Story of a Stillborn Dad | Running For Change

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  • Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 26

  • @HayhoeCrew
    @HayhoeCrew 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @christopherlampman5579
    @christopherlampman5579 2 года назад +1

    Hey man, thanks for making these. I was a runner back in 2005-2016. After our stillbirth it’s the only thing that helps me feel human again.

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  2 года назад

      Hey buddy - how are you doing at the moment? Really sorry you're having to go through this as well, it's just the worst. If you need to chat at all then I'm always an ear to listen! Take care mate.

    • @christopherlampman5579
      @christopherlampman5579 2 года назад

      @@doitfor1815 I appreciate this reply, not sure how I missed it. I’m absolutely devastated but making it through. My wife and I have two other kids that we need to take care of. Our church has some people praying for us, providing meals, and we are meeting with another couple who had a stillborn 20 years ago.

  • @EmmaHammond
    @EmmaHammond 2 года назад +1

    Hello. Thinking of you and your wife and Margot, especially in the run up to Christmas. You are really eloquent and talk with such ease and confidence. I hope you can find some peace through putting your story into the world, I am sure you are helping many people. Thanks for being one of the good ones. Take care.

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  2 года назад

      Thank you! Christmas is going to be tough this year, but going to try our best to get through it. Thank you for your comment, and take care :)

  • @elaineloversuch
    @elaineloversuch 3 года назад

    💕💕 xx

  • @rockjock32492
    @rockjock32492 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing. I am a father and my twin sons were stillborn in July. No one warned us about that either. Physical exercise has been 100% critical for me in working working through grief. Ran a half marathon and training for a full marathon now. God, have mercy and help us all.

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  2 года назад +1

      It's so hard isn't it buddy - exercise is the only thing that keeps me going at times - gives us space to think and get out in the air. How are you? I hope the training is going well, and you and your partner are as well as can be.

    • @rockjock32492
      @rockjock32492 2 года назад

      @@doitfor1815 totally gives me space to think. It feels like the only way I can process things at times and if I don't exercise I get really anxious and impatient.
      My wife and I definitely go through ups and down. A lot of our friends have live children and that can be challenging.
      I'm very sorry for your loss and I bet Margot is very precious and beautiful.

  • @makidagray3621
    @makidagray3621 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing.... I experience this 6yrs ago and it still hurts today. May God's grace be with and your family.

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  3 года назад

      I'm so sorry. It is the most horrendous thing. Hope you're okay, and sending love and thoughts to you and your family

  • @rachaelmccarty9371
    @rachaelmccarty9371 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for your story. I’m so sorry for your and your wife’s experience. We had a miscarriage in June 2019, then got pregnant with our daughter but lost her at 39 weeks March 2020. I sent this video to my bf because I know he feels alone on this journey as a father to an angel and he’s also interested in running. Much love and strength to you all!

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  2 года назад

      I'm so sorry - baby loss is the cruelest thing any of us could go through. I hope you are your partner are okay . If your boyfriend ever wants to chat, or get anything off his chest, then please get him to DM me - my Instagram is @Margots_Daddy. Sending all our love x

  • @_gema143
    @_gema143 3 года назад +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately I know too well how you feel. My husband I lost our son at 25 weeks on 9/30/21 due to placenta abruption. He fought to stay with us for 10 hours before he gained his wings. Thank you for sharing your story about Margot💗 please continue to speak about her and her story #JoJo💙#143

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  2 года назад

      I'm so sorry. He sounds like he was a right little fighter to spend 10 hours with his Mummy and Daddy before he gained his wings. I hope you and your husband are as okay as you can be - it's the hardest thing, but we have to get through it together. Sending all our love. #DoItForMargot #DoItForJoJo

  • @boogeyman8102
    @boogeyman8102 3 года назад

    Brother , im a dad of an angel , we lost our daughter at 16 days, im proud of you for sharing your story , it's a journey no one should have to travel
    Much love from the gibbos in Australia

    • @boogeyman8102
      @boogeyman8102 3 года назад

      The 19th of December will be 1 year since we lost our Nova-Lee and brother it's still bloody hard , we have good days and days we want to crawl into a hole , you're bang on with everything you've said

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  3 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry buddy. I don't know about you, but I go through phases, and it could be just hours, of feeling okay, and then it's like the day we got told hits all over again.
      Im just glad that both of us, as dad's, can keep both Margot and Nova-Lee living on buddy. I just want to share my journey to help other dad's in the future know they aren't alone, as you probably know, as a dad it can be a very lonely place.
      Sending love to you and your family mate.
      Joe

  • @michaelx8267
    @michaelx8267 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing. We have very similar stories. It’s been two weeks since we lost our son.

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  3 года назад

      Hope you and your partner are okay. Stay strong - it's not easy, and I'm still figuring it out, but I'll continue to share how things are in the hope it can help. Sending love to you and your family.

  • @angiehalfhide6825
    @angiehalfhide6825 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. Our world fell apart when we lost our daughter at 41+5wks on August 3rd 2021. Just like you a low risk and uneventful pregnancy. Much love to you, Stephanie and Margot x

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  3 года назад

      I'm so sorry to hear that. It's the cruelest thing any family can go through. Sending the love back to you and your family. Just want to do my bit to try and break this tabboo and celebrate our little ones x

  • @jinri8456
    @jinri8456 2 года назад

    i loss my second son last July '21. Im still grieving. I like to shout but i cant. and im still looking to distract this grieving.

    • @doitfor1815
      @doitfor1815  2 года назад

      I'm so sorry - please let me know if you want to talk about it. Our little ones should be celebrated like any other child.

    • @jinri8456
      @jinri8456 2 года назад

      @@doitfor1815 Thanks bro. Sometimes when things get silent. I break down in tears. I wanted to destroy/punch something just to let away my emotions. Im always praying to God that he will guide me and help me get through this brokenness in my heart until my last breathe.
      again, Thank you for reaching out and showing your life experience.
      God bless us All.