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7 Mistakes Dating Couples Make | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 1

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  • Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
  • "I believe there are stages a relationship should follow, first friendship then dating but most times people jump into different phases of their relationship without due processes and it always ends up bad, sometimes disastrous."
    Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares "7 Mistakes Dating Couples Make".
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Комментарии • 213

  • @ayopetv
    @ayopetv 4 года назад +69

    Word 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾Friendship is the real foundation of marriage. Friendship is key for any successful relationship 💯💯

  • @mhiriaridy5816
    @mhiriaridy5816 4 года назад +34

    The beauty of friendship increases with time..

  • @winnieboateng5334
    @winnieboateng5334 4 года назад +46

    I would rather prefer friendship than going straight to date. Now a days guys dont like friendships.😒😒Thats makes it very harder to commit to a guy. And I know dating is not really serious how People do and I talk through experience. Friendship is the great Foundation with a start. Thank you so much Pastor for your teachings. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🎉🎉May God richly bless you.

    • @sandrayalley2692
      @sandrayalley2692 4 года назад

      I agree with u

    • @paulcancer7635
      @paulcancer7635 4 года назад

      Friendship didn't request money from guys that's why they don't like it for girls being friendship

    • @womanofgod2948
      @womanofgod2948 4 года назад +2

      As women we still need to be careful because men want to have you stuck in the friendship zone.
      If you are not using discernment they will have you on the back burner as a 'friend' while they pursue other women. Then when all have failed, they will return to their 'friend' as a last resort.
      As for me, I refuse to be an option, I am the main choice .

    • @winnieboateng5334
      @winnieboateng5334 4 года назад +1

      @@womanofgod2948 ok I understand that One as well and Yes we need to be careful. I believe you may know the Person more through friends because when you are in a romantic relationship you may not see the sign clearly.

    • @winnieboateng5334
      @winnieboateng5334 4 года назад +2

      @@paulcancer7635 exactly it shouldnt be about money but real commitment and sacrifice. To be there for each other thats what counts.

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 года назад +13

    Am addicted to this channel am learning as I wait upon God for a marriage of my dream. Much love from 🇰🇪

  • @Angelikah1
    @Angelikah1 4 года назад +41

    The best Christian Channel on RUclips - Than You!

  • @byrnenoel6317
    @byrnenoel6317 2 года назад +2

    The friendship stage is really important, but there is one stage that happens before that! Fellowship. You must have fellowship not just with one another, but with God first. Fellowship with God is an ongoing process and not a one-time event. Once I have fellowship with God and my spouse, I am ready to build a successful friendship and marriage.

  • @alexmwendwa6582
    @alexmwendwa6582 4 года назад +29

    WHO ELSE IS WATCHING WITH ME FROM KENYA?

    • @juicy841
      @juicy841 4 года назад +3

      From Kenya

    • @KingsleyOkonkwo
      @KingsleyOkonkwo  4 года назад +4

      greaaat

    • @josephinekaumbu6884
      @josephinekaumbu6884 4 года назад +3

      Watching from Kenya....I always get blessed by Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Midred

    • @linnetgithuku
      @linnetgithuku 4 года назад +2

      I love PST M and PST K... praying with PST M and this RUclips channel .. amazing .. i always get blessed.

    • @wacekedavida3080
      @wacekedavida3080 3 года назад

      Here

  • @atehpaul9414
    @atehpaul9414 4 года назад +19

    God bless you sir, I and my fiancee are learning alot from your teachings and we are sure to be great couples in Jesus name.More grace to you.

  • @SholzTV
    @SholzTV 4 года назад +19

    "From Smiley Emoji to eyes love emoji to the full heart emoji" I laughed so hard 🤣 😂 ..I wish someone told me these things years ago. Thanks for coaching us and leading us the right way. 👍🏾👍🏾

  • @tayookunfolami2522
    @tayookunfolami2522 4 года назад +15

    What u said about friendship is so true...the pressure to 'perform' for a friend is simply not there

  • @peaceikuku3141
    @peaceikuku3141 4 года назад +11

    You are so so apt on friendship being the foundation of every marriage. Pretty much one of the best Christian channel on RUclips.

  • @akumujanenatasha9323
    @akumujanenatasha9323 10 дней назад +1

    Hi Blessed people. I'm watching from Uganda😊. Thank you Papa for the word. I'm grateful 🙏

  • @rosenjera2377
    @rosenjera2377 4 года назад +8

    With these teaching l will marry a good man,God continue to bless you father from Zimbabwe

  • @collinspo
    @collinspo 4 года назад +7

    Thank you Jesus for leading me to this video 🙏🏽

  • @leratoranamane9529
    @leratoranamane9529 4 года назад +19

    Very insightful 💯😊 Blessings all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @adegokeoluwakemi5172
    @adegokeoluwakemi5172 3 года назад +4

    I would like this pastor to counsel me he has been my mentor so far

  • @divinedeomutombo4367
    @divinedeomutombo4367 4 года назад +11

    Thank you, Pastor ! Your teachings are so timely 😭

  • @ngoziagwu2001
    @ngoziagwu2001 4 года назад +11

    I love how these teachings are so profound yet humorous! Thank you Pastor K🙏

  • @rachelowhonda2913
    @rachelowhonda2913 4 года назад +9

    Thank you so much Pastor.
    It's true most time women tend to shy away from asking important questions that affect them. I will do better.

  • @folawemiayodele4523
    @folawemiayodele4523 4 года назад +11

    I’m loving the #7mistakes series.

  • @gertrudeacheampong6423
    @gertrudeacheampong6423 4 года назад +9

    Just started following your teachings and you are a blessing to the youth💥

  • @mystoryhisglory6301
    @mystoryhisglory6301 4 года назад +2

    All the things ur talking about i can relate to them, we have missed all this points, and ive just ended a 9years marriage, its very true all uve spoken about. My husband has been very unclear in so many ways, but i thank God his true colours came out when i stopped working and responsibilities had to shift to him, thats when i started to see him clearly.

  • @adaorathrone7438
    @adaorathrone7438 3 года назад +6

    Pastor can you hold a Seminar In Germany/Munich 🇩🇪 someday 🙏

  • @Gadgetibles
    @Gadgetibles 4 года назад +9

    I'm loving these series ...so much ..and I'm learning ..I'm going to do i the right way this time ...using this great guide. ..

  • @adedejiracheal541
    @adedejiracheal541 Месяц назад

    Whao
    I can't believe I'm watching this in June 2024

  • @opeoluwabalogun7901
    @opeoluwabalogun7901 4 года назад +5

    Thank you so much pastor. God bless you. I'll like to know the duration of friendship before one crosses the line of dating.

  • @sonitatingom6641
    @sonitatingom6641 4 года назад +13

    I am a virgin n knowing that Sex being one of the mistake dating couple do, sometimes I feel ashamed when asked y I am a virgin by others. Due to the fact that I'm still one it makes my relationship not to last because all what the guys are interested is sex. 😞😞

    • @lucyirogue9847
      @lucyirogue9847 4 года назад +11

      A man who loves you will be ready to stay with you and not have sex with you ....
      Instead help build you up especially in your career for a better future for you both ✅💯....
      Don’t be ashamed of your virginity
      Be proud of it

    • @jessepage1061
      @jessepage1061 4 года назад +10

      It's easy to go from a virgin to non virgin, but it's not possible to go from non virgin to virgin, so be proud of what u have girl. More grace.

    • @sonitatingom6641
      @sonitatingom6641 4 года назад +3

      Thank u

    • @thebusinessofteaching
      @thebusinessofteaching 4 года назад +3

      Keep yourself. Everyone is not looking for sex

    • @mbangosenakasote1420
      @mbangosenakasote1420 4 года назад +1

      I known were you are coming from but my dear just be you and pray for God's guidance it will help you. If a man doesn't want to stay even if you sleep with him 24/7 he will still live you

  • @gloryshane
    @gloryshane 4 года назад +9

    Please where is part 2
    It's becoming so interesting

  • @Salome_onari
    @Salome_onari 4 года назад +5

    It's always a delight to listen to you Sir. Thank you for always being a blessing. We love you Sir!❤

  • @dorcaskundishora8483
    @dorcaskundishora8483 3 года назад

    L loved when he said women are smart ..ALL THE WAY FROM ZIMBABWE

  • @elizabethmnzava616
    @elizabethmnzava616 4 года назад +2

    Thanks so much Pastor. My all times mentor. i bless you and your family. i cant wait for part 2 of this. Much love from Tanzania.

  • @sarahdaniel3856
    @sarahdaniel3856 Год назад

    Thanks to PK, I ask the right questions now. You're a blessing to us Sir🙏

  • @teecee3250
    @teecee3250 4 года назад +1

    At this point we need more videos...I have had to rewatch your videos...We need new ones, please!!!!Thank you PK for all you do💙💙💙

  • @wisdomdarko2813
    @wisdomdarko2813 3 года назад +1

    Powerful teachings, God bless you sir 🙏❤

  • @lesleyrealit8422
    @lesleyrealit8422 4 года назад +6

    You really help me Man of God 👏👏👏

  • @byrnenoel6317
    @byrnenoel6317 Год назад +2

    1. Not building friendships-- Prov. 17:17 Commitment of friendship stronger than sex. (a) Ask questions (b) Take time to talk/eliminate things that hinder closeness (c) Assess friendship.
    2. Not Having Clarity-- (a) Prov 29:18 Vision/"Where are we going?" (b) "When do you want to get married?" (c) What are the timelines (along the way)?
    3. (Not having) Mentors-- Prov 31:1 (a) List areas a mentor can help (b) Who are the potential mentors around us?
    4. Pre-Marital Sex-- (a) flee

  • @magaliegraand6474
    @magaliegraand6474 3 года назад

    Pastor you don't know, but I learned a lot from you. I love how you teach life and the word together. I love it and stay blessed. Keep it up you and your wive are made for this ministry.

  • @lucyirogue9847
    @lucyirogue9847 4 года назад +4

    I love watching your videos
    Because ,everytime I watch ,I get to learn new things and it has help me a lot ❤️✅💯🥺....getting to know about your RUclips channel is one of the best tin that has happened to me 💯😊✅❤️

  • @blessingoluwole2130
    @blessingoluwole2130 3 года назад +2

    I am definitely taking notes 📝

  • @fishcake3350
    @fishcake3350 4 года назад +1

    That's d mistake I made not asking waiting 4 d guy to ask me after dating for 5yrs. which I knew back then. Now am a pro😆

  • @oluwoleoluwatosin8675
    @oluwoleoluwatosin8675 3 года назад

    I never have wisdom of these points in my life, good background is very important assuming I knew all these points I wouldn't have make all the mistake in the past because I am lack of parenting advice on relationship and so on, I am struggling to let my past go because whenever I think of my past it's hard for me to control my tears, pastor where are you when I found myself doing what i don't like, I see hell before I gave my life to christ but I still have the chance to say thank you Lord for everything when there's is life there's hope😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    Your teaching is very Educative more wisdom sir.
    Thank you very much.

  • @Haimbili
    @Haimbili 3 года назад +2

    'I heard someone say, look amongst your friends and marry one of them!'

    • @ally_wealth
      @ally_wealth 2 года назад +1

      Even then you still have to now know them intentionally, because you will find that you don’t really know them yet

    • @ifeomablessing9578
      @ifeomablessing9578 2 года назад

      @@ally_wealth very true!!

  • @franciseke8520
    @franciseke8520 4 года назад +2

    Thanks so much, Pastor K! Be richly blessed.

  • @ginahateka7589
    @ginahateka7589 4 года назад +3

    Thanks and God bless you so much. This are some of the things I never knew before jumping into marriage.

  • @momahisioma6212
    @momahisioma6212 4 года назад +3

    Very Educating, I now know better,thank you sir.

    • @momahisioma6212
      @momahisioma6212 3 года назад

      Kingsley Okonkwo thank you sir,I will do as you have instructed,May GOD increase you in Jesus name Amen🙏

  • @MrsCKoya
    @MrsCKoya 3 года назад

    Even though I am late in watching this, I quickly subscribed when he said "Go and Subscribe before I get upset". I couldn't even believe I haven't subscribed yet!

  • @suzzynjom
    @suzzynjom 4 года назад

    With what i have been through in the hands of men, today am so so scared of men for anything!!!

  • @GeorgeGraceOfGod
    @GeorgeGraceOfGod 4 года назад +3

    Very insightful teaching 👍

  • @gimbiyagalladima5433
    @gimbiyagalladima5433 4 года назад +2

    Our tradition makes us not to ask questions, which is not wise. We need to dump some traditions and ways of thinking.

  • @sarahoh4282
    @sarahoh4282 4 года назад +1

    Pastorr kinsley i love yoour teachings! AND your humor. May God blessssss yoouu!!!

  • @nwaforhelenchioma2562
    @nwaforhelenchioma2562 Год назад

    Thank You so much sir for this wonderful massage 🙏🙏

  • @tessytessy9488
    @tessytessy9488 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much pastor, you are a great teacher💕

  • @letsgrowchannel
    @letsgrowchannel 4 года назад +3

    So enlightened...

  • @danielteyehuago1633
    @danielteyehuago1633 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for sharing it

  • @Debbie_obasi
    @Debbie_obasi 3 года назад +1

    It can be a serious football association

  • @emiliankem5699
    @emiliankem5699 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Pastor. I totally enjoy these 7 series.

  • @preciousnayame4556
    @preciousnayame4556 Год назад +1

    Learning , Learning🙏🙏❤️

  • @nicholasocran86
    @nicholasocran86 4 года назад +2

    God Bless you Pastor K, Great sermon

  • @Chifloxy
    @Chifloxy 4 года назад

    Thank you so much sir!! May the good Lord continue to increase you in wisdom. I'm blessed with your teaching.

  • @ebaimagareteneke8029
    @ebaimagareteneke8029 3 года назад

    Thanks oooh man of God u have save me ooh may God bless you

  • @janekalu7838
    @janekalu7838 4 года назад

    Wow, I thank God everyday for leading me to your videos they're so insightful.
    Thank you very much pastor for the new knowledge.

  • @positivesoul.9490
    @positivesoul.9490 3 года назад

    I come from a 4 years relationship which started and continued on very wrong basis and journey. I wish all this were applied... I deeply regret actually.

  • @flavianakiruuta4486
    @flavianakiruuta4486 4 года назад +2

    Very educative content

  • @estherbanda4289
    @estherbanda4289 3 года назад

    Talk of perfect timing.i jus got in a new relationship

  • @Nathaniel_MD
    @Nathaniel_MD 2 года назад

    Thank you for the words of wisdom. 🙏🏾

  • @akabuezepraise1460
    @akabuezepraise1460 4 года назад

    I can’t believe I’m just finding you... thanks alot💞💞

  • @RelationshipBuildersForum
    @RelationshipBuildersForum 4 года назад +1

    Awesome conversation. Thank you PK

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 4 года назад +3

    Teach!!!!!!✨🙌🏾✨

  • @britxoxo7110
    @britxoxo7110 3 года назад +1

    Not all friendships can turn into a marriage

  • @vanessaokoroafor143
    @vanessaokoroafor143 3 года назад

    “You can’t believe what happened to me, I believe “🤣🤣

  • @PropheticVIPTV
    @PropheticVIPTV 4 года назад

    God bless you sir I really appreciate your effort in all your messages on relationships more grace sir I hope you will visit us in Spain very soon by God grace Amen

  • @mr.lokotv7491
    @mr.lokotv7491 2 года назад

    This one touch me

  • @chukwumagodsfavour3762
    @chukwumagodsfavour3762 4 года назад +1

    God bless you daddy 🙏

  • @charlotte44386
    @charlotte44386 3 года назад

    Yesooo you talk true Pastor 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @chefordamarise961
    @chefordamarise961 4 года назад

    I have always been blessed with your messages sir

  • @doobeeremita
    @doobeeremita 3 года назад

    Thank you Pastor K

  • @patriciaafenyo5509
    @patriciaafenyo5509 3 года назад

    Such a great advise...i salute.

  • @uniqueboitv2367
    @uniqueboitv2367 4 года назад +1

    You are the best🙏❤️

  • @fallysfoodhut
    @fallysfoodhut 2 года назад

    Poignant sir! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @jessicaamadi9407
    @jessicaamadi9407 Год назад

    So what do you do when you have already started dating without building friendships? Can friendship be developed while dating or must we go back to level 1 and start to build it?

  • @omeligwejacinta3320
    @omeligwejacinta3320 4 года назад +11

    What's the remedy for dating couples that skip friendship stage

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 года назад

      U have just said it.. 👀 lol building friendship within the relationship.. 🔑

    • @womanofgod2948
      @womanofgod2948 4 года назад

      You eventually have to go back to friendship

  • @mideakinrinlade
    @mideakinrinlade 4 года назад

    God bless you Sir!

  • @moradeunolamide4912
    @moradeunolamide4912 4 года назад

    God bless you sir!

  • @ololadeshadare3888
    @ololadeshadare3888 4 года назад +4

    I have subscribed 😁😁

  • @stanleyoghogho9424
    @stanleyoghogho9424 4 года назад +2

    This is beautiful... Am waiting!

  • @LumataVen
    @LumataVen 4 года назад

    “Serious football relationship“😂😂😂😂 I love u Pastor K

  • @Queen-Abio
    @Queen-Abio 3 года назад

    Very important

  • @wisdomdarko2813
    @wisdomdarko2813 3 года назад

    Many of us skip the friendship aspect 😎

  • @funmilayosoremekun
    @funmilayosoremekun 4 года назад

    I just subscribed. Great teaching Sir

  • @josephineantwi6693
    @josephineantwi6693 2 месяца назад

    How many years can you be friend to each other please

  • @vivicaanuforo4754
    @vivicaanuforo4754 3 года назад +2

    Pastor K... I know God doesn’t like sex before marriage... but what about kissing?🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @godismyhelp6359
      @godismyhelp6359 3 года назад

      Lol both wrong

    • @karinateomubo4191
      @karinateomubo4191 3 года назад +1

      Kissing isn't necessary wrong but the Bible says somewhere in Songs of Solomon paraphrase "don't stir up the waters of love when you aren't ready"...
      Sex isn't just about penetration,it's the whole process..if you notice it's difficult for a guy to kiss you without his hands roaming into other places;so it's best to avoid kissing

  • @shammahisang4807
    @shammahisang4807 Год назад

    How long do you think is right before moving from friendship to dating?

  • @GOLDEN4280
    @GOLDEN4280 4 года назад +2

    Wonderful and serious teachings
    But please the WhatsApp numbers are not coming on

  • @chinweotutomoneme7862
    @chinweotutomoneme7862 3 года назад

    Please how do people build friendship without attaching emotions when they were hooked up by someone else and from the very beginning, it was clear that the relationship was for marriage?

  • @wacekedavida3080
    @wacekedavida3080 3 года назад

    If Delilah can ask, you should ask😆😆😆. I can't🙌🙌🙌

  • @abosedep2255
    @abosedep2255 2 года назад

    How does one amends a relationship that didn't start on friendship?

  • @sorayahingrid2086
    @sorayahingrid2086 3 года назад

    Pastor thanks really need your mentoring I’m in Cameroon

  • @stanleyude8295
    @stanleyude8295 3 года назад

    I appreciate the teachings a great deal but am worried over something. The issue of beginning with friendship. It's a perfect idea but sometimes backfires. Most young adults are desperate to find someone to settle down with. This state of desperado is usually concealed and so you think everyone is on a platonic state of heart. The challenge begins when the friendship/ relationship finally doesn't doesn't lead to marriage. Then you start hearing a lot of stories that touch the heart. Even when there was no sex, no much spending of money, etc yet for the fact that the hearts have already started bonding through friendship, it's always a big challenge to move on with a different person after being friends for a while with someone. Please Sir help me figure this out because for some years now am scared of being any ladies "friend" because the interpretation/expectation is always one thing and when you fail to deliver, trouble starts.

  • @chinyereorji6686
    @chinyereorji6686 4 года назад

    Thank you sooo much sir...I am grateful🙌.

  • @ndapandavalentine6048
    @ndapandavalentine6048 3 года назад

    I'm new here. From Namibia.