I honestly think it's left over from when marriages were pretty much arranged even in the states you pretty much had to marry someone from your church that your parents approved of.... so I always decided that this school of thought comes from the idea that I didn't get to pick my husband but I'm going to get to pick who I have fun with before I legally have a husband
I don't get it either. Before I got married I never had a bachelorette but if I did that would never be my intention or else why would I even bother to get married? I firmly believe people who have this thought process have absolutely NO business getting married. Just stay single and slut around if you feel you need to be with other people even though you committed to someone. It seems gross and deceptive.
That’s just it the group of men didn’t?? They were all well aware that the women they were fucking around with were there for a bachelorette party…. They were well aware. One of those women was getting married and chose to fuck around with that group anyways…. How is that good morals?? Good morals for those men to a bachelorette party?? They could’ve easily said sorry ladies we’re busy good night and walked away from the bachelorette party, but instead they decided to engage with it and participate And I’m betting you they probably did sleep with her. They just aren’t telling you about it because it makes them look better. 😂
@@boogermaiden Please tell me you didn’t just slam the morals of approximately 175 million people just because there are a few who act like this. Last I checked, there are people with good morals and judgment or with poor morals and judgment from everywhere, not just women in America.
I mean neither side of that was a gendered situation. Frat boys are still people and not always the caricature they are painted as. and women at bachelorette parties are not always as scandalous as presented here. these are clearly chosen because they are bad examples and not the norm. to be clear, there would be guys that wouldn't care, but a lot of them would. we see a lot of stories of people acting badly, but there are just as many people who would be appalled. many are in the comments.
For what it's worth, the frat boys in my university's anime club would've been appalled by those chicks - just the sexualized blood-drinking scenes from "The Case Studies of Vanitas" scandalized them enough for them to request that my co-president fast forward through the blood-drinking scenes of a completely different vampire anime that we watched later (this request was unsurprisingly seconded by most our asexual members including myself.) This would've deep fried their brains. To be fair, considering their personalities I doubt our frat boys would be in Vegas in the first place though, unless someone else dragged them there. Which is certainly possible, since one of them has a hard time saying no when people ask him for help and is constantly run ragged as a result...
Probs she will keep sleeping around, get knocked up several times, file for divorce and maybe DV and cash out half his assets plus alimony. I'm still puzzled at how with the whole RP movement these girls are still getting married.
Thought exactly the same thing! I love how adorable they are together and how happy and relaxed Charlotte is with him, so lovely to see her happiness from "being single for a really really long time". Waiting for the right guy really paid off, Mike seems so perfect for her
@@The_Crucible714If he’s an emergency contact on her phone his calls and texts will go through even when the phone is in “Do Not Disturb” mode. Turning the ringer off will make no difference. You have to switch the ringer off and turn it’s volume down. That's how it is with iPhones anyway.
I had bridal showers in two locations and no bachelorette party, but my husband (who didn’t want a bachelor party) was surprised by his friends with a paintball and dinner night. When my brother got married, my husband was his best man and took my brother out for rock climbing and dinner. They both said they wished they had myself and my soon-to-be sister in law there with them. That’s the type of celebration it should be! An intentional (but certainly not last) day to spend with all your best friends to CELEBRATE you getting married before you commit to making your spouse first priority.
I recently got married. My fiancé invited me to his bachelor party, I didn't want to drink at the bar but was down to hang out after, plus I had some last minute things to finish. The whole time he kept calling me, drunk, "babe are you done yet I love you I miss you, you don't have to rush but I miss you when will you be coming to join us" it was adorable and I will forever tease him about it
I like the story about the guy who was waking up from sleeping gas and kept saying the woman next to him was hot then said he was sorry and he was married and she said 'yeah, to me' and he kept saying how hot she was.
Congratulations on your wedding! And for finding someone who truly loves you. I hope you both have a wonderful life together.❤ I have a keeper too so I understand how hard it is to find one. I believe you have a great life ahead of you.
Currently planning my bachelorette for October and we are basically just planning a giant slumber party. We rented a cabin and we are just gonna bake cookies and have a paint night and watch movies. It shouldn’t be about going crazy or spending a week abroad and having a “last chance at freedom” . It should be about celebrating the next chapter of your life with your partner!
We had a co-cookout, bonfire. Wedding party and the people we would have invited to our bachelor/bachelorette parties. It was a fun way to relax and unwind before everything got crazy. It was a great night!
That’s what I did with my bridal party! A sleepover is all I wanted but I also wanted it to be somewhat of a surprise. So all the dinner and hotel arrangements were made in secret, I showed up day of (my fiancé drove me; he knew all about what was going down), and we all had an amazing time!
@Black_Void_ maybe log off? Sounds like you've surrounded yourself in a toxic online circle that keeps feeding you bs. That's not reality. You're being spoonfed stuff that's only a small percentage of people and it's presented in a way that makes it feel and look like majority. Again log off for while. Try watching different content so the algorithm starts opening your world.
I just got married on Sunday, July 28th and for my bachelorette I went out to dinner with my family and close friends. Then after my friends and sister and I went to the bar for a few drinks. At 10PM I called the groom to come crash my party. I was home by 11:30 PM. It was the best low key bachelorette party ever. ❤❤❤❤.
From ABQ. Albuquerque is pretty big… I worked on one side of town and lived on the other and taking the fast road still made my commute 30 minutes. Also, there is a neighboring town called Rio Rancho that Albs is currently swallowing lol
imagine she would have married Jeremy in July, how would she excuse her missing as for the marriage in august? soory hun i will be of at the weekend for my second wedding to Sebasthian?? ehhm tf
Charlotte in the middle of the video… *shakes arms and says, “look at my wings, look at ‘em fly!”* 😂bahaha!!!!!!😂 oh man, I never get enough of your random hilarious trolling! Even when it comes at your own expense! You are so sweet and funny Miss Charlotte! I adore your humor and wit! And I love that you didn’t edit out the part with Mike interrupting with his phone call! So sweet and so normal! lol. Also, your ad was SUPERB!!!! Perfection to a T! Always, always do your sponsor ads like this if you have the time! Best one I’ve seen! 👍🙏🫶🥰
I just got married in April. My “bachelorette party” was my mom, mom in law, and a couple girlfriends going to see a Beatles tribute band. No cheating or shenanigans. It was perfect 😊
for my best friend's bachelorette party, we did an escape room and then we set up a scavenger hunt of inside jokes inside her house for her to find her wedding gifts from us, and then we had a sleepover! it was great and nobody got cheated on :)
My husband and I did ours on the same night the Thursday before our wedding. We each went out with our respective groups for dinner and then all met up back at the hotel to hang together with our friends. It was so much fun.
It's human to not feel 100% body confident, so I'm not trying to invalidate how you feel, but I just wanted to say that everyone of a healthy size has wings of some description. Photoshop has taught us that they don't - but we all do in real life. They're totally normal and nothing to be ashamed of 💕 Be proud of those arms of your's. They help you constantly throughout the day, make life a lot easier, and deserve a little cushioning when they get to lay down and relax. They're part of you, and you are awesome - don't let anyone tell you differently 💖 With love from an old lady who also hated her wings until I realised that I was the only one who even noticed them 😊
@@saltycat662 Nothing wrong with that! You have a back-up plan for disasters, and in these days of an uncertain world, that's important! 😉😎 In all seriousness, though, those arms see you through life. You deserve to be kind to yourself 💖
As a resident of Albuquerque, watching Charlotte trying work out how to spell it.... I'm freaking dead 😂😂 most people don't even think we're part of the US tho so I definitely appreciate that.
My son has been stationed there for the last year, he’s not the biggest fan. He was in Colorado Springs for 4 years prior, and to be fair it’s beautiful there. He’s hoping to be stationed in Hawaii next!
I took my sister (who is getting married in less than two weeks) to Vegas for a sisters only bridesmaid/birthday trip, where we went to a bunch of food locations we had wanted to try, a magic show, BattleBots, and the Cirque du Soleil show KA. We had so much fun. It’s not Vegas that is the bad influence, it’s who YOU are and the people you are around that cause trouble.
@@elizabethalderman8749exactly my thoughts! I could care less about steppers, drinking, and gambling, but it’s a really affordable getaway, and a Gaga or a Katie Perry concert for a bachelorette party sounds like a fabulous idea
Oh my God, we need more men like this first guy the fact that they were so ashamed with this engaged women’s behavior actually makes me reallyproud of him. We need more people that don’t facilitate cheating ❤
I felt that Charlotte. It seems some of us can’t even get a real connection from someone and we are very good people. My life has changed too and it’s awesome to have someone you connect with more than you ever imagined possible. I love it my life is great
I was MOH twice . First couple wanted to have joined party for bachelorette and bachlor party. We met at grooms men flat. I made food, bake a cake , rest bring some cookies, chips and alcohol. We play "soon to be maried couples" games with them. We sat till 6 am in the morning. To this day they have a really good memories. Second time I did bachlorette party at pub , we had an upstairs for us , little pub, the food was from there , my friends sister bought a fireworks, I print brides photos and we put them on the walls , I made some cakes . We had some competitions like made a dress for bride with a toilet paper -they were very creative :) . We had our own laptop with music -everybody had fun , laugh and great time. I ask all the girls to write some letters to bride how they met or their memorie with her . Some write some funny poetry. And also her soon to be husband wrote one and she get a necklace from him. Simple , funny, sweet things. We had our "crazy" in a funny, simple way. Everybody had a great time. So , this thing "one time thing before tiding the knot" is absolutly bulshit! Whats a point of marriage if you wanna start it with cheating?
because they marry for the party ring and his money. He is simply an object to fulfull there desires just not sexual desires that is what cheating is for and why ill never marry. I know im not the latter :)
A friend of mine got engaged, got married, bought a house, became a stay at home wife, and 8 years later found out her husband had an entire secret family less than an hour away!!! He claimed to work for the FBI, which was partially true (he was fired & never told anyone). Because he worked for the FBI, he used the excuse of travel to FBI headquarters and "secret missions" to split his time between the two homes. Because of his "FBI job" social media was "not safe" for him or his wives to have, this was also his reasoning for having two cell phones, and for going no contact for weeks at a time. It was mind blowing and when she found out, I was there to help sell off ALL his belongings and to help her move out😂
@@Prettykittychimi lol, we're not all bad....yeah, that's right, I busted him because I, too, worked for the FBI at the time, lol. Very different capacity though, I was BAU
Who was she even going to live with? How was she going to explain why she has to divide her time between two households? Being single you can "go home" but when you're married... stuff gets way harder.
There was another story like that, a woman planning different weddings with different friend groups. Different bachelorette trips, money given etc and she disappeared with all the money.
It absolutely flabbergasts me how these people can go around having double lives like this? What does the girl in story #2 think she's going to get married twice and just... what... go back and forth between husbands? Lol. One week she is with one and the next she's with the other? LOL is she going to split Christmas with them? I don't get it. I can barely keep up with ONE husband and son.... i could never imagine living a double life?!!? And it's so sad, too, that she is stringing these men along. Because I imagine she is going to wind up having to choose one or the other... what does she think she's not going to get found out? I imagine she is going to post pictures on social media? Or if she doesn't have social media (which is unlikely) there is going to be SOMEONE in her bridal party who does have social media and is posting pictures and posting about it...
@@laughingcorrpseholly4136 it's possible she planned on marrying, draining their accounts, and disappearing. Especially if they're in a state where only one person has to sign and wait the allotted time to divorce. Our friend was married to a con artist for 10 years. It was a long con. She conned us too. When she was done with her husband who had supported her while she faked a chronic illness, she downloaded CSM to his computer and called the FBI. He went to prison after taking a deal. He was going to go away for 30 years. He got 7 and did 4.5. She fled the state after ripping off thousands and thousands of dollars. Don't underestimate a con artist. They are truly evil and have zero remorse. Our friend divorced her and she didn't even know it. Lol. We're in CA.
I remember when my friend’s brother had his bachelor party we stayed behind to watch his daughter who was 2, anyway her brother came back kinda wasted and this 6’4 firefighter immediately started crying and doing a baby voice while telling his toddler how much fun he had before falling asleep on the couch cuddling her it was adorable
I looooved it! I’m a huge sailor moon fan ❤grew up watching it on toonami after school everyday as a kid and I have all the seasons and movies on dvd ❤
I live in Albuquerque and I am not surprised!!! There was a trend going around on Tik Tok of the men in the area saying they dated “Amanda” 😂😂 this made my day!
You and Mike are so cute together, seeing you two interact and mimic each others mannerisms brings me so much joy. I love seeing him appear in your videos and hope you guys have an absolutely beautiful wedding ♥
I was having cancer treatment when I had my hen party - we went pottery painting, then out for cocktails and dinner. Very sedate, but absolutely lovely.
Hope you are doing well and wish you continued good health!!👋🏽 And that definitely sounds more my speed, if I were to ever have a party. I'd have to be dragged out of the house first. 😂
I was in Vegas hanging out with a bachelor patty me n my friend bumped into at a pool party... they were so sweet. All his friends were showing us pics of their kids.
I moved to another country to get married as my husband wasn't from the same one, so I don't have many friends around here. My bachelorette party was basically me, my mother-in-law and my husband's elderly great aunt in the kitchen, drinking whiskey and chatting while MIL did my nails 😂😂 it was fun My husband went for dinner with his friends, uncle, and my dad, so I know he behaved 😂😂😂
Me too except it was cause not one of my bachelorettes could make it… we were going to do a big houseboat party with both sides in attendance but I ended up having to do it with all dudes.. some of the bridesmaids felt bad and tried to make it up to me by going to an restaurant attached to an arcade. The service was awful, they had to complain lol. I tried to stay positive but everything was a failure except the boat was fun but I crashed by hubby’s party essentially…
My fiancee (now my wife of 17 years) and me had a joint bachelor/bachelorette party at a casino. It was so fun having the whole wedding party together and since we were from 2 different states, it really made the wedding more fun because they had all met and had a blast together
I first heard of Albuquerque when I was 4 from a Bugs Bunny cartoon when he goes on vacation and gets lost lol, he always pulls a map out and says " Ugh I should of took a left at Albuquerque!" 😂
1) Not every bride wants to go to Vegas for her bachelorette party. I’ve been a bride twice, and the “wildest” I got at my first engagement’s bachelorette was to have a sleepover at a friend’s house with her and her two daughters. We had pizza, painted our nails, watched Disney’s Cinderella (animated), and stayed up “late” with the girls (they both zonked out by 10pm). I didn’t want to bother with a bachelorette party when I got engaged the second time because the wedding was so small. 2) If you’re going to reveal the bride’s/groom’s infidelity to the family, do it way before the wedding reception. Depending on local laws or customs, it depends if the ceremony itself is legally binding or the local government receiving the completed marriage certificate is legally binding. Divorce is a huge mental and legal hassle even if your laws provide means for a “simple” divorce (no common property such as real estate or vehicles and no children).
Went to my 1st bachelorette and i thought it was going to be dramaa but it was actually really nice! Got a cabin in the mountains, went to the hot springs, played games and all the girls were so kind❤ loved the sailor moon reference Charlotte😊
Amanda thinking she can have two whole weddings going on at once. Like you said, I can barely handle one life. Amanda is out here juggling two. Bless her heart 😂
Both bachelorette parties I went to were so chill. One was painting with a twist followed by a sleepover at a fancy hotel watching Marvel Movies, and the other bachelorette party was watching our favorite anime at my house while playing a variation of a drinking game with mini cheesecakes instead.
My bachelorette party was me and my maid of honor going and getting haircuts and manicures, drinking a bunch of wine then grabbing some burgers. My husband had his friends go to the bowling alley where they had a room rented, where after bowling they had some pizza and beers while playing cards. Not every bachelor/ bachelorette party has to be a situation where cheating is encouraged.
I'm born and raised in Albuquerque. I laughed so hard at this clip!! You put a new spin on someones thoughts of Albuquerque for me. Believe me, I've heard a bunch, but yours topped the rest. ❤ Thanks for all the laughs I get from your channel!! BTW I'm too old to know any of these kids. 😊
The question is about the Amanda situation: so, which surname was she planning on using? Her maiden, Jeremy’s or Sebastian’s? She really didn’t think, did she?
The revenge p*rn photo is also crossing the line with the audience because voyeurism also requires consent. No one in that audience agreed to see that level of intimacy. There were a lot of ways to out her that didn't involve something illegal and violating all of your family and friends consent.
i completely agree. i didn’t even think about this when i made my comment about how fucked up that was, but this is just another reason why the groom was (in my opinion) worse than the bride. cheating is awful. but share a picture of them kissing, not revenge porn. i hope she presses charges.
OMG! This is definitely my most favorite Charlotte video.... the WINGS & Facial expression.... the singing 😂😂😂😂😂🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 for hours after! You are My Fave BESTIEEEEE! he he ❤
17:58 thank you! I hate when revenge spicy photos are seen as good revenge. you can air it all without it! making out photos, date photos, screenshots of their texts, friends who called them out. but in my opinion, that kind of revenge is only seen as supremely worse unless they did it to you first
Mike, don’t you dare cheat on our girl at the bachelor party. She’s one of a kind and an angel on Earth. If you do, we’ll have to make fun of you on this channel LOL! 😂 Love you Charlotte! ❤
I love Charlotte but she views everything through her own lens. We're not worried about lawsuits down here in the Savagelands. That was the fastest way for him to absolutely end any discussion of who was at fault, why he called off the wedding, or anything else that people would have tried to argue. This man was the victim and I will not turn him into the bad guy. She can act horrendous but, he's not allowed to retaliate in a non violent manner? Why should she be allowed to salvage her reputation and not face the full consequences of her actions? Why should she be allowed to minimize what she did? I am a woman and, in my opinion, that was not "revenge porn". That was receipts. Nobody would be even bringing up revenge porn or the law if it had been the bride who passed out pictures of a cheating groom. If that bride has the audacity to file a lawsuit against the groom, I hope a judge throws it out on the grounds that it was direct evidence of the offense he was accusing her of committing. If we're going to bring legal terms into public discourse then, we do it for both parties involved. She is not a damsel in distress. She was behaving like trash and got caught on camera and exposed. I have zero sympathy for her and a great big pat on the back for that man. I hope he's healing from the betrayal and living his best life.
@@Little_Alien_Lost Two wrongs don't make a right. I'm also a woman, in case that matters. The fact that him showing that picture to everyone (without the consent of anyone involved, mind you) is a form of revenge porn does not minimize what she did - in my opinion. She did a shitty thing, and so did his friend. However, I know I would personally be more upset with him at that time for springing an image like that without warning than I would be about her cheating. Not because I don't think it's really disgusting behavior of her to cheat, but because his act kind of overshadows hers in the moment. Her cheating mostly affected him. His actions affected everyone at the table, after he made everyone think this was going to be a fun celebration. That's also pretty shitty behavior. But I guess good for him that he had his mic-drop moment and gets to feel good about it? I would definitely say the same if the roles were reversed. This would be gross if it was her showing pictures of him too. You don't just hand out naughty pictures of someone else without their consent, no matter what gender they are. It's wrong, and gross. There were so many ways to let everyone know what she did in a way that wouldn't let her get away with it, and he chose a gross way.
@@LittleBlueTeacat ~ I don't agree. That's OK, though. Neither one of us know them and arguing with strangers on the internet will not change either of our minds. We both have our own moral compass and clouds of words on the internet should not be enough to shake those. You're the type of person who takes the high road and that's cool. I am absolutely not ever the bigger person because I have learned, the hard way, that strategy doesn't work out well for me. I have zero problem with accepting consequences for my actions. If I know that the offending person can't take responsibility for shitty behavior, I will one up them on that, too. This groom can go back and apologize to the people that actually matter. Anyone who cares about him will understand that his behavior was motivated by betrayal and anger. He didn't traumatize anyone. If you're traumatized by the sight of two people having sex, you're never going to survive this life. He didn't send them pictures of a beheading. You sound very young and inexperienced in dealing with difficult situations. I sincerely hope that you get to stay the way that you are and never have to have your view of the world altered by harsher realities. Honestly. I have no ill will or hard feelings toward you. We just don't see the same things.
@@Little_Alien_Lost No hard feelings either. Though if being middle-aged is young and inexperienced... Thank you? I've dealt with my share of hardships in life, but nothing good came out of returning crappy behavior with equal or increased crappy behavior. It just made more of a mess in my experience. I just don't want sexual images of someone close to me thrown at me without warning, and I think that's not too much to ask. It doesn't have to be traumatic for someone to not want that.
My party went to a male strip club and 90% of us would have rather gone to a tea party. The one bridesmaid that pushed for the club was married and flirting hard core with a dancer. I think we were there for an hour, maybe two, but it was just a sad place (lonely, damaged, and weepy). I just wanted to hug everyone (fully clothed) and listen to their pain.
Something about the adorable fiancé interrupting makes my favorite tea channel even more fabulous. Bravo future Mr. Char Char (as I like to call her). Thank you for being worthy of our Queen.
Also. I adored my bachelorette. We went to Santa Cruz Beach boardwalk, road some rides, played arcade games, went mini golfing, and had a bonfire on the beach with a few drinks. It was absolutely delightful
We went to Thailand for my friend's unofficial bachelorette.. We did island hopping, snorkeling, ate our hearts out, shopped, did some cultural stuff and topped it off with an amazing make you feel like you have no bones in your body massages! It was the best 4 days!
My sister’s bachelorette party we went bar hoping, dancing, and drinking, of course … one of the bridesmaid’s husband was our chauffeur. We had blast, and he kept laughing at our drunk asses all night 🤣🤣
As a long time fan from Albuquerque, this is how we get noticed... damn. Thanks Amanda with as much sarcasm as possible... We would like to not claim her. There are plenty of lovely people out here.
I gotta agree with Charlotte on the photos of the bride cheating. That's not being a petty king, that's committing a crime. Cheating, as horrible as it is for the person being cheated on, is not illegal.
7:01 lol when I was little I didn’t know it was a real place. Just an imaginary location, like Transylvania. And Bugs Bunny couldn’t help but take a wrong turn there. 🤯 when I found out it’s real and in the US! Dnt get me started about Transylvania 😅🤪
The whole "it's my last chance to be crazy before I get married" attitude just kills me. I will never understand.
Same! It's weird
I honestly think it's left over from when marriages were pretty much arranged even in the states you pretty much had to marry someone from your church that your parents approved of.... so I always decided that this school of thought comes from the idea that I didn't get to pick my husband but I'm going to get to pick who I have fun with before I legally have a husband
They are not ready to get married if they feel that way. They just like the idea of a wedding and not a marriage.
Couldn't agree more. You can be "crazy" without cheating though.
I don't get it either. Before I got married I never had a bachelorette but if I did that would never be my intention or else why would I even bother to get married? I firmly believe people who have this thought process have absolutely NO business getting married. Just stay single and slut around if you feel you need to be with other people even though you committed to someone. It seems gross and deceptive.
For the first story, when a group of men in their early twenties have more maturity and morality than you, it's time to reevaluate your life
That’s just it the group of men didn’t?? They were all well aware that the women they were fucking around with were there for a bachelorette party…. They were well aware. One of those women was getting married and chose to fuck around with that group anyways…. How is that good morals?? Good morals for those men to a bachelorette party?? They could’ve easily said sorry ladies we’re busy good night and walked away from the bachelorette party, but instead they decided to engage with it and participate
And I’m betting you they probably did sleep with her. They just aren’t telling you about it because it makes them look better. 😂
Right ! How is that Even possible 💀?
Tell that to women in America 😂
@@boogermaiden
...The crap you talking about?
@@boogermaiden Please tell me you didn’t just slam the morals of approximately 175 million people just because there are a few who act like this. Last I checked, there are people with good morals and judgment or with poor morals and judgment from everywhere, not just women in America.
You know its bad when the *Frat Boys* are embarrassed for you!
I mean neither side of that was a gendered situation. Frat boys are still people and not always the caricature they are painted as. and women at bachelorette parties are not always as scandalous as presented here.
these are clearly chosen because they are bad examples and not the norm.
to be clear, there would be guys that wouldn't care, but a lot of them would. we see a lot of stories of people acting badly, but there are just as many people who would be appalled. many are in the comments.
For what it's worth, the frat boys in my university's anime club would've been appalled by those chicks - just the sexualized blood-drinking scenes from "The Case Studies of Vanitas" scandalized them enough for them to request that my co-president fast forward through the blood-drinking scenes of a completely different vampire anime that we watched later (this request was unsurprisingly seconded by most our asexual members including myself.) This would've deep fried their brains.
To be fair, considering their personalities I doubt our frat boys would be in Vegas in the first place though, unless someone else dragged them there. Which is certainly possible, since one of them has a hard time saying no when people ask him for help and is constantly run ragged as a result...
@@Amy_the_Lizard yeah you know there are Fraternity boys and then there
FRAT BOIS™️
Imagine marrying someone you think is a loser... says more about her than it does about him. He deserves better.
$$$$$$$$$$$ 🤩
Probs she will keep sleeping around, get knocked up several times, file for divorce and maybe DV and cash out half his assets plus alimony.
I'm still puzzled at how with the whole RP movement these girls are still getting married.
Literally!!! That's what I was thinking. Like not only is that really sad for him but girl why are you marrying someone you don't like????????
@@brencislloyd9517 not enough money in the world to make me marry someone I thought so lowly of… like helloooo what century is this? 😂😂
She probably wants the whole big hugely expensive wedding but hasn’t realized, or doesn’t care, that a lifetime of marriage is supposed to come next.
Omg Mike calling going "I wanted to hear it from you!" Instead of settling for the text is so wholesome and a big green flag SO EXCITED FOR Y'ALL.
How *VERY DARE* he interrupt the queen when she’s filming!
@@The_Crucible714 the AUDACITY 🤣
Thought exactly the same thing! I love how adorable they are together and how happy and relaxed Charlotte is with him, so lovely to see her happiness from "being single for a really really long time". Waiting for the right guy really paid off, Mike seems so perfect for her
@@The_Crucible714If he’s an emergency contact on her phone his calls and texts will go through even when the phone is in “Do Not Disturb” mode. Turning the ringer off will make no difference. You have to switch the ringer off and turn it’s volume down. That's how it is with iPhones anyway.
Lol, I actually thought the opposite - that that's a bit of a red flag waving
My bachelorette involved candle making, board games, a nice meal and then a sleepover where we watched Twilight 😭 Y'all are wild 😂
Were you married as teen?..... Twilight, really girl?
Really??! 😆😅
I'm side eyeing you so hard right now and totally judging
I had bridal showers in two locations and no bachelorette party, but my husband (who didn’t want a bachelor party) was surprised by his friends with a paintball and dinner night. When my brother got married, my husband was his best man and took my brother out for rock climbing and dinner. They both said they wished they had myself and my soon-to-be sister in law there with them. That’s the type of celebration it should be! An intentional (but certainly not last) day to spend with all your best friends to CELEBRATE you getting married before you commit to making your spouse first priority.
I did the exact same thing for my bachelorette!!!
The three of us watched "Mannequin" at mine I think.
You had me at Twilight
I recently got married. My fiancé invited me to his bachelor party, I didn't want to drink at the bar but was down to hang out after, plus I had some last minute things to finish. The whole time he kept calling me, drunk, "babe are you done yet I love you I miss you, you don't have to rush but I miss you when will you be coming to join us" it was adorable and I will forever tease him about it
Those guys are keepers. Nothing beats feeling loved by the person you love❤❤❤
I like the story about the guy who was waking up from sleeping gas and kept saying the woman next to him was hot then said he was sorry and he was married and she said 'yeah, to me' and he kept saying how hot she was.
That’s both funny and sweet. 😊
That's so cute
Congratulations on your wedding! And for finding someone who truly loves you. I hope you both have a wonderful life together.❤ I have a keeper too so I understand how hard it is to find one. I believe you have a great life ahead of you.
Currently planning my bachelorette for October and we are basically just planning a giant slumber party. We rented a cabin and we are just gonna bake cookies and have a paint night and watch movies. It shouldn’t be about going crazy or spending a week abroad and having a “last chance at freedom” . It should be about celebrating the next chapter of your life with your partner!
I totally want to do that for mine one day!😊
We had a co-cookout, bonfire. Wedding party and the people we would have invited to our bachelor/bachelorette parties. It was a fun way to relax and unwind before everything got crazy. It was a great night!
That’s what I did with my bridal party! A sleepover is all I wanted but I also wanted it to be somewhat of a surprise. So all the dinner and hotel arrangements were made in secret, I showed up day of (my fiancé drove me; he knew all about what was going down), and we all had an amazing time!
That sounds amazing!! I hope you have a great bachelorette & wedding
@Black_Void_ maybe log off? Sounds like you've surrounded yourself in a toxic online circle that keeps feeding you bs.
That's not reality. You're being spoonfed stuff that's only a small percentage of people and it's presented in a way that makes it feel and look like majority.
Again log off for while.
Try watching different content so the algorithm starts opening your world.
I just got married on Sunday, July 28th and for my bachelorette I went out to dinner with my family and close friends. Then after my friends and sister and I went to the bar for a few drinks. At 10PM I called the groom to come crash my party. I was home by 11:30 PM. It was the best low key bachelorette party ever. ❤❤❤❤.
Sounds like a dream
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Sounds like a wonderful night. Congratulations on your nuptials.
As soon as Charlotte "WE HAVE AN UPDATE" I screamed! I CRAVE CLOSURE!
Love how Mike is so in love with you Charlotte
you can even hear it in his voice
i am so happy for you guys
Right?!
I’m from too small a country, when Charlotte called Albuquerque small, I was simultaneously like: “wow, that’s big” 😂
lol Yeah I come from a town in Ohio USA that has a population of just over 400 people
Same. Half a million people is small ?! Different worlds fr
i come from a small town in South Dakota with about 200 people in it 😂
From ABQ. Albuquerque is pretty big… I worked on one side of town and lived on the other and taking the fast road still made my commute 30 minutes. Also, there is a neighboring town called Rio Rancho that Albs is currently swallowing lol
I come from a small NC town and that's a lot of people. Lol. Love you Charlotte, you're from Canada, so I get it.
Haha the judgement you were trying to keep off your face when he said "everyone was a stallion and they knew how to talk too"
Sooo… “Mr Ed?” 🤔
I’m sorry that had me dying. To call you and your bros stallions unironically…😂😂😂 Stop it.
Men remember some of us were/are horse girls. You're a stallion? I have a vet who can help with that.
TBF, he seemed a bit young. Hopefully he'll grow into the saddle 😂
I was like, bro, chill. You are not
The panic for a part 2 on the Amanda story, the sweet sweet relief of an IMMEDIATE part 2. Thank you. Thank you so much Charlotte.
Right!? I was flabbergasted about this story. I feel sad for the men...
imagine she would have married Jeremy in July, how would she excuse her missing as for the marriage in august? soory hun i will be of at the weekend for my second wedding to Sebasthian?? ehhm tf
That was crazy what are the odds those too ladies would be at the same shops at the same time
Two that we know of...Amanda is GROOM GREEDY!
@@nicoleschren3830 Probably as a business trip or girls weekend or smth like that
Charlotte in the middle of the video… *shakes arms and says, “look at my wings, look at ‘em fly!”* 😂bahaha!!!!!!😂 oh man, I never get enough of your random hilarious trolling! Even when it comes at your own expense! You are so sweet and funny Miss Charlotte! I adore your humor and wit! And I love that you didn’t edit out the part with Mike interrupting with his phone call! So sweet and so normal! lol. Also, your ad was SUPERB!!!! Perfection to a T! Always, always do your sponsor ads like this if you have the time! Best one I’ve seen! 👍🙏🫶🥰
Mike is so adorable. “ I just wanted to hear from you.” Hearts melting he’s so sweet hi Mike
I just got married in April. My “bachelorette party” was my mom, mom in law, and a couple girlfriends going to see a Beatles tribute band. No cheating or shenanigans. It was perfect 😊
Sounds like a wonderful time to me too❤
I went to a restaurant with my closest friends, bridal party and same age cousins. No nasty. No last fling before marriage. I didn’t even drink.
Sounds like good clean fun
for my best friend's bachelorette party, we did an escape room and then we set up a scavenger hunt of inside jokes inside her house for her to find her wedding gifts from us, and then we had a sleepover! it was great and nobody got cheated on :)
My husband and I did ours on the same night the Thursday before our wedding. We each went out with our respective groups for dinner and then all met up back at the hotel to hang together with our friends. It was so much fun.
Charlotte shaking her arms and joking about it made me feel a million times better about myself ❤ I've always hated my "wings"
It's human to not feel 100% body confident, so I'm not trying to invalidate how you feel, but I just wanted to say that everyone of a healthy size has wings of some description. Photoshop has taught us that they don't - but we all do in real life. They're totally normal and nothing to be ashamed of 💕
Be proud of those arms of your's. They help you constantly throughout the day, make life a lot easier, and deserve a little cushioning when they get to lay down and relax. They're part of you, and you are awesome - don't let anyone tell you differently 💖
With love from an old lady who also hated her wings until I realised that I was the only one who even noticed them 😊
She barely has any wings. You should see mine. Mine are big enough to fly me to Albuquerque.
@@saltycat662 Nothing wrong with that! You have a back-up plan for disasters, and in these days of an uncertain world, that's important! 😉😎
In all seriousness, though, those arms see you through life. You deserve to be kind to yourself 💖
I get confused when I'm messaging two people at the same time, never mind two separate lives.😂
And sometimes accidentally sent the wrong text to the wrong person lol
Exactly!!!!
@@_danfiz same 🤣 then I get a panic attack when this happens 😅
As a resident of Albuquerque, watching Charlotte trying work out how to spell it.... I'm freaking dead 😂😂 most people don't even think we're part of the US tho so I definitely appreciate that.
Don't worry, all of us Better Call Saul fans from all over the world know Albuquerque is in the US xd
Makes more sense why even locals don't often spell it out, Burque or ABQ ftw!
I definitely thought it was in Canada like Alberta 😅
My son has been stationed there for the last year, he’s not the biggest fan. He was in Colorado Springs for 4 years prior, and to be fair it’s beautiful there. He’s hoping to be stationed in Hawaii next!
I’m wondering if the other guy was in Santa Fe and she was lighting up La Bajada hill back and forth 😂
As somone who grew up in Albuquerque I died laughing at your attempt to spell it. We mostly just say ABQ it’s much easier 😂
So weird to see an abq story on here lmao
I took my sister (who is getting married in less than two weeks) to Vegas for a sisters only bridesmaid/birthday trip, where we went to a bunch of food locations we had wanted to try, a magic show, BattleBots, and the Cirque du Soleil show KA. We had so much fun. It’s not Vegas that is the bad influence, it’s who YOU are and the people you are around that cause trouble.
Battle Bots!!!
Now THAT'S fun!
😁👍
@@Zardox2 I envy the KA of Cirque du Soleil :)
@@Zardox2 It is shockingly affordable and fantastic fun - if you get the chance to go you should!
@@agnes15101968 It’s an incredible show, and we’re hoping to plan a trip back to see “O” someday
@@elizabethalderman8749exactly my thoughts! I could care less about steppers, drinking, and gambling, but it’s a really affordable getaway, and a Gaga or a Katie Perry concert for a bachelorette party sounds like a fabulous idea
Oh my God, we need more men like this first guy the fact that they were so ashamed with this engaged women’s behavior actually makes me reallyproud of him. We need more people that don’t facilitate cheating ❤
@@emmahmicat8435 Same here! This guy is more mature than this bridezilla and her mean girls put together.
I felt that Charlotte. It seems some of us can’t even get a real connection from someone and we are very good people. My life has changed too and it’s awesome to have someone you connect with more than you ever imagined possible. I love it my life is great
I was MOH twice . First couple wanted to have joined party for bachelorette and bachlor party. We met at grooms men flat. I made food, bake a cake , rest bring some cookies, chips and alcohol. We play "soon to be maried couples" games with them. We sat till 6 am in the morning. To this day they have a really good memories. Second time I did bachlorette party at pub , we had an upstairs for us , little pub, the food was from there , my friends sister bought a fireworks, I print brides photos and we put them on the walls , I made some cakes . We had some competitions like made a dress for bride with a toilet paper -they were very creative :) . We had our own laptop with music -everybody had fun , laugh and great time. I ask all the girls to write some letters to bride how they met or their memorie with her . Some write some funny poetry. And also her soon to be husband wrote one and she get a necklace from him. Simple , funny, sweet things. We had our "crazy" in a funny, simple way. Everybody had a great time. So , this thing "one time thing before tiding the knot" is absolutly bulshit! Whats a point of marriage if you wanna start it with cheating?
because they marry for the party ring and his money. He is simply an object to fulfull there desires just not sexual desires that is what cheating is for and why ill never marry. I know im not the latter :)
A friend of mine got engaged, got married, bought a house, became a stay at home wife, and 8 years later found out her husband had an entire secret family less than an hour away!!! He claimed to work for the FBI, which was partially true (he was fired & never told anyone). Because he worked for the FBI, he used the excuse of travel to FBI headquarters and "secret missions" to split his time between the two homes. Because of his "FBI job" social media was "not safe" for him or his wives to have, this was also his reasoning for having two cell phones, and for going no contact for weeks at a time. It was mind blowing and when she found out, I was there to help sell off ALL his belongings and to help her move out😂
Ohhh lord. I would never date anyone who says they work for the FBI. Period.
@@Prettykittychimi lol, we're not all bad....yeah, that's right, I busted him because I, too, worked for the FBI at the time, lol. Very different capacity though, I was BAU
Omg!!! You guys need to contact the podcast Something Was Wrong! Or make your own long RUclips video!
@@marriedtoaheathen so many people lie about being FBI to run romance scams. It's crazy !
No social (or won’t let you on it) and two phones … 🚩
“Look at my wings. Look at them fly 🦋🦋” *flapping squish sounds*
Our Potato Queen, killing us with laughter once again 😂😂😂💀💀💀
Finding the right person to get married and share your life is something that not all of us can find, some people don't understand how lucky they are.
THIS
I feel blessed every day and night having the phenomenal husband that I have! 27+ years of marriage and going strong. 💚🙏
Amanda got Lucky twice it seems
Exactly. My ex boyfriend of 5 years was exactly like this woman they are se* addicts . And possibly narcissist too.
Relationships are overrated. Dog dad for life 🎉
“Can’t ride two horses with one ass sugar bean!”- love that quote! But truth for Amanda! 😮
She went from two weddings in a month to being single and on the streets. Good job Amanda.
Who was she even going to live with? How was she going to explain why she has to divide her time between two households? Being single you can "go home" but when you're married... stuff gets way harder.
This quote always cracks me up bc I'm a trick rider 😂❤
I always think of the romcom Sweet Home Alabama when I hear that quote. It’s my favorite romcom tbh. ❤
Love that movie ❤
Thanks!
For my friends bachlorette, we volunteered at a shelter and got to play with and walk the dogs. 10/10, best hens party I've ever been too.
This sounds amazing
I may have to adopt this idea I love this, I don’t drink, I get overstimulated with too many people, but animals, I’m there
What an awesome idea. I bet it was so much fun!
This is awesome . I'd love doing this .
Now that is what I call a good time I love animals more than I like people so that is what I call a win-win
There was another story like that, a woman planning different weddings with different friend groups. Different bachelorette trips, money given etc and she disappeared with all the money.
I wasn't expecting the end 😂😂😂
i expected there to be twins
It absolutely flabbergasts me how these people can go around having double lives like this? What does the girl in story #2 think she's going to get married twice and just... what... go back and forth between husbands? Lol. One week she is with one and the next she's with the other? LOL is she going to split Christmas with them? I don't get it. I can barely keep up with ONE husband and son.... i could never imagine living a double life?!!? And it's so sad, too, that she is stringing these men along. Because I imagine she is going to wind up having to choose one or the other... what does she think she's not going to get found out? I imagine she is going to post pictures on social media? Or if she doesn't have social media (which is unlikely) there is going to be SOMEONE in her bridal party who does have social media and is posting pictures and posting about it...
It's actually a common con. Con artists know what they're doing. I was shocked to find out one of my friends was running a long con.
@@laughingcorrpseholly4136 it's possible she planned on marrying, draining their accounts, and disappearing. Especially if they're in a state where only one person has to sign and wait the allotted time to divorce.
Our friend was married to a con artist for 10 years. It was a long con. She conned us too. When she was done with her husband who had supported her while she faked a chronic illness, she downloaded CSM to his computer and called the FBI. He went to prison after taking a deal. He was going to go away for 30 years. He got 7 and did 4.5. She fled the state after ripping off thousands and thousands of dollars.
Don't underestimate a con artist. They are truly evil and have zero remorse.
Our friend divorced her and she didn't even know it. Lol. We're in CA.
I remember when my friend’s brother had his bachelor party we stayed behind to watch his daughter who was 2, anyway her brother came back kinda wasted and this 6’4 firefighter immediately started crying and doing a baby voice while telling his toddler how much fun he had before falling asleep on the couch cuddling her it was adorable
The Charlotte Says/Sailor Moon Theme was Chef’s kiss! Had me rolling 😂
😂😂😂❤❤❤ it was awesome
Thank you! I was looking for this goddamn post!!! I knew I wasn't hearing that wrong!!!❤❤❤❤
I looooved it! I’m a huge sailor moon fan ❤grew up watching it on toonami after school everyday as a kid and I have all the seasons and movies on dvd ❤
SAILOR MOON! One of my favorites!!
Yesss 😂
Every time I hear the name of that city, I always think about that Bugs Bunny line, "I knew I should have made that left turn at Albuquerque!"
Me too
😂
Bugs put them on the map for most of us honestly 😂😂😂
Haha yes!!
Literally what I came here to say!!!
The more Charlotte said Albuquerque, the more I expected a cut-away to Weird Al singing "Albuquerque" lol
I live in Albuquerque and I am not surprised!!! There was a trend going around on Tik Tok of the men in the area saying they dated “Amanda” 😂😂 this made my day!
Amandas in Albuquerque lmao. I also live in Albuquerque 😂
😂😅
Why are we always getting recognized for the weird shit? lmao
You and Mike are so cute together, seeing you two interact and mimic each others mannerisms brings me so much joy. I love seeing him appear in your videos and hope you guys have an absolutely beautiful wedding ♥
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!! You make me super happy and turned me into a sassy petty person! Love your this stuff and keep up the good work!!!
I was having cancer treatment when I had my hen party - we went pottery painting, then out for cocktails and dinner. Very sedate, but absolutely lovely.
That sounds lovely!
Love that!
That sounds fun to me.
Hope you are doing well and wish you continued good health!!👋🏽 And that definitely sounds more my speed, if I were to ever have a party. I'd have to be dragged out of the house first. 😂
I hope you are doing well. Your hen party sounds lovely.
The sailor moon theme at the end solidified I have been subscribed to the right channel 😂
I was in Vegas hanging out with a bachelor patty me n my friend bumped into at a pool party... they were so sweet. All his friends were showing us pics of their kids.
We bow to you the Bethrothed Potato Queen and her soon King Consort!! 😂❤
"I love you but I will talk to you later" SO CUTE!!!!
17:55 “We are down to be petty, but we are not down to go to jail.” Best CD quote so far. 😂😂😂
I spent my bachelorette party with my 3 closest friends in a cabin in small town. We toured a cave and went antiquing. It was awesome!!
That sounds fun!!!
@@DawnKellyMedia It was wonderful! 10/10 would recommend!
I moved to another country to get married as my husband wasn't from the same one, so I don't have many friends around here. My bachelorette party was basically me, my mother-in-law and my husband's elderly great aunt in the kitchen, drinking whiskey and chatting while MIL did my nails 😂😂 it was fun
My husband went for dinner with his friends, uncle, and my dad, so I know he behaved 😂😂😂
That is so awesome 😊
Me too except it was cause not one of my bachelorettes could make it… we were going to do a big houseboat party with both sides in attendance but I ended up having to do it with all dudes.. some of the bridesmaids felt bad and tried to make it up to me by going to an restaurant attached to an arcade. The service was awful, they had to complain lol. I tried to stay positive but everything was a failure except the boat was fun but I crashed by hubby’s party essentially…
Hahaha love every bit of this comment! ❤
@Cafeallday222 damn I'm sorry to hear that :(( at least the guys were cool about it!!
@@sbjo it was very wholesome ^^
My fiancee (now my wife of 17 years) and me had a joint bachelor/bachelorette party at a casino. It was so fun having the whole wedding party together and since we were from 2 different states, it really made the wedding more fun because they had all met and had a blast together
When Mike greets us because he knows we come with you as a package deal. 👌🏼😁
Best stepdad ever😂❤
😂😂😂❤
Charlotte putting Mike in his place was all I needed and more. So kind gentle and hilarious.
The phone going off at that time was perfect with the ringtone 🤣🤣
I first heard of Albuquerque when I was 4 from a Bugs Bunny cartoon when he goes on vacation and gets lost lol, he always pulls a map out and says " Ugh I should of took a left at Albuquerque!" 😂
Same! 😂lol
OMG yes. That reference was the legit first way I heard about it
😂😂😂😂 I loved Bugs Bunny!
That story about Amanda took a left at Albuquerque.😂
1) Not every bride wants to go to Vegas for her bachelorette party. I’ve been a bride twice, and the “wildest” I got at my first engagement’s bachelorette was to have a sleepover at a friend’s house with her and her two daughters. We had pizza, painted our nails, watched Disney’s Cinderella (animated), and stayed up “late” with the girls (they both zonked out by 10pm). I didn’t want to bother with a bachelorette party when I got engaged the second time because the wedding was so small.
2) If you’re going to reveal the bride’s/groom’s infidelity to the family, do it way before the wedding reception. Depending on local laws or customs, it depends if the ceremony itself is legally binding or the local government receiving the completed marriage certificate is legally binding. Divorce is a huge mental and legal hassle even if your laws provide means for a “simple” divorce (no common property such as real estate or vehicles and no children).
2:19 "money," Charlotte. The answer is money.
I’m doing a sleepover for my bachelorette! Or both parties having a cook out (In like 7 years) And if ANYONE CHEATS?!? IM SNITCHINGGGGGG
Went to my 1st bachelorette and i thought it was going to be dramaa but it was actually really nice! Got a cabin in the mountains, went to the hot springs, played games and all the girls were so kind❤ loved the sailor moon reference Charlotte😊
“Do you get up like super early or something?” I felt that😂😂
I live in Albuquerque. This is the most tea to come out of here in years! 😂
Amanda thinking she can have two whole weddings going on at once. Like you said, I can barely handle one life. Amanda is out here juggling two. Bless her heart 😂
Both bachelorette parties I went to were so chill. One was painting with a twist followed by a sleepover at a fancy hotel watching Marvel Movies, and the other bachelorette party was watching our favorite anime at my house while playing a variation of a drinking game with mini cheesecakes instead.
My bachelorette party was me and my maid of honor going and getting haircuts and manicures, drinking a bunch of wine then grabbing some burgers. My husband had his friends go to the bowling alley where they had a room rented, where after bowling they had some pizza and beers while playing cards. Not every bachelor/ bachelorette party has to be a situation where cheating is encouraged.
"His Flabbers, were Gasted"!!! lol hilarious!
That was so sweet!!! You have a good man Char!!! ❤❤❤❤ He just wanted to hear the good news from you!! He loves your voice!!
I'm from Albuquerque! My ears perked up when she said that 😂😂
Whenever we get attention it's always some messed up stuff. 🤣
@@meggsy82 That's true, sadly lol
Hey at least it wasn't a murder for us this time! 😂
The way I ran to Facebook to find them 😂
From Santa Fe nm! I laughed so hard cuz she's having such a hard time saying Albuquerque!!! Lol 😆
I’m ecstatic for this wedding bachelorette DRAMA
I'm born and raised in Albuquerque. I laughed so hard at this clip!! You put a new spin on someones thoughts of Albuquerque for me. Believe me, I've heard a bunch, but yours topped the rest. ❤ Thanks for all the laughs I get from your channel!!
BTW I'm too old to know any of these kids. 😊
“ I knew I should’ve taken that left turn at Albuquerque!”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@TheGoddessBast 😎👍
The question is about the Amanda situation: so, which surname was she planning on using? Her maiden, Jeremy’s or Sebastian’s? She really didn’t think, did she?
I think she was waiting to decide on which would result in a bigger divorce settlement in the future, then ghost the other.
Maybe they both had really common last names, like both were Smith or Jones. She was most likely planning to take the money & run
Maybe she was planning on keeping her own?
She probably wouldn't have changed it. A lot of people don't bc it's genuinely such a hassle getting everything changed lol
@keylimelindsay it's not really a hassle to get it done, but getting it reversed is a real b!tch
Charlotte singing the sailor moon theme song at the end is the best 😂
The revenge p*rn photo is also crossing the line with the audience because voyeurism also requires consent. No one in that audience agreed to see that level of intimacy. There were a lot of ways to out her that didn't involve something illegal and violating all of your family and friends consent.
i completely agree. i didn’t even think about this when i made my comment about how fucked up that was, but this is just another reason why the groom was (in my opinion) worse than the bride. cheating is awful. but share a picture of them kissing, not revenge porn. i hope she presses charges.
I really hope there wasn’t kids there.
what if the image censored private bits would that cover him?
My thought too. Not cool.
I just wonder if that party took place before or after the legal wedding.
Can we all agree that Charlotte's humour is literally so real 😂
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OMG! This is definitely my most favorite Charlotte video.... the WINGS & Facial expression.... the singing 😂😂😂😂😂🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 for hours after! You are My Fave BESTIEEEEE! he he ❤
17:58 thank you! I hate when revenge spicy photos are seen as good revenge. you can air it all without it! making out photos, date photos, screenshots of their texts, friends who called them out. but in my opinion, that kind of revenge is only seen as supremely worse unless they did it to you first
Mike, don’t you dare cheat on our girl at the bachelor party. She’s one of a kind and an angel on Earth. If you do, we’ll have to make fun of you on this channel LOL! 😂 Love you Charlotte! ❤
Mike would never...look at his bride, she's beautiful!!❤❤ Mike is hot too!!
Remember, Charlotte is the Petty Queen and she moves in the shadows. She’ll take care of it before he even knows what hit him lol
@@kaj73 He better not. He seems like an amazing guy and I don’t want to be wrong.
@@caljones She’s a badass 😎
Charlotte would slice off his braciole and put em’ on pizza.
The phone call from Mike was adorable. You two are couples goals.🥰
😆 i like that my captions changed Charlotte saying "fiancée" to " Beyonce" 😂 yes, I'm easily amused. 😂
Wow. The story with the guy putting the spicy photos under all the chairs had my jaw hanging! That was crazy!
I love Charlotte but she views everything through her own lens. We're not worried about lawsuits down here in the Savagelands. That was the fastest way for him to absolutely end any discussion of who was at fault, why he called off the wedding, or anything else that people would have tried to argue. This man was the victim and I will not turn him into the bad guy. She can act horrendous but, he's not allowed to retaliate in a non violent manner? Why should she be allowed to salvage her reputation and not face the full consequences of her actions? Why should she be allowed to minimize what she did? I am a woman and, in my opinion, that was not "revenge porn". That was receipts. Nobody would be even bringing up revenge porn or the law if it had been the bride who passed out pictures of a cheating groom. If that bride has the audacity to file a lawsuit against the groom, I hope a judge throws it out on the grounds that it was direct evidence of the offense he was accusing her of committing. If we're going to bring legal terms into public discourse then, we do it for both parties involved. She is not a damsel in distress. She was behaving like trash and got caught on camera and exposed. I have zero sympathy for her and a great big pat on the back for that man. I hope he's healing from the betrayal and living his best life.
@@Little_Alien_Lost Two wrongs don't make a right. I'm also a woman, in case that matters. The fact that him showing that picture to everyone (without the consent of anyone involved, mind you) is a form of revenge porn does not minimize what she did - in my opinion. She did a shitty thing, and so did his friend.
However, I know I would personally be more upset with him at that time for springing an image like that without warning than I would be about her cheating. Not because I don't think it's really disgusting behavior of her to cheat, but because his act kind of overshadows hers in the moment. Her cheating mostly affected him. His actions affected everyone at the table, after he made everyone think this was going to be a fun celebration. That's also pretty shitty behavior. But I guess good for him that he had his mic-drop moment and gets to feel good about it?
I would definitely say the same if the roles were reversed. This would be gross if it was her showing pictures of him too. You don't just hand out naughty pictures of someone else without their consent, no matter what gender they are. It's wrong, and gross. There were so many ways to let everyone know what she did in a way that wouldn't let her get away with it, and he chose a gross way.
@@LittleBlueTeacat ~ I don't agree. That's OK, though. Neither one of us know them and arguing with strangers on the internet will not change either of our minds. We both have our own moral compass and clouds of words on the internet should not be enough to shake those. You're the type of person who takes the high road and that's cool. I am absolutely not ever the bigger person because I have learned, the hard way, that strategy doesn't work out well for me. I have zero problem with accepting consequences for my actions. If I know that the offending person can't take responsibility for shitty behavior, I will one up them on that, too. This groom can go back and apologize to the people that actually matter. Anyone who cares about him will understand that his behavior was motivated by betrayal and anger. He didn't traumatize anyone. If you're traumatized by the sight of two people having sex, you're never going to survive this life. He didn't send them pictures of a beheading. You sound very young and inexperienced in dealing with difficult situations. I sincerely hope that you get to stay the way that you are and never have to have your view of the world altered by harsher realities. Honestly. I have no ill will or hard feelings toward you. We just don't see the same things.
@@Little_Alien_Lost No hard feelings either. Though if being middle-aged is young and inexperienced... Thank you? I've dealt with my share of hardships in life, but nothing good came out of returning crappy behavior with equal or increased crappy behavior. It just made more of a mess in my experience.
I just don't want sexual images of someone close to me thrown at me without warning, and I think that's not too much to ask. It doesn't have to be traumatic for someone to not want that.
@@Little_Alien_Lost the passive aggressiveness in this comment 🙄🙄
That timing for Mikes call coming through with that ringtone was absolutely perfect 🤣🤣🤣
Lol! It was the Sailor Moon at the end for me.
She is the one named Sailor Moon! Lmao I didn’t know I could become more obsessed with the Potato Queen but I just did! 🤣 ❤
My party went to a male strip club and 90% of us would have rather gone to a tea party. The one bridesmaid that pushed for the club was married and flirting hard core with a dancer. I think we were there for an hour, maybe two, but it was just a sad place (lonely, damaged, and weepy). I just wanted to hug everyone (fully clothed) and listen to their pain.
Something about the adorable fiancé interrupting makes my favorite tea channel even more fabulous. Bravo future Mr. Char Char (as I like to call her). Thank you for being worthy of our Queen.
The Sailor Moon theme for your outro sent me to the Crystal Kingdom. 😂
I'm from Albuquerque and I found your comments super funny.
Also. I adored my bachelorette. We went to Santa Cruz Beach boardwalk, road some rides, played arcade games, went mini golfing, and had a bonfire on the beach with a few drinks. It was absolutely delightful
Mike is a keeper. So sweet. Maybe you’ll be lucky to have 40 years together like my hubby and me. Congrats! New to your channel. Love it
We went to Thailand for my friend's unofficial bachelorette.. We did island hopping, snorkeling, ate our hearts out, shopped, did some cultural stuff and topped it off with an amazing make you feel like you have no bones in your body massages! It was the best 4 days!
My sister’s bachelorette party we went bar hoping, dancing, and drinking, of course … one of the bridesmaid’s husband was our chauffeur. We had blast, and he kept laughing at our drunk asses all night 🤣🤣
As a long time fan from Albuquerque, this is how we get noticed... damn. Thanks Amanda with as much sarcasm as possible... We would like to not claim her. There are plenty of lovely people out here.
It’s okay we know not every person from Albuquerque is like Amanda 😄👍
Haven't had time to watch youtube much but I'm back and am glad I get to binge-watch all your vids! Love ya girlie
I gotta agree with Charlotte on the photos of the bride cheating. That's not being a petty king, that's committing a crime. Cheating, as horrible as it is for the person being cheated on, is not illegal.
Agreed. Plus if I was a wedding guest that is a picture I don’t want to see. Definitely better ways to get petty revenge than giving your guests porn
Cheating isn’t illegal (on paper), but bigamy is!!
I am hoping he blurred out the "naughty bits"... but I doubt it.
Exactly!
@@OffbeatWorlds …now why’d I get deleted?
Charlotte being the ultimate giver of tea and Mike being adorable lol I love it!
The sailor moon song outro after the morality Ted Talk was so on point.😂🌙💖 respect
These cheat stories are so crazy, even the circus can’t contain them😂
I love how you and Mike just match each other's vibes. ❤
7:01 lol when I was little I didn’t know it was a real place. Just an imaginary location, like Transylvania. And Bugs Bunny couldn’t help but take a wrong turn there. 🤯 when I found out it’s real and in the US! Dnt get me started about Transylvania 😅🤪
The timing of the call!!! The ringtone!!! Yess!
Love the guest appearances from Mike! Glad you guys are on this path to marriage! You go Girl!
Anyone else wanting Jeremy and Sebastian to get together, hang out, become total life-long friends, and write a sitcom about their life together?
Lmao 😂 Mike's call was perfect timed bc I though it was a sound Vanessa put in 😂😂😂