7 Mistakes Single Men Make | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 1
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1. Choosing beauty over character. It’s not bad but shouldn’t be the primary reason for choosing her. Make a list of qualities you find attractive and look for dating when dating.
2. Not learning about relationships. Men naturally gravitate towards work or recreational activities. Start learning about relationships. Get a mentor. Read book, attend conferences. Watch videos and podcast on relationships. Observe the women around you. Where you invest is where you harvest.
3. Not managing their sexuality. Self control is important just because you can sleep around doesn’t mean you should. Abstinence, Celibacy and chastity isn’t only for women. Casual sex always have casualties.
"Casual sex brings casualitie" powerful message.
its true Sir i had to send this one to my boyfriend .... am sure he will see this comment as he watches lol thank you PK Sir
My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments:
Thank you Pastor Sir. Though am a lady, I've learned a lot. I have a request. It'd be helpful also to have messages for single moms & dads who made mistakes before and want to have a fresh Godly start in a meaningful relationship. Thanks in advance🙂
Wow dats a really good idea sis...we tend to neglect dat aspect but we all need help and counselling...God bless you🙏
An absolutely great idea,everyone from every walk of life,every circumstance, needs advise and guidance.
Same here o. Thanks for this question
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@@mailije lol... sister no vex, pipe low... all in all I am interested in knowing you, if u don't mind.
The beauty of a wife is defined by the perception of the husband about her appearance. Sometimes, people define beauty by their fantasies; whereas, beauty remains a subjective concept. Character sustains a man’s perception of his wife’s beauty. Thank you PST Kingsley.
Where you invest is where you harvest 👌
PastorK has been mentoring me since 2018 through his videos and books. Your knowledge and wisdom is too much sir. God bless you more.
Are you now married
@@stepup6178 so that if not, we can apply.
Im happy im learning this while still single...and clean from sexual encounter with any lady..thank you so much....
Really wow? How old are you?
@@therealone8628 24yrs
May God bless. You clearly are a man of character
@@kathrynmcauley4808 Hello! how are you?
Hmmmmmm... keep it up.
Whenever it's Pastor Kay am very happy I've learnt alot from him my relationship goes sweet all day.
Tanx pastor
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Pastor K, I tell u from my heart; ur generations unborn are already blessed by GOD. Ur doing the work of GOD -- healing the world.
----susan Nwanyioma
Reason for abstinence:
It's a sin and sin is grievous in the sight of God. Sin has the capacity to destroy
7mistakes single men make
1.choosing beauty over character
_make a list of qualities you want
2.Not learning about relationships
_Men are emotional most in work/recreational activities
_Where you invest is where you harvest
_the fist man didn't fail at work but at family
_start learning about relationships
_Get a mentors
_pay attention to all ladies around you.. how they think, learn
3.not managing your sexuality
_men have strong sexual drive
_self control is important
_casual sex always has casualties
_make a list of reasons you need self control
_build up your character and determination (prayer,read the word)
_always put clear boundaries
Learning all the way in Botswana 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
I am a lady but I was blessed by this! God bless you Pastor.
the same here sister. please check his wife's version for women if you havent yet sister.
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My eyes are opening now.
True some guys do not invest in knowing about relationships, they just dive into relationship and end up breaking their partner ignorantly.
Praise God that I didn't get married before hearing this.
NOw I'm more than ready .
I've never regretted subscribing to this channel. Such a great impact you make on my life every video you share #wisdom #God bless you sir.
Thank you so much Sir. God bless you sir 🙇🏾♂️🙇🏾♂️🙇🏾♂️
You're very intelligent Man of God. Kudos you're really great
“Men are moved by what they see”
But the way we are been pressured to think Money and prosperity is everything we need as men. It's obvious in the society. It's not easy to overlook.
Wow what a wonderful teaching message by Rev kingsley okonkwo more grace more wisdom and knowledge sir
You have to look What's In the inside Guys. Beauty has got to be in the inside and outside. Inner Beauty is most important Guys.
Am a lady but this message is so on point💥...It cuts across everywhere..God bless you Sir🙏
hallelujah hallelujah sister
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Thanks a lot pastor. More grace.
More wisdom sir, God bless u, am learning a lot from u
Thank you pastor Kingsley for this video. I'm still single but not searching,February is my month of studying only on love and relationship and I've been broaden on this topic. Thank you sir I'm passionate about growing and learning and you have been a true mentor ......
I can't wait to listen to what my mentor have to offer.
Thanks so much for this very inspiring message. I just realized that I have struggled in relationships because I have never invested in it even though I have invested millions of naira in other areas of human endeavors
I just watched this now and I don't regret it. Thank you sir.
You are very wise Pastor King. I am so happy you're tackling real life issues with spiritual knowledge amd wisdom that is applicable and very fun.
Thank you for this video Pastor. Men are too lazy in learning their women and vice versa. They want to love their partner as they receive love.
I love your personality, your advice means a lot, nice meeting you?
Thank you so much for this wonderful message at this time. May the Lord bless your ministry and strengthen you always.
1. Committed
2. Dependable
3. Trustworthy
I'm so bless and encourage to go into relationship .
Best mentor ever, more blessings to u sir
Thanks so much sir, am blessed
Beautiful ladies are many but virtuous women are scars
Scarce. Not scars.
@@graceibelegbu189 u got the message, the correction isn't necessary
@@adibeemmanuel5738 The correction was necessary.
Uche Samuel no it wasn’t
@@arseven3137 Yes, it is. Scares and scars are two different things. If it was a mistake, it has been corrected and the correction well taken by the commenter.
Have been waiting for the men part 👏👏
Thanks a lot pk sir. You are always watering my marriage with your books,and videos.
I'm glad I found your channel! Let my soul be blessed wu hoo!
Thanks so much
I enjoyed this message. More Grace pastor K
This goes both ways sir.... We are need these ... I'll be 40 by next month and single... guess what the fine boy looks is not passing the first phase for me if that's all you've got then I'm sorry we can't be...
Pastor K quick question... what's your thoughts on younger men marrying older ladies, and what's God's thought on this issue... Currently I've got them in equal proportion trying to catch my attention...just one thing is lacking their personal relationship with God is missing or not so clear to me...I'm talking about both church guys and those not too churchy ...it's very key for me cause I don't want to be the one training my husband about the things of God... Let him know God for himself and have his personal testimonies about it....
You seem to have answered your own question.
The issue is their spiritual lives not their age.
If you are the one teaching him spiritual things mostly, you won't respect him even if he's older.
Age doesn't matter.
Age does not matter when you love someone.. you just have to go for it and pray for God to take control over everything age is just a number when you love someone beautiful.
Sometimes age gaps pose a challenge but it’s workable..It will take humility and understanding on the lady’s part to submit to a guy she’s older than...
Secondly, never marry anyone who isn’t saved and is lacking a relationship with the Holyspirit...They might not a working knowledge of God like you do, but by the love of God in their heart, there will be transformation...
I am really blessed with more insights on how to pray for my young adult sons, how to guide other youth in church because my husband and i are involved in several youth's lives. am also being taught to correct issues in my life e.g. study the word more .thank you so much
Wow W:h:at:s:A:p:p..Me +1 :8:7:8:2:2:6:2:5:0:7
@@yallianamelia634 really... issokay
I've learnt so many things, I didn't know
God bless you sir
I love this Pastor, wish you come to ph too to organize some stuffs on marriage.
Oil dey your head sir, God bless you richly sir
Thank you Pastor K for this video.
Great on pastor
God bless
This is awesome. God bless you, sir. Many thanks.
I am so glued to Pastors messages. They are eye opening
Happy to hear this. Thank you pastor K
Thank you PK
Thank you and diggin the Formula 1 threads 💯
Thanks so much pastor k for your mentorship, it has been of a great help to me. I am learning a lot
So educative
Such a blessing. There’s always something to learn oo
Awesome!
How to know if a man loves you genuinely ?
God bless u pastor am a beneficiary of ur ministry
Awesome conversation
Wow so much inspire. God help me to be humble to everybody specially to you God
Look beyond physical. ❤🗣💨
Beauty is skin deep.
Awesomeness
Waiting for part two
Higher heights sir...remain in blessing
Guilty of not learning about relationships, but only learning about other things. Work, work, work and it's beginning to tell on me.
Pastor K Thanks For these Much Wisdom Shared Sir.Its Always Great Listening To You...
BUT PLS LET YOUR EDITOR CHECK THE AD SOUND NEXT TIME,ITS TOO LOUD IN ALL YOUR VIDEOS..Hope This Will Be Corrected From Now On 🙏I APPRECIATE YOUR WORK❤
thanks for speaking my mind. great message but the voice was so low, i just had to use my earphones.
Wonderful Man Of God.
You are awesome at what you do.
Just found you Sir.
Kudos. Much respect. 💯
Thank you Pastor Kingsley
Arsenal in the Mud Everywhere 😂😂😂
Thanks, I'm blessed with this message
Very informative. Thanks for the wisdom points.
Thank you Sir, I'm so blessed
Thank you sir
Beautiful message thank u
"Let all the children come to me. All that are thirsty for the living water"
Good morning pastor
Thank yousir, talking about the physical appearance of a lady you want married, making the choice is it reasonable to consider the height of the Lady
when you want to get married?
Thank you sir
Thank you sir.
Blessings always Sir.
POWERFUL ♥️♥️♥️
Pst k, what advice do you have for young people in relationship age gaps
beautiful . THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS Pastor
I will like a one on one discussion with you, i need ur advice on something
Powerful teachings God bless you sir 🙏❤❤
This is the video I'm been working for... I have watched the single ladies. Thank you so much my online mentor. Please 4and7.. Am still waiting for that to complete my day! Lots of love PST K
lmao. Arsenal for life!!!!!!
But when did it become insufficient to refer solely to the scriptures to have a perfect marital relationship?
I get the point now
Nice shirt, where can we grab some ?
Wow nice
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP Is not necessarily a criteria biblically, I think that westernization is what brought about that. Our parents did not do much of ROMANCE but they did well in marriage.
What do you mean by "romantic" cause I can bet you needed to romance your wife as an "African".
Doing well in marriage, like staying with someone due to the fear of being called a failure, suffering and smiling at the same time, when your duty as a wife is streamlined to cook, bear as much children as you can so they can join him in the farm...?
Daniel the men did well in marriage but not the women. Many women suffered or are scared to this day.
@@chinonuwuchegbule5193 you went far back in time, my mother never had such experience and i didn't observe other couples even till this day, having issues because the husband didn't do any ROMANTIC gestures, it's more about your values and upbringing that will help you keep your marriage. I even observe my married sisters today, they have been married for close to eight years now, yet no such thing as ROMANCE With their husbands. Don't get me wrong, i like romance, but i don't accept that it's a prerequisite for a life time of relationship and responsibility called marriage. As a mature Christian woman, such "extras" should not be a bother.
@@cloyettegrant3889 I'm not even talking about marriage that is guided by African mentality, no no no, i even observe situations where husbands do things that, in African notion is strictly for the wife.
When is part 2?
Love it.. 💯
Always on point.. 🎯
God bless u Sir..! 💎
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Wow is here , oya make I go watch
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Meekness????! You mean weakness which is not God's plan for her. Some men don't give peace of mind.
He said meekness not weakness mam, very biblical
Thank you for this message sir
I would like to ask how can a guy contain his sex urge
Get into the word of God more.