Why Marriages Fail | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
  • Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Ministering During Singles Conference At The Fountain of Life Church
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Комментарии • 501

  • @eikwojomomoh5048
    @eikwojomomoh5048 21 день назад

    I can never get tired of listening to Pastor K and pastor M.
    A gift to this generation.

  • @lolo1s.o968
    @lolo1s.o968 3 года назад +11

    A very important point I missed before I got married to my husband was asking who was his mentor,To be honest I didn't know this truth.I only grew up seeing love,respect and most importantly the fear of God in my parents and most marriages around me. So in my small head I thought everyone should just have sense. In short all the points pastor K has talked about I relate totally! I pray God helps us in Jesus name.

  • @bayuokate5171
    @bayuokate5171 5 лет назад +20

    What is he said is 100% true, marriage is a wonder and anything can happen. Until you are married we think everything is rosy, in it you are the one to make yourself happy, prosperous and loving. If you depend on your spouse, you will be disappointed especially with our husbands. Work hard to make your own money and will stay in the marriage forever.

  • @amarachianih1784
    @amarachianih1784 5 лет назад +162

    " If you're happy with yourself, you are most likely to meet the right person"
    Deep!
    Thank you, Pastor Kingsley

    • @nancymajeleadebayo3788
      @nancymajeleadebayo3788 5 лет назад +1

      anih amarachi thank you so much Pastor. I appreciate your words of encouragement. It means a lot to me.

    • @Delightfulada
      @Delightfulada 5 лет назад +2

      Thank you for saying most likely, Am married, yes, but I know what I want through in life. Some ladies has held fast to some of these teachings, pastors didn't marry them, the brothers in the church will still go outside the church to pick wives. Well at 18 you are an adult, please do whatever seems right to you.

    • @Delightfulada
      @Delightfulada 4 года назад

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 The weekend you are talking about is the next 5hurs from this moment as typing this chat. God can not put me in such high jump. And he has never and can never deny me his blessings. Good night....

    • @billionairejumzietopbabe3304
      @billionairejumzietopbabe3304 3 года назад +2

      @@Delightfulada 🤣🤣🤣🤣...perfect answer...... they’re all scammers....

    • @honeyswag8577
      @honeyswag8577 3 года назад

      @@Delightfuladamy dear you're right, once you're matured for marriage and you know what you want is best you go for it. All these controversial and contradicting sermons 🙄

  • @hugs2mama425
    @hugs2mama425 5 лет назад +157

    Chai Pastor, I sincerely wish I heard your sermons when I was young and single. I had a glimpse of all what you say unfortunately I wasn’t confident enough to stick to my convictions. My prayer is God should give me a second chance.

    • @wendyfrank3224
      @wendyfrank3224 5 лет назад +2

      amen

    • @m.josephbah2294
      @m.josephbah2294 5 лет назад +2

      #No second chance in this oh!
      take grace to endure

    • @olayinkaajayi9372
      @olayinkaajayi9372 5 лет назад +1

      Amen

    • @m.josephbah2294
      @m.josephbah2294 5 лет назад +5

      @@JEBJOSH I totally agree with you in other terms, but in the case of marriage there is no second chance. simply because as Christians we are not allow by scriptures to marry another person if we think we have married the wrong person.

    • @JEBJOSH
      @JEBJOSH 5 лет назад +1

      @@m.josephbah2294 Oh I understand waht you mean now.

  • @creativemecksdave1319
    @creativemecksdave1319 5 лет назад +115

    Pst Kingsley Okonkwo is always spot on. He nails it, says it the way it is, and tells you in your face "Every fornicator is an adulterer trainee" period!!!
    God bless you Pastor Kings.

    • @ezinwanyiallison4109
      @ezinwanyiallison4109 5 лет назад +3

      Pastor you too much, am married and all you said is the truth. How I wish all the singles there take all you’ve said on board that will help

    • @agnesakiang9896
      @agnesakiang9896 4 года назад

      That part also got me laughing 😂.. When you hear something that’s very funny and yet it just makes great sense at the same time.. Pastor K, thank you!

    • @faridaemerson8888
      @faridaemerson8888 4 года назад

      gurudeseyesubai.org/fiasco-marriages/

  • @SteveIrunguJermaine
    @SteveIrunguJermaine 3 месяца назад

    A proud bachelor without limits in Jesus Christ name Amen

  • @heartofworshipfamily4967
    @heartofworshipfamily4967 5 лет назад +52

    Pastor Kingsley I don't really know how to thank you for the truth you are dishing out to these younger generation. These are core truths about life, love, and marriage. God bless you Sir.

  • @LGMI9
    @LGMI9 5 лет назад +87

    Even as a married person,am so blessed because I am still learning. Thank you Jesus for helping me to make the right choice.

  • @zindabamwape560
    @zindabamwape560 4 года назад +20

    Such messages make me grateful for being single...I can prepare before marriage

  • @lizzyfresh07
    @lizzyfresh07 2 года назад +2

    “Nobody is breaking plates men” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @myasfrenaz2289
    @myasfrenaz2289 5 лет назад +21

    "Don't marry a person with potentials but marry a person with parterns" 🙌

    • @honeyswag8577
      @honeyswag8577 3 года назад

      And that statement make sense to you? Smh 🙄

    • @johndosa6816
      @johndosa6816 2 года назад

      @@honeyswag8577 😄😄😄😄😄😄

    • @Akobby155
      @Akobby155 2 года назад

      @@honeyswag8577 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @oluchukwuobioma1127
      @oluchukwuobioma1127 Месяц назад

      ​@@honeyswag8577life will make it make sense to you

  • @faithbless1240
    @faithbless1240 5 лет назад +33

    Very good point there: the church is like a hospital, some patients r responding to treatment and some r not👍🏿

  • @baraka256
    @baraka256 4 года назад +6

    03:00 Self-love / love yourself/ love your life
    09:15 Love each other ( Some people love the idea of marriage and not their partners)
    15:40 Choose the right person
    20:54 The part about mentors / submission
    23:22 Build yourselves / Keep learning
    28:10 Understand the differences between men and women
    36:45 The small part about feminism
    40:00 The part about the person you should marry
    51:00 Situationships / definition
    55:30 Encouragement

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke4226 3 года назад +1

    God wants to preserve His generations....be very careful who link up with to marry...Ohhhhh Holy Spirit guide us all to find a Godly man and wife in Jesus mighty name 🙏

  • @fyndlove
    @fyndlove Год назад

    Women do better with listening, men do better with watching... Powerful!

  • @zindabamwape560
    @zindabamwape560 4 года назад +17

    He's one of the people who makes me understand relationship! I feel blessed to be hearing this right now.

  • @ritamangung9823
    @ritamangung9823 5 лет назад +45

    I am blessed by this video, I love the way Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo ministers and teach about marriage relationships! I wish all the singles could watch this video!!! God bless you Sir

  • @boitumelomoabiwa1136
    @boitumelomoabiwa1136 4 года назад +11

    Sir please come to Botswana we need this kind of revival... lots of struggling marriages and high divorce rate. Lots of young people are getting married but stay unhappy nd unfulfilled because we find ourslves stuck in marriages “because God doesnt like divorce”
    Your seminars will be very blessing to the nation of Botswana. God bless u sr

    • @KingFreddieKrypto
      @KingFreddieKrypto 3 года назад

      dont reply that SCAMMER

    • @KingFreddieKrypto
      @KingFreddieKrypto 3 года назад

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 you are a THIEF scamming people with Pastors Kingsley's name

  • @chee_de_raangel914
    @chee_de_raangel914 4 года назад +4

    Until you meet your spouse you don't know the experience you need👌

  • @angelad007
    @angelad007 5 лет назад +28

    I really needed to hear this regardless of the fact that im married. Praise God!🙌

  • @muriithipurity1167
    @muriithipurity1167 3 года назад +1

    How I wish you came when I am single...thanku for this message.

  • @adesholaf4265
    @adesholaf4265 3 года назад +5

    Pastor Kingsley sure knows how to drive home the point :)

  • @happyhome9101
    @happyhome9101 5 лет назад +22

    No man make you happy, make your self happy frist.

  • @ngozieze7826
    @ngozieze7826 5 лет назад +3

    Marriage is not the destination! It is a vehicle to take you to your destination!! Wow!! I am sending out this to my friends

  • @ajbaibe2214
    @ajbaibe2214 5 лет назад +24

    I simply love this Pastor. I hope he visits Ghana soon

  • @simonepeter6710
    @simonepeter6710 5 лет назад +11

    Pst Kingsley Okonkwo you're a blessing to the world at this decade of generations. My first encounter with you @ Houston Texas listening to your message at DIC I felt the impact of God spoken out of you..... Your preaching then was not about relationships then. Since my first encounter with your ministration I Thank God for the anointing on you. Thank you sir

  • @SteveIrunguJermaine
    @SteveIrunguJermaine 3 месяца назад

    My friend marriage is by choice period

  • @ikharonajohn7958
    @ikharonajohn7958 4 года назад +2

    whenever I hear a close paddy complain about their spouse, I always refer them to Pastor Kingsleys youtube page. no matter the problem, listening to ur messages and making a deliberate attempt to abide will surely bring peace to any home. God bless you Sir

  • @ayodelejoy4976
    @ayodelejoy4976 4 года назад +5

    I wish I have known and hear this earlier but I still thank God it not too late.
    Thank you sir more grace

  • @lesleyrealit8422
    @lesleyrealit8422 5 лет назад +6

    because of you pastor nothing will go wrong in my life!👏👏👏👏

  • @chee_de_raangel914
    @chee_de_raangel914 4 года назад +2

    You cannot marry someone who does not have the same spirit as you👌👌 the Lord is concerned about the seed❤ God wants to preserve generations👏

    • @OLOYINJO
      @OLOYINJO 4 года назад

      I have been married for nineteen years now, I realize I am guilty of all these things. I Will prayerfully work on my children to get it right.

  • @blessedforever7105
    @blessedforever7105 5 лет назад +24

    Thank you for being a selfless vessel Pastor K. I am grateful to have found a father in you who genuinely guides his sons & daughters. This message is a great blessing for our generation. 🇿🇦❤

    • @ayodejiolopade9742
      @ayodejiolopade9742 4 года назад

      He's been of immense inspiration truly. See this. gurudeseyesubai.org/fiasco-marriages/

    • @serahmwaura6781
      @serahmwaura6781 3 года назад +1

      This is what we call knowledge n knowledge is power..

    • @serahmwaura6781
      @serahmwaura6781 3 года назад

      Am happy that now I know . knowledge is power . thanks pastor sir

  • @evelynliemuoh8108
    @evelynliemuoh8108 5 лет назад +10

    This message really spoke to me at a very crucial time. Thank you pastor

  • @crzbelvev6319
    @crzbelvev6319 5 лет назад +8

    Woaw very awesome am really bless with one God fearing guy but he is financially down and we are believing God for his restoration I thang God for helping me to make a good choice 3years in relationship without sex and plans are going on well with faith

    • @lyndaogbuji8638
      @lyndaogbuji8638 5 лет назад

      Hey vev, can you email me? need to talk to you. mimifavour94@gmail.com

  • @bevwalshtv2745
    @bevwalshtv2745 5 лет назад +7

    I just went on Amazon and ordered your book which I will receive in two days....yaaaaay!
    To God be the glory.

  • @anitanwaokolo935
    @anitanwaokolo935 4 года назад +4

    This man talks with the spirit.

  • @tandjstreetattorneys
    @tandjstreetattorneys 4 года назад +21

    God bless you Sir. I’m 28 and I’m single, thank you so much for this message. I’ve actually turned down a lot of offers for marriage because I didn’t see marriage to them being better than being single and I was beginning to think I’m too picky but I just know in my heart that I can’t be with them long term. Thank you for the clarification #self love.

    • @tandjstreetattorneys
      @tandjstreetattorneys 4 года назад

      Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo thank u Sir. So sorry, I’m just seeing this. Is it late?

    • @ohukwh606hgghk
      @ohukwh606hgghk 3 года назад

      @@tandjstreetattorneys that's a scammer not the real pastor Kingsley

    • @Mindful_Mm
      @Mindful_Mm 3 года назад +1

      😅 I can see you still have a long journey to go...as you can't distinguish a scammer from a normal personal 😱

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo 3 года назад +4

    What a powerful message! Pastor you are changing lives and enriching our marriages. Blessed to have found these messages 🙏🏽

  • @prettyme721
    @prettyme721 4 года назад +3

    Good old days when we could still sit In a crowd and tap our neighbors 😓 #covid19
    Really blessed by your teaching. God bless you ,sir

  • @cygwanfogbe246
    @cygwanfogbe246 5 лет назад +11

    Every time I listen to you talk about the A-Z synopsis. I am reminded to correct from a position of being an ally and not an accuser. I repent!

  • @nabakiibijulian1626
    @nabakiibijulian1626 4 года назад +1

    You and your wifeeeeee🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰am blessed from🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

  • @phindilenene4622
    @phindilenene4622 4 года назад +1

    Amen! I am not an abandoned project, but Jehovah God has a plan for me and the plan to prosper not to harm me. Jeremiah 29:11

  • @folakemimartins2560
    @folakemimartins2560 3 года назад +3

    God bless you sir 🙏. I am learning a great deal, even having been married for years.
    God's will be done!

  • @SteveIrunguJermaine
    @SteveIrunguJermaine 3 месяца назад

    Marriage is a none issue period

  • @ntezee229
    @ntezee229 5 лет назад +19

    I haven't listened even half of the sermon and am soo blessed.. May God uphold you. may your cup of oil never run dry.. let me go and finish the sermon 😄

  • @sashaybelle7095
    @sashaybelle7095 5 лет назад +9

    Thank you lord for saving me through ur servant pastor kingsley. 03/2/2020 a day i will always remember .

  • @ifewitlovegodslove
    @ifewitlovegodslove 5 лет назад +12

    I was so blessed by this sermon I just want others to watch and be blessed too 🙏 more Godly wisdom in JESUS’ name!

  • @favourimafidion5041
    @favourimafidion5041 5 лет назад +7

    Very brilliant advice, may Almighty GOD bless and refilled u sir with more greater Grace and wisdom in Jesus mighty name i pray AMEN .God pls give me a supernatural Grace to be a virtuous woman ijn AMEN! !!

  • @keraoludipe1615
    @keraoludipe1615 5 лет назад +4

    God is interested in the next generation...godly seed! I am blessed, God bless you sir.

  • @TeacherNithin
    @TeacherNithin 4 года назад +2

    @kingsley pastor, you're God's gift to us! 💖

  • @cyrusgodson8718
    @cyrusgodson8718 5 лет назад +7

    i have always wanted to see you life. have must if his sermons on marriage. please if you are still single follow his sermon

  • @kurajosariemen0991
    @kurajosariemen0991 5 лет назад +8

    Messages like this is important for the mind...thanks pastor, God bless and keep you and your home, AMEN.

  • @emiliaonlinemaths
    @emiliaonlinemaths 4 года назад +6

    How I wish I listened to this message before getting married. God will help us

    • @namsifonjohnson9635
      @namsifonjohnson9635 4 года назад

      ,sisterly,keep looking onto God, I trust him he'll turn things around for good

    • @AKPC.
      @AKPC. 3 года назад +1

      Awww😌it is well

    • @elizabethodametey5336
      @elizabethodametey5336 3 года назад

      Yesssooo dear,same here too

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 4 года назад +1

    My marriage is just a typical example of this teaching.. for 12 yrs now, marriage still not working, Am listening and shedding tears😭, regret getting married. Am just a victim of such men. Then I didn't know anything, wasn't exposed to these teachings at all.... Even he will get offended sending this to him... Very unreasonable and unteachable... He really needs help but difficult to be helped NEVER APPRECIATES womanhood!!.. So ungrateful and hostile for my liking 😭... I missed ROAD 😭...met the wrong man.. Really was deceived. Pastor pls I need ur help... If only my husband can accept ur teachings and build on it....🤦

    • @KingsleyOkonkwo
      @KingsleyOkonkwo  4 года назад +2

      Hello, Please send a message to +2348077714412 for counseling

  • @faithbless1240
    @faithbless1240 5 лет назад +14

    “Situationship” L.O.L this Pastor is very funny 😆😂😆

  • @ngozichidi9103
    @ngozichidi9103 5 лет назад +40

    I wish i watch this before getting married.

  • @josephikechukwu6216
    @josephikechukwu6216 3 года назад

    I wish I hear all this before I married

  • @SandyOgech
    @SandyOgech 3 года назад +2

    Pastor’s message is filled with so much wisdom....I am more than blessed.

  • @melmukuwe4560
    @melmukuwe4560 3 года назад

    When you find God you won't lack any other thing🙌🙌🙌

  • @yetundeadekanmbi-alabi7946
    @yetundeadekanmbi-alabi7946 3 года назад

    How i wish I heard your sermon or know about your ministry before I got married.😭😭😭

  • @zeenimy8037
    @zeenimy8037 5 лет назад +11

    They love the idea of marriage... not the person they are married to ... wao !

  • @ngoziobi9627
    @ngoziobi9627 5 лет назад +11

    He's so practical!

  • @preciouspapabi309
    @preciouspapabi309 2 года назад

    This man is really good woow 👏 I like him

  • @Dhammilicious
    @Dhammilicious 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Pst. Kingsley. Amazing message.The last 5 minutes was fire!

  • @freshangel1
    @freshangel1 3 года назад +2

    🤣 _“I’m keeping all my gist until the next Monday”_ 🤣

  • @josephinemutiso8599
    @josephinemutiso8599 3 года назад +1

    am newly married, am glad am learning this, thank you pastor K

  • @kehindeowosanni1241
    @kehindeowosanni1241 5 лет назад +4

    God has given him the knowledge. He knows all the tricks

    • @Delightfulada
      @Delightfulada 5 лет назад +1

      If you should go contrary to this teachings, the end will be disastrous .

    • @kehindeowosanni1241
      @kehindeowosanni1241 5 лет назад +1

      @@Delightfulada u r very correct. Many youths both male and female need to learn this deep things.

  • @elviramtowo4692
    @elviramtowo4692 5 лет назад +8

    You opened my eyes. Thank you!

  • @gloriakamalu179
    @gloriakamalu179 4 года назад +1

    God bless you pastor I love your teachings and have learnt alot. May your head never lack fresh oil in jesus name Amen 💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @eefiekel3954
    @eefiekel3954 3 года назад

    I saw an excerpt of this video on Tiktok and came to look for it here...I was blessed as usual and I pray that the oil of God on PK will never run dry

  • @TheSaviourFinances589
    @TheSaviourFinances589 4 года назад +2

    Deep wisdom of God. I pray for more anointing over your life Pastor. Thanks for revealing the deeper things of God. God bless you.

  • @nmanma773
    @nmanma773 4 года назад +3

    Am motivated more, exactly what am going through in my husband's hand after our wedding but i wish my husband will watch this, so to make the home sweeter....
    Don't know how I can connect you pastor Kinsley!!

    • @nksunshinetv5903
      @nksunshinetv5903 3 года назад

      Marriage is patient ,he will change, continue praying for him

  • @sadiaawudu7910
    @sadiaawudu7910 5 лет назад +3

    We can't wait to see you in Ghana Oo😭

  • @jenniferantia5565
    @jenniferantia5565 7 месяцев назад

    True sir,be happy now

  • @nkeirukaoranye2850
    @nkeirukaoranye2850 2 года назад

    Love yourself and pursue your purpose

  • @tuleemmanuel4916
    @tuleemmanuel4916 2 года назад +1

    Thank you very much Sir

  • @susanoliver5720
    @susanoliver5720 4 года назад

    Some people, are still hitting on the dislike button..i wonder what they are disliking 😏😒very good message 🤩

  • @norienanyansaiye3518
    @norienanyansaiye3518 4 года назад

    I wish I knew all of these things before marriage. But God is in control

  • @SerenaEyituoyo
    @SerenaEyituoyo 4 года назад +1

    Thank you pastor, God bless you 🙏

  • @nonduduzodlamini2276
    @nonduduzodlamini2276 Год назад

    This teaching really helped me a lot. Thank you so much

  • @scripturehighlightsforlife6174
    @scripturehighlightsforlife6174 5 лет назад +9

    I'm soaking myself in the messages

  • @deborahegbon2930
    @deborahegbon2930 5 лет назад +4

    Great teaching and practical, more grace

  • @romeomashile8367
    @romeomashile8367 5 лет назад +4

    Utterly empowering! Wisdom at its best.

  • @chizorosemary8896
    @chizorosemary8896 3 года назад

    God bless you and your wife. you guys say the reality and the truth. you guys say things i had to learn the hard way and wish i had heard them when i was younger.

  • @womanonguard
    @womanonguard 4 года назад +2

    Enjoyed every bit of this message. Have listened to it ones and again.

  • @a.k.o2179
    @a.k.o2179 5 лет назад +4

    I have been so blessed by this message may God bless and prosper your ministry love from Cameroon

  • @keziahkeziah6177
    @keziahkeziah6177 4 года назад +1

    Man of God, you are a gift, a God sent every good thing that ever happened to married/single women, thanks and may God bless you 🙏

  • @Snqobss547
    @Snqobss547 3 года назад

    Amen Pastor Kingsley may God bless you

  • @folakemimartins2560
    @folakemimartins2560 3 года назад

    Can I like this a million times. You are so on point Pastor K🙏🙏.

  • @drsarahprincessm9194
    @drsarahprincessm9194 5 лет назад +2

    Powerful
    Am not rushing for marriage

  • @Goshens24
    @Goshens24 4 года назад +1

    God answers prayers!! Been looking for such a message.

  • @ribaker822
    @ribaker822 5 лет назад +6

    Thank God for the anointing for insightful relationship teachings on Fountain of Life Church. This message is such a blessing.

  • @loveeexo5165
    @loveeexo5165 5 лет назад +8

    I love his words of wisdom.

  • @monicadi9767
    @monicadi9767 5 лет назад +5

    God bless you sir am blessed by u teaching hope to see u one day by his grace

  • @jesuloyingeorge2024
    @jesuloyingeorge2024 5 лет назад +8

    Wow........thanks pastor this message was just at the right time

  • @silvanamounkondila2106
    @silvanamounkondila2106 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Pastor and may God add more to your knowledge

  • @lizo1217
    @lizo1217 5 лет назад +2

    Wow!! Wow! This is awesome, God bless you Pastor Kingsley. Every words carries so much weight, grace and power of the Holy Spirit. Am just amazed!

  • @bintoujobe1764
    @bintoujobe1764 4 года назад +1

    I am blessed with your message. O my GOD you are powerful. What a great message

  • @rejoiceamedo3893
    @rejoiceamedo3893 5 лет назад +1

    God bless u man of God. Some mistakes can't be corrected. God have mercy on us and give us a second chance.