I'm first born, but I love my baby sister and I always want to see her shine...I can't imagine being any other way to her...I just want to love her more❤
I didnt realise this until my ex showed me that my sister had got married from pictures on facebook and I recieved no invite! Even tho she introduced me to her fiance and told me she would be planing a wedding the following year 😮 I can laugh now because i understand what happened. But it did cut deep for a while until I healed
@@RUclipsUzername she took no accountability and blamed My mum. To much information to go deeper. Needless to say I found out my sister had been orchestrating behind the scenes and once open honest conversation was had. The game was up
Being the oldest sister is not very fun. I don't ever remember being jealous of my sisters, but I definitely remember at least one sister being jealous of me. To this day. All because of appearance. That is so sad to me.
That’s what I’m dealing with. I’m the oldest of all the kids. My dad started having kids again when he was 49. I’m 37 and my youngest sister is 17. Their mom was my dad’s mistress and she was also EVIL. My sisters are revenge kids. I RAISED THEM LIKE THEY WERE MINE! Their mom is an only fans hoe, but when I moved out of state they moved with their mom. 2 years later and the revenge kids are now beefing with me meanwhile I haven’t been home in FIVE YEARS and one of my sisters (who may not even be my biological sister btw) hates me out of nowhere and she’s the artsy one. Got talent out the ass but she hates me for absolutely no reason. Her brother (by her only fans mom molested her and I was the one that protected her but SHE hates ME 🙄) It’s weird and oldest sisters NEVER compete with the littles. NEVER. Why tf would we? They’re the kids we never had. We wanna protect them at the most. It’s this weird ass generation of girls that think like this 💯
This was my aunt with my mother. My aunt is a cerebral narcissist. She is so extreme with being better and smarter than everyone that she kept my mothers old report cards and used them to shame my mother AND make me ashamed of her school performance. I was in high school when she pulled them from a locked file cabinet and dissed my mama! Years later I asked her about them and she lied and gaslit me about their existence. My aunt is the devil and I know she still has them.
My stepsister was...it was so disgusting! We met when I was 16, my daddy didn't find out about her until she was 18....that says it all right there. I'm named after our dad, Troy. She was named after another man, James, smh. I was so sweet and nice to her but she had it out for me the whole time.
I thought my sister and I were good, until I understood, she was stirring the pot with my Mama on everything I did from the get go. She only brings up things from 40 years ago, trying to embarrass me in some way, and is always trying to copy me. I cut my hair, she cut her hair. I started wearing certain clothes, she started wearing certain clothes. I was into something, she became interested. It's very weird. I realized it how she manipulated my parents into doing everything for her, paying for things, going to her events- she wanted me out of the way because I would call that bs out. I never competed with my sister or mom. I was a tomboy, wanted to be outside, enjoyed animals and read books. I never talked about my accomplishments, I just did my thing. I realized a few years ago, they hated me. Literally hated me. UGH! It's sad. I don't come from a place of hate but I had to set boundaries. My mom was my first bully, my sister was my second. She was just plain cruel.
My little sister who directly follows me is the devil, she's been highly disrespectful, slanderous and mean and very hostile and sabotages everything I do,up till now, I'm blocking her number rn
My big sister is a certified hater! Just told her how excited I am for my wedding and she tried to make me feel inadequate for going all out on my special day. Mind you, when she was getting married, I was through the moon happy for her! Everytime I share something I’m proud of or excited about, she tries to “humble” me. Also a cousin of ours extended an invitation for my great grandmother’s 95th birthday and this girl decided to tell them that I don’t fw that side of the family. She’s notorious for talking about me poorly to family members, before I even have the chance to speak to them myself. She loves to throw me under the bus. Plus I’ve lost a lot of weight and glowed up. I honestly think she didn’t want me getting any attention vs her. And yeah when I was 11, my mom bought me diamond earrings and I took really good care of them and she threw them away.
Maybe it's because I have a brother not a sister so there's no sort of female rivalry that's going on like is sometimes in female friendships but, This is wild, your siblings are all you got! in a way. These are the people who you want to see doing their best! But I guess it depends on the circumstance and lens you're looking from
Sisters shouldn't be jealous or envy of one another.💯
Well they are and this is just a reality for many family systems
You would think and hope so....but then they show you otherwise
😮sometimes it's one way
@@kaybee1025that part!
In a perfect world!🌎
I'm first born, but I love my baby sister and I always want to see her shine...I can't imagine being any other way to her...I just want to love her more❤
@@starbabi77 same same ❤️❤️
Same here❤️💯💯💯
ty!!
Secret or open competition between sisters is CRAZY!!!
My older sister is a narcissist and tries to look innocent. She literally ruins lives. I went no contact.
Good for you Sis 😁
good
I didnt realise this until my ex showed me that my sister had got married from pictures on facebook and I recieved no invite! Even tho she introduced me to her fiance and told me she would be planing a wedding the following year 😮 I can laugh now because i understand what happened. But it did cut deep for a while until I healed
Ummmm…What happened?
@@RUclipsUzername she took no accountability and blamed My mum. To much information to go deeper. Needless to say I found out my sister had been orchestrating behind the scenes and once open honest conversation was had. The game was up
Jealous, Jezebel, egocentric, backstabber....narcissist is not something I will throw freely like that
this
Scapegoats unite!
Being the oldest sister is not very fun. I don't ever remember being jealous of my sisters, but I definitely remember at least one sister being jealous of me. To this day. All because of appearance. That is so sad to me.
That’s what I’m dealing with. I’m the oldest of all the kids. My dad started having kids again when he was 49. I’m 37 and my youngest sister is 17. Their mom was my dad’s mistress and she was also EVIL. My sisters are revenge kids. I RAISED THEM LIKE THEY WERE MINE! Their mom is an only fans hoe, but when I moved out of state they moved with their mom. 2 years later and the revenge kids are now beefing with me meanwhile I haven’t been home in FIVE YEARS and one of my sisters (who may not even be my biological sister btw) hates me out of nowhere and she’s the artsy one. Got talent out the ass but she hates me for absolutely no reason. Her brother (by her only fans mom molested her and I was the one that protected her but SHE hates ME 🙄) It’s weird and oldest sisters NEVER compete with the littles. NEVER. Why tf would we? They’re the kids we never had. We wanna protect them at the most. It’s this weird ass generation of girls that think like this 💯
fr 😢
✌️🏼My cut off game strong. My life is a million times better
More power to you Sis 💓
Amen!
This was my aunt with my mother. My aunt is a cerebral narcissist. She is so extreme with being better and smarter than everyone that she kept my mothers old report cards and used them to shame my mother AND make me ashamed of her school performance. I was in high school when she pulled them from a locked file cabinet and dissed my mama! Years later I asked her about them and she lied and gaslit me about their existence. My aunt is the devil and I know she still has them.
This sounds like what exactly my sister would do but I'm never getting that close to her to harm me
My stepsister was...it was so disgusting! We met when I was 16, my daddy didn't find out about her until she was 18....that says it all right there. I'm named after our dad, Troy. She was named after another man, James, smh. I was so sweet and nice to her but she had it out for me the whole time.
fr
Finally!!! I have an older sister like this, she always abused me and slandered me i don't have a relationship with anyone in my family any more.
So sorry you had to go through this
good cuz bye!!
Sadly I deal with that animosity bs from both the elder, youngest, and step sibling😒 I live as an only child
I thought my sister and I were good, until I understood, she was stirring the pot with my Mama on everything I did from the get go. She only brings up things from 40 years ago, trying to embarrass me in some way, and is always trying to copy me. I cut my hair, she cut her hair. I started wearing certain clothes, she started wearing certain clothes. I was into something, she became interested. It's very weird. I realized it how she manipulated my parents into doing everything for her, paying for things, going to her events- she wanted me out of the way because I would call that bs out. I never competed with my sister or mom. I was a tomboy, wanted to be outside, enjoyed animals and read books. I never talked about my accomplishments, I just did my thing. I realized a few years ago, they hated me. Literally hated me. UGH! It's sad. I don't come from a place of hate but I had to set boundaries. My mom was my first bully, my sister was my second. She was just plain cruel.
My little sister who directly follows me is the devil, she's been highly disrespectful, slanderous and mean and very hostile and sabotages everything I do,up till now, I'm blocking her number rn
My big sister is a certified hater! Just told her how excited I am for my wedding and she tried to make me feel inadequate for going all out on my special day. Mind you, when she was getting married, I was through the moon happy for her! Everytime I share something I’m proud of or excited about, she tries to “humble” me.
Also a cousin of ours extended an invitation for my great grandmother’s 95th birthday and this girl decided to tell them that I don’t fw that side of the family. She’s notorious for talking about me poorly to family members, before I even have the chance to speak to them myself. She loves to throw me under the bus. Plus I’ve lost a lot of weight and glowed up. I honestly think she didn’t want me getting any attention vs her.
And yeah when I was 11, my mom bought me diamond earrings and I took really good care of them and she threw them away.
Maybe it's because I have a brother not a sister so there's no sort of female rivalry that's going on like is sometimes in female friendships but, This is wild, your siblings are all you got! in a way. These are the people who you want to see doing their best! But I guess it depends on the circumstance and lens you're looking from
this their SICK!! my family NEVER lets me talk!!
See u have this toxic relationship between me and my cousins I’m a big sister and I love her so much and I want her to be way better then me
literally my sisters 🤣
fr, then hate on you for getting something first… uhhh 😬🤭
lmaoo
😅💀💀
Fits my family to a T.