinitiparker7
    @trinitiparker7 3 месяца назад +6535

    when she said “say we were dating” to Jake, Tara’s face reaction would have been a perfect argument for Jake

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe 3 месяца назад +164

      LOL her face had me weak 😂

    • @jenaissantegfriend
      @jenaissantegfriend 3 месяца назад +16

      Timestamp?

    • @julianasofia960
      @julianasofia960 3 месяца назад +33

      @@jenaissantegfriend16:30

    • @carmen8226
      @carmen8226 3 месяца назад +190

      Yeah I could read Tara’s mind when that girl said that cause I felt the same thing as Tara😂 Like I wouldn’t say that to Jake let alone in front of Tara😭

    • @ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx
      @ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx 3 месяца назад +20

      @@carmen8226 thats alexis she has a boyfriend

  • @JustJoan
    @JustJoan 3 месяца назад +757

    Jake and Tara are physical proof that it is possible. In their literal break up video, they were full on snacking on pizza and other food and just talking to eachother. They were doing that like the king and queen they are. 😂❤

  • @wsdtailz2813
    @wsdtailz2813 2 месяца назад +100

    christian & misty’s interaction during the flirting question was so cute 😭 i was cheesing the whole time

  • @tabithadeleon-david1621
    @tabithadeleon-david1621 3 месяца назад +8782

    Sorry but Hunter won that last one, being friends and being friendly are two totally different things.

    • @AK-ie2rp
      @AK-ie2rp 3 месяца назад +376

      he ate that argument

    • @mouryavardhan7786
      @mouryavardhan7786 3 месяца назад +413

      The other girl got shut down TWICE. One by misty for ‘you don’t even know her name”and then by hunter “And that’s why….”

    • @jayleneaceves8310
      @jayleneaceves8310 3 месяца назад +478

      Facts dude !! No offense to that last girl but it was driving crazy that she wasn’t comprehending the difference between someone being “friendly” vs “being friends”. Two completely different things, I am friendly with my coworkers but I’m not friends with them. Someone can be friendly socially without slapping the label of being friends. As Hunter said a friend is someone you can call if you have a problem or someone u can depend on and vise versa. For example just because I’m friendly with the cashier at Target doesn’t mean we’re friends. Friendliness can often be confused as wanting to be friends and/or being friends, it all comes down to social cues and understanding your relationship with that other person. Hunter won that argument hands down.

    • @tellyg47
      @tellyg47 3 месяца назад +92

      @@jayleneaceves8310she understands them she was just defending the argument she was given. If she actually agreed with it she’ll probably had a more compelling argument 😪

    • @jayleneaceves8310
      @jayleneaceves8310 3 месяца назад +71

      @@tellyg47 yes I’m aware that they had to defend the card no matter what they actually believed. But I just believe her argument was weaker than hunter. She was dismissing the actual definition of being friendly vs friends. Hunter made a stronger argument in my opinion.

  • @ElectricPansies
    @ElectricPansies 3 месяца назад +3556

    What Alexis is defining as ‘friends’ is actually ‘acquaintances’ in my opinion. Acquaintances are friendly to you and have mutuals, but you don’t really hang out with them often.

    • @jayleneaceves8310
      @jayleneaceves8310 3 месяца назад +11

      💯💯💯💯

    • @X2o0876
      @X2o0876 3 месяца назад +4

      Tara and jake

    • @larsp23
      @larsp23 3 месяца назад +49

      100% because I’m like shorty saying hello to someone don’t mean you’re friends

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe 3 месяца назад +8

      @@larsp23 literally! 😂

    • @mya3693
      @mya3693 3 месяца назад +3

      @@X2o0876they are friends they literally hang out

  • @carmen8226
    @carmen8226 3 месяца назад +595

    At 16:27 Oh my god💀 I love how both Tara and Jake felt weird when Alexis said “Let’s say I’m trying to date Jake,” LIKE AHH why would she say thattt😭

    • @AngelicaCastro-gc8gd
      @AngelicaCastro-gc8gd 3 месяца назад +123

      Bruh she was giving an example that made quite sense, why would Tara even feel jealous if they are “just friends” goes on to prove the point in the last question… they’re not really just friends if there feelings there

    • @MySnowball14
      @MySnowball14 3 месяца назад +56

      @@AngelicaCastro-gc8gdno it's not that Tara was jealous, it's just a weird thing to say while knowing Jake and Tara were in a long term committed relationship. that's why jake said 'what the heck' lol

    • @carmen8226
      @carmen8226 3 месяца назад +15

      @@AngelicaCastro-gc8gd I mean yeah personally I don’t think being friends with an ex is really ideal cause then it’s harder to get over each other and it’ll hurt more. But idk Alexis just gave me weird vibes like fake-girl vibes and just me personally it seemed like she thought jake was cute and that’s why she used him as an example. I can just see through her cause I’ve seen similar things happen before anddd they say things for a reason😭

    • @taylahocking7642
      @taylahocking7642 3 месяца назад +39

      she was giving an example for her side of the debate, she has a bf so obviously she didnt mean it in the way you ppl think

    • @taylahocking7642
      @taylahocking7642 3 месяца назад +25

      @@carmen8226shes literally dating alex wassabi, she doesnt want him😭

  • @brecarlton938
    @brecarlton938 3 месяца назад +123

    Tara and Jake are literally definition of Ex’s can be friends. They both still adore one another, I mean look at how she laughs when he speaks

    • @mxmaddds
      @mxmaddds 3 месяца назад +31

      be fr, they’re still painfully obviously in love with each other still.

    • @Starlight-37
      @Starlight-37 Месяц назад +2

      @@mxmadddsreal

    • @JMBBrasil
      @JMBBrasil Месяц назад +1

      Maybe she just still likes him

    • @slenderman-tz6tm
      @slenderman-tz6tm 6 дней назад

      Yea but what happens when one gets in a relationship

  • @joliemayerr
    @joliemayerr 3 месяца назад +6038

    it’s cool that Jake and Tara are able to remain friends

    • @catlvr355
      @catlvr355 3 месяца назад +243

      well obviously😭nothing negative happened in their relationship for them to break up, it was just timing

    • @AndNoted
      @AndNoted 3 месяца назад +18

      @@catlvr355 why would it be obvious?

    • @catlvr355
      @catlvr355 3 месяца назад +45

      @@AndNoted if you had known why they broke up, it would be clear that they can totally still be friends

    • @pneumaa
      @pneumaa 3 месяца назад +4

      @@catlvr355i don’t watch them much.. why did they break up?

    • @catlvr355
      @catlvr355 3 месяца назад +129

      @@pneumaa they basically broke up because they first got together when they were pretty young, and growing older they realized that they want to be able to make more time for themselves and grow, - as they see themselves as both “jake and tara” but also “jake” and “tara” considering they’re their own person - explore more things/ maybe other people? that’s from what i remember, but they do have a whole video about it, so you could watch that. they did also say that if they were truly meant to be together, that they’d find each other some time in the future.

  • @izwizzzle
    @izwizzzle 3 месяца назад +2140

    every time that girl mispronounced taras name I had such secondhand embarrassment LMAO

    • @emelinegutierrez5345
      @emelinegutierrez5345 3 месяца назад +72

      Lmao no fr and she said it right the first time when Tara went up

    • @luvleycuutie
      @luvleycuutie 3 месяца назад +5

      which one 😭

    • @HD-zv2mn
      @HD-zv2mn 3 месяца назад +65

      They were all shitting on her I feel so bad :/

    • @alliebarr4403
      @alliebarr4403 3 месяца назад

      Which one?

    • @MoaInTheBuilding.
      @MoaInTheBuilding. 3 месяца назад

      alexxis im assuming@@alliebarr4403

  • @jasmondo
    @jasmondo 3 месяца назад +140

    the way christian switched up so quickly is so funny to me i love it. mitsy also has my heart i literally love her awkwardness. she is me, i am her

  • @myraaguirre5307
    @myraaguirre5307 3 месяца назад +84

    the guy in the red beetles shirt is a vibe!! hes giving saved by the bell, and 80's mullet. I am all the way here for it!!!!

  • @abi6ail333
    @abi6ail333 3 месяца назад +3593

    Tara could say anything, and she would still get my vote lmaoo
    Also happy birthday David

  • @yui.qin22
    @yui.qin22 3 месяца назад +1289

    crazy theyre having the “can exes be friends” in front of tara and jake 😭

  • @jjenn444
    @jjenn444 3 месяца назад +498

    that girl in the green mad annoying

    • @Im_alivexx
      @Im_alivexx 2 месяца назад +40

      She really was

    • @bella-xd7rx
      @bella-xd7rx 2 месяца назад +31

      I agree. By the entire of the video, it really got frustrating. 😅

    • @kaylyndavis1221
      @kaylyndavis1221 2 месяца назад +9

      ikrrrr

    • @zohaanrana8987
      @zohaanrana8987 2 месяца назад +19

      Bro the girl in the green needs to relax

    • @Fiveditsxz0
      @Fiveditsxz0 2 месяца назад

      Frrr I hate her 😭

  • @staytiny10
    @staytiny10 3 месяца назад +91

    4:16 jake is so real for that because I never understood how people can see their partner sleeping with someone else as a 'mistake', cause like think about it. Let's say you go to a bar and get tipsy and you leave with someone who isn't your partner. There's multiple steps you'd have to make to cheat. You'd have to talk to them, agree to leave with them, then you have the whole way to likely either of your places to think about it. Then you get there and there's all the the steps leading up to the actual cheating. It's not just a simple 'mistake'.

    • @bvtterflyes
      @bvtterflyes 2 дня назад

      yess, whereas emotionally cheating the intention to cheat is there, but the people doing it are just not committed enough to make that bigger move to cheat physically. none are better yk but i’d say physically cheating is 100% worse. as a girl i have no idea why all those girls are agreeing that emotionally cheating is worse, physically cheating is also a serious problem in nowadays relationships as well. it’s a bigger backstab and it can cause a lot of insecurities, like what looks did that person have to make them not want me or not be physical with me, instead emotionally i feel like it’s just personality wise in my eyes, and i’d rather get cheated on if my significant other likes the persons personality more than their physical appearance. like in my experience it’s never happened to me i’ve only been emotionally cheated on, but seeing my big sister go through her breakup with her boyfriend of 7 years really messed around with how i view things.. he slept with another girl and i just can’t get the fact of that out of my head and that he could even do that it’s been like 3 years since but it was horrible to know that she was backstabbed like that from someone we’ve known for years and i would never wish it on anyone.

  • @A_someone443
    @A_someone443 3 месяца назад +1683

    I love how when the girl said “say I’m actively tryna dating u” to Jake and Tara looked like she was ready to fight 😂

    • @dubsnac7407
      @dubsnac7407 3 месяца назад +167

      wouldnt this prove the point that exes cant be friends though? cause she was jealous in a way ?

    • @ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx
      @ISTHIStheKRUSTYKRABx 3 месяца назад +80

      @@dubsnac7407she still loves jake, it was a mutual break up

    • @fatma-oz6gb
      @fatma-oz6gb 3 месяца назад +9

      Whats the time stamp

    • @madisonschaufert5280
      @madisonschaufert5280 3 месяца назад +46

      @@dubsnac7407she can still get jealous and be in love with him or whatever she wants, while having a healthy friendship

    • @shayu.4488
      @shayu.4488 3 месяца назад

      @@fatma-oz6gb 16:30

  • @siaracummings2930
    @siaracummings2930 3 месяца назад +857

    That “nahhh shut the f*** up” GOT MEEE! The delivery was pristine! 👌🏽

    • @DavidAlvareeezy
      @DavidAlvareeezy  3 месяца назад +40

      dude right!!

    • @lavender254
      @lavender254 3 месяца назад

      @@DavidAlvareeezy pls do my physics hw david

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe 3 месяца назад +6

      He ate that up 😂🤣

  • @l3fty939
    @l3fty939 3 месяца назад +57

    I love how Tara was the only one laughing at Jake’s joke at 5:22

  • @sollecour7761
    @sollecour7761 3 месяца назад +38

    mitsy, tara, AND jake? in ONE video?
    blessed

  • @stuitaff
    @stuitaff 3 месяца назад +2362

    Good to see Mitsy back in your vids...but Zach woulda killed in this debate 😂

    • @nealkrishna4826
      @nealkrishna4826 3 месяца назад +149

      The uterus joke makes me think that she and Zach would get along pretty well

    • @zwravx
      @zwravx 3 месяца назад +54

      YES ZACH WOULD EATTT THIS UPPP

    • @tellyg47
      @tellyg47 3 месяца назад +55

      Zach would win just because he’s the loudest voice in the room

    • @jonatanbucup4403
      @jonatanbucup4403 3 месяца назад +56

      I like how we all know Zach would win his arguments. He just so good a creating a story/ narrative in a short amount of time

    • @Aishamc_04
      @Aishamc_04 3 месяца назад +4

      yesss, I was literally thinking this!!!!

  • @Erikasuperiority
    @Erikasuperiority 3 месяца назад +801

    Flirting is 100% cheating its a romantic or sexual thing. And most of the time it leads to more. If you’re consciously flirting that is.

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig 3 месяца назад +25

      I mean if someone were to intentionally flirt with someone (as per their definition) thats cheating. even if it sucks ass and most people wouldnt even call that flirting. its the intention that matters (being wanting more out of that situation).

    • @val6224
      @val6224 3 месяца назад +6

      Like im a flirty person, i flirt, but once im in a relationship I stop. I view flirting as like "wanna go back to my place tonight, do some 'stuff'" Things like that so yes it is

    • @surbhikumari7161
      @surbhikumari7161 3 месяца назад

      Then according to that then every threesome, actors doing romantic scenes and pornstar and stripper is cheating .
      But no cheating is when it is a secret. If you ask your partner about the flirting then they refused to tell u then it is cheating . Otherwise it is not.

    • @Erikasuperiority
      @Erikasuperiority 3 месяца назад

      @@surbhikumari7161 A threesome? How? A threesome is literally a relationship.. cant be cheating. And those r special cases…💀. Acting is completely different, its a lie ergo acting. if theyre acting for a pornstar scene, its not intended as a romantic or sexual thing its meant as ACTING. Strippers are just doing their jobs honestly, thats another special case..

    • @briannajones1556
      @briannajones1556 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you. They knew it was cheating and gave no valid reasons as to why it wasn’t. The whole conversation was hard to watch

  • @turnitupwithnelly-2337
    @turnitupwithnelly-2337 3 месяца назад +34

    The comedic timing in this video was everything and Mitsy was so cute!

  • @graysonjd5624
    @graysonjd5624 3 месяца назад +23

    Boy do I love generalizing gender traits, this is exactly how we connect as humans and absolutely not further the objectification and alienation of ourselves.

    • @suigetsushark
      @suigetsushark 2 месяца назад +4

      Haha right? These videos are so wild to me (but I can’t stop binging). It’s almost as everyone has different opinions and values based on their life experiences 😂 everyone has a valid argument but the thing is that they need to communicate that to their partner and find someone with those same values.

    • @chocokat97
      @chocokat97 2 месяца назад +4

      Lolol right? It’s all fun and games but I do think it it emphasizes separation between genders and reinforces certain things that don’t really need to be reinforced lol

  • @jackym4652
    @jackym4652 3 месяца назад +994

    Hunter is so real for the argument of using the “friend” term loosely. I used to use it loosely too and my boyfriend would correct me every time like “they are not your friends” LMAO like wait you’re right. It’s like just bc you’re cool with someone, doesn’t mean you are friends. Hunter should’ve won that

    • @clairem5164
      @clairem5164 3 месяца назад +23

      Agreed. I thought he’d win by a landslide

    • @mioom0w38
      @mioom0w38 3 месяца назад +21

      He didn't win just beacuse 2 of the voted are friends that are exes lol

    • @taesugnx
      @taesugnx 2 месяца назад +7

      no because i agree with alexxis’ claim, just not the way she backed it up. if we’re talking about who backed it up better hunter definitely should’ve won

    • @GammaRayBill
      @GammaRayBill Месяц назад +1

      That’s what I’m saying, like you can be friendly out and about but doesn’t mean you are friends with someone, I think acquaintance is a more honest title.

  • @face2facewitchu
    @face2facewitchu 3 месяца назад +794

    I LOVE the 'tear-uh' 'TAR-uh" thing. It's hilarious every time and I know it's coming.... EVERY...... TIME.

    • @shutupnvibe
      @shutupnvibe 3 месяца назад +4

      Hilarious 😂

    • @zo.ie.s
      @zo.ie.s 3 месяца назад +44

      no bc how did she mess taras name up THAT much 😭

    • @gabriellasansuste2340
      @gabriellasansuste2340 24 дня назад +2

      @@zo.ie.sbecause Tear-uh is the common way to say that name. Tar-uh is very uncommon and not easy to remember specially when you already know a Tear-uh. This is not the first time someone got her name wrong, it happens often.

  • @gogpog6624
    @gogpog6624 2 месяца назад

    MORE MORE MORE please 😋 looooovveeee there vídeos like this were it’s just debating on different topics i would watch all of the ones you have !!!

  • @delaneycoleman4404
    @delaneycoleman4404 3 месяца назад +22

    Would love to see Mitsy and Christian do some sort of dating show together

  • @apr1llvv
    @apr1llvv 3 месяца назад +1587

    We love jake and tara

    • @alexschaefer1861
      @alexschaefer1861 3 месяца назад +19

      Who gonna tell him

    • @poiloi6208
      @poiloi6208 3 месяца назад +4

      🎉😂nice video, i like social experiment because they are so controversial 😅

    • @viviants
      @viviants 3 месяца назад

      @@alexschaefer1861what

  • @christophervicca7669
    @christophervicca7669 3 месяца назад +1966

    I cannot put into words how funny Mitsy is

    • @evandower6708
      @evandower6708 3 месяца назад +118

      She’s gotta be acoustic or smth she’s so cute

    • @HomeMadeVintage
      @HomeMadeVintage 3 месяца назад +99

      She reminds me of Sheila on shameless lol they way she talks

    • @ghostinyourcloset
      @ghostinyourcloset 3 месяца назад +15

      @@evandower6708 ??? you know acoustic has to do with music (or physics) related things right? so what you said makes no sense lmao

    • @jaelyn7138
      @jaelyn7138 3 месяца назад +70

      @@ghostinyourclosetpeople use the word acoustic instead of using the word autistic

    • @ghostinyourcloset
      @ghostinyourcloset 3 месяца назад +10

      @@jaelyn7138… huh? why? 💀

  • @racheldelgado1598
    @racheldelgado1598 3 месяца назад +15

    Didn’t even realize it was mitsy for a sec bc she’s not doing something that makes me wanna rip my hair out LMAOO (I love her)

  • @frankiemustdie
    @frankiemustdie 3 месяца назад +24

    the ex thing definitely i agree with hunter. my boyfriend’s ex was in our friend group and little while later turns out they still were into him while knowing he was taken and was making jokes about doing witchcraft to make him like them back. so yeah. not a good idea. just makes things too messy

  • @heyyloserrr
    @heyyloserrr 3 месяца назад +498

    I hate that the last girl doesn’t understand that being friends is different from being friendly. you hang out, call, text, etc. with friends and that doesn’t have to be daily, you can checkup with each other monthly too.
    being friendly is an action, for ex. in college we’re all being friendly in class, we aren’t friends.
    I won’t hang out, text, call, etc. after class or even after the semester ends.

    • @OliveGrummer
      @OliveGrummer Месяц назад +4

      She had me yelling at my phone.

  • @mystictakeschances
    @mystictakeschances 3 месяца назад +412

    I came for Tara and Jake, and I stayed for Tara and Jake

  • @juliettecharron6717
    @juliettecharron6717 Месяц назад +1

    That’s a really nice concept. I love this video!!

  • @dallasallad_2484
    @dallasallad_2484 3 месяца назад +676

    I love seeing Jake and Tara together in any video

  • @solysqdro
    @solysqdro 3 месяца назад +588

    I loved Jake and Tara together but I adore them as friends. They’re meant to be in each others life

  • @AnnikaATLxSEA
    @AnnikaATLxSEA 3 месяца назад +1

    I feel like for the last argument, it depends on the origin of the relationship. It’s not uncommon for people who grew up together (or just, people who have been friends for a whileee) to explore a romantic relationship at some point. They could decide after a few months or years of dating that they’re better off with a platonic relationship- maybe they didn’t feel the romantic spark, or they just realized that they’d drive each other crazy if they stayed together. It’d be easy to argue that those people can and should be able to maintain a friendship- it’d be ridiculous to end a 15 year friendship over a failed romantic relationship you both tried for 6 months.
    I also believe that divorcees can maintain a friendship with their ex-partners- many choose not to, but it’s often possible (especially when there are children involved).
    Nobody asked, but at the end of the day, I feel like exes can be friends if they highly valued the platonic aspect of their relationship while together and if the breakup was civil. One of the reasons why many exes with civilized breakups aren’t friends is because they realized they don’t mesh well, they want to avoid awkward situations, or they continued to grow and change into different, less compatible people. If those aren’t obstacles for you and you guys are still compatible platonically, then why not?

  • @bottlepop7
    @bottlepop7 2 месяца назад +5

    The girl who was trying to justify cheating by saying its a mistake over and over just bothered me. Cheating isnt a mistake, its a choice! You dont go “uh oh omg I slipped into this girl by accident!”

  • @aislinnmiranda7779
    @aislinnmiranda7779 3 месяца назад +423

    zach in this combo would’ve been HILARIOUS

    • @prinaecess
      @prinaecess 3 месяца назад +43

      no this group was perfect they were all equally funny. if zach was here, david would make his jokes the highlight of the video as always

    • @aromlaa7066
      @aromlaa7066 3 месяца назад +22

      @@prinaecessI completely agree. I never watch any videos with him because he becomes the entire center of the video. Like, if I wanted to watch him I would just watch his own RUclips channel.

    • @mouryavardhan7786
      @mouryavardhan7786 3 месяца назад +3

      @@aromlaa7066eh. Only the last few videos because he really needed zach. Those videos would have been dull. In the starting few videos, he was pretty subdued

    • @phantasyreethym7865
      @phantasyreethym7865 3 месяца назад

      Well he was cheated on 😅

    • @alexusmckoy
      @alexusmckoy 3 месяца назад

      No it would not the video is perfect let's not ruin it

  • @TheLauracastillo999
    @TheLauracastillo999 3 месяца назад +301

    Trying to get Mitsy to flirt was so funny 😂😂
    Happy birthday David 🎉

  • @1-800soapytiddyz
    @1-800soapytiddyz 3 месяца назад

    this vid has allll the right people in itt. period we love to see it😍😍 (also keep bringing vereena on here, she's great.)

  • @gabbyward7796
    @gabbyward7796 3 месяца назад +11

    Off topic but Tara is so pretty, like she is genuinely stunning

  • @theuchiha7
    @theuchiha7 3 месяца назад +318

    The last question can be simplified like this: If you are like Jake and Tara after a relationship ends, thats friendship. Alex and his ex Lexy are not friends as they do not maintain regular friendship. They are friendly sure, they are neighborly sure.... Not friends.

    • @nesnintendo9107
      @nesnintendo9107 3 месяца назад +4

      She wasn't talking about Lexy she was talking about Lauren

  • @Nunudes
    @Nunudes 3 месяца назад +207

    I 100% agree with Hunter on the term of friends. Alexxis was describing acquaintances, those people you rarely see and have small talk with. Friends are people you would go out of your way to help, hang with, invite out or make plans with, catch up on life, check on, and have basically grown fond of each other to have a meaningful friendship. The term friend should not be used easily otherwise everyone would be considered friends when in reality that’s not the case.

  • @BircastleQueen
    @BircastleQueen 3 месяца назад +55

    This should used as a case study on people in toxic friend groups lmao

  • @miloisgood5904
    @miloisgood5904 3 месяца назад +2

    This was very entertaining and fun to watch.

  • @nicolebriceno2012
    @nicolebriceno2012 3 месяца назад +337

    Jake is so real. It’s not like you wake one day and say “I’m gonna emotionally cheat on my partner” the only thing they’re doing wrong is staying in their current relationship but cheating on someone physically is A CHOICE Even if alcohol is involved.

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig 3 месяца назад +25

      but at that point they should be upfront and break up with ur partner. while yes, its not a choice to have a crush on someone, it is to keep feeding into it while simultaneously being in a relationship

    • @nicolebriceno2012
      @nicolebriceno2012 3 месяца назад +9

      @@rasbyyy_ig I agree, falling in love with someone is an active choice, by getting to know them more. I personally would just feel more disgusted & hurt if I found out they had sex with someone else. Both situations are terrible tho

    • @limazulu6192
      @limazulu6192 2 месяца назад +8

      You don't just fall in love with someone. We're not some virgin teenagers anymore. This stuff takes time now. Time you CHOSE to spend with someone. Time you spent FLIRTING with someone or going even further FOR AGES until it happend.

    • @Subsistence69
      @Subsistence69 2 месяца назад

      Both are shit and automatic grounds for a break up. But getting physically cheated on is better for me because it makes the bandaid easier to rip off.
      Emotional cheating is sneaky and slimy and they have to hide it and lie about it and you’re essentially getting led on the whole time and getting your time wasted.

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor Месяц назад +1

      I agree unless the person is in a whole relationship with the other person. If they just caught feelings then I agree

  • @prinaecess
    @prinaecess 3 месяца назад +291

    i loved misty and jake they were so funny 😭😭

  • @vivisminiblog6689
    @vivisminiblog6689 2 месяца назад +9

    When Tara sneezes the only one who says bless you was jake🥺😭🩷🤩

  • @ainanpatel6726
    @ainanpatel6726 3 месяца назад

    David needs to start making more videos i feel … i have watched them all and waiting for his new video … great videos❤

  • @rosetta_st0nr
    @rosetta_st0nr 3 месяца назад +260

    One, Zach should’ve been in this vid to banter with Mitsy. Two, Mitsy was spitting when she said “You can’t even get her name right and you say you’re friends?” 😭

  • @TheOddDonut
    @TheOddDonut 3 месяца назад +337

    Hot take guys and girl absolutely can be friends and can be platonic. We all just people not everyone needs to date or f*ck everyone, and I think we'd be missing out on some great friendships if we limit ourselves to just one gender.

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig 3 месяца назад

      true, if you always end up wanting to enter a romantic relationship with the opposite gender, it means you only value them for a potential romantic relationship and less just for them as a person

    • @ErgoJunglistix
      @ErgoJunglistix 3 месяца назад

      You are right, mostly horny assholes are the ones that cant be friends with the other gender.

    • @UnderWhereVPL
      @UnderWhereVPL 3 месяца назад +9

      No

    • @cait3
      @cait3 3 месяца назад +26

      Thats what i thought too but the amount of guys ive met that would fck their friends makes me question whether its truly innocent friendship

    • @Ok-pk3cv
      @Ok-pk3cv 3 месяца назад

      @@UnderWhereVPLYes, y’all forget other sexualities exist & that not everyone wants to fuck anyone that breathes 😭

  • @danielandrade643
    @danielandrade643 3 месяца назад

    MORE OF THIS!!! PLEASE!!!
    (Preferably with unacquainted acquaintances)

  • @starrykart
    @starrykart 3 месяца назад +4

    mitsy, tara, AND jake in a vid? i love this

  • @kaylalyn4281
    @kaylalyn4281 3 месяца назад +348

    Heres the thing though, cheating physically is a choice, falling in love isn't and is completely out of your control. To cheat physically is an action, to fall in love is simply a feeling. Please tell me that makes sense

    • @whtevrdonna
      @whtevrdonna 3 месяца назад +34

      Holy shit it does tho lol but it also makes me think of how i met your father where one of the characters feels himself starting to get too friendly with someone and cutting it off before it escalates. I can’t remember if the couple ended up breaking up still 😅

    • @aaam0670
      @aaam0670 3 месяца назад +53

      yes you have a point, but say you fall in love with someone, the chose is there to associate with them or not while in a relationship,
      you could be with someone and seek out support or something from someone else, that was a choice not just something you couldn’t control, but you do make sense too about it being a feeling

    • @Erikasuperiority
      @Erikasuperiority 3 месяца назад +27

      Yes but that isnt cheating. To act on it is, which is also a choice.

    • @CallumBailey-wu7gc
      @CallumBailey-wu7gc 3 месяца назад +4

      Its not out of your control to fall in love and what they said would still make sense if you fall in love with someone else while in a relationship then you clearly did love the person you are currently with im all most 100% sure the ppl in the video don't agree but you should only be in a relationship people you love otherwise things like this happen

    • @IshratJahan-dh3ev
      @IshratJahan-dh3ev 3 месяца назад

      I’m sorry but who do you value more? Someone you fall in love with or someone you fucked without feelings? Who would you rather fight to have for the rest of ur life?
      And with THIS much value on someone other than ur significant other, you think it’s okay to continue to associate w them while you are consciously aware that they are becoming/already are more valuable to u then ur significant other themselves?
      You still think it’s better to consciously spend time w someone ur falling in love with than mistakenly fuck someone out of horniness? Both are fucking wrong but one is clearly so so so much more hurtful than the other.

  • @frizzyisdizzy
    @frizzyisdizzy 3 месяца назад +105

    tara really just sat there and looked pretty for most of the video

  • @vicxxo_
    @vicxxo_ 2 месяца назад

    This was so difficult lol props to everyone for argueing their side even if they didn’t believe in it. I would never be able to do that 😂 cool vid!

  • @sam-nw5vw
    @sam-nw5vw 3 месяца назад +37

    why did tara and jake both raise their hands for 'exs can't be friends'? they were literally eating costco cookies together a day ago.

    • @diazkaka
      @diazkaka 3 месяца назад +24

      They raised their hands for exes can be friends. They were on the girls side and that’s the card that she got, that they can be friends

    • @sam-nw5vw
      @sam-nw5vw 3 месяца назад

      @@diazkaka ah yes, you're so right

  • @ppness673
    @ppness673 3 месяца назад +122

    mitsy is so awkward i love her

  • @mattcrawford5215
    @mattcrawford5215 3 месяца назад +1

    Friendship rarely matters when it’s convenient, if you won’t go out of your way to get in touch with them then the friendship is superficial at best

  • @smilestarrocks6185
    @smilestarrocks6185 3 месяца назад +8

    The homie hopper question was low key relatable for alexxis lmao

  • @Luv4gh0sts
    @Luv4gh0sts 3 месяца назад +102

    Bro I love how argumentative Jake is

  • @vereenaslayed
    @vereenaslayed 3 месяца назад +200

    thank you for havin me 😁

  • @chloehughes4320
    @chloehughes4320 2 месяца назад

    Obsessed with the energy in this vid❤

  • @brookelynn4994
    @brookelynn4994 3 месяца назад +5

    mitsy, tara, jake, and david are the only people i’d actually hangout with in this video

  • @Dark.Paradise
    @Dark.Paradise 3 месяца назад +45

    Last one: There’s a difference between friends and mutuals. Friends you do stuff with, you’d do stuff for or you’d invite them to your house for the day regularly. A mutual is just someone you see and say hey I know them, we’re friendly to each other, if I happen to do an activity with them I’d enjoy it.
    A friend is a close bond. A mutual is a loose bond.

  • @aaliyahcruz7786
    @aaliyahcruz7786 3 месяца назад +156

    I'm glad Jake and Tara are still on good terms, I hope the best for them

  • @miomiomio56
    @miomiomio56 3 месяца назад

    Literally never clicked on a video so fast genius move to put Tara and Jake on thumbnail

  • @Yourpookie_me
    @Yourpookie_me 3 месяца назад

    “I don’t think you think with your minds I think you guys think with your other heads.” Is so true bro

  • @_thatgirlcailen
    @_thatgirlcailen 3 месяца назад +87

    Also Misty gives me young Winona Ryder vibes!!! She's so pretty!

  • @AmeliaMulberry
    @AmeliaMulberry 3 месяца назад +187

    Guys that can't be friends with women they find attractive are really telling on themselves. You view attractive women as sex objects? Wild.
    They have a whole personality, feelings, interests, experiences,etc attached to that hot bod.

    • @rasbyyy_ig
      @rasbyyy_ig 3 месяца назад +1

      + what if they had multiple female friends ykwim

    • @UnderWhereVPL
      @UnderWhereVPL 3 месяца назад +2

      Most men don't care about the first 4 of those 5 things you listed though...it is what it is

    • @ewitsmorgan8035
      @ewitsmorgan8035 3 месяца назад

      ​@@UnderWhereVPL well then yall need to stop shitting your pants and crying when women say they hate all men

    • @Breadcrumbs_1803
      @Breadcrumbs_1803 3 месяца назад +6

      ​@@UnderWhereVPLwho are you to speak for "most men"? Most guys like a respectable woman.

    • @Breadcrumbs_1803
      @Breadcrumbs_1803 3 месяца назад

      ​@@UnderWhereVPL and if you dont then that just shows you view woman as sex objects.

  • @Hailey._.HayHay
    @Hailey._.HayHay Месяц назад +3

    THE THUMBNAIL BEING “should exes be friends” AND ITS JAKE AND TARA WTF

  • @CeceJianni
    @CeceJianni 3 месяца назад +1

    I mean, I think it depends on the people. Not everyone can handle being friends with an ex, and that's okay. Sometimes people fall off, it's the natural way of life.

  • @Littleghostman4
    @Littleghostman4 3 месяца назад +101

    what do I do when I see Jake and Tara in a video? I click it.

  • @losingsleep.x
    @losingsleep.x 3 месяца назад +48

    misty is so gorgeous omg (THEY ALL ARE)
    im also soso happy jake and tara are still good friends after being together for 4 years

  • @anacamacho2756
    @anacamacho2756 2 месяца назад +7

    Hope you have Misty in more of your videos she pretty funny. Hope you have a great bday 🎂🎉

  • @hannahchoi7608
    @hannahchoi7608 3 месяца назад

    these questions are WILDDD

  • @RikoUStarss
    @RikoUStarss 3 месяца назад +67

    “Ex’s should not be friends” Jake and Tara: 😭🫵

  • @JP-bh6wh
    @JP-bh6wh 3 месяца назад +9

    David you are probably the most underrated RUclipsr out there! Your videos are always so entertaining and funny, thank you for bringing all these influencers and personalities together every video to create the best videos ever! Happy Birthday! 🎂🎊🎉

  • @spishyofficial
    @spishyofficial 3 месяца назад +6

    2 things.
    1.) The reason physical cheating is such a blow on many of us, even moreso than emotional cheating, is because of what your cheating partner is giving the other person. The chemistry, the warmth, the intimacy, the admiration. They pretend to dedicate that to us... and then they turn around and use it to 'fuel the tank' of another person while pushing a faux narrative that we're the only one they give such attention and love to. That is such a massive blow to how sacred we believe our relationship with them is. A lot of people can't really put that heartbreak into words, though, so I'm sure many of you can relate to that.
    2.) I feel like Jake Webber is the most genuine person out of everyone in these videos. Absolutely love this dude's energy. I also have autism, which explains why I think he and I could be great friends if I was even anywhere near his social circle. 😂
    Also, green Reebok chick was pissing me off with the 'people make mistakes' perspective. Trust me... even if they naturally fell in love with someone else... they know what they're doing. It's CHEATING, stop trying to justify it.
    On the flipside, girl in the jean shorts makes some really good points. I dig her.

  • @lanakovac4348
    @lanakovac4348 3 месяца назад +6

    hunter is so right for the not being friends one. the girl just did not understand that that’s not friends, but like acquaintances.

  • @tactlessly_sen
    @tactlessly_sen 3 месяца назад +42

    Hunter's closing point was absolutely hilarious. great combo of ppl. Get them together again sometime David

  • @chastityhowell6346
    @chastityhowell6346 3 месяца назад +51

    Tara is everything. I love her. 🎉🎉Happy birthday, David🎉🎉🎉 The world is funnier and better because you’re in it.

  • @Doseof_Angel
    @Doseof_Angel 3 месяца назад +8

    I’m not used to seeing mitsy be normal

  • @lacrem736
    @lacrem736 3 месяца назад +1

    i love this group i laughed so loud so many times 😭

  • @Bubblefart69
    @Bubblefart69 3 месяца назад +115

    sending nudes isnt a sign of trust, its a sign of thrust.

    • @shreyabhatt16
      @shreyabhatt16 3 месяца назад +5

      worddd

    • @449new
      @449new 3 месяца назад +2

      Period

    • @daikonyum3688
      @daikonyum3688 3 месяца назад +1

      DEAD THIS IS SI TRUE

    • @HayleyDLacy
      @HayleyDLacy 2 месяца назад

      ABSOLUTELY (but personally if you take out the “in a relationship” point of the question)😂

  • @joanna6256
    @joanna6256 3 месяца назад +54

    There is honestly an 100% a difference between friends and friendly and sometimes you’re gonna have to stop and take a look at your relationship and see who are acquaintances that you get along with and you are a friendly with and don’t mind kicking it with friends are People that you rely on that you would help who would help you and they know you

  • @iluvcorbin123
    @iluvcorbin123 3 месяца назад +3

    "cheating is when you piss me off" is CRAAAAZY LMAOOOO

  • @dumdpigeon
    @dumdpigeon 3 месяца назад +1

    initially i thought it would be better to be cheated on physically, but i think it would be less painfull for me to be cheated on emotionally. cause if they cheat on my emotionally like that's not my fault they met someone who makes them happier. shows so much more of their character and honestly would give me more of a clean break. but if my partner cheated physically i'm already very insecure i think i would spiral into like a self hatred, what did i do wrong, and at the end of the day i would probably take that person back so it would be so much messier and would be so much more trouble in the long run

  • @Xplreli
    @Xplreli 3 месяца назад +9

    Happy Birthday David !🎉 This was great! Awesome segment. Would love too see more of it. ❤