Ladies Need To Stop These 10 Things | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- Опубликовано: 6 окт 2023
- Join Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo as he speaks to the ladies, he is talking about 10 Right Things Ladies Do At The Wrong TIme.
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Pastor is talking to me directly. I am 34 and still not married. I have learned a lot from this. I have done almost all the mentioned points. God is ready to give me a new life.
Gloryeee🙌🏽🎊🎉
Amen
I hear you sis, we're going to be alright ❤
@@eunice9574Amen
Sometimes being single @ 34 seem scary and disappointing but trust me we will be fine. Our most concern should be that we will be focus and dependent on God that we may not loose ourself worths and become miserable at @60 , but rather we put ourselves together in the word and do exploit in other areas of life and at 60 we will not look back and regret 360. At least something to be grateful for and something to be known for. A lasting impact on others. It’s overwhelming sometimes trust me but we should not regret 360.
No real MAN that loves you in relationship or courtship will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand
The Holy Spirit thought me this somedays ago
This is so true😅
Exactly
Exactly!
😂 very true the part that weak me more was when he said you will be fighting and fighting till they pour acid on you and disfigure you. A man that never loved you even when your face was intact how much more when you are disfigured? 😅 am happy I watched the video to the end tho full of wisdom.
I was like this before😭 I was always praying to date this guy( I fasted and prayed even sowed seed) for a guy that doesn’t know me. Fast forward to 2023 God finally answered my prayers and i and this guy started talking and we went on a date😂 after the first date😂 I understood why God took a long time to answer my prayers( he was trying to protect me) anyways I blocked this guy everywhere and I prayed to God to never make us cross-paths again 😂. These days I don’t even pray about a particular guy again😂 if it works toor if it doesn’t toor😂 let me not bring misfortunes to myself. God is always protecting us. He sees what we don’t see❤
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😂😂😂most of us women believe that we can make a man love us with prayers
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😂 the biggest testimony is "what I used today I don't do it again"
SUMMARY:
1. Praying for a stressful man (a man that"s not interested in you) to change.
2. Staying no matter what (having a do-or-die mentality).
3. Wild sex (sex before marriage).
4. Leaving your church for his.
5. Changing your career path or location because of him.
6. Giving him your money. This should be in marriage and not in relationship or dating. Keep your money aside, it makes breakup easy.
7. Total submission. You're still under your parents authority not his. Submission is specifically for wives in marriage.
8. Overfamiliarity with In-laws (overly jovial, overly playful). Properly conduct yourself.
9. Learn to call out what you can't and don't accept before marriage.
10. Fighting for love. You can't fight for relationship or dating. You can fight for your marriage but not fighting for your place during dating and relationship.
Thank You Pastor Kingsley!❤
Thanks to you
Ladies, don't leave your career or location for the sake of a guy who has not married you because if the guy leaves you for another woman, you might become loveless, jobless, and hopeless. 🙂
Pk destroyed all tables
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You're right
I would say homeless, not hopeless.
Words🔥
I'm almost 40 yet single and significant. Hopefully I'll get married according to God's original plan soon🙏 Thanks Ps Kingsley
Soon, God is faithful my sister
AMEN
Amen this year will not come to an end without us meeting our significant others in Jesus name amen
Amen
I just don't know why good people, both men and women, have difficulty finding true love. God, please help us who are in this situation and bless us with the right person. Thanks for the video, sir.
Some virgins were foolish
Thank you, sir.
I've added to my knowledge bank.
I now have things to what out for.
God bless you, sir.
I'll be expecting the next video.
This is an eye opener...much love from Kenya
Asked that again
This hits so hard yet so factual. The good people in life seem to get the short end of the stick often than not but I guess life isn’t created for us to be sorrowful all time
Women who married good men are still struggling,
yet some women want to marry a man who doesnt want them.
😢😢😢😢😢
Imagine that
That's so sad
May God help us ladies and give us wisdom
May the Lord dorect our paths!
It's a serious matter!
Please lecture the single men that their girlfriend's body doesn't belong to them while dating/ courtship. Please let's encourage the men not to be pressuring young ladies to head to bed before they can decide if they want to marry. It's a very sad state of affairs, what some of these men do to innocent ladies during courtship, taking advantage of innocent young ladies. Smh.
LADIES SHOULD STOP BEING NAIVE TOO. CHOOSE TO HONOUR GOD!
10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES (KINGSLEY OKONKWO)
1) Praying for a man that is not interested you, doesn't know you or praying for God to change their will for you.
2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship or courtship or dating. A broken relationship is better than broken marriage. Do or die is not in relationship but in marriage.
3) Wild sex or sex in relationship or before marriage
4) Following him to his church while dating
5) Giving him your money or buying properties together while dating
6) Changing your career path or location for a man you not yet married to
7) Submitting your life to him when you are not yet married to him.
wife should submit to husband and not men
8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating
9) Accepting every bad things while dating or ignoring the red flags
or making excuses for him while in relationship
10) Fighting for love in dating or relationship
SUMMARY
10 RIGHT THINGS THAT LADIES DO AT THE WRONG TIMES
(KINGSLEY OKONKWO)
1) Praying for a man that is not interested you
2) Having a do or die approach in a relationship
3) Having sex in relationship or before marriage
4) Following him to his church while dating
5) Buying properties together while dating
6) Changing your career path or location for him while dating
7) Submitting your life to him while dating
8) Over familiarity with inlaws while you are still dating
9) Accepting every bad things while dating
10)Fighting for love in dating or relationship
Nice of you to share.
Thank you so much
Thank you
Thank you for sharing again.
I did change my location without any proper plan, all what the guy said, he changed. Finally we didn't get married and I was jobless, loveless,hopeless,etc just as PK said. Thank pastor K
I learnt this one with you, sir.
Another right thing that ladies do at the wrong time is giving husband benefits ( cooking, washing, cleaning....)to a boy friend.
Same thing goes for men who spend on their girlfriends.
🤣I'm speechless@@Tomiwa101 .
PK really be making me laugh today 😂......... "now you're jobless, loveless and hopeless"😂😂......Deep, real stuff here. Thank you Pastor
😂😂😂😂😂 she lost on every side😂😭
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I can't even pray for any guy. God thank you for not answering my prayer and opening my eyes quite early, I for don see shege by now
I really couldn’t keep a straight face while watching this video. Pastor Kingsley is too funny 😂
It means see finish 😁 oyinbo is familiarity breeds contempt
This is a timely message for I have struggled with accepting when someone doesn't want me thank you holy spirit I needed this word as I prepare to enter courtship
I love what he said at 16:04. Don’t do things that show you don’t have authority figures in your life.
You need to be accountable to someone. When you’re 21 and you’re already moving into your boyfriend’s house; or you get pregnant by someone who your parents haven’t even met talk more of marriage, it just shows you lack accountability to someone. It makes you look cheap. Isn’t there someone in your family that you respect to the point that you won’t do foolish things?
All of these point seems to be too late already in my life....I am already a victim of all the points...I am heart broken and depressed...my family has talked to move on but everyday is a nightmare even as I pretend to be moving on......😪😪I don't even know what to do.
But thank you sir....for these points.
Take your pains and heart break to the Lord, He will help you, He will carry you, support you and nurture you back to life, He’ll take away your shame and cloth you with a double portion of honor ❤
You will heal….you will, Abba takes care of His Baby girls
@@maryamkazy2896 It is never too late when there is life
Wow this is awesome
I'm a victim of almost all but with this now I must be a change person
God bless you man of God 🙏
Hmmm pastor k ,did you hear my prayers to God😂. I literally have let go today before I turn my Bible to charm 😂. Thanks so much sir for your words today ,some hard decisions was made after this video . God bless you sir .
God bless you sir, your massage makes me cry 😭 bcos this was my character and I thought I was doing the best I did know I am doing the wrong thing at the right time, God bless you sir, How wish you can come to Delta state and preach for us, how wish I have the the money to invite you, I would have loved to bring you to Delta state, Sapele
Yes sir. If there are women who are fighting for their man before marriage, then the winner is still the loser 🙌🏽
I think the most important is for us ladies to learn how to control and put our emotions in check.
And also to be able to flee from anything that can and will stir up our emotions
This blessed me even as a guy. Thank you for sharing sir. More grace and glory.
Thank you for this pastor K, am 27 but marriage scares life out of me, i pray i get it right 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen!!
Amen
Amen
Same here
You dont have to be dear. Get books on marriage and read and you will be equipped for it
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂..."what can separate me from the love of Bode"
😂😂😂😂😂😂....my ribs
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Pastor K 😂😂😂
Thank you for always giving value and making it very fun at the same time🙌
No real man that loves you will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand. Absolutely true👌
So insightful and informative.
Thank you PK sir. I enjoy listening to you and I have learnt so so much from your teachings.
I know better, thanks to your so many teachings I have listened to.
😂😂😂 Your sense of humor is top notch sir
You are so on point Sir... The madness and witchcraft needs to stop!
😂Funny but it's true.
As in
When you have an IDOL in your heart you already set yourself up for disaster
God help us to love ourselves enough, to allow ourselves to be loved 🤍🙏🏼
A powerful marriage lesson for all indeed.
Wise words coming from a wise pastor🫡❤️
This is for me right there
Ps K your sense of humour is top notch! Thank you sir I have learnt alot
Wowwww I'm humbled
Thank you so much
Thank you PK
Powerful ❤❤❤❤
God bless you Sir 🙏
Thanks pastor
God bless you pastor k...
You are a blessing sir 🙏
Thank you sir
Great job PK👍, more grace 🙏
Thank you so much for this !!!
Very beautiful piece thanks sir
Thank you sir ✍️
Thank you Holy Spirit
We should let God do his thing,we should trust in Gods plans…
We have to rely on him for everything,God wants the best for us in every area of our life’s including relationships..
Thank you so much. This came at the right time . This was tailored for me
Thank you so much sir... God bless you 💯
Many thanks for sharing Pastor
This was full of so much wisdom and so hilarious at the same time. I feel like I was listening to a wise uncle lol
Im whole with this topic
Thank you pastor k
10 solid points.
Thank you so much pastor🙏
Powerful message!!! Thank you sir.
Thank you sir ✨🙏
Thank GOD for your life Pastor K
thank you PK
God can use pipo to speak to you 🧏🧏 this message is for me 🙏 I was about to make a big mistake, giving out mi 4m to a boyfriend , that we buy a land together yet we are not yet even seen each other 😢 but I was crying to God for guidance, here is the answer 🙏
GOD has answered you o. Don't make a mistake
😮😮😮dont dare i was corned by someone who claimed to be my lover have never even met him wueh dont
Very powerful message. Thank you
Wow informative indeed.Thank you pastor K
Thank you Pastor 🙏
I so wish they would hear!! these points are so valid and realistic in our society now.
Pastor K. Thank you for this ❤️
Great points. Thank you sir. All points are correct.
I am here on time... An hour to posting 😊😊😊
Timely message for us young ladies. Thank you Sir
God bless you pastor
Thanks so much for this Pastor K ❤
Thanks pastor K for this insight
Praying 🙏
Thanks God for ur life PK 🙏
Excellent teaching. Thank you!
I need to save this
I needed to hear this! Thank you
Thanks pastor k
Thank you so much, PK for this timely information.
Thank God i chanced on this at the right time. God bless you for letting me know
God richly bless you PK🎉
Thank you sir for this
Thank youbso much.🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Pastor
This blessed me! Thank you sir!
Absolutely loved these points😂👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you sir 🙌😢❤
Thank you pastor k. You are indeed the best
May the lord blessed you Pastor k this message is so timely and in season I trust everyone is blessed as I'm.
Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley😊
True sir
God will surely help us ladies 🤲🙏
Thanks to God for this message I come across
Thank you so very much,, for this talk
Following for more enlightenment 🎉
Thanks sir,i have learn alot
Thank you Daddy, we are grateful please