man i'm so glad i found this at this time in my life, with all the advice out there for single men we have to differentiate "worldly wisdom" from "godly wisdom". this is true wisdom. Thank you sir.
1. Hospitality 2. Musical gift (piano/song writing/) 3. Empathy/Compassion 4. Leadership 5. Public Speaking 6. Time Management Skills 7. Networking 8. Critical Thinking-- The ability to analyze something objective in order to form a decision. 10. Decision Making- The act of processing and coming to to a conclusion. ( The process of making choices by identifying a decision, gathering information, and assessing alternative resolutions). 11. Creative Writing (Story-telling)
@@dephneaviyah4539 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾so this is what you are doing. Posting this one different people’s comment to get them to send money to you. Okay now it’s my turn: I GIVE YOU 2 DAYS TO RETURN ANY FUNDS YOU HAVE GOTTEN THROUGH THIS TO THE RESPECTIVE OWNERS OR ELSE SORROW WILL FOLLOW YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR DAYS. Please I dare you not to return them and see if God is a joker. Don’t beg me, just right your wrongs.
I am so happy I found your channel and videos. Really wise words here. I pray for God’s guidance in applying all these to my relationship decision making.
@@dephneaviyah4539 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾so this is what you are doing. Posting this one different people’s comment to get them to send money to you. Okay now it’s my turn: I GIVE YOU 2 DAYS TO RETURN ANY FUNDS YOU HAVE GOTTEN THROUGH THIS TO THE RESPECTIVE OWNERS OR ELSE SORROW WILL FOLLOW YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR DAYS. Please I dare you not to return them and see if God is a joker. Don’t beg me, just right your wrongs.
@@dephneaviyah4539 Pls stop using the names of men of God to dump people, you people are bringing curses upon your lives.. Pls people beware of this kind of replies. They are fake
My Mentor, thank you so much for 4&7, I never stop learning in this area cos I love family life. Thank you Sweet Holy Spirit for connecting me with you Sir. Am so blessed!
Thank You Pastor Kay,Anytime I Listen to You I Feel I Still Have a Lot to Learn From You...Area Of Finance in Marriage and Being a New Generational Leader in the Home Is Not All about Money..❤❤❤
Good morning Sir, each time I listen to your lecture,I gain more knowledge, courage, and to be patient enough to wait for God's right time to give me a good life partner, stay blessed and God bless 🙏
Wow this is really a wonderful teaching an message an it an eye opener for all men that want a lasting relationship am so tuach by your teaching sir because this are some of the things my guy lack an am finding it difficult to go in to marriage level am so bless even though am not in Nigeria am watching from Kuwait city.
Point No.5 struck me so deep. I dunno if it's all about what you said or the interpretations I got on it. Wish i could explain what It did to me which i'm still feeling right now. God bless you with more Divine wisdom, Sir.
Very amazing video... Pastor K, I love you. Keep doing this for us. I'm getting better on this relationship matter. I am praying and working towards having a very successful marriage. Point 6 is what I am giving serious attention to and there's no end to it. My values, my gold. I also like that part you explained I Timothy 5: 8 about provision. I covet your wisdom sir.
Rundown No4. Not getting God involved. Start praying about your life partner each day. Start to seek Gods leading irrespective of when things happen.Acknowledge God in all your ways. Confirm from God before making your choices and decision. 5.Taking advantage of women treat all women with respect. Do not start relationship for fun. Do not enjoy husband benefits with boyfriend mentality. Do not lead ladies on. Wisdom point: Treat all ladies with respect Think about how you can improve better. Treat all ladies as your sisters.
Thank you sir for this,its quite enlightening. Ego will mess you up sometimes; you just fill you've seen it all at some point. This is indeed timely for me. I'm subscribed to this channel 'sharperly'. Thanks again pastor Kay.
So well spoken, so valuable and beneficial. I am becoming better and better from your teachings Pastor Okonkwo. I have learned many things that I never even once gave a single thought, many things I have learned that I previously gave no consideration whatsoever, now I am beaming with joy because I have new understanding. Enlightenment is indeed a blessing.😊
Pastor k you've said it all, there is a man that is asking my hand in marriage he said he can't go through marriage counseling because he feels he knows it all sir please what will I do...
Men that follow and have Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior are attractive because they submit to the Lord. There were many powerful and attractive men in the Bible: Moses, Abraham, Joseph, King David, and Paul who wrote the majority of the New Testament. Daniel, the 3 Hebrew boys that were put in the furnace because they weren't going to worship an idol but only the True Living God etc.....
@@oluchukwuobioma1127 yes you're right. What's the point going through so much. When you can live an independent live. I already have a son and that's okay. Mind you I don't flirt b4 you call me flirt
@@officialehi5047 For me I don't have children yet and I would love to have biological children. Also I don't want to regret being unmarried when I am much older and as a lady, it gets more difficult as you get older except by God's mercies. I don't want to use my present concerns to take drastic decisions that will affect me in the future especially when it will be late. Let's just trust God. He will make a way
Pastor, thank you so much Sir. I'm so grateful for this and many more of your Videos, because I'm a pleasant Subscriber 😊. Sir, if I need counseling in Key Areas/Matters of my life, how do I reach/contact you or, can I get an official hotline number to communicate with. Thanks so much Sir
7mistakes single men make 4.Not praying about marriage Prov16:3 _start praying for your life partner _start seek God's leading _confirm from God 5.Taking advantage of women _all ladies are God's dotas and deserve to be treated well _women are vulnerable to men _Dont start relationship for fun _Dont enjoy husband benefits yet your a boyfriend _Dont lead ladies on _treat all the ladies with honor and respect _think about how you can act better _see all ladies as your sisters 6.Dont measure your value by money alone _No room for laziness... Luke12:15 _dont marry for where you are but for where you are going _dont wait to be very rich before choosing a wife _dont depend on your money to lead your home _list leadership qualities you need to develop
7.Not submitting to authority _you need other men to speak to your life _the best still need coaching. Prov11:14,15:22 _how can authority figures help me _who are the authority figures around me(pastors,deacons,elders)
man i'm so glad i found this at this time in my life, with all the advice out there for single men we have to differentiate "worldly wisdom" from "godly wisdom". this is true wisdom. Thank you sir.
That point of not leading people on... people need to hear this!!!!!
Say it for the people at the back 😆
💯💯💯
The topic is for men but we also have to learn something here as ladies.
Thank u daddy
You're welcome
💎
The message are so inspiring sir
Hhmmmmm, wisdom!!! wisdom!!! Don't leave me sir 🔥🔥🔥🏃🏃🏃🏃
Thank u sir for your great advice
1. Hospitality
2. Musical gift (piano/song writing/)
3. Empathy/Compassion
4. Leadership
5. Public Speaking
6. Time Management Skills
7. Networking
8. Critical Thinking-- The ability to analyze something objective in order to form a decision.
10. Decision Making- The act of processing and coming to to a conclusion. ( The process of making choices by identifying a decision, gathering information, and assessing alternative resolutions).
11. Creative Writing (Story-telling)
Lmao, pastor k throwing subtle shots "no account" 😂😂👀😌
My Pastor, My Mentor. Confirmed! Always blessed.
@@dephneaviyah4539 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾so this is what you are doing. Posting this one different people’s comment to get them to send money to you. Okay now it’s my turn: I GIVE YOU 2 DAYS TO RETURN ANY FUNDS YOU HAVE GOTTEN THROUGH THIS TO THE RESPECTIVE OWNERS OR ELSE SORROW WILL FOLLOW YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR DAYS. Please I dare you not to return them and see if God is a joker. Don’t beg me, just right your wrongs.
Little things that matters
God bless you
Thank you for the mentorship sessions as always sir
“Money is not a measure of a man’s worth”..... great statement
👑
Never measure your value from where you are. Thank you for these words of wisdom
Officially my mentor
Pastor Kingsley you are dynamic and God has graced you with wisdom to guide our sons. God bless you.
I am so happy I found your channel and videos. Really wise words here. I pray for God’s guidance in applying all these to my relationship decision making.
@@dephneaviyah4539 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾so this is what you are doing. Posting this one different people’s comment to get them to send money to you. Okay now it’s my turn: I GIVE YOU 2 DAYS TO RETURN ANY FUNDS YOU HAVE GOTTEN THROUGH THIS TO THE RESPECTIVE OWNERS OR ELSE SORROW WILL FOLLOW YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR DAYS. Please I dare you not to return them and see if God is a joker. Don’t beg me, just right your wrongs.
God bless you...am blessed
Pastor Ken am blessed by your knowledge of love matters.
My mentality has really changed for better.. More Grace and Anointing Sir.
@@dephneaviyah4539 Pls stop using the names of men of God to dump people, you people are bringing curses upon your lives.. Pls people beware of this kind of replies. They are fake
MISSION WIN NOW!!!!! It took me a long time to get what's written on ur shirt!
My pastor thank you am blessed
That's where I read from Sir
Proverbs 3
Preaching good sir...your videos have been a blessing sir🙌
My Mentor, thank you so much for 4&7, I never stop learning in this area cos I love family life. Thank you Sweet Holy Spirit for connecting me with you Sir. Am so blessed!
Pastor k you very right man and God bless you for this lesson
You are a great man sir, More Grace sir
Thank you PK. I enjoyed every bit of it
You have said it all, and all the things you said is true, and it's seriously affecting our men.
Hmmmm,very true
@@oluwapelumihelen4916 collect
Thank you Sir more grace
Thank You Pastor Kay,Anytime I Listen to You I Feel I Still Have a Lot to Learn From You...Area Of Finance in Marriage and Being a New Generational Leader in the Home Is Not All about Money..❤❤❤
God bless you Sir
PK THANK YOU, YOU ARE THE BEST SIR 🙌🙌🙌
Thank you sir
#4 hit a home run.
Thanks for sharing it...
you are welcome
Thank you pst K
Good morning Sir, each time I listen to your lecture,I gain more knowledge, courage, and to be patient enough to wait for God's right time to give me a good life partner, stay blessed and God bless 🙏
'A man's role id bigger than his financially worth per time'👏👏 this has blessed me
Thank you Pastor. K. May God continue to bless by imparting wisdom and knowledge through you
The family is the seed of the society. when marriages are good, the family is good and when family is good. Society is be good.
I have enjoyed this..Thank you Pastor
Thank u sir more wisdom, always inspiring and heart of burden listening to ur teaching
Thank you, Pastor K.
4. Not praying about marriage
5. Taking advantage of women
6. Measuring your value by money
7. Not submitting to authority
You have blessed my life
Thanks so much Pastor
Wow I learnt a lot,tanks pastor Kingsley
The entrance of a wife giveth......... (complete the statement with your need). Pick a wife when due not when your pocket is full. Thank you Pst. K
thank you so much for this. God bless
@@dephneaviyah4539 If you don't even fear man, fear God! how can impersonate a man of God and then try to swindle people with this. My brother repent!
Thank you Pastor K
Wow this is really a wonderful teaching an message an it an eye opener for all men that want a lasting relationship am so tuach by your teaching sir because this are some of the things my guy lack an am finding it difficult to go in to marriage level am so bless even though am not in Nigeria am watching from Kuwait city.
Wow thank you so much
Point No.5 struck me so deep. I dunno if it's all about what you said or the interpretations I got on it. Wish i could explain what It did to me which i'm still feeling right now. God bless you with more Divine wisdom, Sir.
Thanks
Very amazing video... Pastor K, I love you. Keep doing this for us.
I'm getting better on this relationship matter. I am praying and working towards having a very successful marriage.
Point 6 is what I am giving serious attention to and there's no end to it. My values, my gold. I also like that part you explained I Timothy 5: 8 about provision. I covet your wisdom sir.
Wow great teacher. I just subscribe to you channel
They confuse the head with being heady...🤪🤪
💀💀💀
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE
Rundown
No4. Not getting God involved.
Start praying about your life partner each day.
Start to seek Gods leading irrespective of when things happen.Acknowledge God in all your ways.
Confirm from God before making your choices and decision.
5.Taking advantage of women treat all women with respect.
Do not start relationship for fun.
Do not enjoy husband benefits with boyfriend mentality.
Do not lead ladies on.
Wisdom point:
Treat all ladies with respect
Think about how you can improve better.
Treat all ladies as your sisters.
I must attend one of your church services soon!
we are expecting you..
Very great session Pastor
Thank you very much
Thank you very much sir for this wonderful message hoping to get a partner to marry
You will get one, not just any, but a divine connection
Thank you sir for this,its quite enlightening. Ego will mess you up sometimes; you just fill you've seen it all at some point. This is indeed timely for me. I'm subscribed to this channel 'sharperly'. Thanks again pastor Kay.
"It doesn't make you less of a man to submit to another man". That's it.
So well spoken, so valuable and beneficial. I am becoming better and better from your teachings Pastor Okonkwo. I have learned many things that I never even once gave a single thought, many things I have learned that I previously gave no consideration whatsoever, now I am beaming with joy because I have new understanding. Enlightenment is indeed a blessing.😊
15:33... This one got me
Please what of 7 Mistakes Married men make...
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Pastor k you've said it all, there is a man that is asking my hand in marriage he said he can't go through marriage counseling because he feels he knows it all sir please what will I do...
That is going to be a problem in the future.
He obviously isn't teachable and cannot be advised if he does sth wrong.
Thread with caution.
The 4th reason, sooo true
@@dephneaviyah4539
Thank you very much. I'll do just that. God bless you
Men that follow and have Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior are attractive because they submit to the Lord. There were many powerful and attractive men in the Bible: Moses, Abraham, Joseph, King David, and Paul who wrote the majority of the New Testament. Daniel, the 3 Hebrew boys that were put in the furnace because they weren't going to worship an idol but only the True Living God etc.....
It is really wasting energy... energy that you would have used to run 5 businesses 😂😂😂😂😂
Good one sir. I'm surely contacting for advice and counselling... I really need it.
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@@KingsleyOkonkwo Okay sir
On point.. 🎯
Brilliant guidelines.. 👑
Thank u Sir.. 🔥
- @Acharich
You dont tie your leadership to money ... Someone better say that out loud !!!!!
Run down
No4. Not getting God involved in your relationship and choices.
Looks like single hood is the best....just thinking out loud
Marriage is not for everyone
@@oluchukwuobioma1127 yes you're right. What's the point going through so much. When you can live an independent live. I already have a son and that's okay. Mind you I don't flirt b4 you call me flirt
@@officialehi5047 For me I don't have children yet and I would love to have biological children. Also I don't want to regret being unmarried when I am much older and as a lady, it gets more difficult as you get older except by God's mercies. I don't want to use my present concerns to take drastic decisions that will affect me in the future especially when it will be late. Let's just trust God. He will make a way
@@oluchukwuobioma1127 I understand you. God will locate you in jesus christ name
Pastor, thank you so much Sir. I'm so grateful for this and many more of your Videos, because I'm a pleasant Subscriber 😊.
Sir, if I need counseling in Key Areas/Matters of my life, how do I reach/contact you or, can I get an official hotline number to communicate with. Thanks so much Sir
I prayed and yet made mistake on my first marriage could not believe it
Awww sorry to hear that.
If your blessed to get a second chance learn from your previous mistakes so you wont repeat them. All the best.
Cynthia Ojera you are right
7mistakes single men make
4.Not praying about marriage
Prov16:3
_start praying for your life partner
_start seek God's leading
_confirm from God
5.Taking advantage of women
_all ladies are God's dotas and deserve to be treated well
_women are vulnerable to men
_Dont start relationship for fun
_Dont enjoy husband benefits yet your a boyfriend
_Dont lead ladies on
_treat all the ladies with honor and respect
_think about how you can act better
_see all ladies as your sisters
6.Dont measure your value by money alone
_No room for laziness...
Luke12:15
_dont marry for where you are but for where you are going
_dont wait to be very rich before choosing a wife
_dont depend on your money to lead your home
_list leadership qualities you need to develop
7.Not submitting to authority
_you need other men to speak to your life
_the best still need coaching.
Prov11:14,15:22
_how can authority figures help me
_who are the authority figures around me(pastors,deacons,elders)
What I don't understand is why a man after asking a lady her name the next question is what she does for a leaving on meet her oh. 🙄🙄
@@dephneaviyah4539 you came here too? Scammer you have failed.
I wish my ex watch this. But It's Okay,.. I m fine.
Thank you sir
Thank you Pst K
Thanks Pastor
Thank you sir