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Costly Mistakes To Avoid In Courtship And Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 19 мар 2021
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Комментарии • 456

  • @KingsleyOkonkwo
    @KingsleyOkonkwo  3 года назад +139

    Please send a message to +2348077714413 or visit www.ldmwithpk.org for books and other resources

  • @bluebird4815
    @bluebird4815 3 года назад +332

    Marriage scared the hell out of me even if i wanted a partner, home and family. I think it's because i have never seen a good example. Now, these teachings are changing my mind.

    • @kelechiii_
      @kelechiii_ 2 года назад +7

      Same.

    • @victoriamercykataike6715
      @victoriamercykataike6715 2 года назад +2

      Same!!

    • @lalasng8643
      @lalasng8643 2 года назад +7

      I can imagine what you mean. Thank God for His grace that speaks understanding to to us through messages like this.

    • @ShirleysKitchenCuisine
      @ShirleysKitchenCuisine 2 года назад

      Good 👍

    • @jacobnaomi6102
      @jacobnaomi6102 2 года назад +4

      My dear marriage also scares the hell out of me because I am scared of getting married to the wrong person to avoid broken home or broken marriage. I was brought up in a broke home so I am scared of making the same mistakes my parents made.

  • @maibelmolefe
    @maibelmolefe 3 года назад +323

    Costly mistakes
    1. Dating without God
    2. Marrying for the wrong reason
    3. Not learning about the relationship of marriage
    4. Some people still want to be themselves
    5. Not doing pre-marital counseling
    6. Make sure to follow the due processes
    7. Not building intimacy

    • @banjoayo3576
      @banjoayo3576 3 года назад +6

      Thanks for the summary.

    • @misss7758
      @misss7758 3 года назад

      He needs to add listening to married pastors as a single woman. He will never be able to empathize. He has never walked in the shoes. Just talking crap.

    • @oluchukwuobioma1127
      @oluchukwuobioma1127 3 года назад +1

      @@misss7758 talking crap? Bye.

    • @jennifernwanya3165
      @jennifernwanya3165 2 года назад

      Thanks a lot for your summary

    • @lalasng8643
      @lalasng8643 2 года назад +2

      @@misss7758 that's quite an angry response though

  • @byrnenoel6317
    @byrnenoel6317 Год назад +22

    1. Dating without God (21:10)
    2. Marrying for the wrong reason ( 33:27)
    3. Not learning about the relationship of marriage (42:39)
    4. Some people still want to be themselves (47:33)
    5. Not doing pre-marital counseling (53:09)
    6. Make sure to follow the due processes (56:02)
    7. Not building intimacy ( 1:03:17)

  • @That.productgirl
    @That.productgirl 3 года назад +35

    Omoooo my marriage will be blessed oo, my future husband is so lucky because I'm learning this at my age

  • @mechanizedcivilengineering4735
    @mechanizedcivilengineering4735 3 года назад +77

    Love for each other doesn't hold the marriage, but love for God does TIME STAMP: 33:23

    • @frolic770
      @frolic770 3 года назад

      This touched me so deeply....

  • @mbetubom5596
    @mbetubom5596 3 года назад +58

    How I wish I heard this massage 19yrs ago I would not be thinking of how to turn back the hands of time, thanks pastor, I hope your listener's would follow your wise words

  • @toluyemisitoki4164
    @toluyemisitoki4164 3 года назад +41

    This got me" when u honour ur wife God honours u" true talk

    • @Dan_Michika
      @Dan_Michika 2 года назад

      When you honour a God fearing wife,

    • @jdcharlie
      @jdcharlie 2 месяца назад

      ​@Dan_Michika as a God fearing man why will you even marry a woman that doesn't fear God?

  • @princetutu
    @princetutu 3 года назад +29

    Where you invest is where you harvest.

  • @antoinette9749
    @antoinette9749 3 года назад +16

    Takes a whole lot of intentionality and commitment for men to do romance.

  • @abimbolaeguntola9782
    @abimbolaeguntola9782 3 года назад +42

    "God is too organised to let come into world and be wondering"
    I caught that!!!!!!!

  • @odosamamwenogboghodo189
    @odosamamwenogboghodo189 3 года назад +71

    "I know you will find it, the way I found you"...Omo, that line blew my mind🤩🤩🤩

  • @mhiriaridy5816
    @mhiriaridy5816 3 года назад +17

    I was here because I had made my mind up never to get married I hope Pastor K is aware of the many lives he's touching.. It's a big deal

  • @paparazicreations
    @paparazicreations Месяц назад +1

    I RECEIVE MY OWN VIRTUOUS AND PRUDENT WIFE FROM THE LORD IN JESUS NAME. AMEN. THANK YOU JESUS 🤲❤💖
    Prov 19:14, Prov 31:10

  • @situmanasike9011
    @situmanasike9011 3 года назад +28

    I found this page recently..but I enjoy it as I am planning to get married ..God bless you from kenya

  • @annamlay6967
    @annamlay6967 Месяц назад

    My future husband may you please pass here ,so that our first meeting will be giving others a summary.
    Kingsley is exceptional concerning this matter,I am so blessed 🙌

  • @roseofsharon394
    @roseofsharon394 2 года назад +13

    Marry what drives him (ladies)not what he drives and marry what shapes her (men) not just her shape.👍👍💫💫💫🌠God is too organized. Thank you Lord.

  • @teleiosgaudphrey3478
    @teleiosgaudphrey3478 3 года назад +120

    I fell in love with this man after I listened to this message.. I wish for an opportunity to thank him..you just changed my life..I’m from christembassy Lagos

    • @zoeamato7037
      @zoeamato7037 3 года назад +3

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

    • @zoeamato7037
      @zoeamato7037 3 года назад +2

      He is a great powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯

    • @zoeamato7037
      @zoeamato7037 3 года назад

      W-h-a-t-s-a-p-p h-i-m

    • @zoeamato7037
      @zoeamato7037 3 года назад

      +234=704 =286 =4197.......

    • @StarC_38
      @StarC_38 3 года назад +1

      @@zoeamato7037 plz tell me me how

  • @umehmiraclea.1545
    @umehmiraclea.1545 3 года назад +6

    That you're a good driver doesn't make you a good manager.
    Thank you pastor K sir

  • @byrnenoel6317
    @byrnenoel6317 Год назад +3

    "Don't marry him (a man) because of what he drives, marry him because of what drives him." --Pastor K. Okonkwo (22:56)

  • @evangel_milez
    @evangel_milez Год назад +6

    Marriage is deeper than what we see, and what we've learnt....I agree with your teachings pastor....I'm trusting God for the wife of my youth soon..

  • @user-rn6wc6hk4f
    @user-rn6wc6hk4f Год назад +3

    Just came across this video today. This message just made my day. Been praying about a particular person because I don’t want to make a mistake or doing it by my own will. I prayed about it for the very first time and and I got a confirmation. Still praying about it because I want it to be from God not by my making.

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 года назад +9

    I am from Kenya and a beneficiary of this teachings.

  • @gracesobba1602
    @gracesobba1602 3 года назад +71

    Am from Cameroon and your teachings are so helpful to me. It has me made me réalise myself and know God more

  • @bismarckbetty6799
    @bismarckbetty6799 3 года назад +26

    God has a voice in everything for every generation. He is God's voice in matters of dating, courtship and marriage.

  • @mechanizedcivilengineering4735
    @mechanizedcivilengineering4735 3 года назад +18

    If the intimacy is strong, there is no obstacle that can't be surmounted

  • @raymondamajatoja1006
    @raymondamajatoja1006 3 года назад +14

    May your oil keep running Pastor K. God bless you.

  • @oluforijimibadejo5567
    @oluforijimibadejo5567 3 года назад +29

    More Grace sir.
    I need to confess that since last year, we have played videos from Pastor Kingsley during our Sunday school sessions and we bless Pastor Kingsley regularly for all the wonderful piece

    • @oluforijimibadejo5567
      @oluforijimibadejo5567 3 года назад +2

      We would need supplies of your book as there are many who would live to buy them

    • @KingsleyOkonkwo
      @KingsleyOkonkwo  3 года назад +1

      @@oluforijimibadejo5567 hello Badejo, this is great! send a message to +2348077714413 on whatsapp to make enquiries on books and other resources, or visit www.ldmwithpk.org

  • @focusrelentlessly8829
    @focusrelentlessly8829 3 года назад +30

    Pst k is so simple and funny yet his messages cut through every layer. Thank you for yielding PK. I LOVE YOUUUU

  • @deborahjamesoyin2821
    @deborahjamesoyin2821 3 года назад +26

    I can't explain how I feel right now this message is just for me am in a relationship that I had to make decisions as soon as possible after listening to this wonderful powerful message my case is settled because I was down in the spirit asking God to help me out God bless you sir.

  • @UdyBee
    @UdyBee 3 года назад +16

    "Doing normal things in a special way" Kai! You're too much Pastor K💪. I've heard this saying severally but I got a new insight into it today.

  • @billionairejumzietopbabe3304
    @billionairejumzietopbabe3304 3 года назад +31

    I didn’t want it to end..bravo pastor Kingsley 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @chidinmanwanganga9714
    @chidinmanwanganga9714 2 года назад +11

    Very explicit,I don't get tired of listening to your message,God bless you with more wisdom

  • @nelsieaddoh376
    @nelsieaddoh376 3 года назад +27

    This man of God is blessed
    Blessings are not only seen in physical blessings or money but knowledge 🙏🏽

  • @comfortabang5450
    @comfortabang5450 3 года назад +8

    Holy spirit, let the man you ordinate for me, find me in the mighty name of Jesus amen.

  • @Shezztravel
    @Shezztravel 3 года назад +5

    Yah i see why Mama is always glowing.

  • @chibuezeconfidence9849
    @chibuezeconfidence9849 3 года назад +5

    After listening to this and your life isn't better that means village people dey at work o. Wow!!😍 This is BEAUTIFUL! Thank you so much for this God bless you. See me craving for marriage now😘

  • @sandramumen4635
    @sandramumen4635 3 года назад +9

    I am really praying for a better spouse... I do not want to accept that they are no good man out there. I have been building myself with your messages for years and I expect something better from a man from God.. I am tired of heart break and wrongful expectations 😭😭

  • @DONYUGOS05
    @DONYUGOS05 3 года назад +6

    Pastor kings, you are really a blessing to this generation.. may God continue to bless you with more knowledge

  • @starseed7775
    @starseed7775 3 года назад +9

    Waiting from London

  • @SweetBrownGirl
    @SweetBrownGirl 2 года назад +17

    47 seconds in and I can honestly say I love his Spirit.

  • @faithxristos5049
    @faithxristos5049 3 года назад +4

    the best financial decision you can make is to honor your wife....-Thats deep sir...waiting for that message

  • @claiirejbrown
    @claiirejbrown 3 года назад +11

    Omg!! The way the guy shook him, he knew the guy is not ‘born again’. I honestly cant stop laughing. God bless you Sir for passing this important message in a light hearted way! Its always a refreshing time listening to your messages

    • @kathleenibeh6309
      @kathleenibeh6309 2 года назад +1

      My favorite part of the whole message...it was too funny lol!

  • @olajumokee.adeoye5788
    @olajumokee.adeoye5788 3 года назад +8

    You and your wife are a blessing to me and this generation, thank you for all you do 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @SwissTunes
    @SwissTunes 3 года назад +5

    I wish I would have seen and practice this before. Would have save me serious heartbreak! 😞

  • @ereboremus5072
    @ereboremus5072 3 года назад +17

    It's the simplicity of how he shares this wisdom and Nuggets.. I just listen to you when I do my walks. Thanks pastor K.

  • @ntelahatembeh1352
    @ntelahatembeh1352 3 года назад +3

    😂😂😂😂oh Lord I like this man. God bless you and your family Pastor.

  • @okedivina1993
    @okedivina1993 3 года назад +3

    Wow Ps K, I don't know how to thank u n ur wife, u r an inspiration, I so much enjoy ur teachings, God bless u both n continue to give u de Grace to help people like us..

  • @rosemarychahilu6257
    @rosemarychahilu6257 3 года назад +7

    Obey the Holy spirit always.

  • @KyaringabiraEvas-ub5yb
    @KyaringabiraEvas-ub5yb 5 месяцев назад

    Awesome, am learning lot lately from these teachings. Much love from Uganda🎉🎉🎉

  • @gloriauwishemansengiyumva5048
    @gloriauwishemansengiyumva5048 Год назад

    Waauuuw wauw Mrs & Mr Okonkwo, please consider coming to Europe fast land and give a seminar!
    Powerful!!!
    You are a blessing to successful marriages!

  • @chiamakaemeka9175
    @chiamakaemeka9175 3 года назад +10

    Listening to you makes me feel like we are having a conversation.

  • @UniceTv
    @UniceTv 2 года назад +9

    I listened to the end, so blessed. Thanks sir. i pray my man will locate me and our marriage will be filled with joy and fulfill God's plans for us.🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @johndiamond1646
    @johndiamond1646 3 года назад +8

    Your teachings are the best.....I pray God help me because i really want to be with a good man and train my future kids the right way.....God bless you pastor K....

  • @egoigwetabansi-duru7530
    @egoigwetabansi-duru7530 3 года назад +5

    Pst I have listened to ur teachings for some time now but this particular message stroke me differently. Thank you sir. May God continue to water you as you hv watered us.

  • @SUCRE-JZEE
    @SUCRE-JZEE 3 года назад +4

    So powerful. God bless you PK, you are a blessing to my generation.

  • @nmanma773
    @nmanma773 3 года назад +15

    Always educating... Thank you pastor K, I wish my husband will be so interested to watch this & learn... So our marriage can be sweet & better

    • @deborahademidunalagbe1319
      @deborahademidunalagbe1319 3 года назад +8

      You can get him interested. Lemme share how i made my husband fell in love with this kind of messages.
      1. I prayed about it
      2. I arranged a weekend treat for just the two of us in celebrating our anniversary. I sent the children to a family friend and it was just the two of us.
      We both enjoyed it and its making us respond to eachother better.

    • @nmanma773
      @nmanma773 3 года назад +1

      @@deborahademidunalagbe1319 thanks dear, I wish that worked for me... My dear, i have tried my best but no, I will just keep praying on that

  • @ednaoge7195
    @ednaoge7195 Год назад +1

    OMG! God has finally gave me rest through this message ... Thank you God🙏

  • @nyarkoalice6244
    @nyarkoalice6244 3 года назад +9

    I'm watching from London and I'm really bless with your sermon. God bless you Pastor 🙏

  • @damilolamoses8829
    @damilolamoses8829 3 года назад +1

    Am impacted spiritually,mentally and emotionally. You are blessed.
    Pls I need more teaching concerning TITHE. Is it scripturally right to pay tithe or use the money to help the orphans, widows and the poor both in the church and outside. Thank you

  • @kitiibwatammie7181
    @kitiibwatammie7181 3 года назад +1

    Ohhh God, am from Uganda but this man of God has saved my relationship which has been ruining

  • @Inspired768
    @Inspired768 3 года назад +6

    The hand shake part 🤣🤣🤣 I so much enjoy your teachings

  • @kgomotsomosarwa6463
    @kgomotsomosarwa6463 2 года назад +1

    Lord help me walk under your Will not mine. Amen 🙏

  • @naominyamhanzavee894
    @naominyamhanzavee894 2 года назад +4

    I got to learn of your messages two days back thank you so much for impacting people's lives so mightily am blessed from Zimbabwe

  • @jillgreene9225
    @jillgreene9225 2 года назад

    Flying to ANYWHERE & not packing a thing....we'll shop when we arrive where we are going🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💕💕💕💕💕 extra special 👑

  • @funmilayobalogun176
    @funmilayobalogun176 3 года назад +6

    Brilliant message. Thank God for His anointing upon your life Sir

  • @apierica6395
    @apierica6395 3 года назад +2

    May God bless me with a husband like ur kind sir

  • @ILonggasaAmerica2024
    @ILonggasaAmerica2024 2 года назад +2

    Subscriber from Philippines here.. Great teachings. Learning a lot!

    • @triumphvids5904
      @triumphvids5904 2 года назад

      Absolutely brilliant Christian teaching for marriage... its nice to know u are learning as well as myself.

  • @ndivhuwotshivhase792
    @ndivhuwotshivhase792 3 года назад +5

    Thank you Pastor for your wise teachings the more I listen the more I see that Marriage is not for everybody I for one cannot survive it

    • @Tracy6183
      @Tracy6183 3 года назад

      😊😂😂🙏🙏 It is well dear

    • @fonjehrene146
      @fonjehrene146 7 месяцев назад

      it's well

  • @noniwoodtv4202
    @noniwoodtv4202 2 года назад +2

    You both are doing wonderfully well. God bless you richly Amen

  • @ouanziezita8156
    @ouanziezita8156 3 года назад +6

    PK's lines😂😂😂 i know u'll find it as i found you

  • @honeymoore8787
    @honeymoore8787 2 дня назад

    Thank you sir more grace sir

  • @benedictsamoesi489
    @benedictsamoesi489 2 года назад +1

    Man of God you’re right we have to respect men but some men don’t even appreciate it when you do so or more he will still misbehave

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv777 7 месяцев назад +1

    Powerful!!!!!!!

  • @BlessedBlessing_88
    @BlessedBlessing_88 Год назад +1

    I am blessed crossing paths with you Pastor K. My generation is blessed having you in it. May God bless and keep you safe always @pastor Kingsley

  • @adejuwonfolakemi4325
    @adejuwonfolakemi4325 3 года назад +3

    Ignorance is called ignorance because u ignore knowledge..hmm, Thank u sir!

  • @estyykachi5415
    @estyykachi5415 3 года назад +2

    Building intimacy got me.

  • @ssgt-8144
    @ssgt-8144 Год назад

    Someone sent me a link to me more than two weeks I didn't check until today! I didn't hesitate to subscribe to your channel after listening to your message, I honestly love your messages. I'm not married neither engaged and I'm glad I come across your channel today. I really have made up my mind that this year 2023 is minus relationship because it hasn't been working out.. anything aside God will for me is a no go area!. I want to marry for the right reason like you've said!

  • @victoriashafombabi6729
    @victoriashafombabi6729 2 года назад

    Sometime ago, the Holy Spirit led me hear but I ignored then again out of the blue I'm here at the hub of marital wisdom. All i have to say is 'Thank You Lord'.

  • @chilizzylizzy5234
    @chilizzylizzy5234 3 года назад +1

    Grace has found me just because i found this Pastor and his wife. Thank you Jesus for this encounter, God bless you Pastor

  • @triumphvids5904
    @triumphvids5904 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Pst King. For allowing Christ and Holy spirit to use you as a vessel to bless us with these teachings.

  • @aceyshari
    @aceyshari Год назад

    His teachings on relationship reminds me of the late Myles Munroe . Funny delivery but very apt !

  • @Dhammilicious
    @Dhammilicious 3 года назад +5

    Eye opening message,as usual!Thank you so much for this!I'm happy that I heard this as an unmarried lady!Wooh,wooh!!

  • @anthonyedith8526
    @anthonyedith8526 2 года назад

    Pastor K and Pastor M I love u both. U’re awesome and a beautiful blessings to our generation. I pray to know u both one on one. I’m based in Owerri with my family. We’ve bin married 4 13years now. Pls man of God I really pray u can have a session with us. My hubby loves ur messages. Recently I don’t understand wats happening

  • @melodyvibes872
    @melodyvibes872 2 года назад

    You still have Big Bits of KING ZO in you SIR. Pastor Mildred is SUPER BLESSED!!!

  • @nanahemaa9075
    @nanahemaa9075 3 года назад +2

    Fire🔥🔥🔥God bless you sir

  • @damilarebdg
    @damilarebdg 3 года назад +10

    Powerful and eye opening.
    Thanks for sharing Pastor K.

  • @kelechiii_
    @kelechiii_ 2 года назад +6

    Thank you, Pst. Kingsley. You made me laugh and brought me to tears all in the space of one message. The knowledge you’ve imparted to me is priceless, and may God continue to fill your cup, in Jesus' Name. Amen.

  • @lucywanjuhiofficial8994
    @lucywanjuhiofficial8994 Год назад +1

    So beautiful, man of God I have learnt alot

  • @mercyemmanuel9972
    @mercyemmanuel9972 3 года назад +3

    Your teachings are top notch
    Jst hope God helps in this relationship of mine cux is complicated,am tired of being in a relationship

  • @pastormarymigot1509
    @pastormarymigot1509 3 года назад +3

    Mine too will be a testimony in Jesus name Ameeeen

  • @lanjoisabelle2704
    @lanjoisabelle2704 Год назад

    Oh my God,this message just break me cuz I was about to make a wrong decision when it comes to my relationship

  • @princessadebayo5621
    @princessadebayo5621 3 года назад +2

    You are a gift sir, so much wisdom for a life time.

  • @gloryamenawon1884
    @gloryamenawon1884 8 месяцев назад

    Pst k God bless you

  • @sandynonyeaduba4018
    @sandynonyeaduba4018 2 года назад +1

    Hmm l like the perfume delivery romance illustration. Doing the normal things in a special way

  • @mirembewinnie4256
    @mirembewinnie4256 9 месяцев назад

    Glory be to God and may God bless you pastor k in Jesus might name Amen

  • @ilesanmioluwaseun6090
    @ilesanmioluwaseun6090 3 года назад +2

    More anointing pastor K....ur word is like a light unto my soul.ur marriage will never fail ijn.🤗🤗🤗

  • @LauraPosh247
    @LauraPosh247 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Sir for this.🙏🏾

  • @happylady96
    @happylady96 3 года назад +2

    Amen and More Anointing in Jesus name, thx so much Pastor

  • @ruth_richard
    @ruth_richard 3 года назад +3

    Pastor Kingsely this was so enlightening.