HOW TO BE CONFIDENT: 9 WAYS TO BE MORE CONFIDENT!

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024

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  • @DamonAndJo
    @DamonAndJo 8 лет назад +45

    Work that confidence girl! Loved this!

  • @pottah1043
    @pottah1043 8 лет назад +17

    My favorite quote is "If you don't stand for something, you would fall for everything." Thought I would share.. :)

  • @kdrinkss
    @kdrinkss 8 лет назад +103

    Is anyone else reminded by Carly of a young Meryl Streep in the Devil wears prada?

    • @CarlyCristman
      @CarlyCristman  8 лет назад +17

      +Taylor K this is the nicest thing someone has ever said to me.

    • @melissamckenzie6269
      @melissamckenzie6269 8 лет назад +2

      +Carly Cristman I was thinking more of a prettier JLaw

    • @kdrinkss
      @kdrinkss 8 лет назад

      +Melissa McKenzie Ooooh yeah I can see that

    • @SophieJak12
      @SophieJak12 8 лет назад

      Love this blog laaime.weebly.com !

    • @tajh2768
      @tajh2768 8 лет назад

      for real!!!

  • @jaclynwood
    @jaclynwood 7 лет назад +7

    After listening to your first few tips I was like "this girls' got Christian values" and then you said you're a Christian! I love your videos, so happy I found you!!

  • @rebeccacoulter6787
    @rebeccacoulter6787 8 лет назад +55

    I am binge watching all your videos today after finding your channel this morning! I have fallen in love with your content, thank you for being so open about being a Christian. Not many want to talk about it but I love how you have openly claimed it and been so honest and real in many videos. Happy happy new subscriber!

    • @issayuri9134
      @issayuri9134 7 лет назад +1

      Rebecca Lauren Same! I just found her videos, and have been watching it nonstop. I've been really trying to get over my antisocial, social anxiety badness. I'm an extrovert and I feel like I'm not myself anymore. I don't know what it is about her videos but her tips and personality is helping me get better and be my crazy self again haha

  • @lovekyliie
    @lovekyliie 8 лет назад +33

    Lol the stop telling me to add a pop of color. Love you girl your Instagram is fabulous as it is!

  • @kristinbooshay5003
    @kristinbooshay5003 8 лет назад +100

    omg I love this!!! thank you! It is good to find fellow Christians on RUclips that speak truth to peoples lives and that have really great fashion sense. Thanks!!

    • @mylufCGH
      @mylufCGH 8 лет назад +11

      Same here! I will respect any religion or believes from others but at the same time it is very nice you watch christian youtubers bc i am christian too. So fun that you just said the same!

    • @Homeandthimble
      @Homeandthimble 8 лет назад +4

      +mylufCGH Haha I was just thinking the same thing!! I love it. :)

    • @Lyckojazz
      @Lyckojazz 8 лет назад +7

      +Ginger I was just about to comment this! It's just extra awesome when you find out that a youtuber you like shares your faith and is open about it.

    • @atelierfrost
      @atelierfrost 8 лет назад +3

      This is what I was thinking! :D In pop culture it seems like it's not "cool" to say you're a Christian, but I'm so glad she did!

  • @NitasNiche
    @NitasNiche 8 лет назад +5

    Preach girl! ^_^ Not placing my value/identity in other people's opinions is definitely something I gotta constantly work on. So easy to forget that my true identity is that of a child of God.

  • @ChristieRessel
    @ChristieRessel 8 лет назад +8

    Your comment about being a spastic giraffe killed me. LOL

  • @FromHeadtoCurve
    @FromHeadtoCurve 7 лет назад

    This is so real! I used to eat out by myself many times & my friend used to hate that because she said it made me look lonely & desperate for friends 🤷🏾‍♀️ I didn't even know that was a thing before she said something, but it didn't bother me and it kind of calmed me down

  • @brandelynharrell1387
    @brandelynharrell1387 8 лет назад +16

    She who wears black has a colorful personality

  • @RettaKay
    @RettaKay 8 лет назад +6

    Love every single one of your videos!!! Neutrals are awesome!!!! I love when someone has the chance to reach thousands of people and they use it to uplift and inspire. That, my friend, shows that you are an awesome person!!

  • @musiclova568
    @musiclova568 8 лет назад +1

    love the point about being confident when your alone! that is so true!

  • @jessa568
    @jessa568 8 лет назад +1

    So... I have never found another human being who I felt has spoken into my life and that I could relate with on the level that you have.... Please don't ever stop what you are doing because you are an inspiration to those of us who are fumbling along trying to make sense of our purpose in life. So like, bless your heart for your compelling personality and intelligent wit. Just bless it.

    • @alannagonzalez985
      @alannagonzalez985 8 лет назад

      You couldn't have said that better. Carly is such in inspiration and gives me the confidence to just continue being me. It's wonderful how she can really touch us with her beautiful soul.

  • @RubyOpheliaQuinn
    @RubyOpheliaQuinn 8 лет назад +5

    Sort of related but could you please do a video on how you stay organised and what planner etc you use. I need help!

  • @jennac823
    @jennac823 8 лет назад

    Carly, I started graduate school this year and it has beaten me, brought me down, been the worst year of my life. But it has also taught me so much about the world and myself and I can 100% agree with all of these things. Also the background, your look, the marble just everything wow I love. The shape of your lips is unreal too. I'm excited to share this year of videos with you!

  • @lustrous5920
    @lustrous5920 8 лет назад +2

    The colors of your makeup compliment your complexion and hair color SO WELL :)

  • @gabihuggins5042
    @gabihuggins5042 8 лет назад +3

    I appreciate your content. You can tell you put effort into your videos and you're very articulate. Thank you for being you!

  • @ValerieFietkau
    @ValerieFietkau 8 лет назад

    I'm a Christian also and I was so encouraged to hear you say what you did about your identity. I have been teaching this for years to people, so much so that when you said but we need to understand where our identity comes from, I automatically just said our identity comes from God and who we are in him. And then you said it :-) it was so encouraging to know there are other people on RUclips who believe this and teach it. My husband and I have a RUclips show also call the coffee with Mom and Dad. We are conservative Christians just sharing our opinions and the word of God. our show is monetized to help fund our street preaching and are reaching out to the how much. We are currently trying to restart a homeless shelter in Fort Worth Texas that was taxed out of existence by our County a few years ago. please pray for us

  • @hopejubilee
    @hopejubilee 8 лет назад

    Straight up wisdom! Thank you for being such a beautiful example that so many of us aspire to be. God bless you, sister!

  • @ethanatkinson7729
    @ethanatkinson7729 7 лет назад

    i love this video. As a person with social anxiety, i dont like being around people because i think they are always judging me. thanks for the confidence boost.

  • @carolinebender205
    @carolinebender205 7 лет назад +1

    Oh my gosh. I'm totally binge watching your channel on a Friday night-loving on your videos and tips! Thanks for sharing your heart.

    • @makeupdarling6171
      @makeupdarling6171 7 лет назад

      Caroline Bender Haha! I'm binge watching too! 🙊🙊

  • @carmonkeyyy
    @carmonkeyyy 8 лет назад +3

    I love your style and these tips have helped me a lot. You are doing God's work in a modern, relatable way and are making a difference.

  • @kristenlandry123
    @kristenlandry123 8 лет назад

    I am so happy I came across your page. I don't know how I have gone this long without watching your videos. I love everything about you and the honesty behind your videos!!!

  • @sincerely_debi
    @sincerely_debi 8 лет назад

    YOU ARE THE BEST! I have been looking for a believer that works in the fashion industry for so long, and I can totally relate to your tip no. 5, I AM SO SO SO HAPPY that I finally found someone who i can totally relate to!!

  • @sasscam
    @sasscam 8 лет назад

    I love how confident and unaffected by people's opinion you are!

  • @longs4
    @longs4 8 лет назад

    Thank you Carly! Way to uplift & inspire! I'm going to share this video with my 16 year old daughter. The Lord is smiling down on you, & it shows! Keep on doing what you're doing, & blessings will continue to pour in. xoxo

  • @tawnytuppence5573
    @tawnytuppence5573 8 лет назад

    Thank you! Every point resonates. I'm working on identifying my own style, and this video helps.
    If you haven't read the children's picture book called "Giraffes Can't Dance," you need to. It's basically the story of your life! The other jungle animals don't know what to make of the giraffe's unique dance style, and it ends up being a good thing. Keep being you!

  • @jesseleighwanless6326
    @jesseleighwanless6326 8 лет назад

    Your channel shows your honest, real, self..... And I like that. I respect that! Yes, you have great style..... But you are also funny, refreshing, and real!! Great representation of what God can do with a heart that follows His leading!! ❤️

  • @Sherlynmama
    @Sherlynmama 8 лет назад

    "not place your worth in other people's opinion" i love this! thank you so much! 💗💗💗

  • @vedalacouture4348
    @vedalacouture4348 7 лет назад +2

    You put a pop of color on your lips. love it!

  • @hrankin23
    @hrankin23 8 лет назад

    Thank you, Carly! Not really on topic with this video, but you've helped me embrace my love for neutrals and black clothing. I used to always think "I should try to pick some things with color" when I was shopping, but no longer! I like what I like! Great video as always, beautiful! :)

  • @racheldennison2081
    @racheldennison2081 8 лет назад

    These are all really great points! Thanks for making this video I'm going to save it and watch it for when I'm feeling down. 😘

  • @morganfinley5915
    @morganfinley5915 7 лет назад +2

    This is the first video Ive watched of yours and I'm already in love with you haha! All your points were so great and not generic it's so encouraging to see a Christian girl spreading love and using her platform for good keep killin it❤️

  • @Sara-ut8jc
    @Sara-ut8jc 8 лет назад

    Finding your channel at the end of 2014 was the best way to end the year! Loving your videos and this is legit positive! Thank you Carly!

  • @livin4jc3
    @livin4jc3 8 лет назад +4

    You rude...hahaha! I just laughed so hard at that. Your real internet fam gets and loves your sarcasm. Thanks for this great video!

  • @BooBear1701
    @BooBear1701 8 лет назад

    This is the third video I'm watching of yours! I absolutely love your personality! Keep up the amazing work!!!! You definitely deserve more recognition!

  • @vanessapierce1861
    @vanessapierce1861 8 лет назад

    You have prudent and pertinent advice! The confidence advice is really helpful and relevant to me today!! Thank you for sharing your beauty inside and out :)

  • @boholove08
    @boholove08 8 лет назад

    Carly!! I love your videos! Thank you for sharing this. I've been watching for years, since you lived in Chicago and you still inspire, encourage and challenge me. Keep on keeping on, my friend.

  • @AlicesJournal
    @AlicesJournal 8 лет назад +1

    *I love the whole aesthetic of your videos, your clothes, makeup and background are PERFECTION! Monochrome all the way

  • @jmouzooni
    @jmouzooni 8 лет назад

    You explained everything so perfectly I agree with you on every point you made! Great job!

  • @tayloranderson6852
    @tayloranderson6852 8 лет назад

    You just became a youtuber I want to watch more and more! No one speaks out on the internet any more about being a Christian, but you did. Thank you for having such great content and not holding back who you are!

  • @BeautyByMuzna
    @BeautyByMuzna 8 лет назад +3

    This is such a positive video, love it! 💖

  • @rachellovesdaisies
    @rachellovesdaisies 8 лет назад

    I LOVE this video, i've watched it twice, and i'll probably come back and watch it again. Thank you!

  • @ellievictoria446
    @ellievictoria446 8 лет назад +1

    this video was so uplifting, thank you so much

  • @athirahzahrey7477
    @athirahzahrey7477 7 лет назад

    I love her personality...Carly YOU RULE! 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

  • @Marie-yt6ri
    @Marie-yt6ri 8 лет назад

    i am pretty much a confident person, but this video is a very good reminder that i should keep up. thank u ❤ you are truly awesome

  • @maggielara2360
    @maggielara2360 7 лет назад +1

    Omg. I just found you. My fairy god mother. Where have you been this whole time 🖤 so happy I happily ran into your videos

  • @alicja2360
    @alicja2360 8 лет назад

    I'm watching this video for the third time and I love it! I think the most important advice (at least for me) is remembering that people are just people 😊

  • @vivianaoneill385
    @vivianaoneill385 8 лет назад +4

    thank you or this video. i was just literally questioning myself.

  • @jasminedhillon2011
    @jasminedhillon2011 8 лет назад

    I can always recognize you in my feed with just the layout of your thumbnail😻😻

  • @InfluenceByChloe
    @InfluenceByChloe 8 лет назад

    Love love love this video! It's not just the typical tips you always here like "smile" etc, they're somewhat new, thoughtful tips! Thank you:-)

  • @LikeLillysLifestyle
    @LikeLillysLifestyle 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you for that video
    It was really so helpful
    I really needed that as a good start in 2016

  • @savannahandstuff
    @savannahandstuff 8 лет назад

    This was so spot on! x

  • @arcencieliris
    @arcencieliris 8 лет назад

    Your video was just what I needed tonight, thank you so much! I will try and apply your tips from tomorrow.

  • @IttyBerryBerryCrochet
    @IttyBerryBerryCrochet 8 лет назад

    I love that u wear stuff that's modest compared to people who love fashion wear stuff that shows to much! You are such and inspiration to me I'm a Christian and want to be a fashion designer

  • @MsMani777
    @MsMani777 8 лет назад

    love you. I love where the confidence come from. Stay blessed.

  • @edencat99
    @edencat99 8 лет назад

    Just want to say..oh snap Carly!! We love your vids & your sparkly decor in your apt!!!

  • @Ren-ls4yl
    @Ren-ls4yl 7 лет назад

    This one's going on my favourite videos list. It was amazing!!

  • @kirstine8286
    @kirstine8286 8 лет назад

    Just found your videos and absolutely love them. You are awesome!! Thanks for sharing!

  • @Gamr267
    @Gamr267 8 лет назад

    You are by far my favorite RUclipsr! You are such an inspiration to me and my career! I'm currently studying Apparel Merchandising, and your videos are the reason why I got over worrying who would approve and switched my major to it! So, thank you!

    • @CarlyCristman
      @CarlyCristman  8 лет назад

      +Taylor Vaughan that is SO AWESOME!! Congrats and Im excited for you!!

  • @CarinaandZara
    @CarinaandZara 8 лет назад

    I gotta start owning my awkwardness and flaws and not think that these make me lesser of a person or less deserving of success!

  • @TheThirdCotelydon
    @TheThirdCotelydon 8 лет назад

    I can't believe I missed this video when it came out, but I just wanted to say thank you so much for being forward about your religion. I really look up to you, and knowing that you're Christian makes me feel a little bit more motivated to be grateful of my roots too!

  • @eugenemillarfarley5504
    @eugenemillarfarley5504 8 лет назад

    I recently got into a fight with my (previously) best friends, I am at an age where my personality is changing and I am discovering who I am. She told me I was too dark minded, and mean. My immediate response was "Okay! I will fix it!" and then I thought about it and realized she had no right to tell me who I could and couldn't be. I am now seeking MY opinion on myself instead of listening to what others thought about me. This video really helped me find myself and get out of the stupid turtle shell I had grown, I can't thank you enough.

  • @Car1yIn
    @Car1yIn 7 лет назад

    It's not even funny this video is exactly what I needed to hear, you've brought my confidence way up and I love your videos

  • @ciarakilian6028
    @ciarakilian6028 8 лет назад

    Love this video - perfect timing with posting it so early in the new year! It's a truly great way to inspire people to feel better about themselves going into 2016! Thanks for the advice, your confidence radiates through my computer screen! :)

  • @noelleshamlian6163
    @noelleshamlian6163 8 лет назад

    Wow I love this video!! I really enjoy watching your videos and admire your confidence and ability to express your opinions and beliefs! You go girl!!!

  • @ACGNikki
    @ACGNikki 8 лет назад +2

    This was actually really good... and helpful! Thanks for sharing! =D
    It's videos like these that I save to my "watch later" so I'll have them at my disposal in times of need :)

  • @jaclynbridges8262
    @jaclynbridges8262 8 лет назад

    I absolutely love your videos! Look forward to them every Thursday, hope you are having a wonderful day💜

  • @KTpie
    @KTpie 8 лет назад

    Really great tips and so important for accepting yourself too :) and I actually prefer eating by myself too haha, it drains less energy from constantly engaging in conversation and thinking of something to talk about with the other person

  • @madeleinechow2641
    @madeleinechow2641 8 лет назад

    I really liked all the tips! It's great to start the new year with confidence so this video was perfect

  • @firefly930
    @firefly930 8 лет назад

    This video was so spot on! Loved it! And really needed to hear it! Thanks!

  • @insiyahpereira7106
    @insiyahpereira7106 8 лет назад

    Carly, you're such an inspiration. Love YOU.

  • @keslyurrutia5118
    @keslyurrutia5118 8 лет назад

    This is such a great way to start the year.! Thank you for this!

  • @CrystalKo0399
    @CrystalKo0399 8 лет назад

    This is fantastic 👌🏼 never heard someone verbalize this so well

  • @potatoshh1106
    @potatoshh1106 8 лет назад

    so helpful! thank you so much such a great way of starting new year

  • @helloginacova
    @helloginacova 8 лет назад

    Good job girlfriend :) you killed this one , I honestly feel so much better about myself & I have you to thank tremendously ! You covered valid points I never really thought about !

  • @NikkiCox81
    @NikkiCox81 8 лет назад

    Best!! I love this advice!! I just wish I had been this enlightened when I was your age! For some of us our 20's are hard and you seem to be handling them so well! Finding my confidence in my 30's is better than never finding it at all, though. :) I'll be sharing this for sure!

  • @nparioctiescutm
    @nparioctiescutm 8 лет назад +1

    Hey... I already hit "like" but I just thought I'd tell you: I LIKE this video!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😁

  • @elizabethfraser2460
    @elizabethfraser2460 8 лет назад

    I love your videos and your snaps!! No silly ranting just good ol' Carly!! ❤️❤️😊

  • @MoveLikeThis
    @MoveLikeThis 8 лет назад

    This video really encouraged me today, thank you Carly!!

  • @marleenverheij510
    @marleenverheij510 8 лет назад

    Wow! Your vids are truly amazing! You confess your faith, I like that! ❤

  • @catchang9697
    @catchang9697 8 лет назад

    Oh my goodness the last comment!!!! I loved it! 😆💖 "and if you think that way then you should reform your think because you rude."

  • @bellajenna87
    @bellajenna87 8 лет назад

    You look fabulous in this video! Love your shirt and lip color!

  • @lovinggsummerrr
    @lovinggsummerrr 8 лет назад

    really needed this video! esp to remind myself that i'm not alone. thanks carly:)

  • @ModernMolliee
    @ModernMolliee 8 лет назад

    I love eating by myself too! And going to the movies alone! :)

  • @FortheLoveofOrganizing
    @FortheLoveofOrganizing 8 лет назад

    Love your honesty and and how you shared your faith! Many blessings in 2016!

  • @kew9726
    @kew9726 8 лет назад

    Really love your vlogs! Keep them coming girl! Adore your style, tips and advice! Xxx

  • @Lindseybaatz
    @Lindseybaatz 8 лет назад

    Loving your whole look and vibe lately

  • @pizzannabeth
    @pizzannabeth 8 лет назад

    you're so inspiring ! these advices are so useful. love u so much ♡

  • @jsmith5509
    @jsmith5509 8 лет назад

    Happy New Year!!! Great advice. Thanks for sharing!

  • @sunnyrai6145
    @sunnyrai6145 8 лет назад

    Love your videos! This is everything I have learnt and realised this year 👍

  • @andrean2246
    @andrean2246 7 лет назад

    Hi Carly! I'm a new subscriber, and I have to say that I love all of your videos. This video is especially helpful because I often struggle with feeling confident. Thank you so much!

  • @RoseLilyPink
    @RoseLilyPink 8 лет назад

    Really love this video! I really wanna work on my confidence this year & these tips are suuuper helpful!! :)

  • @AshleySettingiano
    @AshleySettingiano 8 лет назад

    Absolutely loved this video Carly. Hit the heart.

  • @xlalaladida
    @xlalaladida 8 лет назад

    Love love love this!!! Thanks for sharing Carly :)

  • @CiecieNewson
    @CiecieNewson 8 лет назад

    Love your lip color. These are awesome tips that are sure to work if embraced. Smile!

  • @fran117autumn
    @fran117autumn 8 лет назад

    Happy 2016 Carly! TFS stellar year! been changing it up last few years, love the fact living devoid of color! environment has a certain energy ! love the tours!

  • @thatjojogirl
    @thatjojogirl 8 лет назад +1

    OMG I love your videos. Your so inspirational! Stay beautiful 💗

  • @stephanieruch91
    @stephanieruch91 8 лет назад

    love love love this Video! thank you for keep my head up! 💪💕