Female Red Flags (TIER LIST)

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @Michael_the_Drunkard
    @Michael_the_Drunkard 25 дней назад +1324

    You forgot zodiac signs

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  25 дней назад +369

      RIGHT. That’s a communist flag 🤣

    • @Pist3l
      @Pist3l 24 дня назад +7

      😭😭

    • @bigpapibrad
      @bigpapibrad 24 дня назад +8

      😂😂

    • @ThomasNotJefferson
      @ThomasNotJefferson 24 дня назад

      He forrget church girls

    • @FBAGameplayHonorableGamer
      @FBAGameplayHonorableGamer 23 дня назад +28

      @@ybctoocold Like if u dont fit at all... like at all... but they say "but this Zodiac matches this, so we are meant to be" like... bruh 💀

  • @Dennisthemas
    @Dennisthemas 25 дней назад +1068

    Another red flag to me is if she smokes or vapes

  • @mihanich
    @mihanich 22 дня назад +627

    So it looks like we shouldn't date 95% of women.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  22 дня назад +354

      95% of women aren’t worth dating.

    • @Klasik616
      @Klasik616 21 день назад

      ​@@ybctoocoldand when you find the right one (I did) she has a boyfriend.

    • @queenambi7278
      @queenambi7278 21 день назад +63

      @@ybctoocoldso aren’t 99% of men

    • @KevaunChildofGod
      @KevaunChildofGod 20 дней назад +156

      @@queenambi7278Bet you played the good guy🤣

    • @atroposV
      @atroposV 20 дней назад +5

      I walk around this world every day and yeah pretty much thats how it seems

  • @DoporaBHe6o
    @DoporaBHe6o 15 дней назад +368

    you forgot two extremely major ones
    1. fatherless - it's GG don't even try
    2. bisexual - tends to have other red flags

    • @Crey12321
      @Crey12321 12 дней назад +21

      Thats true. No father figure in life/bad relationship with father - stay tf away.

    • @maria.4.4.1
      @maria.4.4.1 12 дней назад

      @@Crey12321why do you say that?

    • @Crey12321
      @Crey12321 12 дней назад +11

      @@maria.4.4.1 experience. Btw by "no father" I didn't mean a situasion when woman lost her father at some point but rather that she's never had a father figure in her life. I will edit that to be clear

    • @maria.4.4.1
      @maria.4.4.1 12 дней назад +22

      @@Crey12321 okay, I grew up without a father figure and I don’t think I’m toxic… it simply depends on the person and how they react to things

    • @Crey12321
      @Crey12321 12 дней назад +10

      @@maria.4.4.1 of course there are other circumstances that may affect us and I'm glad You avoided being toxic. I might have generalised but I think most women who grew up without father figure or in toxic relationship with her father may have problems in the future with creating healthy relationships. Mostly due to relationship style they learned when they were young. Of course it can be fixed but many people just don't see any issues within themselves nor want to accept that there's anything they can work on. And this also work for guys. Just don't ignore the efects of unhealthy relationship or lack of relationship with parent of opposite sex.
      And if you want good and healthy relationship, don't commit to someone who has unsolved issues that may cause problems. You want to be their partner, not a therapist

  • @meffer
    @meffer 14 дней назад +210

    Bro. Those Law of Attraction, manifestation, "I don't chase, I attract" women are nuclear red flag. It's like they think wishing is a substitute for action. Delusion level: maxed out. They are more in love with the idea of some romantic perfect relationship rather than in love with the actual guy.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  14 дней назад +22

      Yeah stay away from these types of girls. I know from experience 🤣

    • @trynagetuppp
      @trynagetuppp 11 дней назад

      ​@@ybctoocold pls elaborate on why as i fear I might find myself in a similar position very soon

  • @toptiercrip
    @toptiercrip 25 дней назад +648

    almost every girl is a phone addict and insecure dawg

    • @oafk
      @oafk 23 дня назад +104

      actually everyone tbh, just a few people actually aren't phone addicted nowadays

    • @toptiercrip
      @toptiercrip 23 дня назад +69

      @oafk most men can control their phone habits i be seeing females GLUED to dat phone dawg especially tiktok

    • @user-pn3im5sm7k
      @user-pn3im5sm7k 22 дня назад

      ​@@toptiercrip Be accountable, this isn't a female vs male thing. Both genders are glued to their phones whether you like it or not. The female is 304ing on it and the male is simping on it while both are being railed by a sophisticated misinformation campaign with the only purpose of destroying the family unit and thus making people easier to control. We can discuss who the real perpetuators are, but none of you are ever ready for that conversation.

    • @lelandp17
      @lelandp17 22 дня назад +13

      Ur right ​@@toptiercrip

    • @ZeroDividedByZero
      @ZeroDividedByZero 21 день назад +1

      @@toptiercripBro we was underway one time and this one bitch in our division would not put her damn phone down during the work day…we had no internet, mind you…

  • @RB_26
    @RB_26 25 дней назад +254

    "If a woman plays hard to get, make that decision a regret"- YBCTooCold 2024 🤣🤣

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep 20 дней назад +7

      Just play hard to get back

    • @shogunsteez2469
      @shogunsteez2469 17 дней назад +11

      If she plays hard to get, she won’t get got.

    • @AdblockAccount
      @AdblockAccount 12 дней назад +2

      Playing hard to get is the same a lying. Don't date a liar.

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep 9 дней назад

      @@AdblockAccount just play hard to get back lol

  • @rudyh721
    @rudyh721 24 дня назад +230

    I have yet to meet a girl who isn’t a phone addict bro

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дня назад +45

      Same, but she has to make an effort to control it around you. We don’t care what they do when they’re alone 🤣

    • @badtrip858
      @badtrip858 14 дней назад +9

      Sometimes they are just hella bored by whatever you are saying, so to avoid the awkward silence, they'll grab their phones. Either way, if she finds you boring, it's best to not get into a relationship with her. Remember, it's not always your fault, cause people have different preferences and find different things interesting. She just wasn't a match

    • @SuicidalH
      @SuicidalH 12 дней назад +5

      I am an addict but I put the phone down when I'm with him. It's a basic decency.

    • @galactikhex
      @galactikhex 6 дней назад

      @@SuicidalH many people nowadays don't have basic decency or common sense. Which is extremely sad

  • @freemover975
    @freemover975 24 дня назад +145

    The father of all red flags is missing: relationship to her father. Most other red flags are a result of that.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дня назад +27

      True, I was looking at a more superficial level because it’s hard know a woman’s relationship with her father when you meet her. But if she has a bunch of red flags it’s probably bad.

    • @taksun2189
      @taksun2189 6 дней назад

      Can you explain what it means, please? Incest or something like that?

    • @lanepedraza
      @lanepedraza 6 дней назад +9

      @@taksun2189not necessarily. In my personal experience which in this case is vast. Women who had a bad relationship or even an absent father tend to be insensitive, detached, selfish or have a thought of “men sucks”. They are not gonna respect you nor follow you as a leader on the relationship.

    • @taksun2189
      @taksun2189 6 дней назад

      @@lanepedraza Thank you for the clarification!

  • @Philosopheraptor
    @Philosopheraptor 24 дня назад +274

    Others to consider:
    1. Smokes &/or vapes
    2. Parties every week / Is a typical club or bar girl
    3. Is a stripper and/or sex worker / Has an OnlyFans
    4. Believes in astrology (horoscopy) &/or "magic"
    5. Is a single mother (with it being worse the more children she has)
    6. Has had a divorce (or multiple divorces) before
    7. Comes from (was or is being raised in) a single mother household
    8. Believes in the mythological "wage gap"
    9. Uses misandristic terms such as "Men ain't shit"
    10. Doesn't speak proper/coherent English or uses way too much slang
    11. Posts inappropriately revealing photos on her Instagram page
    12. Is in severe debt / Has financial &/or overspending issues

    • @mvloz113
      @mvloz113 22 дня назад +7

      Don't forget raves

    • @ZeroDividedByZero
      @ZeroDividedByZero 21 день назад +18

      Eh, some of these can be attributed to simply having had things not work out (i.e. divorce) but I still agree, and at best, those are yellow flags.

    • @65150s
      @65150s 19 дней назад +1

      ​@@mvloz113 Stay away 🏴‍☠️

    • @PrypiomStudio
      @PrypiomStudio 11 дней назад +3

      I'll add the body count in this.

    • @jeanpierrepolnareff9919
      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 9 дней назад +1

      Spot on except for the smoking, where i leave its very common, young old, men and women smoke. Unless its a big issue where she has terrible breath and lung problems, it doesnt mean much to me. Also a plus if she likes to smoke weed.

  •  15 дней назад +25

    Basically all modern women these days have multiple red flags.

  • @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060
    @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 2 дня назад +11

    The tattoo thing doesn't hold much weight. Nerds get tattoos nowadays and it ultimately comes down to personal taste. If they have a neck/face tattoo its a different story though.

    • @coldturkey5333
      @coldturkey5333 День назад

      Im yet to meet a heavily tattooed woman who didn’t have some sort of trauma in her life

    • @XMehrooz
      @XMehrooz 2 часа назад

      tattoos on girls are outright red flags dude. You just probably live somewhere among bad people. Good girls are extremely sensitive about their skin. It's the ones who hate themselves in some way or another who want to ink their skin.

  • @marisacillahi1537
    @marisacillahi1537 10 дней назад +37

    Male red flags
    1:Promiscuous or high body count
    2: drinker/smoker and drug addict
    3: Single father or have different baby mamas
    4:If he aver pay money on 😻 directly or indirectly
    5: Have so many tattoos and listen to rap songs mostly
    6: phone addict and social media addict
    7: If he doesn't work/not save or don't have a purpose in life
    8:If he says misogyny things or follows misogyny men on social media
    9: Have so many bad friends or so many female friends
    10:If he doesn't know how to communicate

    • @jeanpierrepolnareff9919
      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 9 дней назад +4

      I think you ment turn ons? Maybe autocorrected

    • @marisacillahi1537
      @marisacillahi1537 9 дней назад +9

      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 Nop,I mean turn off
      If you are this type of man ,maybe a woman will date you for money and not for marriage differentiate short-term and long-term

    • @namenotfound6881
      @namenotfound6881 7 дней назад +1

      @@jeanpierrepolnareff9919any decent woman wouldn’t touch a guy like this with a ten foot pole. Red flag women on the other hand LOVE red flag men

    • @huh-ih5wq
      @huh-ih5wq 3 дня назад +7

      I dont see anything wrong with men who listen to rap mostly, tbh

    • @kamalatharat
      @kamalatharat 2 дня назад

      Whataboutist

  • @yoosf
    @yoosf 25 дней назад +154

    also if she doubts my decisions and what i am able to do, if she doubts my skills, my thoughts, its a massive disrespect for me

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  25 дней назад +29

      Yeah we don’t tolerate that. Either she believes in you or she outta there lol

    • @ningenzerokeikaku3719
      @ningenzerokeikaku3719 19 дней назад +1

      yeah bro my ex was like that, it pissed me off so much

    • @graveraider1029
      @graveraider1029 16 дней назад

      then be the man then she won't doubt, if she is doing that ther is a good reason

    • @gl3mmy903
      @gl3mmy903 16 дней назад +4

      For sure just remember not to be incompetent yourself as in give her valid reasons to doubt your skill

  • @mikokun7714
    @mikokun7714 25 дней назад +80

    Bro Didn’t Put Single Mother on the Pentagon DEFCON Lvl 1 Red Flag Tier 🚩

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  25 дней назад +25

      Bro created a whole new tier for single mothers 🤣🤣

    • @SalwixRaper
      @SalwixRaper 6 дней назад

      i mean, i like to hook upwith them but never got any seroius relationship

  • @filipberes319
    @filipberes319 24 дня назад +90

    You forgot the type of girl who is gonna left you on read

  • @michikatsutsugikuni4096
    @michikatsutsugikuni4096 22 дня назад +81

    "Active on social media" should be in DANGER tier. Chances are she's a narc sociopath especially if she has an OF account and she's taking advantage of lonely men for money.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  22 дня назад +11

      Good point tbh

    • @AdblockAccount
      @AdblockAccount 12 дней назад

      Doesn't that depend on what social media it is? Almost anyone I know, including family and myself, are active on facebook. Is that so horrible?

    • @kate1060
      @kate1060 9 дней назад

      Tbh it depends on what she's posting a lot like it's hard for me to belive that women that post pics woth their family on Facebook or make up tutorials are looking for male attention xD

    • @SalwixRaper
      @SalwixRaper 6 дней назад

      OF should straigh go aboce the communist flag

  • @livedeliciously
    @livedeliciously 6 дней назад +10

    One that I'd like to add: incapable of being alone.

  • @Kabirio93
    @Kabirio93 20 дней назад +79

    My personal red flags:
    1) Get drunk often.
    2) Into latino music and parties.
    3) Single mother.
    4) Social media addict.
    5) Not avalaible (answer me after days and days or just answer after 24 hours with lame excuses like sorry i was busy ahah)
    6) Love bomb ( calling me babe et very fast and without bound first)
    7) Mixed feelings
    8) Hard to get

    • @adriel6008
      @adriel6008 19 дней назад +37

      Lmfaoo the latino music part had me dying

    • @afrasiabi96
      @afrasiabi96 19 дней назад +26

      You forgot ghetto music and ghetto slang talk and she says Cap alot

    • @pesocheco
      @pesocheco 19 дней назад

      Finishing product = No h0ez

    • @gioromani
      @gioromani 15 дней назад +6

      “Latino Music” was very xenophobic of you.

    • @user-from-montreal
      @user-from-montreal 15 дней назад +36

      ​@@gioromani no... I'm latino and I understand why he said that.
      Latino music, latino nightclubs and parties are very sexual. Latino dances are mostly sexual.

  • @marcmeier2148
    @marcmeier2148 25 дней назад +42

    This tierlist videos are fkin fire lately man, keep it up bro sharing this knowledge is key to be prepared in this current generation.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  25 дней назад +3

      Thank you bro! Means a lot that you find it valuable.

    • @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060
      @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 2 дня назад +1

      Prepared to die a virgin and never find love because of unrealistic expectations.

  • @veo16
    @veo16 23 дня назад +22

    Society has fallen far. Degraded. Where dating has become a sick game. Instead of a simple meeting of two souls. The truth is there are no red flags. Every single person you meet will be somewhere in their journey through life. The person you end up with will have many faults. And you’ll wait forever if you try to find someone who checks some arbitrary list. They are capable of change. And you are capable of compromise. Just go and live your life. You may end up happy.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  23 дня назад +6

      @@veo16 There are the good kind of faults and the bad kinds. It’s not an arbitrary list, it’s a statistical one. And it works. By your logic dating a woman who’s murdered all of her exes is fine because “there are no red flags” and they’re in their “journey through life”. I see your point, and it’s generally true but there are absolutely things we should look out for to ensure healthy relationships.

    • @DevioussKing
      @DevioussKing День назад +1

      Society is structured around human behavior, and I believe with or without it there are still things you would want to watch for in a relationship, like the video describes

  • @EliteRamon
    @EliteRamon 24 дня назад +104

    if she's pan bi or whatever that's a red flag

    • @Dougm1989
      @Dougm1989 16 дней назад +13

      I would agree with that, something about the thought of any friend of hers she hangs out with being a potential partner or them sleeping with them behind your back doesn't sit right with me either regardless if it's another girl.

    • @user67999
      @user67999 15 дней назад +1

      Agree

    • @PrypiomStudio
      @PrypiomStudio 11 дней назад +1

      Bi I don't think because It's actually existing but pan... Things that are linked to gender 😬

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 7 дней назад

      Cap in at least one singular case, I once met a freaky ASF but loyal(I confirmed this by extremely detailed and extensive research into the contents of her phone, stalked any social media platformed accs she had which weren't very many to my personal knowledge, tested her multiple times a week and interrogated her. I literally went through her phone
      We was freaky as a MF tho fr 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 like gah dawm bro yummy.
      But she was in fact loyal despite having a high sex drive and I confirmed it many times.
      I kinda pushed her away tho I was "way too aggressive" except she literally liked that I was a bad boy 🤣🤣 "oh so u a bad child huh" like bro wtf??????????? It's how we humans work, we be so hypocritical in action frfrfr.
      Maybe I just got a rare freaky, kinda pretty and loyal shorty but trust me it's hard to find I've fumbled/ dumped.a few rls w a few of them tho they're hard to find but out there.

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 7 дней назад

      Bruh and she wanted me to be a "better person" and nicer to her but then she dips
      Women don't make sense cracka, they have this stupid standard of either he's 0.7% of population Tyrone level handsome, athletic, tall, strong, and kind and sexy n rich.
      Well I had 4-5 of those covered + my curls made them go wild.
      Women in this generation are so senseless like they be wanting a bad boy but don't wanna get hurt

  • @saint-simon1134
    @saint-simon1134 5 дней назад +2

    9:42 you convinced me that you really have the meaning of understanding women psychology. About tha tattoos I remarked also that those women are insecure and have passed trauma that they try to hide.
    They don't look cool for, actually every time when I see a girl with full body tattoo give me a vibe of hide depression.

  • @constantmotivation8489
    @constantmotivation8489 25 дней назад +49

    I love this tier list video series so much bro

    • @Yosef2-g
      @Yosef2-g 25 дней назад +3

      Yeah it’s hella helpful

    • @khakishark
      @khakishark 23 дня назад +4

      same bro its not just a ranking, its a learning experience

  • @thepainphantom
    @thepainphantom 5 дней назад +19

    Here's one: thinks she's a 10.
    We love confidence, but not narcissism or delusional ones.

    • @rockagamez7704
      @rockagamez7704 4 дня назад +1

      that would just fall under big ego

    • @thepainphantom
      @thepainphantom 4 дня назад +1

      @@rockagamez7704 I'd like to think that's the case (as in the past). But with social media trends nowadays it's cancerous. It's a megalomaniac thing and status clout.
      Oh and in some cases, the ones who say she's a 10 are 300 lbs and females on that 'shady categories'🤪

    • @ming454
      @ming454 3 дня назад

      Unless she is actually a 10

    • @rockagamez7704
      @rockagamez7704 2 дня назад

      @@thepainphantom looking too much into man. Those women you are describing think very highly of themselves because they know they are good looking and they use it to their advantage. It's big ego

    • @thepainphantom
      @thepainphantom 2 дня назад +1

      @@ming454 Nobody's a 10.

  • @niepboss3374
    @niepboss3374 25 дней назад +51

    Dating is like fishing
    Looks is the bait that actually gets the fish to bite/the one that sparks interest
    Personality keeps her around/ the fishing line. If you have a weak ass fishing line or personality she gonna leave.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  25 дней назад +16

      This guy gets it

    • @Halo4beatsB02
      @Halo4beatsB02 22 дня назад +2

      I don't know about that your looks can take you pretty far.

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 7 дней назад

      ​@@ybctoocoldagreed

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 7 дней назад

      ​@@Halo4beatsB02agreed.

    • @FillupMan
      @FillupMan 7 дней назад

      ​@@Halo4beatsB02I looks improved and grew out my heads hair follicles hair curls. I have curly hair, I have a pretty up there tall height, I have a 6 pack and dressed well , used cologne, and i have a deep and sonourous voice when not complaining ab the latest issue instead of fixing a problem. sometimes still do, circumstance and life context.
      W my 6 foot, interests in linguistics, science, history, art, women, looksmaxxing, and athleticism it was irresistible to some girls but most girls who like me i dont like. So it's not like I didn't attract even tho Im clearly pretty ugly. It takes effort.

  • @belavera994
    @belavera994 7 дней назад +3

    mixed signals don't mean she has no interest in every case, many women are just insecure, especially when the guy didn't show clear interest and they're still wondering, if he likes them or if he's even single or not, it's different in the getting to know stage though, if there's already been a couple dates and she's still giving mixed signals, then she's either dealing with severe relationship trauma, she's not really interested in the guy or she's trying to play games while getting to know other guys at the same time, all of these options aren't ideal.

  • @matheuskekw
    @matheuskekw 23 дня назад +27

    "career oriented" is so true, it was my canon event

  • @Yungzhef
    @Yungzhef 17 дней назад +28

    Butterfly 🦋 tattoo… RUN

    • @Mystikik
      @Mystikik 12 дней назад +1

      Huh for a butterfly? Why tho?

    • @LilYungSatch
      @LilYungSatch 12 дней назад +7

      @@Mystikikits a trend for some girls to put butterfly tattoos in places where they have cut themselves before which definitely means they’re majorly depressed. Lot of emotional baggage

    • @comcastlover
      @comcastlover 12 дней назад +2

      lol definitely not the reason I have one.

    • @PrypiomStudio
      @PrypiomStudio 11 дней назад +2

      My mom have one and she's an awesome women who stay married to my dad after 30 years of marriage !

    • @Soundeagle3456
      @Soundeagle3456 10 дней назад +1

      @@LilYungSatch or they are mkultra slaves. lol

  • @soapygaming1562
    @soapygaming1562 7 дней назад +7

    You forgot talks about her exes a lot

  • @michaeldawson182
    @michaeldawson182 13 дней назад +20

    I have found that one of the best filters for women is simply seeing how they react when you say no. If they can accept it, that's a green flag, but if they don't ask yourself if you really want to live with that

  • @mehakverma7043
    @mehakverma7043 24 дня назад +71

    How are you gonna put plays videogames as a red flag 😑 your reasoning was that she wouldn’t give you enough attention if she plays too much videogames. Like bruh, everyone plays them, what, so men are a red flag if they play videogames?
    Edit: wanted to add that it’s hard to do something you aren’t interested in if you’re merely doing it for attention. Also, a lot of people play videogames alone, as in, not going online. Women don’t play videogames for attention, e-girls with only fans do.

    • @jellophant9716
      @jellophant9716 24 дня назад

      Men are indeed a red flag if they play videogames

    • @birchgarden2238
      @birchgarden2238 24 дня назад +6

      It's not really about videogames, though the industry has discovered a lot of ways to combine videogames with social interactions, which is the actual thing that get normal girls hooked on. Of course you also got girls that are really interested in videogames as they are, and as such it's just a hobby, but she's engaging in something that most women don't do, so in the spirit of this video (not taking itself too seriously) it is sort of a red flag lol.

    • @mehakverma7043
      @mehakverma7043 24 дня назад +26

      ​@@birchgarden2238 Just because you are an outlier, that doesn't make you a red flag. For example, a black man who was raised in Harlem with a single mother who goes to Harvard is an outlier. That doesn't make him a red flag just because other black men in Harlem raised by single women don't tend to go to college.
      I got into videogames because my brother gave me his ps2 to get an xbox360, so I grew up with crash bandicoot and burnout, and I made my way up to minecraft and fable and whatnot. But my hobby has nothing to do with my femininity or my ability to love a man. Last summer I spent 188 hours playing Skyrim alone. A person just doesn't spend 188 hours for attention and validation.

    • @birchgarden2238
      @birchgarden2238 24 дня назад +10

      @@mehakverma7043 Don't stress too much about certain individual points of this video. It's talking in stereotypes, and it's funny (at least to me) exactly because it's not always true. Girls playing video game is statistically probably more of a red flag than not lol, because girls playing video game is not a red flag sometimes. Btw it's outlier.

    • @mehakverma7043
      @mehakverma7043 24 дня назад +7

      @@birchgarden2238 Okay, yeah that makes sense. It might be like tattoos, where girls with tattoos usually have mental health issues and baggage. But that doesn't mean that just because a girl has a tattoo, she isn't the one.
      edit: oops, sorry for the spelling.

  • @JakersField
    @JakersField День назад

    I’m glad you touched on the guy friends. I’ve been called crazy so many times over that argument

  • @briansmoothie7854
    @briansmoothie7854 10 дней назад +5

    Playing video games is a big green flag for me and piercings aren’t too big of a deal as long as her tongue isn’t

  • @MauryaKaushik
    @MauryaKaushik 20 дней назад +10

    8:05 that was so real-

  • @Speculector
    @Speculector 2 дня назад +1

    My older cousin who graduated valedictorian and is currently married gave me this dating advice:
    "I'll let you in on a little secret, all women are crazy."

  • @donaldtrump2728
    @donaldtrump2728 22 дня назад +27

    Simps for celebs should be in red flag

  • @VladimirPutin-wt5yh
    @VladimirPutin-wt5yh 4 дня назад +2

    Bro you're doing God's work. Kudos

  • @freesteylerr082
    @freesteylerr082 11 дней назад +16

    how about talking about her ex boyfriends non-stop, sometimes even bragging about them and making you feel insecure

    • @jeanpierrepolnareff9919
      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 9 дней назад +2

      Cut their crap straight on. Theres ways to do this, normally i just ignore them and go do something else(if its a date i go to the bathroom or smoke). In other situations just tell her straight up"i dont care about your ex". Depending on how she reacts, youll know everything you need.

  • @Kylesalt-od4cr
    @Kylesalt-od4cr 3 дня назад +2

    My ex was one of those girls with way too many guy friends. The majority of our conversations would be about her guy friends and her latest conversations with them. She would snap random guys she hasnt met before, stay up late to call her guy friends, and before we started dating, she talked about how many times shes been rejected, aswell as ranting to me about how a guy rejected her. Even when she asked me out to our first date, she immediately started talking about another guy she likes. I didn't recognize how big of an issue this was at the time, even though it was such a huge red flag, and i still persued her anyways like a dumbass. Throughout the relationship, hearing about all her guy friends pretty much all the time made me feel as if i wasn't enough for her, so i texted her a lot more because i felt she would leave me for another guy if i didnt. She broke up with me for this after a lot of conversation about it, and oh my god if that isnt the best decision someone else has ever made for me. She had so many other red flags ontop of this, but i wont get into it. She always told me "im a loyal and loving girlfriend", yet she never showed for it, and thats why she emphasized it so much. Becuase she wasn't.
    Anyways, moral of the story, NEVER EVER overlook a red flag. Do not give them your heart because theyll just destroy it. It becomes so much more trouble than it needs to be. If shes truly the one, things will develop naturally and smoothly. If roadblocks appear, its a sign of trouble. Run.

    • @HarryMcLeod-q8p
      @HarryMcLeod-q8p 2 дня назад

      Yeah, I had a gf in the summer who had loads of red flags, but I was too infatuated to look past them. She had guy friends, went on day trips and said she thinks she gets bored of guys.

  • @KingKhupacabra
    @KingKhupacabra 7 дней назад +2

    That last one. It’s the truth. Liked this one girl in my 1/2nd year of uni but every time I left her proximity, the energy I felt was low. Something felt off. So I just stopped talking to her. Look wise my type but the connection was so mundane

  • @Indigenous_Rambo
    @Indigenous_Rambo 23 дня назад +6

    Can you do "male hobbys attractiveness to women" tier list? Keep up the great content 👍

  • @ItsDrayTV14689
    @ItsDrayTV14689 24 дня назад +15

    IF SHE STILL SLEEPS WITH HER EX

    • @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060
      @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 2 дня назад +2

      Bro this should go without saying 😂

    • @ItsDrayTV14689
      @ItsDrayTV14689 2 дня назад +1

      @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 I had a good first date with a girl recently and afterwards she texted me she slept with her ex during the weekend 💀
      I didn't care that much since I didn't intend anything serious anyway
      Still it was a wild situation

  • @michaelb6729
    @michaelb6729 19 дней назад +4

    Great video !
    One of my redflags is whether she keeps her car maintained and clean inside. !
    If the interior is dirty or the Check Engine Light is on constantly . . . . I walk ! hahaha

  • @MalikFlorence-zr3kv
    @MalikFlorence-zr3kv 24 дня назад +8

    an hour video by you would be fire bro

  • @PizzaChess69
    @PizzaChess69 5 дней назад +3

    Thins I would add:
    1) No father/bad relationship with her father/father was a "Nice Guy"
    2) Used to be a prostitute/porn actor/has OnlyFans (I don't need to explain that)
    3) Is not financially responsible
    4) Single mother wanting you to take care of her children (Don't get this wrong, dating single mothers, especially if you're a single father over 30 yourself, is okay on its own as long as you don't have to play the role of being the "father" for her children)
    5) Goes to partys when she's in a relationship (I don't need to explain this either)
    Also, telling women with many guy friends to call them and pretend to be horny is such a genious idea why did I never think about that before watching this video???

  • @DevioussKing
    @DevioussKing День назад

    A lot of these red flags reflect men as well, and as such, learned a lot about myself from this video. Thank you for sharing this knowledge.

  • @thomasdemetz6145
    @thomasdemetz6145 9 дней назад +4

    I mostly agree on those, but a girl without humor should be a major red flag. Let me explain: she does not understand your jokes, takes everything too seriously, constant need to explain yourself to her. Humor is what keeps marriages alive, to be able to laugh about ourselves and our mistakes and weaknesses.
    Plus you missed:
    - "Single Mothers" -> communist flag, run for your life
    (widow may be exception to this rule)

  • @blackthorn7298
    @blackthorn7298 3 дня назад +2

    Wow. You just took some of the most attractive things I find in women and put them into red flags. I guess i am not dating anyone then.

  • @loysthiara
    @loysthiara День назад +3

    But don't 95% of girls have piercings? I had my ears pierced weeks after I was born. So most of the time, it's not their choice. Also, how is playing video games a major red flag? Double standards are insane. Guys also play video games so I don't see the problem.

    • @XerXcho
      @XerXcho День назад

      Yeah normal ear piercings don't count. Also i disagree with the gaming thing

  • @jbash0824
    @jbash0824 3 часа назад

    I half agree with you, for example competitive women are usually just, more fun? They emphasize the friend part of girlfriend. I want to be equals in a relationship, not the complete dominator.

  • @j2kpr368
    @j2kpr368 2 дня назад

    Hit right in the spot with the feeling good about being clingy but not liking it in the long run

  • @manuel.camelo
    @manuel.camelo 14 часов назад

    It's true, if a girl plays the "too hard to get card"... seriously don't waste your time with her.
    I did, for 11 months and it was a useless battle that achieved nothing.
    She also didn't put any effort into it.
    I'm happily in a relationship now, I've found a Green Flag Woman, and she really Loves me as much as I Love her. 🙏

  • @zdopezz3744
    @zdopezz3744 12 дней назад +2

    I wouldve ranked "competitive" and "carreer oriented" way lower. Imo I would rather date a girl, who knows what her goals are and what she wants to achieve in life, rather than a girl who is just at home all day/out partying, etc.. and more likely doing nothing with her time. Id say, it could actually improve the relationship, if both of you are succesfull at your profession.

  • @pringleshotspicy5282
    @pringleshotspicy5282 9 дней назад +3

    putting 'pick me' in the orange category is just wild to me, should be a huggeee red flag but i guess its easier for women to spot a pick me than for men

  • @zeranderman4170
    @zeranderman4170 24 дня назад +4

    Wtf did i just discover bro this channel is a gem 🔥

  • @SI-Omen
    @SI-Omen 20 часов назад

    "Call him, pretend to be horny, and see what he does" is actually a genius response.

  • @mariosaucedo6234
    @mariosaucedo6234 8 дней назад +2

    Don’t entirely agree with all of this and so far things have been really great with me and I’m dating a gamer girl. It’s been more than a year now. Also there’s a couple of stuff that could be taken into account, some people could be aware of their own flags and try to work on them. So maybe an idea for a future video could be a green flags list. I would include self improvement in there since anyone that tries to work on themselves for the better is always a green flag for me. Especially because if they’re working on the red flags, I met someone that was working on that and I can say that the progress she made is really good. Obviously I had to work on some stuff of my own as well but we’ve been progressing together.

  • @IM-qq4zn
    @IM-qq4zn 12 дней назад +8

    Thank you. it is an absolute fact that women with tattoos tend to lean closer to the devil. but it is important to hold men with tattoos accountable too, because they're the same sides of the same coin.

  • @dan-us6nk
    @dan-us6nk 7 дней назад +2

    I think you did not explain the "competitive" flag well.
    If she tries to one-up you a lot it's diminishing.
    But, in certain areas, if a woman shows behavior of competing, it might just mean she's ambitious. That she has aspirations. And a person with no ambition or aspiration is a miserable person. so you should *not* date a woman who doesn't have a thing to be competitive about.
    I don't mind dating a girl who cooks better than me, or gets better grades, or exercises more often. If she supports me in my ambitions the way I support her in hers, it's very promising for a relationship. But if she compares herself to her friends too much, or to me, then it might show something bad under the surface.
    My point is that it really comes down to how you define "competitive behavior".

  • @bergermaniz4812
    @bergermaniz4812 2 дня назад +1

    I agree and disagree with a lot of these but Withholds Femininity=won't do all my chores later IS WILD I thought it would be like "Doesn't want to have sex" but no, having this expectation out of someone is wild. (Not talking shit to the people that want a traditional marriage/relationship but expecting one is fucked up.)

  • @Az00069
    @Az00069 4 дня назад +1

    When they talk about their confidence that's a BIG 🚩 for me. You kinda covered it with insecure.
    A nicer way to put it is that some humbleness is a green flag. 👍
    We know they're attracted to confidence!
    Where they mess up is they project thinking we're going to be attracted to that quality in the same way.
    I honestly find it disgusting when confidence is something they brag about. Too masculine for me. ✋
    I'm attracted to feminine traits. As Theo Von said "look lost" 😂 I wanna feel like she doesn't have it all under control so I can help her.

  • @caseyjones6662
    @caseyjones6662 18 дней назад +3

    I agree with everything but the video game one. I've dated plenty of gamer girls that are balanced. Some even value me more than the games. I think its just how the girls personality is.

    • @graveraider1029
      @graveraider1029 16 дней назад +1

      I do not think this guy actually plays video games and his input on girls who game is telling thinking they all do it for attention which is honestly rare bro, I have met a lot of girls who are better at games than dudes.

    • @Soundeagle3456
      @Soundeagle3456 10 дней назад

      @@graveraider1029 yes we get it women are superior RA RA RA, lol fuck off.

  • @AG26498
    @AG26498 19 дней назад +2

    I would add, "earns money through social media". Now, if it's art, or music that's fine. I am talking about ASMR 'artists'. You better be sure there are thousands of simps in her DM's

  • @llkjhv8250
    @llkjhv8250 22 дня назад +4

    How the hell is being career oriented is higher than simping over celebrities and being loud🤦🏼

    • @Gelato41_
      @Gelato41_ 11 дней назад

      their career is the Carousel

    • @Em.thebabyyy
      @Em.thebabyyy 8 дней назад

      I mean being career oriented is usually something masculine. Honestly that’s not a quality that you should really want in a female. That’s even worse than being passive.

  • @Gnomelander1400
    @Gnomelander1400 2 дня назад +2

    Some of these are just them being different, not necessarily red flag like video game, passive, competitive, loud, insecure, etc. red flag would he like too many guy friends or tatooo

  • @cassidy1203
    @cassidy1203 12 дней назад +4

    bro this vid proved me to be happy im not attracted to men thx

    • @scrambledeggs1677
      @scrambledeggs1677 8 дней назад +5

      for real, the comment section is just pathetic and it makes sense why people who view women like this aren't in good relationships. this guy's content is so sad, he uses photos of attractive women for clickbaiting incels rofl

    • @cassidy1203
      @cassidy1203 7 дней назад +4

      @ at first I thought it’s just a rage bait to get attention but then I realized these losers are really thinking this way and it’s just horrifying

  • @kevinj894
    @kevinj894 10 дней назад +7

    Bruh the mixed signal one is spot on, its like she is into you, but she isn't in a rush to date you, like you're not a priority, but she doesn't want to miss out on someone who has potential.

    • @jeanpierrepolnareff9919
      @jeanpierrepolnareff9919 9 дней назад +3

      When youre younger you can play around with women like that. Once you have to work for hours on end every week and take care of other responsibilities, these women arent worth your time, just ignore them. Funmily enough, that will make them chase you more

  • @bigcharva909
    @bigcharva909 14 дней назад +28

    Love how the content creator won't reply to this because the guy's never pulled a woman it's actually jokes, I've known women without tattoos and piercings and there absolute menaces, your evidence is false buddy, keep making videos for the "woman-less" crew

    • @chromastrophe
      @chromastrophe 13 дней назад

      this monkey put "Doesn't reciprocate" below "Plays video games", you can't make this shit up ☠️☠️

    • @polaroid5711
      @polaroid5711 13 дней назад +1

      I think he meant women with a lot of tattoos, like sleeves, for example. If she’s got Dua Lipa’s amount & style of tattoos, then I think that’s fine

    • @bigcharva909
      @bigcharva909 13 дней назад +5

      @polaroid5711 yeye I respect that honestly, it's the fact I used to know these girls and they had no tattoos or piercings and they was clubbing and they was constantly meeting boys in the area I live around, but yeah I 100% agree with you. By the way I'm talking to this girl she has a few piercings and tattoos but they do have meaning behind them one about a past away pet or about her family.

    • @frieren848
      @frieren848 10 дней назад

      @@bigcharva909 brother you're focusing on the tattoos and piercings only but what about the other traits? whether they get inked/pierced or not is irrelevant when they have bigger red flags to worry about
      i don't like OP either or the way he made this video but you're being Fkn restarted by wasting your time thinking about club h03s

    • @bigcharva909
      @bigcharva909 10 дней назад

      @@frieren848 are you silly in the head where did I once worry about club 304s? My statement is that I've known women with no tats and no piercings buddy yet they was 304s and they used to go with new men each time. Well done I know they're other red flags but my statement is clearly talking about strictly tattoos and piercings, they're not outright red flags?

  • @iGhostr
    @iGhostr 25 дней назад +10

    Before watching the video:
    Has tattoos is orange

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  25 дней назад

      Close lmao

    • @thescarecrow897
      @thescarecrow897 18 дней назад

      Nah, tatted girls have an higher likelyhood of being h03s

  • @Neuroszima
    @Neuroszima 2 дня назад

    9:49 - maybe because it is sign of "independence", like "i do with my body whatever i want, and you can't influence that", that is a sign of deeper "i do ___ whatever i want, and you can't influence that"

  • @toongamer2810
    @toongamer2810 24 дня назад +12

    Finding a high interest girl is so hard, it doesn't help that the narrative historically is that we're supposed to "chase" them. I'm so exhausted at this point, I don't wanna chase and dance around for her like a jester just to be able to potentially have her like me back.
    But then we stop approaching and it's "why don't guys approach anymore" or "there are no good men left."
    Like please, for once either give us more clear signs, or take initiative and ask us for a change. A relationship is a two player game. I can't be pining for you while you don't give af about me.

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  24 дня назад +5

      It might be hard but it’s not impossible. Becoming the type of man that women choose is a must if you want to avoid being a jester and chasing after scraps. That’s why I recommend holding out and being alone for a while instead of chasing. At the same time though, it’s important to have good social skills and be able to talk to women in the way they want to be spoken to. Unfortunately they’ll just never approach you no matter how good looking you are (unless you’re a celeb). So you still have to approach, but after picking up on signals that she WANTS to be approached. A woman who chooses you first makes your life infinitely easier. And yes sometimes that involves dropping your ego and going for a girl that doesn’t look like a super model. It all depends on what you realistically want. You got this bro

  • @pawrra1412
    @pawrra1412 2 дня назад +1

    Mate you need to start viewing women as people. If you don't want a career oriented woman, don't get with someone career operated - doesn't make it a red flag, just a personal preference. Half of these things should just be considered your opinion and definitely not given as a universal truth.
    Having healthy friendships of both genders is a green flag. You can be close to someone and realise that a romantic relationship isn't the right dynamic for both people. Why wouldn't you be friends with a career oriented woman?
    Plenty of women have male friends they don't see as 'back-up' options. You can value someone whilst not wanting to be their life partner. Learn to value women as people first, then the deep relationships follow.

  • @MrJimmy-fl2bn
    @MrJimmy-fl2bn 2 часа назад

    7:34 with the guy friends thing. We have to be very careful about what we do defined as a friend. For example my mom’s best friend died and her husband and kids still come over for Christmas and thanks to our house. That is fine and a rare exception.

  • @Neuroszima
    @Neuroszima 2 дня назад

    Conjecture - most "tierlist videos" put items in tiers in a way that, after final item is "graded", end up normally or normally-like distributed

  • @Andmaj
    @Andmaj 13 дней назад +2

    needs a remake but with EVERY red flag!. these are basic ones

  • @ajanbeko5707
    @ajanbeko5707 5 дней назад +1

    Best red flag video

  • @LivingParable693
    @LivingParable693 16 дней назад +9

    Bro, please do a male red flags. I swing both ways. Kappa. But seriously tho, that would be interesting and an opportunity for us bros to self reflect to be our best selves.

  • @Nosense2010P
    @Nosense2010P 7 дней назад +5

    Whats the problem with tattoos?

  • @thomasliangus
    @thomasliangus 15 дней назад +1

    Man! This video is Classic! Thanks!

  • @pg9739
    @pg9739 17 дней назад +16

    girls with tats def a red flag. prolly the first red flag you can see without talking/approaching her. easy.

    • @gene6794
      @gene6794 12 дней назад +6

      One or two small tats are fine for me, as long as they’re not stupid ones and have some form of meaning to them. Where they’re placed on the body definitely matters for me as well.

  • @Gabriella_Macy
    @Gabriella_Macy 25 дней назад +3

    Keep this kinda content coming 🔥

  • @Unknown-px6lm
    @Unknown-px6lm 22 дня назад +16

    Phone addict is the most common one we're done for boys

    • @ybctoocold
      @ybctoocold  22 дня назад +3

      We’re cooked 🤣

    • @rastafit23
      @rastafit23 20 дней назад

      😂😂

    • @Dougm1989
      @Dougm1989 16 дней назад +2

      To be fair though alot of ppl are regardless of gender

    • @Unknown-px6lm
      @Unknown-px6lm 16 дней назад

      @@Dougm1989 Yeah but women are affected at a higher level by it to the point they've become delusional and thinking 90% of men that they come across are unattractive due to see one attractive man on social media comparing them to every men they come across.

  • @clipsmovil8322
    @clipsmovil8322 16 дней назад +2

    hmmm, agree with everything except the phone addiction, to me that should be in the DANGER zone, its not only about the dopamine receptors, if she is addict to her phone is probably addict to external validation and always will have other guy in reserve if you dont give her the attention she want, not the attention she needs but the attention she wants

  • @imanolproaso3141
    @imanolproaso3141 16 дней назад +10

    Incel tier

  • @JayHoga82
    @JayHoga82 20 дней назад +1

    That list was awesome. Great job.

  • @insetticida5918
    @insetticida5918 День назад

    bro great video❤

  • @shitstorm7428
    @shitstorm7428 14 дней назад +6

    Social media is incredibly addictive and over the past decade it's only become more addictive and predatory, it just seems that everywhere I go people are just looking at their phones doom scrolling. On the street, people walking down the road with earphones and scrolling, in the gym, people sitting on the benches for ages scrolling and scrolling instead of actually lifting weights. Everyone feels the constant need to take a picture of something to show off online, their dinner, their shoes, a selfie especially girls do this. I feel very lucky that my current gf is not like this and sees sharing personal life on social media as a negative thing and pretty much only uses her phone for texting and calling, but my ex was a full on social media junkie and it was the most depressing relationship ever. In my opinion this the worst red flag as it is a building block to things like insecurity, phone addiction, too many guy friends and so on.

  • @yoshihisaokada4039
    @yoshihisaokada4039 4 дня назад

    The last one is everything imao

  • @enoch727
    @enoch727 6 дней назад

    I agree on most of the points except the guy friend one. I can understand why having too many of them might be a red flag but having one or two isn't necessarily a red-flag. We're all humans and I think the presumption that all the interaction we have with the opposite gender has lustful intent then it will just make dating more awkward.

  • @nathantanti8283
    @nathantanti8283 25 дней назад +3

    Bro this vid is funny af 😂

  • @53cconadailee46
    @53cconadailee46 День назад

    I would put simping for celebs a red flag. That's the girl that get's a DM from any relatively famous person and cheats on you with him.

  • @tobilliontv7276
    @tobilliontv7276 24 дня назад +5

    You forgot never apologies

  • @Klasik616
    @Klasik616 21 день назад +14

    Most girls out there have everything of this

  • @Guilherme-nc5li
    @Guilherme-nc5li 13 дней назад +1

    Agree with most of them, but you can tell it was a really young gut that did it

  • @nxamaya
    @nxamaya 6 дней назад +2

    Damn you guys are cooked, had a nice laugh though

    • @KryzysX
      @KryzysX 5 дней назад +1

      Elaborate.

    • @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060
      @tangerinesarebetterthanora7060 2 дня назад

      ​@@KryzysXover 99 percent of women have multiple of these "red flags". If you want to die a lonely virgin this is a good instructional video.

  • @Altair19979752S
    @Altair19979752S 12 часов назад

    I (male) have a lot of female friends. And with none of them I want a relationship. I mean just sex yeah, but that wouldn't be worth it and destroy the friendship. Some girls I know have predominantly male friends and they don't have them as a guy queue.
    Men and women can be friends without ever more.
    Also you get to know more girls, when you have female friends...

  • @bvdh9071
    @bvdh9071 19 дней назад +19

    red flag : votes liberal / get's unhinged when hearing the name '' Trump''

  • @JK-nj3bt
    @JK-nj3bt 24 дня назад +10

    Don't date at all its cringe

  • @Ieozawa
    @Ieozawa День назад

    can you do a video about red flag signs but like on an LDR type relationship